JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman STRUGGLES To Understand This About Equality

00:00:00.000 yeah well she was because this is this is the housewife i i was in it because i was genuinely

00:00:04.000 curious like how much money you need because this is women we can't like add or do anything 1.00

00:00:08.480 like so so i was curious like how much money do you really need to like um to have like kids at

00:00:14.960 home and all that stuff and she she was saying like when she started um he was making 30k when

00:00:19.840 we got married and now he makes triple that we lived a frugal homesteading lifestyle when the

00:00:24.000 kids were young and it was actually really nice and peaceful so i don't know like i think a lot

00:00:29.120 of times we think like we need to have a guy that like makes a ton of money in order to have a

00:00:33.360 family i just don't think it's well i think part of that thinking is girls nowadays can go on a date

00:00:38.080 with a guy who'll fly him to dubai and dispose them a week later so it's like girls are experiencing 0.95

00:00:41.760 lives that they can't sign up for long term because they're investing in a man's present not in man's

00:00:45.680 future and you know why women used to go to college before college now are 80 percent women i know you 1.00

00:00:50.000 know but why did women used to go to college yeah okay my mom told me that she's like it's your mr 0.97

00:00:54.640 your mrs degree your mrs degree yeah yeah but then i went to the school it was like all women 1.00

00:01:00.320 yeah so right now right now universities are 80 female and the men's rates are dropping

00:01:05.360 substantially but back in the day i mean this is something that we don't talk about now but i i

00:01:08.960 knew about this growing up it's like women went to university to to find a man with a successful 1.00

00:01:13.360 future that was it's like sounds offensive that's what they did so i have a question should a wife obey 1.00

00:01:19.440 her husband point blank period yeah of course yes yeah yeah well it depends what you mean by okay

00:01:28.880 depends what it is like what he says no no like what he says goes point blank as long as it's a

00:01:34.960 respectable relationship then yeah i think a relationship should definitely be about

00:01:40.000 complementarianism so in terms of like should a man and a woman be working together absolutely

00:01:45.840 and i also want to say as well i really like what you said earlier regarding your business about

00:01:49.520 how your business is very pro women and pro it's not telling women that you don't need a man it's

00:01:54.080 saying that you should be having higher self-esteem and that's quite positive and i also yeah absolutely

00:02:00.720 but yeah definitely women should i think a big problem as well with feminism is a lot of women have 1.00

00:02:05.760 become very anti-men and a lot of women are not appreciating the things that men do in society

00:02:10.720 this is a big problem you know a lot of you know men are doing most of the dangerous jobs 1.00

00:02:15.040 they're really not being treated and being respected and that is a big thing as well i mean

00:02:20.480 women are out there like i saw that ebony something i forgot that girl's name but there's a girl on 1.00

00:02:25.120 national tv said she wouldn't date a bus driver and so it's like women women yeah but what what job 1.00

00:02:30.560 is she doing what money does she have that she can make a statement like that she's i mean she's 39

00:02:35.760 regardless i mean what money does she have oh she what has she got but this is so she she does she

00:02:42.000 don't want a man with certain money so she's on tv but the problem is women like i know what money 1.00

00:02:47.360 because anyone could be on tv what money has she got um i could she own anything like i'm sure she 1.00

00:02:53.840 got more than him that she can say i don't want that guy i mean yeah i mean she has more money but my 0.91

00:02:58.800 but the problem is men don't care about your money no but my point is a lot of women are saying they 0.97

00:03:03.680 don't want a guy because he's got this hasn't got that but what these women that are saying that need 1.00

00:03:08.400 to understand is what have you got to put on the table it's all good saying that you don't want

00:03:13.280 a man because he's a bus driver but you know what is on this what have you got more than that man that

00:03:20.240 you can actually that gives you the right to say i don't want to be that man because of what he's

00:03:24.000 earning you know you know it's interesting like when you think about it she's 39 she has no kids

00:03:28.720 the bus driver can still get a wife and have a bunch of kids got a man and kids yeah but that's my 1.00

00:03:34.000 my whole point is like who's the bigger loser like she was stopping at him like she's 39 with 0.74

00:03:38.240 no man and no kids because of her attitude yeah can i drop a bomb here i wouldn't want my daughter 1.00

00:03:42.880 i have two daughters i have two sons two daughters i don't want my daughters marrying a bus driver 0.53

00:03:46.800 there it is i said it yeah but why not about that like because i'll tell you why not but are you

00:03:52.560 training your daughters to be on a standard and on a level that they can talk like that yes there you go

00:03:58.160 hundred percent yes okay but do you hear my point i do yeah because how would you like it speaking to

00:04:02.800 mic sorry how would you like it then like if there's a woman that's hot doing like what that 1.00

00:04:08.720 comes and degrades you then and says i don't want a guy that's doing this or that yeah so do you get

00:04:13.440 what i mean and she imagine she hasn't even got nothing look i understand i'm taking a contrarian

00:04:17.840 position because like we could be like blah blah but no listen guys like i'll just say it right now i

00:04:21.600 worked too damn hard my entire life to like to get my family out of poverty and like literally you know

00:04:27.760 we immigrated like pearl knows from the ussr so i was living in social housing i grew up in social housing

00:04:32.080 right like i grew up on like like legit food bank type lifestyle and i worked really really hard

00:04:39.280 for like my kids to not experience that and obviously there's going to be some entitlement

00:04:43.440 when i talk about it like there's some entitlement that comes from them because

00:04:46.640 they have things other kids don't have right but that's what we but i worked i worked too damn hard 0.52

00:04:52.720 to set my daughter up for a low standard and i know that's gonna like piss off some guys watching 0.60

00:04:57.200 this but i work too damn hard they make like 80k in new york you know great 80k in new york is like 0.57

00:05:04.160 poverty just hey listen i know it's guys whatever like okay hate on me i work my ass off i work my 0.90

00:05:13.280 ass off so that um well first of all one of the benefits and again i'm going to talk to the guys

00:05:18.960 watching what if he's what if he's young if he's like one one of the benefits of working your ass off 0.67

00:05:23.120 is that you become more sagacious you become more wise you start to see patterns you start like

00:05:27.360 it's not the it's not the building and making money and having the business that that is the ultimate

00:05:33.840 cultivation of the thing you work for it's the person you become your views change your positions

00:05:38.000 change your world view changes right and that world view you want to and it's like and if you

00:05:42.960 actually follow it you know they say that wealth skips generations that's not true wealth actually

00:05:46.400 tends to be fairly intergenerational and only a only a quarter of millionaires inherit their wealth

00:05:50.960 there's more millionaires being made every day now than ever were nine percent of american adults

00:05:54.880 about one in ten are millionaires you're going to not believe it but you're going to google it right

00:05:58.320 now you're going to be like oh my god one out of nine american adults are millionaires so there's

00:06:01.680 constant wealth being created right there's constant wealth being created um if my daughter is like hey 0.54

00:06:07.840 i want to marry a buzz driver my thinking is i don't think my daughter is growing up in an

00:06:11.520 environment where she's going to find a lot of like stimulation in that thought you know what i mean

00:06:15.920 like my daughter like she sees me every day she sees what i'm doing every day she comes to my office

00:06:22.560 sometimes and sees how people work and how things operate she asks questions that i would not have

00:06:27.200 she's nine today she asked questions i would not have asked like she would ask me like she's like

00:06:32.480 you know we went to dubai she's like daddy why did you put an office in dubai like specifically there

00:06:36.560 and i had to explain to her like all this stuff and it's like one of those things where it's like she

00:06:40.240 doesn't understand it but like she starts to pick up ideas right and and you can prove that you know like

00:06:44.800 like i'll tell you guys how you can prove like that making yourself a better man makes your kids

00:06:48.800 make better decisions very simple some of the smartest and that's why i do what i do some of

00:06:54.400 the best business people i've ever met in my life were secretaries to ceos because the whole time

00:07:00.480 they're spending their day around the ceo and so they're seeing like decisions and high level like

00:07:04.880 i see that with pearl like you talk i'm like holy crap i think i asked him is your dad like a massive 0.55

00:07:09.280 business owner like yeah you sold this company it no because you don't talk in a way that like 26 year

00:07:13.920 olds talk like i'm like that stuff you know that stuff i wouldn't have known if i hadn't done it

00:07:18.800 and my kids are going to see that they're going to make different decisions and like

00:07:21.920 yeah you want to be nice and virtue signal be like yeah like go marry a bus driver it's like

00:07:26.400 i work really really hard for my daughter to have higher standards and i think if she gets married

00:07:30.480 young that's like a fair ask but it's like when you're 39 i'm looking for i'm looking for ambition

00:07:35.520 like no but i'm saying like she the girl that said that was 39

00:07:38.480 like so so so my father-in-law is a swiss trained heart surgeon like that's that's that's a lot of

00:07:45.920 like that's a lot of drive and intelligence right and when he met me i was starting a freaking suit

00:07:51.520 company and i asked him if i could marry his daughter right and he said yes and i think about

00:07:58.640 that i'm like wow that's crazy because at the time i'm like i'm starting a suit company yuck you know

00:08:02.080 he's just like and he's just like great like i'm a heart surgeon you know and he's like and i and i

00:08:08.000 build hospitals for nato that's what he does uh yeah like he's me i run a suit company oh the

00:08:14.960 same company it's called lgfg lgfg.com we're gonna we're gonna do a suit reveal soon

00:08:22.560 suit not suit suit like like garments i'm wearing i'm wearing a leather i'm wearing a custom leather

00:08:28.320 jacket i made let me tell you guys i made i made this i made this jacket for dan locke and then

00:08:32.800 a very nice jacket it's got bruce lee and whiskey inside correct so i was starting a suit company

00:08:37.360 and i don't so i don't know if he saw in me like a successful whatever but he saw ambition and drive

00:08:43.040 and a serious commitment to achieving that goal if he drives a bus great but i'm gonna ask him like

00:08:48.080 when are you planning on buying that bus company

JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023

Modern Woman STRUGGLES To Understand This About Equality

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