JustPearlyThings - August 08, 2023


This Is What Feminism Does To Men


Episode Stats

Length

5 minutes

Words per Minute

188.7909

Word Count

1,106

Sentence Count

59

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the Johnny Depp and Amber Guyger case, why women should be paid the same as men, and why we don t see women marching the streets for men to get into bars for free or male only fans to get the same amount of pay as women.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 It wasn't in the justice system, you can't say it was the justice system because what
00:00:06.140 happened was she got an op-ed so it was a left-leaning magazine that gave her an opinion
00:00:14.540 editorial with no evidence and was able to assassinate his character with no evidence
00:00:20.000 because we should believe all women.
00:00:22.100 No, that's what I'm saying, I can't go too much into that just because, well I can't
00:00:27.100 and I don't know insanely too much about it to be fair, but no, I do agree that if there's
00:00:33.580 no evidence against someone then...
00:00:35.320 Okay, so we agree on that.
00:00:37.500 The one thing.
00:00:38.500 Yeah.
00:00:39.500 But again, like I said, with that it's very hard because in terms of that, my opinion is
00:00:44.260 just every woman, every man should be heard in the justice system, in the criminal justice
00:00:49.120 system and they should be fairly tried and it's not the case of Amber, oh sorry, Johnny
00:00:53.900 Depp winning, they both, you know, they both had to pay damages.
00:00:58.020 It was more so that Johnny Depp was just awarded more damages.
00:01:02.120 It wasn't a criminal trial so we can't say anything in terms of that.
00:01:04.740 Sorry, my legal nizana is coming out.
00:01:06.620 So my other question, if feminism is about equality, why don't you see women marching
00:01:11.180 the streets for men to get into bars for free or for male OnlyFans models to get the same
00:01:16.580 amount of pay?
00:01:18.200 Like we see for, sorry, sorry, like we see for the women's soccer team.
00:01:23.860 I think the least of our worries is about men getting into clubs for free, in all honesty.
00:01:28.640 I think there's so much more that we have to fight for that that's the most, I don't know,
00:01:34.700 fickle thing ever.
00:01:36.160 So I would say no comment to that just because that's a ridiculous question for anybody.
00:01:40.580 Well, what about modeling?
00:01:41.580 Let's take like the modeling industry, it's very much favorite, like women get paid more
00:01:46.080 in the modeling industry than men, but we don't see any marches for that where with the
00:01:52.140 women's soccer team, it's a big commotion about them getting paid the same.
00:01:58.460 I think I would revert this question more so back to, again, this being one case scenario.
00:02:03.580 So I don't know the evidence behind it, but I can imagine that why women get paid more
00:02:08.820 is because there's a higher demand for them.
00:02:11.080 But I could also argue, oh, what's happening at Wall Street?
00:02:14.480 What's happening at Canary Wharf?
00:02:15.740 What's happening at Transroot Lane?
00:02:17.740 Who are, there's clearly a gender disparity there.
00:02:20.180 Where I work, gosh, you'd hardly see a woman at the highest authority or the highest stage
00:02:26.780 in our career.
00:02:27.780 So I can say that to you as well.
00:02:30.780 So again, it's a one case.
00:02:31.780 Do you know why that is though?
00:02:32.780 What do you mean?
00:02:33.780 Why, why there's more men?
00:02:35.780 Yeah.
00:02:36.780 Because they have more, they have male privilege in the fact that they're able to go through
00:02:41.300 life in many stages without having to worry about certain things.
00:02:44.700 Even as like an ethnic person, a woman has to take care of her family.
00:02:48.780 There's certain barriers that you just don't see in, I don't know, in like a Western world.
00:02:54.780 Wouldn't you say it's women choosing what they want to choose?
00:02:57.500 So if women, if more women choose to be mothers and more men choose to go after 1% jobs, like,
00:03:02.500 why is that a bad thing?
00:03:03.500 Like, why do we need to fight for equality if women are choosing what they want to choose?
00:03:06.500 That's not, I'm not saying that's a bad thing.
00:03:08.500 Women can choose whatever they want to do.
00:03:10.500 Men can choose whatever they want to do.
00:03:12.500 It's more so the fact that the aspiring women and aspiring men, even if it was a 50-50 ratio,
00:03:18.500 is going to end up at the top it being maybe 20% women, 80% men.
00:03:22.500 Because that's just how the system works.
00:03:25.500 I'm saying, I don't think it's the system.
00:03:27.500 Like my, so I'll give you an example.
00:03:29.500 My dad, he's in the 1%, right, in terms of income.
00:03:33.500 But he worked 80 hours a week my whole life.
00:03:35.500 I didn't see him.
00:03:36.500 I don't know many women that want to work 80 hour weeks, like 12 hour days every single day
00:03:41.500 for 20, 30 years.
00:03:43.500 Like, I think most women have a natural inclination to want to be with their family.
00:03:46.500 Yeah, no, that's fair enough.
00:03:47.500 But also there are women that are like that.
00:03:49.500 There are women that want to be the top 1%.
00:03:51.500 There are women that don't mind working 80 hour weeks, but they don't have the opportunity
00:03:56.500 to get there in the first place.
00:03:58.500 So what opportunity do they not have?
00:04:00.500 There are hiring quotas that specifically they want to hire women over men.
00:04:06.500 Even with hiring quotas, I don't necessarily agree with it because it's almost so much for,
00:04:13.500 I don't know, it's so much for, I don't know how to describe it other than it's not really,
00:04:18.500 it doesn't have, oh, I don't know how to say it.
00:04:21.500 I don't know, I don't think quotas are enough is probably what I'm trying to say.
00:04:26.500 So what would be enough?
00:04:28.500 Genuinely giving women the, I wouldn't even say benefit of the doubt, but where credit is due
00:04:33.500 and allowing them to work their way up the system, really.
00:04:38.500 How are we not giving credit when we hear women's empowerment all the time?
00:04:41.500 I never hear men's empowerment.
00:04:44.500 Well, we need women empowerment in the world, in this world, because I mean,
00:04:49.500 I don't want to keep arguing about the same point, but obviously we're not agreeing on this.
00:04:52.500 Then other than the fact that women are disadvantaged in this world,
00:04:57.500 and that's what we're fighting for. It's the equality. It's not the superiority.
00:05:01.500 I just don't, like, because I just feel like you keep saying we're disadvantaged,
00:05:06.500 but you don't give me specific examples of how we're disadvantaged.
00:05:09.500 Okay, well, I'll have you, I'll message you on Instagram when I actually have a clear head
00:05:13.500 and I'm not really extremely heated.
00:05:15.500 Okay, no worries.
00:05:17.500 Do you have anything, any channels you want to plug anything?
00:05:20.500 I have an Instagram, it's at LegalNizana, that's L-E-G-A-L-N-I-Z-A-N-A, that's it.
00:05:30.500 Okay, well, thank you for sitting down. I appreciate having, like, respectful conversations
00:05:34.500 with people that disagree, so I really appreciate you sitting and stopping.
00:05:37.500 Thank you. I wish you were to learn more about your view than it being mine, but I do appreciate it.
00:05:42.500 Okay, okay.
00:05:47.500 Anyone? Yeah, anyone? Agree? Disagree?