JustPearlyThings - Man Single Handedly Embarrassed Himself On The Show

00:00:00.000 is what is a big turnoff for you when you're starting to see someone

00:00:06.320 is that no it's not me someone over there when you're starting to see someone and

00:00:10.640 something they could do to just ruin it up front

00:00:13.520 um should i go yeah you're starting to go around i would say

00:00:17.120 being like disrespectful probably in any kind of way i mean

00:00:20.880 just i just don't like disrespect i think that's it's a big thing for me

00:00:25.120 for a mat like a guy to be a gentleman and to be respectful so 1.00

00:00:29.040 i would say that for me that's a big turn off okay and do you have like an

00:00:32.720 example of a time that's happened where where you were into a guy and then he

00:00:36.960 said something just um i suppose it may be like the

00:00:40.400 way i got some the way that a guy's spoken to me before

00:00:44.000 it's more like the tone or um yeah i guess don't really don't have an

00:00:50.560 exact example but i think just any kind of disrespect i don't really like

00:00:55.520 okay okay um go ahead um so say the question again please so what's

00:01:00.480 what's it something a girl could do to turn you off 1.00

00:01:02.880 early so you're into a girl you're feeling her and then

00:01:06.640 she does this and it's you're done it depends though i'm not fussy

00:01:11.360 okay i don't think i'm a fussy one car i'm not but it depends car

00:01:15.680 i could go out with her and she might eat loud and so 0.94

00:01:19.120 i can't stand that that's annoying you get me or

00:01:22.800 she could just do something what's irritating but i don't know 1.00

00:01:26.720 there's a number of things what irritate people like me in it

00:01:29.920 so okay yeah but i'm trying to figure it out so what are they

00:01:33.120 that's what i'm saying i would have to just throw it if because you're telling me

00:01:35.920 to tell you off the top of the dome it's gonna have to i'm just gonna go

00:01:38.800 with the eating loud thing that i've been on a date before in the past

00:01:42.480 where i've done sat down got starters everything if it was going fine

00:01:47.280 talking flowing well conversations moving nice

00:01:50.480 yeah and all of a sudden i've stuck my meals come plates there boom

00:01:54.240 drink whatever i've just heard bear and it was just constantly hearing that

00:01:58.720 and that's it that's a yeah no that's a flag for me still okay

00:02:02.480 i think that's a fair that's a fair flag yeah that's a fair

00:02:04.960 flag yeah i was always taught to eat if my mouth closed

00:02:08.080 i mean you'd have to deal with that forever yeah that's mad i mean that's

00:02:11.120 that's like every time you guys would hang out yeah i've got a head

00:02:14.000 yes that's not the one still okay go ahead i would say i would agree and say

00:02:19.280 the um uh respect thing but i'd also say the

00:02:22.880 pet pee thing as well it's a mixture of both

00:02:25.840 if someone's like you said eating loud or

00:02:29.200 every time you're talking they're cutting you off

00:02:30.960 or they got the white corners it could be

00:02:34.000 anything it could really be anything it just adds up

00:02:37.520 yeah do you have an example of maybe how long have you been with your

00:02:40.720 boyfriend six years oh gosh yeah so you don't really

00:02:44.640 have much experience that's great that's longer than like

00:02:49.200 most marriages nowadays yeah thank you

00:02:52.400 um okay so eating loud um and disrespect is a no-go for you

00:02:56.640 i'm curious what made your boyfriend um different than i'm sure there was other

00:02:59.760 guys approaching you at the time i met him when i was young so it was in

00:03:02.880 school so that was like the main point

00:03:06.080 of it all he wasn't new to my school so everyone in my um

00:03:10.400 in my secondary school were kind of like really similar

00:03:13.200 and because he come from a different area he was quite different to everyone he

00:03:15.920 treated me different how everyone else did

00:03:17.920 so yeah okay a pet peeve or something that a girl could do to turn you off 1.00

00:03:26.160 i'm really easy again but hygiene would be a big factor for me

00:03:30.560 um yeah personal hygiene is going to be a big issue if that's not gonna if

00:03:35.360 that's not straight okay have you ever been

00:03:38.560 like with a girl and then she just stank 0.79

00:03:40.640 so you gotta um yeah i've slept with a girl before and the hygiene 1.00

00:03:45.680 weren't up to speed okay is that common um no i don't know i'm

00:03:51.920 not too sure it's a one-off like oh it was just a one-off but yeah it was

00:03:56.400 yeah yeah it wasn't good okay okay go ahead

00:04:03.280 yeah i'll say pettiness and i'll say clinginess as well

00:04:06.880 both i think clingy as well extremely clingy

00:04:10.240 that way too soon um can i have an example like for instance like

00:04:14.240 if you're on whatsapp and then like you're online but you're not even

00:04:17.120 responded you know what i'm saying to you

00:04:18.800 straight away and it's just like oh you're blanking me you're airing me

00:04:22.160 do you know what i'm saying oh she would get mad yeah create a whole situation 1.00

00:04:26.480 from that that's kind of petty stuff like that

00:04:29.840 that's kind of crazy is she just sitting there looking if you're online

00:04:33.280 no just like maybe she's online and i'm online at the same time

00:04:36.240 and it's like they're both online and it's like maybe she messaged me and then

00:04:40.000 i haven't messaged her straight away but i'm online

00:04:43.040 and then there's just assumptions that oh yeah

00:04:45.200 you know why have you messaged me what you're doing do you know what i mean

00:04:48.000 i'm curious from the girls have you ever done that to a guy like get mad at

00:04:51.040 him for not messaging you fast enough no it's not it's not really my style at

00:04:56.560 all um yeah i feel like i'm really busy as

00:05:00.080 well and i just wouldn't do that i feel like

00:05:02.960 it's kind of like a bit cringy to do that and it seems like

00:05:06.560 desperate it's just it's not and also i feel like it also

00:05:10.000 probably pushes the guy away because he needs to to come to you naturally

00:05:18.560 what do you guys think the biggest challenges are in dating in 2023

00:05:25.680 being faithful that's a challenge yeah why

00:05:36.080 i don't even know he's gonna do that sorry if i put man under the bus no no no i'm just

00:05:39.840 thinking about it because yeah i ain't gonna split out anything well yeah i think being

00:05:43.520 faithful is the biggest challenge in relationships in this day and age do you mean to find someone

00:05:48.160 that's faithful you mean well when you're already in the relationship being faithful is going to be

00:05:52.800 the biggest challenge vote the viewer say again vote the viewer um yeah i think i mean maybe not so much

00:06:01.360 as yeah yeah both parties women and men that's pretty much the same 1.00

00:06:04.640 you think it's equal i think women cheat more i think so as well yeah yeah i think women are big 1.00

00:06:11.680 cheaters i actually agree with that well there you go that's it coming from a women then yeah that's 1.00

00:06:16.080 good it's good it's good to hear for us i would have said 50 50 but yeah why don't you tell it how

00:06:21.440 it is you know you gotta be we're honest no that's good i'm loving it i'm loving the fact

00:06:25.840 the honest yeah i mean before it used to definitely i would have thought the other way around men cheating

00:06:30.240 more now i thought it was kind of evened up but then use it uh i think most i think most men would

00:06:35.920 cheat but not most men can cheat you know what i mean like it seems like it's a lot of effort

00:06:41.440 to get to that point for a lot of guys from what i'm hearing you know you can correct me if you think

00:06:45.920 i'm wrong no again it depends what kind of guy you are and what status and position you're in i would say

00:06:51.120 so not everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience so why have you cheated before

00:06:57.360 i have definitely yeah is it is that like an every relationship kind of thing or just a here and

00:07:02.000 there kind of thing um what are side chicks like are they happy to be there are they always trying to 1.00

00:07:12.240 like vie for the first spot i just got questions good question i mean i think they're happy to be there

00:07:19.360 you know in my in the like my younger days cheating was more of a cheating thing nowadays i don't see

00:07:25.840 as cheating if you're honest and open and you know like i said at the beginning i'm exploring um you

00:07:31.120 understand having fun so if people know you're having fun from the beginning then you're not

00:07:36.320 necessarily going to be deemed as cheating but i think forever i think that is a hard place to get to

00:07:42.560 in today's you know yeah nowadays so now you tell the girls up front it's not it's not you if there's

00:07:49.280 going to be multiple and they're cool with it yes i know that i mean again yeah all depends verbals

00:07:56.240 it's verbals but yeah he's laughing what's the what's the joke i'm not in on it why are you putting the

00:08:02.160 camera on me for they're not meant to do that they're meant to do that no i hear what my man's

00:08:08.800 saying in it big up bushkin and i hear what he's saying but you see what it is blood in my eyes yeah

00:08:14.640 like the cheating thing it's an old school thing and everyone's cheated in their life come on we've

00:08:19.440 all been there do you understand but as time's gone on i think 2023 if you're not grown i think the 0.50

00:08:25.280 youngest them are more likely the ones to keep up this type of fuckery understand what cheating the 0.99

00:08:30.560 cheating thing yeah it's the new generation but that's having too much fun they're out there 1.00

00:08:34.480 whipping all that in anything gala digging up anything this girl fuck that girl fuck your 1.00

00:08:39.120 friend this friend yeah but it's well i'm sorry it's the younger generation i'm not i'm not gonna 0.99

00:08:44.800 take it as the older ones are doing that you know what but i think it's a small it's a small percentage

00:08:49.520 of men that can do that no one out of three men under 30 are virgins are having had sex in the past

00:08:54.800 year so it's really the women that are sleeping around when you think about it well that's bad on 1.00

00:08:59.680 the women you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this 0.99

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JustPearlyThings - April 29, 2023

Man Single Handedly Embarrassed Himself On The Show

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