JustPearlyThings - May 12, 2023


Men Tend To AVOID Women For THIS


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Length

8 minutes

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209.71768

Word count

1,820

Sentence count

35

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode, we talk about what it takes to become a hoe, how to become one, and how to be a good hoe. We also talk about how to deal with the pressures of dating and what to look out for when it comes to relationships.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, how many bodies do you guys think it takes for a girl to become a hoe? 1.00
00:00:04.820 Does it exist?
00:00:06.820 I don't really have one obviously because it doesn't affect me, but I think guys say about five
00:00:11.580 Five really? I hear guys say ten. That's like the most pop. Yeah, like ten to fifteen. That's what I hear
00:00:18.320 What age are you talking about? I think it depends on the age, right?
00:00:22.120 I don't know I just that's whenever I ask this question on the street a lot and that's just the most common answer
00:00:28.760 I get ten I think you can only I'm trying to think when I've asked guys about ten
00:00:34.920 It seems like ten at 30 is not too bad ten at 25
00:00:40.040 Well, and to be honest the guys say ten they'll usually like I see who they date
00:00:45.400 You know and so they really deal with about 20 like to be honest
00:00:50.060 They just won't like tell you and I just know cuz like
00:00:53.640 You know, I think the ideal would be like four five. Yeah, no
00:00:58.760 That's what guys like they want below five. That's ideal ten like ten. They feel like you're a hoe 1.00
00:01:05.000 15 to 20 they'll deal with but that's not preferred and then after 20. It's like I've got no hate them basically. Yeah
00:01:12.280 No, it's really sad
00:01:15.480 No, it actually makes me kind of sad for you
00:01:17.800 You're a pretty girl and you're actually very pleasant, but it's like because you've made those choices
00:01:22.280 I think it's gonna be hard for you
00:01:23.880 But baby, you'll find someone who doesn't care about that. It's that like not everyone actually cares about that
00:01:28.340 Yeah, and I and I think that you know
00:01:30.840 Did you know like 50% of women are projected to be single and childless really so much they've slept with a lot of people
00:01:37.920 Just in general, I mean
00:01:39.360 I don't think it's just women that have slept with a lot of people 1.00
00:01:41.520 But they're predicting half of our generation is gonna be single and childless because we don't know how to be wives 0.99
00:01:45.640 I think you can only I think a hoe is when you're still doing the same things so like I 1.00
00:01:52.640 Wouldn't say like let's just say a girl as a hoe she slept with 1.00
00:01:57.760 Let's just say 30 people, right, but she hasn't slept with a lot of people for
00:02:02.640 Three years. Let's say she hasn't slept with people for three years. Anyone. Mm-hmm. Is she still a hoe? 1.00
00:02:08.180 Yeah, why?
00:02:09.880 Because I think if someone if someone that's been to prison, are they still a criminal?
00:02:13.960 No
00:02:15.960 Mm-hmm. Yes, they are you got me thinking
00:02:18.340 You got me thinking
00:02:19.540 You know you can learn from things. That's the that's the thing. So like if a girl is 1.00
00:02:25.720 You know that they've grown and they've learned that's that's immature. I'm I'm valuable and I actually want someone to love me for me and they
00:02:33.400 Don't sleep with anyone and they wait for the right person to come. I feel like you've grown and you've matured and have you ever
00:02:39.700 Have you ever switched a habit?
00:02:41.500 What do you mean like have you ever had a habit and like you switched it?
00:02:44.700 So maybe you didn't work out and you started working out or maybe you ate a bad food and then you stop
00:02:49.420 Yeah, and you know, you know how difficult it was for you to switch that habit
00:02:53.500 Yeah, like it wasn't easy and and that's the thing is just like if you've done that for so long
00:02:57.980 It's not saying you can't change some people do but it's just on a balance of probabilities
00:03:02.700 Why would a guy deal with a girl that has more bad habits than a girl who doesn't because she's used to going out all the time? 0.76
00:03:08.380 She's used to going on all these dates if you've slept with a lot of guys
00:03:11.580 I'm sure you've been on like super nice dates at some you know, like and how and so now if you meet the average Joe
00:03:17.980 You know, which maybe would have been your husband. How is he gonna impress you?
00:03:22.700 Because the thing is you've always got it in the back of your mind. Yeah
00:03:26.140 Not that materialistic things matter, but you do have it at the back of your mind thinking
00:03:31.420 Oh, that was such a nice date where the sun was going down and the bar was really nice
00:03:35.980 But now i'm just going to a regular bar or something and it you think back it when you're at that table at a regular place
00:03:44.220 When I shouldn't but
00:03:46.540 You do automatically do that sometimes and you know, I'll be honest about that, but that's just how it comes
00:03:53.180 I've made that decision to do what i've done
00:03:56.940 um
00:03:58.540 And yeah, you've just got to
00:04:00.220 No, and I appreciate you being honest about it, but like you see how it becomes a problem
00:04:04.460 Yeah, I can see what you mean. Yeah
00:04:06.620 Yeah, because it's like it with 80. It's like how many guys did you really really really like
00:04:10.860 Yeah, but sometimes you can get yourself in situations like and I and I'm sure sorry
00:04:17.740 But and I'm sure the guys that you did really really like like something was really special about them
00:04:22.300 And it's really hard to replace that like I think it's hard for a girl
00:04:25.420 That's up with five guys to replace the ones you liked and you've always got them in your mind
00:04:29.820 Right wherever wherever you are kind of thing and admit not that even now
00:04:33.900 It's still like that. So the guy how how many guys are you thinking of when i'm talking about this?
00:04:39.020 Probably about five or six about five or six out of the 80s
00:04:42.940 Which is actually good
00:04:45.020 So out of the five or six the five or six guys you're like thinking about because you know when I know who they are
00:04:51.900 Because no because when I talk about this stuff
00:04:53.420 I'm sure there's someone that comes to you guys's head like there's someone that comes to my head, right?
00:04:57.180 But it's like so out of the five or six guys. Did you sleep with them early on or late? I'm just curious
00:05:02.300 um
00:05:04.940 It was a kind of throughout the whole period actually it was more stretched out
00:05:09.580 um
00:05:10.620 But I don't know actually I reckon in the past two years actually recently
00:05:15.580 I've had a couple of guys in my life, um that have stuck on my mind
00:05:20.620 what
00:05:22.620 No, because it's always I always wonder if like at that point you can still like bond at that level
00:05:26.860 Yeah, yeah, but you're saying like you could because I'm guessing it like what at like 50 you but it just he has to be really
00:05:35.980 Really special very special. Yeah, take me a lot now. I think for a guy to
00:05:41.180 For me to fall in love. Yeah, I don't think I fully been in love. I don't know what love is. I admit that
00:05:46.220 Pearl
00:05:49.340 All three of you girls really beautiful women. Thank you. Thank you. Have you ever
00:05:54.460 Met a guy that was loyal
00:05:56.700 nice
00:05:57.820 Checked off all the the boxes that are required for you know a long-term relationship
00:06:03.420 But you looked over him and chose a guy that you knew
00:06:07.100 Was never gonna commit to you never gonna give you loyalty never gonna get you the attention and the respect that you deserve
00:06:13.660 Yeah
00:06:16.300 I have
00:06:17.740 And no, do you know what? Why is that?
00:06:19.180 Do you know what it is though?
00:06:20.060 Hold on. Why why is it that you choose the man you know the outcome?
00:06:25.180 Let's not act like we don't know when you meet the attractive guy in the club
00:06:29.340 He's got a suit on he's got change. He's got listen
00:06:31.900 The most attention I've ever got from women in the club was when I brought other women with me 1.00
00:06:36.620 When I want my boys
00:06:38.620 Few looks when I
00:06:40.620 What other girls want exactly so when I showed up with a bunch of women 1.00
00:06:44.860 The attention was unlimited because you want what other girls want 1.00
00:06:48.940 But my question is why do you choose you know the outcome?
00:06:52.780 This is why I talk about playing the victim and accountability earlier when I talked about healing
00:06:56.860 Because there's no way you could fuck with a fuck boy 0.70
00:07:00.860 And know that
00:07:02.460 Yeah, but you can't control that bro girls that's what's that's what's in there 1.00
00:07:05.180 No, but yeah, I know
00:07:06.140 That's what's in there
00:07:06.860 But the question is why do you choose?
00:07:09.660 Which you know the result
00:07:10.940 They can't choose bro, that's what they're attracted to bro
00:07:13.020 They can't just choose it
00:07:13.980 I talked about that earlier, attraction and arouse you
00:07:16.220 Yeah, that's what they're attracted to, they can't help it bro
00:07:17.580 But I'm trying to get deep rooted with it
00:07:19.020 I'm trying to get deep rooted with it
00:07:20.300 So why do you choose the bad guy over the good guy when you know the result of both?
00:07:24.700 Because the good guy can treat you good and he may not arouse you
00:07:27.740 We like that excitement of the bad boys
00:07:30.460 So don't choose it in your 30s when your value is less
00:07:33.660 And expect that man to settle for you
00:07:35.420 You know I think the best solution is bro
00:07:37.820 That's all I'm saying
00:07:38.780 I think it's a bad boy
00:07:39.420 When you're most valuable give your man that value at that time
00:07:43.020 Listen bro, listen, listen Giovanni
00:07:45.020 Cool, I think the best solution is yeah
00:07:47.180 To find that bad boy to find that guy that gets a lot of women 0.99
00:07:50.300 And make him good
00:07:51.020 To high status and change him
00:07:52.700 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:53.660 You're not going to change him
00:07:54.620 No, really?
00:07:55.500 You're not going to change him
00:07:56.460 Every woman thinks that they can change a man 1.00
00:07:58.860 And that's a fact
00:07:59.740 When a guy, exactly
00:08:00.780 And that's the excitement
00:08:02.140 That's the excitement
00:08:02.860 When a girl thinks they can change a man 1.00
00:08:05.340 That's exciting for them
00:08:06.300 Oh, I can change him
00:08:07.420 I can make him mine
00:08:08.300 It's a game
00:08:09.340 That's not reality though
00:08:10.220 Got that right
00:08:10.940 It's a game for them
00:08:11.660 All these girls want him 1.00
00:08:12.780 I can change him
00:08:13.980 And that's exciting for girls
00:08:15.300 They don't want a guy that's on the PlayStation
00:08:18.140 Like fucking playing games
00:08:19.460 They want a guy that's popular
00:08:20.940 That's high in demand
00:08:22.760 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:23.740 I like a guy
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