JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023


Modern Woman STRUGGLES To Swallow This RED PILL


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Length

9 minutes

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199.37639

Word count

1,833

Sentence count

156

Harmful content

Misogyny

37

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Hate speech

21

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss monogamy in relationships and why it's important to be monogamous in a relationship. We discuss the importance of being loyal to your partner and how important it is to be committed to them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 We always feel when something is off.
00:00:03.340 It's like, at six cents, we know, we know.
00:00:06.500 So do you think, like, so we're talking about long-term relationships.
00:00:10.420 At one point, do you think that a woman's needs from a man,
00:00:14.100 say, attention, intimacy, consistent for, like, 50 years?
00:00:17.060 You're talking about loyalty, right?
00:00:18.060 It's the worst thing to get cheated on.
00:00:19.580 Do you ever think there's limitations to that?
00:00:21.340 Do you ever think there's only so much time a man can give you
00:00:23.480 as full attention, time, love, intimacy,
00:00:26.080 and you expect him to be monogamous?
00:00:29.160 Do you think you're annoying sometimes, or that can fade sometimes?
00:00:33.760 I don't know if I can speak on my side.
00:00:35.420 Like, for example, like, my grandfather, he was,
00:00:38.740 because he's not here anymore,
00:00:40.280 and he was a really, really big man in Venezuela,
00:00:44.260 a really well-known one, and very important.
00:00:46.900 But, like, at the end of the day, he's been loyal at the front,
00:00:51.840 on paper, to my grandmother.
00:00:54.160 But then, like, at some point, when one of my uncles died,
00:00:57.000 he showed up to the funeral, saying, like,
00:01:00.500 oh, you know, guys, I've got, in total, 27 kids
00:01:03.300 from different women.
00:01:04.840 But he's always been, like, true to his kids.
00:01:07.640 Like, he's always been maintaining them.
00:01:09.220 He's never let them, like, being without anything.
00:01:13.300 Everyone has asked for something,
00:01:15.260 and he was there working hard on it and giving it.
00:01:18.080 Well, that is the old-style archetype
00:01:21.880 of the high-value man, isn't it?
00:01:23.080 Yeah.
00:01:23.380 I have a question.
00:01:25.700 Do you guys think that most men would cheat,
00:01:28.340 if given the chance?
00:01:29.380 So if, let's say, a very, very attractive,
00:01:32.080 like, Margot Robbie, is who I think of.
00:01:36.380 What's that other girl's name? 0.99
00:01:37.720 I can't think of her name.
00:01:38.860 But a Margot Robbie-level girl came up to him, 0.99
00:01:43.120 and said, I'll have sex with you right now, right here. 0.99
00:01:45.560 Most men would say yes.
00:01:46.780 Of course.
00:01:48.180 There's a bear shit in the woods.
00:01:49.840 Yeah.
00:01:50.360 Okay, wait, wait.
00:01:51.580 So is it better to accept men as they are,
00:01:54.660 or try to change them into what we want them to be?
00:01:57.120 You can't change a man.
00:01:58.400 He's going to be who he shows who he is.
00:02:00.680 But you guys, when we're having this conversation,
00:02:03.160 the way you're talking,
00:02:03.880 it's like you're trying to change how men are.
00:02:05.460 No, I feel like a man will change for you,
00:02:07.500 if he wants to change.
00:02:08.720 Because the man that was going to be able to change the man.
00:02:10.380 Wait, wait, can I say something to you?
00:02:11.820 Definitely.
00:02:12.080 I don't think a man will change,
00:02:13.320 but if he loves you,
00:02:14.340 he will be committed to you.
00:02:15.720 Exactly.
00:02:16.560 Your man has a problem that he's suffering with,
00:02:18.800 but he finds this girl,
00:02:20.560 he's going to think,
00:02:21.140 oh my gosh,
00:02:21.920 I need to change for this girl.
00:02:23.140 I want this girl in my life.
00:02:24.240 I'm going to change for her.
00:02:24.960 I'm going to stop that,
00:02:25.960 what I'm doing on this side,
00:02:27.180 and this is all I'm going to think about.
00:02:28.760 So everything that I do from now
00:02:30.120 is going to be for that girl.
00:02:31.480 And that is the dream that Disney sold us.
00:02:36.340 I'm a lover girl.
00:02:37.360 That's what, you know,
00:02:38.120 I'm a lover girl completely,
00:02:40.240 you know,
00:02:41.100 but call me naive,
00:02:42.960 but that's what I would like to think,
00:02:44.620 you know,
00:02:44.860 but the only thing women want 1.00
00:02:46.660 when it comes down to it,
00:02:47.660 the only thing we ask for
00:02:49.200 is just to be protected,
00:02:50.420 and that's it.
00:02:51.600 Nah.
00:02:52.300 Nah.
00:02:52.860 If you can't protect us,
00:02:54.300 and you can't provide,
00:02:56.620 and you can't...
00:02:56.700 On higher security.
00:02:58.200 Yeah,
00:02:58.640 add that emotional stability for us,
00:03:00.920 we're not bothered.
00:03:01.640 Protection from what though?
00:03:02.120 Protection from what?
00:03:03.340 I need to know that if I'm out,
00:03:06.460 you know,
00:03:06.820 and I come into a problem,
00:03:08.360 I know that it doesn't matter how I act,
00:03:10.520 because I know that I'm going to be safe,
00:03:12.000 because I've got my man there.
00:03:13.560 So I know that he's going to be able to solve
00:03:15.500 whatever situation happens with me.
00:03:18.060 I need to know that I can come home from work
00:03:19.620 for a bad day,
00:03:20.460 and say,
00:03:20.840 babe, listen,
00:03:22.180 and just reel it off,
00:03:23.260 and I can have that emotional stability with him.
00:03:25.300 Ah, of course she wants him to stay loyal.
00:03:27.340 She's still working.
00:03:31.920 You know...
00:03:32.880 The truth is you're capping,
00:03:34.100 and you've not run into it yet.
00:03:35.120 You're too young,
00:03:35.740 but in about 10 years,
00:03:36.780 she's going to be a ride or die 1.00
00:03:37.680 and help him get threesomes. 1.00
00:03:38.680 I'm telling you,
00:03:39.160 it's going to happen.
00:03:40.360 Maybe.
00:03:41.340 I'll be that as your life.
00:03:43.720 I tried to do it.
00:03:45.820 It didn't work.
00:03:46.420 I'm going to get one of these good ones.
00:03:48.600 They exist though.
00:03:49.780 Why are you acting like it's a fairy tale?
00:03:51.060 Yeah,
00:03:51.380 they do exist,
00:03:52.680 you know?
00:03:53.160 No,
00:03:53.420 okay.
00:03:54.080 Do they exist?
00:03:56.160 Fine.
00:03:56.860 Yes,
00:03:57.100 there's occasional men
00:03:58.180 that make a lot of money
00:03:59.740 and don't cheat.
00:04:00.700 But most of y'all
00:04:03.440 aren't going to get him.
00:04:05.640 Because they're gay. 0.99
00:04:07.000 Because they're from the game.
00:04:08.980 That's just the basic truth.
00:04:10.480 So,
00:04:10.840 for the average woman, 0.53
00:04:13.040 okay,
00:04:14.900 is it better to accept men
00:04:16.680 as they are
00:04:17.280 or change them
00:04:18.020 into what we want them to be?
00:04:19.540 Do you think,
00:04:20.340 just don't change them,
00:04:21.300 find your own?
00:04:22.520 No,
00:04:22.780 no,
00:04:22.920 but we remember,
00:04:23.480 we just established
00:04:24.640 the majority
00:04:25.660 will not end up
00:04:27.380 with these magical men
00:04:28.640 that make a lot of money,
00:04:30.100 have women chasing them
00:04:31.200 and then choose not to cheat.
00:04:32.440 Most women aren't going to end up 1.00
00:04:33.600 with a guy like that.
00:04:34.600 Okay,
00:04:34.940 Pearl,
00:04:35.160 let me ask you a question.
00:04:36.080 Do you think that
00:04:37.460 if you're deemed
00:04:38.940 more like
00:04:40.200 an attractive female, 1.00
00:04:42.220 you run into these problems more?
00:04:45.040 Do I think that attractive women 1.00
00:04:46.620 run into cheating more?
00:04:48.220 All these,
00:04:49.200 every problem
00:04:50.180 that we've just discussed,
00:04:51.000 do you think that would happen more
00:04:52.600 as for an attractive female 1.00
00:04:54.780 or as just someone
00:04:56.880 that's just stated,
00:04:57.640 yeah,
00:04:57.880 you know,
00:04:58.180 you bang average?
00:04:59.800 The reason I would guess
00:05:02.040 it happens to attractive women more 1.00
00:05:03.540 is because attractive women 1.00
00:05:04.640 get to deal with the types of men
00:05:06.640 that most women want more, 1.00
00:05:08.600 seriously,
00:05:09.340 where like,
00:05:10.180 the lower women, 0.99
00:05:11.780 like,
00:05:11.940 unless they have a really good personality,
00:05:13.720 like,
00:05:13.900 usually they're just side chicks. 0.79
00:05:14.820 Yeah,
00:05:14.980 no,
00:05:15.180 I agree with that.
00:05:15.840 Also,
00:05:16.340 that's really the problem
00:05:17.080 you're running into
00:05:17.700 is because you've not run into
00:05:18.860 a 1% man yet
00:05:19.760 because if Drake did that to you,
00:05:20.920 you would stay with Drake.
00:05:22.440 You might not like it,
00:05:23.480 and you'd hop up and down and scream,
00:05:24.700 especially if he was emotionally there for you
00:05:26.220 and y'all were like best friends
00:05:27.280 and like really,
00:05:28.500 really partners,
00:05:29.040 you wouldn't leave Drake.
00:05:29.820 Get the fuck out of here.
00:05:30.720 Nah,
00:05:31.040 you see me right?
00:05:32.080 That's different.
00:05:32.900 Nah,
00:05:33.040 because it's Drake.
00:05:34.360 Do you know what it is?
00:05:35.780 Nah.
00:05:35.960 The problem is
00:05:36.840 is that you're dating a bum 0.99
00:05:38.340 and you feel like the trade-off
00:05:40.040 is sexual exclusivity.
00:05:42.880 So when you find out
00:05:43.520 he's cheating on you, 0.93
00:05:44.440 that's the one thing
00:05:45.180 he was supposed to give up
00:05:46.160 for y'all's relationship
00:05:47.020 for you to be with him.
00:05:48.520 Nah.
00:05:48.720 Now you find out
00:05:49.400 his broke bum ass 0.99
00:05:50.380 is cheating on you
00:05:51.020 on top of that,
00:05:51.900 then you're fucking pissed. 0.94
00:05:53.960 Then you win.
00:05:54.640 If men want an untouchable woman, 1.00
00:05:57.980 you have to be untouchable yourself.
00:06:00.360 If not,
00:06:00.880 I don't want to hear it.
00:06:01.640 What do you mean?
00:06:02.340 Men want an untouchable woman? 1.00
00:06:03.900 Most women have been touched 0.63
00:06:04.840 by many men.
00:06:07.400 Many men.
00:06:08.980 Nah,
00:06:09.520 nah,
00:06:10.040 nah,
00:06:10.520 nah,
00:06:10.800 nah.
00:06:11.500 Yo,
00:06:12.040 men just want someone 0.99
00:06:12.880 that doesn't look touchable.
00:06:14.880 At least.
00:06:15.880 It's like,
00:06:16.280 fine,
00:06:16.580 I can deal with a past,
00:06:17.960 but don't look like
00:06:18.880 you have a past.
00:06:19.840 That's all I'm asking.
00:06:21.080 Why would you want that?
00:06:22.240 Why would you want to be
00:06:23.100 with a girl that you know
00:06:24.220 that's so everybody else
00:06:25.600 has been with?
00:06:25.720 Because they can hide it.
00:06:27.120 What?
00:06:27.580 Are you talking about
00:06:28.320 in the relationship,
00:06:29.620 she's got to be faithful 1.00
00:06:31.000 in the relationship to her?
00:06:32.080 Yeah.
00:06:32.380 Untouchable in that sense.
00:06:33.240 But like,
00:06:33.860 your past as well,
00:06:35.700 like,
00:06:36.100 I don't know,
00:06:36.600 that's just what I think.
00:06:37.980 Men don't want women 1.00
00:06:39.540 with a past.
00:06:40.900 I agree.
00:06:41.380 Agreed.
00:06:41.920 But women want men 1.00
00:06:42.760 with a past.
00:06:44.320 Disagreed.
00:06:44.880 Okay,
00:06:45.160 I have a question,
00:06:45.880 I have a question.
00:06:46.820 I don't think
00:06:47.560 it's that disagreed.
00:06:48.660 Would you date a virgin?
00:06:50.700 Would you date a virgin?
00:06:51.280 That's a question.
00:06:52.420 No.
00:06:52.940 Nah.
00:06:53.400 Why not?
00:06:54.160 Well,
00:06:54.340 why not?
00:06:54.680 But you said you...
00:06:55.940 No,
00:06:56.480 there's a difference
00:06:57.160 between a virgin
00:06:58.180 and an absolute man.
00:07:00.220 There's a difference.
00:07:01.860 There's like a reasonable
00:07:02.640 But if the man knows
00:07:03.400 that you don't want
00:07:03.900 a man whore, 1.00
00:07:04.380 he will just lie
00:07:05.020 about his body count.
00:07:06.000 Of course.
00:07:06.860 Yeah,
00:07:07.100 but let's be clear
00:07:07.900 about the guy
00:07:08.520 that's barely not a virgin.
00:07:10.780 It's not because
00:07:11.580 he doesn't want
00:07:12.340 to be a man whore. 1.00
00:07:13.340 It's because he cannot
00:07:14.220 achieve such status.
00:07:16.300 So why would you want to...
00:07:17.600 So you'd want to be with the guy
00:07:19.100 that could get other women 1.00
00:07:19.960 because women don't want 1.00
00:07:21.020 men that other women 0.97
00:07:21.900 don't want.
00:07:23.540 Yeah,
00:07:24.060 I agree.
00:07:24.360 So any guy that you deem
00:07:25.420 as high value,
00:07:26.400 whatever your criteria,
00:07:27.600 is necessarily going to be
00:07:29.060 a guy who has had a past,
00:07:30.460 who has had other women
00:07:31.500 because otherwise...
00:07:32.860 Hell of a past.
00:07:33.780 Exactly,
00:07:34.200 because otherwise his value
00:07:35.080 is not going to mean anything.
00:07:36.900 But as a woman,
00:07:37.740 you find that out
00:07:38.860 about the guy
00:07:39.460 you're interested in.
00:07:41.180 It changes nothing.
00:07:41.940 No,
00:07:42.740 the first thing
00:07:43.520 that will pop into
00:07:44.820 a woman's head 1.00
00:07:45.560 is,
00:07:46.280 so what's so special
00:07:47.160 about me then?
00:07:48.040 What's so special about me?
00:07:48.820 What, like the girls
00:07:49.440 who sleep with Leonardo DiCaprio?
00:07:51.420 Probably nothing.
00:07:52.420 They're silly.
00:07:53.300 They're all silly.
00:07:54.260 I don't stand with those girls 1.00
00:07:55.540 at all
00:07:55.940 because I think
00:07:56.340 they're all silly.
00:07:57.500 So when he's got
00:07:57.980 the headphones on,
00:07:58.560 he's listening to music
00:07:59.320 and she's riding him 0.97
00:08:00.220 and he's just like,
00:08:00.820 look at his watch.
00:08:02.080 This is what you said.
00:08:03.780 You said,
00:08:04.080 what's so special about me?
00:08:05.200 Most women aren't special. 1.00
00:08:07.620 Well,
00:08:08.000 that's down to your personal opinion.
00:08:09.500 No,
00:08:09.740 seriously,
00:08:10.680 what do women bring 1.00
00:08:11.640 in 2022
00:08:12.260 that is special?
00:08:13.560 Nothing.
00:08:13.920 Do most women 1.00
00:08:14.460 have a cookbook?
00:08:15.900 No.
00:08:16.460 Or do most women 1.00
00:08:17.500 really know
00:08:17.940 how to cater to a man? 0.99
00:08:19.120 No.
00:08:19.700 Are most women virgins 0.99
00:08:20.940 on their wedding day?
00:08:22.140 No.
00:08:22.680 So what do most women 1.00
00:08:24.040 bring in 2022?
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