Millionaire STATES This Controversial Statement
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the age appropriate dating age, red flags, and accountability in the dating world, and what it means to be a grown man in the 21st century. We also discuss the red flags that men should be looking out for when it comes to a potential partner.
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even yesterday like the you you asked me a question like should you know would your daughter
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marry a bus driver i'm like hell no my daughter's not going to marry a bus driver it's not going to
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happen like as her dad i work way too damn hard i live in a too nice neighborhood i sent her to a
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freaking top like she goes to an elementary school that has the word college in it like when you're
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doing that like i'm putting her you know i'm putting her in classrooms with like kids of
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ambassadors and and kids of the guy that runs the stock market in our country is like that those
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kind of kids right i'm doing it so she doesn't marry a bus driver and this is a matter so the
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men go and they're like oh you don't like middle class working men that run society i'm like no
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that's not what i'm saying i'm saying is i don't want my daughter to marry a career bus driver because
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that is not the problem that a 50 year old man should be solving on how to drive the bus from
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point a to point b by the time you're 50 you should be running the damn organization and
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taking care of other employees and growing in your career that's the point yes there's nothing wrong
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with electricians when you're 26 27 years old but if you're doing the same thing at 59 that you were
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27 you're solving the wrong problems right so that's where the accountability argument comes
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in is that there there's a a problem that you solve but it has to be age appropriate
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what do you think red flag first date um a woman that's like um always talking about her ex
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does that happen before yeah happened on a first date when you get to know them and they talk about
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their ex about if the ex is in their life or not if i ever had a kid or and they're talking about
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their ex and saying how they how they broke up and things like that yeah well you ghost or or you will
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you send them a text and be like stop talking about the ex goodbye forever i feel like for men it's not
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even ghosting though because if you don't reach out they're not even gonna you know i mean it's not
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like ghosting it's like you're just kind of choosing to end the dialogue really yeah women will never
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reach out rare it's rare they have to be bold oh yeah do you know guys sorry about this but
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real quick do you know what happens when you don't go so you probably experienced this when you're
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like hey listen you're really cool but i see that you have some feelings and you're trying to escalate
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the relationship i just want to let you know that this is not going to be a serious relationship for
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me and you have to deal with it she just gets more attracted to you and then she just like it's
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like what are you doing i literally just told you who i am why have you found that to be true too
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if you guys like put a girl in the the friends with benefits though and she wants you more yes
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yes and if you find that if you try to commit to her she wants you less yes yes
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yeah what do you guys have to say about that why do we do that
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do you guys do you guys find that you guys want guys you can't have it's like it's interesting
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because it's like why why don't you want me like why don't you want to know why you want to know why
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they don't want you yeah because yeah what if they said like you're annoying
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what can i say would you would you would you then stop chasing
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uh me personally i was i'll ask them why how no no what i'm saying they say you're annoying then what
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it's the end of the conversation i'll stop but i just want to know why do you think i'm annoying
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i dig too deep that's why uh what made i have a question for you you're engaged right
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what made your fiancee different than guys you dated in the past um he doesn't he doesn't go out
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we're we're two completely different people so he doesn't go out but i go out a lot
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as in raven clubbing yeah wow and that then dynamics are crazy yeah i like i'm so i'm a
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sociable person i've always been at that i like to socialize um as i said i'm a girl's girl so
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yeah i i'm out a lot yes he doesn't like that so i try to minimize it but um i just don't think i
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could be with someone that is also outside as well you like you have a lot of doubles yeah that's
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crazy that's crazy it wouldn't work i know that it wouldn't work it would be a very why wouldn't
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you want him to go out um i just i just feel like any guys that i kind of meet outside or in a party
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environment like just looking at them and how they carry themselves and how they're moving how
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they're approaching to females what they're doing just doesn't appeal to me okay can i ask a question
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so how do you move when you're out you may no no oh yeah was that like so so what if you used to
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meet somebody that's reserved yeah move the same way that you do out in a club would it not be the
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exact same yeah okay so um if i met somebody that's out at the back you know keep themselves to
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themselves then yeah i could i would think about it like i would i would it would be an option to
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speak like i would oh yeah i would talk to you or i would get to try and get to know you but my
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preference is okay i like a guy that's so what would you do if your current boyfriend says he wants
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you to stop going out and i'm asking that because if he's watching i'm giving him ideas
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like we have a lot that's most we don't argue a lot but most of the arguments are about you know
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you're going out too much but when you met me i was going out too much yes i understand that in
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relationships you should change certain things you know like if your partner doesn't agree on
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certain things you should work and work around it and compromise which i have and i've actually
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don't go out as much as i used to i would say i go out probably
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a lot you i was yeah how would you how would you feel if your boyfriend went out
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to a party where every single girl he met wanted to sleep with him
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then that yeah that would that's crazy that would hurt me but i remember earlier when we said men will
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fuck have it anything gotcha it's true yeah i can't say anything about that but yeah he um yeah
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he he doesn't go out um he doesn't his phone barely rings like he goes to work he's an electrician so
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he goes to work he comes home we have a daughter together as well and he's a good man he sounds very
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safe yeah he's like i have i've never had any problems like his phone doesn't even have a password
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like it's not what do you think the role of a wife is um a role of a wife
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um i would say to look after the household and obviously to raise the children in the right way
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and to cater to your man like to cater to him make sure his um work clothes are washed make sure his
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he's got a hot meal on his um on the table when he comes home from work but i wouldn't say that
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sorry that is what i think yeah i yeah i don't do that oh my god
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i don't do that every day i don't do that but not every day i don't i don't what say women
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i don't know i meant to quit for their husband every day is that sorry what's your question so wait
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wait i have a question wouldn't catering to your man be like listening to what he says
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do you believe that wives should listen to their husbands yeah yeah okay so if we told you
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it's very very uh also called um a bit not obedience so no you know there's a that star wars saying like
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he could pity is what is it ironic he could solve him save himself from dying no he could save others
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from dying but not himself darth darth city as there's like ironic he could fix short circuits but not