JustPearlyThings - July 17, 2023


Men NEED BULLYING

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
The Most Controversial Take On Grape These Modern Women CONFIRMS the TOXICITY of Feminism

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

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181.54

Word count

1,581

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Harmful content

Misogyny

6

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss accountability in the dating world, red flags, and red flags in relationships, and why women should be held accountable for the things they do and the things that they don t do. We also discuss why men should be accountable for what they do, and what they should do about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 say something to the effect of women should be held accountable and should hold themselves
00:00:03.720 accountable all the guys are like dimitri spitting the facts who brought the facts right the moment i
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00:00:13.820 no man like like a little bullying guys is not a bad thing because it helps you be better
00:00:19.080 like and you owe it to yourself to make promises to yourself that you keep and follow through on
00:00:25.220 so yes women should be more accountable obviously but as men we should be accountable too
00:00:29.720 yeah i i think though it's because the world will show men the truth where women will say lizzo's at
00:00:36.600 10 not you guys yeah but but but listen but but again i'm sorry if i'm taking air like you can cut
00:00:41.900 me off but like even yesterday like the you you asked me a question like should you know would
00:00:46.500 your daughter marry a bus driver i'm like hell no my daughter's not going to marry a bus driver it's 0.59
00:00:49.660 not going to happen like as her dad i work way too damn hard i live in a too nice neighborhood i sent 0.95
00:00:54.120 her to a freaking top like she goes to an elementary school that has the word college in it like when 0.99
00:00:59.580 you're doing that like i'm putting her you know i'm putting her in classrooms with like kids of 0.99
00:01:02.820 ambassadors and and kids of the guy that runs the stock market in our country is like that those
00:01:07.460 kind of kids right i'm doing it so she doesn't marry a bus driver and so the men go and they're 0.99
00:01:11.660 like oh you don't like middle class working men that run society i'm like no that's not what i'm
00:01:17.480 saying i'm saying is i don't want my daughter to marry a career bus driver because that is not the
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00:01:34.240 when you're 26 27 years old but if you're doing the same thing at 59 that you were 27 you're solving
00:01:40.100 the wrong problems right so that's where the accountability argument comes in is that there
00:01:44.140 there's a a problem that you solve but it has to be age appropriate what do you think red flag
00:01:50.980 first date um a woman that's like um always talking about her ex does that happen before 0.57
00:01:58.400 on a first date when you get to know them and they talk about their ex about if the ex is in
00:02:05.300 their life or not if i have a kid or and they're talking about their ex and saying how they how they
00:02:11.180 broke up and things like that yeah well you ghost or or will you send them a text and be like stop
00:02:17.360 talking about the ex goodbye forever i feel like for men it's not even ghosting though because if
00:02:23.780 you don't reach out they're not even gonna you know i mean it's not like ghosting it's like you're
00:02:27.560 just kind of choosing to end the dialogue really yeah women will never reach out rare it's rare 1.00
00:02:34.740 they have to be bold oh yeah do you know guys sorry about this but real quick do you know what
00:02:39.620 happens when you don't go so you probably experience this when you're like hey listen you're really cool
00:02:42.800 but i see that you have some feelings and you're trying to escalate the relationship i just want to let
00:02:46.280 you know that this is not going to be a serious relationship for me and you have to deal with it
00:02:49.320 she just gets more attracted to you and then she just like it's like what are you doing i literally
00:02:53.660 just told you who i am why have you found that to be true too if you guys like put a girl in the
00:02:59.820 the friends with benefits though and she wants you more yes yes and if you find that if you try to
00:03:07.220 commit to her she wants you less yes yes
00:03:10.420 yeah what do you guys have to say about that why do we do that
00:03:16.320 do you guys do you guys find that you guys want guys you can't have it's that it's interesting
00:03:23.080 because that why why don't you want me that i want that why don't you want to know why you want
00:03:27.560 to know why they don't want you yeah because yeah what if they said like you're annoying
00:03:32.460 what can i say would you would you would you then stop chasing
00:03:42.500 uh me personally i was i'll ask them why how no no what i'm saying they say you're annoying then
00:03:50.620 what it's the end of the conversation i'll stop but i just want to know why do you think i'm annoying
00:03:57.420 i dig too deep that's why uh what made oh i have a question for you you're engaged right
00:04:08.680 what made your fiance different than guys you dated in the past um he doesn't he doesn't go out
00:04:16.540 we're we're two completely different people so he doesn't go out but i go out a lot
00:04:22.400 as in raven clubbing yeah wow and that then dynamics are crazy yeah i like i'm so i'm a sociable
00:04:30.400 person i've always been at that i like to socialize um as i said i'm a girl's girl so yeah i i'm out a lot
00:04:38.400 yes he doesn't like that so i try to minimize it but um i just don't think i could be with someone
00:04:46.300 that is also outside as well like you have a lot of double standards yeah that's crazy that's crazy
00:04:52.820 it wouldn't work i know that it wouldn't work it would be a very why wouldn't you want him to go
00:04:57.240 out um i just i just feel like any guys that i kind of meet outside or in a party environment
00:05:06.900 like just looking at them and how they carry themselves and how they're moving how they're
00:05:12.440 approaching to females what they're doing just doesn't appeal to me okay can i ask a question 0.94
00:05:18.140 so how do you move when you're out you may no no oh yeah was that like so so what if it's to
00:05:26.020 meet somebody that's reserved yeah move the same way that you do out in a club wouldn't it be the
00:05:31.520 exact same yeah okay so um if i met somebody that's out at the back you know keep themselves to
00:05:38.220 themselves then yeah i could i would think about it like i would i would it would be an option to
00:05:45.100 speak like i would oh yeah i would talk to you or i would get to try and get to know you but my
00:05:49.880 preference is okay i like a guy that's so what would you do if your current boyfriend says he wants you
00:05:57.520 to stop going out and i'm asking that because if he's watching i'm giving him ideas
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00:06:10.300 like we have a lot that's we don't argue a lot but most of the arguments are about you know
00:06:19.740 you're going out too much but when you met me i was going out too much yes i understand that in
00:06:26.820 relationships you should change certain things you know like if your partner doesn't agree on
00:06:32.820 certain things you should work and work around it and compromise which i have and i've actually
00:06:37.820 don't go out as much as i used to i would say i go out probably
00:06:42.220 a lot you i was yeah how would you how would you feel if your boyfriend went out
00:06:52.940 to a party where every single girl he met wanted to sleep with him
00:06:56.860 then that yeah that would that's crazy that would hurt me but i remember earlier when we said men will 0.99
00:07:08.300 fuck have it anything gotcha 0.98
00:07:11.980 it's true yeah i can't say anything about that but yeah he um yeah he he doesn't go out um he 0.99
00:07:21.760 doesn't his phone barely rings like he goes to work he's an electrician so he goes to work he comes
00:07:27.460 home we have a daughter together as well and he's a good man he sounds very safe yeah he's like i have
00:07:34.380 i've never had any problems like his phone doesn't even have a password like it's not what do you
00:07:39.960 think the role of a wife is um a role of a wife um i would say to look after the household
00:07:49.100 and obviously to raise the children in the right way and to cater to your man like to cater to him
00:07:59.100 make sure his um work clothes are washed make sure his he's got hot meal on his um on the table when
00:08:06.100 he comes home from work but i wouldn't say that sorry that is what i think yeah i yeah i don't do that
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