Modern Woman Does Not UNDERSTAND How SUBMISSION Works
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a woman in the modern dating world, what we should look for in a woman, and how we should treat a woman. We also discuss the importance of women bringing themselves to the table in order to be considered a good wife.
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question was what do you think that we women need to bring to the table in order to be aware
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does this sound like a traditional wife to you which traditional anything i just read back to
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you does that sound like a traditional life i think maybe like a textbook old-fashioned wife
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would be like you know um i think nurturing caring you know can raise children can cook
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can clean typical typical like wife like back in the day i mean caring so so why didn't we name
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many of those things because i think we were kind of i don't know we already know that point i was
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kind of balancing like both men and women like for them both to come together but as a woman
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listen because in all honesty like the stuff you guys listed sounds like what women would want from
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a guy yeah like women it's women and men aren't the same we don't look for the same things like
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women men don't want dudes like blessing you want to date a girl that acts like a dude yeah but the
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reason what the reason why i did mention don't say that
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i'm just gonna i'm just gonna test something i've done this before it's not just you guys
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blessing would you want to date a girl does this like sound like wife material financially stable
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in shape i didn't shave that's good mentally stable um them bringing themselves to the table
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knowledge wisdom understanding freakiness driven high energy singing dancing good at multitasking
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spiritual secure and self-love that's the whole package is there is there anything more
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but you know what i also think wait guys let him talk let him talk now i'll say some of that stuff
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but the majority now what in particular sorry i'm curious yeah what did you like from that list
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i told you guys this is no i told you guys okay let's actually let's actually hear
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no no it's more we actually look for like wifey material like naturing um yeah we don't need you
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to bring anything to the table really to be honest um so you go with anyone then yeah he's not trim
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yeah yeah like status like you think yeah being themselves like he's going for a girl oh yeah
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like we said true yeah yeah yeah honest yeah in themselves um nah some of the stuff is a bit
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pretentious like you think so yeah you think spirituality is pretentious um depends what what kind
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of spirituality is it actually you know what i need to hear your answer poppy you guys let's let
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him speak i think she's a point of spirituality what what what spirituality is it well it depends
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for me i believe that all everything is down to one so i believe every god that they serve in every
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religion is one god yeah that's i think the same i believe that division is i don't know why there's
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division in in religion but that's that's up to them even the stories are the same yeah but i feel like
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everything all stems from or should stem from love right love love is what all right so would you date
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someone from any religion then you would say yes i actually would depending on their mindset and how
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they perceive their religion and how they believe like how they understand their religion it's all
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mindset it is mindset yeah i would how would that work in your household um as long as we can compromise
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and you know make sure that all the good aspects of the religion are being applied into our relationship
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then you believe men men are the leaders of the relationship yes i do so if they say that my
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children are christian or they're muslim are you gonna go with that i'm gonna be fine with it my mom
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was a christian my dad's a muslim so i was brought up in a very diverse religion i guess i don't know
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but i came up to be spiritual you can say submission is what we're looking for yeah yeah
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that's true who do for submission you you are a submissive woman because i feel like a man wants
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to feel like a man oh yeah yeah he wants to feel like a man so if there's a woman and like she's
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wearing the pants and she's taking complete control he's not gonna feel very manly i have a question if
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a guy said do you take that off that's too revealing are you gonna change are you gonna argue
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i will question it you're gonna question so you're gonna argue i would ask that's how they see it
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that's how they see it go i would argue you would argue i'll question it and try to understand depending
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on the occasion on why you're telling me to take it off because if i'm going for a girl's night out
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why can't i skin out and i would argue a little bit because i like a bit of excitement a little bit
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of flair i like a little bit of jealousy as well so i would argue but then um i still go out with the
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outfit too bad do you think do you think that makes all of you toxic yes because you just said
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you'd be okay with submission but when he told you what to do you're gonna argue i mean when it comes
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to telling someone what to do like telling me i can't wear a certain outfit because it's too revealing
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like he wants to protect you it's like but the thing is is he protecting me from other men
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or is he insecure and not comfortable with me going out because other men are going to look at me
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if you have if you have if you have a nice car i mean are you going to put a for sale sign on it
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are you going to advertise well i'm not even the same concept it is the same no it is the same
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concept yeah you're going too that's too far off can i ask a question yeah what is submission to you
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guys i think submission is just being a feminine woman like i really like in a man yeah when he can
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like not take control of me but take control of certain situations so like say if we like plan to
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go somewhere he planned it or he can like make decisions for himself but also for the both of us
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but like within reason like certain decisions like need to be communicated between like both
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partners yeah but like yeah because we're both human that is no submission okay what's the submission
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i think i think submission is when um the female is very much in her well some is what she said but
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let's see that's the guy that kind of um take control in some situations and that's sexy that's
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more attractive yeah i love that make me feel petite let me let me feel like the damsel in distress
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so for you guys submission is a bit more sexual i didn't even get to answer that but submission is
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um abiding by the rules of your um opposite sex so what when he says oh yeah don't wear that
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you're literally saying some something like yes sir i'm not gonna do it because you have your
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reasons to why i'm not even questioning it because but you guys just said right now that you'll not do
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it i mean it depends like if you're wearing a dress and you're like your nipples are hanging out i'm just
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answering your question i think that's different it's a bit different i did say it wasn't different
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if it's like a little mini dress and you're going to the club of your girls then i don't see why it
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should be an issue but then like if it's like something super like your arse cheeks are hanging out
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your nipples are popping out every walk then that fair enough but then you should know as a female to
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not do a madness my point is as a man is gonna is there to lead his family has a vision for his
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family so if he says in my family in my household if we don't wear that you're supposed to be like
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okay yeah but if you guys are what you're saying is no uh there's some things you can decide but
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you say something i said i said i'm gonna question it and depending on occasion i understand the
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reason why i mean there's always compromise so what do you think being submissive actually is then
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once you want to submit you should actually just trust him you can't even question it that's what
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we expect what does submit mean to you because i thought we stated it i feel like i feel like that
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stems of tradition guys guys the definition the death wait the definition is the action of accepting
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or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person so abiding by his
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rules so i'm gonna decide whether or not if i should abide by his rules
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i didn't say i didn't say i'm gonna say what do you think what do you think old-fashioned okay
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men and women should actually be equal but obviously let them make some of the decisions
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guys i guess it's about balance you can't just say oh i'm gonna oh he's a superior
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worship him no that's the definition of submission taking into account i don't know how old you are
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but like if you're an older guy you're gonna have slightly different like values like as a 20 year
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old 22 year old sorry as a 22 year old we want to go out and like have fun and we'll wear our little
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tight guys there's a difference there's a difference there's a difference i feel like
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i feel like your tradition and the way you were raised up what do you have as many of you know i
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