JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023


Modern Woman STRUGGLES To Swallow This RED PILL


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

199.37639

Word Count

1,833

Sentence Count

156

Misogynist Sentences

37

Hate Speech Sentences

21


Summary

In this episode, we discuss monogamy in relationships and why it's important to be monogamous in a relationship. We discuss the importance of being loyal to your partner and how important it is to be committed to them.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 We always feel when something is off.
00:00:03.340 It's like, at six cents, we know, we know.
00:00:06.500 So do you think, like, so we're talking about long-term relationships.
00:00:10.420 At one point, do you think that a woman's needs from a man,
00:00:14.100 say, attention, intimacy, consistent for, like, 50 years?
00:00:17.060 You're talking about loyalty, right?
00:00:18.060 It's the worst thing to get cheated on.
00:00:19.580 Do you ever think there's limitations to that?
00:00:21.340 Do you ever think there's only so much time a man can give you
00:00:23.480 as full attention, time, love, intimacy,
00:00:26.080 and you expect him to be monogamous?
00:00:29.160 Do you think you're annoying sometimes, or that can fade sometimes?
00:00:33.760 I don't know if I can speak on my side.
00:00:35.420 Like, for example, like, my grandfather, he was,
00:00:38.740 because he's not here anymore,
00:00:40.280 and he was a really, really big man in Venezuela,
00:00:44.260 a really well-known one, and very important.
00:00:46.900 But, like, at the end of the day, he's been loyal at the front,
00:00:51.840 on paper, to my grandmother.
00:00:54.160 But then, like, at some point, when one of my uncles died,
00:00:57.000 he showed up to the funeral, saying, like,
00:01:00.500 oh, you know, guys, I've got, in total, 27 kids
00:01:03.300 from different women.
00:01:04.840 But he's always been, like, true to his kids.
00:01:07.640 Like, he's always been maintaining them.
00:01:09.220 He's never let them, like, being without anything.
00:01:13.300 Everyone has asked for something,
00:01:15.260 and he was there working hard on it and giving it.
00:01:18.080 Well, that is the old-style archetype
00:01:21.880 of the high-value man, isn't it?
00:01:23.080 Yeah.
00:01:23.380 I have a question.
00:01:25.700 Do you guys think that most men would cheat,
00:01:28.340 if given the chance?
00:01:29.380 So if, let's say, a very, very attractive,
00:01:32.080 like, Margot Robbie, is who I think of.
00:01:36.380 What's that other girl's name?
00:01:37.720 I can't think of her name.
00:01:38.860 But a Margot Robbie-level girl came up to him,
00:01:43.120 and said, I'll have sex with you right now, right here.
00:01:45.560 Most men would say yes.
00:01:46.780 Of course.
00:01:48.180 There's a bear shit in the woods.
00:01:49.840 Yeah.
00:01:50.360 Okay, wait, wait.
00:01:51.580 So is it better to accept men as they are,
00:01:54.660 or try to change them into what we want them to be?
00:01:57.120 You can't change a man.
00:01:58.400 He's going to be who he shows who he is.
00:02:00.680 But you guys, when we're having this conversation,
00:02:03.160 the way you're talking,
00:02:03.880 it's like you're trying to change how men are.
00:02:05.460 No, I feel like a man will change for you,
00:02:07.500 if he wants to change.
00:02:08.720 Because the man that was going to be able to change the man.
00:02:10.380 Wait, wait, can I say something to you?
00:02:11.820 Definitely.
00:02:12.080 I don't think a man will change,
00:02:13.320 but if he loves you,
00:02:14.340 he will be committed to you.
00:02:15.720 Exactly.
00:02:16.560 Your man has a problem that he's suffering with,
00:02:18.800 but he finds this girl,
00:02:20.560 he's going to think,
00:02:21.140 oh my gosh,
00:02:21.920 I need to change for this girl.
00:02:23.140 I want this girl in my life.
00:02:24.240 I'm going to change for her.
00:02:24.960 I'm going to stop that,
00:02:25.960 what I'm doing on this side,
00:02:27.180 and this is all I'm going to think about.
00:02:28.760 So everything that I do from now
00:02:30.120 is going to be for that girl.
00:02:31.480 And that is the dream that Disney sold us.
00:02:36.340 I'm a lover girl.
00:02:37.360 That's what, you know,
00:02:38.120 I'm a lover girl completely,
00:02:40.240 you know,
00:02:41.100 but call me naive,
00:02:42.960 but that's what I would like to think,
00:02:44.620 you know,
00:02:44.860 but the only thing women want
00:02:46.660 when it comes down to it,
00:02:47.660 the only thing we ask for
00:02:49.200 is just to be protected,
00:02:50.420 and that's it.
00:02:51.600 Nah.
00:02:52.300 Nah.
00:02:52.860 If you can't protect us,
00:02:54.300 and you can't provide,
00:02:56.620 and you can't...
00:02:56.700 On higher security.
00:02:58.200 Yeah,
00:02:58.640 add that emotional stability for us,
00:03:00.920 we're not bothered.
00:03:01.640 Protection from what though?
00:03:02.120 Protection from what?
00:03:03.340 I need to know that if I'm out,
00:03:06.460 you know,
00:03:06.820 and I come into a problem,
00:03:08.360 I know that it doesn't matter how I act,
00:03:10.520 because I know that I'm going to be safe,
00:03:12.000 because I've got my man there.
00:03:13.560 So I know that he's going to be able to solve
00:03:15.500 whatever situation happens with me.
00:03:18.060 I need to know that I can come home from work
00:03:19.620 for a bad day,
00:03:20.460 and say,
00:03:20.840 babe, listen,
00:03:22.180 and just reel it off,
00:03:23.260 and I can have that emotional stability with him.
00:03:25.300 Ah, of course she wants him to stay loyal.
00:03:27.340 She's still working.
00:03:31.920 You know...
00:03:32.880 The truth is you're capping,
00:03:34.100 and you've not run into it yet.
00:03:35.120 You're too young,
00:03:35.740 but in about 10 years,
00:03:36.780 she's going to be a ride or die
00:03:37.680 and help him get threesomes.
00:03:38.680 I'm telling you,
00:03:39.160 it's going to happen.
00:03:40.360 Maybe.
00:03:41.340 I'll be that as your life.
00:03:43.720 I tried to do it.
00:03:45.820 It didn't work.
00:03:46.420 I'm going to get one of these good ones.
00:03:48.600 They exist though.
00:03:49.780 Why are you acting like it's a fairy tale?
00:03:51.060 Yeah,
00:03:51.380 they do exist,
00:03:52.680 you know?
00:03:53.160 No,
00:03:53.420 okay.
00:03:54.080 Do they exist?
00:03:56.160 Fine.
00:03:56.860 Yes,
00:03:57.100 there's occasional men
00:03:58.180 that make a lot of money
00:03:59.740 and don't cheat.
00:04:00.700 But most of y'all
00:04:03.440 aren't going to get him.
00:04:05.640 Because they're gay.
00:04:07.000 Because they're from the game.
00:04:08.980 That's just the basic truth.
00:04:10.480 So,
00:04:10.840 for the average woman,
00:04:13.040 okay,
00:04:14.900 is it better to accept men
00:04:16.680 as they are
00:04:17.280 or change them
00:04:18.020 into what we want them to be?
00:04:19.540 Do you think,
00:04:20.340 just don't change them,
00:04:21.300 find your own?
00:04:22.520 No,
00:04:22.780 no,
00:04:22.920 but we remember,
00:04:23.480 we just established
00:04:24.640 the majority
00:04:25.660 will not end up
00:04:27.380 with these magical men
00:04:28.640 that make a lot of money,
00:04:30.100 have women chasing them
00:04:31.200 and then choose not to cheat.
00:04:32.440 Most women aren't going to end up
00:04:33.600 with a guy like that.
00:04:34.600 Okay,
00:04:34.940 Pearl,
00:04:35.160 let me ask you a question.
00:04:36.080 Do you think that
00:04:37.460 if you're deemed
00:04:38.940 more like
00:04:40.200 an attractive female,
00:04:42.220 you run into these problems more?
00:04:45.040 Do I think that attractive women
00:04:46.620 run into cheating more?
00:04:48.220 All these,
00:04:49.200 every problem
00:04:50.180 that we've just discussed,
00:04:51.000 do you think that would happen more
00:04:52.600 as for an attractive female
00:04:54.780 or as just someone
00:04:56.880 that's just stated,
00:04:57.640 yeah,
00:04:57.880 you know,
00:04:58.180 you bang average?
00:04:59.800 The reason I would guess
00:05:02.040 it happens to attractive women more
00:05:03.540 is because attractive women
00:05:04.640 get to deal with the types of men
00:05:06.640 that most women want more,
00:05:08.600 seriously,
00:05:09.340 where like,
00:05:10.180 the lower women,
00:05:11.780 like,
00:05:11.940 unless they have a really good personality,
00:05:13.720 like,
00:05:13.900 usually they're just side chicks.
00:05:14.820 Yeah,
00:05:14.980 no,
00:05:15.180 I agree with that.
00:05:15.840 Also,
00:05:16.340 that's really the problem
00:05:17.080 you're running into
00:05:17.700 is because you've not run into
00:05:18.860 a 1% man yet
00:05:19.760 because if Drake did that to you,
00:05:20.920 you would stay with Drake.
00:05:22.440 You might not like it,
00:05:23.480 and you'd hop up and down and scream,
00:05:24.700 especially if he was emotionally there for you
00:05:26.220 and y'all were like best friends
00:05:27.280 and like really,
00:05:28.500 really partners,
00:05:29.040 you wouldn't leave Drake.
00:05:29.820 Get the fuck out of here.
00:05:30.720 Nah,
00:05:31.040 you see me right?
00:05:32.080 That's different.
00:05:32.900 Nah,
00:05:33.040 because it's Drake.
00:05:34.360 Do you know what it is?
00:05:35.780 Nah.
00:05:35.960 The problem is
00:05:36.840 is that you're dating a bum
00:05:38.340 and you feel like the trade-off
00:05:40.040 is sexual exclusivity.
00:05:42.880 So when you find out
00:05:43.520 he's cheating on you,
00:05:44.440 that's the one thing
00:05:45.180 he was supposed to give up
00:05:46.160 for y'all's relationship
00:05:47.020 for you to be with him.
00:05:48.520 Nah.
00:05:48.720 Now you find out
00:05:49.400 his broke bum ass
00:05:50.380 is cheating on you
00:05:51.020 on top of that,
00:05:51.900 then you're fucking pissed.
00:05:53.960 Then you win.
00:05:54.640 If men want an untouchable woman,
00:05:57.980 you have to be untouchable yourself.
00:06:00.360 If not,
00:06:00.880 I don't want to hear it.
00:06:01.640 What do you mean?
00:06:02.340 Men want an untouchable woman?
00:06:03.900 Most women have been touched
00:06:04.840 by many men.
00:06:07.400 Many men.
00:06:08.980 Nah,
00:06:09.520 nah,
00:06:10.040 nah,
00:06:10.520 nah,
00:06:10.800 nah.
00:06:11.500 Yo,
00:06:12.040 men just want someone
00:06:12.880 that doesn't look touchable.
00:06:14.880 At least.
00:06:15.880 It's like,
00:06:16.280 fine,
00:06:16.580 I can deal with a past,
00:06:17.960 but don't look like
00:06:18.880 you have a past.
00:06:19.840 That's all I'm asking.
00:06:21.080 Why would you want that?
00:06:22.240 Why would you want to be
00:06:23.100 with a girl that you know
00:06:24.220 that's so everybody else
00:06:25.600 has been with?
00:06:25.720 Because they can hide it.
00:06:27.120 What?
00:06:27.580 Are you talking about
00:06:28.320 in the relationship,
00:06:29.620 she's got to be faithful
00:06:31.000 in the relationship to her?
00:06:32.080 Yeah.
00:06:32.380 Untouchable in that sense.
00:06:33.240 But like,
00:06:33.860 your past as well,
00:06:35.700 like,
00:06:36.100 I don't know,
00:06:36.600 that's just what I think.
00:06:37.980 Men don't want women
00:06:39.540 with a past.
00:06:40.900 I agree.
00:06:41.380 Agreed.
00:06:41.920 But women want men
00:06:42.760 with a past.
00:06:44.320 Disagreed.
00:06:44.880 Okay,
00:06:45.160 I have a question,
00:06:45.880 I have a question.
00:06:46.820 I don't think
00:06:47.560 it's that disagreed.
00:06:48.660 Would you date a virgin?
00:06:50.700 Would you date a virgin?
00:06:51.280 That's a question.
00:06:52.420 No.
00:06:52.940 Nah.
00:06:53.400 Why not?
00:06:54.160 Well,
00:06:54.340 why not?
00:06:54.680 But you said you...
00:06:55.940 No,
00:06:56.480 there's a difference
00:06:57.160 between a virgin
00:06:58.180 and an absolute man.
00:07:00.220 There's a difference.
00:07:01.860 There's like a reasonable
00:07:02.640 But if the man knows
00:07:03.400 that you don't want
00:07:03.900 a man whore,
00:07:04.380 he will just lie
00:07:05.020 about his body count.
00:07:06.000 Of course.
00:07:06.860 Yeah,
00:07:07.100 but let's be clear
00:07:07.900 about the guy
00:07:08.520 that's barely not a virgin.
00:07:10.780 It's not because
00:07:11.580 he doesn't want
00:07:12.340 to be a man whore.
00:07:13.340 It's because he cannot
00:07:14.220 achieve such status.
00:07:16.300 So why would you want to...
00:07:17.600 So you'd want to be with the guy
00:07:19.100 that could get other women
00:07:19.960 because women don't want
00:07:21.020 men that other women
00:07:21.900 don't want.
00:07:23.540 Yeah,
00:07:24.060 I agree.
00:07:24.360 So any guy that you deem
00:07:25.420 as high value,
00:07:26.400 whatever your criteria,
00:07:27.600 is necessarily going to be
00:07:29.060 a guy who has had a past,
00:07:30.460 who has had other women
00:07:31.500 because otherwise...
00:07:32.860 Hell of a past.
00:07:33.780 Exactly,
00:07:34.200 because otherwise his value
00:07:35.080 is not going to mean anything.
00:07:36.900 But as a woman,
00:07:37.740 you find that out
00:07:38.860 about the guy
00:07:39.460 you're interested in.
00:07:41.180 It changes nothing.
00:07:41.940 No,
00:07:42.740 the first thing
00:07:43.520 that will pop into
00:07:44.820 a woman's head
00:07:45.560 is,
00:07:46.280 so what's so special
00:07:47.160 about me then?
00:07:48.040 What's so special about me?
00:07:48.820 What, like the girls
00:07:49.440 who sleep with Leonardo DiCaprio?
00:07:51.420 Probably nothing.
00:07:52.420 They're silly.
00:07:53.300 They're all silly.
00:07:54.260 I don't stand with those girls
00:07:55.540 at all
00:07:55.940 because I think
00:07:56.340 they're all silly.
00:07:57.500 So when he's got
00:07:57.980 the headphones on,
00:07:58.560 he's listening to music
00:07:59.320 and she's riding him
00:08:00.220 and he's just like,
00:08:00.820 look at his watch.
00:08:02.080 This is what you said.
00:08:03.780 You said,
00:08:04.080 what's so special about me?
00:08:05.200 Most women aren't special.
00:08:07.620 Well,
00:08:08.000 that's down to your personal opinion.
00:08:09.500 No,
00:08:09.740 seriously,
00:08:10.680 what do women bring
00:08:11.640 in 2022
00:08:12.260 that is special?
00:08:13.560 Nothing.
00:08:13.920 Do most women
00:08:14.460 have a cookbook?
00:08:15.900 No.
00:08:16.460 Or do most women
00:08:17.500 really know
00:08:17.940 how to cater to a man?
00:08:19.120 No.
00:08:19.700 Are most women virgins
00:08:20.940 on their wedding day?
00:08:22.140 No.
00:08:22.680 So what do most women
00:08:24.040 bring in 2022?
00:08:25.420 As many of you know,
00:08:26.440 I was just banned
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