JustPearlyThings - Meet The World's FEMALE SIMP

00:00:00.000 coming up next um folks today we are going to be talking about simping okay um so as we get

00:00:07.440 started i'm going to ask a question to everybody do you guys know what a simp actually is i've been

00:00:15.440 one okay go for it yeah i want guys to chase me okay so hang on okay that's a very interesting

00:00:21.980 thing so if you want guys to a certain extent right this is where i'm gonna go so if you want

00:00:26.880 a guy to chase you yeah if a guy's constantly chasing you and showing that he's always about

00:00:32.580 you blah blah blah you're gonna get bored of that right because the guy i used to talk to i would

00:00:37.260 probably see him two three times a week and he'd probably ring me every day but when i ring him

00:00:42.560 he don't ring back but you like but you like that though but if he rings me let me oh no no i'm just

00:00:48.380 gonna say but you like that though right like not like but like but like but like but like but you

00:00:53.200 like that um folks today we are going to be talking about simping okay um so as we get

00:01:01.340 started i'm going to ask a question to everybody do you guys know what a simp actually is i've been

00:01:09.340 one okay go for it yeah i've been one female simp okay go for it myself big up my thing so basically

00:01:17.140 in my experience as a simp that does way too much for someone that would never do the same for them

00:01:23.180 but i love him though so you're still a simp what is what is what is too much like what did you

00:01:31.780 essentially anything when you're a simp you essentially shouldn't be doing anything for that

00:01:37.260 person so anything you do is too much but you do as much as to think people might say what is that

00:01:45.880 your man no but i love him no i was just wondering like what is too much like what were you doing

00:01:53.100 okay in my example okay he had a girlfriend but that's still my whoa whoa whoa hold up hold up

00:02:04.100 so hang on you're telling me that you you had a guy who already had a girlfriend yeah but so what

00:02:10.600 you doing with him that's my baby a side chick in it yeah so basically you're a side chick okay so

00:02:16.040 okay i didn't know he had a girlfriend yeah but when you found out he had a girlfriend you stayed with

00:02:20.940 him right yeah because that's my baby so you got side chick energy no she's definitely a side chick 1.00

00:02:27.520 you're a side chick you're a side chick no not in general because i don't want people to think that's what i sent a whole

00:02:32.520 how can you say i'm not a side chick i mean you brought this up you brought it up like in general

00:02:37.580 mandem if you're trying to wife me don't have a girl however him especially because i didn't find out

00:02:44.340 he had a girl for about what was it like two three weeks

00:02:47.800 it was a while

00:02:48.600 and i thought wait wait wait wait

00:02:50.160 it was like two weeks

00:02:51.000 no no no no

00:02:52.680 we just we just got started

00:02:54.120 two weeks is not even that late

00:02:56.840 let me land

00:02:57.540 one time one time one time go on

00:03:00.400 okay let me land so you me yeah i'm the type of person that i go off energy so if i meet you in person

00:03:06.280 and it's good energy i will link you every day so it's like you know like when you're in love island or big brother house

00:03:11.660 two weeks is like two months so essentially them two weeks was my two months she's saying she loves a thrill

00:03:18.660 i love the thrill so in my head i was like yeah this is my man and your man after two weeks

00:03:25.620 all right how long has it been now how long like how long until you cut it off

00:03:30.080 oh no no no that's that's are you still with him

00:03:33.140 i mean it sounds like he said she still loves him so

00:03:36.560 so hang on what the hell is going on here

00:03:39.580 when did i meet him so you're saying

00:03:41.860 let me just get a year and a half

00:03:43.460 it's been about a year and a half

00:03:44.620 wait wait wait hold on hold on hold on

00:03:46.580 a year a year so okay so let me just so after two three weeks you found out he has a girlfriend

00:03:52.140 yeah yeah and instead of saying you know what i'm gonna cut my losses and get out

00:03:56.060 no no no you were like let me just ride this till i die

00:03:58.660 so she was not listening to the advice

00:04:00.400 yes

00:04:01.400 so does the girlfriend know oh hell no no no no no so the girlfriend has no idea bro she's a side chick 1.00

00:04:10.520 okay listen listen listen there's no other way about it you're a side chick you're a side chick and you know

00:04:16.680 i personally feel like she probably knows but she don't know it's me so it's fine

00:04:21.680 no it's stubborn it's stubbornness

00:04:24.680 all right okay so the question was does anyone know what a simp is

00:04:28.680 can i see what he looks like i just want to see how hot this man is

00:04:31.680 because there is no way this is an average looking dude

00:04:34.680 i'll just show you just you then

00:04:36.680 i won't show the i won't show the um

00:04:38.680 yeah don't show the audience i won't show the audience i just want to see

00:04:41.680 i'm gonna raid him one to ten

00:04:43.680 has anybody has anybody else been a simp

00:04:46.680 i think not

00:04:48.680 no male male female don't lie guys 1.00

00:04:50.680 what do you define

00:04:51.680 we all know we've been a simp at some point

00:04:53.680 what is a simp

00:04:54.680 well what do you what do you what do you define as a simp

00:04:57.680 i i i heard that a simp is like

00:04:59.680 okay so a simp right

00:05:01.680 is someone who

00:05:02.680 caters to anything and everything

00:05:05.680 a woman 0.57

00:05:07.680 wants

00:05:08.680 and actually showers her with 0.98

00:05:10.680 love

00:05:11.680 and attention

00:05:12.680 and doesn't necessarily get it back

00:05:15.680 so like

00:05:16.680 that's a simp

00:05:17.680 that's a

00:05:18.680 you shower her with everything

00:05:20.680 and you love her

00:05:21.680 and you want her

00:05:22.680 and you show all this kind of stuff

00:05:24.680 but she's kind of like

00:05:25.680 yeah

00:05:26.680 so you kind of simp

00:05:27.680 but

00:05:28.680 okay

00:05:29.680 so you've never you're telling me you've never been a simp for a woman

00:05:31.680 i've never been a simp but uh

00:05:33.680 i can uh

00:05:34.680 i can tell that i've been

00:05:36.680 always

00:05:37.680 someone who's

00:05:38.680 who's really caring

00:05:39.680 and someone who's

00:05:40.680 as a man

00:05:41.680 right

00:05:42.680 if i think if you

00:05:43.680 if you

00:05:44.680 if you were raised in the right household and you see your parents or your father or your uncle

00:05:50.680 taking care of their wives

00:05:52.680 and uh they raise you to be

00:05:54.680 they raise you to grow up to become a gentleman

00:05:57.680 mm-hmm

00:05:58.680 i think there's

00:05:59.680 okay let's just like

00:06:01.680 okay i'm gonna step back and explain to you

00:06:03.680 okay let's just say at school yeah you have just this kid a very smart kid

00:06:07.680 you know

00:06:08.680 but

00:06:09.680 people don't call smart kids smart kids they call them weirdos or

00:06:13.680 like

00:06:14.680 something else different names because they're smart

00:06:16.680 right

00:06:17.680 right

00:06:18.680 so uh

00:06:19.680 what i don't understand is

00:06:20.680 what if a man is just a gentleman

00:06:22.680 but end up by

00:06:23.680 end up calling a sim

00:06:25.680 end up

00:06:26.680 end up being called a sim

00:06:27.680 okay so

00:06:28.680 have you ever as a man

00:06:29.680 felt like you were given more to a woman

00:06:32.680 we always

00:06:33.680 than she was given to you

00:06:34.680 we

00:06:35.680 as a man to this day

00:06:36.680 we always give more than

00:06:38.680 more than women give 0.99

00:06:39.680 that's how i feel

00:06:40.680 okay

00:06:41.680 you know because

00:06:42.680 as a man

00:06:43.680 as a provider

00:06:44.680 you know i think

00:06:45.680 but you're married though aren't you

00:06:47.680 i am married

00:06:48.680 okay yeah yeah yeah

00:06:49.680 and uh and the reason why i say that is because

00:06:51.680 women expect more 1.00

00:06:53.680 from us

00:06:54.680 than we do expect from them

00:06:56.680 mm-hmm

00:06:57.680 you know

00:06:58.680 mm-hmm

00:06:59.680 women expect more from from men 1.00

00:07:01.680 to do

00:07:02.680 than we as a man expect women to 0.99

00:07:05.680 right

00:07:06.680 to give us

00:07:07.680 right

00:07:08.680 so uh

00:07:09.680 whether you're a simp or a gentleman or a gangster

00:07:12.680 whatever

00:07:13.680 whatever you call yourself

00:07:14.680 you still

00:07:15.680 as a man

00:07:16.680 give you more

00:07:17.680 mm-hmm

00:07:18.680 okay so

00:07:19.680 why is it so why is the simp so narrowed down to the gender though when it comes to men

00:07:24.680 that is my big question

00:07:25.680 that is my big question

00:07:26.680 because

00:07:27.680 i don't

00:07:28.680 i don't

00:07:29.680 i don't know many female simps to be fair like i know 1.00

00:07:31.680 i know many

00:07:32.680 i know many

00:07:33.680 the girls that like usually say they're simps it's like all they offer is pussy 1.00

00:07:38.680 no

00:07:39.680 thank you all right so you said you don't know no simps

00:07:41.680 no

00:07:42.680 ninety percent of girls it's like what else do you bring to you know why 1.00

00:07:44.680 ninety percent go ahead go ahead

00:07:45.680 no no no no no

00:07:46.680 do you know why because girls are socially accepted to be simps because you're a girl 0.99

00:07:52.680 so when a girl does too much fun 1.00

00:07:54.680 what does that mean what do you mean

00:07:55.680 so right so say if a guy likes me and he's going over the top i'm airing him he's still messaging me i don't give him attention he's buying me stuff you're now a simp it's embarrassing right now say if a guy

00:08:07.680 don't text me back i still message him i'm still doing stuff for him you're a girl so it's a bit more in society people are gonna judge a girl less for being a simp than a boy

00:08:20.680 i understand what she means though i understand what she means

00:08:25.680 girls are just expected 1.00

00:08:26.680 no it's true because they're kind of chase after boys but boys are not expected to chase

00:08:30.680 okay but as a woman what would you prefer would you prefer

00:08:35.680 i want guys to chase me

00:08:36.680 okay so hang on

00:08:37.680 that's a very interesting thing

00:08:39.680 so if you want guys

00:08:40.680 to a certain extent

00:08:41.680 right this is where i'm gonna go

00:08:43.680 so if you want a guy to chase you yeah

00:08:45.680 if a guy's constantly chasing you and showing that he's always about you blah blah blah blah

00:08:50.680 don't do that

00:08:51.680 you're gonna get bored of that right

00:08:52.680 because the guy i used to talk to i would probably see him two three times a week and he'd probably ring me every day

00:08:58.680 mm-hmm but when i ring him he don't ring back

00:09:01.680 but you like but you like that though

00:09:03.680 but if he rings me

00:09:04.680 let me oh no no i'm not just gonna say but you like that though right

00:09:06.680 like like but like i miss you

00:09:08.680 but like but like but like but like but you like that right

00:09:11.680 but like if he rings me and i don't call back there's an issue

00:09:15.680 no but the thing is women like that chase they like guys like the chase 1.00

00:09:23.680 no but hang on if a guy is chasing you down too much

00:09:27.680 yes no exactly

00:09:29.680 you have too much time

00:09:31.680 it depends how i'm responding if i'm actively responding to you in a way that suggests you can still chat to me

00:09:39.680 cool if i'm airing out your thing stop what you're doing immediately stop what you're doing

00:09:44.680 if i air you it's not if i air you two one too many times it's a actually just stop chatting to me

00:09:51.680 guys why don't you just say you're not interested

00:09:53.680 guys this is why

00:09:55.680 because

00:09:57.680 one at a time one at a time one at a time let me just say to the camera

00:10:00.680 this is why nice guys finish last

00:10:03.680 no let me like let me tell you

00:10:05.680 she needs to explain to you why that you cannot do that

00:10:07.680 let me explain why

00:10:08.680 let me explain why right

00:10:10.680 you say why don't you just cut off the guy

00:10:12.680 that's chasing you but you don't really want the attention

00:10:15.680 because i promise you

00:10:16.680 the guy that i want is not giving me enough attention that i don't need yours

00:10:20.680 your attention is feeding my ego

00:10:22.680 however

00:10:23.680 when my man replies

00:10:25.680 yeah go away

00:10:26.680 okay so let me just

00:10:27.680 so you're gonna use the other guys for attention

00:10:29.680 listen

00:10:30.680 and then chase after the guy you don't like

00:10:32.680 because how would you feel if you were in their shoes

00:10:34.680 i'm a hypocrite

00:10:35.680 you started the podcast saying that men ain't shit but you kind of are being ain't shit to men

00:10:41.680 yep i'm a hypocrite

00:10:43.680 do you know what it is

00:10:44.680 at least you own it

00:10:45.680 i feel like if i'm intentionally airing your message and not responding to you

00:10:50.680 you know what it is

00:10:52.680 if a guy is airing my messages and i choose to double or triple message him

00:10:55.680 i know what it is

00:10:56.680 and i'm choosing to be that person

00:10:58.680 if you're messaging me and i air you you message me again i air you you message again and i air you

00:11:03.680 but i enjoy the attention you do give me when you're messaging me bigging me up

00:11:07.680 but i'm choosing to air you you know what it is

00:11:09.680 this is why this is why

00:11:10.680 you know what it is

00:11:11.680 hang on this is why i tell men 0.73

00:11:12.680 just focus on yourself

00:11:14.680 100%

00:11:15.680 guys focus on yourself

00:11:16.680 because you will never ever ever be able to understand the psychology of a woman 1.00

00:11:21.680 no

00:11:22.680 because for as a guy right

00:11:23.680 does that make sense to us

00:11:24.680 yeah it does

00:11:25.680 does that make sense

00:11:26.680 because as a man

00:11:27.680 if we say we want x y and z that means we want x y and z right

00:11:32.680 go for it

00:11:33.680 yeah i mean a woman will say they want x y and z but if you give them x y and z they're like 0.84

00:11:37.680 no

00:11:38.680 i don't know if i want that

00:11:40.680 it's like but you said you wanted it

00:11:41.680 i can't like that's not me though personally

00:11:43.680 for real

00:11:44.680 if you give me exactly what i want

00:11:45.680 you're my man now

00:11:46.680 we're good

00:11:47.680 you're my man

00:11:48.680 we're good

00:11:49.680 you're my man personally you're my man

00:11:50.680 you see the guy that's giving me the attention i didn't ask for

00:11:52.680 but wait but why are you chasing the one guy who's not giving you what you want

00:11:55.680 you're chasing a man that's not your man

00:11:57.680 he chases me and i let him stay there

00:11:59.680 no hang on you're actually with a man that's not your man

00:12:01.680 do you understand that

00:12:02.680 you're a side chick you just said earlier you're a side chick 1.00

00:12:04.680 no not anymore

00:12:05.680 but you were a side chick you used to be a side chick 1.00

00:12:08.680 do you know why though

00:12:09.680 do you know what i didn't go in saying i want to be next

00:12:12.680 if i knew from the beginning

00:12:14.680 bro sir i'd rather i'd rather be

00:12:16.680 no no no i'd rather be i'd rather be single yeah

00:12:18.680 than knowing that i'm a friend with benefit yeah

00:12:20.680 let me land

00:12:21.680 let me land

00:12:22.680 yeah

00:12:23.680 right

00:12:24.680 or i'm banging this girl who has a boyfriend already 0.52

00:12:26.680 i don't want that

00:12:27.680 let me land

00:12:28.680 as a man no

00:12:29.680 as a man we don't do that

00:12:30.680 like we don't we don't bang

00:12:31.680 let me land

00:12:32.680 we don't bang girls that have a boyfriend already 0.99

00:12:33.680 let me land

00:12:34.680 but for women

00:12:35.680 it's fine for them

00:12:36.680 oh you can't talk for every man

00:12:37.680 hang on let me speak let me speak

00:12:38.680 go on go on

00:12:39.680 no no finish finish bro finish finish

00:12:40.680 but

00:12:41.680 but for

00:12:42.680 for

00:12:43.680 for girls it's fine for them

00:12:45.680 to know

00:12:46.680 damn well in their head that

00:12:47.680 this guy that they're sleeping with

00:12:48.680 mm-hmm

00:12:49.680 are not their man

00:12:50.680 right

00:12:51.680 but you wouldn't do that

00:12:52.680 listen if

00:12:53.680 as men we know

00:12:54.680 if our

00:12:55.680 if a woman that we're sleeping with 1.00

00:12:56.680 yeah

00:12:57.680 is getting penis from somewhere else 0.99

00:12:59.680 no

00:13:00.680 no

00:13:01.680 we don't want that we don't want that

00:13:02.680 i have a question

00:13:03.680 do you know what it is though

00:13:04.680 do you know what it is

00:13:05.680 sometimes

00:13:06.680 sometimes

00:13:07.680 sex

00:13:08.680 is just sex

00:13:09.680 don't get me wrong

00:13:10.680 i feel like there's always an end goal

00:13:12.680 to end up with someone

00:13:13.680 but sometimes you know in the time

00:13:14.680 there's someone you're mad sexually attracted to

00:13:16.680 and they can stay around

00:13:18.680 until

00:13:19.680 you find whatever you need to find

00:13:21.680 don't get me wrong

00:13:22.680 if i met the guy and you had to go from the jump

00:13:24.680 i wouldn't have entertained it

00:13:25.680 sounds like a little bit

00:13:26.680 but you did

00:13:27.680 you know what you did from the jump

00:13:28.680 i mean come on

00:13:29.680 i didn't know he had a girlfriend

00:13:30.680 first month

00:13:31.680 first month

00:13:32.680 that's the jump

00:13:33.680 no but

00:13:34.680 i have a serious question though

00:13:35.680 so have you ever asked him like

00:13:36.680 what his girlfriend has that you don't

00:13:38.680 no no no

00:13:39.680 because no

00:13:40.680 i'm just thinking like

00:13:41.680 if i was gonna

00:13:42.680 i couldn't take it

00:13:43.680 if i was gonna be a side chick shit i'd compete 0.94

00:13:45.680 if you're gonna do it anyway

00:13:47.680 if you're gonna do it anyway

00:13:48.680 do you know what it is

00:13:49.680 i can't lie she's laying

00:13:50.680 oh she's good

00:13:51.680 she's good looking right

00:13:52.680 oh yeah

00:13:53.680 all right so

00:13:54.680 oh my god

00:13:55.680 oh my god

00:13:56.680 so hang on

00:13:57.680 let me ask a question with that then yeah

00:13:59.680 if

00:14:00.680 if he um

00:14:01.680 broke up with his girlfriend

00:14:02.680 impossible

00:14:03.680 not with me

00:14:04.680 no i'm saying

00:14:05.680 if he broke up with his girlfriend

00:14:06.680 and said i would just want to be

00:14:07.680 impossible

00:14:08.680 why why is that impossible

00:14:09.680 because he cheated with me

00:14:10.680 no but i'm saying

00:14:11.680 no but if he said i'm gonna break up with my girlfriend

00:14:14.680 and i'm gonna be with you

00:14:15.680 just you and me

00:14:16.680 impossible

00:14:17.680 would you be with him

00:14:18.680 impossible

00:14:19.680 why is that a no

00:14:20.680 is that a no that's you wouldn't be with him

00:14:21.680 listen

00:14:22.680 listen

00:14:23.680 because you said you love this guy

00:14:25.680 so you would be with him right

00:14:26.680 listen

00:14:27.680 am i a bit of an idiot for this guy

00:14:29.680 absolutely

00:14:30.680 however

00:14:31.680 i'm a chosen idiot

00:14:33.680 as in i choose to be there

00:14:35.680 you're a chosen idiot

00:14:36.680 i feel like the main chick is worse than the side chick 0.99

00:14:39.680 do you know why

00:14:40.680 because the side chick 1.00

00:14:42.680 knows she's a side chick 1.00

00:14:44.680 she knows what her role is

00:14:45.680 she knows what

00:14:46.680 the main chick is thinking

00:14:47.680 that's my man

00:14:48.680 oh

00:14:49.680 that's i love him

00:14:50.680 no we both

00:14:51.680 yeah but the

00:14:52.680 but the main chick gets the commitment 1.00

00:14:54.680 i suppose

00:14:55.680 like

00:14:56.680 the main chick

00:14:57.680 the main chick

00:14:59.680 the main chick

00:15:00.680 should be loved

00:15:01.680 how often did i see my man

00:15:03.680 yeah but he ain't leaving her for you

00:15:05.680 exactly

00:15:06.680 one at a time

00:15:07.680 one at a time

00:15:08.680 one at a time

00:15:09.680 i'm sorry what you say

00:15:10.680 i was saying he ain't leaving her for you

00:15:11.680 no that's fine

00:15:12.680 so either way she is the chosen one

00:15:13.680 do you know what i mean

00:15:14.680 there's no chosen one in this situation

00:15:15.680 that's cause she was there first

00:15:16.680 there is no

00:15:17.680 in this situation everybody's a twin

00:15:19.680 do you know what it is

00:15:20.680 there is no chosen one

00:15:21.680 i feel like

00:15:22.680 one at a time that's one at a time

00:15:23.680 go on then

00:15:24.680 if you're the chosen one

00:15:25.680 you would be about you

00:15:26.680 do you know what i feel like though

00:15:27.680 but if you're a side chick

00:15:28.680 she's a side chick as well

00:15:29.680 because he has to go

00:15:30.680 you're both sides

00:15:31.680 that's not true

00:15:32.680 because he's not giving you's lot

00:15:33.680 neither of you's

00:15:34.680 what you require in a relationship

00:15:36.680 he's just playing both of you's

00:15:37.680 he's telling her you're my girl

00:15:39.680 he's telling you i like you

00:15:40.680 no

00:15:41.680 but she's not giving her loyalty

00:15:45.680 yes yes but she might 0.98

00:15:46.680 she never you never know

00:15:47.680 she might know

00:15:48.680 throughout all of human history

00:15:49.680 the top guys have had multiple women

00:15:51.680 correct

00:15:52.680 they've always had a main chick 1.00

00:15:53.680 and concubines 1.00

00:15:54.680 so in this situation

00:15:55.680 no offense you're a concubine 0.99

00:15:57.680 from what i know of the situation

00:15:59.680 she be getting dms from other girls 1.00

00:16:01.680 so she semi knows

00:16:03.680 however i feel like there's a difference between

00:16:05.680 say if i'm with a man

00:16:06.680 that's i'm with drake

00:16:08.680 and then all of a sudden

00:16:09.680 drake's not with you 1.00

00:16:10.680 no let's say i'm officially with drake

00:16:14.680 yeah but he's not with you

00:16:16.680 and then all of a sudden

00:16:17.680 someone richer and more power comes along

00:16:19.680 am i necessarily gonna leave drake

00:16:21.680 just because something better

00:16:22.680 is coming because

00:16:23.680 what i already have

00:16:24.680 no but you get what i'm saying

00:16:26.680 can i say his girlfriend

00:16:28.680 can i say his girlfriend looks like 0.99

00:16:29.680 okay so

00:16:30.680 i don't have a picture

00:16:31.680 do you know what the difference is

00:16:32.680 one second one second

00:16:33.680 one second

00:16:34.680 that actually leads me to something

00:16:35.680 that i actually was gonna ask

00:16:36.680 um who's

00:16:37.680 do you know what monkey branching is

00:16:39.680 hmm

00:16:40.680 i've never heard of that term

00:16:41.680 okay so monkey branching

00:16:42.680 is when you're in a relationship

00:16:43.680 right

00:16:44.680 but you kinda

00:16:46.680 you've got a

00:16:47.680 there's a branch somewhere else

00:16:49.680 that you might

00:16:50.680 hang on

00:16:51.680 you might go somewhere else

00:16:52.680 you're in a relationship

00:16:53.680 but you're thinking

00:16:54.680 mmm over there

00:16:55.680 so when you said

00:16:56.680 that you were

00:16:57.680 you're with drake 0.73

00:16:58.680 etc

00:16:59.680 but there's a man

00:17:01.680 or if someone more rich

00:17:02.680 and more successful

00:17:03.680 comes along

00:17:04.680 would you go

00:17:05.680 i think

00:17:06.680 and correct me if i'm wrong ladies

00:17:08.680 i think women monkey branch 1.00

00:17:10.680 no

00:17:11.680 more so than men do 0.99

00:17:12.680 no no no no no

00:17:13.680 oh men do it in the dark

00:17:14.680 oh they do it

00:17:15.680 do you know why

00:17:16.680 do you know why

00:17:17.680 do you know

00:17:18.680 say if i've got something good

00:17:19.680 stable

00:17:20.680 good money treats me good

00:17:21.680 da da da da da

00:17:22.680 now i meet someone

00:17:23.680 i think the connection's better

00:17:24.680 or the money's better

00:17:25.680 whatever something's better

00:17:26.680 but if i leave what i've got

00:17:28.680 that might collapse

00:17:29.680 and i've got nothing

00:17:30.680 i'll tell you why

00:17:31.680 because you know what hypergamy is

00:17:32.680 right

00:17:33.680 yeah

00:17:34.680 so hypergamy

00:17:35.680 hypergamy is that women 1.00

00:17:36.680 want to date

00:17:37.680 are constantly trying to date up

00:17:39.680 no no no

00:17:40.680 hang on wait wait wait wait

00:17:41.680 wait wait wait wait

00:17:42.680 women are constantly trying to date up 1.00

00:17:43.680 they're trying to get

00:17:44.680 trying to get the best deal

00:17:45.680 that they can get

00:17:46.680 men

00:17:47.680 men will get a deal 0.98

00:17:48.680 men will get a deal 0.98

00:17:49.680 and be like you know what

00:17:50.680 i'm actually quite happy with this

00:17:51.680 and hang on

00:17:52.680 let me finish

00:17:53.680 men will get a deal 0.98

00:17:54.680 they will get a woman 0.90

00:17:55.680 who's a six out of ten

00:17:56.680 that she ticks all the boxes

00:17:58.680 and they will coast for the rest of their life

00:18:00.680 can i tell you why

00:18:01.680 wait wait wait

00:18:02.680 so women 0.99

00:18:04.680 are always looking for

00:18:06.680 that level up

00:18:07.680 right

00:18:08.680 which is why

00:18:09.680 which is why

00:18:10.680 if i was to ask all of you women here 1.00

00:18:11.680 right now

00:18:12.680 the types of men

00:18:13.680 that you want

00:18:14.680 you would probably list

00:18:16.680 a man in the top 20% of men

00:18:18.680 right

00:18:19.680 but if you're listing a man

00:18:20.680 that's in the top 20% of men

00:18:21.680 what's going to happen is

00:18:22.680 what if a man comes up

00:18:23.680 he's in the top 15%

00:18:25.680 what if a man that comes up

00:18:26.680 is in the top 10%

00:18:27.680 i can't like

00:18:28.680 i be dating bumming niggas 1.00

00:18:29.680 no no no but listen

00:18:30.680 what does it not go back to

00:18:31.680 you just

00:18:32.680 you just show me

00:18:33.680 you just show me his picture

00:18:34.680 you just show me his picture

00:18:35.680 that's top

00:18:36.680 he's top 20% of men

00:18:37.680 yeah

00:18:38.680 we don't have the same type

00:18:39.680 but

00:18:40.680 but does it not go down to

00:18:41.680 like

00:18:42.680 for example

00:18:43.680 there's just a traditional way

00:18:44.680 of a man

00:18:45.680 a man needing to provide 0.84

00:18:46.680 for a woman

00:18:47.680 do you know what i'm saying

00:18:48.680 our positions in life

00:18:49.680 even to do with tradition

00:18:50.680 and culture

00:18:51.680 does that not know

00:18:52.680 exactly

00:18:53.680 i mean

00:18:54.680 because when he's talking

00:18:55.680 about women trying to get 0.98

00:18:56.680 the highest

00:18:57.680 the highest caliber

00:18:58.680 and trying to

00:18:59.680 and trying to

00:19:00.680 go like

00:19:01.680 from hair to hair

00:19:02.680 career wise

00:19:03.680 money wise

00:19:04.680 home

00:19:05.680 family

00:19:06.680 for example

00:19:07.680 so exactly

00:19:08.680 that's what you boy

00:19:09.680 i'll tell you why

00:19:10.680 you take kim kardashian for 0.58

00:19:11.680 for an example right

00:19:12.680 kim kardashian started out

00:19:13.680 right

00:19:14.680 yeah

00:19:15.680 then she went to reggie miller

00:19:16.680 who was an nfl football player

00:19:17.680 right

00:19:18.680 and then there was an

00:19:19.680 i think there was another nfl

00:19:20.680 football player that she went

00:19:21.680 with

00:19:22.680 right

00:19:23.680 and then she found kanye

00:19:24.680 but she went down

00:19:25.680 but hang on

00:19:26.680 but kanye

00:19:27.680 was the pinnacle

00:19:28.680 of kim kardashian's

00:19:29.680 um

00:19:30.680 the man that she could find

00:19:31.680 right

00:19:32.680 so what she done

00:19:33.680 so no what she done

00:19:34.680 i don't think so

00:19:35.680 hang on but what she done

00:19:36.680 she started to breed with

00:19:37.680 because in her

00:19:38.680 in her heart and her mind

00:19:39.680 she was like

00:19:40.680 this is top

00:19:41.680 she's she's now got four children

00:19:43.680 for kanye

00:19:44.680 right

00:19:45.680 hang on hang on hang on

00:19:46.680 wait wait wait wait wait

00:19:47.680 let's wait wait

00:19:48.680 she's got four children for kanye

00:19:49.680 right

00:19:50.680 she felt like she found the pinnacle

00:19:51.680 he's a billionaire

00:19:52.680 she's a multi-millionaire 1.00

00:19:54.680 yeah

00:19:55.680 she felt like that was her level

00:19:56.680 after that

00:19:57.680 she divorced kanye

00:19:58.680 where's she gone to

00:20:00.680 do you know what that's true

00:20:01.680 pete davison

00:20:02.680 right do you know why

00:20:03.680 because after having

00:20:04.680 four children

00:20:05.680 she already hit the peak

00:20:06.680 she hit the peak

00:20:07.680 right

00:20:08.680 so after so after kanye

00:20:10.680 west from here on out

00:20:11.680 it's it's downhill for kim kardashian

00:20:13.680 because she's got four children 0.51

00:20:14.680 well and let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not let's not cap though as girls like how of course you want to of course you want to reproduce with the best guy you can 0.98

00:20:24.680 to be fair the way i see it is that as girls we always look for the best because we want like we don't i don't know i'm speaking from personal experience anyways and if i meet a guy that's got everything i want i'm not cheating on him i'm not looking at other guys i'm not worried you know i mean but if you see if you're dating someone and you see like things that are missing in that person automatically

00:20:53.680 automatically your eyes go wonder guys they can have a 10 10 girl everything laid down for them whatever and they'll still cheat i have a question i have a question for you would you rather have a guy that had everything you wanted but he cheated from time to time but you were the main chick or a guy let's say let's say you're five deal breakers he has three three of the five let's say you have five things you want he has three i'm not gonna lie

00:21:22.680 i'm not gonna lie but he doesn't cheat see i can't lie i'm taking the the cheater because let me tell you one thing yeah that's very honest that's honest most girls would most girls would

00:21:35.680 yeah only because i can't give that guy that has those what like what i would give to someone who has everything i need type of thing would you kind of look the other way and be like i didn't see

00:21:46.680 do you know what it is i wish it was that easy in my head i like to say it out loud i would take the three but if he cheated subtly and didn't embarrass me publicly i can't lie i'd probably let it run as long as i don't stand out loud

00:22:02.680 if there were no public embarrassment and he cheated very subtly then i can't lie you're already being sideshap like of course you would take that

00:22:10.680 do you know what it is no no no do you know what it is it's not a public thing me and my man as a woman we already go through menstrual cycle going to work having to look good

00:22:20.680 and it's not even just looking good for men some people do that personally i don't i love fashion i just love to feel good within myself but being a woman is a lot

00:22:29.680 yeah i have to say life is easy life is easy life is no life is easy when we're skinning teeth and looking pretty that's what i would say

00:22:36.680 as a young woman as a young man life is hard as a young man it's easy do you know much better do you know what do you know what do you know how much better the world treats you guys because you're pretty

00:22:48.680 as a girl for like as long as you're pretty that's all you need to do 0.92

00:22:57.960 as a man if you're not successful top tier you need to be multiple things multiple as a woman if

00:23:16.600 you're just pretty that can just run that can run you don't need you don't need to be a woman and 1.00

00:23:21.480 successful obviously don't get me wrong there's always the reason why i say that the reason why

00:23:25.320 you're actually correct because a man that's got a man who is successful right a man who is

00:23:30.600 a multi-millionaire had to go through blood sweat and tears and hard work consistently to become a

00:23:36.520 millionaire you can be 22 and pretty and an instagram model and that man can go into your

00:23:43.480 dms and say look i'm in dubai and i've got a yacht right i'll fly you over and that he can have

00:23:50.440 12 women on his yacht yeah right who are dancing and having a great time and those women are literally

00:23:56.680 on on benefits in the uk right but that man has had to toil and work and blood sweat and tears and

00:24:05.560 women this is what i'm trying to say women you you don't understand you live life on easy street you

00:24:09.960 know you don't understand you live like men if you find a successful man trust me that man has had

00:24:15.880 to go through the hell to become successful you can you can actually be next to a successful man

00:24:21.720 and not have done much okay but my point is as a man as you or me that that part of your time

00:24:31.880 it's not going to be forever exactly we settle my fair enough we settle can i add something and then uh

00:24:38.600 like from my own experience yeah i came to this country when i was younger right from where from

00:24:43.480 senegal i've did i've did a lot of stuff right i've did crazy stuff but when it was time for me to get

00:24:50.760 married i went back home went to senegal i went back to senegal yeah i found the right woman for me

00:24:57.640 because i knew what i saw from what i saw in this country there's no chance for the women in this 1.00

00:25:04.520 country for the women in this country there was no you wouldn't marry a woman no no oh there's there's 0.98

00:25:10.040 one percent chance right okay because i'm not saying every woman that i meet in the city on friday

00:25:16.440 night or saturday night are all the same yeah but you're going to know what it is we men we we look

00:25:27.640 forward to that settlement okay and for us a settlement is getting married finding the right

00:25:34.040 woman and having children and having children and settle yes right yeah for for women their beauty 1.00

00:25:42.200 the older you get it it it goes down it goes down yeah yeah and as it goes down it's harder for you

00:25:50.360 to settle yes yeah yeah it's harder for you to settle it's time she's she's on a big time now

00:25:58.840 yeah but the thing is but the thing is at the peak time is when you should be trying to settle

00:26:02.520 exactly and that's the thing well a lot of women in of this they don't realize they don't realize 1.00

00:26:06.440 they want to do party girl and they want to do city girl stuff and when they get to 30 it's like

00:26:12.280 oh oh my god like what the hell am i doing too late now i did want to ask you bro um did you feel

00:26:23.640 like you were simping for girls in london which is why you had to go to senegal no no no the reason the

00:26:30.280 reason the reason why i went back is because it's because one it's because one i didn't i i i don't

00:26:37.320 trust the girls i see here raising my kids because i have seen women sniffing out lines in front of 1.00

00:26:45.880 their kids those are not only your kids those are your kids as well anyway i've seen girls sniffing out 1.00

00:26:51.000 like in front of their kids i don't think you can't find a wife in this country but it's about 1.00

00:27:02.920 the odds it's about the nature see if you're in this country it'll be at odds you might have to go

00:27:06.920 through 50 girls to find one that you could potentially marry i feel like in your country

00:27:11.480 because the culture is different you probably have to only go through five girls to find yeah but the 0.54

00:27:16.840 thing is when we're talking about simping right yeah the thing is with women in the western world 1.00

00:27:20.600 but hang on and women in the western world they seem like they want guys to simp do you know wait 1.00

00:27:25.720 wait they want guys to simp for them okay so what happens is when a man simps for a woman 1.00

00:27:32.920 right it puts him in the feminine and it puts a woman in her masculine yeah and so what what happens

00:27:39.640 is is that the man starts to be a woman and the woman starts to be a man and so what happened and so

00:27:46.360 i'm just saying and so what happens is is that the the dynamics of the relationship get skewed and so

00:27:52.440 women while they may like because women generally like attention you're women you lack attention 1.00

00:27:56.920 right however too much attention from a simp you ain't going to respect him just think of the guys

00:28:05.960 that you guys have liked the most i mean were they really simping for you or they weren't giving you

00:28:09.720 the attention you want it you know a man only you can only you only feel like the woman is taking the

00:28:16.280 man's role if the man is not providing and doing the masculine being the masculine because a woman 0.88

00:28:24.520 will automatically go into a feminine energy as soon as she finds that alpha male whatever you want to 1.00

00:28:29.880 call it do you know why would why would men provide traditionally when they don't get traditional

00:28:34.840 women exactly but like like how many how many of us are 22 year old virgins on here 1.00

00:28:39.960 right me but it's also a part of the social culture as well

00:28:46.040 i was about the cap you were saying about women like back from his country you want men to sit for

00:29:03.960 them i think the difference is because of the cultural difference there's no cultural difference

00:29:08.120 in morals women's women's morals the morals are different let me explain let me land let me land 1.00

00:29:14.520 right you see in this country because of the culture and the way women will get showered on 1.00

00:29:20.600 like i can go to a club and just get into a club and be in a man's table like that yeah

00:29:24.040 right so listen so let me land so let me land is that is that a man simping for you though

00:29:29.080 that's not but let me land no but it is but let me land it is but i'll tell you why it is

00:29:32.840 i marginally if i don't know you yeah i owe you absolutely but let me let me speak i owe you

00:29:39.960 absolutely nothing as a man who doesn't know you right so what happens is the simp culture within

00:29:45.480 the western world has become a norm yeah so men will say okay cool and this is why i speak to men

00:29:50.440 men i'm going to speak to you right because if you are out here with a lot of money you may have

00:29:54.920 a lot of money stop giving pretty women yeah stop giving pretty women attention because what happens

00:30:01.720 is you will lose your resources you will lose your money you will lose your time and what will happen

00:30:07.320 is they will take your time effort resources all the things that you built up and they'll be on to the

00:30:12.920 next they'll be sleeping with the guy that ain't doing 1.00

00:30:16.360 shit do you know what the difference is now the difference is now the difference is now when you 0.66

00:30:21.400 go out and you can spend a bag and buy a bottle you're that guy now no but but do you know what

00:30:26.440 do you know what if i've got if i've got 30 racks if i've got 30 racks and i spent one on a

00:30:32.680 on a random girl i don't know i could be um simple now wait wait wait guys guys guys guys guys guys

00:30:39.240 okay this is this is a warning stop you can't be over talking the host it's ruining the show the chat is

00:30:44.600 picking up on it you cannot be over talking the house i could be a multi-millionaire right but if

00:30:50.600 i don't know you i have no obligation to be spending hundreds thousands on you right the problem is in

00:30:58.280 this generation when we're talking about simping there are guys that are multi-millionaires or maybe

00:31:03.160 not even most they just got a little bit of money and what they feel like doing and it's for me is like

00:31:08.600 like this shows men do not know how to get women without resources right they feel like their

00:31:16.600 resources can get women right and a lot of time it can because women love money women like shiny 1.00

00:31:23.080 right but if men understand if you learn to focus on yourself and understand how to get women without 0.59

00:31:31.000 resources when you have the resources you understand that those resources regardless of whether you have

00:31:36.200 them or not don't it doesn't matter you can still get women but what has happened in this society a 0.84

00:31:41.400 man will have a watch on his hand right we'll have a chain on his neck yeah right he'll be at the club

00:31:45.960 he'll buy multiple bottles and he thinks okay cool i'm gonna get some women true i'm gonna tell you bro 1.00

00:31:51.960 stop doing that because the bottom line is those women that you're trying to attract do not give a damn 0.59

00:31:57.720 about you yeah but then maybe he don't give a damn he's just he does that's what i'm trying to say 0.77

00:32:01.720 if i've got a fortune of say like say i've got 50 racks now say i blow one rack on girls in the club 1.00

00:32:08.760 that doesn't make a dent in what i have no but you look like that you look like the guy that's spending

00:32:13.720 money so just because you because you've still spent enough to make you look like the guy but not

00:32:18.440 enough to dent like your value your financial but that's what i'm saying that's the culture today that

00:32:24.520 you it has to be a cap to it there has to be a cap to how much you spend on the this random girl in 0.85

00:32:29.400 the club to make you look like the man but not the simp

JustPearlyThings - August 09, 2023

Meet The World's FEMALE SIMP

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