JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman Said This About Men After Break Up

00:00:00.000 topic who wins after breakups men or women so tom brady and giselle boot i'm sorry guys i can never

00:00:07.980 say her last name bunshin um officially divorced on october 28th 2022 legal teams from both say

00:00:14.600 that a not an ironclad prenup agreement was put in place before they were married in 2009 making

00:00:20.280 the financial aspects of the divorce relatively smooth what has happened since is there what has

00:00:26.320 happened since then and why are they both in the new sense giselle has been linked with her children's

00:00:32.060 jujitsu instructor jomaine valentine a 42 year old brazilian man with some speculating that they have

00:00:39.000 had something going on before the official divorce he started appearing on giselle's social media around

00:00:44.580 february showing giselle basic techniques on instagram he has also been seen traveling with

00:00:50.640 giselle and the children since the beginning of the year tom brady 45 officially confirmed that

00:00:56.080 he is dating veronica rezek a 26 year old slovakian model with over 3.2 million instagram followers

00:01:03.940 she has attended a few of a few of his games and has taken photographs wearing his jersey

00:01:09.460 gerard peak and shakira were in a relationship from 2011 to 2022 having two children during that time

00:01:17.140 after breaking up in 2022 gerard peak 36 years old has been confirmed to be in a relationship with 23

00:01:25.200 year old clara chea marti shakira has moved from spain to her family's home in miami florida and has

00:01:32.700 been linked to her 24 year old surfing instructor custody of the children is still pending this begs

00:01:39.000 the question who normally wins after high profile breakups men or women

00:01:44.060 so start here and then go around men or women actually i think i managed to hear what other

00:01:52.760 people got to say first i can't lie okay who wants anyone opinionated want to start

00:01:57.400 come on it just depends on how like what the situation is so if there's obviously kids involved um

00:02:05.280 if obviously the pre not you had to pick one who typically wins in high profile breakups oh um

00:02:13.380 i say men do okay yeah because it's like no matter what their the publicity just sort of like dies

00:02:24.240 down on them whereas women they get it a lot more that makes sense i don't know 0.99

00:02:31.180 they get publicity um but it's not as much as like it wouldn't go as long as what the woman's 1.00

00:02:46.020 publicity would go on for if that makes sense so like there would be more paparazzi watching the

00:02:51.500 wimp the woman um her every move who she's dealt with and then sort of like you'd hear once in a 1.00

00:02:58.440 blue moon if the man decides to leave and show off that he's got a new woman then they would catch

00:03:03.360 him but it's like a one-off one-off story and then that's it bye that's what i see so you would

00:03:10.400 dictate who wins and loses after the breakup by who has less publicity yeah because it good all

00:03:17.220 publicities can be good but comes with bad as well a lot of negative okay i think after high profile

00:03:25.180 breakup right the women the the outlook from the society that they get is kind of crazy i think 0.63

00:03:32.380 they get told that they're not good for fine moving on and finding someone else so and also

00:03:39.760 it's mostly men in high profile breakups that money is associated with as well so as soon as the

00:03:48.180 female goes and finds another partner is always she like she didn't bother in the relationship do you get 1.00

00:03:53.320 it and that's what i think and it's kind of that's true if a woman's moving from relationship to 0.99

00:03:59.400 relationship to relationship then maybe she isn't the best fit or the best candidate for a relationship 1.00

00:04:04.680 i think a woman that moves from relationship to relationship knows what she wants in a relationship 1.00

00:04:09.700 because i'm going to tell you not a lot of people out there like are going to be what you want them

00:04:13.600 to be so move i would say personally move around as much as you want till you find the right one

00:04:18.460 but couldn't you couldn't you figure that out before a relationship like by asking certain

00:04:22.420 questions um some things you have to live to actually know because certain people they know

00:04:28.360 stuff but in order how they apply it practically is completely different you can know so much but

00:04:34.480 once you get into a relationship it's way more sacrifices way more compromisation that gets

00:04:40.620 involved that i think is important and if you need to move around as much as much relationship as

00:04:46.740 you need to to get that security to finally understand that these situations won't work for

00:04:51.880 you then that's what you might need to do and i think the women do get looked weirdly for that but 1.00

00:04:57.100 it's what you're going to do at the end of the day men do it too so do you think a guy is a good

00:05:01.120 candidate for a relationship if he's constantly having failed situationships with women like if he if

00:05:07.300 he's maybe in a two-year span dated like 20 girls do you think it's likely he's going to date you

00:05:12.520 sorry if i mean if i know a man has dated 20 women and wanted to come date me i'd kind of be like

00:05:19.040 and but then it kind of contradicts what i just said yeah but at the same time as a man if a woman

00:05:25.260 has gone through 30 men and came up to me and said i want to have a relationship with you i'd kind of be

00:05:29.060 like what's up you know and also as much as i said compromisation is required there are stuff you

00:05:35.000 have to learn and go through sometimes you have to stick in a relationship for you to actually make

00:05:39.380 stuff work it doesn't necessarily moving on to other ones but just because you moved on from

00:05:43.060 relation relationship to relationship it doesn't mean you're crazy

00:05:46.420 so

00:05:48.040 okay go ahead go ahead um either of you you go ahead sorry yeah go go go go um so is this question

00:05:58.460 reserved specifically for high profile relationships or uh just relationships in general why don't you

00:06:03.680 tell me your opinion on both high profile and regular yeah sure so high profile i think is a little

00:06:08.160 bit worse because say with um also can't pronounce the name giselle bunchen i think that's how you say

00:06:13.960 it um tom brady it's he's probably going to be one of the most wealthy top 10 type of men that she'll

00:06:22.000 ever be with and because women we're hypergamous hypergamous by nature we typically can't date down 0.99

00:06:28.560 and she would struggle to find someone especially at her age now that she has children unfortunately

00:06:34.840 um that would give her what she wants which would probably be marriage um so i think that applies

00:06:41.500 to most high profile relationships because they have some form of celebrity status therefore their

00:06:46.500 partners will probably be a notch ahead of them uh whereas for normal people like us um i think women 1.00

00:06:55.520 generally unfortunately still do lose in a break in a breakup um in the short term they're winning

00:07:02.460 because they can find a simp to buy them a bag and take them places um they can find men to fit different

00:07:08.900 roles of a partner but in the long term they would lose because they'll struggle to actually find someone

00:07:15.140 who wants to be with them and vice versa and they'll probably get to say 35 no children because they've been

00:07:20.820 playing the field whereas if they stayed in the relationship providing it's not abusive you know

00:07:26.020 the exceptions to the rule and they tried to make it work it probably could have been happier

00:07:30.580 in the long term i don't necessarily think that a breakup means that you're going to start sleeping

00:07:38.180 around start dating around i think some women do wait i find men do move on pretty quick 0.98

00:07:45.280 and they seem to not be as picky i do think that they move on a bit quicker um i don't know i i'm

00:07:54.580 unsure of my opinion because there's so many different variables like do they have kids do they are they

00:08:00.340 married were they together for a long time i'm just saying if there's a hundred high profile breakups

00:08:06.040 who typically who typically wins men or women can it be none of them because there's so much drama

00:08:12.720 around it okay um i think the woman the woman yeah tell me why because as i said the man moves on

00:08:24.140 very quick and he's not as picky and he can seem to get a lot younger partner than than a woman would 0.97

00:08:32.960 if a woman's had children and there's that too um so then what did the women lose what did the women 1.00

00:08:40.000 lose yeah it seems like you're saying the man so get like a younger what i'm saying is that they

00:08:44.520 can't move on maybe they want a relationship after that breakup and it's harder for them because they

00:08:50.180 have children maybe um and then there's more to consider it's not just black and white even though

00:08:54.960 the man has children as well when they move on that's that doesn't seem to hinder their dating

00:09:00.140 experience they can still date and move on and do what they want it doesn't stop that

00:09:05.500 so it's just based on what as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - March 14, 2023

Modern Woman Said This About Men After Break Up

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