JustPearlyThings - August 08, 2023


Man Unapologetically Said This About Feminism


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

169.04543

Word count

1,595

Sentence count

195

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode I sit down with a good friend of mine to have a civil conversation about feminism and what it means to be a feminist in today's society. We talk about how feminism has been corrupted and what we should be fighting for in the future.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I think feminism is a hate group. I think they actually hate men. I don't think it's about 1.00
00:00:04.580 equality. I think in 2022, as a woman, I have nothing to fight for today. This is my opinion.
00:00:09.860 I'd love to hear what yours is. Right. What you're feeling is true. Okay. Feminism has been 1.00
00:00:18.300 changed and corrupted, but so has people. Positives whisper, negatives shout. So we tend to see
00:00:27.540 negatives first. So no matter which group you're in, negatives will always be prominent in your
00:00:35.320 head. So when you look around the world, all you see is that's negative, that's negative,
00:00:40.480 whatever, whatever, whatever. So you live in a world of negativity and that makes people angry.
00:00:47.040 And that leads to hate and other things. So why do you think that is? Why do you think as women, 0.95
00:00:53.440 we focus on, um, like the hate rather, cause we, we live in one of the freest societies ever in
00:00:58.860 history. Yeah. There are two motivational forces, survival, reproduction, survival, fear, negative,
00:01:06.380 get away from me. Yeah. Love positive come towards me. Okay. Positive, negative. It's very simple,
00:01:12.680 but we twist. We love what we fear, fear what we love and we twist by nature. Everything twists.
00:01:19.840 The earth goes around the sun, blah, blah, blah. So, so negative shout, beauty whispers. They both
00:01:28.100 talk simultaneously. So we always hear the negative, the shout over the whisper, but the whisper is
00:01:34.660 always there. If you've got faith and hope, then the whisper is always there. If you haven't,
00:01:39.400 because the shouting is so loud, then everything is darkness, black, negativity, anger, hate.
00:01:44.740 Right. What would you like to see from feminism, like in the future? From everyone? Because if we're 1.00
00:01:52.300 talking equality, from everyone. Because feminists don't actually want equality. They just want 1.00
00:01:57.240 equality when it benefits us. I was born in 67, summer of love. I was raised through the bra burning
00:02:03.360 and the independent woman and right. And I've always been raised by strong women. I got my testicles
00:02:11.340 from my father, but I've got my bollocks from my mum. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, no, I agree. I think
00:02:18.360 like, like, so being passionate and having strength and tenacity shouldn't be a bad thing. Yet it is
00:02:25.520 looked upon as a bad thing now because it's a more sheep like environment. So the people that are more 1.00
00:02:32.160 fearful, worried, hateful, negative, stand out more in a peaceful crowd than they would do when
00:02:39.440 everyone's lively. Yeah. No, I don't think it's the, I don't even think the majority of women are
00:02:44.080 feminists, to be honest. Most women I know, like, don't identify as a feminist because that, that 1.00
00:02:48.780 group has, is like, they're just so man-hating. Like, I, I love men. I grew up around brothers.
00:02:55.280 Okay. Um, some people, uh, want to be dominated, right? On one level, uh, but then hate themselves
00:03:06.480 on another level. Uh-huh. And they build up their own internal battle. Yeah. Their own yin-yang. Um,
00:03:14.740 negatives tend to win. Yeah. Yeah. Unfortunately. Well, thank you for coming by. I appreciate it. I 0.99
00:03:22.900 appreciate it. I need someone to get the ball rolling. So this is great. I thought I saw.
00:03:26.620 Good luck. Thank you. The problems are larger. Yeah. Humanity. Yeah. I agree. Look at what we do to
00:03:34.340 each other. Look at what we do to the planet. Look at what we do to ourselves. What was your name? And
00:03:38.920 do you have any links you want to plug? Do you have any, like, Instagram, YouTube? Okay. Jason Human.
00:03:44.220 Jason Human. Okay. Okay. Thank you. All right. We will. Good luck. Bye.
00:03:48.960 What a nice man. See that? That's the type of guy I'm looking for to sit down, have a nice civil
00:03:56.100 conversation. Let's see who's next. You, you're my guy. I've been looking for you. Come on. Come on.
00:04:08.120 Come sit. Come sit.
00:04:09.680 Hi. Come sit. No? No? Okay. You got an opinion? Come on. Sit. Sit. Come on. Have a seat.
00:04:25.220 I have a seat. I'm just going to sit down. I'm just going to ask. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
00:04:30.320 Touch my good ass. Okay. So what's your name? Gloria. I'm Pearl. Nice to meet you.
00:04:36.860 Oh, shoot. So, um, I think feminism is a hate group because I think that it tears down 1.00
00:04:42.920 men. And I, I think they just advocate for women and they advocate for women at the cost 0.99
00:04:47.820 of men. Okay. So you think it's detrimental to women nowadays? I think, I think it's always 1.00
00:04:53.100 been detrimental. Um, okay. And the reason being like they push things like the pay gap when
00:04:59.040 the pay gap doesn't even exist for women. So they're, they're actively tearing down men to 1.00
00:05:05.200 like build women up. And what do you think about like the household situation?
00:05:09.400 About which one? Household. So right now in the current times, a lot more women are independent. 1.00
00:05:13.840 Yeah. And then I've, I've read somewhere that they're saying that, um, feminism is destroying 1.00
00:05:19.140 the actual household because it's making more women be more independent. I think there's something
00:05:23.980 about men becoming redundant. But I just like to gather information. Yeah. Well, I just think 0.93
00:05:29.160 it lies to women because it tells us to like chase a bag and, you know, chase a career, 1.00
00:05:34.480 don't prioritize family. And then we end up single, childless and alone. And I think they
00:05:40.160 do that at the cost of men. Like most feminists I know, they don't, they just, they disdain 1.00
00:05:44.300 men.
00:05:45.120 So like, what about this new movement, not hypermigment, but like the, um, what's it called
00:05:51.360 again? What's this thing that we're leveling up? Leveling up. Yes. What do you mean by leveling
00:05:59.520 up?
00:05:59.640 So women are now, we're being told to go and get men who are more high, high net worth, 1.00
00:06:06.160 high level so they can be treated, have a soft life, treated better, not chase the bag,
00:06:12.900 like financially, take care of the home. What do you think of that? Because that I've read
00:06:18.040 is that that's more against feminism because I was reading something that said, feminism 1.00
00:06:22.060 is detrimental to women as well. So women need to go back to how it was. 1.00
00:06:28.200 I think people should be free to choose what they want to. I feel like they should be free
00:06:32.360 to choose what they want to choose. But, um, I think when you go, when you tell women to 1.00
00:06:37.940 make a lot of money and then only go after men that make more money than you, it leaves 1.00
00:06:42.120 you as a side piece because what, what percentage of men make a six figures?
00:06:47.120 Do you think?
00:06:48.120 Not a lot. I think it's less than like, cause the average in the UK is 36,000 or 36 something.
00:06:53.960 So how much men actually make unless they're in like big seats like London and stuff like
00:06:57.120 that.
00:06:58.120 Yeah.
00:06:59.120 Yeah. So feminism is telling you to like chase this career when like, and then you're going 1.00
00:07:04.760 to have a guy waiting for you at the end of it, but men aren't attracted to that.
00:07:08.120 So can I ask you a question?
00:07:09.120 Yeah.
00:07:10.120 So what would you say people were like, you're just being like, you have internalized misogyny.
00:07:15.120 Um, people do say that a lot. Um, and I would say that most people that say that like have
00:07:21.120 a victim mindset where they just think the world is against them. And I think as a woman,
00:07:25.120 as a woman, I'm at an advantage rather than a disadvantage.
00:07:28.120 That is very interesting.
00:07:29.120 Yeah.
00:07:30.120 No, I love talking to you. Well, I've got a ghost story with my sister.
00:07:32.120 No, no, that's okay. Thank you so much for sitting down.
00:07:35.120 Do you have any like, any socials you want to tag?
00:07:38.120 Yeah.
00:07:39.120 Instagram?
00:07:40.120 Yeah. Follow me. Hot guys, hot guys, hotties. It's glory love 89.
00:07:47.120 Are you a feminist? 1.00
00:07:48.120 Do you know what? Yeah. I think to be honest, I'm a me-ist. So what's most beneficial for
00:07:53.120 me? That is why I am. So I'm not going to say I have not used my own privileges to
00:08:00.120 help me get certain things. Yes, I have. I've been a damsel in distress many times, but
00:08:06.120 she's like, no, go women. So I'm a me-ist. Okay. Okay. Well, thank you so much. You're 1.00
00:08:11.120 such a good sport. Yeah. She was chill. I liked her. Okay. What do you think of feminism? 1.00
00:08:17.120 Um, it's really, I don't know. It's, I think it's made to just break man's balls. If you allow
00:08:26.120 me to say, excuse my language, but, uh, I don't believe there is such a thing as feminism 1.00
00:08:33.120 because, like, you, like, feminism these days, they're all complaining about men getting 1.00
00:08:38.120 more paid and this and that, but they see the only 1% of men that they're actually doing
00:08:44.120 good in life. They're getting good jobs and everything. But still, like, if you see the
00:08:49.120 army slash, I don't know, like, coal miners, stuff like that, like, all the hard jobs, they're
00:08:57.120 man-made. Yeah. I don't want to do them. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So, like, yeah. So, like,
00:09:03.120 when you say, like, when you see women, they're more, like, office jobs for women or, like, 0.93
00:09:10.120 nurses, like, teachers, stuff like that. But, like, you guys should be paid more for harder
00:09:16.120 jobs. That makes sense. Well, it is. It is happening now, no? So, technically, we get a little bit more
00:09:22.120 money than you guys do, but I think we're worth it.