Modern Woman TRIES To Dodge This Question...
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Summary
In this episode we discuss ideal men, women's ideal men and why women should not have to pay for dates. We also discuss the recent scandal involving Andrew Tate and his controversial opinions and what we should do about it.
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guys what is your ideal man my ideal man is someone who actually cares about me who doesn't
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you know just want one thing and you know generally speaking as much as personality
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is very important i like someone who's funny and all the generic things but we can't look
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aside looks you know i think it's also important to have someone that you're attracted to because
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i feel like it's quite selfish if someone's good looking but i mean someone's um got a great
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personality but you don't find them attractive i think you're kind of robbing them of someone
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who can give them a full thing so i do think it's the full package really how how tall oh i look at
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like six foot over six foot plus would be ideal how how much money listen somebody does need to
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be stable especially i think it's so important when you date that you need to be financially stable
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because you know if you think about future plans and things like that like roughly like roughly how
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much do you have to make i mean listen 40 40 40 40 000 pounds 30 000 pounds 20 000 whatever can
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he can pay for himself and also treat me and i will do the same i want to be in the position where i can
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do the same reciprocation i mean so yeah 50 50 at least what's your ideal man ideal mom someone that's
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family orientated definitely has their own money definitely tall uh good morals definitely why can
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i not think yeah and on the spot i'm like it's okay it's okay i know so what do you what do you guys
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offer your ideal man what do we offer yes listen i am the brass so no i do that's what i said about
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reciprocation i would want to do the same i'm the kind of person that when i do have a man
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100 percent unlike babe i booked for the flight to dubai i booked for you cooking you cleaning
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pardon are you cooking it's just generic though i feel like that but he should do that themselves
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yeah because in a household when we have children you can you can say women should be able to pay
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for dates like you could eventually yeah yeah i definitely think so but i do think first date
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i think it's just yeah you're interested exactly so i don't i do think first date should always
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yeah if i'm honest have you heard women say like i accepted the bare minimum
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i have been a woman that accepted the bare minimum what what is the bare minimum things that you
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that a guy should do like without you having to ask like his company to me because for example i've
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been i'm unfortunately why am i outing myself like this but i've kind of spoken to guys who we've never
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even went on a date ever like i'm talking i'm not saying dates require extra money but we didn't
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even go out that is bare minimum his company is not enough that's bare minimum because my company is
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bare minimum i need to do more than that as well so what do you guys think of andrew tate it's one
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of those things where people you know people want to gain attention yeah and i feel like people would
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do anything to gain publicity and attention right now so i thought controversial opinions making
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more popular i think that's what i think that's what he's kind of doing do you think he should
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have been banned off of all social media no freedom of speech he's got his own opinion he says what
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he says that's it it's up to you if you want to partake or you don't yeah yeah i don't think like
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his ideas should be something that is um that is encouraged between younger people but again we are
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a country that you know we all believe in freedom of speech and all of that so should his rights to
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be able to share what he thinks have been stopped i don't think so but should his ideas and what he's
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saying be shared with a bit more information or like with people being able to counter back giving
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more information because i don't think the answer to someone's controversy is by shutting them up
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that doesn't stop anything do you think it's because he's misogynistic that they took him down
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yeah i think i think so would you say by that token that we should ban the women that say men ain't
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shit and men are trash because that that's discriminating against a whole group of men um i have no
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idea i suppose if there's enough hype about something then that's you know there's power
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in in volume so if you make a big enough scene about it he gets removed isn't it weird how it's
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like only when they criticize women but like when they criticize men no one cares it's not that no one
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cares i just think you gotta pick your battles we know what we're fighting for we just gotta continue
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doing what we're doing as women personally you have to think of it as um you can't be sexist towards
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men because the the way our what's it called the way the world works is basically to benefit men so
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it's like in my opinion if it doesn't tick the four eyes interpersonal um institutional i forgot the
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rest of the two but if it's a thing where in general men aren't i don't know man if men aren't
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like in general men aren't discriminated against so it wouldn't really make sense to be like oh we should
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ban the women in my opinion andrew tick kind of did what he did it took a bit too far and the video that
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came out with him abused a woman was like yeah like he's got it was a sex play she came out and
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said it was like a sex play but so my question is like if men are discriminated against why uh why do
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they have higher suicide rates why do they get three times the amount of sentencing for the same crime
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why why are they why are they often paid less for the same job in different cities when you take in
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the account like hours worked in the industries they pay i think that there isn't there is an answer to
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the question you're asking but i i'm currently like i've forgotten the answer to it but of course
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there's like what when when i mean personally i do believe you can discriminate against men and women
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but i also believe that there are there are different things impact um different genders
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a different amount like women have been fighting for their rights for decades and men have had these
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rights why why are these things and these are institutions and things that were set up by men
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and to some extent are still run by men so the pay the pay gaps the pay the pay for these jobs who set
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the pay yeah the people who are you know trying to promote um help for people with mental health
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issues and things like that who are in charge of all these policies it's still the men so if there is
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an issue with what's going on with men and men are still in positions of power why aren't they also
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helping men and women in the situations well a lot of our societies actually run for women
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because 70 to 80 80 of consumer buying decisions are made by women so so it's like our whole media
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is tailored towards us maybe our media might be tailored towards women but again these are things
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we're talking about positions of power we're talking about things to do of importance with laws
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with all these these things are still controlled by men so you know sure the media is um tailors to
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women and going to the shops you know it might be advertised more to cater to women because that's
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their target audience that's those are the people who are might use using a service more but if you're
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going to bring up things like oh there's less people um the people who like sorry what did you
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say something about men um getting less pay in certain certain jobs as well that's something that's
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something that are set that's that's been set by men so speak to the men and ask them why they're
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setting those standards for other men and instead of like asking women why why should should we go ahead and
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like well i'm saying shouldn't we be fighting for equality all around yeah that's what i'm sorry
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but do you do you know what i'm saying like like shouldn't we be fighting for men too like
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you should be fighting for equity not equality okay the thing is men or women in my opinion are
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different by nature i agree yeah and the needs that we want needs that men want and the needs that women
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need are totally different so rather than fighting to be like men and compete with men we should be
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fighting for an an environment that protects women and has certain needs that tailors to women let's
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say a man is working the same job as a as a woman but that woman is a mother of like let's say two
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children but that man it doesn't have any children of course you want them to be paid the same however
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there needs to be certain things like certain support in a workplace to support that woman because she
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has more people to look after that money doesn't necessarily go only for her the man because he doesn't
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have any children or anyone to look after that money goes for him his future whatever but the
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woman has to share that with the children and the household what goes for her you know i'm trying to
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say like that doesn't make sense because men have kids too i'm saying and i never said men can't have
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kids i said for example let's say the man didn't have children and the woman did we want obviously equal
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pay however there needs to be certain things in place in the workplace to support the woman who has
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children it may not be free money but it could be through i don't know discounts and certain things
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because she has that money doesn't go to her only it goes through the children so she actually doesn't
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enjoy much of the income she makes because she has to make sacrifices for her family you know i'm trying