JustPearlyThings - Man Uses Science To DEBUNK Blue Pill LIES

00:00:00.000 I read something so interesting the other day so basically you know when women have these 1.00

00:00:05.320 contraceptive things on their arms apparently it changes your hormones so imagine if you meet 0.68

00:00:11.280 someone and it's been found recently basically if you're on these pills contraceptive pills and

00:00:17.180 you meet someone and then you get married and all of a sudden you go off of them and then

00:00:22.420 apparently the hormones change so you're not attracted to your partner so that is a lot of

00:00:27.720 the things that's happening around the world now yeah I'm messing people's lives up they are

00:00:33.300 ruining girls and men and whose fault is that who took it women stop stop stop one at a time okay 0.96

00:00:53.280 I'm you've talked I'm gonna let her go that's just on your point who took it women because who's the 1.00

00:00:58.260 one who takes the actual semen that either way is going to have a baby or an abortion so but what

00:01:04.280 do you who takes the semen no yeah take them to the ocean if it breaks and you don't know then you

00:01:14.160 know maybe sleep with people that you want to have kids with but then you take it back to that point 0.96

00:01:25.260 but sleep with you sleep with people you might want to have kids with but what but you remember you

00:01:29.040 said but then you gotta pick him to make sure he's the one who's not gonna leave I mean you can you can 0.96

00:01:33.420 wait you can wait to have sex you could you can wait till you don't you could you have to sleep 0.99

00:01:40.260 with these men no you don't you just don't ever have sex live like a nun I think that's the way 0.99

00:01:47.860 forward I think people you can wait you can wait to get married before you have a child

00:01:52.080 question can I can I is it time to drop some red pills into the sangria yes are we ready to spike

00:02:01.260 well let's go go ahead so the question was does your potential partner or partners past matter yes

00:02:11.820 I can't can can I share my opinion on this what jargon I haven't said nothing yet so here let's

00:02:26.520 let's let's let's do let's do some let's do some lessons in genetics and biology because we can refer

00:02:32.220 to our trusty friends from the Gregor Mendel book of biology we understand DNA do we not yes if you look

00:02:39.840 in your family tree this is statistically accurate you have twice as many women in your family tree 0.98

00:02:44.220 as you have men you have twice as many women in your family tree as men why what does that mean

00:02:49.220 what does that mean women give birth and there's more of them meant to multiply yeah yeah what it means 0.91

00:02:57.140 is that a vast majority of women have babies with the same men meaning what that means the reason you

00:03:03.940 have twice as many women is a small percentage of men about 20 percent of men basically created all

00:03:08.560 of us Genghis Khan Genghis Khan has his DNA in something like 180 million people today does

00:03:17.540 that mean he's been sleeping around beers in the past what it means let me explain it's a very simple

00:03:23.400 thing where the question was does a partner's past matter what it says is very clear what it says is

00:03:28.680 very clear that women continuously choose the men that other women choose that's what it means we know 0.97

00:03:34.220 we know this point we know the statistic from dating apps right 80 percent of men have absolutely

00:03:39.220 no prospects of sex or dating at all because you can look at the tinder data 80 percent of men get

00:03:44.080 zero matches ever one percent of men are like Genghis Khan level so does a person's past matter if you

00:03:50.780 look at the science it clearly matters that women want to choose men that have had the most partners

00:03:55.080 because that's who they keep choosing all the time wow so that might not be an emotional argument

00:03:59.340 that's just statistics it's a fact okay can I say that from the other side how men look at this

00:04:04.540 argument okay from a men's perspective it's a little different so I'm in the business of effectively

00:04:08.740 like our company LGFG we sell high-end bespoke suits we go to executive offices so we meet rich

00:04:13.000 men all the time really what I do is I recruit young men and women to sell to very high net worth 0.59

00:04:18.020 people okay and this is a conversation for young men I'm going to say this to the young guys out there

00:04:22.180 here's a question what is a man really doing with his life to increase his value we can measure it you

00:04:27.520 know what the number what the answer is what does a man measure in value what do we measure

00:04:31.020 so here's a question does a man have any incentive to is well influence effectively to transmit that

00:04:41.720 into money and by the way influence and fame are very highly correlated to how many sexual partners

00:04:45.680 a man has access to so you're saying the same thing I just want the guy that every other woman wants

00:04:49.480 that's what you're saying but you're not saying it okay so does a man have any incentive to increase

00:04:53.680 his value through financial gain does a man have that incentive yes okay do women want to be wealthy 0.99

00:04:59.480 too like you girls you're all going to be 60 one day you say I want to retire do you want to have 0.84

00:05:03.580 something to retire with of course okay so here's here's a here's a statistic the typical retired married

00:05:10.060 man average but not typical average the numbers of course there's a big gap but the average married

00:05:16.160 man retires with about 600,000 US dollars in savings 600,000 the average divorced single man

00:05:21.680 this is statistic retires with a hundred thousand okay the average divorced and remarried man retires

00:05:28.580 about 400,000 so the outcome of staying and getting married has a significant impact on a man's value

00:05:34.580 and status and ultimately his comfort in life so the question therefore is does the spouse you choose

00:05:40.100 matter yes why does it matter yes we can actually measure with money that it literally like we have a

00:05:45.980 number that we can look at and says yes the spouse you choose matters okay well a psychologist will tell

00:05:50.540 you there's two ways to ruin your life number one become an alcoholic number two marry an alcoholic

00:05:54.440 well here's a question what's the problem with marrying an alcoholic ladies and 1.00

00:05:57.440 gentlemen impulse control impulse control how's that going to the fact that they're going to be talking 0.99

00:06:01.340 rubbish and no one will understand them and they're gonna kids and all sorts of crap so the question is would 0.89

00:06:07.540 you marry an alcoholic you say no I won't why not because the chance of divorce are much higher so does a 1.00

00:06:11.440 woman's past matter okay well let's say a woman had a lot of sexual partners does that 1.00

00:06:15.140 indicate any sort of I don't know does that have any impact on her pair bonding ability 0.83

00:06:19.040 yeah well we know we know that it does okay so if I if you marry a ho because that let's just go 0.99

00:06:23.840 right to the core here that's the question the question yeah so if you do that are your chances of

00:06:28.340 divorce higher well she's got lower pair bonding she's got lower impulse control she's not a strategic 0.99

00:06:32.840 thinker because she knows impulsively and intuitively that she's reducing her value so when I coach a young

00:06:37.900 guy that we hire into our company we don't just look at their job we look at their life plan and we want to

00:06:42.140 be strict two more stats real quick we want to be strategic and we want to optimize for success

00:06:46.940 and mitigate for risk are you mitigating for risk if you're not looking at a woman's past you're

00:06:51.480 creating yourself an opportunity for failure by the way here's a question guys what percentage of

00:06:56.080 millionaires are married don't know below I know a little 85% so the question is let's let's let's look

00:07:15.820 into that like we're asking again there's a partner's past matter why is it that 85%

00:07:19.720 thank you no honestly it's interesting to learn so thank you so much do you guys think that for a man to

00:07:39.100 become a millionaire he has to be a strategic thinker yes do you think no no so hang on so you

00:07:45.580 think so you think that statistically millionaires are less strategic or equally you know I think

00:07:50.900 millionaires it depends on have you born have you been born into wealth I've been given I was born

00:07:55.060 into the Soviet Union I grew up on food stamps okay so um I guess yeah it doesn't matter but some people

00:08:00.420 some millionaires do you grow up in like privileged families who don't do anything we're just looking

00:08:06.900 at statistics every rule has a rule breaker now again mitigate for risk so it's like if you want

00:08:11.800 to bet all your money on you know 20 black on the roulette and you're like I'm gonna make a billion

00:08:16.860 dollars yeah some people made a million dollars rolling that most people lose everything they ever

00:08:20.280 had it's bad risk mitigation we're talking about statistics right so it's like if the partner that

00:08:26.260 you choose matters to the outcome of your life you have to be strategic about it so does it

00:08:30.180 matter well the numbers clearly indicate it matters yeah you can be delusional you can say

00:08:34.660 well it shouldn't matter okay can so you you make suits for um high net worth clients can you tell

00:08:40.360 me about the women they pick as wives yeah so first of all they pick alpha females when I no 1.00

00:08:45.420 absolutely not uh so so here let me tell you guys I had my dinner last night with my wife it was

00:08:49.780 her 10th anniversary and she said my wife said something really profound right like it kind of

00:08:53.960 shocked me a little bit as I said you know it's so much fun like building a life with you I told

00:08:58.260 her it's so much fun but we got four kids I'm like it's so much fun building a life with you

00:09:01.060 because I've had a great 10 years right and she goes oh I didn't get in here to build I wanted

00:09:05.620 to ride on this train oh that's so sad that's what she said how did that make you feel no no no

00:09:12.580 she's gonna be rude like she's honest though um what did you think she's like what made you 1.00

00:09:19.220 how did you feel female thing comes back up again well let's let's let's look at it like this so I'm

00:09:24.040 in London today uh I fly back on Saturday I live in Estonia on Wednesday I take off to Dubai on

00:09:29.740 Saturday I'm in Madurai India the next wow the next Wednesday I'm in New Delhi uh I am in demand

00:09:34.860 because I'm I'm a successful dude and you know what all successful dudes are in demand they're not

00:09:39.280 sitting at home smoking pot man they're doing they're getting calls they're doing stuff and

00:09:42.940 you know what they're needed they're needed because it's hard to find competent people yeah you know

00:09:47.980 what you're doing all of these with where's your wife and the kids at home but actually it's not true

00:09:52.660 so I'll tell you right now uh earlier this year I took my whole family where'd we go no no I mean

00:09:59.680 I mean just when you're working just now you know the places where you'll go so in between how

00:10:03.640 often do you see the what do you quite often I bring my whole family on my trips I was gonna say

00:10:07.000 oh that's so lovely that's beautiful that's lovely like this year are they are they are they home

00:10:12.460 schooled no no they're going they're going to like an English college but like so like that last year

00:10:17.300 January we had a video shoot in Hawaii I took my wife my wife and four kids to Hawaii uh after that

00:10:22.560 we had a company trip to Croatia I took my whole family with me no no so I'm just saying so you know

00:10:26.480 in the in the past couple of days in the next few days that you said all the places you're going to

00:10:30.340 so it's your anniversary today well yeah so have you been with your wife today yeah yeah so and

00:10:38.640 then you're going when you when's your next trip I come back in three days back home and then I'm

00:10:42.940 home for three days and then I take off for another week and a half okay yeah because you know when

00:10:46.120 you see the way you said it I was like okay so that's what I was wondering so that's when you get

00:10:49.360 so that's when you get to see your wife and the kids and that I see my wife and kids all the time

00:10:52.660 can you tell me more about that like what traits do men um in that position look for well the thing the

00:10:59.260 thing about it like I don't want to overgeneralize but there is definitely a trend so I'll tell you

00:11:03.060 guys this is a story I tell all the time I've met a lot of dudes whose wife is just not getting

00:11:07.100 deep down or something because she's like me me me me right like me me me it's like but here's the

00:11:11.620 thing let me tell you guys about I work with clients that I work with clients for real that

00:11:16.240 are world-class musicians and movie stars that are household names that everybody knows like

00:11:22.460 right and I've been asked this before on somebody asked me like is there any difference between

00:11:27.220 like the wife of this really famous musician and this really famous movie star to the wife of just

00:11:31.260 a regular dude it's like yes their wife's wives are the most supportive the happiest like I'll

00:11:36.880 deliver a suit to some average Joe and his wife saying I don't like it a little bit like this thing

00:11:40.420 makes him look fat I'm like no you don't like your husband but when I deliver like for I mean I

00:11:45.140 remember I'll tell you guys an Alice Cooper story like the musician his wife like she came in and

00:11:49.700 she's like you look amazing he's 75 years old he's he's old he's like you look amazing that's so

00:11:55.120 perfect like wow look at the energy that and she was just so and then every single extremely famous 0.99

00:12:01.580 person I've been with like that but was it real yes their wives I mean there's a respect aspect to

00:12:07.140 it but like man well I'm thinking this dude 75 years old he's still touring by the way it's like

00:12:11.280 he doesn't have time to come home and put up with like weirdness you know I mean and I think you know

00:12:15.300 she knows that because that's why she would do it because obviously he's going to keep it moving and

00:12:18.740 then obviously the money's going to stop uh I don't know the answer to that I'm telling you I was

00:12:23.180 asking I was asking an anecdotal experience like when I'm dealing with a client who's really really

00:12:27.680 successful um ultimately they're very very busy like they're you know and these are like almost all

00:12:34.380 successful men are a type men like they're up in the morning they're working their butts off like

00:12:39.600 when you think about this is a really interesting point that I've noticed by the way you can cut me

00:12:43.800 off at any time um you think like oh he's rich but he has to be unhappy or he's he's got this great

00:12:49.860 job but he should but he's just like unfit no success goes with success like the best looking

00:12:55.880 people are the ones that make the most money are the ones that are the things everything goes together

00:13:00.820 so these guys like they're the ones in the gym in the morning they look amazing they're so sharp

00:13:05.820 and you know I've I've gone down the street with some of my clients like hey let's grab a coffee

00:13:09.880 whatever and I'm walking down the street and I see the women's eyes just gravitate towards these guys 1.00

00:13:13.220 because a woman knows when she sees a high value man and by the way we just established that women

00:13:17.480 continuously choose men that other women pick we know this genetically right and so I you know if a 0.99

00:13:23.000 guy like that is well first of all is he more strategic in picking his wife yes everything in

00:13:27.100 his life is planned out your dad pearl is like a really successful guy I'm sure he's really strategic

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JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023

Man Uses Science To DEBUNK Blue Pill LIES

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