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00:00:00.080 guys what is your ideal man my ideal man is someone who actually cares about me who doesn't

00:00:06.880 you know just want one thing and you know generally speaking as much as personality

00:00:12.400 is very important i like someone who's funny and all the generic things but we can't look

00:00:16.320 aside looks you know i think it's also important to have someone that you're attracted to because

00:00:21.120 i feel like it's quite selfish if someone's good looking but i mean someone's um got a great

00:00:25.920 personality but you don't find them attractive i think you're kind of robbing them of someone

00:00:29.040 who can give them a full thing so i do think it's the full package really how how tall oh i look at

00:00:35.680 like six foot over six foot plus would be ideal how how much money listen somebody does need to

00:00:42.960 be stable especially i think it's so important when you date that you need to be financially stable

00:00:47.280 because you know if you think about future plans and things like that like roughly like roughly how

00:00:52.240 much do you have to make i mean listen 40 40 40 40 000 pounds 30 000 pounds 20 000 whatever can

00:01:00.880 he can pay for himself and also treat me and i will do the same i want to be in the position where i can

00:01:05.200 do the same reciprocation i mean so yeah 50 50 at least what's your ideal man ideal mom someone that's

00:01:12.800 family orientated definitely has their own money definitely tall uh good morals definitely why can

00:01:21.200 i not think yeah and on the spot i'm like it's okay it's okay i know so what do you what do you guys

00:01:26.800 offer your ideal man what do we offer yes listen i am the brass so no i do that's what i said about

00:01:34.640 reciprocation i would want to do the same i'm the kind of person that when i do have a man

00:01:39.280 100 percent unlike babe i booked for the flight to dubai i booked for you cooking you cleaning

00:01:44.560 pardon are you cooking it's just generic though i feel like that but he should do that themselves

00:01:50.080 yeah because in a household when we have children you can you can say women should be able to pay 1.00

00:01:53.840 for dates like you could eventually yeah yeah i definitely think so but i do think first date

00:01:59.920 i think it's just yeah you're interested exactly so i don't i do think first date should always

00:02:06.640 yeah if i'm honest have you heard women say like i accepted the bare minimum

00:02:12.960 i have been a woman that accepted the bare minimum what what is the bare minimum things that you

00:02:18.560 that a guy should do like without you having to ask like his company to me because for example i've

00:02:24.160 been i'm unfortunately why am i outing myself like this but i've kind of spoken to guys who we've never

00:02:30.560 even went on a date ever like i'm talking i'm not saying dates require extra money but we didn't

00:02:35.120 even go out that is bare minimum his company is not enough that's bare minimum because my company is

00:02:41.200 bare minimum i need to do more than that as well so what do you guys think of andrew tate it's one

00:02:45.280 of those things where people you know people want to gain attention yeah and i feel like people would

00:02:50.400 do anything to gain publicity and attention right now so i thought controversial opinions making

00:02:56.000 more popular i think that's what i think that's what he's kind of doing do you think he should

00:03:00.480 have been banned off of all social media no freedom of speech he's got his own opinion he says what

00:03:05.680 he says that's it it's up to you if you want to partake or you don't yeah yeah i don't think like

00:03:11.360 his ideas should be something that is um that is encouraged between younger people but again we are

00:03:17.120 a country that you know we all believe in freedom of speech and all of that so should his rights to

00:03:22.320 be able to share what he thinks have been stopped i don't think so but should his ideas and what he's

00:03:27.840 saying be shared with a bit more information or like with people being able to counter back giving

00:03:32.960 more information because i don't think the answer to someone's controversy is by shutting them up

00:03:37.680 that doesn't stop anything do you think it's because he's misogynistic that they took him down

00:03:42.000 yeah i think i think so would you say by that token that we should ban the women that say men ain't 0.99

00:03:46.720 shit and men are trash because that that's discriminating against a whole group of men um i have no 0.99

00:03:51.840 idea i suppose if there's enough hype about something then that's you know there's power 1.00

00:03:56.400 in in volume so if you make a big enough scene about it he gets removed isn't it weird how it's

00:04:02.480 like only when they criticize women but like when they criticize men no one cares it's not that no one

00:04:07.200 cares i just think you gotta pick your battles we know what we're fighting for we just gotta continue

00:04:11.440 doing what we're doing as women personally you have to think of it as um you can't be sexist towards

00:04:17.520 men because the the way our what's it called the way the world works is basically to benefit men so

00:04:24.320 it's like in my opinion if it doesn't tick the four eyes interpersonal um institutional i forgot the

00:04:31.520 rest of the two but if it's a thing where in general men aren't i don't know man if men aren't

00:04:36.960 like in general men aren't discriminated against so it wouldn't really make sense to be like oh we should

00:04:41.040 ban the women in my opinion andrew tick kind of did what he did it took a bit too far and the video that

00:04:46.480 came out with him abused a woman was like yeah like he's got it was a sex play she came out and 1.00

00:04:51.680 said it was like a sex play but so my question is like if men are discriminated against why uh why do

00:04:58.000 they have higher suicide rates why do they get three times the amount of sentencing for the same crime

00:05:02.240 why why are they why are they often paid less for the same job in different cities when you take in

00:05:07.120 the account like hours worked in the industries they pay i think that there isn't there is an answer to

00:05:11.680 the question you're asking but i i'm currently like i've forgotten the answer to it but of course

00:05:17.760 there's like what when when i mean personally i do believe you can discriminate against men and women

00:05:23.760 but i also believe that there are there are different things impact um different genders 1.00

00:05:30.640 a different amount like women have been fighting for their rights for decades and men have had these

00:05:37.920 rights why why are these things and these are institutions and things that were set up by men

00:05:42.480 and to some extent are still run by men so the pay the pay gaps the pay the pay for these jobs who set

00:05:48.560 the pay yeah the people who are you know trying to promote um help for people with mental health

00:05:54.160 issues and things like that who are in charge of all these policies it's still the men so if there is

00:05:58.720 an issue with what's going on with men and men are still in positions of power why aren't they also

00:06:04.000 helping men and women in the situations well a lot of our societies actually run for women

00:06:09.280 because 70 to 80 80 of consumer buying decisions are made by women so so it's like our whole media

00:06:14.560 is tailored towards us maybe our media might be tailored towards women but again these are things 0.68

00:06:19.600 we're talking about positions of power we're talking about things to do of importance with laws

00:06:24.560 with all these these things are still controlled by men so you know sure the media is um tailors to

00:06:30.800 women and going to the shops you know it might be advertised more to cater to women because that's 1.00

00:06:35.120 their target audience that's those are the people who are might use using a service more but if you're

00:06:39.680 going to bring up things like oh there's less people um the people who like sorry what did you

00:06:44.080 say something about men um getting less pay in certain certain jobs as well that's something that's

00:06:48.800 something that are set that's that's been set by men so speak to the men and ask them why they're

00:06:53.360 setting those standards for other men and instead of like asking women why why should should we go ahead and 0.75

00:06:59.920 like well i'm saying shouldn't we be fighting for equality all around yeah that's what i'm sorry

00:07:05.280 but do you do you know what i'm saying like like shouldn't we be fighting for men too like

00:07:08.560 you should be fighting for equity not equality okay the thing is men or women in my opinion are

00:07:14.320 different by nature i agree yeah and the needs that we want needs that men want and the needs that women

00:07:20.080 need are totally different so rather than fighting to be like men and compete with men we should be

00:07:25.120 fighting for an an environment that protects women and has certain needs that tailors to women let's

00:07:32.240 say a man is working the same job as a as a woman but that woman is a mother of like let's say two 1.00

00:07:37.360 children but that man it doesn't have any children of course you want them to be paid the same however

00:07:43.600 there needs to be certain things like certain support in a workplace to support that woman because she 1.00

00:07:48.000 has more people to look after that money doesn't necessarily go only for her the man because he doesn't 0.98

00:07:52.720 have any children or anyone to look after that money goes for him his future whatever but the

00:07:57.600 woman has to share that with the children and the household what goes for her you know i'm trying to

00:08:02.000 say like that doesn't make sense because men have kids too i'm saying and i never said men can't have

00:08:07.840 kids i said for example let's say the man didn't have children and the woman did we want obviously equal

00:08:13.920 pay however there needs to be certain things in place in the workplace to support the woman who has

00:08:19.120 children it may not be free money but it could be through i don't know discounts and certain things

00:08:24.880 because she has that money doesn't go to her only it goes through the children so she actually doesn't 0.95

00:08:29.600 enjoy much of the income she makes because she has to make sacrifices for her family you know i'm trying

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JustPearlyThings - August 07, 2023

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