Modern Woman Claimed to be Ambitious
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In this week's episode, we talk about the beauty standards in the media, the importance of a woman's looks and why men should not comment on them. We also have a special guest on the show this week, who is a very special guest indeed.
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what number do i want to do today she's slept with 15 guys what is she now
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zero zero zero zero he's an eight but he doesn't have a job
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you're in the bin mate what you're in the bin oh gone
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donezo what about what if they have ambition or goal he's applying for jobs
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he just doesn't have one has he it depends on what is earth
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what earth weapon he i mean he applied at mcdonald's you know what i mean
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um yeah no i i feel like me as an individual i'm quite highly ambitious
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and i just don't find it attractive in a gentleman
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that if they don't if they just if they haven't got that sort of ambition and
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that drive to get up and actually want to go and do and
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yeah you're in the bin what's a bigger red flag if she doesn't get along with her
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mom or her dad father for sure miss out one of the best
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pieces of advice i ever received when i was about 22 from mentors he said
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look at that woman's relationship with her father and it'll tell you how she
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this week there was a tweet that erupted twitter
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all right this tweet had all the women mad on the right
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and the left it had the men mad and the tweet was um can you pull up the one
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the original one i sent you the the mar the brad pratt
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one so it had do you guys know who margot robbie is
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yes okay so there was a tweet that said despite
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years of complaining about unrealistic beauty standards the most talked about
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movie of the year is of two insanely hot people
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and it had a picture of barbie okay and margot robbie's the star and in
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barbie so but someone quote tweeted that and said margot robbie
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was cast in barbie explicitly because she wasn't pretty enough
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to alienate a female audience and this erupted twitter
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because they felt like they were just dogging on her looks
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they felt like um and then there was a a bunch of people who basically were
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calling margot robbie mid so my question to you is what would you
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rate margot robbie one to ten we're going to show her picture in a second
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margot robbie one to ten in this photo or just in general in general in general i'd give
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her a 10 but probably in this photo god you can tell there's just like so
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much post-production on it she doesn't actually look real but then
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she's not trying to just can you can you just google her too and we
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can just show some other pictures but like day to day i would say yeah
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she's a good solid nine nine nine ten nine ten yeah i haven't seen her
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okay um she's definitely someone the industry uses as like a beauty standard
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eight point two five eight point two what do you think yeah she's a ten ten eight
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eight she's a strong nine nine yeah okay but my question is this why can men
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not criticize a woman's looks without erupting the internet
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we're going in order yeah anyone can just i would say because
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women's looks are known to be a important factor and something that they can often be sensitive about
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i think societally it's a little bit taboo to speak about and can come across offensive and you know as they say
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misogynistic so but if we but if we like criticize a guy's looks nobody cares
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like if i called leonardo dicaprio mid no one would care
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that's true you know what i mean but he's the one dating all the models but nobody would care
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yeah yeah yeah i think it's because men uh society knows men personally don't put as
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much of as an emphasis on their own looks it's not as much of a factor um maybe in their confidence
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you could say that it's a little bit easier to to make fun of them versus women it's like
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be careful you don't want to hurt her feelings what do you guys think um me personally i feel like yeah
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females females in general are emotional beings i think that's fair to say and i don't feel like
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it's a man's place to even speak on um the looks or if they feel like a woman's like overly attractive
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especially on social media i think that's it's a bit of a low blow um so yeah do women speak on if
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men are attractive on social media absolutely so why does one gender get to do it and not the other
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privilege yeah privilege definitely women privilege no but you're saying you but i'm asking you because
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you said you don't think men should comment on women's looks but i'm saying if the women are doing it
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why can't the men it's just it's taboo isn't it yeah yeah it's just like one of the it's like an
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unspoken rule but it shouldn't be what's what one rule for one and another rule for another it
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shouldn't be that way too like imagine have you ever heard like um short man syndrome yeah like
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what if what if they had small tits syndrome we can't do that you know
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what do you what do you think dimitri there's so much to unpack here i mean how how deep do we
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want to dwell into this go go go deep oh man okay so this this is actually there's quite a lot of
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interesting stuff here so um i was reading some studies i'm doing a book called the book of shame
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where i'm literally putting together um 300 and sorry 403 no 304 304 um putting together 304 studies
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that sort of outline the difference between virtue signaling and actual outcomes in society and one
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thing of course we all already know is that what we say and what we think are not the same thing
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one very basic example of that like i did a clip where it's like the most discriminated group when
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you look at across any group for like controlled for race and looks and age and everything the most
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discriminated group by far are short men and it's not close like short men have the highest suicide
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rates short rate men have the highest um rates of of of drinking and binge drinking highest depression
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uh lowest income etc etc etc and i'm not saying that like short man can't be successful i think
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they can and should be it's more so that we just know the outcomes for short men are terrible short
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men also are vastly underrepresented in the sexual marketplace like women are just not picking them
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in fact when you look at like the searches right this is just numbers like you're looking on search
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on um what is it the dating app everybody's using nowadays bumble whatever uh oh women filter out
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yeah six under six foot tall to show up in less than 15 of searches so they don't even get they
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don't even get looked at i was thinking about that i'm like i if i was a short guy i would just lie on
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the dating apps i understand why they do it because i'm like women lie with the filters right
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lie with the makeup so i'm like if i was a guy i would lie out make it even do it too right well
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and so so the question is like okay so then why do we make it taboo so there's there's a few steps here
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why it is so so um virtue signaling is actually like a very well-known mating tactic uh applied by
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both men and women the way that men virtue signal is they become more altruistic around women they
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perceive to be beautiful so when you have like a charity event men will give more money when a beautiful
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woman's in the room it's been tested it's been shown many many times over women virtue signal
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purity so women will drop hints that they're sexually pure despite the fact that they might
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tell you on this podcast like oh it doesn't matter how many guys you sleep with but but when you
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actually look at women's behavior and women's and and how they they express their behavior they always
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express their behavior as being sexually cleaner than their actual behavior this is not conjecture
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this is studied and this is true right so why not why not say about a woman blah blah blah well very
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simply uh because a woman's value is implicitly determined by how attractive she is to potential
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mates and the way that we know this there's a really cool study about this is they did a study
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on how good are women and men at perceiving the beauty of other women so they gave really yes and
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so and so what they found is men consistently pick the same women as being beautiful women are highly
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cognizant and extremely good at identifying which women are beautiful to other men and the women that are
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most beautiful to other men when they are in the room women become derogatory towards the most
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beautiful women wow yes because they want to undermine and what they do is they undermine her
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chastity and her purity she's like oh she's a slut she's this and that and the reason they're saying
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it is because they want to relative so women compete relatively with each other as well and so they
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undermine the sexual market value of other women in the room in order to elevate themselves she's hot
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she must be a whore right exactly so that's what we'll do right and by the way you never see guys do this
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right it's like oh that guy's a piece of crap like guys don't do that because it comes off as
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inherently feminine so guys don't compete like that we compete physically much more direct now
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here's what's interesting when men were asked to raid the attractiveness of other men men are
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notoriously bad at at actualizing like which other men are attractive to women and it's very easy to
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prove because like i can talk to anush or any of the guys here i can say look guys have you ever seen
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a guy that consistently gets beautiful women and you're like how does he do that pete davidson right yeah
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so we like what the hell so men are actually very bad at perceiving the attractiveness of other men to women
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so we might we might think that guy's a loser but he's getting all the chicks like what's going on
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right well because is it because men are more logical no so like but like women we pick based
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off of emotions a lot of the time no it's no it's because well obviously that's true but also but but
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it's more so to do the fact that men compete on status so it's like so but the question is like so
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why can't we uh objectively say something about a woman and the answer is very clear and here it is
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it's because we all know like we look at margot robbie we can play the game like and she's a 7.8 it's like dude
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she's literally she played sharon tayden once upon a time in hollywood who was the standard of
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beauty for like two generations she's literally like you might say she's not your type whatever
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but objectively find a woman that's objectively more beautiful good luck you know you know what's
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interesting though i've found on this show that when i ask men versus women women will rate her higher
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than men do like i don't know why because i always thought she was like the epitome of beauty right but
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every time i've like brought her up as like the number one like beauty status yeah do you have other do
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you have other women on the couch women um when men say that are there women around them yeah the
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men are virtually signaling no no but what they'll usually do is they'll bring up like the the most
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common one i got is the what is that preacher's wife i think she just divorced him um i cannot remember
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her name good yeah i get megan good a lot and i get um uh the russell wilson's wife now i get her a lot
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i like yeah yeah i get those two more than margot robbie weirdly enough well look she might she
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there's different levels whatever but like objectively speaking oh yeah yeah like like she's she's like
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like you're not gonna oh i want better it's like okay so i wanted i wanted to read you some of the
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responses um towards towards them because i just i wasn't even interested like obviously she's hot right
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but i was more interested in how like viscerally everybody reacted because i was like if i said i don't
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think leonardo dicaprio's that hot i don't think michael b jordan's that hot like whatever like sex
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status of like the guy equivalent no one would really care but so i was thinking like i think
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women reacted so viscerally to this because if men don't perceive her as attractive like what does
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that make us that like the average chick you know what i mean so um there was like the guys would
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come in and said i want everybody who says margot robbie isn't attractive enough to play barbie
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to post photos of your wives and girlfriends i'm trying to see something exactly but but the thing
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is like i i think the question more is like because people will attack the people instead of the
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argument like is she mid or is she not mid and you could say objectively she's not but like what does
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a person's like girlfriend have to do with it listen i'm sorry for taking up some space here but
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let's get serious like if somebody approached me in front of my wife and said how hot is margot robbie i
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would be incentivized to virtue signal big well you know there's a lot of dudes out there that can't pick
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up an eight or nine which is just how it is and it's fine it's okay like we're working on ourselves
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as men right and they virtue signal to say like well she's not even that hot it's like dude she's not
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picking you like show show some damn respect and just like live up to where you are and and and just
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say the truth you know unhinged take if you ever get it in your head that margot robbie isn't in the top
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five percent of conventionally attractive women log off go for a walk outside so say hello to a normal
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looking female return and correct yourself um and it was interesting i put i just i've been doing this
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before the show i put it in um google just the picture of her now i wish i did one without makeup
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but guess guess what her rating was can you guys see it don't look she can see it
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um but one to ten what do you think because they had like you basically basically put the picture in
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and then men rate her one to ten guess what i was like is she mid let's look guess guess what percent
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attractiveness she's in the sin yeah like top ten top 20. yeah top ten i would say yeah top ten
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percent so they are chatting but but i was more curious about the reaction so this led me today was
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i was hoping as a class as a group we can find celebrities and examples
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that we can rate people one to ten it should be interesting yeah so i i was thinking it'd be
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interesting to see like what the men pick and what the women pick as like a 10 and each rating okay so
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all right what's an example first thing that comes into your head head don't say margot robbie of a 10.
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male or female female we'll do male next we'll do male next
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jessica alba is it adriana lima lena the victoria's the victoria's secret model what's her name
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adriana lima lena i'm not sure i think oh she's beautiful which one is um she's been she's been
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uh yeah yeah she's been a victoria's secret model for years i'm not sure i think victoria
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but i'm sure i'd say that that's certainly yeah yeah yeah i'll say lori harvey oh that's a good one
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and king if you can during some of these can you pull up pictures of them on the screen
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um who else are we speaking like purely aesthetic yeah just looks okay um
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i can't even think no i feel like i've been putting the pressure
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i'd have to agree with dimitri jessica alba is a good example jessica alba okay what about a five
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um sarah jessica parker maybe oh that's a good one sarah
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put sarah jessica parker on the screen and see if they think she's a a five
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go go a few years back what would you what would you rate her one to ten
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oh i hope she doesn't see this go back go back like 15 years go on
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i remember i feel like in her heyday she was definitely she was on a five
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no she was she was well above a five yeah yeah yeah
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she's a six at best i mean look this is relative right like you could say she's a sucks but like
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you go on the street i've been i've been in london for two days right she would literally be the most
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beautiful woman in london like today she'd be in the top two percent of the city like like it's just
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what it is right all right we're gonna do all right raise your hand if you think she's a four
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oh no no no no raise your hand if you think she's a five five five i would say five sorry what what
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age are we ranking her at let's do put her put her at like i don't know 35. you don't want to put
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her in her prime and see what i mean we could do prime i don't know here just pick a picture king
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seven six seven yeah okay so we'll do we'll do the middle pictures six six okay
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what is she oh you want me to say yeah what do you rate her one can we pull up a picture of her
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giving her a i feel like she's a solid eight i was gonna say seven and a half yeah
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all right who thinks she's a seven raise your hand who thinks she's an eight eight okay let's go
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ahead and throw megan fox there's a ton i was just thinking her yeah yeah
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demitri has all the references from 10 years ago
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10. sorry on which scale lizzo lizzo's got to be on this half i think about 320 if last time i checked
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lizzo one to ten zero zero three three all right who thinks who thinks she's a one lizzo
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is that the lowest yeah one who thinks she's i'm gonna be respectful and give her like a solid two
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all right who thinks she's a two or three at the least two or three three who thinks she's a three
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maybe i'm not being too generous too generous that's a three then what's a one
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one but again but again it but again it's preference it's preference it's not you know
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what i'm more judge of personality yeah exactly what there was none of this when we were doing the hot
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why does this switch when they're not hot no i i personally believe it's not the preference because
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she's a fluffy female and i do believe that she's still beautiful but she's not my personal preference
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yeah so i'm asking you what you would rate her i'm not asking the world yeah me personally i would
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put it down as like a two three all right three all right all right who says two who says three
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who says one all right okay i guess one i think it's the most i think the word the word you're
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looking for is the word you're looking for is planet all right lizzo's one all right um what what would
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rosie o'donald be similar to a one yeah rosie who's rosie o'donald yeah you want to show a picture
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you don't want to go there oh yeah i remember julia i love it julia robert okay yeah
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let's see if they gave me anyone in the chat sometimes they'll do that
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all right guys if you have any girls in the chat you want everybody to rate um
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someone put jody comer does anyone know who that is no they're just trolling their friend's mom
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rosie o'donald one one is lizzo hotter than rosie i mean she's probably hotter like physically in terms
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of like she just needs a lot of air conditioning in the room but all right rosie o'donnell oh what
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about jenna collins oh that's a good one i've put up jenna collins
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the three yeah not knowing her a three a three see i would say lizzo ranked higher than her yeah
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i love jemma i love i think she's brilliant but yeah i think it largely depends on how how much are
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you weighing the the fat factor because if you're purely like it's how do scientific you want to get
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well look at i'm asking i'm asking you it's not the what everyone else thinks it's what you think
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like you would rate her one to ten i'd give her a three i'd give her a three
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but i i personally if we're gonna give her a three i'm saying lizzo has to get a four
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you think lizzo's more attractive yeah oh actually without the makeup oh wow she looks different
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um okay i would say three for this chick i would have gave lizzo like a two um what do you think one
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one to five this one yeah this i mean like she's a one but she kind of has that american pie milf
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points so i'd give her two two all right what do you say one one yes it has to be a two two what do you
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say probably one one one one what about what about you two two one all right what was her name again
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gemma collins i just want to thank you pearl you know spending a lot of time around corporate we just
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never get to do this at work look at it what about rihanna oh mine damn nine she i think she's like
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eight to go to this is this is she we were in my oh okay we'll do we'll do maya first just because
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she's on the screen okay um i give her a eight again i feel like she's a solid nine yeah i'd say
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beyonce ten ten ten what are you kidding me see this one now is a bit again taboo i think i think
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beyonce is an eight go go to like go to like go to like her and like austin powers three age like
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when she's like prime beyonce has always been beautiful let's keep it real but i don't know if
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she's a she's a ten i feel like she's what about dodgy cat wait we'll do her next but we'll do be okay
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beyonce raise your hand if you think she's an eight we're going with current yeah current yeah eight eight
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eight nine i'm like eight and a half yeah nine ten okay i think the average would be nine so
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again it's an acquired taste i'm asking you what your taste is it's not other people she has too
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many different faces to be honest with you i don't even know what onto even rate her on like she she's
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she's a great creative but i i don't i don't even know okay yeah like there's not one face there that
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i could say it's the same person like it's mad what do you guys think six to seven yep seven seven
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we need a five what about scissor is that how you pronounce the name scissor yeah
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yeah s said a what the real one or the plastic one she's in the five range i mean this is the real one
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yeah let's see the plastic one the plastic one what about chloe kardashian
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we'll do her next but this one this girl first scissor scissor the new scissor i would rate her
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a nine hold on so she's done work yeah so that was her before with the curly hair
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where the crest is on let's see her currently now
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man why she go and do it it looks good okay this picture one to ten
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i give her like i give her like a six i'm i'm at a seven seven yeah seven seven i'm a five five
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what is seven seven this picture yeah seven seven probably like that five like she looks like
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it's like i've seen a bit of a bad dream oh that sounds really horrible but uh yeah it's quite evil
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i want to do a six it's like an average um okay chloe kardashian now or before
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now now chloe kardashian now we have to bring our picture of her i'd say probably like seven seven seven
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so we're gonna go six oh i don't know about that first one i don't know oh he's up he's oh yeah
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i think she actually looks good now but i i can't get with the work man
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i do six what would you guys do yeah we cannot find a five i'll give her a five what about dale
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oh that's a good one adele adele with like her weight loss chloe kashian
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before or after after i'd say probably a good solid yeah she looks good oh what was give me the before
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and the after what would you guys rate her rate her before she lost weight and after
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um that's a good one three and eight three and eight three and eight
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i'll say five and eight five and eight but don't this picture yeah i'm saying i'm saying four and
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eight four and eight yeah what would you say i'm saying three and eight i think i got
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we're really we're really taking a dump on the body positivity movement here hey it's like we're
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like well and it's actually this is very interesting because um we know inherently that like being
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fit is more attractive period end of sentence right um i want to share a cool little stat that i i looked
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up recently i thought it was pretty funny um do you guys think that being attractive helps you like
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let's say you're at work right do you guys think being attractive helps you like earn more money
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over your life over your lifetime absolutely yes then the numbers are staggering so uh more
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attractive people earn on average it's uh about five thousand dollars a year than less attractive
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people which is like 230 000 over the course of a career but if you were to take that money and
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split them to like monthly payments whatever is like 411 a month something like that if you invest
00:30:52.720
that if you take the added income that people that are more attractive earn over less attractive
00:30:57.360
people if you just invest that in the stock market over the course of your career it works
00:31:00.640
out to 3.8 million dollars that attractive people make over unattractive people but that's not the
00:31:06.240
crazy stat here's pearl the crazy stat you might enjoy this because when i was reading those statistics
00:31:10.640
i was like oh women really get punished at work for not being like more attractive but actually
00:31:15.840
men get punished disproportionately men get punished way more for being unattractive
00:31:21.120
well women also have higher men have higher beauty standards than women do like this whole
00:31:26.080
like women have the highest beauty standards that we can't live up to men find like half of us
00:31:30.240
attractive it's like it's like stupid like i couldn't believe like the guy the girls like guys will
00:31:37.040
say they would like sleep down so much you know what i mean like it's crazy when you go down to like
00:31:41.600
how low they'll go but women it's like we only find like five to fifteen percent of men attractive
00:31:47.600
twenty percent on the correlation of 0.6 which is like unheard of in sociology but 0.6 correlation to a man's
00:31:53.520
status so for a man to be more attractive to women like so again when women rate men they don't agree
00:31:58.240
on who's more attractive without any context but once you put clothing on that man like you got a
00:32:02.400
guy in a suit you got a guy in a t-shirt they consistently go for the status right so women have
00:32:06.480
a very very strong correlation to being attractive to status so i'm curious from the guys if a girl is
00:32:14.400
an eight but she's got a kid what is she what is a kid minus how much invincible
00:32:26.640
she's an eight but she's got a kid what is she i literally had this dinner conversation with
00:32:30.960
one of my colleagues like just now he's like knowing what you know about your wife like everything
00:32:35.840
she's the same person looks the same acts the same exact person but you meet her when she has a kid
00:32:39.680
i'm like yeah i would not even know her name what about you guys she has a kid she's an eight with
00:32:45.600
a kid what is she i mean purely aesthetically i don't think it would take anything off no i'm saying
00:32:51.360
like in terms of like dating it's okay we don't gotta be pc you know harsh knock for sure maybe brother
00:33:00.720
you're 22 if you say anything but a zero we're gonna have a talk after the show i'm gonna i'm gonna
00:33:04.800
give you some old man wisdom i'll say uh four or five okay so minus four a kid all right we're
00:33:12.400
gonna have a talk if you were my kid i'd be like sun sit down what do you guys say minus what she's
00:33:18.400
got a kid for me it doesn't really make a difference minus zero yeah all right we'll average you're
00:33:24.640
minus minus everything zero points don't care zero points sorry we're gonna do you wanna okay do you
00:33:30.640
want to again i don't want i don't want to stack myself on here but like dude like so did you know
00:33:35.920
did you know that once a woman has a kid she carries that kid's dna forever and it doesn't just go into
00:33:40.480
the womb it goes straight to her heart there's actual science to show that that kid's dna which
00:33:44.480
means another man's dna is living inside that woman and now you're producing kids with a woman who's like
00:33:49.920
dna is like mixed with another dude that's is that even uh nah but it's life it's laughter yeah but you
00:33:57.520
can make choices yeah okay look we're older no no no no no no no no it's life you can get pregnant
00:34:05.280
like three days a month i am so tired of like oh it just happened it's just no no no no in as much as
00:34:12.720
i'm talking about like the choices of being with somebody that's got a child or not like i think it's
00:34:18.000
just not the preference at the end of the day um i'm an older man so i don't see so kid no kid they're
00:34:23.600
exactly the same to you yeah like if you're beautiful and like my intention with yourself
00:34:28.400
is the same we've got pure intentions and it is what it is no but i'm saying like you have two
00:34:32.160
girls they're exactly the same both equally hot one has a kid one doesn't you're picking which one
00:34:38.000
if if there's a choice between two then it should be the one without the child okay so it does subtract
00:34:43.200
something if it's a choice between two people yeah but that's what i'm saying like like you're saying
00:34:48.240
it wouldn't make a difference but it would you because you just admitted it would oh okay you know
00:34:55.360
okay don't lie no no no no i'm saying be honest come on like you know it makes a difference like i
00:35:02.560
said for myself it hasn't made too much of a difference like in in my past relationships but
00:35:08.000
maybe maybe maybe maybe moving forward if i had two females that i deemed to be eight one had a child
00:35:16.240
and one didn't i would go for the one that didn't have a child okay so minus one maybe maybe minus
00:35:22.000
one thank you honestly what about you two girls exactly the same one has a kid one doesn't
00:35:29.920
depends depends the person that treats you right and they know they treat you the same just one has
00:35:34.080
a kid one doesn't i'll go for another kid okay so so minus one minus one thank you thank you
00:35:41.120
i'm gonna do an average of three because you said infinity what's what like what's the intent
00:35:47.920
right like for example if you're a single guy and you're just hooking up whatever you might not
00:35:51.040
consider it right but like at some age you become a more serious man and you want to you know you
00:35:54.960
want to take the danger that you've built on yourself and turn it into like a sagacious commitment
00:35:59.440
and become a more virtuous man like there is age appropriate problems you have to solve right
00:36:03.600
and it's like you work really hard gents you know and and this guy here told me he's an entrepreneur
00:36:08.240
before it's like yeah you're gonna risk 50 of everything you've ever earned before and after
00:36:13.680
you're you're through with that relationship you're gonna risk it on somebody that gave her
00:36:17.440
genetics to somebody else at the beginning like that's a dangerous i didn't say i would risk it
00:36:21.040
ah well you didn't say you would marry her maybe right yeah so what at 22 maybe it doesn't make a
00:36:25.040
difference but as you get older and you start solving older men problems you look for a long-term
00:36:28.720
relationship somebody to raise your children yeah that's a that's a more difficult choice no it
00:36:33.120
definitely be a harsh knock for sure but i was speaking purely aesthetically yeah and your
00:36:38.640
perception of that okay okay high bot oh and only fans is minus what so what was that a girl she's an
00:36:47.360
eight but she's got an only fans what is she now oh wow for me it's not really a conversation
00:36:56.880
she's done yeah donzo donzo okay so negative ten yeah okay what about you negative ten as well
00:37:05.280
negative ten minus ten thousand dollars a month you're paying my lifestyle sugar mama all right
00:37:10.880
what about you say four minus all right so we'll do minus eight for only fans
00:37:17.520
all right she's an eight but she slept with two of your friends oh what is she you're coming with him now
00:37:38.480
as far as the rankings negative 100 they're putting in the chat yeah it's peak now oh it's donzo
00:37:44.800
i wouldn't say it's donzo because yeah sometimes it's good for the gangists
00:37:52.080
so she might be now like a five baby all right so minus three for two of your friends what about
00:37:57.520
you one minus one zero go away no chance no chance zero are you dude i'm not that's like that's mean to
00:38:05.040
my friends oh okay like that's like come on like like that's so scarce to think that a dude would pick
00:38:09.600
up like no all right so we got negative ten negative one i think you guys have a
00:38:14.720
very wide range here let me see we're gonna do negative oh what about you yeah mine's mine's zero
00:38:21.360
as well we're gonna do negative five for two friends
00:38:37.200
what number do i want to do today she slept with 15 guys what is she now
00:38:43.040
oh wow she's not an option donzo donzo zero zero zero zero zero say
00:39:00.240
four or five purely aesthetically all right we're gonna do negative eight for 10 bodies or 15 bodies
00:39:13.040
are you noticing the trend are you noticing the trend what are you noticing the trend man just wants
00:39:20.640
to bust nuts he's 20 he's 22. being being generous perception wise yeah but he's 22 we can like we've
00:39:29.520
all been 22. yeah we've dipped in the pool you know we've scraped the bottom some barrels
00:39:33.920
all right let's ask the ladies all right he's an eight but he doesn't have a job
00:39:44.400
you're in the bin mate what you're in the bin oh gone gone donezo what about what if they have ambition
00:39:50.720
or goal he he's applying for jobs he just doesn't have one that has he it depends on what is earth
00:39:56.560
what earth weffy he i mean he applied at mcdonald's you know what i mean um yeah no i i feel like
00:40:05.920
me as an individual i'm quite highly ambitious and i just don't find it attractive in a gentleman
00:40:13.440
that if they don't if they just if they haven't got that sort of ambition and that drive to get up and
00:40:17.760
actually want to go and do and yeah you're in the bin okay negative 10 what about you if they have the
00:40:25.280
ambition and the goal and they're putting their mind towards something or they're trying to find
00:40:30.640
a job in a certain sector and i can see you're trying hard and you're going to interviews and
00:40:36.320
you know like that i'll give you seven so my just minus one yeah as long as he's as long as he's going to
00:40:49.040
some interviews yeah like i have to see you ambitious and going out every day how ambitious
00:40:55.040
like what does he have to be applying to um so if he's got his mind and his goal towards something
00:41:02.000
like this set job that he wants and he's doing his research he's continuously going on interviews
00:41:08.400
then that's different if you're just being a bum when you're staying at home and you're not trying to
00:41:13.200
look for work or not trying to focus on your career or try and elevate yourself then so negative
00:41:22.480
negative for that one yeah then negative 10. all right negative 10 no job okay he's an eight but
00:41:33.200
he has a kid depends on what the baby mom's saying really um
00:41:42.240
it's quite a hard question do you think that guys leave their baby mums
00:41:50.480
how do you mean like so do you think like the baby one would be completely out of their life
00:41:55.520
no and i would never expect them to be um do you feel like there's a chance to going back sorry no
00:42:02.320
well i don't know i'm single to be honest so i wouldn't know myself never been put in that
00:42:05.280
situation so i wouldn't know but like if their baby mom was a bit a bit crazy you know okay
00:42:14.000
probably okay let's do a good baby mom and a bad baby mom so he's got a kid with a good baby mom
00:42:19.360
negative what wouldn't bother me wouldn't bother you no okay bad baby mom you're done yeah
00:42:26.240
donezo minus ten minus ten okay he's an eight but but he's got a bit of a beer belly
00:42:35.840
is it a beer belly or money belly so you say money belly so i know exactly what you mean
00:42:49.680
are you eating my or are you drinking beer i know what you mean a beer belly minus ten minus ten
00:42:57.920
probably like minus eight yeah minus eight yeah for a beer belly do you know what i don't really
00:43:06.800
i'm not a big drinker and i yeah it's just the whole idea of just yeah oh it's because he's a drinker
00:43:13.680
yeah it's not the look no so no the look wouldn't probably about yeah six or an eight do tattoos add or
00:43:19.920
subtract for you add add add in the middle and neutral yeah what about you guys tattoos on a woman
00:43:38.080
hmm i'll say that i look for it i'm not supposed to be look for females with tattoos but it's definitely
00:43:43.840
add some pointers so maybe like a one or two points so if i got like a sleeve i'd get a point
00:43:48.160
yeah one add minus five to start and then that's the that's the minus starting point and then drops
00:43:57.520
from there depending on location and size what about you yeah subtract at least like two three two three
00:44:06.880
i think tattoos i don't like tattoos on a guy i prefer none but i don't really care that much
00:44:14.480
i feel like it doesn't really make a difference okay he's an eight but but but
00:44:25.200
he has a horrible relationship with his mom do you guys care yeah yeah why yeah why have you had
00:44:31.040
experience with a guy that like doesn't get along with his mom yeah once once yeah i didn't i i'm such
00:44:38.800
a family person and for me family is the most important thing and if someone doesn't get on
00:44:43.040
with their mom then there's obviously a reason behind that and for me that's like quite a big red
00:44:48.880
flag because yeah no i just wouldn't if they didn't get on with their mom i'd be like i don't know i just
00:44:55.600
i'm where i'm such a family person and i adore my family around me 24 7 like i've not got kids but
00:45:01.200
if i had a kid i know my kid could kill someone blue bloody murder and i'd turn a blind eye to it and
00:45:05.600
i'd still love them no matter what so if someone doesn't speak to their mom then that is a big
00:45:10.560
big red flag so you don't care too much about their family like relation at the same i agree oh you
00:45:17.040
agree what about you guys do you guys look at her family background me 110 definitely definitely what
00:45:23.120
do you look at in her family background dynamic is a big thing
00:45:28.240
like with mom dad like what are you both both parents and how the how the family functions
00:45:38.080
together what's a bigger red flag if she doesn't get along with her mom or her dad father for sure
00:45:47.920
what about you dimitri yeah of course so you know there's this there's this crazy thing right now
00:45:52.720
we're like you know the jonah hill text i'm sure you guys discussed it here it's like
00:45:55.760
he sets out some boundaries which are pretty right like they're not crazy boundaries it's like hey i
00:45:59.920
don't want you going out with your slutty friends like like because you've broken my trust people
00:46:03.840
like it's controlling and i kind of read that i was like okay i think a lot of women say that's
00:46:08.800
controlling because they just never had proper boundaries set in their life and like i'm a dad
00:46:12.480
i got four kids you know what a dad's role is in a in a child's life and a girl or boy's life is to
00:46:16.880
set boundaries like you know if you look at like when how kids go to bed if mom puts kids to bed
00:46:22.560
they tend to extend going to bed by like half an hour to an hour but when dad puts kids to bed
00:46:27.120
they go to bed right away dad's word is firmer kids oblige and test the dad they oblige more to
00:46:31.440
the dad they test the dad less so if she doesn't have a like a good relationship with her father
00:46:35.520
she's grown up without a dad there's no boundary set for her so she perceives boundaries as emotional
00:46:40.480
abuse but are boundaries necessary in relationships yeah especially explicit boundaries like we have to
00:46:45.840
understand what exactly works for us and what doesn't and that's okay so no one of the best pieces of
00:46:51.520
advice i ever received when i was about 22 from a mentor is he said look at that woman's relationship
00:46:57.280
with her father and it'll tell you how she treats you yeah you guys look at like how much makeup she
00:47:03.520
wears yes how much can that subtract or add to a girl make or break yeah like what is it what does it do
00:47:12.560
at least four points three to four subtraction yeah why because i mean it's a preference thing but also
00:47:22.160
it's you're almost dealing with a different person at that point like you can look like two completely
00:47:28.560
different people so it's just a little bit inauthentic in my opinion have you guys ever
00:47:33.600
gone on a date with a girl and you like woke up and she looked completely different
00:47:37.600
no no fortunately i think seeing seeing people with or without uh makeup can be night and day
00:47:45.360
difference yeah unrecognizable a lot of the time really yeah you're nodding really hard no i mean
00:47:51.280
look like women are going to wear makeup like that's just how it is and there should be a level that you
00:47:54.960
take care of yourself but obviously you know the trend right now and like every time i come to england
00:47:58.800
i see these weird puffer face like it's just fake eye they shave their i don't know what the hell's going on
00:48:03.040
i've drawn drawn on eyebrows well i don't know i like i it was crazy doing this show for so long
00:48:09.360
because girls would follow me after the show and a lot of times i'll follow people back but like
00:48:13.600
sometimes i wouldn't recognize them i'm like wait is that the girl that was on because they'll tag me
00:48:20.160
in their stories and i'm like oh my god i didn't even notice but then i was like this is why the guys
00:48:24.880
are complaining on the dating apps huh have you guys ever gone on like a date with a girl from a dating
00:48:30.400
app and she looked different no i've been on a date with a guy on a dating app and he looked hi was
00:48:36.320
it hi do you know what no he said he was like six foot three and he was about six foot three so
00:48:40.560
that i was quite pleased with but he didn't look nothing like his five sides like at all like there's
00:48:47.120
catfishing and then there's that like they were him but i don't know why i don't know what he done
00:48:52.160
but it was like from like 10 years ago he was a bit older as well he said to me he was 24 this is when
00:48:57.120
i was like 22. oh he lied about his age yeah he was about 35 36 and obviously they're each to their
00:49:02.880
own do you know what i mean everyone has their own preference and and whatever i completely understand
00:49:06.480
i completely respect that but i'll just do you know when you're just a bit shocked you're like what do
00:49:10.880
you god what am i gonna do here like i'm too nice to run away and then no i am oh i was i had to sit
00:49:17.440
there and withstand like the whole time for a drink after i'm like yeah i've got to go home i've got
00:49:22.080
work to my own three i've done that before where you're like oh i want to leave but you're like you
00:49:26.800
don't want to yeah you don't want to hurt someone's feelings like and it's like because i know i wouldn't
00:49:31.120
like someone to do it to me personally but and so i just couldn't do it to someone else and like that
00:49:34.560
look of like disheartened like just being someone just disheartened and they've been together for
00:49:38.480
eight years now what is the perfect age to date for you guys two years two years older two years older two
00:49:50.800
maybe a year younger two years older okay three years maybe four that's no more than that okay what
00:49:56.720
about you um yeah i'll say two years older okay to say plus minus two but i think uh issue with
00:50:09.120
my age range is a lot of people have a little bit maturity differences so yeah i'd say plus minus two
00:50:15.760
well i'm married for 10 years we're the same age we're both 40 yeah if you were to date again what
00:50:21.600
age would would you do um be careful dimitri no like that's actually that's fine like no like that's
00:50:28.400
actually a really interesting question there's some depth to it you know i'll tell you you could even
00:50:32.000
say if you had a friend dating at your age no no i would say i would say this like when i was when
00:50:35.600
i was let's say 25 26 and i was to be asked if i find 40 year old women attractive i would have said no
00:50:40.720
like it was just it'd be weird to think that way but i've noticed myself now like uh my like i still
00:50:46.560
find my wife very beautiful i like i do and if i didn't like we'd have a problem um and and i and i
00:50:52.720
think like for me like as i've gotten older i found like now i look at a 20 year old chick and i'm like
00:50:57.440
that just looks like a teenager to me it's like you know when you're in high school and you see a
00:51:00.640
college kid they look massive it becomes the opposite when you get older i just look at 20 i'm like are you
00:51:04.560
like 15 like i can't really tell that well anymore it's crazy um but i mean if i mean realistically as
00:51:10.960
a 40 year old man probably anything 24 let's say and up is pretty reasonable like chicks it's a lot
00:51:19.440
of it's like the chicks still go for it yeah they do so they're pretty wide range i mean look at
00:51:24.400
pacino he just had a kid with a 27 year old he's like 77 78 80 he's 80. i'm curious how how old would
00:51:31.600
you guys maybe he looked good would you date a 45 year old no no 40 no 35 no 30 oh shoot yeah you're
00:51:40.400
not 35 yeah like 32 probably 33 no come on like the most beautiful women in the world are like
00:51:47.920
look at anthony kitas from the from the red hot chili peppers he's like 60 and like i would i would have
00:51:53.200
a problem 40 year old schwarzenegger's girlfriend's like 38 or something he's 76 like like like but you
00:51:58.560
say no because you want a virtue signal but come on these guys aren't dating ugly 30 year olds they're
00:52:02.800
dating beautiful 30 year olds yeah but is it because of their status obviously it is obviously
00:52:07.520
it is i'm not saying why would it not be of course it is so if a man is high status enough you're going
00:52:11.840
to be like no i'm sorry like schwarzenegger like it's like no you're going to be like cool
00:52:18.080
but i do not think it depends on what someone or what depends on the individual wants
00:52:22.480
in the relationship probably yeah so but but again we're looking at high status very old men that
00:52:29.360
are like pushing 80 or are 80 and they still have seemingly have no problem getting 26 and 30 year old
00:52:35.840
women to want to be with them so like i'm just looking at the big data right but then like say
00:52:39.920
if you were to bring like a gold digger situation i know you're okay uh you know what um age men peak
00:52:45.680
on dating apps for plenty of fish probably around 42 would be my guess say late 30s 37. it's crazy i was
00:52:52.960
so surprised when i saw this yeah i was about 35 i'd say probably 40 45 50. really yeah i know guess what
00:53:02.560
age women peak 22 28 i was i'll bet it's older but it's actually nice i'll probably say the same
00:53:10.320
women 18 18 yeah 18 yeah yeah well they've done they've done smell tests for men and men will still
00:53:20.000
pick younger women just based on smell yeah wow but for the men the 50 year olds that are on there has
00:53:26.800
to be like a selected amount like has to be all silver foxes or a higher percentage because
00:53:33.120
you wouldn't assume there's that many average or below average 50 year olds on tinder you know
00:53:40.480
i mean there aren't most people on it was plenty of fish but i think like didn't you say 80 of
00:53:45.680
people on dating apps like don't get any swipe yeah 50 of people like if you get one match on like
00:53:50.800
tinder then you're in the top 50 percent you're like like half of men never get a match ever i think
00:53:56.320
i read this or i see this somewhere online and it's true like if you're most compatible you
00:54:02.320
will show up to more people whereas if you don't get swiped so you're not going to go you're not
00:54:06.240
getting women only swipe right five percent on the time so if you go on a date with a guy from a dating
00:54:11.920
app it's it's probable that he like basically he has a ton of options because if you got on the date
00:54:17.600
that means like he's part of the five percent that women are swiping on most likely it's scary isn't
00:54:22.880
it yeah yeah but that's why relationships are so up because i feel like that's the number one way
00:54:28.240
people are meeting under 30 nowadays that's the number one way yeah is dating apps so it's like all
00:54:33.600
the girls are going on the same dates with the same guys i mean haven't you seen those stories on like
00:54:37.920
tick tock where the girls are like oh my god we went on the date with the same guy