JustPearlyThings - July 17, 2023


Modern Woman Claimed to be Ambitious


Episode Stats

Length

54 minutes

Words per Minute

170.51439

Word Count

9,326

Sentence Count

16

Misogynist Sentences

99

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 coming up next she's an eight but she's slept
00:00:04.640 what number do i want to do today she's slept with 15 guys what is she now
00:00:12.880 she's not an option got donezo donezo
00:00:23.440 zero zero zero zero he's an eight but he doesn't have a job
00:00:32.640 you're in the bin mate what you're in the bin oh gone
00:00:36.240 donezo what about what if they have ambition or goal he's applying for jobs
00:00:41.520 he just doesn't have one has he it depends on what is earth
00:00:45.120 what earth weapon he i mean he applied at mcdonald's you know what i mean
00:00:49.680 um yeah no i i feel like me as an individual i'm quite highly ambitious
00:00:57.040 and i just don't find it attractive in a gentleman
00:01:01.760 that if they don't if they just if they haven't got that sort of ambition and
00:01:05.120 that drive to get up and actually want to go and do and
00:01:08.640 yeah you're in the bin what's a bigger red flag if she doesn't get along with her
00:01:13.200 mom or her dad father for sure miss out one of the best
00:01:18.720 pieces of advice i ever received when i was about 22 from mentors he said
00:01:23.440 look at that woman's relationship with her father and it'll tell you how she
00:01:26.800 treats you we are going to be talking about
00:01:30.640 this week there was a tweet that erupted twitter
00:01:34.560 all right this tweet had all the women mad on the right
00:01:38.400 and the left it had the men mad and the tweet was um can you pull up the one
00:01:45.280 the original one i sent you the the mar the brad pratt
00:01:52.400 one so it had do you guys know who margot robbie is
00:01:56.400 yes okay so there was a tweet that said despite
00:02:00.240 years of complaining about unrealistic beauty standards the most talked about
00:02:04.800 movie of the year is of two insanely hot people
00:02:08.880 and it had a picture of barbie okay and margot robbie's the star and in
00:02:14.160 barbie so but someone quote tweeted that and said margot robbie
00:02:18.640 was cast in barbie explicitly because she wasn't pretty enough
00:02:23.840 to alienate a female audience and this erupted twitter
00:02:31.040 because they felt like they were just dogging on her looks
00:02:34.640 they felt like um and then there was a a bunch of people who basically were
00:02:40.400 calling margot robbie mid so my question to you is what would you
00:02:45.120 rate margot robbie one to ten we're going to show her picture in a second
00:02:49.680 can you pull it up king
00:02:57.120 margot robbie one to ten in this photo or just in general in general in general i'd give
00:03:04.000 her a 10 but probably in this photo god you can tell there's just like so
00:03:08.880 much post-production on it she doesn't actually look real but then
00:03:11.600 she's not trying to just can you can you just google her too and we
00:03:14.880 can just show some other pictures but like day to day i would say yeah
00:03:19.760 she's a good solid nine nine nine ten nine ten yeah i haven't seen her
00:03:24.160 before but from what i'm looking at she looks
00:03:28.240 okay um she's definitely someone the industry uses as like a beauty standard
00:03:33.040 yeah
00:03:39.920 i would say seven seven i'll give her like a
00:03:45.760 eight point two five eight point two what do you think yeah she's a ten ten eight
00:03:51.280 eight she's a strong nine nine yeah okay but my question is this why can men
00:03:58.080 not criticize a woman's looks without erupting the internet
00:04:02.960 we're going in order yeah anyone can just i would say because
00:04:13.120 women's looks are known to be a important factor and something that they can often be sensitive about
00:04:19.280 i think societally it's a little bit taboo to speak about and can come across offensive and you know as they say
00:04:27.680 misogynistic so but if we but if we like criticize a guy's looks nobody cares
00:04:32.720 like if i called leonardo dicaprio mid no one would care
00:04:36.560 that's true you know what i mean but he's the one dating all the models but nobody would care
00:04:40.640 yeah yeah yeah i think it's because men uh society knows men personally don't put as
00:04:46.080 much of as an emphasis on their own looks it's not as much of a factor um maybe in their confidence
00:04:51.520 you could say that it's a little bit easier to to make fun of them versus women it's like
00:04:59.520 be careful you don't want to hurt her feelings what do you guys think um me personally i feel like yeah
00:05:10.000 females females in general are emotional beings i think that's fair to say and i don't feel like
00:05:17.120 it's a man's place to even speak on um the looks or if they feel like a woman's like overly attractive
00:05:23.760 especially on social media i think that's it's a bit of a low blow um so yeah do women speak on if
00:05:31.760 men are attractive on social media absolutely so why does one gender get to do it and not the other
00:05:38.480 privilege yeah privilege definitely women privilege no but you're saying you but i'm asking you because
00:05:43.360 you said you don't think men should comment on women's looks but i'm saying if the women are doing it
00:05:48.160 why can't the men it's just it's taboo isn't it yeah yeah it's just like one of the it's like an
00:05:55.120 unspoken rule but it shouldn't be what's what one rule for one and another rule for another it
00:06:03.920 shouldn't be that way too like imagine have you ever heard like um short man syndrome yeah like
00:06:10.160 what if what if they had small tits syndrome we can't do that you know
00:06:15.040 what do you what do you think dimitri there's so much to unpack here i mean how how deep do we
00:06:20.720 want to dwell into this go go go deep oh man okay so this this is actually there's quite a lot of
00:06:25.840 interesting stuff here so um i was reading some studies i'm doing a book called the book of shame
00:06:29.360 where i'm literally putting together um 300 and sorry 403 no 304 304 um putting together 304 studies
00:06:38.800 that sort of outline the difference between virtue signaling and actual outcomes in society and one
00:06:43.760 thing of course we all already know is that what we say and what we think are not the same thing
00:06:48.400 one very basic example of that like i did a clip where it's like the most discriminated group when
00:06:52.880 you look at across any group for like controlled for race and looks and age and everything the most
00:06:57.360 discriminated group by far are short men and it's not close like short men have the highest suicide
00:07:02.160 rates short rate men have the highest um rates of of of drinking and binge drinking highest depression
00:07:08.000 uh lowest income etc etc etc and i'm not saying that like short man can't be successful i think
00:07:12.880 they can and should be it's more so that we just know the outcomes for short men are terrible short
00:07:17.200 men also are vastly underrepresented in the sexual marketplace like women are just not picking them
00:07:21.360 in fact when you look at like the searches right this is just numbers like you're looking on search
00:07:24.880 on um what is it the dating app everybody's using nowadays bumble whatever uh oh women filter out
00:07:32.320 yeah six under six foot tall to show up in less than 15 of searches so they don't even get they
00:07:36.480 don't even get looked at i was thinking about that i'm like i if i was a short guy i would just lie on
00:07:41.680 the dating apps i understand why they do it because i'm like women lie with the filters right
00:07:45.840 lie with the makeup so i'm like if i was a guy i would lie out make it even do it too right well
00:07:51.920 and so so the question is like okay so then why do we make it taboo so there's there's a few steps here
00:07:56.640 why it is so so um virtue signaling is actually like a very well-known mating tactic uh applied by
00:08:02.400 both men and women the way that men virtue signal is they become more altruistic around women they
00:08:06.400 perceive to be beautiful so when you have like a charity event men will give more money when a beautiful
00:08:10.160 woman's in the room it's been tested it's been shown many many times over women virtue signal
00:08:14.720 purity so women will drop hints that they're sexually pure despite the fact that they might
00:08:18.640 tell you on this podcast like oh it doesn't matter how many guys you sleep with but but when you
00:08:23.760 actually look at women's behavior and women's and and how they they express their behavior they always
00:08:27.840 express their behavior as being sexually cleaner than their actual behavior this is not conjecture
00:08:32.080 this is studied and this is true right so why not why not say about a woman blah blah blah well very
00:08:37.840 simply uh because a woman's value is implicitly determined by how attractive she is to potential
00:08:43.520 mates and the way that we know this there's a really cool study about this is they did a study
00:08:47.520 on how good are women and men at perceiving the beauty of other women so they gave really yes and
00:08:53.600 so and so what they found is men consistently pick the same women as being beautiful women are highly
00:08:58.560 cognizant and extremely good at identifying which women are beautiful to other men and the women that are
00:09:03.600 most beautiful to other men when they are in the room women become derogatory towards the most
00:09:08.400 beautiful women wow yes because they want to undermine and what they do is they undermine her
00:09:12.800 chastity and her purity she's like oh she's a slut she's this and that and the reason they're saying
00:09:16.800 it is because they want to relative so women compete relatively with each other as well and so they
00:09:20.960 undermine the sexual market value of other women in the room in order to elevate themselves she's hot
00:09:25.520 she must be a whore right exactly so that's what we'll do right and by the way you never see guys do this
00:09:29.840 right it's like oh that guy's a piece of crap like guys don't do that because it comes off as
00:09:32.880 inherently feminine so guys don't compete like that we compete physically much more direct now
00:09:36.720 here's what's interesting when men were asked to raid the attractiveness of other men men are
00:09:41.280 notoriously bad at at actualizing like which other men are attractive to women and it's very easy to
00:09:47.360 prove because like i can talk to anush or any of the guys here i can say look guys have you ever seen
00:09:51.200 a guy that consistently gets beautiful women and you're like how does he do that pete davidson right yeah
00:09:57.200 so we like what the hell so men are actually very bad at perceiving the attractiveness of other men to women
00:10:02.080 so we might we might think that guy's a loser but he's getting all the chicks like what's going on
00:10:05.680 right well because is it because men are more logical no so like but like women we pick based
00:10:11.280 off of emotions a lot of the time no it's no it's because well obviously that's true but also but but
00:10:16.400 it's more so to do the fact that men compete on status so it's like so but the question is like so
00:10:20.400 why can't we uh objectively say something about a woman and the answer is very clear and here it is
00:10:25.360 it's because we all know like we look at margot robbie we can play the game like and she's a 7.8 it's like dude
00:10:30.880 she's literally she played sharon tayden once upon a time in hollywood who was the standard of
00:10:34.560 beauty for like two generations she's literally like you might say she's not your type whatever
00:10:39.120 but objectively find a woman that's objectively more beautiful good luck you know you know what's
00:10:43.600 interesting though i've found on this show that when i ask men versus women women will rate her higher
00:10:49.520 than men do like i don't know why because i always thought she was like the epitome of beauty right but
00:10:54.720 every time i've like brought her up as like the number one like beauty status yeah do you have other do
00:10:58.720 you have other women on the couch women um when men say that are there women around them yeah the
00:11:03.520 men are virtually signaling no no but what they'll usually do is they'll bring up like the the most
00:11:07.600 common one i got is the what is that preacher's wife i think she just divorced him um i cannot remember
00:11:14.640 her name good yeah i get megan good a lot and i get um uh the russell wilson's wife now i get her a lot
00:11:24.400 i like yeah yeah i get those two more than margot robbie weirdly enough well look she might she
00:11:29.680 there's different levels whatever but like objectively speaking oh yeah yeah like like she's she's like
00:11:34.160 like you're not gonna oh i want better it's like okay so i wanted i wanted to read you some of the
00:11:39.840 responses um towards towards them because i just i wasn't even interested like obviously she's hot right
00:11:47.440 but i was more interested in how like viscerally everybody reacted because i was like if i said i don't
00:11:53.280 think leonardo dicaprio's that hot i don't think michael b jordan's that hot like whatever like sex
00:11:58.560 status of like the guy equivalent no one would really care but so i was thinking like i think
00:12:03.840 women reacted so viscerally to this because if men don't perceive her as attractive like what does
00:12:08.480 that make us that like the average chick you know what i mean so um there was like the guys would
00:12:16.560 come in and said i want everybody who says margot robbie isn't attractive enough to play barbie
00:12:21.360 to post photos of your wives and girlfriends i'm trying to see something exactly but but the thing
00:12:26.720 is like i i think the question more is like because people will attack the people instead of the
00:12:31.280 argument like is she mid or is she not mid and you could say objectively she's not but like what does
00:12:35.760 a person's like girlfriend have to do with it listen i'm sorry for taking up some space here but
00:12:40.400 let's get serious like if somebody approached me in front of my wife and said how hot is margot robbie i
00:12:44.800 would be incentivized to virtue signal big well you know there's a lot of dudes out there that can't pick
00:12:49.120 up an eight or nine which is just how it is and it's fine it's okay like we're working on ourselves
00:12:52.960 as men right and they virtue signal to say like well she's not even that hot it's like dude she's not
00:12:57.200 picking you like show show some damn respect and just like live up to where you are and and and just
00:13:02.960 say the truth you know unhinged take if you ever get it in your head that margot robbie isn't in the top
00:13:08.480 five percent of conventionally attractive women log off go for a walk outside so say hello to a normal
00:13:14.960 looking female return and correct yourself um and it was interesting i put i just i've been doing this
00:13:22.400 before the show i put it in um google just the picture of her now i wish i did one without makeup
00:13:30.400 but guess guess what her rating was can you guys see it don't look she can see it
00:13:35.520 um but one to ten what do you think because they had like you basically basically put the picture in
00:13:40.240 and then men rate her one to ten guess what i was like is she mid let's look guess guess what percent
00:13:47.520 attractiveness she's in the sin yeah like top ten top 20. yeah top ten i would say yeah top ten
00:13:56.800 percent so they are chatting but but i was more curious about the reaction so this led me today was
00:14:04.960 i was hoping as a class as a group we can find celebrities and examples
00:14:12.560 that we can rate people one to ten it should be interesting yeah so i i was thinking it'd be
00:14:18.160 interesting to see like what the men pick and what the women pick as like a 10 and each rating okay so
00:14:25.200 all right what's an example first thing that comes into your head head don't say margot robbie of a 10.
00:14:48.480 you're asking a lot everybody everybody okay
00:14:57.920 male or female female we'll do male next we'll do male next
00:15:04.560 jessica alba tens don't exist
00:15:09.440 jessica alba is it adriana lima lena the victoria's the victoria's secret model what's her name
00:15:15.600 adriana lima lena i'm not sure i think oh she's beautiful which one is um she's been she's been
00:15:24.240 uh yeah yeah she's been a victoria's secret model for years i'm not sure i think victoria
00:15:28.640 but i'm sure i'd say that that's certainly yeah yeah yeah i'll say lori harvey oh that's a good one
00:15:36.080 she's beautiful lori harvey
00:15:40.640 and king if you can during some of these can you pull up pictures of them on the screen
00:15:48.720 um who else are we speaking like purely aesthetic yeah just looks okay um
00:15:58.880 i can't even think no i feel like i've been putting the pressure
00:16:02.720 i'd have to agree with dimitri jessica alba is a good example jessica alba okay what about a five
00:16:10.640 oh
00:16:15.040 it'd be good if we could see some examples
00:16:18.800 um sarah jessica parker maybe oh that's a good one sarah
00:16:26.960 put sarah jessica parker on the screen and see if they think she's a a five
00:16:32.560 go go a few years back what would you what would you rate her one to ten
00:16:43.360 i've been listening or any justice
00:16:44.720 oh i hope she doesn't see this go back go back like 15 years go on
00:16:58.720 i remember i feel like in her heyday she was definitely she was on a five
00:17:11.760 no she was she was well above a five yeah yeah yeah
00:17:15.120 brah
00:17:15.440 she's a six at best i mean look this is relative right like you could say she's a sucks but like
00:17:23.840 you go on the street i've been i've been in london for two days right she would literally be the most
00:17:27.120 beautiful woman in london like today she'd be in the top two percent of the city like like it's just
00:17:31.600 what it is right all right we're gonna do all right raise your hand if you think she's a four
00:17:37.040 oh no no no no raise your hand if you think she's a five five five i would say five sorry what what
00:17:46.960 age are we ranking her at let's do put her put her at like i don't know 35. you don't want to put
00:17:52.960 her in her prime and see what i mean we could do prime i don't know here just pick a picture king
00:18:07.040 what would you put her at in the middle
00:18:21.440 seven six seven yeah okay so we'll do we'll do the middle pictures six six okay
00:18:37.040 what is she oh you want me to say yeah what do you rate her one can we pull up a picture of her
00:18:51.680 i gotta refresh
00:19:08.960 giving her a i feel like she's a solid eight i was gonna say seven and a half yeah
00:19:14.800 all right who thinks she's a seven raise your hand who thinks she's an eight eight okay let's go
00:19:23.680 ahead and throw megan fox there's a ton i was just thinking her yeah yeah
00:19:29.440 marco
00:19:37.680 demitri has all the references from 10 years ago
00:19:41.840 um okay okay lizzo
00:19:49.120 10. sorry on which scale lizzo lizzo's got to be on this half i think about 320 if last time i checked
00:19:58.720 lizzo one to ten zero zero three three all right who thinks who thinks she's a one lizzo
00:20:08.240 is that the lowest yeah one who thinks she's i'm gonna be respectful and give her like a solid two
00:20:16.720 all right who thinks she's a two or three at the least two or three three who thinks she's a three
00:20:23.520 maybe i'm not being too generous too generous that's a three then what's a one
00:20:27.680 one but again but again it but again it's preference it's preference it's not you know
00:20:32.480 what i'm more judge of personality yeah exactly what there was none of this when we were doing the hot
00:20:40.160 why does this switch when they're not hot no i i personally believe it's not the preference because
00:20:46.240 she's a fluffy female and i do believe that she's still beautiful but she's not my personal preference
00:20:51.760 yeah so i'm asking you what you would rate her i'm not asking the world yeah me personally i would
00:20:56.480 put it down as like a two three all right three all right all right who says two who says three
00:21:04.160 who says one all right okay i guess one i think it's the most i think the word the word you're
00:21:12.320 looking for is the word you're looking for is planet all right lizzo's one all right um what what would
00:21:24.240 rosie o'donald be similar to a one yeah rosie who's rosie o'donald yeah you want to show a picture
00:21:30.720 you don't want to go there oh yeah i remember julia i love it julia robert okay yeah
00:21:44.480 let's see if they gave me anyone in the chat sometimes they'll do that
00:21:50.400 all right guys if you have any girls in the chat you want everybody to rate um
00:21:55.280 someone put jody comer does anyone know who that is no they're just trolling their friend's mom
00:22:02.880 rosie o'donald one one is lizzo hotter than rosie i mean she's probably hotter like physically in terms
00:22:11.920 of like she just needs a lot of air conditioning in the room but all right rosie o'donnell oh what
00:22:17.440 about jenna collins oh that's a good one i've put up jenna collins
00:22:24.400 what would she be
00:22:40.560 what would she be
00:22:45.360 all right who thinks who thinks of four
00:22:47.760 the three yeah not knowing her a three a three see i would say lizzo ranked higher than her yeah
00:22:58.000 i love jemma i love i think she's brilliant but yeah i think it largely depends on how how much are
00:23:06.160 you weighing the the fat factor because if you're purely like it's how do scientific you want to get
00:23:12.000 well look at i'm asking i'm asking you it's not the what everyone else thinks it's what you think
00:23:18.000 like you would rate her one to ten i'd give her a three i'd give her a three
00:23:23.200 but i i personally if we're gonna give her a three i'm saying lizzo has to get a four
00:23:28.480 you think lizzo's more attractive yeah oh actually without the makeup oh wow she looks different
00:23:34.160 you see the black top
00:23:37.600 um okay i would say three for this chick i would have gave lizzo like a two um what do you think one
00:23:44.480 one to five this one yeah this i mean like she's a one but she kind of has that american pie milf
00:23:49.440 points so i'd give her two two all right what do you say one one yes it has to be a two two what do you
00:23:58.000 say probably one one one one what about what about you two two one all right what was her name again
00:24:09.440 gemma collins i just want to thank you pearl you know spending a lot of time around corporate we just
00:24:18.080 never get to do this at work look at it what about rihanna oh mine damn nine she i think she's like
00:24:32.960 eight to go to this is this is she we were in my oh okay we'll do we'll do maya first just because
00:24:42.640 she's on the screen okay um i give her a eight again i feel like she's a solid nine yeah i'd say
00:25:00.320 beyonce ten ten ten what are you kidding me see this one now is a bit again taboo i think i think
00:25:10.000 beyonce is an eight go go to like go to like go to like her and like austin powers three age like
00:25:16.080 when she's like prime beyonce has always been beautiful let's keep it real but i don't know if
00:25:24.000 she's a she's a ten i feel like she's what about dodgy cat wait we'll do her next but we'll do be okay
00:25:32.000 beyonce raise your hand if you think she's an eight we're going with current yeah current yeah eight eight
00:25:38.720 eight nine i'm like eight and a half yeah nine ten okay i think the average would be nine so
00:25:51.680 it's a nine doja cat
00:25:57.760 it's getting tricky
00:25:58.640 again it's an acquired taste i'm asking you what your taste is it's not other people she has too
00:26:10.880 many different faces to be honest with you i don't even know what onto even rate her on like she she's
00:26:15.760 she's a great creative but i i don't i don't even know okay yeah like there's not one face there that
00:26:23.440 i could say it's the same person like it's mad what do you guys think six to seven yep seven seven
00:26:31.120 which is dope yeah seven
00:26:36.560 we need a five what about scissor is that how you pronounce the name scissor yeah
00:26:42.240 yeah s said a what the real one or the plastic one she's in the five range i mean this is the real one
00:27:05.360 yeah let's see the plastic one the plastic one what about chloe kardashian
00:27:16.560 we'll do her next but this one this girl first scissor scissor the new scissor i would rate her
00:27:23.920 a nine hold on so she's done work yeah so that was her before with the curly hair
00:27:30.720 where the crest is on let's see her currently now
00:27:42.080 man why she go and do it it looks good okay this picture one to ten
00:27:49.280 i give her like i give her like a six i'm i'm at a seven seven yeah seven seven i'm a five five
00:28:00.960 what is seven seven this picture yeah seven seven probably like that five like she looks like
00:28:08.400 it's like i've seen a bit of a bad dream oh that sounds really horrible but uh yeah it's quite evil
00:28:14.800 i want to do a six it's like an average um okay chloe kardashian now or before
00:28:25.040 now now chloe kardashian now we have to bring our picture of her i'd say probably like seven seven seven
00:28:33.680 so we're gonna go six oh i don't know about that first one i don't know oh he's up he's oh yeah
00:28:45.120 are all of them her yeah what
00:28:47.440 i think she actually looks good now but i i can't get with the work man
00:29:06.000 i do six what would you guys do yeah we cannot find a five i'll give her a five what about dale
00:29:12.880 oh that's a good one adele adele with like her weight loss chloe kashian
00:29:25.840 adele
00:29:31.280 before or after after i'd say probably a good solid yeah she looks good oh what was give me the before
00:29:37.680 and the after what would you guys rate her rate her before she lost weight and after
00:29:41.520 um that's a good one three and eight three and eight three and eight
00:29:49.360 adele
00:29:52.480 i'll say five and eight five and eight but don't this picture yeah i'm saying i'm saying four and
00:29:59.600 eight four and eight yeah what would you say i'm saying three and eight i think i got
00:30:08.400 we're really we're really taking a dump on the body positivity movement here hey it's like we're
00:30:12.560 like well and it's actually this is very interesting because um we know inherently that like being
00:30:17.680 fit is more attractive period end of sentence right um i want to share a cool little stat that i i looked
00:30:23.680 up recently i thought it was pretty funny um do you guys think that being attractive helps you like
00:30:28.080 let's say you're at work right do you guys think being attractive helps you like earn more money
00:30:31.040 over your life over your lifetime absolutely yes then the numbers are staggering so uh more
00:30:36.560 attractive people earn on average it's uh about five thousand dollars a year than less attractive
00:30:42.400 people which is like 230 000 over the course of a career but if you were to take that money and
00:30:47.920 split them to like monthly payments whatever is like 411 a month something like that if you invest
00:30:52.720 that if you take the added income that people that are more attractive earn over less attractive
00:30:57.360 people if you just invest that in the stock market over the course of your career it works
00:31:00.640 out to 3.8 million dollars that attractive people make over unattractive people but that's not the
00:31:06.240 crazy stat here's pearl the crazy stat you might enjoy this because when i was reading those statistics
00:31:10.640 i was like oh women really get punished at work for not being like more attractive but actually
00:31:15.840 men get punished disproportionately men get punished way more for being unattractive
00:31:21.120 well women also have higher men have higher beauty standards than women do like this whole
00:31:26.080 like women have the highest beauty standards that we can't live up to men find like half of us
00:31:30.240 attractive it's like it's like stupid like i couldn't believe like the guy the girls like guys will
00:31:37.040 say they would like sleep down so much you know what i mean like it's crazy when you go down to like
00:31:41.600 how low they'll go but women it's like we only find like five to fifteen percent of men attractive
00:31:47.600 twenty percent on the correlation of 0.6 which is like unheard of in sociology but 0.6 correlation to a man's
00:31:53.520 status so for a man to be more attractive to women like so again when women rate men they don't agree
00:31:58.240 on who's more attractive without any context but once you put clothing on that man like you got a
00:32:02.400 guy in a suit you got a guy in a t-shirt they consistently go for the status right so women have
00:32:06.480 a very very strong correlation to being attractive to status so i'm curious from the guys if a girl is
00:32:14.400 an eight but she's got a kid what is she what is a kid minus how much invincible
00:32:26.640 she's an eight but she's got a kid what is she i literally had this dinner conversation with
00:32:30.960 one of my colleagues like just now he's like knowing what you know about your wife like everything
00:32:35.840 she's the same person looks the same acts the same exact person but you meet her when she has a kid
00:32:39.680 i'm like yeah i would not even know her name what about you guys she has a kid she's an eight with
00:32:45.600 a kid what is she i mean purely aesthetically i don't think it would take anything off no i'm saying
00:32:51.360 like in terms of like dating it's okay we don't gotta be pc you know harsh knock for sure maybe brother
00:33:00.720 you're 22 if you say anything but a zero we're gonna have a talk after the show i'm gonna i'm gonna
00:33:04.800 give you some old man wisdom i'll say uh four or five okay so minus four a kid all right we're
00:33:12.400 gonna have a talk if you were my kid i'd be like sun sit down what do you guys say minus what she's
00:33:18.400 got a kid for me it doesn't really make a difference minus zero yeah all right we'll average you're
00:33:24.640 minus minus everything zero points don't care zero points sorry we're gonna do you wanna okay do you
00:33:30.640 want to again i don't want i don't want to stack myself on here but like dude like so did you know
00:33:35.920 did you know that once a woman has a kid she carries that kid's dna forever and it doesn't just go into
00:33:40.480 the womb it goes straight to her heart there's actual science to show that that kid's dna which
00:33:44.480 means another man's dna is living inside that woman and now you're producing kids with a woman who's like
00:33:49.920 dna is like mixed with another dude that's is that even uh nah but it's life it's laughter yeah but you
00:33:57.520 can make choices yeah okay look we're older no no no no no no no no it's life you can get pregnant
00:34:05.280 like three days a month i am so tired of like oh it just happened it's just no no no no in as much as
00:34:12.720 i'm talking about like the choices of being with somebody that's got a child or not like i think it's
00:34:18.000 just not the preference at the end of the day um i'm an older man so i don't see so kid no kid they're
00:34:23.600 exactly the same to you yeah like if you're beautiful and like my intention with yourself
00:34:28.400 is the same we've got pure intentions and it is what it is no but i'm saying like you have two
00:34:32.160 girls they're exactly the same both equally hot one has a kid one doesn't you're picking which one
00:34:38.000 if if there's a choice between two then it should be the one without the child okay so it does subtract
00:34:43.200 something if it's a choice between two people yeah but that's what i'm saying like like you're saying
00:34:48.240 it wouldn't make a difference but it would you because you just admitted it would oh okay you know
00:34:55.360 okay don't lie no no no no i'm saying be honest come on like you know it makes a difference like i
00:35:02.560 said for myself it hasn't made too much of a difference like in in my past relationships but
00:35:08.000 maybe maybe maybe maybe moving forward if i had two females that i deemed to be eight one had a child
00:35:16.240 and one didn't i would go for the one that didn't have a child okay so minus one maybe maybe minus
00:35:22.000 one thank you honestly what about you two girls exactly the same one has a kid one doesn't
00:35:29.920 depends depends the person that treats you right and they know they treat you the same just one has
00:35:34.080 a kid one doesn't i'll go for another kid okay so so minus one minus one thank you thank you
00:35:41.120 i'm gonna do an average of three because you said infinity what's what like what's the intent
00:35:47.920 right like for example if you're a single guy and you're just hooking up whatever you might not
00:35:51.040 consider it right but like at some age you become a more serious man and you want to you know you
00:35:54.960 want to take the danger that you've built on yourself and turn it into like a sagacious commitment
00:35:59.440 and become a more virtuous man like there is age appropriate problems you have to solve right
00:36:03.600 and it's like you work really hard gents you know and and this guy here told me he's an entrepreneur
00:36:08.240 before it's like yeah you're gonna risk 50 of everything you've ever earned before and after
00:36:13.680 you're you're through with that relationship you're gonna risk it on somebody that gave her
00:36:17.440 genetics to somebody else at the beginning like that's a dangerous i didn't say i would risk it
00:36:21.040 ah well you didn't say you would marry her maybe right yeah so what at 22 maybe it doesn't make a
00:36:25.040 difference but as you get older and you start solving older men problems you look for a long-term
00:36:28.720 relationship somebody to raise your children yeah that's a that's a more difficult choice no it
00:36:33.120 definitely be a harsh knock for sure but i was speaking purely aesthetically yeah and your
00:36:38.640 perception of that okay okay high bot oh and only fans is minus what so what was that a girl she's an
00:36:47.360 eight but she's got an only fans what is she now oh wow for me it's not really a conversation
00:36:56.880 she's done yeah donzo donzo okay so negative ten yeah okay what about you negative ten as well
00:37:05.280 negative ten minus ten thousand dollars a month you're paying my lifestyle sugar mama all right
00:37:10.880 what about you say four minus all right so we'll do minus eight for only fans
00:37:17.520 all right she's an eight but she slept with two of your friends oh what is she you're coming with him now
00:37:38.480 as far as the rankings negative 100 they're putting in the chat yeah it's peak now oh it's donzo
00:37:44.800 i wouldn't say it's donzo because yeah sometimes it's good for the gangists
00:37:52.080 so she might be now like a five baby all right so minus three for two of your friends what about
00:37:57.520 you one minus one zero go away no chance no chance zero are you dude i'm not that's like that's mean to
00:38:05.040 my friends oh okay like that's like come on like like that's so scarce to think that a dude would pick
00:38:09.600 up like no all right so we got negative ten negative one i think you guys have a
00:38:14.720 very wide range here let me see we're gonna do negative oh what about you yeah mine's mine's zero
00:38:21.360 as well we're gonna do negative five for two friends
00:38:27.120 okay
00:38:31.120 she's an eight but she slept
00:38:37.200 what number do i want to do today she slept with 15 guys what is she now
00:38:43.040 oh wow she's not an option donzo donzo zero zero zero zero zero say
00:39:00.240 four or five purely aesthetically all right we're gonna do negative eight for 10 bodies or 15 bodies
00:39:13.040 are you noticing the trend are you noticing the trend what are you noticing the trend man just wants
00:39:20.640 to bust nuts he's 20 he's 22. being being generous perception wise yeah but he's 22 we can like we've
00:39:29.520 all been 22. yeah we've dipped in the pool you know we've scraped the bottom some barrels
00:39:33.920 all right let's ask the ladies all right he's an eight but he doesn't have a job
00:39:44.400 you're in the bin mate what you're in the bin oh gone gone donezo what about what if they have ambition
00:39:50.720 or goal he he's applying for jobs he just doesn't have one that has he it depends on what is earth
00:39:56.560 what earth weffy he i mean he applied at mcdonald's you know what i mean um yeah no i i feel like
00:40:05.920 me as an individual i'm quite highly ambitious and i just don't find it attractive in a gentleman
00:40:13.440 that if they don't if they just if they haven't got that sort of ambition and that drive to get up and
00:40:17.760 actually want to go and do and yeah you're in the bin okay negative 10 what about you if they have the
00:40:25.280 ambition and the goal and they're putting their mind towards something or they're trying to find
00:40:30.640 a job in a certain sector and i can see you're trying hard and you're going to interviews and
00:40:36.320 you know like that i'll give you seven so my just minus one yeah as long as he's as long as he's going to
00:40:49.040 some interviews yeah like i have to see you ambitious and going out every day how ambitious
00:40:55.040 like what does he have to be applying to um so if he's got his mind and his goal towards something
00:41:02.000 like this set job that he wants and he's doing his research he's continuously going on interviews
00:41:08.400 then that's different if you're just being a bum when you're staying at home and you're not trying to
00:41:13.200 look for work or not trying to focus on your career or try and elevate yourself then so negative
00:41:22.480 negative for that one yeah then negative 10. all right negative 10 no job okay he's an eight but
00:41:33.200 he has a kid depends on what the baby mom's saying really um
00:41:42.240 it's quite a hard question do you think that guys leave their baby mums
00:41:50.480 how do you mean like so do you think like the baby one would be completely out of their life
00:41:55.520 no and i would never expect them to be um do you feel like there's a chance to going back sorry no
00:42:02.320 well i don't know i'm single to be honest so i wouldn't know myself never been put in that
00:42:05.280 situation so i wouldn't know but like if their baby mom was a bit a bit crazy you know okay
00:42:14.000 probably okay let's do a good baby mom and a bad baby mom so he's got a kid with a good baby mom
00:42:19.360 negative what wouldn't bother me wouldn't bother you no okay bad baby mom you're done yeah
00:42:26.240 donezo minus ten minus ten okay he's an eight but but he's got a bit of a beer belly
00:42:35.840 is it a beer belly or money belly so you say money belly so i know exactly what you mean
00:42:49.680 are you eating my or are you drinking beer i know what you mean a beer belly minus ten minus ten
00:42:57.920 probably like minus eight yeah minus eight yeah for a beer belly do you know what i don't really
00:43:06.800 i'm not a big drinker and i yeah it's just the whole idea of just yeah oh it's because he's a drinker
00:43:13.680 yeah it's not the look no so no the look wouldn't probably about yeah six or an eight do tattoos add or
00:43:19.920 subtract for you add add add in the middle and neutral yeah what about you guys tattoos on a woman
00:43:30.400 add or subtract i love add add how much
00:43:38.080 hmm i'll say that i look for it i'm not supposed to be look for females with tattoos but it's definitely
00:43:43.840 add some pointers so maybe like a one or two points so if i got like a sleeve i'd get a point
00:43:48.160 yeah one add minus five to start and then that's the that's the minus starting point and then drops
00:43:57.520 from there depending on location and size what about you yeah subtract at least like two three two three
00:44:06.880 i think tattoos i don't like tattoos on a guy i prefer none but i don't really care that much
00:44:14.480 i feel like it doesn't really make a difference okay he's an eight but but but
00:44:25.200 he has a horrible relationship with his mom do you guys care yeah yeah why yeah why have you had
00:44:31.040 experience with a guy that like doesn't get along with his mom yeah once once yeah i didn't i i'm such
00:44:38.800 a family person and for me family is the most important thing and if someone doesn't get on
00:44:43.040 with their mom then there's obviously a reason behind that and for me that's like quite a big red
00:44:48.880 flag because yeah no i just wouldn't if they didn't get on with their mom i'd be like i don't know i just
00:44:55.600 i'm where i'm such a family person and i adore my family around me 24 7 like i've not got kids but
00:45:01.200 if i had a kid i know my kid could kill someone blue bloody murder and i'd turn a blind eye to it and
00:45:05.600 i'd still love them no matter what so if someone doesn't speak to their mom then that is a big
00:45:10.560 big red flag so you don't care too much about their family like relation at the same i agree oh you
00:45:17.040 agree what about you guys do you guys look at her family background me 110 definitely definitely what
00:45:23.120 do you look at in her family background dynamic is a big thing
00:45:28.240 like with mom dad like what are you both both parents and how the how the family functions
00:45:38.080 together what's a bigger red flag if she doesn't get along with her mom or her dad father for sure
00:45:47.920 what about you dimitri yeah of course so you know there's this there's this crazy thing right now
00:45:52.720 we're like you know the jonah hill text i'm sure you guys discussed it here it's like
00:45:55.760 he sets out some boundaries which are pretty right like they're not crazy boundaries it's like hey i
00:45:59.920 don't want you going out with your slutty friends like like because you've broken my trust people
00:46:03.840 like it's controlling and i kind of read that i was like okay i think a lot of women say that's
00:46:08.800 controlling because they just never had proper boundaries set in their life and like i'm a dad
00:46:12.480 i got four kids you know what a dad's role is in a in a child's life and a girl or boy's life is to
00:46:16.880 set boundaries like you know if you look at like when how kids go to bed if mom puts kids to bed
00:46:22.560 they tend to extend going to bed by like half an hour to an hour but when dad puts kids to bed
00:46:27.120 they go to bed right away dad's word is firmer kids oblige and test the dad they oblige more to
00:46:31.440 the dad they test the dad less so if she doesn't have a like a good relationship with her father
00:46:35.520 she's grown up without a dad there's no boundary set for her so she perceives boundaries as emotional
00:46:40.480 abuse but are boundaries necessary in relationships yeah especially explicit boundaries like we have to
00:46:45.840 understand what exactly works for us and what doesn't and that's okay so no one of the best pieces of
00:46:51.520 advice i ever received when i was about 22 from a mentor is he said look at that woman's relationship
00:46:57.280 with her father and it'll tell you how she treats you yeah you guys look at like how much makeup she
00:47:03.520 wears yes how much can that subtract or add to a girl make or break yeah like what is it what does it do
00:47:12.560 at least four points three to four subtraction yeah why because i mean it's a preference thing but also
00:47:22.160 it's you're almost dealing with a different person at that point like you can look like two completely
00:47:28.560 different people so it's just a little bit inauthentic in my opinion have you guys ever
00:47:33.600 gone on a date with a girl and you like woke up and she looked completely different
00:47:37.600 no no fortunately i think seeing seeing people with or without uh makeup can be night and day
00:47:45.360 difference yeah unrecognizable a lot of the time really yeah you're nodding really hard no i mean
00:47:51.280 look like women are going to wear makeup like that's just how it is and there should be a level that you
00:47:54.960 take care of yourself but obviously you know the trend right now and like every time i come to england
00:47:58.800 i see these weird puffer face like it's just fake eye they shave their i don't know what the hell's going on
00:48:03.040 i've drawn drawn on eyebrows well i don't know i like i it was crazy doing this show for so long
00:48:09.360 because girls would follow me after the show and a lot of times i'll follow people back but like
00:48:13.600 sometimes i wouldn't recognize them i'm like wait is that the girl that was on because they'll tag me
00:48:20.160 in their stories and i'm like oh my god i didn't even notice but then i was like this is why the guys
00:48:24.880 are complaining on the dating apps huh have you guys ever gone on like a date with a girl from a dating
00:48:30.400 app and she looked different no i've been on a date with a guy on a dating app and he looked hi was
00:48:36.320 it hi do you know what no he said he was like six foot three and he was about six foot three so
00:48:40.560 that i was quite pleased with but he didn't look nothing like his five sides like at all like there's
00:48:47.120 catfishing and then there's that like they were him but i don't know why i don't know what he done
00:48:52.160 but it was like from like 10 years ago he was a bit older as well he said to me he was 24 this is when
00:48:57.120 i was like 22. oh he lied about his age yeah he was about 35 36 and obviously they're each to their
00:49:02.880 own do you know what i mean everyone has their own preference and and whatever i completely understand
00:49:06.480 i completely respect that but i'll just do you know when you're just a bit shocked you're like what do
00:49:10.880 you god what am i gonna do here like i'm too nice to run away and then no i am oh i was i had to sit
00:49:17.440 there and withstand like the whole time for a drink after i'm like yeah i've got to go home i've got
00:49:22.080 work to my own three i've done that before where you're like oh i want to leave but you're like you
00:49:26.800 don't want to yeah you don't want to hurt someone's feelings like and it's like because i know i wouldn't
00:49:31.120 like someone to do it to me personally but and so i just couldn't do it to someone else and like that
00:49:34.560 look of like disheartened like just being someone just disheartened and they've been together for
00:49:38.480 eight years now what is the perfect age to date for you guys two years two years older two years older two
00:49:50.800 maybe a year younger two years older okay three years maybe four that's no more than that okay what
00:49:56.720 about you um yeah i'll say two years older okay to say plus minus two but i think uh issue with
00:50:09.120 my age range is a lot of people have a little bit maturity differences so yeah i'd say plus minus two
00:50:15.760 well i'm married for 10 years we're the same age we're both 40 yeah if you were to date again what
00:50:21.600 age would would you do um be careful dimitri no like that's actually that's fine like no like that's
00:50:28.400 actually a really interesting question there's some depth to it you know i'll tell you you could even
00:50:32.000 say if you had a friend dating at your age no no i would say i would say this like when i was when
00:50:35.600 i was let's say 25 26 and i was to be asked if i find 40 year old women attractive i would have said no
00:50:40.720 like it was just it'd be weird to think that way but i've noticed myself now like uh my like i still
00:50:46.560 find my wife very beautiful i like i do and if i didn't like we'd have a problem um and and i and i
00:50:52.720 think like for me like as i've gotten older i found like now i look at a 20 year old chick and i'm like
00:50:57.440 that just looks like a teenager to me it's like you know when you're in high school and you see a
00:51:00.640 college kid they look massive it becomes the opposite when you get older i just look at 20 i'm like are you
00:51:04.560 like 15 like i can't really tell that well anymore it's crazy um but i mean if i mean realistically as
00:51:10.960 a 40 year old man probably anything 24 let's say and up is pretty reasonable like chicks it's a lot
00:51:19.440 of it's like the chicks still go for it yeah they do so they're pretty wide range i mean look at
00:51:24.400 pacino he just had a kid with a 27 year old he's like 77 78 80 he's 80. i'm curious how how old would
00:51:31.600 you guys maybe he looked good would you date a 45 year old no no 40 no 35 no 30 oh shoot yeah you're
00:51:40.400 not 35 yeah like 32 probably 33 no come on like the most beautiful women in the world are like
00:51:47.920 look at anthony kitas from the from the red hot chili peppers he's like 60 and like i would i would have
00:51:53.200 a problem 40 year old schwarzenegger's girlfriend's like 38 or something he's 76 like like like but you
00:51:58.560 say no because you want a virtue signal but come on these guys aren't dating ugly 30 year olds they're
00:52:02.800 dating beautiful 30 year olds yeah but is it because of their status obviously it is obviously
00:52:07.520 it is i'm not saying why would it not be of course it is so if a man is high status enough you're going
00:52:11.840 to be like no i'm sorry like schwarzenegger like it's like no you're going to be like cool
00:52:18.080 but i do not think it depends on what someone or what depends on the individual wants
00:52:22.480 in the relationship probably yeah so but but again we're looking at high status very old men that
00:52:29.360 are like pushing 80 or are 80 and they still have seemingly have no problem getting 26 and 30 year old
00:52:35.840 women to want to be with them so like i'm just looking at the big data right but then like say
00:52:39.920 if you were to bring like a gold digger situation i know you're okay uh you know what um age men peak
00:52:45.680 on dating apps for plenty of fish probably around 42 would be my guess say late 30s 37. it's crazy i was
00:52:52.960 so surprised when i saw this yeah i was about 35 i'd say probably 40 45 50. really yeah i know guess what
00:53:02.560 age women peak 22 28 i was i'll bet it's older but it's actually nice i'll probably say the same
00:53:10.320 women 18 18 yeah 18 yeah yeah well they've done they've done smell tests for men and men will still
00:53:20.000 pick younger women just based on smell yeah wow but for the men the 50 year olds that are on there has
00:53:26.800 to be like a selected amount like has to be all silver foxes or a higher percentage because
00:53:33.120 you wouldn't assume there's that many average or below average 50 year olds on tinder you know
00:53:40.480 i mean there aren't most people on it was plenty of fish but i think like didn't you say 80 of
00:53:45.680 people on dating apps like don't get any swipe yeah 50 of people like if you get one match on like
00:53:50.800 tinder then you're in the top 50 percent you're like like half of men never get a match ever i think
00:53:56.320 i read this or i see this somewhere online and it's true like if you're most compatible you
00:54:02.320 will show up to more people whereas if you don't get swiped so you're not going to go you're not
00:54:06.240 getting women only swipe right five percent on the time so if you go on a date with a guy from a dating
00:54:11.920 app it's it's probable that he like basically he has a ton of options because if you got on the date
00:54:17.600 that means like he's part of the five percent that women are swiping on most likely it's scary isn't
00:54:22.880 it yeah yeah but that's why relationships are so up because i feel like that's the number one way
00:54:28.240 people are meeting under 30 nowadays that's the number one way yeah is dating apps so it's like all
00:54:33.600 the girls are going on the same dates with the same guys i mean haven't you seen those stories on like
00:54:37.920 tick tock where the girls are like oh my god we went on the date with the same guy