Modern Woman Has Four Bodies At Eighteen
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the One That Got Away and the One that Got Away. Do you believe in the one or the one that got away? Or do you think there could be more than one significant other in your life?
Transcript
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Because when I heard the 15 before 30, that's where it starts from.
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Don't be going out on our dates and winding up the guys.
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Don't be going out and saying, oh, I'm going to go out to you just in case.
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Because if I was a man and I took you out and you're not freeing it out, I'm going to feel offended.
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Especially if you're not going to go out for a date to look forward to having a relationship.
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I want to hear from you that in five years' time, it's still four.
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Unless you've got a ring on your finger, right?
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Take advice from an older woman that four by 18 is nothing to be talking about.
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I'm trying to teach her for all you men out there that want to fuck her.
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Don't listen to anybody else that's telling you, it's okay.
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Tell them that Auntie Jenny said, I've got to shut it down from now on.
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Today we're talking about the one that got away.
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So, like, I'll have the one for, like, a month.
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I feel like, obviously, time is just the essence.
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So, I feel like there's a different time for everyone.
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My best friends, Nan and Grandad, have been together for 58 years.
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Yeah, I don't think there's just one significant person.
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So, I feel like in your lifetime, you could have more than one, the one.
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Because, I mean, especially in this day and age, it's too much.
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And we can kind of, like, siphon out what we want, what we don't want.
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You know, most of us have been around the block enough to know, like, what we will tolerate
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That one person that, even if there was a good person in your life, like 20 years ago,
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even if you're with a man or woman now, that person, if I say the one, that person from
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I mean, it's lucky that I got my one, I left my one, I got my one, I'm with my one.
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Andi, how is there a one for everyone if there's 55, if there's more women than men
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No, but I mean, she got a multiplication table.
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We were talking about the one, and she was like, yeah, there's a one this time, one that
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But we were saying the one, and she had multiple ones.
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But how is there someone for everyone if there's more women on the planet than men?
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If there's more women on the planet than men, that means that some people got
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It's not going to be my one if he's cheating on me.
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I'm talking about you having the same man for about 10 years.
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And then you find out there's another woman that's been out there 15 years, and she is also
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Well, luckily, auntie, that hasn't happened to me yet.
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Well, you don't think, like, is that a term we hear more for women or for men?
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But women say that they're the ones who women are wrong.
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The only way you can get away with saying all men are nasty is if you're a lesbian.
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And if you're not a lesbian, you can't sit here and turn around and say that all men
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Say that all the men that you've had are nasty, but I don't believe that all men are
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Do not tell all men are nasty unless you are a lesbian.
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If you are a lesbian, then say, if you are a lesbian, then say, listen, right, that
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She can't turn around here and sit down and say that all men are nasty and expect to
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If you're going to turn around and say that all men are nasty, expect to have a woman.
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Because that means that you don't want a man because that man's going to be nasty.
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So if you're going to say that, the man she's dealing with are nasty, I can understand that
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or some men are nasty, but I'm going to sit here and let a woman disrespect all the
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men because I love men and just say that all men are nasty.
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Some men are nasty or all the men, she's dealing with are nasty.
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You can't say that because that means that he's nasty, he's nasty, he's nasty, he's
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No, but what I'm going to say is that she's saying all men are nasty.
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You generalize all men into one category based on your dating experience.
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Just because all the men you've dealt with were nasty, you don't mean that all men.
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But I'm trying to say, I have so many friends that have told me their experiences.
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Well, okay, I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you the numbers behind it.
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One out of three men under 30 are their virgins or haven't had sex in the last year.
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It's because, it's because, it's because, it's because women only select a very small percentage
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So, the reason you think men are trash is because you're all sleeping with the same ones.
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Nastiness is just about, I'm not, nastiness is a quality.
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You can't turn around and tell the whole human race.
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For me personally, I feel like you can have more than one soulmate in life, yeah?
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You can have more than one soulmate, but there's always the one.
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Or maybe not always, but if you find the one, there's just that one.
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When she's gone and 10 years later, you'll still remember.
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If you're saying to someone, they're your soulmate, that's like a soul tie.
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You can go, you could get deeper than soulmate.
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Like, whether she's in your life or out of your life.
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So, my thing is, I believe there's the one in it.
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Because that one is going to stop me from being my dog and shit.
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And I want to get there because I love loving it.
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You need to slow down with calling every man a stink bag.
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Because you're young and you're young and you're still messy with the little niggas
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that's trying to run around and beat you and your bedroom at the same time.
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But you see the thing is, what you like, you know, sorry.
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A lot of women's got this whole thing where they think they've been watching Disney movies
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But in order to have a conversation, we have to make generalities.
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Yeah, but then you're getting at her to generalize and saying that man is nasty.
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Statistically, there's no piece of data that you can find out there that says by and large,
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When he's talking about Disney, he didn't say all.
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So out of the men and the women, I don't hear the men, they're waiting for their princess
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I'm always hearing women talking about how many frogs I have to kiss before I reach the
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Because the man's who's trying to find an excuse to kill.
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No, what we're trying to say is that Disney don't work for men.
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So when they're saying about the women, that gay men you're talking about, because I hear
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no man saying, oh, I'm waiting for my princess to come so I can kiss her if she wakes.
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Men that would say they're waiting for their queen.
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I'm going to say they're waiting for their queen.
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If you ask a black man about queen, got nothing to do with Disney.
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And if you ask a black woman about her prince or something, right?
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Or whenever this frog's going to come, it's always something to do with Disney.
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But you will never, ever hear a black man say that he wants a queen.
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I don't have black men say that he wants to go home.
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No, but you don't understand where it comes from.
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When he's talking about the girls and their Disney, they're waiting for their prince to come.
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And then they turn around like the women normally do and say, oh, what about the men?
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If you look at the Rastafarians and the black men and the African men.
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Right, when you hear him talking about his queen, it's got nothing to do with Disney.
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But you can't say that every man that says they're talking about that.
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I can't fuck enough black men and I don't know about it.
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If you hear a man talk about his queen, it's his black queen.
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And that's somebody that said they've got Rastafarians in.
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Go and ask your father if he's talking about his queen, if he mentions Disney.
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So when the men are talking about queen, don't come for you to Disney.
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And he said that where you're coming from is Disney.
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A queen for a black person has nothing to do with Disney.
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If he's putting the woman there, he's putting the woman there.
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Or they want the fucking seven horse to carry you.
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Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, sorry, so for me, I've got
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a queen in it, the queen is the person that gave birth to me in it, my empress is going
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to be the girl that I sit down with, you know what I'm saying, so man got a queen, this,
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you know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying, the empress, you know what I mean,
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the empress is the team that I'm going to second along with in it, but I got my queen,
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my queen's my mother, you know what I'm saying.
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But you guys are watching too much Disney thing, I think that's live.
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I have a question, I have a question, do you think black men are too in love with their
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You're going to, the black men want to fuck their mothers or something like that.
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What kind of men you've been dealing with, man?
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How can a man, how can you sit there and say a black man's too in love with his mother?
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You make it sound like he wants to fuck his mother.
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A black man cannot be too in love with his mother because that is his mother.
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They seem like they would have sex with their mom.
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I just want to, okay, let's just unpack this for a second.
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Do you think by and large it's very common in society?
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Why do we bring up the exception to every rule?
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Because, no, because she's saying that black men, she's acting like she wants to fuck their,
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She said black men go on, like they're in love.
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You said black men are in love with their mother.
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What did you mean by you think black men love their moms too much?
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Because I've seen, I'm not saying all black men.
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There's some men that they seem like, it's like their mom's their first love.
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Like it's a, have you not heard of emotional incest?
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Like sometimes I'm not, this is not all black men.
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Seriously, you need to stop reading books, you know.
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I'm not reading books though, I'm not reading books though, I'm speaking from personal life experiences.
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Now, hold on, because men love their mother, you alright or something?
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I didn't say that, I said some, I didn't say all.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, let me chat here.
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Let the man, let the man, let the man, let me share something, yeah.
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Well, you know what your mom having you as a single mom and bringing you up in, in some shit, shit environment and still turn you into a man.
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Because there's some people, have you not heard of emotional incest?
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Sometimes, some men, they turn their moms into, I'm not, I asked the question, I didn't say black men do love their mom too much.
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I said, do you guys think black men love their mom too much?
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Okay, what do you mean by do they love their, like what is loving your mom too much?
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I think it's when you, when you act like she's your wife, when you, obviously you can love your mom and there's like, how, like exactly how can you say you can love your mom too much?
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But some people treat their moms like that's, that's their wife.
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They do think to their mom that they would do to their wife.
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For example, you see some, don't give an example.
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The way they treat them like their wife could say one thing, but if their mom says something, if, if it goes against what their mom said, automatically the wife is wrong.
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No, because if your mom, no, no, no, no, because I'm not talking about respect.
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Oh, I'm saying if your mom says, you told you to do one thing and then your girlfriend, your wife, your wife would already told you to do something else.
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Why do you, why do you want to be in a relationship?
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If she's a good woman, she should listen, she should really respect your mom and go with what your mom's saying anyway.
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Like, yeah, so I'm saying like, like, that makes sense.
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I don't think if you're in a relationship, you should just listen to your man.
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No, I think at the end of the day, someone has to submit.
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Do you feel like in a relationship, you can be in a relationship with a girl where you're both submissive?
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I mean, I'm a man man, you know, I'm a real man.
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Would you want to be in a relationship where you're both submissive to each other?
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Who would you listen to more, your wife or your mother?
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My mum was here before any man car-bent and she'll be here when he leaves.
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Even with my mum, I get to a stage where even with your mum, it gets to a stage where
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even with your mum as a woman, you get to an age where and you kind of realise it
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where you've become a man, where even your mum kind of turns to you as a man and she more
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Number one, I believe that if you marry a woman and you start to do it in church, you've
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got to do biblical, leave your family behind and stick with her, no matter what happens,
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If your man was taking you and his mother, you're not married, taking you and his mother
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to the supermarket, who would sit in the front seat?
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I'll be so real, because that's his mum and because I'm African and I've been raised with
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respect, I would let his mum sit in the front seat.
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If a man just opened the front door of the car, who would jump in first?
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That's just respecting someone who's older than you.
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But how do you know that when you're saying that he's loving his mother too much?
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But I know what I'm trying to say to you is that that's your view.
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How do you know that he ain't got ultra respect for his mother because she gave birth to him,
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And you're just seeing it as like he loves his mother too much.
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People, anyone who have come to see what loving too much means.
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No, nobody don't know what loving too much because you haven't actually said what it is.
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That's the only way that you're telling me that you can treat your wife like your mother.
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Because that's the only way that man can treat his mother like his wife.
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So I've not seen someone that look like they want to.
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So how would you feel, right, if you're, let's say you and your man got a holiday plan,
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like a vacation year, and his mum was like, she just woke up one day and she's like,
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do you know what, whatever your partner's name is, I want you to take me here on the
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Let me tell you, I'm not going to make up your story.
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Because that's, no, you're asking me a question based on nothing but facts, based on hearsay
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But I'm going to tell you a story coming from the truth.
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And if it comes to, when I go to my man's house, he puts my mother before me every single
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That man would not ever put me before my mother.
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Because he puts my mother before me, I have no problem with him putting his mother before
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Because he would tell me straight, I'm getting out of bed.
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But him and my mum, I would say, I like that compared to me and my mum.
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Because if it means that he has to do making me breakfast or making my mum, he'll make my
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And believe you me, he don't want to fuck my mum.
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And he don't see my mum as nice and insane stuff.
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You're the only one that said that over five times.
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You want to go back when you finish Watch This and rewind.
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And you hear me say, and you hear her say that, oh, don't some men look like they want
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And she said sometimes they look like they do want to.
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Don't you see the men look like they do want to?
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I know, also, I never said black men do love their mum's back.
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When you're not ready and you're not retract, right, is the only making that like, oh, I'm
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No, but now you're telling me that you said it.
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I said you ever say it, I don't agree with what she said.
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I gotta stop when you and girls can just listen to each other.
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Guys, guys, guys, guys, if you keep talking over each other, we can't have you on the podcast
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So I'm going to say I don't think most men love their moms too much.
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I really think it's just like a respecting the older generation thing.
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If I'm sour, I'm sour, but I still ain't saying nothing.
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I'm not going to agree just for agreeing's sake.
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I'm not getting on to her, but I'm saying, you're saying about people talking over one another,
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but you're the one that's talking over everyone.
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No, but then every time someone tries to say something, you're there.
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No, but you guys keep interrupting her, so she'll be going.
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So, the reason I thought of this topic, we're just going to change the topic, okay?
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The reason I thought of this topic today is because of a hit Katy Perry song, okay?
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So, who here has heard The One That Got Away, the song?
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Can you raise your hand if you know what song I'm talking about?
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It says, in another life, I would be your girl.
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In another life, I would make you stay so I don't have to say you were the one that got away.
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Now, this song was really popular among women across the U.S.
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It was like a huge song, like, I don't know, five, ten years ago, roughly.
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This is so weird, yeah, because literally, I just got over him yesterday.
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Like, yesterday night, I was really deep in life.
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And then this one was like, you know what, fucking...
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I've had a lot of, like, I've had a lot of experience with this, I can't lie, because, yeah.
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I mean, you basically said, like, you actually said you're a hoe.
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And you said you've been a bare man, so, like, I don't think it's going to cause any more damage.
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I didn't hear that bit, but you lot said she refers to herself, she's a bit of a hoe or something.
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What my point is, but she said her body counts four.
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I feel like, because there's different ages here.
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I mean, I feel like as you get older, there's different categories.
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You're getting, getting, getting the mandamin so you understand how man's mind work.
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So you don't want to twist them up and do your thing with this and that.
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Like, for example, the other day, a boy started telling me, sent me some long paragraph about
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And then the other day I was like, I can't lie, I can't do this.
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And the way guys look at it is if you're, like, talking to them on a regular basis,
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it's like, yeah, it's like you're entertaining them.
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You may not have confirmed it, but it's still, you're taking it.
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And you're young, so this is kind of like, when I was younger, I didn't really understand
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And I promise you, and I promise you, I promise you, if you were 300 pounds, they would not
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I'm telling you, I have got genuine we're friends.
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I've been friends that think the world of me, that I've been friends for 15 years plus.
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Can I just give this girl a bit of advice in future, like, don't introduce yourself as
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Like, just going forward, don't introduce yourself as a whole.
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No, but it wasn't, basically, I was trying to, I think I was trying to explain something.
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You see, you see, this is what I said to the man, Demia, if you're trying to a girl and
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you don't get a pussy, you know, we tell her to fuck off.
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If I don't get a pussy in a week, I don't want to love you.
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Where's your picnic and your wife and your big age?
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Do you, one day, do you want to settle down and get a woman and get a kid and a woman?
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So how are you going to do that if she don't fuck you after the first week?
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Alright, so how are you going to find your woman?
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So you don't care so you're not going to find a wife?
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If I fuck her and I like her, I'm going to stay with her.
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So if you like someone so much and she don't fuck you after the eighth day, you're
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I'll tell you, let me explain this to you like from the guy's point of view.
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Like most girls, from the guy's point of view, it's like most girls, there's someone
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you've let sleep with you quickly at some point in your life.
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But what about the guys that be sleeping with these women quickly?
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At some point in your life, most girls have let someone sleep with them quickly.
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So from the guy's point of view, if you're not, if you're making him wait a long
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I do interviews all the time with girls on the street and like, they'll, like I had
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She said, she told me if I met Bruno Mars tomorrow, it would be on.
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I think because of his fame, but I feel like for me, I've recently started talking to this
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And we've been talking and I feel like I'm not ready to give him the Pum Pum yet because
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Let me tell you something from a man's point of view.
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But let me tell you something from a man's point of view.
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Where you've met a girl and she don't know, but my brother here, I don't know him off camera,
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But he might have just, she might not have liked him.
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She wants to, she don't want to come across in a certain way to man.
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So what I'm saying from my man's point of view is like hold on a minute.
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No, but I'm saying in that situation, a man would look on a girl like that.
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But I also freed up my Pum Pum last week because I just wanted to fuck him.
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No, but I'm not saying you're wrong for that, but from a man.
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But the point is like you're using sex as a weapon to get commitment.
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If I freed up my Pum Pum on the first night, I feel like instantly he'll be like,
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No, I'm coming across his wifey because I'm currently dead.
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That's fair if you are wifey and if you have never done that.
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But most men like they can kind of get a vibe from a girl and they're like, you know what?
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She's probably done that with someone for free.
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I haven't done it for free, whatever I've done.
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Like at some point she has done that for a guy that hasn't taken her on a date.
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Or at some point, at some point, stop interrupting me.
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At some point she has done it for a guy that she chased or that she didn't have to take,
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And so you're going to have the next guy do all of this because of your past trauma.
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I wouldn't just like see a guy just because he's going to take me on a date X, Y, Z.
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Not every guy that I have seen, I've been like, oh, let me make him wait X, Y and Z because I like him.
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At some point, has there been a guy that you haven't made wait that long?
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Well, I was previously in an eight year relationship and I've got a child and I've left him.
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I met him, ended up sleeping with him and realizing he wasn't the one for me.
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I'm not saying like that you do that often, but I'm saying if you've done that once for someone,
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the guys see that as disrespectful because you're going to make this next guy get to know you and do all this stuff when you gave it to the last guy like quick.
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You know what, I feel like sometimes, I feel like sometimes when you're happy, I feel like there's levels to it.
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So if there's someone that you genuinely like, there's some guys out here and be like, you know what, babes, I just want to fuck.
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And that's up to the woman if she feels like she wants to fuck too.
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But I feel like it's different aspects if you're actually wanting to get to know that person and build a foundation with that person.
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No, but I'm saying in general from a man's point of view, that's why I said it's your prerogative.
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This is how in general, like men look on things.
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Say like you're dating a man that puts his business on social media in terms of when he's seeing a girl, you know about it.
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And he's that type of guy where he's taking her uptown regular.
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Now you've like, so imagine now he just wants to come and chill out.
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I'm telling you now, majority of girls will have an issue that could all be saying, hold
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You just want to come around and watch Netflix and chill and be on beat with beat.
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If a man knows a girl has like previously, and I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with
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it from a man's perspective as previously, slept with X, Y, and Z.
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Maybe not on the first night, but do you know what I mean?
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Like pretty soon, first night, second night, whatever.
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And then with him, she's trying to do like the get to know.
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Because from her perspective, it's from the writer that she's thinking now I want to settle
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I missed you with a few things and I always got this thing.
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Fam, why are you going to tell me that you was hoeing in the past when you don't hoeing
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I'm stepping out of my car while I'm on the motorway.
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If you told me that you fucked two niggas before, you better believe I'm going to ask
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But are these women saying it just off the cusp or are you asking them the question?
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Because I'm thinking to myself, what women's just going to say that?
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You know, like, I'll reply to, like, the, hey, beautiful, and then little.
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Because earlier when you said, a man be like, what's up, my princess?
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I mean, that's the, that's the same crusty line that you use on all women.
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Sweet nothings are what women want to hear in general.
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But in general, if his approach in general would not work.
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The man that's saying the sweet nothings to her.
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No, but I'm saying in general, like women would say they want what you're saying.
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Like, yo, I just want to bend you over right now.
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But going off what, going off what you said, yeah.
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But you see their response would be different to what they think.
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They say, have you ever heard yard men talk to a girl?
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And I came in and I said, I got the same purse for 150.
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yeah let's flip it let's flip it okay as a woman imagine okay you found out you're you're dating a
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guy and you found out like like he bought you let's say a hundred dollars something for your
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birthday and you find out his ex-girlfriend he rented out a whole club threw her a whole party
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invited all of her friends right you you would be excited for the hundred dollar gift and you would
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think oh wow this this guy's so nice that until until you find out about his ex that he did all
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of that that's the equivalent for guys okay to add on to that yeah like because i mentioned
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something similar when i said like you've seen a guy dating experience online and he's doing all
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the uptown stuff then with you he just wants to netflix and chill at your house like you're gonna
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think huh and even to to go off at that point you can take it with with with it's a it's another
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reason why men don't like a girl that's very active like dating wise and sexually wise because if you're
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active dating wise you're gonna have more there's more chance of you having those experiences where
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you're getting the the big money purses and whatnot and whatnot and it's just natural that when the
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next man comes along now you might not have that but if a man wants to do that he would do that
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no but he might not have that okay he might not have it then that's fine and then but but it's it's
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not always fine for the majority of women because now you're thinking all on a minute i've been used to
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my last birthday no but you can have your own but on your last birthday your man took you x y and z
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this birthday a man's buying a chinese saying yo let's chill i've got a question for you wait one
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more for men it's like you've had a girl yeah that is doing the most in the bedroom like doing the
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most like because you're sexually active bro then you've got a next thing good girl that you like her
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but in the bedroom she can't really arch her back and anything you're saying hold on a minute you're
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saying bro i'm not happy with that it's just the experience but by checking if if if a girl puts out
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on the first date you wife in it yeah if the push is good what was my problem yeah i wouldn't say no
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i wouldn't say no i wouldn't say no but for me it's a red flag because you imagine i wouldn't say no
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what if what if what if she only slept with you on the first date there you go what if it was you
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no i was the only person yeah i wouldn't believe it i wouldn't believe no i understand that
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because you know all the time we get into things about the body count what's your body count big
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dog see man ain't got a clue i ain't got a clue it see me i got this i got this i got this whole thing
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because you see my girl over there she lies about her body count she's like 15
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i was 18 but what is she saying 18 right you said 18 why are you saying she's not because she
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can i finish please yeah she's learning about body count is he for me yeah because get a lie
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i don't lie too much you see for me yeah i i would wifey a pawn star i'm sorry
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i would wife one of them you know why because i can see what she's been doing
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but no need there's no it's all in the life only want to lie and he walking on the road
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at tom i look because tom just dig on your stomach the night before
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right in all seriousness right and this is a serious auntie jenny coming on now right
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because you so are talking so much rubbish earlier that when they talk about body count
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i i just zoned out i thought that i don't want to hear what he's not got to say
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because when i heard the 15 before 30 that's where it starts from
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don't be going out on our dates and winding up the guys
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don't be going out and saying oh i'm going to go to you just in case
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right because if i was a man and i took you out and you're not freeing it up i'm going to feel offended
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especially if you're not going to go out for a date to look forward to having a relationship
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and take don't shut up take advice from an older woman
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that four but 18 is nothing to be talking about
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right you need no stop i'm talking to a young lady
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i'm trying to teach her for all you men out there that want to fuck her
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i'm seriously i'm not you but men in general i'm telling you i'm serious now
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please don't don't don't do it don't do it to yourself
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i'm telling you right because i'm trying to save you from yourself
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don't listen to anybody else that's telling you
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you find that you're in a relationship with a man
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call me and i will come down there and i will cock block
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if you're living on your own i'll be taking you home
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if you want to date tell them that auntie jenny says
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so don't let no older woman tell you no different
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i've got her wherever where she goes in the world