JustPearlyThings - May 14, 2023


Modern Woman Have NO FEMININE Role Models


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Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

185.79202

Word Count

2,026

Sentence Count

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 so when you guys are looking at a social media profile I know some of you are in relationships
00:00:07.640 but just like think back to when you were single and you got you looked at a profile and you have
00:00:12.040 to decide whether you would respond or not what would you look at I look at the fashion and what
00:00:16.920 he's wearing okay so fashion yeah are you trying to see how tall he is is that a big thing for you
00:00:22.220 I mean everyone wants someone over six foot but I've been with guys that are smaller than that
00:00:26.680 so it doesn't really bother me too too much to be fair but yeah definitely fashion style what they
00:00:31.980 do okay pick up on personality okay um also guys if you want anyone to rate your instagrams put it
00:00:39.300 in the chat and we'll see what they think of it okay so fashion um you said you want to see what
00:00:47.800 he does yeah uh what else anything else is that like if he travels stuff like that and just traveling
00:00:53.460 well it just shows that he probably was spontaneous and that's an adventure
00:00:58.140 um okay go ahead I think for me um of course yeah we want to look we want to see what he looks like
00:01:09.160 so I just want to see if I like his face you know um his build I am looking at fashion I'm looking at
00:01:16.340 things that's like is he posing with his like with his top out like is he trying to show off the packs
00:01:21.820 like I'm trying to see if he's trying to flaunt all of that because I'm attracted to a dude that's
00:01:26.420 confident but I also don't want someone that's like cocky or that like likes to put that on display
00:01:32.140 so if you see like a shirtless picture is that a turn on or turn off it depends on like most of the
00:01:37.880 time it's a turn off but it also depends on like how he's posing like sometimes you can just see some
00:01:42.020 guys on their profile and they're like giving you the eyes like smiles and they're like doing the most
00:01:46.820 and I feel like that's low key a bit of a turn off for me okay um but yeah I'm looking at like
00:01:52.460 his friends if he's posted any pictures of his like mom if like like what he does um yeah I'm just kind
00:02:01.020 of looking at all of that I don't know if that makes sense but yeah and what about you
00:02:05.800 I think for me it's just like if they post their interest I don't it more depends on the message for
00:02:14.060 me rather than the profile because the profile is fake anyway like everyone's Instagram is just a
00:02:18.220 fake version of themselves so it it would catch my eye if they have something that they're really
00:02:23.300 passionate and interested in that they post about that might entice me more to reply but I think it
00:02:29.100 more depends on the message for me what type of message would be a good message to send you
00:02:33.960 if it can make me laugh or something funny something funny yeah or something that would make me think
00:02:39.620 like if they said something really interesting I don't know what you find funny or not funny
00:02:50.080 yeah exactly but that's kind of my point like it's it's it's Instagram like it's all a fake world
00:02:56.180 anyway so you might as well just give it a go and you know you never know go have that universal riz
00:03:00.500 what about you two um good first message to send you to be fair it depends whether they're good
00:03:09.000 looking or not if I reply like the message could just be hey and if he's good looking I'll entertain
00:03:13.320 it a little bit but if the conversation's just dead then it just spoils it yeah for me like in the past
00:03:20.500 I've had guys that will like talk about my body or anything like that and I don't want to feel like
00:03:25.980 I'm being sexually objectified in any way so if he comes in straight off the bat like oh like
00:03:30.960 and starts talking about my body I'm gonna ignore that I'm not gonna give that any energy
00:03:34.860 I'm not too fussy but just saying hey like how are you and just starting up a conversation
00:03:39.820 because I'm a human being so it's like respect me talk to me like I'm a human being I don't want
00:03:44.960 you to on Instagram you know I don't really post pictures that are like
00:03:50.860 sexually like provocative or anything like that too tough I can but like I try not to do that too
00:03:58.800 can we see it
00:03:59.840 yeah I want to see if we could can we look at your yeah yeah that's fine uh it's tashana talks so
00:04:13.420 t-a-s-h-a-u-n-a talks because I was kind of wanted to see I want to get the guys feedback and like what
00:04:19.880 they would think of you without meeting you okay um did you get that blessing okay um so you said
00:04:31.880 it just matters how good looking he is yeah first message for you as long as it's not sexual
00:04:37.300 yeah just like say hey like what's up that's fine did you have something you want to say
00:04:41.700 yeah I'm the same like if it's sexual I won't respond whatsoever yeah have you guys found that
00:04:48.240 that if you send like a sexual message first it's like a lower response rate no sorry can you
00:04:53.140 repeat yeah no no I think I think um repeat the i just add please oh yeah tashana talks uh t-a-s-h-a-u-n-a
00:05:01.940 uh t-a-l-k-s all one word
00:05:06.240 yeah but hey hi how are you doing never works
00:05:12.800 you get left unread most times you gotta just you gotta just start a conversation you know I
00:05:20.880 mean like people the great thing about instagram which is better I think than um text and grabbing
00:05:25.640 a number I remember four people used to be a bit annoyed if you know you go to talk to a girl and
00:05:30.760 she gives you like her socials yeah but the great thing about that is she posts on there every day
00:05:36.300 so there's something that you can kind of connect on at some point do you know I mean wait for that
00:05:40.340 moment where you can kind of connect on something and then just talk normally and I mean don't put
00:05:43.400 someone on a pedestal in the moment that you've done that yeah the game but were you guys saying
00:05:47.540 that if you send a sexual message you're more likely to get a response like a woodshot are you talking
00:05:51.580 about like a nude or like a no obviously don't go don't go don't go 10 out of 10 out of the gate
00:05:56.100 I meant like about her like complimenting her body or something like that I mean I think there's certain
00:06:02.860 there's certain profiles that that works with and there's certain profiles that I wouldn't yeah
00:06:06.660 because it's with from a guy's perspective not to be general for everyone but it's one of those
00:06:10.680 ones you could you guys said I mean if you listen why blah blah blah and if he looks like he treats
00:06:15.360 me nice more but guys is do you think she will respond yeah all right so I want to hear from the
00:06:24.000 guys oh yeah oh put me on blast god yeah so what are we what we're getting from here traveling traveling
00:06:31.620 okay so I'm not seeing too much like skin out yeah I haven't seen any football posing where the bat
00:06:45.120 yeah yeah so she's a respectable girl she's she's chilling um I don't really think this is a page
00:06:52.440 where she's like looking for mandem's attention yeah she's just kind of just enjoying life she's I
00:06:58.220 used to work around there cheers London bridging that okay little artsy vibe there as well yeah I
00:07:07.160 wouldn't get a message her because she could be a quick one type of message if I was to see this
00:07:13.100 Instagram yeah this is a honest individual who is showing you situations and I like that in her
00:07:19.280 life that first one that first one is like don't look at me but look at me with the whole jacket what's
00:07:32.420 your Instagram he's gonna pull it up it's Ashton Maria is there a difference
00:07:39.100 we have one girl on this show we did a show today called wife or cat lady where you yeah
00:07:51.180 yeah you come on the show and we had we had one percent men so all these men were verified millionaires
00:07:57.000 and they all had to um decide if the women coming in were wife wifey or cat ladies you know
00:08:03.000 and this one girl that came in it was like her boobs were like oh it was like a see-through like top on
00:08:10.140 Instagram yeah and I was trying to tell her I'm like I don't know if that's like what the the
00:08:14.280 millionaire maybe like the millionaire like ballers maybe that's a different group but like
00:08:18.820 I'm like I don't know about the millionaire like business man you know but yeah she didn't get it
00:08:25.060 yeah well she was very she was very beautiful oh see she didn't need to do that yeah no that's what
00:08:33.560 I was telling her because I was like I was like I probably would have put her top like 10 20 percent
00:08:37.320 of beauty she's so beautiful and I was just like why would you put that I was like that's like being
00:08:43.160 born 610 yeah and not playing basketball and bowling that's that's that's interesting she needs more
00:08:55.840 people around I just said tell her that she's attractive in the face yeah I told her she
00:08:59.720 could come back if she deleted three of these pictures on Instagram you should have gone percentage
00:09:09.660 rather than number three percent and she'd have to do she was very attached to the Instagram okay
00:09:16.740 she was a very nice girl but I was like you're very attached to the Insta you know she she's comparing
00:09:22.200 herself to whoever she idolizes on there so she might see someone who comes down to self-confidence no
00:09:27.780 but no one there might be a woman that she finds she might look at call you be thinking raw if I was if
00:09:31.740 I was like which if I was into girls I'm I'm under you know I mean so she kind of trust wants to mimic that
00:09:36.780 and she thinks that that is gonna get her what she needs in it do you know I mean do you find it
00:09:40.440 weird that like a lot of girls speaking again this is a very general statement but a lot of girls in
00:09:46.000 that kind of respect will look at idols and and mimic what they look like but a lot of guys will look
00:09:50.760 at their idols and mimic what they act like and do mmm that's facts right but we focus more on
00:09:55.980 respect and I think with women sometimes can be more of an attention visual because how many people
00:09:59.700 have Cardi B as their role model just and how many JLo yeah you see exactly rolling exactly 53
00:10:06.060 but then if you ask a guy who there who their role model is it's like summer old Jackson or something
00:10:13.080 I was trying to think of one good feminine role model in the media today yeah like that's a main
00:10:19.800 strap my I can't kind of Pearson is that JLo she's a role model for me she's a like she does like
00:10:28.960 YouTube videos okay but she's not like anywhere near as big as someone like Beyonce or Cardi B just
00:10:34.340 early thing as many of you know I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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