JustPearlyThings - Men are Mostly PUNISHED in Modern Society

00:00:00.000 if you if women get their last say in during intercourse do you think women

00:00:06.060 should get the last say when it comes to if they have an abortion or not mmm 1.00

00:00:10.500 see I've spoken about this a lot I don't like serious it is I think that the

00:00:27.420 that if the the partner has an issue I think if the woman says I want an 1.00

00:00:34.460 abortion and the boyfriend is like I don't want an abortion then I would say 0.99

00:00:42.060 for the woman to go and do it that's okay but what if they both agreed to have 1.00

00:00:47.280 an abortion and then the woman decides okay I'm gonna keep the baby now I know 1.00

00:00:50.880 many of those I know many is she wrong for women is she wrong for doing I think 0.92

00:00:56.220 women have the right not to be mothers but men don't have the right not to be

00:01:04.380 fathers because a woman can get an abortion say I don't want to be a mother

00:01:08.460 but a man can't not a child support or he goes to jail or gets his assets seized

00:01:12.540 and yeah that's not like and then you're complaining that some people are pro-life

00:01:20.640 you can't really have a complaint from both sides if you're pro-life then you're

00:01:24.420 gonna want women to do that right you can't criticize women for both things

00:01:28.180 it's like no no I actually I would ban child support actually yeah yeah yeah I

00:01:32.880 would say I would say I would make supports for the truth yeah well I would if

00:01:37.200 women were just if women were really just spending child support on the child I 1.00

00:01:41.280 might support that but yeah she's what you know and five hundred dollars I mean 1.00

00:01:50.160 maybe you make a lot of money you're an internet person you know but for the

00:01:54.600 average guy that's a lot in a month 500 bucks a month but you think that's a lot

00:01:58.260 for sustaining a child I mean I think I think if you can afford the child you

00:02:02.940 should have custody of it so if she can't afford the child give it to the dad but 1.00

00:02:06.240 the reason that the dad can afford it is because he's at work all the time and how

00:02:09.000 can you look after a kid with you well that's my point it should be his

00:02:12.060 responsibility so if he wants to let the mom watch it one when he wants her to

00:02:15.900 then custody is a thing right you can fight for sure it's really not a thing

00:02:19.980 here it's it's they only get custody 10% of the time so 50 50 well the reason

00:02:25.800 they don't is because they go broke doing it and a lot of them a lot of lawyers

00:02:29.520 advise them not to I mean I've interviewed guys that like go through this it's not an

00:02:33.900 easy process I think the reality is it's very hard to sustain that because if

00:02:38.160 you're a man and you're working full-time it's not worth to fight it unless

00:02:42.780 you're willing to work less or lose your job or do a different job like so

00:02:47.820 when you're looking at it from this perspective one of the two has to work

00:02:51.060 and if you're the one with the better job you're going to opt out of that as a

00:02:54.780 choice well I just don't think you should be rewarded for making a poor

00:02:58.860 choice so I think you know if you can if you can let's let's not make it a kid

00:03:03.060 let's make it a dog if I can afford a dog then I get the dog why why should you why

00:03:07.800 should you get the kid if you can't afford it and it's like it's like it's

00:03:11.820 almost like it's almost like it's almost like punishing men for doing the right

00:03:16.380 thing they're supposed to work they're doing the right thing and now we're

00:03:19.020 punishing them and saying no you can't have the kid because you're working but a 0.70

00:03:21.900 kid needs more than just money that's the point right you need to be it's the

00:03:25.080 caring well okay okay well then if we're gonna put the kid first then the dad

00:03:29.220 should definitely get it because single father homes produce better children

00:03:33.180 than single mother homes thank you you want to know why that is right because 0.98

00:03:36.780 the men that don't take it on have the capabilities to be that I mean I mean

00:03:40.200 that's the reason they're usually really rich that's the reason that the left

00:03:43.320 gives but you just said it's not about money and now you're saying it's money

00:03:46.200 because if you already have the money then you don't have to work you have the time

00:03:49.920 so that's not true there's good rich parents there's good poor parents

00:03:56.460 I think she likes to conflict a lot of things I don't think most of the

00:04:00.240 fathers that raise their kids on their own are rich I actually think is the

00:04:03.520 opposite because more time more often than not if if a man is rich he can have

00:04:10.800 the mother take care of the kid the mother doesn't have to work he doesn't 0.99

00:04:13.140 have to be with her that's what would usually happen being a man knowing a lot

00:04:17.460 of men are in that situation I know that's what usually happen most of the men

00:04:20.520 that raise kids on their own are struggling so it's like if we my whole

00:04:33.960 point is it's not equal so it's like okay if we if if the feminists the left 1.00

00:04:37.680 whatever want abortion to be legal then then why then then let the men not be 1.00

00:04:42.360 fathers too the thing is like I'm so I'm not too sure like honestly I'm not I'd

00:04:46.600 really like to know the type of men that you're speaking about because the women

00:04:50.560 that I know of whether I know of them personally they're single mothers like

00:04:56.800 they're begging their father they're begging their baby father for money

00:05:00.760 towards like summer camp for the kids because these dads think that they're

00:05:05.620 the mother's whole life should revolve around the children when he does the 0.97

00:05:10.120 bare minimum like I said before why can't she have a life it's like why did she 1.00

00:05:15.160 open her legs for him my thing is women have all the choice when it comes to sex 1.00

00:05:19.300 it is not hard for us to get sex but this is why every most every every half 0.99

00:05:23.160 attractive chick has five dudes in her friend zone that she can date can I can 1.00

00:05:27.280 I ask can I ask what's your opinion on grape then like if it's not in the

00:05:32.100 women's control what's what do you then think grape grape is a bit irritating 1.00

00:05:37.220 people always bring this up and it because it's less than 0.5 percent of

00:05:40.500 abortion but it does so you're right I'll tell you my okay but I'm saying if you 0.99

00:05:45.020 know it it's frustrating because it's like okay if we give you grape will you

00:05:49.160 guys get rid of the ninety nine point five percent of abortions and I know the 1.00

00:05:53.340 answer to that is no so I just think people do that as a way to discredit the

00:05:57.300 right but no great I would have no exceptions no what what what your guys use on

00:06:06.700 say a girl says that she's on contraception but then and then the guy

00:06:14.980 doesn't use a condom oh wait actually no sorry did use a condom and they go 1.00

00:06:22.580 holes huh poke holes in it is that what you're gonna turkey based off

00:06:29.700 wait so basically does a pregnancy yes okay are you gonna so what what is so for

00:06:36.380 the dad who is now a dad and he didn't want to be a dad and he asked and made

00:06:41.880 sure are you on contraception yes okay and they still put on condom on and she's 0.93

00:06:49.160 poked holes or turkey based good you know that kind of thing what and and and as

00:06:57.400 people say trapped the the dad and then he is not a great dad wait but then she

00:07:06.620 trapped him I'm actually you know what I was thinking about I was thinking about

00:07:09.580 how they make laws where if a guy removes the condom without a woman's 1.00

00:07:13.300 consent that's considered great yet a woman lying to a man about birth control 1.00

00:07:18.160 is not great yes this is why this is so that's what I was that's serious if you

00:07:26.380 interfere with the condom it is a crime but it's what it isn't to prove but it

00:07:31.000 is you would agree that's a double standard right yeah that that isn't that

00:07:35.980 is a double standard 100% because if you're lying to someone yeah today but

00:07:40.540 they're both crimes no no but I'm asking would you say it's a double stand it's

00:07:44.060 not a crime for a woman to do that the birth control is not a crime lying about

00:07:48.140 birth control well yeah that that's not an unethical but you shouldn't just

00:07:52.840 blindly believe I mean you were the one criticizing do you think do you think

00:07:56.980 that's a double standard that's my question please no I think it's 1.00

00:07:59.660 stupidity on the men's part okay so this is the man's fault okay even if 0.99

00:08:03.560 they're dating them like this is a lot of times this happens to men that have 1.00

00:08:06.840 been well it's unethical it's unethical it's deceptive it's manipulative but you 0.63

00:08:12.580 probably shouldn't be dating someone like that right women like you shouldn't be 1.00

00:08:17.000 dating someone yeah people shouldn't date bad people yes or if you're saying it's

00:08:22.860 it's a crime if the guy if they got both crimes okay but you know I said one was a

00:08:28.460 crime one is that you said you kind of defended the other one you kind of give

00:08:33.140 the woman the out again but my point is if the guy's own is bad for taking of the 0.98

00:08:37.500 condom you said it can be proved if the woman interferes with the condom so how 0.67

00:08:41.340 does the woman prove that the guy took off the condom after the fact I think you 1.00

00:08:46.060 um well it is it's incredibly hard to prove but if there is semen inside the

00:08:50.780 woman then she can go get checked at the hospital that's not hard to prove there's a 1.00

00:08:54.540 condom and now there's not a condom no but no no it's hard to convict for sexual assault

00:08:59.940 in general so you can't prove it because when you're going to prove it you're not going to

00:09:03.360 be in the how did the condom get off you're not listening if she's going to have to go 1.00

00:09:07.860 and prove it then she has to bring evidence so how does that matter so if you imagine not

00:09:13.600 having sex with somebody and they've got you in say a particular position where you 0.76

00:09:18.320 can't see them for example they're not face to face now um you have now stopped 0.96

00:09:25.960 having sex you guys have intercourse so I don't even know if I can really yeah can 0.99

00:09:30.940 I say that yeah yeah so you guys are having you guys are finished doing what 0.98

00:09:34.580 you're doing and obviously he's released you've released climaxed or whatever you

00:09:39.360 realize he's not wearing a condom now there's only two things there's only two

00:09:43.800 ways that can go it's either the condom has slipped off inside of you or the

00:09:49.160 condom has come off and how's the condom gonna magically come off I'm not arguing with that

00:09:52.680 I know but I'm saying like if they've taken the condom off then that's the proof right there

00:09:56.840 she said that the guy won't be able to prove that the woman interfered with the

00:10:07.700 condom okay agreed I said it would be hard you kind of can though you can guys let

00:10:13.220 him finish let him finish okay it would be hard to prove that the woman interfered with

00:10:18.860 the condom I think it's equally as hard to prove that the man took off the condom

00:10:22.700 because how do you how do you prove to the law that okay this man took off the

00:10:27.480 condom because semen is not proof because there are people that have gotten

00:10:30.860 pregnant even when the condom was still on yeah so when a guy takes off a condom 1.00

00:10:35.060 and it's got semen inside of it if there was a hole in the condom wouldn't you 1.00

00:10:40.100 notice that it's like the semen's coming out of the condom when you see a hole 0.56

00:10:44.540 like it's seeping through or something wouldn't you notice that so when you're

00:10:47.900 putting a condom maybe maybe I can't okay I think that was just off the back

00:10:53.220 of what you've said I think I've just clocked that that would prove it so so

00:10:56.120 for example if she kept the condom as evidence and there was holes in the 0.73

00:11:02.120 condom in all honesty and maybe it was no there's no good no there's no good way to

00:11:07.020 prove it no there's no there's no there is you can prove it this is this is like

00:11:12.480 this is how in my opinion a lot of false accusations come because there's no

00:11:16.260 really good way to prove this stuff you can because well yeah but it's still

00:11:22.560 gonna be he said she said no no it's not consent no because if she's kept the

00:11:26.340 condom if she kept the condom and there's no holes in it let me play me 1.00

00:11:29.340 long how would they know it was consensual or not oh let me know I let you talk a lot

00:11:33.900 all right but I haven't landed though if the condom has got no holes or no

00:11:36.840 splits or nothing in it and she's pregnant it would surely show that the 1.00

00:11:41.060 condom had to have been physically removed if there was holes or gaps in

00:11:45.300 the condom then maybe but you still wouldn't know if she consented to it 1.00

00:11:50.020 being removed or not no you wouldn't exactly no you wouldn't I'm only going

00:11:53.580 off that's my point so it goes back of he said she said it's only two people in a

00:11:57.780 room unless there's cameras

JustPearlyThings - July 03, 2023

Men are Mostly PUNISHED in Modern Society

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