JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman Gets Caught on Her Game

00:00:00.000 so what do you what do you think of that does that change your perspective a little bit um

00:00:05.440 not really kind of not really no okay what does it not change i just still think that um

00:00:12.800 men are looking for things they don't have themselves they look they don't have the

00:00:16.960 minerals for the things that they want in the women so they just pick women based off looks 1.00

00:00:20.640 they don't know what they want anyway they think they know what they want but they haven't even got

00:00:24.160 the minerals anyway is it possible that women don't have what they want absolutely right absolutely 1.00

00:00:29.840 how would they pick it if the dating pool has like one out of every three women's had an abortion 1.00

00:00:34.080 one of every three women has an std um like 38 40 grew up without a dad so they don't have that model 1.00

00:00:41.040 like how would they where how would they know yeah how good women is yeah like they've never 0.99

00:00:46.480 like what percent of men have like even seen a true traditional woman i don't think yeah do you know any

00:00:51.760 women with like recipe books only only the high only celebrities nice nice too but only like the 1.00

00:00:58.880 upper class high celebrity profile people yeah and then these two now okay my whole

00:01:04.800 and my whole family and then when i go there they're like oh so modern you know everyone still

00:01:10.880 cooks the same meals and um but so i'm just curious like when you're hearing these stats like assuming i'm

00:01:17.520 telling you the truth you don't think like it puts more of the promiscuity on women because we're only

00:01:22.720 sleeping with 20 of men so like that means 80 of us are sleeping with 20 of men wow

00:01:31.440 hmm that's tech here like okay i'll give you an example how how tall was your last boyfriend

00:01:36.480 um six one okay what percent of men do you think are six one

00:01:40.000 maybe like it's not it's not six one thirty percent ten ten percent ten percent so you at a top did

00:01:51.280 he how much money did he make well he had he had his own houses and a business he sells cars okay

00:01:56.800 so roughly how much do you think he made i didn't i don't know that yeah i'm not one to

00:02:02.800 the man ain't telling you that yeah but he owned i know about his business and you know and so i

00:02:07.920 don't know the figures in london in essex on essex yeah okay so if he owned a house he probably

00:02:14.080 made at least like 60 70 i guess who knows he had a nice range okay so he's he's probably like

00:02:19.920 i'm guessing right i don't actually know you guys would know london prices more than me but he's

00:02:24.400 probably still top 20 of income probably because buying a house in in essex is cheap yeah okay so

00:02:30.480 top 20 so you had a guy top 10 height top 20 income was he attractive was he good looking yeah

00:02:36.880 he was yeah so in women so you know women we find 80 of men is ugly so if he if you find him 0.98

00:02:42.720 attractive that means he's top 20 right you should maybe call him because he's still saying no he's

00:02:47.280 been trying to hiler at me to be honest i don't have to block him he's not the one for me what is

00:02:54.080 what is the one so it seems like he has a good job he's attractive and tall it doesn't matter

00:02:58.800 his person no no no it's not i'm very smart trust me like he was wearing a mask when we first met

00:03:05.680 and then his true colors came out and i saw in certain behaviors that he was portraying what true

00:03:10.320 colors so like you know he was very aggressive sometimes and he i felt like his what do you

00:03:16.560 mean aggressive did he hit you no no he didn't hit me no okay so he didn't well he pushed me he shoved me

00:03:22.720 very hard and it was for a very pathetic reason and he's a liar you shove him at all no no i don't 0.65

00:03:28.640 like to be aggressive i don't believe in that no more i've grown up you know okay so he he shoved

00:03:32.960 you one time and then yeah and it was very and it was petty and he lied at the time as well and i

00:03:36.560 knew he was lying about picking up his kids when he wasn't going he he changed his story like i'm

00:03:41.600 very observant he lied about picking up his kids so i spent a couple days of him and he and i was

00:03:46.080 supposed to say the last day and he and then he all of a sudden he's got to go and pick up his kids but

00:03:49.600 he you're lying and so it's like you're making me feel like you don't want to see you don't

00:03:53.360 want to you don't want me to stay anymore so and then that happened then we broke up and now he

00:03:57.440 wants me back i know he wasn't because his story changed he told me something we planned something

00:04:03.040 from the get-go so i know so so i don't you don't have no physical evidence of that i do i do i do it's

00:04:09.520 very it's very technical but it's long you think i'm crazy if i go into it right now how did the

00:04:13.520 shoving happen like what what what led up to that because he wanted me to leave okay so you literally and

00:04:18.320 he tried to try to drag me okay wait so would you were you refusing to leave yeah because i was in my

00:04:24.160 feelings because i knew he was lying like come on i don't okay okay but you kind of you kind of frame

00:04:29.280 this yeah why do why do a lot of women they like they accuse a man of being like the bad guy the guy 0.97

00:04:36.080 that hurts them the guy that beats them but then the reason they like they made they caused the reason

00:04:40.800 because if you physically don't move in certain spaces no sorry it's the way it's the way you speak to

00:04:46.240 someone it's the way you conduct yourself in that situation but if you're in this has happened to

00:04:49.840 me before i've been esther you know you know um no there's a girl here and i asked her to leave 0.92

00:04:58.240 and she didn't like the way i asked her to leave right and then she starts yelling at me um and then 1.00

00:05:04.080 um well we didn't have security then but my security would have just picked her up and taken her out 1.00

00:05:08.800 but then it's like the way you're saying this it's like what i wouldn't have done that see the thing i

00:05:14.080 wouldn't have done that but when it's an emotional sexual connection you've got other

00:05:17.360 feelings like you feel rejection you feel like you're being violated it's just feels but it's

00:05:21.040 kind of different you're kind of so you're kind of making yourself so basically like you were kind

00:05:25.520 of overbearing because he you thought he did something and you had no proof he did it no i did because

00:05:31.280 he said what he changed his story but you've never said two things that contradicted yourself ever

00:05:36.800 i i have i just just happens when you talk you know it's very easy to to say the wrong thing if

00:05:43.440 you've been cross-examined because you know what when you say earlier on where man are analyzing women

00:05:48.480 and women are analyzing man he's looking at you like rah so you're going to argue against me picking 1.00

00:05:53.200 up my kids you and i knew he wasn't it don't you don't it don't matter whether you know he's not or it

00:05:57.600 is yeah in his head right you hold on i'm telling you something about my kids and you're arguing against my

00:06:03.280 kids to him the kids are the main priority even so does he have a right to privacy of course absolutely

00:06:11.120 i'm not a possessive person maybe there was something that he just didn't want you to know

00:06:14.400 maybe he was private with the mud like you know i mean like baby mama situations can be tricky like 0.52

00:06:19.840 sometimes guys don't want to get you in on all the drama but it's like you're going into it in bad

00:06:25.200 faith so you're assuming the worst when maybe it wasn't the worst but i also feel like it's just

00:06:29.520 the way you conduct yourself in a sensitive situation as well like i just feel like couldn't

00:06:34.000 we say that to you though because it's the way like you didn't listen when he said leave

00:06:37.920 so it's kind of like as women like we kind of have this double standard where we make him the

00:06:41.360 bad guy when it's like you kind of started it but then oh yeah i remember now that also the reason

00:06:45.760 was like i've stayed in the house by myself before and at this point he like he didn't want me to stay

00:06:49.680 so it's like if you love me why can't i stay here while you go and pick up your child do what you need

00:06:54.240 to do and i'll stay here tonight and you come back because that's because he's because that's

00:06:57.920 entitlement it's not your house like if i if i own this apartment if i if i want anyone to leave at

00:07:05.760 any time i have the right to do that like that wasn't the issue i honestly i didn't have an issue

00:07:11.680 with that it was just the way it happened and the things that he was saying and the way he was speaking

00:07:15.040 to me it's kind of like but this is like a lot of problems with women in relationships we want men to 1.00

00:07:19.200 emote like women but he's not a woman he's a man men don't speak like women do like they're much 0.95

00:07:24.160 more stern and so a lot of times like we think something's aggressive but men are just more

00:07:28.400 aggressive than women but you might want to call him but we're not aggressive he seems like a hard

00:07:32.400 man to replace can we just say that and say sorry and you said in the beginning that the men that like

00:07:37.360 you you don't want so that means the men you want don't want you wow i haven't met the one i think no

00:07:42.080 but that's like that's what any girl that's single it just means the men you want don't want you 1.00

00:07:46.000 and it's not meant to be offensive it's actually crazy because there's no one actually won

00:07:49.280 apart from there's okay but okay come on there's nobody in the world that you want i'm attracted

00:07:55.520 to like someone but he's but he's like a celebrity figure you're like sex appeal but there's no one

00:08:00.800 i actually want okay do you think you're on like the level of a celebrity yeah you're not on the level

00:08:06.880 celebrity celebrity is like top 10 20 of beauty like that yeah but remember i think i'm beautiful

00:08:21.280 i think i'm beautiful without the botox without without the money without all that money to do

00:08:25.920 myself up so i think i'm great this is like a cope i see women do like it's like you you think because 1.00

00:08:32.080 they have money they're beautiful when they got there money helped but if you look at margot robbie

00:08:37.120 before fame that girl was a 10. i don't know who that is but then you're doing selectiveness because

00:08:41.040 there's enough girl that go there and the money blows them up only i disagree not the girls that get 0.98

00:08:46.240 there for looks alone top 20 of beauty you can look at exceptions like that like kylie jenner she's not 1.00

00:08:54.160 she's not beautiful she wasn't beautiful before no she was cute but yeah i mean she wasn't that beautiful 1.00

00:08:59.200 she gets fixed but like i'm just saying in general guys like can we just talk in general instead of

00:09:04.320 exceptions most celebrities are top 20 of beauty in general like we could talk about there's some

00:09:10.000 exceptions like kylie jenner did her lips whatever but most most people in hollywood were the top 20

00:09:15.520 of beauty wherever they're from i still don't agree but yeah okay i feel you i feel you i don't know maybe

00:09:22.640 you should call him no definitely not he might oh i'm an apology i don't know no i have we had a

00:09:29.280 closure but he's not the one for me he's not my solution of the one i just feel like there's a

00:09:34.960 different there's a difference in behavior and the way you feel as well i can accept i'm not a

00:09:39.200 possessive person i can accept i really like my independence but i just know there's a certain way

00:09:44.320 that you will handle someone in those situations that just wasn't you know what it is though you know

00:09:50.320 what it is sorry i just know within myself sorry are you your only child no i've got brother and

00:09:53.920 sisters are you the youngest i'm in the middle oh yeah you know so grow no go on it's fine so growing

00:10:00.640 up did your did your mom have a partner do you have a step down no no yeah yeah like no but not

00:10:06.400 permanently so what in terms of looking up do you know how to look after amanda like oh being in no 0.72

00:10:12.400 because you're saying certain things that in a relationship it's like if you saw a relationship

00:10:17.840 with your mom and dad growing up then there's certain things you wouldn't do in a relationship

00:10:21.600 you know what i'm saying to keep them out listen every man every every man that's been my boyfriend

00:10:27.520 has returned and they say they haven't found better no it's definitely not sorry have you ever been

00:10:33.200 married you've proposed to you yeah you've been you've been engaged not like on on one mean i haven't

00:10:39.360 had that experience yet but i've had similar about you yes i've had similar but not like that it was

00:10:44.560 young so a promise ring basically kind of like okay okay okay it is what it's the same thing

00:10:51.040 it's rare for a man to do that promise rings don't count no that's because it's rare because that does

00:10:55.200 not do you think that men get go out and buy promise rooms it's just a lie but i'll be honest

00:11:04.560 really like you to be because he's not going to do that to everyone no no i'm not going to lie okay

00:11:08.400 okay okay it doesn't count you need a wedding date yeah hundreds a wedding date not not a

00:11:15.360 little ring but i was young anyway no okay so it wasn't a real it wasn't a real proposal no no no

00:11:21.760 okay so so the whole point is like you're counting things that don't count it doesn't count if they

00:11:26.400 don't want to marry you no i feel you well they do the intention is to you no no like men say things

00:11:30.960 when they mean it they do it like you can't you can't count it like i know what you mean but you know

00:11:37.120 happens you know i i've had guys say i want to marry you it doesn't count unless he goes by

00:11:41.360 100 this is 100 we can't like like i don't know why i was women we count things that don't count you

00:11:47.520 know it don't count so you've been proposed to you a couple times or no i don't count like

00:11:55.840 that's what i just said like yeah so no one's boot a ring and said no no no it doesn't it don't count

00:12:02.560 like it's like i've had a promise ring there's a promise ring a wedding ring no no i don't count

00:12:09.200 that but at the time we feel like it but did he say it was a promise ring or did he say it's an

00:12:12.720 engagement ring no he said it was a promise ring and then he said he was trying to he said it doesn't

00:12:19.520 count that's what i'm saying he was trying to get the property no i'm not gonna do it it doesn't count

00:12:25.360 um okay how so everyone went right how does a guy identify a good woman yeah mandem time okay

JustPearlyThings - August 13, 2023

Modern Woman Gets Caught on Her Game

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