JustPearlyThings - October 12, 2023


Modern Admits This Truth


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Length

9 minutes

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162.86346

Word count

1,544

Sentence count

156

Harmful content

Misogyny

40

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Hate speech

22

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of supporting your partner in order to support them in their goals and dreams. We also talk about the value of women in the 21st century compared to their male counterparts and how women have fallen behind in their role as wives.

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00:00:00.000 What value do women in 2023 bring, the average chick? 1.00
00:00:05.340 Well, if you're average, I'm not sure about the average.
00:00:09.380 But however, I was brought up in a way where we were raised to support our men
00:00:16.980 and to stand beside our men.
00:00:19.860 So they may not have had a lot, but you would support them in their endovers
00:00:24.220 or their dreams, et cetera.
00:00:25.960 And you'd be that backbone towards their goals or their dreams, et cetera.
00:00:32.600 Do you think most women do that? 1.00
00:00:35.080 I can't speak for most women. 0.98
00:00:36.940 But for what I've seen, for the females that are around me, no, they don't.
00:00:42.460 So, yeah, especially with like half of, like, how can we say we're supportive
00:00:45.920 if half of us leave?
00:00:47.980 You know what I mean?
00:00:49.140 I think in terms of leaving.
00:00:52.320 Because, you know, if you're going to support, you've got to stay
00:00:55.620 and support him, you know.
00:00:58.800 Again, I know you say you don't like the word depends.
00:01:01.200 But however, I wouldn't recommend for someone to stay in an abusive relationship.
00:01:06.420 So if someone's being abusive.
00:01:07.400 Why is abusive the first thing that comes to your head?
00:01:10.820 Because I'm not saying that's the first thing.
00:01:14.260 It's the first thing you said.
00:01:15.360 Yeah, but I've known women that have left from relationships 1.00
00:01:18.600 because of physical abuse.
00:01:21.420 Is that the majority?
00:01:23.660 I can't really speak for the majority.
00:01:25.620 Do you think the majority of men are abusing women?
00:01:29.480 Do you think that's probable?
00:01:31.240 No.
00:01:31.880 Okay, so like, why is it the first thing that comes to your head?
00:01:35.460 You're saying it's about support and leave.
00:01:37.900 Yeah.
00:01:38.140 I'm saying circumstances.
00:01:39.820 Right, but I'm saying if half of women are leaving 1.00
00:01:41.940 and then the first thing you say is abuse,
00:01:43.720 I'm just, I'm asking why that's the first thing.
00:01:46.780 I'm saying that could be one of the things.
00:01:48.800 I'm not saying that's the first thing.
00:01:50.420 I'm just saying.
00:01:51.060 No, I'm saying that's the first thing you said, though.
00:01:53.080 Yeah, so my first thing I would say,
00:01:55.760 if a relationship is abusive,
00:01:57.800 then you have the right to leave.
00:02:00.340 Okay.
00:02:02.120 Right, but like my point was that half of women are leaving. 1.00
00:02:06.680 And so I'm saying we can't be supportive if we're leaving,
00:02:09.940 like half of us.
00:02:11.420 You know what I mean?
00:02:11.920 Well, unless someone knows the reason why they're leaving.
00:02:19.380 Every relationship and every partnership has their reason why they leave.
00:02:24.600 What are good reasons to leave a marriage?
00:02:27.380 Well, I would say abuse.
00:02:29.800 Okay, outside of abuse, which we agree is the minority, right?
00:02:33.280 Outside of abuse, I don't know.
00:02:37.000 I feel like it really, really depends.
00:02:40.300 Or say someone's a heavy gambler.
00:02:42.580 Okay, gambling.
00:02:44.280 Gambling and abuse.
00:02:45.340 But would you agree those are minority cases, not majority?
00:02:49.020 Yeah, I guess so, yeah.
00:02:50.160 I agree with that, yeah.
00:02:51.000 Okay, okay.
00:02:51.620 So are there any other good reasons to leave?
00:02:55.180 Outside of that, I would say no.
00:02:56.760 So wouldn't you say the majority of women are not supportive?
00:03:00.140 Yeah, I would say so, yeah.
00:03:01.720 Okay, what about you?
00:03:03.300 Hoflation, true or false?
00:03:06.080 I would partially agree with that statement.
00:03:09.240 So I agree with the part where there isn't much quality women that are left 1.00
00:03:15.280 that has dropped massively.
00:03:18.520 I slightly disagree with the part where men have to work extra hard
00:03:22.820 nowadays compared to the men back in the days.
00:03:27.220 On two aspects.
00:03:28.540 Financially, it's more easier to gain financial success
00:03:34.000 if you just understand the strategies to it in today's timing.
00:03:38.600 And in terms of finding a woman,
00:03:41.900 I think it's absolutely easy for males to find a decent woman. 0.93
00:03:47.280 Only because females are now degrading themselves 1.00
00:03:51.100 and they're showing it in front of the whole world in the public.
00:03:53.820 So if men are now able to now look at that and say,
00:03:57.100 okay, well, I don't want you,
00:03:57.960 that they can filter more easily
00:03:59.780 because females are just upcoming degrading themselves. 1.00
00:04:03.400 What is a decent woman? 1.00
00:04:07.480 A decent woman? 1.00
00:04:08.540 A decent woman would carry such qualities 1.00
00:04:13.320 that would facilitate being a mother, a wife, and a lady. 0.71
00:04:19.280 And some of those will come from the parenting,
00:04:22.440 how they were raised in the first place.
00:04:25.220 And then part of that will also be down to their decisions that they make in life.
00:04:30.920 Do you think the majority of women were raised to be wives? 0.98
00:04:33.600 No.
00:04:34.840 Okay.
00:04:36.220 What if a guy wanted 10 kids?
00:04:38.100 Where would he get that?
00:04:40.660 Are there women that want to give 10 kids nowadays? 1.00
00:04:43.860 No.
00:04:44.560 Do you know what the average guy got in 1,800?
00:04:49.580 No.
00:04:50.340 Eight kids per woman. 0.99
00:04:54.120 But that's the thing.
00:04:55.280 There is quality women out there. 1.00
00:04:57.240 It's just more easier to filter through it now.
00:04:59.880 Right.
00:05:00.120 So what does a quality woman give to a man? 1.00
00:05:03.840 A quality woman is basically a woman that most men would dream to have. 1.00
00:05:10.180 Or the type of woman that grandparents were.
00:05:13.480 Okay.
00:05:14.240 Okay.
00:05:14.560 So what does she give?
00:05:17.060 Like what does she bring to the table?
00:05:18.500 A quality woman? 1.00
00:05:20.120 I don't agree with females bringing anything to the table. 1.00
00:05:23.320 No, but you said it's not that hard for a man to find a quality.
00:05:26.380 Okay.
00:05:26.800 But I'm saying we have to define what is a quality woman. 0.99
00:05:28.920 I can define to you what type of woman that they won't want. 1.00
00:05:33.620 Okay.
00:05:33.960 But no, I'm asking what.
00:05:35.600 Because you said a quality woman. 0.94
00:05:37.360 I'm saying what would they want.
00:05:39.160 Right.
00:05:39.460 Like how many kids does a quality woman bring? 1.00
00:05:41.640 Is she a virgin? 0.99
00:05:42.740 Is she like what?
00:05:43.900 Like how old is she?
00:05:45.420 What does a quality woman look like? 1.00
00:05:48.420 Okay.
00:05:49.100 She'll be well groomed.
00:05:50.560 Okay.
00:05:50.880 First of all.
00:05:51.240 She'll be well presented, well spoken.
00:05:55.660 Quite intelligent in that sense.
00:05:58.440 She would also have the skills to know how to cook.
00:06:04.120 And well, how to use the kitchen app.
00:06:06.040 I would normally say to people two things.
00:06:08.220 A woman should know how to feed the hunger and heal the sick within the kitchen. 1.00
00:06:13.840 Okay.
00:06:14.440 Those are two qualities that women should have. 1.00
00:06:16.900 What about age?
00:06:17.660 Age doesn't really hold really much weight.
00:06:22.340 Because you can be a quality woman for the rest of your life.
00:06:24.380 You could be 50.
00:06:25.800 So a 40 year old woman is equally as quality as a 20 year old woman. 1.00
00:06:29.940 They could still be quality women at just different ages. 1.00
00:06:33.240 They're probably better.
00:06:34.640 No.
00:06:35.120 Who's better?
00:06:36.220 You could probably even be better.
00:06:38.100 At what age?
00:06:38.460 At an old age.
00:06:39.200 You might get a bit more mature.
00:06:40.380 You might be under 30.
00:06:41.440 You're kind of experienced.
00:06:43.740 What do you bring at 40 that you wouldn't have at 20?
00:06:46.880 A bit more of a maturer attitude.
00:06:50.260 Are older women generally known for being more agreeable and better? 0.99
00:06:55.280 Yeah.
00:06:56.580 No, they are.
00:06:57.580 No, they are.
00:06:58.780 No, they're not.
00:06:59.180 Maybe you've not ever experienced them.
00:07:01.300 I've only interviewed hundreds of women. 1.00
00:07:03.240 It doesn't matter.
00:07:03.940 There's thousands of millions of us.
00:07:05.620 There's a lot of things that we haven't experienced, you know, that we can't really comment on.
00:07:10.680 Okay, what are women over 30's reputation that are still single? 1.00
00:07:14.180 Good or bad?
00:07:16.140 Oh, the reputation defines them as a person, right?
00:07:19.400 Yes.
00:07:19.660 Oh, right.
00:07:20.660 Well, I don't agree.
00:07:22.060 Yeah.
00:07:22.540 You don't think we can make generalities based on a reputation?
00:07:25.160 No.
00:07:27.840 No.
00:07:28.580 We can make no conclusions.
00:07:29.540 I know some men that don't give a crap.
00:07:31.300 Yeah, right.
00:07:31.780 But we're talking about women. 0.99
00:07:33.240 We're talking about women. 1.00
00:07:33.940 But if you think we're talking about women, all right, I understand that.
00:07:39.360 But why are we talking?
00:07:40.700 What is it?
00:07:41.240 Is it for the men that we're talking about this world?
00:07:44.140 Right, but I'm saying if she's 40, what is she going to bring to a guy who wants a new 0.99
00:07:49.040 wife and a family? 0.99
00:07:50.360 More sexual experience?
00:07:51.820 She'll probably be a better lover. 1.00
00:07:52.960 Do men want wives with more sexual experience? 0.97
00:07:57.340 No.
00:07:57.580 Some do.
00:07:58.180 I think the more interesting ones do.
00:07:59.300 No.
00:08:00.160 I don't think so.
00:08:01.520 Maybe he does it.
00:08:02.740 Maybe you all does.
00:08:04.020 You're more likely to get divorced the more sexual experience you have.
00:08:07.500 Actually true.
00:08:08.340 Yeah.
00:08:08.700 Well, maybe that's because you won't settle for less.
00:08:11.220 Right, but what is settle?
00:08:13.340 Well, settling is when you're in a marriage that isn't perhaps perfect and you want to go
00:08:16.580 out and explore what else is available.
00:08:18.020 Right.
00:08:18.420 That's the problem.
00:08:19.740 Yeah.
00:08:20.100 Because women think they deserve more than they do. 1.00
00:08:22.960 Yeah.
00:08:24.160 Is one perspective.
00:08:25.720 Well, I mean, if you could get it, you would get it.
00:08:28.760 Right?
00:08:29.180 So if she hasn't gotten it, how does she deserve something she can't get?
00:08:32.800 Oh, I think she just has to keep looking.
00:08:34.580 Just keep shagging. 0.98
00:08:37.080 You'll get them.
00:08:38.300 He's out there.
00:08:39.000 No, but seriously, a guy that wants a wife, what is he going to get out of a woman that 1.00
00:08:46.060 is 40 years old?
00:08:47.540 It's geriatric pregnancy. 0.73
00:08:48.980 She can't bring him kids. 0.77
00:08:50.200 How is that equally?
00:08:52.340 I mean, I know you don't want kids, but I think.
00:08:54.460 I've got a child.
00:08:54.700 OK, I know you don't want a lot of kids.
00:08:57.740 That's fine.
00:08:58.320 Right, right.
00:09:00.220 Are you planning children?
00:09:01.180 What?
00:09:01.580 Are you planning children?
00:09:03.060 Every day of my life.
00:09:04.400 Really?
00:09:04.460 Yeah.
00:09:05.020 Yeah.
00:09:05.200 I know you don't want kids, too.