JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023


Modern Woman Doesn't Want to Submit

Topics
deal breakers past traumas hunting
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake C. Matherson Matt Butcher F.S. Claire Horace Davis David Pecker Bruv Grow Horse Davis J. M. Thank Kim Kardashian Super Chats Shy Roney Melissa Chantel JMD749 Kanye Pearl King Adam Lena
Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL You Won't Believe Who She CHEATED With

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Length

56 minutes

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185.74

Word count

10,539

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1,364

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Misogyny

118

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Toxicity

89

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Hate speech

77

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In this episode, we talk about what deal breakers are, how to deal with them, and how high is too high for a woman to be a deal breaker in a relationship. We also talk about how much money a woman should be willing to spend on a guy.

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00:00:00.000 Coming up next.
00:00:30.000 I mean, do you want it?
00:00:33.040 Do you want a guy that provides?
00:00:35.320 True.
00:00:36.180 When you think of it like that.
00:00:37.480 Yeah.
00:00:38.060 So, like, my question is, why will we submit to a boss?
00:00:41.300 But we have to say, oh, well, what's in it for me when it's our husband?
00:00:44.540 Work is work.
00:00:45.200 We shouldn't be at home thinking that this is work.
00:00:47.560 Right, but it's the same dynamic.
00:00:49.120 It's an authority dynamic, right?
00:00:51.600 Mm-hmm.
00:00:52.740 I mean, it depends what you believe marriage is.
00:00:55.160 Like, because you seem to have more of an egalitarian model of marriage,
00:00:58.120 which is really common where it's, like, 50-50, we have an equal say.
00:01:01.680 I don't believe in that.
00:01:03.140 Like, I think that you should listen to the bad.
00:01:06.160 Um, okay, we're, we're, here's your turn.
00:01:09.380 Go ahead.
00:01:09.980 Um, someone who smokes, just because, um.
00:01:13.660 That's a good deal breaker.
00:01:14.920 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:15.540 Just makes me nauseous.
00:01:17.180 Um, someone who's not Christian and someone who has a temper. 1.00
00:01:20.860 Okay, what about, he's perfect, but, but, he's, he's barely been to church.
00:01:26.880 Ooh.
00:01:28.120 I think that's the topic for discussion.
00:01:30.720 No, I'm just curious, you personally.
00:01:33.280 Probably not.
00:01:33.880 No, no.
00:01:34.940 Have you ever dated a non-Christian before?
00:01:38.020 No.
00:01:38.780 Okay.
00:01:40.080 Uh, what about you?
00:01:41.440 Um, a deal breaker.
00:01:43.880 Um, mine would be, um, aggressive.
00:01:48.840 If they, if they come across quite aggressive.
00:01:50.600 Um, if they can't communicate, um, addiction, et cetera.
00:01:58.240 Okay.
00:01:58.820 Yeah.
00:01:59.960 Okay.
00:02:00.560 Go ahead.
00:02:01.640 Um, I would say, um, lack of self-respect.
00:02:04.340 Like, and also, I just might come across a bit lousy, but, high body count.
00:02:09.500 I think a woman has got, like, excessive sexual past. 1.00
00:02:11.680 It's kind of hard to, psychologically to, I mean, if she tells me.
00:02:15.420 If I don't know, then I don't know.
00:02:16.400 If she, if I know, then I don't know.
00:02:17.900 Do you think you can generally tell when a woman, woman has a high body count? 0.84
00:02:21.340 I don't think so, no.
00:02:22.380 You don't think you can tell?
00:02:23.380 I mean, by just looking at her.
00:02:25.480 No, just by, by dating her.
00:02:27.740 Probably could, yeah.
00:02:28.660 Eventually.
00:02:29.440 How, how high is too high for you?
00:02:31.680 Uh, so, it's a bit kind of.
00:02:34.400 No, no, no.
00:02:34.880 I just want to, I want to, I want to pin you down.
00:02:38.760 Right.
00:02:39.000 Well, it depends how, it depends how old she is. 1.00
00:02:41.560 Okay.
00:02:41.920 Let's do 25, 30. 0.61
00:02:44.660 Let's do 25.
00:02:46.100 No, let's do 20, 25, and 30.
00:02:48.780 20?
00:02:49.480 Yeah.
00:02:49.860 I think 20 probably, like, like, 2?
00:02:52.700 Okay, 2 at 20, too high.
00:02:54.340 All right.
00:02:54.580 No, not too high.
00:02:55.640 2 at 20, I could deal with.
00:02:56.840 Like, 4, 5, 20, it's like, okay.
00:02:58.880 Okay, now 25.
00:03:01.440 25, it's like, 8, 9.
00:03:05.860 Okay.
00:03:06.480 8 or 9, too much.
00:03:08.580 All right, 30.
00:03:10.100 Ooh.
00:03:11.200 Okay.
00:03:11.680 30, I could probably be the same for 25.
00:03:13.380 I feel like 25, you should have been in a serious range.
00:03:16.200 For at least 2, 3 years or something.
00:03:17.700 You should have just stayed with someone for a while.
00:03:20.220 That's the most common answer I get is 10.
00:03:23.260 Okay.
00:03:23.700 Like, roughly 10, right?
00:03:25.100 Yeah, that's the most common answer I get from guys.
00:03:27.120 It's funny, though.
00:03:28.300 I feel like the same way, like, all right, women will give me a number for income, 1.00
00:03:33.140 but they really mean, like, 20% less.
00:03:35.620 I feel like when men say 10, they really mean 15.
00:03:38.280 If she's hot enough. 1.00
00:03:42.800 I mean, it's nothing about that with me.
00:03:44.680 It's just I feel like women with high body count kind of like, because I'm a guy,
00:03:48.860 and I'm thinking even me as a man, in fact, so many flashbacks got to deal with.
00:03:53.520 How do you even, like, even if you find a person for you, like your soulmate,
00:03:58.020 you still got to deal with all the sexual encounters you've actually been through,
00:04:00.620 all the experiences, all the sobering, all the connection you've had with so many different people.
00:04:05.420 How do you then just settle with one person?
00:04:07.860 Yeah, you can.
00:04:08.900 You could be with them because you like them, but there's still so many things dragging you around.
00:04:12.580 Okay, question.
00:04:14.060 She slept with three men, but one is Drake.
00:04:19.660 I really don't care about that.
00:04:20.880 And then, okay, the guy doesn't matter.
00:04:22.620 Yeah, it doesn't really matter. 0.98
00:04:23.480 Okay, so if he was a loser or the best guy ever. 1.00
00:04:26.520 I mean, I think I'd rather Drake, because to me, that's like, oh, shit. 1.00
00:04:30.480 Oh, okay. 1.00
00:04:31.260 Yeah, I feel like, yeah, but if he's a loser, then I feel like. 0.87
00:04:34.000 So the celebrities would be, like, a better.
00:04:36.760 Yeah, I mean, better, I mean, yeah, better someone as, I feel like, okay, cool.
00:04:40.680 Like, hey, you're short rather than some gal thinking you didn't have any self-value.
00:04:46.560 Okay.
00:04:47.620 Do you agree with that?
00:04:49.120 With what?
00:04:49.680 With his opinion.
00:04:51.200 Of which part?
00:04:52.500 Like, of the, you know, sleeping with Drake.
00:04:54.040 It's like, I don't care about all that.
00:04:55.420 Do you feel like that's a problem?
00:04:56.720 I don't know.
00:04:57.860 The type of gal that's going to sleep with Drake is, like, I mean. 1.00
00:05:01.720 Yeah, I mean, I don't care about it.
00:05:03.280 Like, I mean, like.
00:05:05.460 She slept with three guys, and one of them is Drake. 0.76
00:05:07.480 Yeah.
00:05:07.980 I mean, I think most guys will take three, though. 0.89
00:05:11.420 They're like, all right, that's, like, damn near, that's damn near a virgin nowadays. 0.87
00:05:15.400 So it's okay, yeah? 0.94
00:05:16.960 It's okay.
00:05:17.440 No, I didn't say okay.
00:05:18.820 Actually, I think it depends on what relationship she had with Drake, though.
00:05:23.300 And how Drake sees her.
00:05:27.640 Is it that as well, or no?
00:05:28.760 If she didn't date Drake, then she's cancelled excommunicado.
00:05:32.580 Yeah, but there's still three, though.
00:05:34.680 There are some girls dating uncle, whatever, anyone can hit it. 1.00
00:05:38.700 So if it's Drake, I don't know.
00:05:40.120 To me, it doesn't matter if she was Drake, stylist, or whatever she was. 0.79
00:05:42.720 The point is, like, if she's a girl that has ever slept with a guy for money or clout or any of that crap,
00:05:49.740 it doesn't matter if it's Drake or if it's, like, uncle down the road.
00:05:53.300 Yeah, but what I'm saying is, if she is 30, well, let's say 25, and the body count is free,
00:05:58.040 and one of them guys with Drake, personally, I would not trip about that.
00:06:01.900 Yeah, I get what you're saying, but I'm saying...
00:06:03.800 I'm not even going to ask her.
00:06:04.660 I'm saying if she was the type of girl that was, like, a groupie, bruv. 0.76
00:06:08.640 Oh, okay.
00:06:09.160 But if she's a groupie, then I'm sure her body count would be higher, 1.00
00:06:11.200 because Drake's not the only celebrity, so that means she does smash some of her celebrities as well. 0.92
00:06:15.880 So I guess, to me, the body count is what I'm looking at.
00:06:18.240 If it's free and Drake's in there, probably Drake probably saw their dreams.
00:06:21.440 She probably just, you know what I'm saying?
00:06:23.420 Like, oh, yeah, it's Drake, and, yeah.
00:06:25.000 Melissa don't know who Drake is.
00:06:26.620 See?
00:06:27.000 Now, that's how you know.
00:06:27.920 Am I the only person in the world who doesn't know who Drake is?
00:06:29.780 No, it's good.
00:06:30.400 It's good.
00:06:30.780 You're setting an example.
00:06:31.920 Not everyone is in the life that everyone thinks that everyone's in.
00:06:35.440 Does this make me feel? 0.98
00:06:37.540 She's a sex worker. 1.00
00:06:38.700 That's literally the lie. 0.97
00:06:40.260 I'm not trying to be rude.
00:06:41.240 No, it isn't.
00:06:42.500 She don't know who Drake is.
00:06:44.440 I cannot wait.
00:06:45.300 All right.
00:06:45.720 All right.
00:06:46.360 Ask most guys. 0.99
00:06:47.840 Sex worker but doesn't know who Drake is. 0.99
00:06:50.660 Yeah. 0.96
00:06:51.420 No offense.
00:06:52.460 Respectfully.
00:06:53.240 No, no, no.
00:06:53.580 It's fine.
00:06:53.860 Okay.
00:06:54.820 So deal breakers for you.
00:07:00.120 I think someone who's not very educated.
00:07:04.180 I don't really like people that are not really.
00:07:06.560 So a plumber?
00:07:08.960 High school diploma?
00:07:10.480 Plumber?
00:07:10.700 Um, in terms of career, I'm not really bothered as long as you, like.
00:07:16.880 No, you said educated.
00:07:18.340 So I'm saying high school diploma but plumber.
00:07:20.720 Um, yeah.
00:07:21.700 Like, I would say all right then to correct what I'm saying then.
00:07:24.820 Someone who can't communicate.
00:07:27.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:28.360 Okay.
00:07:29.140 Mm-hmm.
00:07:30.900 Yeah, like someone who has literally no communication skills.
00:07:34.240 Okay.
00:07:36.420 Is that it?
00:07:37.280 Any other deal breakers?
00:07:38.200 Um, so he communicates and you're good.
00:07:41.420 That's it.
00:07:42.560 Yeah, because if you can communicate then you can work problems out.
00:07:45.060 So he's 300 pounds, 5'4", but he can communicate.
00:07:50.280 Um, I, I'm just asking, like, what are your deal breakers?
00:07:55.680 So if he's obese, deal breaker, yes or no?
00:07:57.920 Oh, yeah, that would be a deal breaker.
00:07:59.020 Okay, deal breaker if he's obese.
00:08:00.840 What else?
00:08:02.700 Um, aggressive.
00:08:04.560 What's with the, okay, you guys just, you just changed abusive to aggressive.
00:08:10.220 I didn't call you out.
00:08:11.240 I let you go.
00:08:12.620 When it was aimed at me.
00:08:14.240 Like, you both, it's like, why abusive?
00:08:17.760 You on the men's side, didn't it?
00:08:19.940 I'm not on anyone's side.
00:08:21.820 I'm on reality's side.
00:08:23.860 Like, that's the side I'm on.
00:08:25.960 Um, okay, so no obese, how much money?
00:08:30.400 Um, I don't know, just so long as you can, like, feed yourself, clothe yourself, run a
00:08:37.160 house, um, get the necessities, etc.
00:08:41.800 Like, oh no, I'm not really that hooked up in money.
00:08:45.740 Okay, so 20,000 pounds?
00:08:48.960 It's average.
00:08:50.600 Yes or no?
00:08:51.480 20,000 pounds, would you date?
00:08:53.860 Yeah.
00:08:54.540 Okay, okay, so 15,000 pounds, would you date?
00:08:59.140 I'm not gonna really, like, date a guy because of what he's got, because I can look after
00:09:02.700 myself.
00:09:03.420 Mm-hmm.
00:09:04.000 But, but we all agree, there's, there's a number that's too low.
00:09:07.840 Like, 12, like, 10 pounds an hour, are you dating?
00:09:13.380 What if that's all the job that he can do and he gets 10 pounds an hour?
00:09:16.400 At least he's trying, like, why not a man that's trying?
00:09:18.960 Some guys, that's probably the only job that he can get.
00:09:21.280 So what, he, is he less valuable?
00:09:23.760 Oh, okay, if that's what you want to date, I'm just asking.
00:09:27.280 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date, but what if there's guys out there, like, that
00:09:30.520 are trying to do something?
00:09:32.400 But we're not, we're not talking about the exception, we're talking about the rule.
00:09:35.280 So I'm asking, on average, how much does a guy...
00:09:36.800 Unemployable is not really desirable, though, is it really?
00:09:39.740 It's not desirable.
00:09:40.840 I'm not shaming anyone for wanting a man with a job.
00:09:43.480 I think we should pursue men with jobs.
00:09:45.500 I'm trying to figure out what your floor is.
00:09:47.160 I'm not really bothered about what a guy earns.
00:09:51.200 Okay, but I need a number from you.
00:09:53.280 Oh, jobless.
00:09:55.080 So unemployed, there's a homeless shelter down the street.
00:09:57.940 Are you dating them?
00:09:59.440 Clearly not.
00:10:00.380 Okay, okay, right.
00:10:01.680 So what's the minimum?
00:10:06.300 Why is it so hard to answer these questions?
00:10:08.800 Actually, I have a very interesting theory.
00:10:10.640 I actually think women really don't care about money, like, in the way that a lot of men think. 0.95
00:10:16.760 The reality is women just care about shiny things. 1.00
00:10:19.620 So if a man is able to present that facade of, oh, I have shiny things, I can do this,
00:10:25.500 I can do that, women will go for it. 1.00
00:10:27.920 And they really don't understand the concept of, okay, money here, and you need to use it
00:10:33.080 to do this when it comes to men.
00:10:35.060 Obviously, when it comes to them and buying their things, they understand money.
00:10:37.600 But when it comes to men, it's all about the shiny things.
00:10:40.380 I disagree, though.
00:10:41.280 I think women just want security, not the shiny things. 1.00
00:10:43.460 Maybe the shiny things might symbolize that, okay, he has money,
00:10:46.580 but what they want actually is someone who will give them security.
00:10:49.420 Amen.
00:10:49.920 I'm not talking about what they, I'm talking about what they actually respond to in real life.
00:10:55.340 Look, a wise man once said, don't listen to what women say. 1.00
00:10:59.600 Watch what they do.
00:11:00.580 So a woman can come and tell you, oh, yeah, I love this.
00:11:04.140 Bruv, watch what she does. 1.00
00:11:06.020 I get what you're saying.
00:11:06.740 Now, I get what you're saying.
00:11:07.640 What I'm saying is, in a nutshell, it's not the flashy things that you're attracted to.
00:11:10.780 It's just the skew to the thing that the flashy things may bring.
00:11:13.140 That's what I'm trying to get.
00:11:14.300 I agree.
00:11:14.900 Because I've met some women who actually don't like guys who are flashy,
00:11:17.440 who they think, oh, this guy's too loud.
00:11:19.140 So what about those women? 1.00
00:11:20.520 They look at guys with all that.
00:11:22.040 What are we talking about?
00:11:23.400 The role or the exception?
00:11:25.040 I'm just asking this question.
00:11:26.720 No, but you're bringing up the exception.
00:11:28.080 No, but even, I would argue that even the guys that you claim are not flashy,
00:11:32.780 they are still flashy in the ways women would respond to in terms of their status. 1.00
00:11:37.000 Yeah, but it's not shiny.
00:11:38.460 It is shiny.
00:11:39.400 Status is a shiny thing.
00:11:40.560 Bruv, how many people have status?
00:11:42.100 I agree with you.
00:11:42.820 It's bright in the eyes of women. 1.00
00:11:44.480 I agree with you.
00:11:45.360 I mean, I get what you're saying.
00:11:47.120 I think the word shiny kind of took me over, but you just mean just credible.
00:11:51.220 I mean, I'm a philosopher at the end of the day.
00:11:52.860 Come on.
00:11:54.280 I love philosopher.
00:11:55.560 Yeah, I get what you're saying, but I still feel like women are attracted to security. 0.70
00:11:59.360 It's just like you said, it's just in a biological nature to draw to these things.
00:12:03.560 Yeah.
00:12:04.800 All right, then, direct to the point, then, I would say, like, if you're going to have
00:12:10.080 a household, at least 25K, because that's what it takes to run a house.
00:12:16.040 Okay.
00:12:16.860 Thank you.
00:12:17.640 Go ahead.
00:12:18.260 What are your deal breakers?
00:12:20.200 My third deal breaker is not passing my interrogation process.
00:12:27.320 Okay.
00:12:27.760 Oh, that's what you, you, you had, you wanted to do an interrogation show, didn't you?
00:12:33.360 Yes.
00:12:33.900 Okay.
00:12:34.400 What's your interrogation process?
00:12:36.200 Um, so there's a series of five questions.
00:12:39.740 I have my personal five questions that I ask to actually use in my own day and life.
00:12:44.180 Okay.
00:12:44.580 My personal day and life.
00:12:45.540 My five questions are, the first one is, do you drive?
00:12:49.920 It sounds very basic, but yeah.
00:12:51.580 Do you drive, um, do you have any past traumas?
00:12:55.400 And if so, and what are you doing to resolve them?
00:12:59.340 How many baby mothers do you have? 1.00
00:13:04.300 What guys are we going on dates with?
00:13:08.180 Is this like a, is this a problem that we run into?
00:13:12.080 Multiple baby moms? 1.00
00:13:13.820 Yes.
00:13:14.320 Oh yeah.
00:13:14.940 Okay.
00:13:15.480 Yeah.
00:13:15.760 A lot of some guys, they, they have children.
00:13:18.380 Okay.
00:13:18.940 Okay.
00:13:19.280 How many baby moms is too many? 1.00
00:13:22.220 Well, that's a trick question you see, because if they actually say they have a baby mother,
00:13:25.660 then I know what time of day is.
00:13:26.900 If they don't respond to the question as my child's mother, then I understand what the dynamic
00:13:32.220 in the situation is.
00:13:33.380 So that's actually a trick question.
00:13:35.240 Okay.
00:13:36.200 Okay.
00:13:36.600 But I would like to hear zero.
00:13:39.360 Would you, would you deal with one?
00:13:43.480 I would have to compromise.
00:13:45.020 I'll be compromising.
00:13:46.140 Okay.
00:13:46.540 Two?
00:13:47.340 No.
00:13:47.880 Okay.
00:13:48.260 So what other questions do you ask?
00:13:51.100 How many students have income?
00:13:53.580 And.
00:13:54.500 So if he says he's a plumber, no other, he's one stream of income.
00:13:59.880 Is that okay?
00:14:01.340 You and his plumber.
00:14:03.380 Electric.
00:14:03.780 We could, we could do bus driver. 0.78
00:14:07.360 I just pick a trade.
00:14:08.440 Bus drivers are making a lot of money.
00:14:10.900 That's not a mask.
00:14:11.900 No, they all do all the trades.
00:14:13.400 I mean, my questions are not wrong and right.
00:14:16.160 It's just for me to understand the individual.
00:14:17.940 And if he said three, then I know I have a bonus there.
00:14:20.940 If he says zero, I know I have a problem.
00:14:23.320 If he says one or two, then I just understand his work effort and where he would like to go.
00:14:29.160 The last question that I normally ask is, what is a male's purpose in four words?
00:14:34.740 And these questions, it sounds very military as I'm saying it, but I slide in the conversation.
00:14:40.260 It's a way how I do it.
00:14:41.620 But if they fail those five questions, yeah.
00:14:45.040 Deal breaker.
00:14:45.420 Okay, so I'm just curious.
00:14:48.760 One stream of income.
00:14:50.540 Deal breaker or no?
00:14:52.120 Not a deal breaker, no.
00:14:53.280 Okay.
00:14:53.900 Pass that question.
00:14:55.040 And the trauma.
00:14:56.640 You think men want to be questioned about their past trauma?
00:15:00.680 It's how they respond to the question, actually.
00:15:02.560 Okay, so what's...
00:15:04.320 All right.
00:15:05.080 Ask him your questions.
00:15:07.680 I want to see if he passes or not.
00:15:09.420 Are you ready for the interrogation?
00:15:11.420 Let's go ahead.
00:15:12.000 So, do you have any past traumas?
00:15:15.000 And if so, what are you doing to resolve them?
00:15:17.800 Yeah, I went to therapy, actually.
00:15:20.120 Yeah, and that helped me a lot.
00:15:21.400 It was...
00:15:21.860 Because I was raised by my grandparents and kind of a lot, like being raised by my mum,
00:15:25.440 kind of had a little, like, you know.
00:15:27.380 But now me and my mum are cool.
00:15:28.740 Me and my mum are like best friends.
00:15:29.920 I speak to my mum, like, every day.
00:15:31.640 And it's just been very...
00:15:34.140 It brought a lot of healing to me.
00:15:35.300 So, yeah, it's been good.
00:15:35.940 And actually, I will urge every guy out there to...
00:15:39.540 If you've got any sort of...
00:15:40.940 You know, disruption with your parents, whether your father or mum, just deal with it.
00:15:45.640 Because, yeah.
00:15:46.800 You have to.
00:15:47.440 And they're here.
00:15:48.440 What are you going to do?
00:15:48.920 You just have to deal with it and love them and receive the love that it gives you.
00:15:52.040 It gives you a lot of healing, yeah.
00:15:54.120 Thank you for answering.
00:15:55.480 Was that a good answer?
00:15:56.560 The way how he answered gave me a lot of information about him.
00:16:00.360 Just then and there.
00:16:01.200 And it also let me know that he actually did...
00:16:04.240 He has a past trauma and he actually done something to resolve it.
00:16:07.780 I'm more for the end result.
00:16:09.700 And the fact that he actually did something rather than sit down and feel safe for himself,
00:16:13.680 he passed the question.
00:16:14.880 Ask another one.
00:16:16.660 I want to see how he does.
00:16:18.000 I want to see.
00:16:20.360 Keep going.
00:16:21.020 This is fun.
00:16:22.600 Okay.
00:16:23.020 What is a mouse's purpose in four words?
00:16:25.540 I think it's to provide, protect.
00:16:27.940 And to provide, protect.
00:16:31.480 And also to live out his divine purpose.
00:16:36.220 So protect, provide, bear children, so reproduce, and to live his dreams. 0.94
00:16:43.600 So whatever gift that God has given you, you have to make sure that you manifest that
00:16:47.600 in life before you die, before you leave this planet.
00:16:50.440 So live his dreams in one word.
00:16:52.120 What does that mean?
00:16:53.780 To live out his gifts.
00:16:57.680 So whatever gift that he's got is to bring it into fruition.
00:17:02.820 So if you can put that in one word, what would that one word be?
00:17:06.320 To be alive.
00:17:08.560 So that's a few words.
00:17:11.680 Fulfillment?
00:17:13.060 Yes.
00:17:13.700 That's it.
00:17:14.740 Can I date you?
00:17:15.500 You sound pretty good.
00:17:16.860 Yeah, that's it.
00:17:18.400 Are you two going to get together now?
00:17:19.760 Because I'd love that.
00:17:21.240 Yeah, that's it.
00:17:22.340 Well, they've gone shy.
00:17:24.720 What did you think of that answer?
00:17:26.460 No, he missed 50%.
00:17:28.060 What was wrong with the answer?
00:17:30.180 Protect and provide is definitely the two words.
00:17:34.960 Again, like I said, there isn't any wrong or right answers, but the four words that I'm
00:17:38.120 looking for is protect, provide, hunt, and lead.
00:17:42.100 Okay.
00:17:42.600 Those are the words I'm looking for.
00:17:43.300 He's got to say hunt?
00:17:44.320 Yeah.
00:17:45.600 I mean, we live in London.
00:17:47.500 We live in London.
00:17:50.780 Why?
00:17:51.100 You're actually not the first girl that's come on the show and said she wants a guy to 0.96
00:17:55.940 like kill an animal.
00:17:57.060 But I'm like, we live in London.
00:17:59.580 You know what I mean?
00:18:00.240 Like, where is he going to go hunting?
00:18:03.580 I mean, in terms of...
00:18:05.620 Do you pick berries?
00:18:07.360 But modern daily, obviously, we don't do hunting.
00:18:10.780 Yeah.
00:18:11.100 We're living in, like you said, London, 21st century.
00:18:14.560 So, a man's hunting now is going to Sainsbury's and buying the food or providing the money
00:18:19.520 to buy the food.
00:18:20.640 Is that another thing that's what I said?
00:18:21.880 To provide?
00:18:22.600 Yeah, exactly.
00:18:23.640 Yeah.
00:18:23.840 But that's what men have to...
00:18:25.460 Well, I'm saying it's from...
00:18:26.540 I don't know her name.
00:18:27.900 But anyway, like she said, hunting.
00:18:29.640 But that's what she kind of means.
00:18:31.340 But obviously, you can't go and shoot a deer or whatever.
00:18:34.860 So, you have to go to Sainsbury's and buy steak.
00:18:37.600 I want to hear from the guys.
00:18:40.380 These questions, would these be like a red flag or a green flag?
00:18:45.140 Massive red flag, bro.
00:18:46.320 Really?
00:18:47.340 Personally, I feel like she's in a mission.
00:18:49.200 I feel like she's looking for love.
00:18:51.500 She's here, which is a good thing.
00:18:53.240 But then if I'm not really on that kind of vibe...
00:18:55.500 Then you're trying to...
00:18:56.040 I would just like, okay.
00:18:57.120 Why do you say it's a red flag, King?
00:19:00.000 Because when it comes to relationships, the same way women expect men to be tactful about 1.00
00:19:08.180 how they approach them, how they ask them certain questions, I expect a woman of intelligence
00:19:14.140 to do the same thing.
00:19:15.600 You can't just be asking me direct questions as if we're like in an interrogation.
00:19:19.300 It doesn't make any sense.
00:19:20.340 Yeah, but she said she doesn't do it like how she said it. 0.98
00:19:23.560 She slides it in there.
00:19:24.460 Yeah, those five questions last within a two-hour conversation.
00:19:26.820 You won't even realise I'm asking you these questions for that purpose.
00:19:29.900 Because it's a two-hour conversation.
00:19:30.580 But what I'm saying is if you deliver it exactly the way you delivered it, it's just
00:19:34.520 going to be a waste of time.
00:19:35.000 Of course, that won't be genuine.
00:19:36.720 And anyone would turn off and not even answer that, to be honest, of course.
00:19:40.880 So I have a question.
00:19:42.660 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:19:46.100 I expect you'll say it's to bear children. 0.64
00:19:49.300 No, that's not what I would say.
00:19:50.520 No, okay.
00:19:51.840 Well, to be supportive, I think, and encouraging, and kind, and respectful, and give men a lot 0.89
00:19:57.760 of what they need, as long as it isn't insane and ridiculous.
00:20:00.600 But I think I work as a dominatrix, and I think too often wives fail to do that, and
00:20:04.540 men come to me for things that women should often be providing themselves. 0.93
00:20:07.640 Yeah, question, actually.
00:20:09.920 Because I have a theory.
00:20:12.300 I'm like, what can we learn from sex workers?
00:20:14.920 And I think one thing I've always heard from sex workers is a lot of times men seek out
00:20:19.600 sex workers because their wives are not sleeping with them. 0.97
00:20:22.140 Is that true? 0.92
00:20:23.620 Yes, I'm sure that's true.
00:20:24.760 Or just listening to them, actually, or just respecting them.
00:20:26.900 I had a man recently pay me so he could cry in my arms because their son had just died,
00:20:31.460 and his wife just wasn't providing any emotional support. 0.93
00:20:34.360 Or they just really want their wives to wear stockings, and I don't think that's really
00:20:37.620 unreasonable.
00:20:40.000 Yeah, I don't sleep with men, so I'm not entirely confident on that.
00:20:44.980 How does that work with your husband?
00:20:46.600 He doesn't mind? 0.94
00:20:47.340 No, he thinks it's just ridiculous and fun.
00:20:49.640 Yeah, he just hears the beating noises.
00:20:51.300 No, she's off again.
00:20:52.720 He doesn't think spanking's sexy at all, so he's fine.
00:20:55.240 But you don't do anything sexually with them?
00:20:57.880 No. 0.99
00:20:58.360 No, just beat them up. 0.50
00:21:00.860 Wow, that's interesting. 0.99
00:21:01.960 Do you know women that do have sex with them? 0.95
00:21:04.760 I don't, actually.
00:21:05.880 No, it just stops the beating.
00:21:07.340 It's just you kind of live in your own little world.
00:21:09.140 Yeah, really.
00:21:10.000 Okay.
00:21:11.360 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:21:13.000 I'm not married, so does my opinion really count?
00:21:15.820 It still counts.
00:21:16.880 I mean, the question is, does the average chick know the role of a wife? 1.00
00:21:20.520 Okay, wow.
00:21:25.380 My mum, she cooks, she cleans, she loves, she supports, she fends for her kids, she goes with her instincts, womanly instincts.
00:21:39.840 I don't know if everyone's got them, but she is amazing.
00:21:44.120 And my dad is still there, still there supporting her, and she's still there supporting him.
00:21:51.940 So what I've seen her do over all these years, because there was together, well, from before I was born, they're in their 50s now.
00:22:02.900 Her just, even the business, they've opened up a business, they've got teamwork now.
00:22:07.700 It's just, it's all about building, she's built with her partner and her partner, my dad, she's built him together.
00:22:19.700 She's built him?
00:22:20.780 Yeah, like together, like they build each other.
00:22:23.660 Okay.
00:22:24.120 And it's like, it's a team thing, you know?
00:22:27.740 Do you think they're equals?
00:22:30.240 Equals? 0.97
00:22:30.780 In marriage, are they equal? 0.74
00:22:33.280 Yes.
00:22:34.060 Yeah.
00:22:34.680 Yeah, yeah.
00:22:35.480 So you think your role in marriage is to be an equal, a teammate?
00:22:41.320 Well, I just feel like they've still been right, they're happy, they've been going on.
00:22:46.100 This is just what I've seen.
00:22:48.080 Obviously, I'm not going to go into my deep detail of my life and my family, but this is just my opinion.
00:22:53.500 I'm not married, I've just seen what she's done. 0.99
00:22:56.360 And as a wife, they're still happy, boy, still together, still riding it.
00:23:03.020 And that's just me, anyway.
00:23:04.100 Okay, what is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:23:06.740 To be the husband's helper, to love, respect, and to submit to him, like he is the leader.
00:23:14.500 And to just nurture the home, make a home, make a house a home, yeah.
00:23:21.440 Yeah, I would say to love and support, be respectful, and to listen.
00:23:30.680 Yeah, I think that's pretty much, and yeah, be able to just give him what he won't be looking in other women for.
00:23:41.720 Okay.
00:23:42.040 I would say exactly what she said, actually, but that's kind of biblical.
00:23:47.320 Speak up to the mic.
00:23:48.840 Well, what she said, I agree with her.
00:23:51.200 All the things that she said, the lady over there, I don't really know her name.
00:23:55.400 What's your name?
00:23:56.100 No, no.
00:23:56.820 Oh, Chantel.
00:23:57.960 Chantel, yeah. 0.69
00:23:58.500 What what Chantel said, I agree with her.
00:24:00.540 So, copy and paste.
00:24:01.680 That's exactly how I think a wife should be. 1.00
00:24:05.380 Okay, what do you think?
00:24:06.440 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:24:07.580 Yeah, I totally agree with that to you guys.
00:24:10.580 Yeah, definitely, you know, to be a helper, to respect, you know, commit in terms of paying your role as a wife.
00:24:22.560 Okay.
00:24:24.800 Okay, so that would be to nurture, to reproduce.
00:24:29.060 Two other elements, I'll say, to heal the sick and to feed the hunger.
00:24:34.900 And to contribute towards the legacy that the man's trying to obtain or maintain.
00:24:44.920 Should you obey your husband, point blank, period?
00:24:48.300 No.
00:24:49.580 No?
00:24:50.180 No.
00:24:50.660 No? What about you?
00:24:57.200 Can we define obey?
00:24:58.620 I was about to say that as well.
00:25:00.340 Obey.
00:25:01.440 You don't know what obey?
00:25:02.500 I mean, I can get the definition.
00:25:03.700 You don't, you can't infer what it means.
00:25:06.960 I'll get, I'll get you guys.
00:25:08.280 You mean just say yes to everything they say, basically.
00:25:11.300 The yes scale.
00:25:12.080 Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:25:13.820 Submit to the authority of someone or comply with.
00:25:18.800 Should you obey your husband, point blank, period?
00:25:22.420 So you say no.
00:25:23.500 What do you say?
00:25:25.840 No.
00:25:26.600 No.
00:25:27.120 Okay, what do you think?
00:25:27.920 Yes.
00:25:28.500 Yes.
00:25:28.900 She's torn.
00:25:31.160 I see it.
00:25:31.780 I am.
00:25:32.280 She's like, I want to, I know the, I know the right answer, but I don't want to say it.
00:25:37.320 Yeah.
00:25:37.900 I think it's a bit of both.
00:25:39.660 I think there's certain things you should just completely agree with and other things
00:25:44.640 that you just, how do you?
00:25:45.900 That is no.
00:25:46.580 You should be able to.
00:25:48.180 Because really and truly, I agree with you.
00:25:50.520 There's certain things, yes, but you will say no to something.
00:25:54.680 I am going to say no.
00:25:55.160 So that is a no.
00:25:56.160 You won't always obey.
00:25:57.940 Okay.
00:26:00.280 She, that's a tricky one. 1.00
00:26:01.620 I would say, yes, you should obey, but only obey if he himself moves with God's principles.
00:26:09.000 Then, yeah, you should obey, because I think, me personally, I obey God alone.
00:26:12.280 So if he moves with God's principles, then, yeah, I think you should obey.
00:26:15.680 I think it will lead you both into an unselfish way to be both in, then it should reap the benefits
00:26:22.120 of that.
00:26:22.680 So, yeah, if he's got God's principles, then, yeah, you should obey.
00:26:28.000 I agree with the last bit, what he just said, and I believe, yes, so long as it's not detrimental
00:26:34.900 to the home.
00:26:36.640 Okay.
00:26:36.900 I would say if it's beneficial to both parties, yes.
00:26:41.220 How do you determine what's beneficial to both parties?
00:26:45.940 When your boss asks you to do something, do you say if it's beneficial to both parties?
00:26:52.800 To a boss, it will be beneficial to do it, because if not, you'd be fired, then you have
00:26:57.240 to look at the consequences of being fired, or having the consequences of you having a
00:27:01.160 rocky relationship with your boss now saying that you don't want to comply.
00:27:04.000 So why will women submit to a boss, but not their husband? 0.99
00:27:07.420 Because that's not, you're not getting paid.
00:27:10.760 That's different.
00:27:11.640 I mean, do you want a guy that provides?
00:27:14.820 True.
00:27:15.720 When you think of it like that.
00:27:16.960 Yeah, so my question is, why will we submit to a boss, but we have to say, oh, well, what's
00:27:22.380 in it for me when it's our husband?
00:27:24.040 Work is work.
00:27:24.740 We shouldn't be at home thinking that this is work.
00:27:27.100 No.
00:27:27.140 Right, but it's the same dynamic.
00:27:28.660 It's an authority dynamic, right?
00:27:31.220 Mm-hmm.
00:27:32.280 I mean, it depends what you believe marriage is.
00:27:34.700 Because you seem to have more of an egalitarian model of marriage, which is really common where
00:27:39.020 it's like 50-50, we have an equal say.
00:27:41.320 I don't believe in that.
00:27:42.680 Like, I think that you should listen to the men.
00:27:45.200 Is that you?
00:27:45.820 Have you got a partner?
00:27:48.660 All right.
00:27:49.380 All right.
00:27:51.120 No, but I just think you can look at what works in history.
00:27:57.480 And it's literally like the egalitarian model has never worked.
00:28:00.340 Would you care to elaborate on that a bit?
00:28:06.360 All right.
00:28:06.840 Let's look at, so basically, feminism, when did it start? 1.00
00:28:10.920 Like, the early 1900s.
00:28:13.180 And that's when you start seeing in the media that men are abusers.
00:28:16.180 You start seeing these propaganda campaigns where it's like, we're 50-50.
00:28:20.340 We both have an equal say, right?
00:28:23.140 And so, it's like, the further, the more closer it's been to an egalitarian model, then the
00:28:30.100 less from a submissive, like, authority structure, the more divorce rates have gone up, the less
00:28:34.560 children we've had, the less relationships have formed.
00:28:37.500 It was just really hard to get a divorce before, wasn't it?
00:28:40.620 That's related.
00:28:41.400 I mean, yeah, because I think today what we have, it's not marriage.
00:28:45.400 You know, it's like basically being a relationship.
00:28:48.980 I think divorce should be illegal. 1.00
00:28:50.640 Yeah, I don't believe in that.
00:28:52.480 Yeah, I don't think, I think once you're married, that's it.
00:28:57.400 Yeah, unless it's, again, the whole abuse word, then I don't think there's anything, even
00:29:03.140 with cheating, I think that can be worked out.
00:29:05.360 Wow, based.
00:29:06.700 Very based.
00:29:08.780 I do feel like, if that's your husband, then that's who you've married.
00:29:12.520 You can work it out.
00:29:14.000 I mean, I think women cheat every day. 1.00
00:29:16.340 Yeah, I mean, women are the biggest cheaters in 2023. 1.00
00:29:19.760 How many women we see have ass pictures on Instagram, being in happy, healthy relationships? 1.00
00:29:26.980 Wait, is that cheating? 1.00
00:29:27.800 Women, yes. 1.00
00:29:29.500 Is that cheating for you?
00:29:30.340 Yes, yes.
00:29:31.380 I think that is absolutely cheating. 0.99
00:29:33.840 What do you need to post a picture of your butt on Instagram for when you have a husband? 1.00
00:29:37.560 What kind of butt, like, you know, just out here, just showing their nipples and underwear? 1.00
00:29:41.920 Yeah, I agree. 1.00
00:29:43.280 I think a selfie is cheating.
00:29:45.100 Crazy.
00:29:45.600 Really? 0.63
00:29:46.260 What do they need to see your beauty for? 0.99
00:29:48.140 You got a man.
00:29:48.940 Girl, we're going to be walking on the roads.
00:29:51.180 Everyone's going to see the faces now.
00:29:52.700 What do you, I mean, yeah, outside, but like, what are you posting it online for?
00:29:56.740 How is that cheating?
00:29:57.240 And also, let's talk about, let's talk about women.
00:30:00.340 It's like, we're like, oh, cheating is the worst thing that could ever happen to us.
00:30:04.200 Well, I mean, are you a virgin on your wedding day?
00:30:07.000 No.
00:30:07.760 So it's like, maybe we should get off our high horses.
00:30:10.720 It's like a man cheats once.
00:30:12.980 50 to 70% of the time, it's a one-time thing.
00:30:16.880 So meaning he'll never do it again.
00:30:18.620 Most guys don't really get offered like that.
00:30:21.760 So then the women are like, oh, cheating is the worst thing ever. 1.00
00:30:25.000 Like, when men are programmed to just screw random chicks. 1.00
00:30:28.220 So your man's screwing random chicks? 0.99
00:30:30.380 No, no. 0.99
00:30:31.640 Look, look, I mean, I don't wish to be cheated on.
00:30:35.660 I do not want to be cheated on.
00:30:37.320 You would accept it.
00:30:37.960 I think that it's silly to throw away a marriage when you have children for your own personal
00:30:45.500 feelings, because I think once you have a child, it's not about you anymore.
00:30:49.320 Yeah, well, one cheat, I get that.
00:30:52.600 Everyone, no one is perfect.
00:30:54.140 I'm not saying I'll be happy with it.
00:30:55.540 You're going to ride because there's kids involved.
00:30:58.080 What if it's consistently, the man don't respect you at all, and he's giving his good, fresh
00:31:02.200 pee weenies into another weenie.
00:31:05.280 All right, all right, all right, all right, all right, all I want, how did women, how did 1.00
00:31:08.400 women, how did women reproduce historically? 1.00
00:31:11.200 We got the attention of high value men, right?
00:31:14.140 The highest, the best guy in the tribe, we'd pull up our skirts and be like, look, take
00:31:19.300 me in, right?
00:31:20.360 Right?
00:31:20.600 That's how we survive.
00:31:22.000 How did women, or how did men survive? 0.98
00:31:24.640 They'd become big, get resources, right?
00:31:27.180 They'd get strong.
00:31:28.580 And what would they do? 0.98
00:31:30.720 They would screw a bunch of chicks. 1.00
00:31:32.260 That's how they survive. 1.00
00:31:33.380 So I think that sex is to men like attention is to women. 0.74
00:31:36.720 That's my belief.
00:31:37.640 And I think if we're going to go off this logic, we've never cheated, none of us have
00:31:42.700 flirted with another guy in a relationship, none of us have posted a provocative picture.
00:31:47.840 We're all virgins on our wedding days.
00:31:49.740 I just think like, maybe we should come with a little bit of humility, that it's not like
00:31:54.800 the end of the world if he sleeps with another person and it can be worked through.
00:31:59.740 Yeah, but what if it's consistently?
00:32:01.440 Wouldn't you feel a bit upset?
00:32:02.660 What about all that loyalty that you've given that man, that love, that energy, and then
00:32:07.600 they're just giving that good, good body to someone else? 0.98
00:32:10.200 Well, why did you do that before marriage?
00:32:14.380 No, but marriage is marriage.
00:32:16.820 No, but you were supposed to.
00:32:18.120 What are you supposed to be?
00:32:20.040 You haven't committed.
00:32:20.720 What are you supposed to be?
00:32:22.280 Okay, did you want to be married?
00:32:24.160 Did most women want to be married? 1.00
00:32:25.640 Yes.
00:32:25.940 Did we know that on our wedding night, we were supposed to be virgins?
00:32:29.380 Most people knew that.
00:32:30.880 No, no, most of us are not.
00:32:32.660 And that's my point.
00:32:34.120 It's not to say it's okay, but it's like, where is the humility?
00:32:37.700 Yeah, but you've got to throw all that virgin talk in the bin right now. 1.00
00:32:40.300 We need to get back to the fact that when you're married, are you saying it's all right
00:32:43.560 to just completely keep getting consistently cheated on without you feeling affected by
00:32:47.120 it?
00:32:47.320 I wouldn't say consistency.
00:32:48.200 You know, wait, hold on.
00:32:49.220 I wanted her to answer that because I'm not asking questions for no reason now.
00:32:52.960 Wouldn't you feel a little bit upset like he's been doing?
00:32:55.820 Sorry, I'm just going to finish what I'm saying because I was just saying something.
00:32:58.940 I wanted to know, wouldn't you feel like that's a little bit, sorry.
00:33:02.560 Oh, am I getting cut?
00:33:03.700 Oh, it was a valid point. 0.99
00:33:04.760 I'm going to, you idiot, look at, look at, it's not, it's not the valid point. 0.99
00:33:07.620 It's that my producer was talking first. 1.00
00:33:09.560 Yeah, but I was talking.
00:33:10.320 No, no, no, no, no.
00:33:10.760 I know, but he's allowed to do, it's not your show.
00:33:13.200 He's allowed to do that.
00:33:14.120 It doesn't matter.
00:33:14.460 I'm going to, I'm going to let him go and then you can go.
00:33:17.880 Okay.
00:33:18.100 I'm going to let him go.
00:33:18.880 Then you can go.
00:33:19.600 Go ahead.
00:33:20.040 Yeah.
00:33:20.820 Yeah.
00:33:21.140 So here's the thing about it.
00:33:22.540 Yeah.
00:33:22.800 You can laugh all you want, but here's the thing about it.
00:33:25.680 The reality is a man that is going to be cheating on you consistently is one of two things.
00:33:31.100 Either he has always been a cheat and you knew and you decided to get married to him, which
00:33:35.840 is entirely your fault. 0.60
00:33:38.100 Or let's do what the women usually do. 1.00
00:33:40.800 So if he just started cheating out of the blue and he does it consistently, maybe you
00:33:45.220 should ask yourself, why is he cheating?
00:33:47.400 What are you doing wrong?
00:33:48.380 Because that's what we always ask when a woman cheats or what did the man do? 0.99
00:33:52.380 So maybe you should ask yourself.
00:33:54.020 I 100% agree.
00:33:55.340 Do you actually cheat?
00:33:55.860 I agree.
00:33:56.540 Yeah.
00:33:56.820 I agree with him as well.
00:33:57.820 I'm just putting other points, boy.
00:33:59.860 Okay.
00:34:00.120 Throwing it out there, but I definitely agree.
00:34:01.620 What is your question?
00:34:02.600 Go ahead.
00:34:02.680 Oh, I forgot now.
00:34:03.780 Do I go cut?
00:34:04.560 That's it.
00:34:04.980 Oh, no.
00:34:05.600 Finish.
00:34:06.140 I'm those type of people.
00:34:07.640 All right.
00:34:07.940 You cut me up again.
00:34:09.280 All right.
00:34:10.200 All right. 1.00
00:34:10.800 Yeah, but I think a lot of times as women, we just think we're the hot shit. 1.00
00:34:15.140 And I just think we could use a little bit of humility and understanding. 0.99
00:34:18.800 Men are, men are, look at, if, what if men left us every time we sought attention from 0.96
00:34:23.860 other men, we would be so goddamn single. 0.99
00:34:27.260 Oh my God. 0.99
00:34:28.060 In this generation.
00:34:29.280 Attention will step with other men.
00:34:30.480 And attention.
00:34:32.000 That's what I'm saying.
00:34:32.780 Because how did we, like, to me, those are the same. 0.96
00:34:35.560 Seeking attention from another guy is the same as getting sex from another girl. 0.96
00:34:39.680 Okay. 0.83
00:34:41.060 Well, yeah, it's not right.
00:34:42.400 It's just not right in any way.
00:34:44.400 It's something that is hard for anyone to really get over.
00:34:47.980 Like, how often do women go out in provocative clothes in a relationship? 1.00
00:34:52.200 How often do women go out to a club in a relationship? 1.00
00:34:55.120 We weren't virgins on our wedding days.
00:34:57.280 My whole point is, men are programmed to sleep with anything. 0.92
00:35:00.900 Guys have a hard time turning down easy sex. 0.89
00:35:04.120 It's probably not even you. 0.82
00:35:05.900 It's just the sex was there.
00:35:07.200 Or maybe it was you.
00:35:08.320 And, you know, I just think it's about the kids.
00:35:11.960 So, yeah, I would stick it out.
00:35:13.980 I believe every man will do their dirt.
00:35:16.400 I definitely believe it.
00:35:17.700 Regardless, even if you think that you're doing the best thing.
00:35:20.520 But it's not something that every woman can accept. 0.87
00:35:24.400 It's something mentally.
00:35:25.880 Wouldn't it be easier to just, this is how I think about it.
00:35:28.900 Wouldn't it be easier to just accept it?
00:35:32.120 It would be so much easier to just accept being here.
00:35:35.380 Yeah, I know.
00:35:36.280 Seriously, I was thinking about this.
00:35:37.800 Wouldn't it be easier to just accept it might happen?
00:35:40.680 I have a theory.
00:35:41.660 Because otherwise you're going to be at his phone, checking where he's doing.
00:35:45.340 What are you going to do?
00:35:46.280 Mentally, it would disturb your brain.
00:35:47.680 I feel like.
00:35:48.400 You know, it's a choice.
00:35:49.860 It's a choice.
00:35:50.660 Go ahead.
00:35:50.940 I feel like within the first year of a relationship, a man is tempted to cheat.
00:35:55.280 Just to make sure that that girl is the girl that he wants to be with.
00:35:58.660 But that's just my mentality of thinking of the relationship-wise.
00:36:02.680 Sometimes, I always feel like it happens within the first year.
00:36:05.860 And if it happens after the first year, yeah, there's something wrong with the woman. 1.00
00:36:08.840 There's something wrong within the relationship.
00:36:11.040 I think men just like.
00:36:12.080 I just think sometimes when like a hoe is there and willing. 1.00
00:36:16.540 The guy's just like.
00:36:19.680 You know, a work trip.
00:36:21.760 It's like, go ahead.
00:36:22.640 I mean, I wouldn't say if a man cheats, then there's something wrong with a woman. 1.00
00:36:25.900 Sometimes men cheat because they're just depressed.
00:36:27.800 It's just there.
00:36:28.440 Oh, depressed.
00:36:29.000 Yeah, I mean, some men cheat because they just don't feel, they don't see any value.
00:36:33.860 But then would you not class that as something, as the woman is not giving him?
00:36:37.020 She's not uplifting.
00:36:37.400 Because why is your man depressed and you don't know your man is depressed and you can't help him for it?
00:36:40.680 Have you ever flirted with another guy in a relationship while you're in a relationship?
00:36:45.700 Well, from when you're saying that putting certain pictures up is basically cheating, then I would have to say yeah.
00:36:50.120 Yeah.
00:36:52.440 Okay, and did that really have to do with him?
00:36:55.640 Was he doing something wrong?
00:36:56.740 I would have to say yeah, because obviously if I'm seeking attention, then it means I'm not getting attention from my mom.
00:37:02.300 Okay.
00:37:02.800 Okay, so you did it to like get back at him.
00:37:05.160 I wouldn't say it's a get back, but it's something that we crave as women. 0.99
00:37:09.200 We need that attention and we need that.
00:37:11.140 If you're in a relationship, it's something that your man should be giving you anyway.
00:37:14.100 And if he's not giving it to you, you're going to seek it elsewhere.
00:37:16.360 Do you think men should break up with women that do that? 1.00
00:37:19.460 Yeah.
00:37:19.800 No.
00:37:20.080 I think so.
00:37:20.860 He's like, yeah.
00:37:21.700 No.
00:37:22.480 Tell me why.
00:37:23.160 Because I think if your woman cheats on you, to me, it's done. 0.99
00:37:26.540 It's no coming back.
00:37:27.160 But again, it depends on her definition of cheating.
00:37:29.880 That's why I was saying about pictures.
00:37:31.180 If it's like sexual, if she has sex with another man.
00:37:33.280 No, I'm saying like pictures. 0.54
00:37:35.100 No, no, no.
00:37:35.600 I think that we can work out.
00:37:37.040 Yeah.
00:37:37.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:37:38.220 But to me, that's the equivalent.
00:37:40.320 Like you can work out a picture.
00:37:41.900 No, no. 0.98
00:37:42.320 I can work out a picture, but I can't work out having sex with another man. 0.96
00:37:45.940 That's like. 0.97
00:37:46.360 Right.
00:37:46.700 But here's the thing about women. 1.00
00:37:49.560 You can't.
00:37:51.180 I don't know.
00:37:52.260 It's always very weird because if you think about it, if your woman is doing something 1.00
00:37:57.480 that is affecting the relationship and you ask her to stop and she doesn't stop it immediately,
00:38:02.960 I don't think there's anything to work out.
00:38:05.240 I mean, pictures you can.
00:38:06.940 I think some people have been doing that since they were like 14.
00:38:09.800 It's become a habit.
00:38:10.700 It's not even like they're doing it for attention anymore.
00:38:12.780 It's become like that's how they function.
00:38:15.300 It's a social media problem.
00:38:16.960 It's become a habit.
00:38:17.880 It's a club.
00:38:18.480 Yeah, it's become something that they've been doing all their lives.
00:38:21.080 So I think people just need to heal.
00:38:23.260 That's what I'll say.
00:38:24.000 Before you get in a relationship, just heal.
00:38:25.800 I think women, I think we shouldn't heal. 1.00
00:38:29.580 I think we should.
00:38:30.400 No, no.
00:38:31.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:38:32.400 I think this is, yeah, this is, this is, no, no.
00:38:36.160 This is what.
00:38:37.160 I think women like got into therapy to like control men. 1.00
00:38:43.000 Yeah.
00:38:43.440 And just tell them.
00:38:44.320 Yeah, and I think the women will send the men to therapy to just confuse them. 1.00
00:38:47.920 Now, I'm not saying there's not exceptions.
00:38:49.880 I'm sure there's like maybe it helped you personally.
00:38:52.540 Yeah, because that was a personal choice.
00:38:54.080 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:38:55.020 Well, I'm not, again, I'm not talking about you.
00:38:56.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:38:57.240 But I think in general, when I hear the word trauma, when I hear the word therapy, I'm like red flag.
00:39:05.220 What?
00:39:05.820 Because it's women led. 0.98
00:39:07.280 I think women should, or men really shouldn't get like advice and like guidance from women. 1.00
00:39:12.620 But I mean, that's your wife or your girlfriend's job. 0.99
00:39:16.300 What's the point of being with them?
00:39:17.460 No, I think the women should be guided by the men. 1.00
00:39:20.980 I think like that goes back to the we're equal model.
00:39:23.340 So basically the obey.
00:39:24.520 The woman should basically obey. 1.00
00:39:26.340 She's getting it.
00:39:27.600 Yes, yes.
00:39:28.380 I think like, because the thing is that what they would do, and this happens in a lot of Christian like churches as they infiltrated the churches in the early, the late 1800s, early 1900s, and basically like weaponized scripture and like rewrote scripture to like go towards a more egalitarian model. 0.68
00:39:46.060 That's why they'll be like submit to each other, all that bullshit.
00:39:49.020 It's like rewritten. 0.94
00:39:49.800 But you know what, I went to Ghana, I was in Ghana holiday and actually found out the Ashanti tribe, actually the queen, like the king has to go to the queen for advice.
00:39:59.080 So they make sure that the queen is older than the king and actually they have to be related.
00:40:02.860 So in Ashanti tribe, your wife can't be your queen. 0.95
00:40:05.220 It has to be your older sister or your auntie, someone that you can actually take advice from.
00:40:10.000 So I wouldn't say take.
00:40:11.300 Do you think tribes like that, like typically have stood the test of time across the world? 0.99
00:40:16.420 I mean, where, I mean.
00:40:19.800 With their habitat and how their cultural maneuvers help them, I mean, they still, they're still functioning.
00:40:24.940 No, no, I'm saying like, like, do you think it's common for female-led societies to stand the test?
00:40:30.340 It's not a female-led society. 0.93
00:40:31.860 It's still the king.
00:40:32.480 The king is still the king.
00:40:33.460 Okay.
00:40:33.740 I'm talking about advice.
00:40:35.080 Okay.
00:40:35.460 Like if, let's say another tribe came to invade, he, the king doesn't take advice from anyone but the queen.
00:40:41.820 But the queen is older than the king, so they've lived longer.
00:40:44.060 And I guess they have more, I don't know, what women have, special stuff that women may embody that men wouldn't be.
00:40:50.300 No.
00:40:50.440 I think our person.
00:40:55.800 So if the king has like, if there's an invasion, the king doesn't consult his generals.
00:41:00.240 He doesn't consult a woman.
00:41:01.240 No, no, no, no, no.
00:41:02.000 Advice.
00:41:02.420 He does consult with generals, but to make certain moves, the only person that can, that he goes to in private is the queen.
00:41:09.860 So the queen says, okay, you know what?
00:41:11.480 I think he just goes to, in private, to go and sleep with her, bro.
00:41:14.140 It's a sister.
00:41:15.040 That's what, it's a sister.
00:41:16.240 It's a sister.
00:41:16.940 Your family member is saying.
00:41:17.880 Yeah.
00:41:18.300 You can't, your wife is no, your wife is no queen if you are a king in the Ashanti tribe. 1.00
00:41:22.740 What?
00:41:23.360 How big is this tribe?
00:41:25.000 It's an Ashanti tribe.
00:41:26.020 I don't know anything about the Ashanti.
00:41:28.980 I don't, I'm sorry.
00:41:29.960 I'm not a.
00:41:30.660 Yeah, no, it's fine.
00:41:31.440 It's fine.
00:41:31.740 I just, I just know typically tribes that get wisdom from women haven't stood the test of time. 1.00
00:41:36.600 No, they, I mean, they have.
00:41:37.760 The whole Garnel was called Ashanti.
00:41:38.900 No, no.
00:41:39.240 I'm saying in general.
00:41:41.320 Yeah, yeah.
00:41:42.100 I understand that.
00:41:42.600 But what I'm trying to say is we've seen women tear down kingdoms. 1.00
00:41:46.440 If they were not smart there, then they wouldn't be able to manipulate kings to kill each other.
00:41:50.080 If you go back to Asian days, you've got women actually finesse, maneuvering and literally ruling kingdoms. 1.00
00:41:55.300 Yeah, they're more likely.
00:41:57.420 They're more likely to wage war.
00:41:59.320 Women, queens. 0.99
00:42:00.040 I'm not going to kill each other over anything, bro.
00:42:01.400 No, no, no.
00:42:01.980 I'm talking about.
00:42:02.860 You've got people.
00:42:03.620 No, no.
00:42:03.960 Men will kill each other over, oh, I want this piece of land. 0.78
00:42:07.920 Men kill each other over anything.
00:42:09.680 So when people bring.
00:42:10.540 I'm talking about kingdoms, bro.
00:42:12.200 I'm talking about women actually. 1.00
00:42:13.360 Even kingdoms. 1.00
00:42:14.380 Men kill each.
00:42:15.140 Men invade kingdoms just to go and steal iron, just to go and steal stone. 0.92
00:42:19.940 Like literally any.
00:42:21.780 That's not.
00:42:22.480 I just think that's not fair.
00:42:23.640 No, no.
00:42:24.040 I get what you're saying, but what I'm saying is that, though, you can't say you can't seek advice from your wife.
00:42:29.960 I think if you trust her, that's why you picked her to be your wife, then you should be able to, in comfort, consult with her.
00:42:36.180 Yeah, I agree.
00:42:36.380 No one is saying you shouldn't get advice.
00:42:38.140 What I was saying is like.
00:42:39.680 Well.
00:42:40.000 She said you shouldn't, she said you shouldn't get advice from your wife.
00:42:43.360 And I'm saying that, you picked her to be a wife for a reason. 0.87
00:42:45.540 So whatever that reason is, you should be able to go to her like, listen, I want to run the spy quickly.
00:42:49.120 What do you think?
00:42:50.660 I just think of a boss, like employee relationship.
00:42:53.900 Like you might consult the employee.
00:42:55.840 But it's still like, is your boss really coming to you like that?
00:43:01.500 No, but your partner is not necessarily your employee, I don't think.
00:43:05.420 Well, when you say partner, that's an egalitarian model.
00:43:08.820 Feminists have like ruined our language. 1.00
00:43:10.420 And once you hear it, you can't unhear it. 0.58
00:43:12.040 Because what does partner, like, what does that symbolize?
00:43:15.400 Partnership.
00:43:16.160 What does that mean?
00:43:17.360 Partnership doesn't mean you have to be equal.
00:43:19.100 You've got to be even.
00:43:20.340 Look, I think that's a big, I think there's a difference between being even and being equal.
00:43:23.760 I don't think.
00:43:24.660 Okay.
00:43:25.160 All right.
00:43:25.360 I think the men should be superior and the women are below them. 1.00
00:43:28.800 I mean, that could work, but they have to be, they have to be even.
00:43:33.340 Their respect has to be equal.
00:43:34.220 They have to be equal.
00:43:34.880 Like, for example, like our fingers.
00:43:36.380 What do you mean?
00:43:37.400 What do you mean even?
00:43:38.220 Okay, go ahead.
00:43:39.620 Look at our hands, for example, right?
00:43:40.880 All our fingers, right?
00:43:42.020 They're all different sizes, but they're all equally respective.
00:43:46.260 Someone came and said, which finger would you want to lose?
00:43:48.160 You said none, but they're not even, are they?
00:43:50.280 They all work together.
00:43:51.340 They all work together.
00:43:52.320 And that's what I'm trying to explain.
00:43:53.820 You don't have to be equal to be even.
00:43:55.920 You can be, you know what I'm saying?
00:43:57.120 That makes sense.
00:43:58.520 I think relationships where you're keeping score just don't work.
00:44:03.120 And when it's like, we need to be even.
00:44:05.120 Yeah, but even, I've seen even.
00:44:06.900 What does even mean in a relationship?
00:44:09.580 Even a relationship would be, okay, for example, if I go outside and I hunt, you know, I go out there to hunt.
00:44:16.060 Okay.
00:44:16.540 And I come home.
00:44:17.240 I expect my wife to have made something, cooked something.
00:44:20.840 So we both have even chores.
00:44:23.940 Well, wouldn't it then be very uneven today?
00:44:28.380 Well, I don't know.
00:44:30.280 Because, like, for example, I mean, in 1800, they got eight kids.
00:44:34.900 Now they get 1.4.
00:44:35.700 So isn't that, like, because isn't that the one thing we do?
00:44:40.480 Bear children.
00:44:42.700 Actually, not every guy wants kids.
00:44:44.320 I suppose some guys who don't really care about kids, you know?
00:44:46.740 But, like, there's some guys who really are also in some different vibe.
00:44:49.840 Like, okay.
00:44:50.380 Yeah, you're right.
00:44:51.100 I want kids.
00:44:51.880 But I know some guys are like, nah, bro, it's not for me.
00:44:53.760 I'm like, well.
00:44:54.300 Well, I think when the government, you know, takes your kids from you and gives them to the woman, it's like a tough. 1.00
00:44:59.820 But I'm saying in general, wouldn't it just be, like, if we're going to go off of even, like, for example, the average man makes more than the average woman, but the average woman's fatter than the average man.
00:45:12.620 We're going to go, like, it starts with looks, right?
00:45:14.840 Yeah.
00:45:15.780 I mean.
00:45:16.740 If you look at the severe obesity stats, it's like women are, like, double. 0.99
00:45:21.000 I mean, I'm not justifying nothing.
00:45:23.240 I'm just saying that, you know, respect can be evenly shared across, but you don't have to be equal.
00:45:27.640 Also, I think we've been going at the women, really, but the reality is, in truth, it's not just the women that have this issue.
00:45:35.860 Everyone has the issue.
00:45:36.740 Men today don't even know what they are meant to be doing in a marriage, and that's the fact.
00:45:41.500 The truth is, the reason why gender roles work is because when a woman is taking care of the kid, building the home, that should be her primary focus. 1.00
00:45:51.000 How can she do that and still be making decisions for the family? 1.00
00:45:53.900 It doesn't make sense.
00:45:55.140 That is the role of the man.
00:45:56.300 The man is meant to protect, provide, and come with the decision-making.
00:46:00.340 That's why women look for leaders. 1.00
00:46:02.200 Yeah, but she doesn't have to decide, though.
00:46:03.900 I'm not saying that.
00:46:04.560 No, I'm not going at you.
00:46:05.480 I'm just making a general point on what is happening in society today.
00:46:08.580 So it's not just the women that have the problem. 1.00
00:46:10.320 Yeah.
00:46:10.600 Women, obviously, don't want to play their part to a large extent. 1.00
00:46:14.780 There are still very good women out there, but to a large extent, women are, like, trying to be men. 1.00
00:46:18.420 And men also are trying to be women.
00:46:20.500 So it's like...
00:46:21.300 But it plays with the traditional part of it, where marriage is meant to be traditional, and most women these days are not traditional.
00:46:28.960 Yeah, but it's just interesting, because when we talk about, like, women making decisions, like, this wasn't even argued about 100 years ago.
00:46:36.620 That's my point.
00:46:37.260 Yeah.
00:46:37.420 The traditional part of it, marriage is meant to be traditional, but the majority of women these days are not traditional.
00:46:43.560 I'm going to read Super Chats for a second, and then I'm going to go to the next one.
00:46:47.660 Also, guys, I've been tweeting where you can submit questions for the panel on Twitter.
00:46:54.520 So make sure you follow my...
00:46:56.520 I say, I always put the title of the show, so make sure you follow my Twitter or Super Chats.
00:47:02.740 Okay, Dr. David Baker.
00:47:04.280 According to NOP 2017, of men who cheat, 56% are one-time cheaters, 28.5% cheat twice, and 15% are serial cheaters.
00:47:15.940 Most times, it can be worked out.
00:47:18.180 That's the other thing I was thinking about.
00:47:19.620 If only 15% of men are serial cheaters...
00:47:22.540 Like, I literally was thinking about this.
00:47:24.440 Why has every woman dated a serial cheater? 0.93
00:47:28.080 I agree.
00:47:28.960 Like, it's like we almost search for it.
00:47:31.240 Yeah.
00:47:32.360 They're looking for it.
00:47:33.320 It is something where they may have cheated once, and then they build up something in
00:47:37.540 their mind that every time they go out, they're cheating, and therefore, they're serial cheaters.
00:47:40.500 But they don't actually know for a fact.
00:47:42.560 Yeah, that's true.
00:47:43.240 We make up stories.
00:47:44.600 Yeah.
00:47:44.780 It's like for whatever...
00:47:45.600 Easily.
00:47:46.220 I think that's why social media messes us up so much.
00:47:49.080 Like, I don't think we're meant to deal with that many problems.
00:47:52.120 Like, I think that's why we get, like, the abuse.
00:47:54.380 Like, that's always what women say. 1.00
00:47:56.980 Yeah, because it's just, like, in our ear all the time.
00:47:59.360 Okay, Horace Davis, cheating means breaking rules to achieve a goal.
00:48:05.040 A woman's body changes for a man, where a man is the same or better with many sex partners. 0.92
00:48:11.160 Righteous polygamy is a cure in this society. 1.00
00:48:14.700 C. Matherson, these women need to get used to sharing a man because, to be honest, most average men won't have anything to do with them.
00:48:22.700 F.S. Claire, men shouldn't try to lead.
00:48:25.760 They will listen to what they feel like, fight you when they don't, and undermine you for not leading the way they would.
00:48:31.420 Let them spend their life looking for the one.
00:48:34.920 That guy sounds like an...
00:48:39.600 Anyway, let me not even say what I was going to say.
00:48:41.520 No, go ahead, go ahead.
00:48:42.860 Say it, girl.
00:48:43.680 Go say it, go say it. 1.00
00:48:45.020 Like an idiot. 1.00
00:48:50.220 Grow Horse Davis, the devil is a feminist. 1.00
00:48:53.160 Why didn't the serpent talk to Adam? 0.94
00:48:55.800 C. Matherson, Shy Roney in the house.
00:49:00.100 Boundless Guardian, no real men are going to put their hand on women. 1.00
00:49:03.720 Full stop, there's no good reason for a man to hit a woman regardless of what she says or does.
00:49:08.720 Men and women are different, and we can't hold them until the same standard. 0.97
00:49:11.900 I would agree if, if I would actually 100% agree with that, if we admitted that men and women are not equal and men are superior. 0.99
00:49:22.780 But I think as long as the laws and society are treating us as equals, it's equal rights, equal lefts.
00:49:29.760 That's my opinion on it.
00:49:31.000 Lil Uzi, women will cry about men abusing women, but won't go to the police, but will go online and tell everybody else to make them handle it. 0.88
00:49:41.740 Just to find out, she's lying in the end.
00:49:44.340 She's getting shot or destroying the man's life. 1.00
00:49:47.180 Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to provide and see it go unappreciated. 1.00
00:49:51.700 The more you ask, the more you provide, the more they want. 1.00
00:49:55.480 It never ends.
00:49:56.640 Ask me how I know. 1.00
00:49:57.660 Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to, oh, you said the same thing twice. 1.00
00:50:02.620 F.S. 1.00
00:50:03.160 Claire, interrogation questions are great until she gets mad. 1.00
00:50:06.900 Then your vulnerability will be thrown in your face and used to insult you.
00:50:10.440 Don't do it.
00:50:11.100 Dr.
00:50:11.440 David Baker.
00:50:12.020 Math time, 23.5% of divorces include a claim of abuse.
00:50:18.120 50% of domestic violence is non-reciprocal.
00:50:21.420 70% is female.
00:50:23.780 45% of the divorce rate is 45%.
00:50:26.700 A maximum of 1.6% of men are one-way abusers.
00:50:32.560 That includes the expanded definition and false claims.
00:50:36.300 C.
00:50:37.160 Matherson, it's not, it is entirely not okay that most women are not virgins.
00:50:42.360 F.S.
00:50:42.840 Claire, this is why we are walking away.
00:50:44.520 We are afraid of women, but we must protect ourselves from accusations.
00:50:48.500 When she is mad and our lives are destroyed, if they could be crushed by an accusation alone,
00:50:54.660 what would they do?
00:50:58.180 C.
00:50:58.800 Matherson, Pearl, ask the women how much more they expect men to take in the age of promiscuity.
00:51:04.580 46 and 2.
00:51:10.140 Kanye has to pay billionaire Kim Kardashian $200K a month in child support.
00:51:14.480 A man's career is for family. 0.99
00:51:16.280 A woman's career is for herself and to remain independent. 1.00
00:51:19.460 Matt Butcher, thank you for putting male and female relationships back on track that the rest of nature follows intuitively.
00:51:26.600 Don't F with Mother Nature.
00:51:27.860 You will lose.
00:51:28.460 Keep working on your reading skills, Pearl.
00:51:31.160 C.
00:51:31.640 Matherson, your personalities are not attractive.
00:51:34.000 Those women want us to settle for nothing. 1.00
00:51:37.220 Tondal, are you Sam hype girlfriend?
00:51:39.860 C. 0.98
00:51:40.080 Matherson, they expect us to be okay with an old, ran-through, overweight street woman. 1.00
00:51:44.980 Matherson, quality women are 1%. 1.00
00:51:47.120 Quality men are 80%. 1.00
00:51:49.260 C.
00:51:49.540 Matherson, women expect traditional men like our grandfathers while giving us Lena the plug results. 1.00
00:51:57.060 Therese, kind modern women bring other men's kids. 0.98
00:52:02.480 Enter Black Dragon.
00:52:04.060 My 21-year-old brings peace, sex, loyal—oh, I read that one yesterday.
00:52:08.040 That's from yesterday.
00:52:08.900 Let me refresh it real quick, guys.
00:52:11.860 Also, make sure you're liking the video, guys.
00:52:13.560 A like is free.
00:52:14.220 That is the most important metric that YouTube uses to push out these streams.
00:52:19.240 Bro, Horace Davis, Pearl, your thought process is sexy.
00:52:23.880 J.
00:52:24.060 M.
00:52:25.400 Thank you.
00:52:28.120 JMD749, tell the guy in the baby blue hat that the thumb is king.
00:52:32.460 You cannot hide any tools and do anything without it.
00:52:35.240 Stop simping, dude.
00:52:36.480 Oh, wow.
00:52:39.140 Look it.
00:52:39.940 They roast everyone.
00:52:41.320 It's not—
00:52:42.480 All right, question.
00:52:45.260 Yes or no.
00:52:46.100 Do men like old women typically? 0.98
00:52:48.860 No.
00:52:49.040 No.
00:52:49.900 No.
00:52:50.280 Wow, really?
00:52:51.160 Everyone admits this?
00:52:52.280 Yeah.
00:52:52.880 All right.
00:52:53.300 Yes or no. 0.99
00:52:53.960 Do men like whores typically? 0.99
00:52:56.900 Partially. 0.99
00:52:57.680 I was about to say part.
00:52:58.480 Kind of.
00:52:59.940 What?
00:53:01.040 Yes.
00:53:01.680 Yeah.
00:53:02.020 Oh, they do?
00:53:02.940 Explain.
00:53:03.300 You know, I make a very good living from a lot of men who do seem to really enjoy what
00:53:07.800 I offer.
00:53:08.220 She has a fair point. 0.99
00:53:09.940 Do men like whores typically? 0.99
00:53:11.820 Yeah. 0.99
00:53:12.620 Yeah. 0.99
00:53:13.340 Do men like whores? 1.00
00:53:14.520 I don't think so. 0.99
00:53:15.500 No?
00:53:15.920 Okay.
00:53:16.420 They like them, but they won't wipe them.
00:53:19.160 No.
00:53:19.880 No.
00:53:20.760 No.
00:53:22.180 Partially.
00:53:23.160 Partially. 0.95
00:53:23.560 What do you—they like to screw them? 1.00
00:53:25.900 Yeah. 0.96
00:53:26.400 Do they like that for—
00:53:27.040 They like to enjoy them for their own benefit.
00:53:29.620 Wow.
00:53:30.000 This is an honest panel.
00:53:31.240 Usually everyone's like, no!
00:53:33.300 I'll be in denial.
00:53:36.960 Um, okay.
00:53:39.280 What's I gonna—
00:53:40.840 Um, when—
00:53:43.420 When do you notice a woman's looks start to fade? 1.00
00:53:48.180 Gosh.
00:53:49.260 Probably around 30, I guess.
00:53:51.080 30?
00:53:51.520 Yeah.
00:53:52.220 I don't know.
00:53:53.080 I have not.
00:53:53.720 I can't.
00:53:54.160 I couldn't even—
00:53:54.660 I need an age from you.
00:53:56.640 I need an answer.
00:53:57.180 45.
00:53:58.600 45.
00:53:59.000 And before that, you don't notice any aging?
00:54:02.380 Nah.
00:54:03.280 Listen, if you see my auntie, you—
00:54:05.720 Whoa.
00:54:07.340 She is—
00:54:08.760 You wouldn't even believe.
00:54:10.300 There's some people that just, you know, like, don't crack.
00:54:13.220 But anyway.
00:54:13.680 Okay.
00:54:14.440 What about for white women? 1.00
00:54:17.880 How old are you?
00:54:19.520 How old are you?
00:54:20.520 I'm 26.
00:54:22.200 26?
00:54:22.860 Yeah.
00:54:23.760 I would have thought you was older.
00:54:25.240 Hmm.
00:54:26.320 So now I can't comment on white women. 0.96
00:54:28.740 Okay.
00:54:28.780 So I'd just say, okay, so 25 for white women, 45 for black women. 0.96
00:54:32.780 No, maybe just my auntie.
00:54:34.040 She's laughing.
00:54:34.640 I don't think I'm gonna make it there.
00:54:36.280 All right.
00:54:37.040 All right.
00:54:37.680 Go ahead.
00:54:38.360 I have no idea.
00:54:39.260 Uh, 30, 35?
00:54:40.520 30, 35.
00:54:41.820 Yeah, I would have said between 25 and 30.
00:54:44.760 25 and 30.
00:54:45.980 Okay.
00:54:46.280 Um, I would say maybe 30 to 35.
00:54:50.580 Sorry, what was the question?
00:54:52.160 When do you first notice a woman starts to age? 0.99
00:54:55.540 I think it depends on the woman. 1.00
00:54:57.940 I—
00:54:58.280 No, it depends.
00:54:59.400 Remember, remember, just in general, the average chick. 0.53
00:55:02.060 Well, if you're a woman and you don't take care of your body and you don't eat good food 1.00
00:55:05.800 and you go through drinking and all kind of things, then you're not gonna look good.
00:55:09.380 But then you could be an older woman and you eat good food, you use good cream, you have no stress,
00:55:15.600 you're blessed, and you still look good.
00:55:17.460 Yes.
00:55:17.860 I've seen some women, and they're younger than probably, like, some of my peers or et cetera, 0.98
00:55:23.720 and they look old.
00:55:24.500 Like, sometimes I see 20-year-olds, yeah, and they look like they're 40, 50.
00:55:30.260 Or they look like they're 35.
00:55:31.660 Okay, okay.
00:55:33.360 What age do women generally start to look older? 1.00
00:55:38.540 Do you notice a woman's looks begin to fade? 1.00
00:55:41.580 In general?
00:55:42.440 I would say about 45 plus.
00:55:44.440 45 plus.
00:55:46.560 Yeah.
00:55:47.200 This is delusional.
00:55:48.940 Well.
00:55:50.380 Come on.
00:55:51.260 45. 0.95
00:55:52.400 Black women don't generally age. 1.00
00:55:54.640 I'm not gonna lie. 0.99
00:55:55.560 Yes, you guys do.
00:55:57.200 No.
00:55:57.220 No.
00:55:57.320 No.
00:55:57.940 It's slower, but you can tell.
00:56:00.020 Way more slower.
00:56:00.660 I have never confused a 45-year-old with a 25-year-old in my life.
00:56:05.160 But if you put a 25-year-old Caucasian against a 45-year-old black woman, more times so, 0.89
00:56:10.700 you probably couldn't tell her age.
00:56:11.660 No, no.
00:56:12.220 This is delusion.
00:56:13.500 That's serious, no?
00:56:15.000 No.
00:56:15.720 That is serious, no?
00:56:16.740 The problem with that logic is you're comparing...
00:56:18.280 No, but it's not a logic.
00:56:20.200 It's what I see in my eyes.
00:56:21.420 It's logic.
00:56:22.320 It's still...
00:56:22.800 I'm not...
00:56:23.200 Bruh.
00:56:24.200 The problem with that logic is you're comparing two different women. 0.99
00:56:27.500 That particular woman, does she look younger at 45 or when she herself was 25?
00:56:34.260 That's the question.
00:56:35.360 That's an obvious question in itself.
00:56:37.180 Exactly.
00:56:37.580 So that means there's a point where she starts to age.
00:56:41.100 It doesn't matter if relative to other women, it's different.