Modern Woman STRUGGLES To Understand This About Equality
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Summary
In this episode, we are joined by the founder of the women's movement, to talk about feminism and how it affects women in society and in society in general. We discuss the benefits of feminism, the dangers of feminism and why women should not need a man in order to have children.
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yeah well she was because this is this is the housewife i i was in it because i was genuinely
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curious like how much money you need because this is women we can't like add or do anything
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like so so i was curious like how much money do you really need to like um to have like kids at
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home and all that stuff and she she was saying like when she started um he was making 30k when
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we got married and now he makes triple that we lived a frugal homesteading lifestyle when the
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kids were young and it was actually really nice and peaceful so i don't know like i think a lot
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of times we think like we need to have a guy that like makes a ton of money in order to have a
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family i just don't think it's well i think part of that thinking is girls nowadays can go on a date
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with a guy who'll fly him to dubai and dispose them a week later so it's like girls are experiencing
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lives that they can't sign up for long term because they're investing in a man's present not in man's
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future and you know why women used to go to college before college now are 80 percent women i know you
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know but why did women used to go to college yeah okay my mom told me that she's like it's your mr
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your mrs degree your mrs degree yeah yeah but then i went to the school it was like all women
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yeah so right now right now universities are 80 female and the men's rates are dropping
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substantially but back in the day i mean this is something that we don't talk about now but i i
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knew about this growing up it's like women went to university to to find a man with a successful
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future that was it's like sounds offensive that's what they did so i have a question should a wife obey
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her husband point blank period yeah of course yes yeah yeah well it depends what you mean by okay
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depends what it is like what he says no no like what he says goes point blank as long as it's a
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respectable relationship then yeah i think a relationship should definitely be about
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complementarianism so in terms of like should a man and a woman be working together absolutely
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and i also want to say as well i really like what you said earlier regarding your business about
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how your business is very pro women and pro it's not telling women that you don't need a man it's
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saying that you should be having higher self-esteem and that's quite positive and i also yeah absolutely
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but yeah definitely women should i think a big problem as well with feminism is a lot of women have
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become very anti-men and a lot of women are not appreciating the things that men do in society
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this is a big problem you know a lot of you know men are doing most of the dangerous jobs
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they're really not being treated and being respected and that is a big thing as well i mean
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women are out there like i saw that ebony something i forgot that girl's name but there's a girl on
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national tv said she wouldn't date a bus driver and so it's like women women yeah but what what job
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is she doing what money does she have that she can make a statement like that she's i mean she's 39
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regardless i mean what money does she have oh she what has she got but this is so she she does she
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don't want a man with certain money so she's on tv but the problem is women like i know what money
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because anyone could be on tv what money has she got um i could she own anything like i'm sure she
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got more than him that she can say i don't want that guy i mean yeah i mean she has more money but my
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but the problem is men don't care about your money no but my point is a lot of women are saying they
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don't want a guy because he's got this hasn't got that but what these women that are saying that need
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to understand is what have you got to put on the table it's all good saying that you don't want
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a man because he's a bus driver but you know what is on this what have you got more than that man that
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you can actually that gives you the right to say i don't want to be that man because of what he's
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earning you know you know it's interesting like when you think about it she's 39 she has no kids
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the bus driver can still get a wife and have a bunch of kids got a man and kids yeah but that's my
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my whole point is like who's the bigger loser like she was stopping at him like she's 39 with
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no man and no kids because of her attitude yeah can i drop a bomb here i wouldn't want my daughter
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i have two daughters i have two sons two daughters i don't want my daughters marrying a bus driver
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there it is i said it yeah but why not about that like because i'll tell you why not but are you
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training your daughters to be on a standard and on a level that they can talk like that yes there you go
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hundred percent yes okay but do you hear my point i do yeah because how would you like it speaking to
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mic sorry how would you like it then like if there's a woman that's hot doing like what that
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comes and degrades you then and says i don't want a guy that's doing this or that yeah so do you get
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what i mean and she imagine she hasn't even got nothing look i understand i'm taking a contrarian
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position because like we could be like blah blah but no listen guys like i'll just say it right now i
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worked too damn hard my entire life to like to get my family out of poverty and like literally you know
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we immigrated like pearl knows from the ussr so i was living in social housing i grew up in social housing
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right like i grew up on like like legit food bank type lifestyle and i worked really really hard
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for like my kids to not experience that and obviously there's going to be some entitlement
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when i talk about it like there's some entitlement that comes from them because
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they have things other kids don't have right but that's what we but i worked i worked too damn hard
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to set my daughter up for a low standard and i know that's gonna like piss off some guys watching
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this but i work too damn hard they make like 80k in new york you know great 80k in new york is like
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poverty just hey listen i know it's guys whatever like okay hate on me i work my ass off i work my
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ass off so that um well first of all one of the benefits and again i'm going to talk to the guys
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watching what if he's what if he's young if he's like one one of the benefits of working your ass off
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is that you become more sagacious you become more wise you start to see patterns you start like
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it's not the it's not the building and making money and having the business that that is the ultimate
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cultivation of the thing you work for it's the person you become your views change your positions
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change your world view changes right and that world view you want to and it's like and if you
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actually follow it you know they say that wealth skips generations that's not true wealth actually
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tends to be fairly intergenerational and only a only a quarter of millionaires inherit their wealth
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there's more millionaires being made every day now than ever were nine percent of american adults
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about one in ten are millionaires you're going to not believe it but you're going to google it right
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now you're going to be like oh my god one out of nine american adults are millionaires so there's
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constant wealth being created right there's constant wealth being created um if my daughter is like hey
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i want to marry a buzz driver my thinking is i don't think my daughter is growing up in an
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environment where she's going to find a lot of like stimulation in that thought you know what i mean
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like my daughter like she sees me every day she sees what i'm doing every day she comes to my office
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sometimes and sees how people work and how things operate she asks questions that i would not have
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she's nine today she asked questions i would not have asked like she would ask me like she's like
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you know we went to dubai she's like daddy why did you put an office in dubai like specifically there
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and i had to explain to her like all this stuff and it's like one of those things where it's like she
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doesn't understand it but like she starts to pick up ideas right and and you can prove that you know like
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like i'll tell you guys how you can prove like that making yourself a better man makes your kids
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make better decisions very simple some of the smartest and that's why i do what i do some of
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the best business people i've ever met in my life were secretaries to ceos because the whole time
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they're spending their day around the ceo and so they're seeing like decisions and high level like
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i see that with pearl like you talk i'm like holy crap i think i asked him is your dad like a massive
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business owner like yeah you sold this company it no because you don't talk in a way that like 26 year
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olds talk like i'm like that stuff you know that stuff i wouldn't have known if i hadn't done it
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and my kids are going to see that they're going to make different decisions and like
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yeah you want to be nice and virtue signal be like yeah like go marry a bus driver it's like
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i work really really hard for my daughter to have higher standards and i think if she gets married
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young that's like a fair ask but it's like when you're 39 i'm looking for i'm looking for ambition
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like no but i'm saying like she the girl that said that was 39
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like so so so my father-in-law is a swiss trained heart surgeon like that's that's that's a lot of
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like that's a lot of drive and intelligence right and when he met me i was starting a freaking suit
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company and i asked him if i could marry his daughter right and he said yes and i think about
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that i'm like wow that's crazy because at the time i'm like i'm starting a suit company yuck you know
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he's just like and he's just like great like i'm a heart surgeon you know and he's like and i and i
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build hospitals for nato that's what he does uh yeah like he's me i run a suit company oh the
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same company it's called lgfg lgfg.com we're gonna we're gonna do a suit reveal soon
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suit not suit suit like like garments i'm wearing i'm wearing a leather i'm wearing a custom leather
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jacket i made let me tell you guys i made i made this i made this jacket for dan locke and then
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a very nice jacket it's got bruce lee and whiskey inside correct so i was starting a suit company
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and i don't so i don't know if he saw in me like a successful whatever but he saw ambition and drive
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and a serious commitment to achieving that goal if he drives a bus great but i'm gonna ask him like
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when are you planning on buying that bus company