JustPearlyThings - Men Tend To AVOID Women For THIS

00:00:00.000 Okay, how many bodies do you guys think it takes for a girl to become a hoe? 1.00

00:00:04.820 Does it exist?

00:00:06.820 I don't really have one obviously because it doesn't affect me, but I think guys say about five

00:00:11.580 Five really? I hear guys say ten. That's like the most pop. Yeah, like ten to fifteen. That's what I hear

00:00:18.320 What age are you talking about? I think it depends on the age, right?

00:00:22.120 I don't know I just that's whenever I ask this question on the street a lot and that's just the most common answer

00:00:28.760 I get ten I think you can only I'm trying to think when I've asked guys about ten

00:00:34.920 It seems like ten at 30 is not too bad ten at 25

00:00:40.040 Well, and to be honest the guys say ten they'll usually like I see who they date

00:00:45.400 You know and so they really deal with about 20 like to be honest

00:00:50.060 They just won't like tell you and I just know cuz like

00:00:53.640 You know, I think the ideal would be like four five. Yeah, no

00:00:58.760 That's what guys like they want below five. That's ideal ten like ten. They feel like you're a hoe 1.00

00:01:05.000 15 to 20 they'll deal with but that's not preferred and then after 20. It's like I've got no hate them basically. Yeah

00:01:12.280 No, it's really sad

00:01:15.480 No, it actually makes me kind of sad for you

00:01:17.800 You're a pretty girl and you're actually very pleasant, but it's like because you've made those choices

00:01:22.280 I think it's gonna be hard for you

00:01:23.880 But baby, you'll find someone who doesn't care about that. It's that like not everyone actually cares about that

00:01:28.340 Yeah, and I and I think that you know

00:01:30.840 Did you know like 50% of women are projected to be single and childless really so much they've slept with a lot of people

00:01:37.920 Just in general, I mean

00:01:39.360 I don't think it's just women that have slept with a lot of people 1.00

00:01:41.520 But they're predicting half of our generation is gonna be single and childless because we don't know how to be wives 0.99

00:01:45.640 I think you can only I think a hoe is when you're still doing the same things so like I 1.00

00:01:52.640 Wouldn't say like let's just say a girl as a hoe she slept with 1.00

00:01:57.760 Let's just say 30 people, right, but she hasn't slept with a lot of people for

00:02:02.640 Three years. Let's say she hasn't slept with people for three years. Anyone. Mm-hmm. Is she still a hoe? 1.00

00:02:08.180 Yeah, why?

00:02:09.880 Because I think if someone if someone that's been to prison, are they still a criminal?

00:02:13.960 No

00:02:15.960 Mm-hmm. Yes, they are you got me thinking

00:02:18.340 You got me thinking

00:02:19.540 You know you can learn from things. That's the that's the thing. So like if a girl is 1.00

00:02:25.720 You know that they've grown and they've learned that's that's immature. I'm I'm valuable and I actually want someone to love me for me and they

00:02:33.400 Don't sleep with anyone and they wait for the right person to come. I feel like you've grown and you've matured and have you ever

00:02:39.700 Have you ever switched a habit?

00:02:41.500 What do you mean like have you ever had a habit and like you switched it?

00:02:44.700 So maybe you didn't work out and you started working out or maybe you ate a bad food and then you stop

00:02:49.420 Yeah, and you know, you know how difficult it was for you to switch that habit

00:02:53.500 Yeah, like it wasn't easy and and that's the thing is just like if you've done that for so long

00:02:57.980 It's not saying you can't change some people do but it's just on a balance of probabilities

00:03:02.700 Why would a guy deal with a girl that has more bad habits than a girl who doesn't because she's used to going out all the time? 0.76

00:03:08.380 She's used to going on all these dates if you've slept with a lot of guys

00:03:11.580 I'm sure you've been on like super nice dates at some you know, like and how and so now if you meet the average Joe

00:03:17.980 You know, which maybe would have been your husband. How is he gonna impress you?

00:03:22.700 Because the thing is you've always got it in the back of your mind. Yeah

00:03:26.140 Not that materialistic things matter, but you do have it at the back of your mind thinking

00:03:31.420 Oh, that was such a nice date where the sun was going down and the bar was really nice

00:03:35.980 But now i'm just going to a regular bar or something and it you think back it when you're at that table at a regular place

00:03:44.220 When I shouldn't but

00:03:46.540 You do automatically do that sometimes and you know, I'll be honest about that, but that's just how it comes

00:03:53.180 I've made that decision to do what i've done

00:03:56.940 um

00:03:58.540 And yeah, you've just got to

00:04:00.220 No, and I appreciate you being honest about it, but like you see how it becomes a problem

00:04:04.460 Yeah, I can see what you mean. Yeah

00:04:06.620 Yeah, because it's like it with 80. It's like how many guys did you really really really like

00:04:10.860 Yeah, but sometimes you can get yourself in situations like and I and I'm sure sorry

00:04:17.740 But and I'm sure the guys that you did really really like like something was really special about them

00:04:22.300 And it's really hard to replace that like I think it's hard for a girl

00:04:25.420 That's up with five guys to replace the ones you liked and you've always got them in your mind

00:04:29.820 Right wherever wherever you are kind of thing and admit not that even now

00:04:33.900 It's still like that. So the guy how how many guys are you thinking of when i'm talking about this?

00:04:39.020 Probably about five or six about five or six out of the 80s

00:04:42.940 Which is actually good

00:04:45.020 So out of the five or six the five or six guys you're like thinking about because you know when I know who they are

00:04:51.900 Because no because when I talk about this stuff

00:04:53.420 I'm sure there's someone that comes to you guys's head like there's someone that comes to my head, right?

00:04:57.180 But it's like so out of the five or six guys. Did you sleep with them early on or late? I'm just curious

00:05:02.300 um

00:05:04.940 It was a kind of throughout the whole period actually it was more stretched out

00:05:09.580 um

00:05:10.620 But I don't know actually I reckon in the past two years actually recently

00:05:15.580 I've had a couple of guys in my life, um that have stuck on my mind

00:05:20.620 what

00:05:22.620 No, because it's always I always wonder if like at that point you can still like bond at that level

00:05:26.860 Yeah, yeah, but you're saying like you could because I'm guessing it like what at like 50 you but it just he has to be really

00:05:35.980 Really special very special. Yeah, take me a lot now. I think for a guy to

00:05:41.180 For me to fall in love. Yeah, I don't think I fully been in love. I don't know what love is. I admit that

00:05:46.220 Pearl

00:05:49.340 All three of you girls really beautiful women. Thank you. Thank you. Have you ever

00:05:54.460 Met a guy that was loyal

00:05:56.700 nice

00:05:57.820 Checked off all the the boxes that are required for you know a long-term relationship

00:06:03.420 But you looked over him and chose a guy that you knew

00:06:07.100 Was never gonna commit to you never gonna give you loyalty never gonna get you the attention and the respect that you deserve

00:06:13.660 Yeah

00:06:16.300 I have

00:06:17.740 And no, do you know what? Why is that?

00:06:19.180 Do you know what it is though?

00:06:20.060 Hold on. Why why is it that you choose the man you know the outcome?

00:06:25.180 Let's not act like we don't know when you meet the attractive guy in the club

00:06:29.340 He's got a suit on he's got change. He's got listen

00:06:31.900 The most attention I've ever got from women in the club was when I brought other women with me 1.00

00:06:36.620 When I want my boys

00:06:38.620 Few looks when I

00:06:40.620 What other girls want exactly so when I showed up with a bunch of women 1.00

00:06:44.860 The attention was unlimited because you want what other girls want 1.00

00:06:48.940 But my question is why do you choose you know the outcome?

00:06:52.780 This is why I talk about playing the victim and accountability earlier when I talked about healing 1.00

00:06:56.860 Because there's no way you could fuck with a fuck boy 1.00

00:07:00.860 And know that 1.00

00:07:02.460 Yeah, but you can't control that bro girls that's what's that's what's in there 1.00

00:07:05.180 No, but yeah, I know

00:07:06.140 That's what's in there

00:07:06.860 But the question is why do you choose?

00:07:09.660 Which you know the result

00:07:10.940 They can't choose bro, that's what they're attracted to bro

00:07:13.020 They can't just choose it

00:07:13.980 I talked about that earlier, attraction and arouse you

00:07:16.220 Yeah, that's what they're attracted to, they can't help it bro

00:07:17.580 But I'm trying to get deep rooted with it

00:07:19.020 I'm trying to get deep rooted with it

00:07:20.300 So why do you choose the bad guy over the good guy when you know the result of both?

00:07:24.700 Because the good guy can treat you good and he may not arouse you

00:07:27.740 We like that excitement of the bad boys

00:07:30.460 So don't choose it in your 30s when your value is less

00:07:33.660 And expect that man to settle for you

00:07:35.420 You know I think the best solution is bro

00:07:37.820 That's all I'm saying

00:07:38.780 I think it's a bad boy

00:07:39.420 When you're most valuable give your man that value at that time

00:07:43.020 Listen bro, listen, listen Giovanni

00:07:45.020 Cool, I think the best solution is yeah

00:07:47.180 To find that bad boy to find that guy that gets a lot of women 0.99

00:07:50.300 And make him good

00:07:51.020 To high status and change him

00:07:52.700 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:07:53.660 You're not going to change him

00:07:54.620 No, really?

00:07:55.500 You're not going to change him

00:07:56.460 Every woman thinks that they can change a man 1.00

00:07:58.860 And that's a fact

00:07:59.740 When a guy, exactly

00:08:00.780 And that's the excitement

00:08:02.140 That's the excitement

00:08:02.860 When a girl thinks they can change a man 1.00

00:08:05.340 That's exciting for them

00:08:06.300 Oh, I can change him

00:08:07.420 I can make him mine

00:08:08.300 It's a game

00:08:09.340 That's not reality though

00:08:10.220 Got that right

00:08:10.940 It's a game for them

00:08:11.660 All these girls want him 1.00

00:08:12.780 I can change him

00:08:13.980 And that's exciting for girls

00:08:15.300 They don't want a guy that's on the PlayStation 1.00

00:08:18.140 Like fucking playing games 0.99

00:08:19.460 They want a guy that's popular 1.00

00:08:20.940 That's high in demand

00:08:22.760 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:08:23.740 I like a guy

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JustPearlyThings - May 12, 2023

Men Tend To AVOID Women For THIS

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