Modern Woman Have NO FEMININE Role Models
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Summary
In this episode we talk about what we look for in a man on social media profiles, what we do and what we don t look for and how we look at them. We also talk about our thoughts on the topic of sexual preferences and what turns us on and turn us off when it comes to online dating.
Transcript
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so when you guys are looking at a social media profile I know some of you are in relationships
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but just like think back to when you were single and you got you looked at a profile and you have
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to decide whether you would respond or not what would you look at I look at the fashion and what
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he's wearing okay so fashion yeah are you trying to see how tall he is is that a big thing for you
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I mean everyone wants someone over six foot but I've been with guys that are smaller than that
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so it doesn't really bother me too too much to be fair but yeah definitely fashion style what they
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do okay pick up on personality okay um also guys if you want anyone to rate your instagrams put it
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in the chat and we'll see what they think of it okay so fashion um you said you want to see what
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he does yeah uh what else anything else is that like if he travels stuff like that and just traveling
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well it just shows that he probably was spontaneous and that's an adventure
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um okay go ahead I think for me um of course yeah we want to look we want to see what he looks like
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so I just want to see if I like his face you know um his build I am looking at fashion I'm looking at
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things that's like is he posing with his like with his top out like is he trying to show off the packs
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like I'm trying to see if he's trying to flaunt all of that because I'm attracted to a dude that's
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confident but I also don't want someone that's like cocky or that like likes to put that on display
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so if you see like a shirtless picture is that a turn on or turn off it depends on like most of the
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time it's a turn off but it also depends on like how he's posing like sometimes you can just see some
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guys on their profile and they're like giving you the eyes like smiles and they're like doing the most
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and I feel like that's low key a bit of a turn off for me okay um but yeah I'm looking at like
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his friends if he's posted any pictures of his like mom if like like what he does um yeah I'm just kind
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of looking at all of that I don't know if that makes sense but yeah and what about you
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I think for me it's just like if they post their interest I don't it more depends on the message for
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me rather than the profile because the profile is fake anyway like everyone's Instagram is just a
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fake version of themselves so it it would catch my eye if they have something that they're really
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passionate and interested in that they post about that might entice me more to reply but I think it
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more depends on the message for me what type of message would be a good message to send you
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if it can make me laugh or something funny something funny yeah or something that would make me think
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like if they said something really interesting I don't know what you find funny or not funny
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yeah exactly but that's kind of my point like it's it's it's Instagram like it's all a fake world
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anyway so you might as well just give it a go and you know you never know go have that universal riz
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what about you two um good first message to send you to be fair it depends whether they're good
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looking or not if I reply like the message could just be hey and if he's good looking I'll entertain
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it a little bit but if the conversation's just dead then it just spoils it yeah for me like in the past
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I've had guys that will like talk about my body or anything like that and I don't want to feel like
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I'm being sexually objectified in any way so if he comes in straight off the bat like oh like
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and starts talking about my body I'm gonna ignore that I'm not gonna give that any energy
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I'm not too fussy but just saying hey like how are you and just starting up a conversation
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because I'm a human being so it's like respect me talk to me like I'm a human being I don't want
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you to on Instagram you know I don't really post pictures that are like
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sexually like provocative or anything like that too tough I can but like I try not to do that too
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yeah I want to see if we could can we look at your yeah yeah that's fine uh it's tashana talks so
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t-a-s-h-a-u-n-a talks because I was kind of wanted to see I want to get the guys feedback and like what
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they would think of you without meeting you okay um did you get that blessing okay um so you said
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it just matters how good looking he is yeah first message for you as long as it's not sexual
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yeah just like say hey like what's up that's fine did you have something you want to say
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yeah I'm the same like if it's sexual I won't respond whatsoever yeah have you guys found that
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that if you send like a sexual message first it's like a lower response rate no sorry can you
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repeat yeah no no I think I think um repeat the i just add please oh yeah tashana talks uh t-a-s-h-a-u-n-a
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you get left unread most times you gotta just you gotta just start a conversation you know I
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mean like people the great thing about instagram which is better I think than um text and grabbing
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a number I remember four people used to be a bit annoyed if you know you go to talk to a girl and
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she gives you like her socials yeah but the great thing about that is she posts on there every day
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so there's something that you can kind of connect on at some point do you know I mean wait for that
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moment where you can kind of connect on something and then just talk normally and I mean don't put
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someone on a pedestal in the moment that you've done that yeah the game but were you guys saying
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that if you send a sexual message you're more likely to get a response like a woodshot are you talking
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about like a nude or like a no obviously don't go don't go don't go 10 out of 10 out of the gate
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I meant like about her like complimenting her body or something like that I mean I think there's certain
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there's certain profiles that that works with and there's certain profiles that I wouldn't yeah
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because it's with from a guy's perspective not to be general for everyone but it's one of those
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ones you could you guys said I mean if you listen why blah blah blah and if he looks like he treats
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me nice more but guys is do you think she will respond yeah all right so I want to hear from the
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guys oh yeah oh put me on blast god yeah so what are we what we're getting from here traveling traveling
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okay so I'm not seeing too much like skin out yeah I haven't seen any football posing where the bat
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yeah yeah so she's a respectable girl she's she's chilling um I don't really think this is a page
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where she's like looking for mandem's attention yeah she's just kind of just enjoying life she's I
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used to work around there cheers London bridging that okay little artsy vibe there as well yeah I
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wouldn't get a message her because she could be a quick one type of message if I was to see this
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Instagram yeah this is a honest individual who is showing you situations and I like that in her
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life that first one that first one is like don't look at me but look at me with the whole jacket what's
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your Instagram he's gonna pull it up it's Ashton Maria is there a difference
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we have one girl on this show we did a show today called wife or cat lady where you yeah
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yeah you come on the show and we had we had one percent men so all these men were verified millionaires
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and they all had to um decide if the women coming in were wife wifey or cat ladies you know
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and this one girl that came in it was like her boobs were like oh it was like a see-through like top on
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Instagram yeah and I was trying to tell her I'm like I don't know if that's like what the the
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millionaire maybe like the millionaire like ballers maybe that's a different group but like
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I'm like I don't know about the millionaire like business man you know but yeah she didn't get it
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yeah well she was very she was very beautiful oh see she didn't need to do that yeah no that's what
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I was telling her because I was like I was like I probably would have put her top like 10 20 percent
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of beauty she's so beautiful and I was just like why would you put that I was like that's like being
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born 610 yeah and not playing basketball and bowling that's that's that's interesting she needs more
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people around I just said tell her that she's attractive in the face yeah I told her she
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could come back if she deleted three of these pictures on Instagram you should have gone percentage
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rather than number three percent and she'd have to do she was very attached to the Instagram okay
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she was a very nice girl but I was like you're very attached to the Insta you know she she's comparing
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herself to whoever she idolizes on there so she might see someone who comes down to self-confidence no
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but no one there might be a woman that she finds she might look at call you be thinking raw if I was if
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I was like which if I was into girls I'm I'm under you know I mean so she kind of trust wants to mimic that
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and she thinks that that is gonna get her what she needs in it do you know I mean do you find it
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weird that like a lot of girls speaking again this is a very general statement but a lot of girls in
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that kind of respect will look at idols and and mimic what they look like but a lot of guys will look
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at their idols and mimic what they act like and do mmm that's facts right but we focus more on
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respect and I think with women sometimes can be more of an attention visual because how many people
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have Cardi B as their role model just and how many JLo yeah you see exactly rolling exactly 53
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but then if you ask a guy who there who their role model is it's like summer old Jackson or something
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I was trying to think of one good feminine role model in the media today yeah like that's a main
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strap my I can't kind of Pearson is that JLo she's a role model for me she's a like she does like
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YouTube videos okay but she's not like anywhere near as big as someone like Beyonce or Cardi B just
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early thing as many of you know I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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