JustPearlyThings - Men's thoughts on independent women

00:00:00.000 So, what do you guys think of women that say never settle?

00:00:09.660 You know, I want to hear from the guys first.

00:00:12.000 That means that men have settled.

00:00:13.520 Zuby, why don't you start?

00:00:14.700 I'll start, yeah.

00:00:15.740 They're going to end up very lonely for a long time.

00:00:20.160 It's not realistic.

00:00:21.580 Look, the truth is, everyone, there's always some degree of settling.

00:00:27.900 It's a little bit of a weird term.

00:00:30.000 Like, I know what people mean when they say never settle.

00:00:32.840 But if you were to take that literally, nobody is perfect.

00:00:36.620 You're not going to find anyone who takes absolutely every single box and never annoys you and doesn't have little habits and quirks and personality traits that bother you at times.

00:00:48.980 That's just the reality.

00:00:49.640 We have this with our own friendships.

00:00:51.160 We have this with our own families, right?

00:00:52.640 I think it's good not to settle on your non-negotiables, right?

00:01:00.880 If you've got certain deal breakers or there are certain red flags and I don't recommend settling on a massive red flag or something that just is not going to work.

00:01:09.580 But when it comes to the smaller minor stuff, if someone still has that never settle mentality, then you're not going to be happy with anybody in any relationship for a long period of time because they're always going to do certain things that annoy you.

00:01:22.260 And there's going to be stuff you're not totally happy about.

00:01:25.360 So, yeah.

00:01:26.380 It's like a polite way of saying die alone.

00:01:29.680 Yeah.

00:01:30.620 Or with cats.

00:01:31.680 You know, there's cats.

00:01:32.940 There's cats, sometimes dogs, but cats seem to be the preferred.

00:01:38.360 Nowadays, you've got only fans as well.

00:01:39.760 Don't forget that.

00:01:41.180 Yeah.

00:01:41.620 That's only going to work for a couple of years as well.

00:01:44.200 You'd better be young and you'd better be hot. 0.90

00:01:47.440 Okay.

00:01:48.520 Bruh, invest in cat food, bruh.

00:01:52.400 There's stocks in Petco, all of that, bruh, because at the end of the day, all this never settle and all of this.

00:01:57.980 Like, bruh, you're just going to be old, on your own, drinking wine, yeah, like eating ice cream.

00:02:03.600 And, bruh, like you're going to lose, bro.

00:02:06.680 Simple.

00:02:07.260 Like, all these girls need to understand because it's like what I said earlier, yeah.

00:02:10.700 A lot of these girls get older, they collect baggage, and they think their value goes up or it stays the same. 1.00

00:02:15.260 No, it don't.

00:02:16.100 As you get older, yeah, the guys on your level, especially if you make a lot of money because of hypergamy, you're going to want to date up.

00:02:23.040 A lot of them guys on your level or higher are going to want younger women, bruh. 0.73

00:02:26.620 Yeah, so understand this thing.

00:02:28.940 Like, bruh, like all this never settle thing, everybody settles, bruh.

00:02:32.400 And it's the same for guys as well. 1.00

00:02:34.300 Like, you might be a guy that, oh, yeah, I just want to get with big tits and a big bum, bruh. 1.00

00:02:38.320 Like, and then down the line, you see them with a girl that's flat. 1.00

00:02:41.340 You know what I'm saying?

00:02:42.000 Like, pancakes and fried eggs.

00:02:44.260 Like, that's like, bruh.

00:02:45.780 Like, no, but it's real, though.

00:02:46.860 Like, even some certain times you see rappers, like you see rappers, you look at their wife, and you think, bruh, like, you're a rapper, you're whoever.

00:02:54.300 And then your wife is, like, kind of playing because he's settled. 0.98

00:02:57.840 And, bruh, like Bill Gates, like, all these kind of people, Mark Zuckerberg, you see their girlfriends, they're not bad bitches like that. 1.00

00:03:04.700 Do you get what I'm saying? 0.88

00:03:05.300 So everybody settles.

00:03:06.500 But the problem is, with a lot of these girls who make bare money and all of this, I'm not going to settle until I get this guy that makes six figures a year and, or six figures a month. 1.00

00:03:15.360 Yeah, bruh, like, I'm sorry, it don't go like that. 0.97

00:03:17.540 And there's always new 18-year-olds that come out every fucking year, bro. 0.99

00:03:21.460 So stop chatting shit, or you can be on your own. 1.00

00:03:25.240 And, yeah, as I said, invest in pet food, bruh. 0.99

00:03:28.000 Pet stocks, get me, they're going up still.

00:03:30.280 Do you know what it is, yeah, some women build up a delusional mindset because they spend a lot of their time banging the 1% of guys that will bang them anyway because that's what guys do. 1.00

00:03:43.280 Pump and dump, it's called pump and dump, my bro.

00:03:45.340 And then they think because they're banging with these guys in the top 1% that they should be able to settle with someone else.

00:03:51.680 I have a question for the guys.

00:03:53.160 Have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with?

00:03:57.020 Absolutely.

00:03:57.940 All day, all day. 0.95

00:03:59.880 Any guy that's denies is a liar. 0.99

00:04:02.080 Any guy that's denies is a liar. 0.63

00:04:04.280 Every guy's like a good stuff.

00:04:04.880 Okay, I have another, I have a follow-up question.

00:04:06.880 Have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with?

00:04:10.160 Every guy has.

00:04:10.640 Multiple times.

00:04:11.500 Yes.

00:04:13.100 Every guy has.

00:04:13.940 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:04:15.660 Do that, do that, do that.

00:04:17.660 Mostly.

00:04:18.360 You know what it is, because what women don't understand here that for men, it's just a nut. 1.00

00:04:22.300 Fuck. 1.00

00:04:22.440 Have you ever had a long-term situationship with a girl you would never be seen in public with? 1.00

00:04:25.760 A girl you would never be seen in public with?

00:04:27.480 Yes.

00:04:27.680 Do you know why they maintain?

00:04:31.620 Because they stay in that lane, like, you don't want to be seen with them, and they just

00:04:38.480 come to the crib and kick. 1.00

00:04:40.040 They just, they're just happy.

00:04:41.260 They can go in for as long as they want to go in my body.

00:04:43.960 Happy to be around high energy.

00:04:45.780 They're happy to be around high energy.

00:04:47.960 They're happy to be around high energy.

00:04:49.680 Exactly.

00:04:50.680 So they're thinking, I'm not going to get a guy like this in my life. 0.99

00:04:51.680 I'm going to stay around him and smash him.

00:04:52.680 I'm happy to be around him. 0.98

00:04:53.680 That's good.

00:04:54.680 And us men, like you just said.

00:04:55.680 Because the people they normally deal with are not on the same energy.

00:04:56.680 They're not on the level.

00:04:57.680 As a man, you want to bust your nut and go.

00:04:58.680 Listen.

00:04:59.680 Facts.

00:05:00.680 It's a certain thing.

00:05:01.680 And this is an odd term. 0.99

00:05:02.680 It's called a human jerk off. 0.99

00:05:03.680 Don't worry. 1.00

00:05:04.680 The man's a big person like that. 0.99

00:05:05.680 Sometimes you don't want to masturbate. 0.99

00:05:07.680 It's a lot. 0.95

00:05:08.680 Listen, I said this to my friend today.

00:05:10.680 I was like, you've been, you've been, no, I'm not.

00:05:13.680 I'm not.

00:05:14.680 I'm not.

00:05:15.680 I'm not.

00:05:16.680 I'm not.

00:05:17.680 I'm not.

00:05:18.680 I'm not.

00:05:19.680 I'm not.

00:05:20.680 I'm not.

00:05:21.680 I'm not.

00:05:22.680 I'm not.

00:05:23.680 I'm not.

00:05:24.680 I'm not.

00:05:25.680 I'm not.

00:05:26.680 I'm not.

00:05:27.680 I'm not.

00:05:28.680 I'm not.

00:05:29.680 I'm not.

00:05:30.680 I'm not.

00:05:31.680 Maybe. 0.60

00:05:32.680 But you've been in a situation where you've been done having sex and you go to the bathroom

00:05:36.680 and you look at yourself in the mirror and you go, I'm not coming back here. 1.00

00:05:40.680 I'm not going to fuck her again. 1.00

00:05:42.680 What is wrong with you? 1.00

00:05:44.680 You know the worst when you're watching the PKC?

00:05:46.680 You know the worst when you're watching the PKC?

00:05:47.680 What is wrong?

00:05:49.680 Why am I doing this?

00:05:51.680 And then you find yourself back there on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.

00:05:55.680 Hey, hey, hey.

00:05:56.680 Because they wasn't answering the phone and they told you to wait for something.

00:06:00.680 You got to wait for me.

00:06:01.680 You got to wait for this.

00:06:02.680 You got to wait. 1.00

00:06:03.680 I'm going to fuck this fat bitch. 1.00

00:06:04.680 Right now. 1.00

00:06:05.680 Say that in the mic.

00:06:06.680 Say that in the mic.

00:06:07.680 You got it.

00:06:08.680 You say, oh, you got to wait.

00:06:09.680 You got to wait.

00:06:10.680 I'm waiting.

00:06:11.680 We're going to go on a couple more dates.

00:06:12.680 Cool. 1.00

00:06:13.680 I'm going to fuck this fat bitch. 1.00

00:06:14.680 And then you get your dick in somebody's sink like an asshole. 1.00

00:06:18.680 And you're just washing yourself. 1.00

00:06:20.680 Like, why am I?

00:06:21.680 And you talking, you know what I'm talking about.

00:06:23.680 You're having this prep talk like, I'm not going to do this no more.

00:06:27.680 My guy.

00:06:28.680 My guy.

00:06:29.680 Respect yourself.

00:06:30.680 And then you get back again.

00:06:31.680 There's a term for this.

00:06:33.680 It's called CLS.

00:06:35.680 Consequential Loan of Standards.

00:06:37.680 We have, I call it PNC.

00:06:41.680 I call it PNC.

00:06:42.680 Pulse Nut Clarity.

00:06:43.680 Ah, yeah, yeah.

00:06:45.680 Forget the one where you're looking in the mirror. 0.97

00:06:48.680 Nigga, go ahead. 1.00

00:06:49.680 Forget the one where you're looking in the mirror.

00:06:50.680 You know how the one like, bro, you've done your deed and that.

00:06:52.680 But bro, you've gone to the edge of the bed and you just put your hand in your head and you think, oh.

00:06:56.680 Yes.

00:06:57.680 Do it.

00:06:58.680 Do it.

00:06:59.680 Do it.

00:07:00.680 Do it.

00:07:01.680 Do it.

00:07:02.680 You're doing your thing.

00:07:03.680 You're like, what am I doing?

00:07:05.680 Why am I here?

00:07:07.680 Help.

00:07:08.680 Help.

00:07:09.680 Somebody help.

00:07:10.680 I need help.

00:07:11.680 I need Jesus.

00:07:12.680 This is a point though.

00:07:13.680 You guys need to stop settling, dude.

00:07:14.680 It definitely sounds like you're on your standard.

00:07:16.680 Wait, wait.

00:07:17.680 Stop settling.

00:07:18.680 Can I say something on the costume after?

00:07:20.680 Wait, hold on, hold on.

00:07:21.680 What'd you say?

00:07:22.680 You guys need to stop settling.

00:07:24.680 Stop settling.

00:07:25.680 Wait, how old are you?

00:07:26.680 27.

00:07:27.680 27.

00:07:28.680 That's why.

00:07:29.680 When I was 27, I was like, if you think I'm about to settle for you, do you see how fine I am?

00:07:34.680 Absolutely not.

00:07:35.680 As soon as I hit 30, I was like, who want it?

00:07:36.680 Who?

00:07:37.680 Where?

00:07:38.680 I'm tired.

00:07:39.680 I don't have time to be doing this.

00:07:41.680 So your standards went lower as you go.

00:07:44.680 Oh my god.

00:07:45.680 Absolutely my standards went lower.

00:07:46.680 I was like, I'm trying to come.

00:07:47.680 I don't have time for this.

00:07:48.680 I don't have time to know your name.

00:07:49.680 What is your name?

00:07:50.680 Stop telling me your name.

00:07:51.680 Let's go, dude.

00:07:52.680 Facts.

00:07:53.680 Facts.

00:07:54.680 Facts.

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00:08:03.680 Facts.

00:08:05.680 Facts. 0.94

00:08:06.680 ikk-iyegy to die's a lot sooner. 1.00

00:08:07.680 Well, I was like, I don't have to get this in.

00:08:08.680 I don't have time to be doing this.

00:08:11.680 I have to do it.

00:08:12.680 I have to hurry up and get these nuts in, because I'm about to die any day now.

00:08:15.680 This is police or somebody.

00:08:16.680 No, but to be serious, it is a very serious thing where as a guy, I always say I wish there

00:08:24.680 was an invention that allowed men and women to switch bodies for like 24 hours and you 0.57

00:08:29.880 could understand like the difference but my penis doesn't but you say that's what I mean so you say

00:08:37.760 self-control because you don't know each other's biology and you're right there is self-control 0.96

00:08:44.760 but it's to a limit can I tell you a secret you can't compare yourself to a man and a man can't

00:08:50.060 compare yourself with that number one girls also do that but on a more superficial level they just 1.00

00:09:13.360 use the man that is just somebody that is definitely not my level but I'm bored and I need lunch so we'll

00:09:17.920 do that so that goes on both ways and then let me tell you something about that as a man if you can

00:09:22.780 practice sexual discipline I feel like that's one of the most attractive things you can ever ever do

00:09:27.760 a woman will look at you differently and that happened to me I actually I moved to a guy for 0.94

00:09:33.280 the first time ever because he has sexual discipline and I thought you're special because that means that

00:09:38.500 you are not one of them weak ones that you know the mind works your body you you you why is it weak

00:09:47.740 to you he's weak because if you are with a woman and you can't keep it in your pants because you 0.97

00:09:51.820 see somebody with a big batty or big you said that guy was this um had sexual discipline um yeah 0.98

00:09:57.700 which means that when he's in a relationship and even the girl comes to tempting he says no devil I 1.00

00:10:02.140 won't kiss you tonight what about your sexual discipline he's a liar you just said that you need a man 0.90

00:10:08.480 for that certain if you have met me already you know I'm a bit troublesome I know you're trouble I'm brave enough to go to that stage let them fail 0.91

00:10:18.440 like what you're so a man normally hits his prime right like in his thirties right 32 35 so if if you're

00:10:32.420 out here saying that your standards actually got lower when you're supposed to be in your because 0.74

00:10:36.800 you don't hit your prime at 32 35 you hit your prime in your 20s and you're a sexual marketplace

00:10:42.680 but what she's saying is very different and what you're saying I I agree with the control aspect I'm

00:10:53.720 gonna be honest with you I don't know how old you are but I'm gonna be very honest with you

00:10:58.620 is lying is very easy and if you say something like oh he's controlling himself I have to be very

00:11:05.760 I'm being I don't know you and I'm not trying I'm be honest I'm not trying to sleep with you so I'm

00:11:09.860 being honest with you um I know that sounds fucked up but I'm being I'm being 100% honest with you 0.54

00:11:15.760 there's a lot of way you guys do not hunt there's a lot of ways to hunt and there's a lot of ways to 0.94

00:11:24.020 get away with what you want to get away with if you want to get away with it and that's all we spend 0.97

00:11:28.720 our time doing now he's a very intelligent brother this motherfucker is very smart so he's not on the 0.99

00:11:34.260 same playing field as a lot of guys like he might have sexual discipline because he wants to write 0.98

00:11:38.960 and do other amazing things but the average brother that you run into guy or whoever you want

00:11:44.560 rappers rappers if they're telling you I'm going to have discipline and hold in myself and not have 0.99

00:11:53.560 sex with 40 Puerto Ricans trying to have sex with me all right you can listen you believe 1.00

00:11:58.260 what's the longest you've had a situationship with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with 1.00

00:12:09.540 like how long she's trying to get man in trouble 1.00

00:12:13.840 five months solid five months

00:12:18.660 they all look disgusted

00:12:24.120 maybe at max like a month

00:12:25.920 a month

00:12:26.460 not lying

00:12:27.020 no no what 0.92

00:12:28.240 no disrespect to it obviously everyone's different and shit but it's just like 0.98

00:12:32.960 what are you lying 0.94

00:12:33.920 you see I'm like I'm at a certain time with one person it's like you know what I'm saying

00:12:38.540 unless I love that person like that it's like yeah

00:12:41.160 you can see in his eyes

00:12:42.760 okay okay pass the mic pass the mic

00:12:45.100 one year 12 months

00:12:46.360 situations you're talking about I feel like they wouldn't graduate to a situationship

00:12:50.060 okay

00:12:50.500 they wouldn't even get to that stage

00:12:51.600 some of them be capping

00:12:55.740 she's a motive 0.99

00:12:57.080 I'll be real

00:12:57.720 I'll be real

00:12:58.300 I'm looking at you two I look in your eye and he flickered a little bit

00:13:02.900 a couple months

00:13:04.280 a couple months

00:13:05.160 what's it

00:13:08.200 not that long man

00:13:10.460 because if the girl's dead yeah

00:13:12.380 no honestly honestly honestly honestly

00:13:14.700 no I'm keeping it real

00:13:15.800 facts facts facts

00:13:16.700 if the girl's dead yeah

00:13:18.020 like my motivation is low fam like do you know what I mean 1.00

00:13:21.260 like if she says anything stupid 0.99

00:13:23.260 oh yeah what are we bruv 1.00

00:13:25.020 like bruv

00:13:25.900 no no no my guy my guy my guy my guy

00:13:27.940 my guy my guy my guy

00:13:30.480 it's on the tap

00:13:31.500 whenever you're ready it's there for you

00:13:33.400 exactly

00:13:33.980 that's the problem

00:13:35.320 that's why man lasted so long

00:13:37.160 it's just on the tap

00:13:37.880 yeah yeah

00:13:38.880 don't worry don't worry

00:13:39.460 I'm a man

00:13:39.880 I'm a man

00:13:40.880 I'll be real

00:13:41.680 I'm not judging you

00:13:42.560 I'm not judging you

00:13:45.880 but yeah like

00:13:47.200 guys don't have side combos

00:13:48.860 literally like one two smash like boom like

00:13:51.900 that's it bruv

00:13:52.780 like I'll tell you one little quick story

00:13:54.280 there was one girl

00:13:54.980 in uni like boom

00:13:56.780 like my bridging had a little linkage

00:13:58.700 bought a friend

00:13:59.580 the friend was a bit chubby

00:14:00.600 you know

00:14:01.220 not really

00:14:01.820 anyway

00:14:02.880 smashed her on the floor

00:14:04.140 in the kitchen

00:14:04.760 and then

00:14:06.440 no bed

00:14:07.200 nah

00:14:07.740 nah because it was uni in it

00:14:10.600 like it was just his room in it

00:14:12.120 like do you know what I'm saying

00:14:12.800 were you wearing shoes

00:14:13.660 were you wearing shoes when you did this

00:14:18.580 what was I wearing when I was smashing on the floor

00:14:20.680 was the floor clean

00:14:21.380 I hear these guys have to surprise like they don't got bad stories

00:14:24.700 they don't got bad stories

00:14:25.580 they don't got bad stories

00:14:27.320 anyway

00:14:29.200 trust me that's not even the worst story

00:14:32.880 but anyway boom

00:14:33.520 so smashing on the floor

00:14:35.200 yes my shoes was on bruv

00:14:36.460 yes bruv

00:14:37.200 so boom

00:14:38.640 in the kitchen

00:14:39.440 boom

00:14:39.820 what's it smashed in the toilet as well

00:14:41.640 and then like boom like

00:14:43.660 she was like messaging me

00:14:44.660 I was just like bruv 0.96

00:14:45.480 you're dead bruv 0.70

00:14:46.280 like 0.99

00:14:46.660 what am I gonna do

00:14:48.160 like bruv like

00:14:49.340 you're gonna bring my ratings down

00:14:51.200 like my status is gonna reduce significantly

00:14:53.800 so bruv like

00:14:54.720 I think if a girl's dead yeah 0.99

00:14:56.260 at most like a beat for that night

00:14:58.240 like one night special

00:14:59.400 and then really and truly

00:15:01.140 what are we gonna do after that

00:15:02.560 nothing in it

00:15:03.560 like maybe

00:15:04.160 maybe honestly probably three three smashes 1.00

00:15:07.500 and then after that like bro like you're gonna catch feelings or something stupid 0.97

00:15:10.960 but you would go back if she could for you though probably no 0.99

00:15:13.500 no

00:15:13.900 no

00:15:14.240 my guy what do you mean

00:15:15.240 what do you mean

00:15:15.840 the glock glock 3000 1.00

00:15:17.180 why don't you suck your toes 1.00

00:15:18.300 you suck my toes 1.00

00:15:19.780 that I don't do nothing 1.00

00:15:21.060 my guy my guy

00:15:21.860 the glock glock glock 3000 0.83

00:15:23.700 no no no you got a goat bro 0.51

00:15:26.340 it's a bit different

00:15:26.960 no but the thing is

00:15:27.640 you can't find that everywhere

00:15:28.920 no but listen listen

00:15:29.520 no disrespect I'm being wrong

00:15:31.260 no I hear you I hear you I hear you

00:15:32.640 but the thing is

00:15:33.400 while I'm smashing the dead thing

00:15:34.920 I'm still patterning other things

00:15:36.520 that I actually like

00:15:37.580 that makes sense

00:15:38.120 that makes sense

00:15:39.120 I've got projects bro

00:15:40.120 you know what I'm saying

00:15:41.120 you can say investments

00:15:43.120 yeah yeah yeah yeah

00:15:44.120 investment projects

00:15:45.120 whatever you wanna save bruv

00:15:46.120 like get me forest

00:15:47.120 and it's not like man selling dreams to these girls saying like yo he's adapting

00:15:49.120 it's not adapting

00:15:50.120 it's just like yeah follow me to the kitchen

00:15:52.120 you eyes

00:15:53.120 I'm gonna flip off

00:15:54.120 Eva's like I want to

00:15:55.960 did she ever

00:15:57.120 ask a question did she ever like graduate into a bedroom or that nah

00:16:00.120 nah just toilet in the kitchen

00:16:02.120 how old were you

00:16:03.120 how old were you

00:16:04.120 so how old were you

00:16:05.120 well when I did that

00:16:06.120 yeah uh 22

00:16:07.120 how old were you now

00:16:08.120 oh classified

00:16:09.120 oh classified

00:16:10.120 I know how old is now

00:16:11.120 okay now

00:16:12.120 now let's talk

00:16:13.120 let's talk

00:16:14.120 let's talk to the

00:16:15.120 let's talk to the women 1.00

00:16:16.120 okay so questions

00:16:19.120 I have two questions

00:16:20.120 so I'm gonna ask both at the same time

00:16:21.120 okay the first

00:16:22.120 have you ever

00:16:23.120 gone on a date with a guy

00:16:24.120 that you did not find attractive

00:16:26.120 yeah

00:16:27.120 because you wanted a free meal

00:16:28.120 yeah

00:16:29.120 and the second one

00:16:30.120 is have you ever had a friend

00:16:31.120 that was

00:16:32.120 the whale

00:16:33.120 in this situation

00:16:34.120 that they're all describing

00:16:35.120 and did you tell her the truth

00:16:37.120 about what was going on

00:16:38.120 okay

00:16:39.120 uh first question

00:16:40.120 um

00:16:41.120 I may have been out with a guy

00:16:42.120 that I didn't find attractive initially

00:16:44.120 but it wasn't for the meal

00:16:45.120 um

00:16:46.120 basically

00:16:47.120 I

00:16:48.120 I think that like looks aren't everything

00:16:50.120 in a relationship

00:16:51.120 if

00:16:52.120 if someone has personality integrity

00:16:53.120 like

00:16:54.120 has a brain

00:16:55.120 then

00:16:56.120 that could take you places

00:16:57.120 you don't necessarily have to look like a hundred million dollars

00:17:00.120 for me to kind of like

00:17:01.120 there's other

00:17:02.120 there's other factors

00:17:03.120 other ingredients

00:17:04.120 that would make

00:17:05.120 a man

00:17:06.120 my type

00:17:07.120 um

00:17:08.120 in terms of

00:17:09.120 the second question

00:17:10.120 um

00:17:11.120 I'd say no

00:17:12.120 because all my girls are paying 1.00

00:17:13.120 like nah

00:17:14.120 there's never been a situation

00:17:15.120 we've never been a situation

00:17:16.120 we've never been a situation

00:17:17.120 that's my best friend

00:17:18.120 wait wait wait

00:17:19.120 all your girls are paying 1.00

00:17:20.120 paying

00:17:21.120 beautiful

00:17:22.120 all my friends are paying

00:17:23.120 oh is that

00:17:24.120 okay

00:17:25.120 that's

00:17:26.120 that's

00:17:27.120 that's

00:17:28.120 oh

00:17:29.120 oh

00:17:30.120 i'm with the slang now

00:17:32.120 okay 0.98

00:17:33.120 there's always the ugly one in the group 0.99

00:17:35.120 yeah 0.99

00:17:36.120 like

00:17:37.120 yeah but i mean

00:17:38.120 your friend can be pretty but she could still punch out of her league 1.00

00:17:40.120 yeah exactly

00:17:41.120 like

00:17:42.120 like she could be a solid seven punching a ten 0.97

00:17:44.120 but my girls are smarter than that 1.00

00:17:45.120 they would never put themselves in a situation where like they're just kind of like

00:17:48.120 okay

00:17:49.120 a hole

00:17:50.120 i'm sorry

00:17:51.120 like nah

00:17:52.120 i disagree

00:17:53.120 i disagree

00:17:54.120 i've i've gone out with a guy yeah just for a mil

00:17:57.120 i mean the guy i knew what his intentions were but for me it was never going past friendship

00:18:04.120 because i wasn't attracted to him and you just didn't tickle my fancy i mean you were short

00:18:10.120 you was like nearly just a bit taller than me

00:18:12.120 don't hit on the shankings now 0.95

00:18:14.120 i'm sorry

00:18:15.120 hey hey

00:18:16.120 hey hey

00:18:17.120 hey hey

00:18:18.120 hey hey

00:18:19.120 if i'm wearing heels and i'm and i'm like a skyscraper over you

00:18:22.120 how tall are you

00:18:23.120 how tall are you

00:18:24.120 i'm five foot two

00:18:25.120 you're five foot two 1.00

00:18:26.120 oh shit 0.99

00:18:27.120 maximum you're gonna be five foot five yeah 0.99

00:18:29.120 max

00:18:30.120 is that guy taller than you in heels though

00:18:32.120 no

00:18:33.120 how tall was round about

00:18:34.120 i don't know how tall he was but he was short

00:18:36.120 and yeah i went out for a meal i was like do you know what he was a persistent guy as well

00:18:41.120 he kept on like responding to my stories and stuff like that so i was like do you know what

00:18:45.120 that's it

00:18:46.120 we'll go for life

00:18:47.120 we'll go for life

00:18:48.120 it's really easy to swipe up

00:18:51.120 so you thought yeah

00:18:52.120 that's persistent

00:18:53.120 you thought yeah let me use man for a free meal because i just want to eat

00:18:57.120 yeah after work

00:18:58.120 that's deep fair enough

00:18:59.120 it gets like that

00:19:00.120 it gets like that

00:19:01.120 it gets like that

00:19:02.120 fair enough though

00:19:03.120 i don't think that's fair enough

00:19:04.120 it wasn't

00:19:05.120 you had to learn

00:19:06.120 you had to learn

00:19:07.120 can i can i land

00:19:08.120 can i land

00:19:09.120 guys guys one at a time

00:19:10.120 go

00:19:11.120 it wasn't a waste of time because for me like i said i never saw it past anything being a friendship

00:19:16.120 you're a cool guy but me and you will never ever be like that

00:19:19.120 did you express that to him like we are not going anywhere past a friendship yeah we can go out and eat

00:19:24.120 no i didn't but so what

00:19:25.120 so so basically you let him believe that okay boom there's an opportunity there's a chance but in your head you know there is no chance bruv like you're not going anywhere with me

00:19:35.120 yeah

00:19:36.120 yeah i didn't

00:19:37.120 so basically you used him

00:19:38.120 yeah i did

00:19:39.120 oh

00:19:40.120 okay

00:19:41.120 sorry

00:19:42.120 i like the honesty

00:19:43.120 i'm not i'm not gonna lie

00:19:44.120 yes hello

00:19:45.120 can we admit that like this dating thing is transactional because the man will take you on loads of dates these fancy restaurants to smash you

00:19:52.120 and this is why i say like as a man you have to set your standards like some guys in the beginning they'll take them to the shard

00:19:59.120 yeah

00:20:00.120 you can't you can't blame a woman after that to be expecting fancy wine and dining and stuff like that you've got a you've got a you know feel it out first build it up a bit a bit a bit a bit and then see if she's actually you know worth this

00:20:12.120 you know what it is yeah sorry sorry to cut you off my guy a lot of men are simps innit

00:20:16.120 they they see bum breast and face and they lose themselves innit

00:20:19.120 a lot of men forget that what a woman's personality is like will make me take her to the shard 1.00

00:20:24.120 i personally i don't take girls on dates unless i know they're serious on my girlfriend level 0.97

00:20:28.120 but these simps they see your pretty face your bum your breast whatever it is i don't know what it is 0.99

00:20:32.120 and i'm not saying that you ain't got it but i'm trying to say men in general 0.98

00:20:35.120 and they'll take you to these places to try to have a transactional experience and try to smash you

00:20:39.120 yeah and now for you you're looking at the experience in itself in general right

00:20:42.120 yeah so even though you don't rate him you don't seem any potential you're saying it's just a three mil right

00:20:47.120 yeah so i think it's a fair game i don't know lads what are you saying

00:20:49.120 can i ask you a question though can i ask you a question did you see that guy ever again after that

00:20:57.120 um no wait wait wait wait wait wait no no no let me learn i did i don't want to bait out how i saw him

00:21:07.120 but he basically came and gave me like a birthday present after that but i never saw him after that

00:21:12.120 so basically he bought you food you enjoyed it you went home no kiss no hug no nothing or maybe the church hug

00:21:19.120 or maybe the church hug did he did he get a side hug at least i don't even remember

00:21:23.120 i don't even remember that's how that's how memorable it was i don't even remember

00:21:29.120 guys guys guys guys guys i probably did you probably okay okay okay but yeah anyway so what was the question again

00:21:38.120 um the first one was have you ever taken a date from a guy you don't find attractive and the second one

00:21:44.120 was has your friend ever been in a situation that they were describing anyway did you tell her oh

00:21:50.120 yeah i also wanted to mention as well based upon what you said because you said you don't go out with

00:21:55.120 guys you go out with guys based on their personality but the first thing you see of a guy with anybody

00:22:01.120 is their looks yeah so the looks is what's going to attract you your personality comes along with it

00:22:05.120 after and that develops and stuff yeah so you wouldn't talk to a guy that does it is not aesthetically

00:22:10.120 pleasing to you and you wouldn't know that he's a good guy if if he wasn't aesthetically pleasing to you

00:22:16.120 god bless you god bless you just because he's aesthetically pleasing doesn't make him a good guy

00:22:20.120 yeah but that's the start though no but listen listen that's the start that's the start

00:22:24.120 why am i missing my mic oh no they're okay why why would you accept a date with a guy you don't find attractive

00:22:29.120 yeah maybe because because because to me it's like if you don't find him attractive in the beginning that's what you're supposed to like

00:22:35.120 maybe i found him attractive based on our conversation that we had maybe i found him attractive based on his warmth

00:22:41.120 you wouldn't give him the time of day based on yeah he's a warm person

00:22:44.120 how do you think ugly people get painting sometimes so they're not always a warm person

00:22:48.120 he's got because at first you're ugly you got money whatever cool so then we talked to you 0.64

00:22:52.120 and then no i'm just talking about less because more time when you see pretty girls with ugly guys they've got money 1.00

00:22:58.120 they've got something something of value to them right so obviously right right now let's talk about money

00:23:03.120 because more time that's what girls go for right and then when you start going out with him over time 1.00

00:23:08.120 you start thinking oh do you know what he's actually all right like he's got some substance to him

00:23:12.120 he can hold conversations

00:23:14.120 and then wrong this one castillo 2.0

00:23:20.120 don't do that don't do that don't do that don't do that

00:23:23.120 all right brav

00:23:25.120 and as for the whale question there's always an ugly person an ugly girl in the group no matter how pretty the group is 1.00

00:23:31.120 there's always an ugly girl have i ever told my whale friends maybe not and maybe i should but at the same time 0.93

00:23:38.120 those friends deal within their league they know they're not the best so they go for like ugly guys 0.82

00:23:44.120 sorry sorry

00:23:46.120 so women always try date up they never date down never 1.00

00:23:48.120 no no no no no

00:24:02.120 tell me something tam Collette what young women need to do if i was a man and i'm talking about woman on a date

00:24:06.120 and fed her

00:24:08.180 I spent my hard earned money

00:24:10.060 and not even get the potential

00:24:13.120 of a relationship at the end of it

00:24:14.320 I'm going to be totally pissed off

00:24:15.660 because that's like false advertising

00:24:18.820 I think that when you go on dates

00:24:20.940 from the time you accept

00:24:22.540 or you say excuse me

00:24:23.980 but I'm only dating with the attention

00:24:25.980 of having a relationship

00:24:28.640 that's why I'm dating

00:24:30.240 like to vet people

00:24:31.860 but if you know that instantly

00:24:34.260 you're not attracted to him

00:24:36.120 do him a favour

00:24:37.200 just say no

00:24:38.360 say no sorry

00:24:39.820 I don't see you like that

00:24:41.220 I just see you as a friend

00:24:42.920 because otherwise you're just building him up

00:24:45.280 to fail him

00:24:45.980 and most of the time 1.00

00:24:47.460 it's all the ugly men 0.92

00:24:49.020 they're the most loyal ones out there 0.99

00:24:50.860 and then when the women 1.00

00:24:53.180 treat them like this

00:24:54.160 they just get in themselves

00:24:57.220 and those are the ones that will go at home 0.98

00:24:59.040 and watch porn 1.00

00:25:01.360 and jerk off 1.00

00:25:03.200 and then get fed up with women 1.00

00:25:05.260 because of how women treat them 1.00

00:25:07.440 and I listened to all these men earlier

00:25:10.700 that's why I was so quiet

00:25:11.940 listening to you about your box

00:25:14.900 you know the box

00:25:15.780 I'm learning all these new things

00:25:18.020 there was another one

00:25:21.320 but I can't remember

00:25:22.780 but the women 1.00

00:25:25.680 I know there's loads of women 1.00

00:25:26.900 listening to this

00:25:27.940 the way men were talking about

00:25:31.100 treating the women 1.00

00:25:32.140 to me it was like 0.97

00:25:33.360 cheap piece of dirt

00:25:35.300 you know

00:25:35.620 no value

00:25:36.360 no whatever

00:25:37.080 if you know

00:25:40.340 that this is what the men think of you

00:25:42.000 and the men know

00:25:43.520 you know

00:25:44.520 you know that the men want

00:25:45.280 a woman 0.57

00:25:45.800 a woman with low body count 1.00

00:25:47.460 shut your legs 0.97

00:25:49.400 simple 1.00

00:25:50.900 don't have no sex 0.88

00:25:52.600 because all the women 1.00

00:25:54.300 are going out there

00:25:55.100 the modern women

00:25:55.760 are going out there

00:25:56.520 looking for all these

00:25:58.080 handsome men

00:26:00.060 with money

00:26:01.200 and then

00:26:02.240 they're going to sleep around

00:26:03.400 all of them

00:26:04.060 that's how they

00:26:05.280 that's how they vet

00:26:06.180 they don't vet by conversation anymore 1.00

00:26:07.880 they vet with their vagina 1.00

00:26:09.680 shame 1.00

00:26:10.880 and you're not supposed to vet men 1.00

00:26:12.520 with your vaginas 1.00

00:26:13.440 you're supposed to talk to them 1.00

00:26:15.240 and that's what you're supposed to do

00:26:17.280 and that's what women are doing now 1.00

00:26:18.560 and then they're complaining

00:26:19.780 that the men don't want them 0.90

00:26:20.860 and the men are saying

00:26:21.760 oh

00:26:22.660 I don't want a woman 1.00

00:26:23.660 with high body count

00:26:24.580 it's just simple

00:26:27.080 if the men don't want women 0.99

00:26:29.660 with a high body count

00:26:30.780 and the women 1.00

00:26:32.560 want certain type of men 1.00

00:26:34.220 if women decided 0.95

00:26:35.600 you know what 0.99

00:26:36.020 I'm going to shut my legs

00:26:37.840 and only open it

00:26:39.420 with the intention

00:26:40.580 of a relationship

00:26:41.460 then the men will get

00:26:42.920 what they want

00:26:43.420 and so are the women 1.00

00:26:44.140 but the ugly men 0.99

00:26:45.820 that usually are turning down 0.79

00:26:47.140 I guarantee that

00:26:49.460 they'll be more loyal

00:26:50.400 and they'll be the ones

00:26:52.200 that will stick with you forever

00:26:53.240 than these ones

00:26:54.640 that have got the money

00:26:55.440 that are all flash

00:26:56.460 that the women

00:26:56.960 are actually going for

00:26:58.280 because nobody looks

00:27:00.320 at the ugly people

00:27:01.200 I mean 0.99

00:27:03.520 I'm saying about ugly women 1.00

00:27:04.680 I ain't going to really marry nobody 0.99

00:27:06.780 but I wouldn't

00:27:09.560 and the thing is

00:27:10.380 when you're dating

00:27:11.400 you're supposed to be dating

00:27:12.160 with the intention of looking

00:27:12.940 for a husband

00:27:13.520 not dating the intention

00:27:14.440 of looking 0.99

00:27:14.920 you know I need sex 0.99

00:27:15.880 exactly 1.00

00:27:16.240 if you want sex nowadays 0.84

00:27:17.700 I see 0.97

00:27:18.000 and the most that makes it worse

00:27:19.120 the women are going out there 1.00

00:27:19.880 having loads of sex 0.99

00:27:20.680 and then you go to their house 1.00

00:27:22.120 and they've got loads of rabbits

00:27:22.880 in there

00:27:23.340 and roses

00:27:24.180 and all that kind of stuff

00:27:26.180 do you know what I mean

00:27:27.040 oh yeah

00:27:28.340 about the rose

00:27:29.120 and the lips

00:27:29.640 and whatever

00:27:30.080 but what you got to do now

00:27:31.280 is keep them

00:27:32.700 oh do you want me to get you one

00:27:33.820 as far as I'm concerned

00:27:42.840 keep your toys

00:27:44.640 and forget about the boys

00:27:45.820 yeah

00:27:46.520 put it on a shirt

00:27:47.980 put it on a shirt

00:27:48.780 I like a high body count

00:27:50.000 leave your toys

00:27:51.160 and forget about the boys

00:27:52.240 I'm going to tell them

00:27:52.780 chill them

00:27:53.320 yeah I like a high body count

00:27:55.240 I'm not trying to teach you nothing

00:27:56.860 for a wife 0.98

00:27:58.440 I don't give a god damn 0.92

00:27:59.820 like I'm not going in this 0.92

00:28:00.900 to be like 1.00

00:28:01.380 oh you don't know how to fuck 1.00

00:28:02.500 like are you serious 1.00

00:28:03.500 get your body count up

00:28:04.720 I agree with you as well

00:28:05.740 do you want like a

00:28:06.720 do you want like a

00:28:07.260 learn yourself

00:28:08.400 the problem that I've run into

00:28:10.720 a couple times

00:28:11.260 spanking the work

00:28:12.080 maybe a different topic

00:28:13.540 but the problem I've run into

00:28:14.700 a couple times

00:28:15.500 is

00:28:16.120 you don't even know

00:28:18.100 how to please yourself

00:28:19.100 like you don't know

00:28:20.000 what you like

00:28:20.720 so I'm doing my thing

00:28:22.060 and it's like

00:28:22.660 I don't know

00:28:24.060 like I'm trying to

00:28:25.160 learn what you like

00:28:26.020 and if you tell me

00:28:26.940 like oh you know

00:28:27.600 you know

00:28:28.420 Terrell used to do this

00:28:29.480 cool I'll do what Terrell used to do

00:28:30.640 and improve on it

00:28:31.760 oh wow

00:28:32.320 but I'm not one of these dudes

00:28:33.680 who's like

00:28:34.160 oh like let me show you

00:28:35.420 what it is

00:28:35.940 because it's like 0.99

00:28:37.020 vagina is a snowflake 1.00

00:28:39.140 so you're cool 1.00

00:28:40.620 with like girl raising your kids 0.99

00:28:42.040 that you slept with 50 dudes

00:28:43.720 I don't care about that

00:28:44.620 50?

00:28:45.460 you're a cool mother

00:28:46.280 let me tell you

00:28:47.920 let me tell you

00:28:48.520 let me tell you

00:28:48.540 why I don't care about it

00:28:49.240 because I've never

00:28:50.620 ever

00:28:51.760 including like

00:28:53.220 anybody that I know

00:28:54.180 I don't know

00:28:54.900 I've never had someone

00:28:56.280 be honest

00:28:57.100 about their body count

00:28:58.200 like I don't

00:28:59.780 like a woman might 1.00

00:29:00.820 thank you

00:29:01.380 a woman might tell me 0.99

00:29:02.200 oh I've only had 10 dudes 1.00

00:29:03.160 you're full of shit 1.00

00:29:04.100 like you're full of shit 1.00

00:29:05.640 because 1.00

00:29:06.040 the only reason why

00:29:07.520 is because

00:29:07.900 I know how easy

00:29:09.420 I got it

00:29:10.420 and my game ain't 0.85

00:29:11.060 that damn strong

00:29:11.780 oh 1.00

00:29:12.280 that's real

00:29:13.300 that's real

00:29:14.320 I know how easy

00:29:15.260 I got it

00:29:16.280 and it's not to say

00:29:17.680 it don't make you lose

00:29:18.760 it don't make you no hoe 1.00

00:29:19.740 it don't make you none of that

00:29:20.600 it just means you know

00:29:21.500 what you like

00:29:22.240 and what you want

00:29:23.280 50 is a lot

00:29:24.540 within reason

00:29:25.200 within reason

00:29:27.260 that's a lot

00:29:27.740 but like if you

00:29:28.920 like oh you

00:29:29.860 I'm 37

00:29:30.900 you 37 1.00

00:29:31.780 you say I fuck 20 guys 1.00

00:29:33.360 that's not bad 1.00

00:29:34.320 that's like

00:29:34.940 cause

00:29:35.140 cause I've done

00:29:36.420 I've

00:29:36.840 I'm surprised 1.00

00:29:39.100 my penis is still 1.00

00:29:40.260 attached to my body 0.99

00:29:41.280 like you know what I mean

00:29:42.600 my guy

00:29:42.880 just on your point

00:29:43.580 you're saying that

00:29:44.400 you want to experience

00:29:45.560 right

00:29:45.860 but aren't you the man

00:29:47.040 to teach her

00:29:47.900 no I don't know

00:29:49.180 no I'm lazy

00:29:50.460 I'm lazy 1.00

00:29:51.660 I just eat pussy 1.00

00:29:54.000 and move on 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - March 14, 2023

Men's thoughts on independent women

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