Man Single Handedly Embarrassed Himself On The Show
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what turn offs turn us off early in a relationship, pet peeves and what turns us off and why they are a turn off for us. We also talk about what we would do if we found out that our partner was clingy.
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is what is a big turnoff for you when you're starting to see someone
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is that no it's not me someone over there when you're starting to see someone and
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something they could do to just ruin it up front
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um should i go yeah you're starting to go around i would say
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being like disrespectful probably in any kind of way i mean
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just i just don't like disrespect i think that's it's a big thing for me
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for a mat like a guy to be a gentleman and to be respectful so
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i would say that for me that's a big turn off okay and do you have like an
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example of a time that's happened where where you were into a guy and then he
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said something just um i suppose it may be like the
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way i got some the way that a guy's spoken to me before
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it's more like the tone or um yeah i guess don't really don't have an
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exact example but i think just any kind of disrespect i don't really like
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okay okay um go ahead um so say the question again please so what's
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what's it something a girl could do to turn you off
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early so you're into a girl you're feeling her and then
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she does this and it's you're done it depends though i'm not fussy
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okay i don't think i'm a fussy one car i'm not but it depends car
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i could go out with her and she might eat loud and so
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i can't stand that that's annoying you get me or
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she could just do something what's irritating but i don't know
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there's a number of things what irritate people like me in it
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so okay yeah but i'm trying to figure it out so what are they
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that's what i'm saying i would have to just throw it if because you're telling me
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to tell you off the top of the dome it's gonna have to i'm just gonna go
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with the eating loud thing that i've been on a date before in the past
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where i've done sat down got starters everything if it was going fine
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yeah and all of a sudden i've stuck my meals come plates there boom
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drink whatever i've just heard bear and it was just constantly hearing that
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and that's it that's a yeah no that's a flag for me still okay
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i think that's a fair that's a fair flag yeah that's a fair
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flag yeah i was always taught to eat if my mouth closed
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i mean you'd have to deal with that forever yeah that's mad i mean that's
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that's like every time you guys would hang out yeah i've got a head
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yes that's not the one still okay go ahead i would say i would agree and say
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every time you're talking they're cutting you off
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anything it could really be anything it just adds up
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yeah do you have an example of maybe how long have you been with your
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boyfriend six years oh gosh yeah so you don't really
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have much experience that's great that's longer than like
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um okay so eating loud um and disrespect is a no-go for you
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i'm curious what made your boyfriend um different than i'm sure there was other
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guys approaching you at the time i met him when i was young so it was in
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of it all he wasn't new to my school so everyone in my um
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in my secondary school were kind of like really similar
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and because he come from a different area he was quite different to everyone he
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so yeah okay a pet peeve or something that a girl could do to turn you off
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i'm really easy again but hygiene would be a big factor for me
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um yeah personal hygiene is going to be a big issue if that's not gonna if
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so you gotta um yeah i've slept with a girl before and the hygiene
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weren't up to speed okay is that common um no i don't know i'm
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not too sure it's a one-off like oh it was just a one-off but yeah it was
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yeah i'll say pettiness and i'll say clinginess as well
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that way too soon um can i have an example like for instance like
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if you're on whatsapp and then like you're online but you're not even
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straight away and it's just like oh you're blanking me you're airing me
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do you know what i'm saying oh she would get mad yeah create a whole situation
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that's kind of crazy is she just sitting there looking if you're online
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no just like maybe she's online and i'm online at the same time
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and it's like they're both online and it's like maybe she messaged me and then
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i haven't messaged her straight away but i'm online
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you know why have you messaged me what you're doing do you know what i mean
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i'm curious from the girls have you ever done that to a guy like get mad at
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him for not messaging you fast enough no it's not it's not really my style at
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it's kind of like a bit cringy to do that and it seems like
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desperate it's just it's not and also i feel like it also
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probably pushes the guy away because he needs to to come to you naturally
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what do you guys think the biggest challenges are in dating in 2023
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i don't even know he's gonna do that sorry if i put man under the bus no no no i'm just
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thinking about it because yeah i ain't gonna split out anything well yeah i think being
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faithful is the biggest challenge in relationships in this day and age do you mean to find someone
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that's faithful you mean well when you're already in the relationship being faithful is going to be
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the biggest challenge vote the viewer say again vote the viewer um yeah i think i mean maybe not so much
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as yeah yeah both parties women and men that's pretty much the same
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you think it's equal i think women cheat more i think so as well yeah yeah i think women are big
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cheaters i actually agree with that well there you go that's it coming from a women then yeah that's
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good it's good it's good to hear for us i would have said 50 50 but yeah why don't you tell it how
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it is you know you gotta be we're honest no that's good i'm loving it i'm loving the fact
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the honest yeah i mean before it used to definitely i would have thought the other way around men cheating
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more now i thought it was kind of evened up but then use it uh i think most i think most men would
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cheat but not most men can cheat you know what i mean like it seems like it's a lot of effort
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to get to that point for a lot of guys from what i'm hearing you know you can correct me if you think
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i'm wrong no again it depends what kind of guy you are and what status and position you're in i would say
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so not everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience so why have you cheated before
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i have definitely yeah is it is that like an every relationship kind of thing or just a here and
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there kind of thing um what are side chicks like are they happy to be there are they always trying to
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like vie for the first spot i just got questions good question i mean i think they're happy to be there
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you know in my in the like my younger days cheating was more of a cheating thing nowadays i don't see
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as cheating if you're honest and open and you know like i said at the beginning i'm exploring um you
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understand having fun so if people know you're having fun from the beginning then you're not
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necessarily going to be deemed as cheating but i think forever i think that is a hard place to get to
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in today's you know yeah nowadays so now you tell the girls up front it's not it's not you if there's
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going to be multiple and they're cool with it yes i know that i mean again yeah all depends verbals
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it's verbals but yeah he's laughing what's the what's the joke i'm not in on it why are you putting the
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camera on me for they're not meant to do that they're meant to do that no i hear what my man's
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saying in it big up bushkin and i hear what he's saying but you see what it is blood in my eyes yeah
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like the cheating thing it's an old school thing and everyone's cheated in their life come on we've
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all been there do you understand but as time's gone on i think 2023 if you're not grown i think the
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youngest them are more likely the ones to keep up this type of fuckery understand what cheating the
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cheating thing yeah it's the new generation but that's having too much fun they're out there
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whipping all that in anything gala digging up anything this girl fuck that girl fuck your
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friend this friend yeah but it's well i'm sorry it's the younger generation i'm not i'm not gonna
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take it as the older ones are doing that you know what but i think it's a small it's a small percentage
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of men that can do that no one out of three men under 30 are virgins are having had sex in the past
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year so it's really the women that are sleeping around when you think about it well that's bad on
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the women you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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