JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman Believes that she's a 10

00:00:00.000 um everyone rate themselves one to ten can't use seven right yeah um one to ten go around

00:00:08.580 can't use seven i'll start i think i'm a five why five six six okay it's very common for females to 1.00

00:00:19.360 say seven that's why really yeah really i don't know why she's right that's usually everyone

00:00:26.160 thinks they're seven typically so it's like eight eight is your model six is your you're cute

00:00:31.880 sevens in between so most people think they're sevens okay but you said six

00:00:37.980 oh five okay you think you're five okay six nice i've become a ten

00:00:45.480 so are you joking or are you serious i'm serious you think you're a ten yeah who what what

00:00:55.700 celebrity would you put as a ten what other one that's a girl um i don't really care for

00:01:01.720 celebrities um who would i put as a ten oh sanna layton so you have the same looks as her 1.00

00:01:07.520 i don't think looks like rating one to ten oh that's what we're waiting for i was thinking

00:01:11.580 about my holes um even if it's your whole self you don't think there's any room for improvement

00:01:17.460 of course i think there's room for improvement but i feel like i love myself 100 every stage

00:01:23.580 that i'm at so that's how i always call myself a 10 even though i can improve that makes sense

00:01:29.400 9.5 then 9.5 but what about in the eyes of men what do you think that generally speaking

00:01:34.600 typically the majority of men would rate you uh maybe majority of men majority of men is not

00:01:42.340 my type um six maybe six five six point five i give myself a eight uh based on feedback i would

00:01:56.220 say faces are eight bodies are eight based on reality and who i am and the fact that i have

00:02:03.400 a child i would didn't even go beyond five i'd say four because how i am as a person i'm not looking

00:02:09.420 for a man i'm not interested in a guy and that's where i'm at as a person i'd say four if you

00:02:14.560 had a conversation with me you'd know i'm not interested in a guy if you guys had to pick

00:02:21.160 two of the three looks money and loyalty what would you pick looks and loyalty looks and

00:02:28.900 loyalty i i based on your answers earlier that's what what do you think um looks and money money

00:02:39.420 loyalty and money loyalty and money loyalty and money loyalty and money so for the people that

00:02:54.480 says they they give up loyalty why i think you said that and you said that because loyalty is measured

00:03:00.080 under the benefit of the doubt and to be honest every single human that is raised in a modern society

00:03:06.720 put them in a right scenario they would basically be not loyal to you

00:03:13.440 you think the same yeah i think the same i mean i feel like at some point someone's probably going

00:03:23.700 to cheat on you so i'd rather cry in a ferrari than a fiesta to be honest have um have you ever

00:03:31.420 been cheated on no no never have you ever been cheated on i have yeah how'd you find out

00:03:37.500 i'm very good at identifying red flags very good

00:03:43.900 so what happened but you found out yourself was it was it was it a phone phone looker um no there

00:03:53.160 i was actually very quite brave about it okay okay a story um my partner at the time actually cheated

00:04:00.760 right in front of my face and i thought they were joking wait what yeah okay was it at a bar or something

00:04:07.880 no so they basically kept on requesting for a threesome and i declined a couple times but then i

00:04:14.520 thought i mean the second time i actually got really mad like physically mad with that person but

00:04:20.600 they asked me the third time i thought is this a joke like we went into a big argument the first

00:04:24.600 time physical argument the second time and i asked me again the third time thought okay cool this is

00:04:29.240 a joke i said yeah no problem sarcastic yeah no no problems like yeah i said yeah no problem

00:04:34.760 he actually picked up the female and booked a hotel i honestly thought he was joking and i didn't realize

00:04:42.360 okay i realized he wasn't joking when he picked her up but then he started to kiss her in the car

00:04:48.040 and at that point i was shocked and i thought to myself let me actually see if he's gonna actually

00:04:53.160 have sex with me in front of me but you agreed to it though how is he supposed to know that it wasn't

00:04:59.400 now if you said yes you say very very sarcastic you can tell in my voice that i was really joking 0.98

00:05:09.400 especially if you had a physical you're wicked you run with it no i'm in common like after the third

00:05:16.680 time and i'm now saying yes after when we had an argument and a physical maybe he just thought he

00:05:21.000 was persuasive he was trying to see how how you would yeah yeah yeah he was testing your boundaries 100

00:05:31.400 percent i don't know how far did they how far did they go with this oh they went all out i had to

00:05:37.880 sit there and watch you watch oh my god mud things oh i hope you threw him in the bin of course yeah 1.00

00:05:44.520 of course of course oh lord yo wow wait wait wait wait so what they done the full shebang in front of

00:05:57.080 you in front of me and you didn't do nothing how could you sit there and watch that yeah why would

00:06:01.640 you do nothing did you did you say at any point that you weren't okay with it during this no i mean

00:06:07.320 you could tell by my body language it's like it's like someone's saying that they're gonna do a

00:06:17.400 threesome sarcastically and you're having sex with someone and they're literally just in one corner of 0.89

00:06:21.720 the room sarcastically though yeah how can you say you're gonna have a threesome sarcastically i want 0.82

00:06:28.680 to know this guy this guy just thought this was his chance yeah this is his dream like what did he say

00:06:34.920 when you broke up with him did he say that he thought you were serious he he he literally just

00:06:40.280 took the piss i don't think he respected you at all for him to do that yeah i just honestly feel like 0.68

00:06:47.080 it depends how it went because obviously if you're in a relationship and you agree to it

00:06:50.840 yeah but obviously yeah but she sarcastically if he thought she was sarcastic he really thinks a

00:06:56.920 man's gonna be so brazen she's his girlfriend when you're in a relationship she's agreed to from the 1.00

00:07:01.400 back of your house when you started like if i wasn't okay with it i'd be like what the hell are 0.67

00:07:07.960 you doing yeah from the beginning yeah sorry so if you're saying nothing like you don't think that's

00:07:12.680 confusing to the guy no no because your partner knows you like my partner knows me i don't even

00:07:19.000 have to talk and he knows i'm in a bad mood like your partner should know you and you said what you

00:07:24.440 said he should have been like oh i'm in trouble no guys i'm not stupid men should read minds and not 0.52

00:07:30.760 listen to the words that come out of our mouth no men just need to stop they should they should just 0.96

00:07:35.880 know you yeah men should just stop gaslighting us and pretending that they're dumb because you're not 0.92

00:07:40.920 dumb you know what you're doing you're testing her boundaries no but if you're in a relationship 0.98

00:07:46.760 right i'm not saying i've done this because i haven't and say a guy is generally interested in that 0.99

00:07:51.960 kind of aspect of intimacy okay then you have a conversation if he feels that way no no but

00:07:57.560 yeah i get that there's obviously a miscommunication breakdown yeah if he's gone all the way like

00:08:03.480 something's wrong something's not right there or he's just sorry to say just doesn't respect her

00:08:09.640 like at all yeah but he does though because he must have respected her to ask her in the first place

00:08:15.000 i mean how many times do girls ask for a ring and they get it a lot of the times but if you had an 1.00

00:08:27.480 argument i know that your note was more than three times they'll ask for girls girls and guys have

00:08:31.880 arguments about getting married all the time women are always nagging on men to get married and they 1.00

00:08:35.960 give in but no one second guesses that yeah i think that's he was persistent but this is extreme like

00:08:43.400 you know three times so is signing a contract that could ruin your life men commit suicide over divorce

00:08:50.760 yeah that's one of the number one predictors of suicide if a guy gets divorced so that's pretty

00:08:56.520 serious yeah well i mean they can always say no and so could she yeah but i feel like she was just

00:09:04.680 too traumatized to even talk yeah honestly when it was happening in shock but she's learned from it

00:09:12.280 she was i wasn't shocked how is your brain even processed though i wanted to test is that why you

00:09:16.120 couldn't leave at the same time you were trying to finish so that just she just said she wanted to

00:09:19.880 test his boundaries at the same time so obviously it was a game you set him up man you don't do that

00:09:24.680 sit him up that makes more sense it's quite a risky guy that it makes more sense if you say he was

00:09:35.160 testing his boundaries because like you just said that he was testing her boundaries but you never

00:09:40.440 questioned if she was testing his but this sort of thing this is like we automatically like take the

00:09:44.440 woman's side yeah yeah yeah yeah and it's the same thing with the with the marriage thing like no one 0.79

00:09:50.440 ever thinks about you know how many men are like twisted their arm yeah walk down the aisle

00:09:57.400 i personally wouldn't i personally wouldn't want to force my man like if someone's going to marry 1.00

00:10:02.040 me i want them to marry me because they want to marry me yeah i i agree but that's not that's not

00:10:06.360 everyone well then they shouldn't be with that woman yeah they should leave the woman if you don't 1.00

00:10:11.160 want to be yeah but we just spoke about the fact how the majority of women don't find the majority of 1.00

00:10:17.560 men attractive so i reckon there's more pressure on the guy to think god if i don't marry this one 0.99

00:10:22.440 which one am i gonna find that's true i don't think it's fair like you can't put the same standards

00:10:28.840 on men and women we're not equal i think everyone here is grounded enough to know that and you know

00:10:33.720 women like you know women want to get married but you know if a man a man doesn't really know if he 1.00

00:10:38.920 wants to get married and the woman's asking and asking and asking and he's probably average looking

00:10:42.520 knowing that what 80 of women are going to find him unattractive like it's not the same and men

00:10:48.360 don't talk about their emotions very much and that doesn't surprise me that divorce um is a really

00:10:53.880 high indicator of male suicide because men don't talk to anyone really and like if they don't can't

00:10:59.240 talk to their wife it's just it's devastating you can't put you can't say it's the same like oh he

00:11:03.640 shouldn't have said yes because he's got way more to lose he knows that he might not find someone else

00:11:07.880 whereas if you get divorced as the female you'll find someone in minutes if you go on social media

00:11:16.200 you ever hear that like 80 year old on tinder and she still was getting more swipes yeah yeah 1.00

00:11:24.040 like grandma what are you doing why'd you do that interview yeah um okay i'm gonna read super

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JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023

Modern Woman Believes that she's a 10

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