JustPearlyThings - October 24, 2023


Modern Women Ain't Getting Married ANYMORE

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Obese Man Keeps Interrupting Pearl Based Psychologist DESTROYS Body Positivity

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33 minutes

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6,246

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Misogyny

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Toxicity

29

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In this episode, I speak to my good friend, about how she has built a family with her husband, a man she has been in a relationship with for 19 years. We talk about what it was like growing up in a broken family and how she was able to build a family. We also talk about the challenges that women go through in relationships and how to overcome them.

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00:00:00.000 women go for attention now there was a video that came up I did cover it on 1.00
00:00:05.100 Pearl daily this week that got me thinking about this and I'm gonna get to
00:00:08.940 that but first I want to know what is the furthest you ladies have gone to get 1.00
00:00:14.380 the attention of a guy yeah have you ever like pursued a guy like really
00:00:21.760 liked him I actually prefer a guy to pursue me but if I have to see the guy
00:00:27.560 I've actually gone into a club and approached a guy in front of my friends
00:00:33.920 okay yeah I mean that's kind of the furthest I think I've gone in terms of
00:00:38.240 pursuing a guy okay I like to be pursued okay have you ever like gone somewhere
00:00:43.520 because you knew a guy you liked was gonna be there okay okay okay so yeah so that's
00:00:49.460 what I'm wondering like it when you actually liked a guy maybe talk to him
00:00:52.640 a bit was there did you ever like sim have you ever simped really hard for a
00:00:56.300 guy of course women aren't gonna admit that though are they I'm gonna admit I have yes yeah I mean who has it 1.00
00:01:03.440 come on yeah it's all right it's all right but we like to play it cool right we like to
00:01:07.940 ladies like to even though half the time we'd be the ones chasing we like to be 1.00
00:01:12.420 chased you know okay do you do you think we actually like to be chased if we
00:01:17.000 always seem to pick the ones that don't pick us yeah that's the thing I feel
00:01:20.540 like we always just naturally go for the ones that are just hard to get like and we
00:01:25.880 know that they're players and out of our league what about that but yeah I mean if
00:01:31.640 they were in our league they would like us right and and then you wouldn't and
00:01:36.020 then you wouldn't like them yeah exactly it's that yeah it's a cruel world it is
00:01:39.680 terrible okay so um but what did what did you do for the guy like how did you simp I mean this
00:01:47.900 was I mean I'm talking years back I was like in a club and I actually ended up marrying the guy
00:01:57.740 believe it or not oh well so yeah I was in the club and um those in those days it wasn't like it
00:02:04.700 wasn't normal for girls to really got to guys but I was kind of like drunk and I was like I'm going
00:02:09.560 for this guy and I grabbed him like like how the guy grabs a girl that is so brave yeah and that was in
00:02:16.100 front of his friends my friends and then you guys got married married like years years how how how long
00:02:22.160 were you married are you still married no no we're divorced how how long were you together 19 years
00:02:29.000 what happened what happened life what do you mean life I don't know um we were young very young I
00:02:38.420 never okay I never we grew up I never understand when women like say this like okay because it's 1.00
00:02:43.820 like you're young and then you're old like what what switched I think when you're young you have
00:02:49.220 different expectations you view life different you like different things then you grow older you
00:02:56.240 grow into yourself you start to know yourself okay um and sometimes you realize that it's more
00:03:03.140 headache than what it's worth okay so see I still I still don't understand what this means and it's
00:03:09.860 not just you I've had so many girls say the same thing to me on the show and I just genuinely like
00:03:15.200 like he got into different hobbies like what are the things like what you don't want to say are you
00:03:33.680 nervous yeah I'm gonna say I don't want to say because it's like yeah you know you don't want
00:03:39.380 to embarrass him that's fair you know yeah you're still here are you a healer
00:03:44.780 are you healing healed you're healed okay what steps did you take to heal um I think I kind of
00:03:52.640 just put myself first and just went for my dreams and done the things that I should have been doing
00:03:59.180 when I was younger okay I have a question because this this doesn't compute to me when it's like I put
00:04:05.020 myself first yeah how how does that help like build families because isn't it in a family we should put
00:04:10.960 the family yeah the family first I mean when I say first I do have two children right they always come
00:04:16.900 first okay so you put yourself second I know actually I put myself God first my children okay and then yeah
00:04:23.380 so um I think it's in terms of just knowing myself growing into myself knowing what I like and what I don't
00:04:30.820 like and being confident because I wasn't confident when I was younger okay yes I wasn't really confident
00:04:36.760 and I didn't really know myself much okay didn't have a lot of um uh what's the word focus and didn't
00:04:47.680 have a had ambition but didn't know what I wanted to do okay you know so I just thought the way forward
00:04:53.260 is to get married had kids and that was it and I was like this can't be just life just getting
00:04:58.000 married and having kids this just can't be it just sounds like you had it made you were I mean I
00:05:03.220 still have it made yeah I always will it's it's it's living and learning so it's going for experiences
00:05:08.380 and learning yourself learning life and I don't regret nothing like I don't regret having kids I don't
00:05:13.300 regret getting married okay yeah I'll do it again okay good good glad all right hardest you've
00:05:19.960 simped for a guy and did it did it and did marriage she got it she got 19 years out of that
00:05:25.300 that's a lot of me to be fair can you one-up that or no I actually can't it kind of gets my age now
00:05:33.220 right um I think the most that I did it's so embarrassing but it's actually something I
00:05:41.680 actually need to speak about so I think the most that I did was I really liked this guy who was so
00:05:46.600 sweet I made a private snapchat for him showing the good sides of me because he wowed me like we
00:05:52.900 had a day he really wowed me like it was so nice and then I made him a private snapchat and he didn't
00:05:59.920 view it or anything so I just ended up self-sabotaging the whole thing I just self-sabotaged the whole
00:06:05.080 thing because I was just like there's just no point of me putting myself out there making a private
00:06:11.020 snapchat for you and were you sending him like like like pictures like that oh yes I was even
00:06:17.500 sending pictures of me and my cat and everything because he said he liked my cat so okay okay so so
00:06:26.920 you made him a snapchat to like view your stories yeah he didn't watch any of it and then I kind of just
00:06:33.420 clapped that basically he was just playing me like it was kind of sad to be fair okay um so the hardest
00:06:41.340 you've simped is made a snapchat yeah okay so we got approaching him in a club and making a snapchat
00:06:49.260 all right now I want to hear the men what's the hardest you've simped for a woman um I made like a whole plan to get
00:06:56.300 someone back once oh yeah I wrote like a whole note and it was like week by week um but that's 0.99
00:07:04.620 why um I don't really with women right now because you lot suck so so what do you with you 1.00
00:07:11.260 you lot just suck you lot are heartbreakers why do we why do we suck that's a good question 1.00
00:07:17.500 is it because we keep driving 1.00
00:07:21.820 or voting I think that's the one I think you just stop um no it's just like the the more you give to
00:07:28.940 a woman um the less they want you so yeah um I just do the opposite now and it kind of works okay 1.00
00:07:36.540 disagree very disagree you would say that disagree no you would say that but why would you you lot don't
00:07:43.180 get the psychology because you're you're the woman but why would you think you're you're you're in the uh
00:07:48.780 you're in the vehicle why would you why would you think it's not a good idea to actually share your
00:07:54.300 shed share share that stuff because because then women automatically think that 1.00
00:08:00.540 you you're too emotional and you're not a man and that's not attractive to women it is it is
00:08:06.460 attractive stop lying I don't like I like I like a man I like I said I like a man that's gonna send 0.82
00:08:13.500 flowers you know okay you don't get such a ick that's that's you that's it girls like you 1.00
00:08:19.020 put it might be subconscious but is this is this true or false women always like the men that don't
00:08:24.620 like them back yeah that's kind of true that's kind of true thank you but then when they find the
00:08:32.620 I think it's like more of a challenge like in life you kind of want challenges right yeah so when
00:08:36.700 you do get the guy that you like and you've challenged yourself and you he eventually takes
00:08:40.860 note of you then it's like you kind of then want him to soften up so you want to see right can i push
00:08:47.500 yeah and then you like leave a little bit this is the problem this is why nothing lasts anymore
00:08:54.140 well i think we're looking for balance there's no balance you guys are both single so you left
00:08:58.860 every guy you've been with so these emotionally available guys where are they yeah that's true
00:09:07.740 they got the ick and left that was it i grew up i learned i learned i learned the hard way i mean when
00:09:13.340 i was when i was younger yeah i wanted you know a bit of edge but now i like i want soft life baby do you
00:09:19.260 know what the problem is instagram and social medias there's too many options out there for people
00:09:23.820 i feel like it's a lot of room to be deceived going on like a lot of deception is going on
00:09:30.140 especially when it comes to social media yeah but you have too many options so you're like oh don't
00:09:35.580 worry if that don't work out this next one but that's why girls get the ick so quick but don't you 1.00
00:09:40.220 no me don't you have a lot of options me listen i'm just focusing on me at the moment i can admit i'm
00:09:45.660 confused well most men don't have a lot of options one out of three men are either virgins or
00:09:50.700 haven't had sex in the past year really wow yeah i'm gonna i actually i'm gonna get to you but i
00:09:55.900 kind of want to show you guys something you're going to get to the virgin okay 0.99
00:10:02.300 okay so we got all right we're going to get the women oh my god 1.00
00:10:12.700 all right so would you guys agree that you want someone in general that makes more money than you
00:10:39.580 in general of course yeah okay would you agree that you want someone taller than you yeah absolutely
00:10:44.380 okay would you agree that you want someone smarter than you yeah yeah in general okay so now the
00:10:50.220 problem is we all do so here's here's the dating market so this is going to be the lines are going 0.99
00:10:56.620 to be sex because we're not getting married anymore so this is just sex so you know they have sex they 0.99
00:11:03.500 have sex 0.99
00:11:10.380 so this is this is the dating market because women date across and up hierarchies because we want 1.00
00:11:16.140 someone taller stronger so basically we're just all screwing these guys yeah and these guys are virgins 0.87
00:11:24.620 so it used to be well they might get lucky sometimes they might get lucky they're there 0.98
00:11:32.220 yeah they might pick like this like this chick might be like all right fine but he'll get her like 1.00
00:11:38.140 once and then she's done she's like i'm going back i'm going back because women it's so funny we
00:11:43.740 would rather share um we would rather be the king's concubine rather than the peasant's wife throughout all of
00:11:50.220 time yeah if if a stronger guy came in and we're like trot we're like in a tribe we're all together
00:11:56.380 and then you know um my bouncer comes in and kills these guys then boom now we belong to the bouncer you
00:12:01.820 see what i mean yeah so yeah yeah because basically like if a guy if a guy like bigger stronger
00:12:09.660 richer whatever came in you you just you were forced to yeah so that's why women were kind of heartless 1.00
00:12:14.940 we just leave after no offense but after 19 years you know and and yeah so and the other problem is
00:12:22.780 then can i say something yeah go ahead go ahead when i was with him he was down there oh okay how tall
00:12:28.060 was he he's not that much taller than me i'm quite okay so hey but he was about six foot okay so that's
00:12:33.900 top 15 percent of men okay okay how much how much money did he make i mean we were in teenagers so
00:12:41.740 he no no now like after the 19 years like roughly after the 90 i mean he he made the most money in
00:12:48.860 between i think i think he i think i make more money than him now okay okay well that's usually when
00:12:54.700 women leave so thank you for i had a suspicion okay so so um how how much money did he make roughly
00:13:02.300 when which one when you were together just give me a rough salary we started from started from the bottom
00:13:07.420 now here no he still started no he still started here if he was top 15 percent of height okay at
00:13:13.740 least so then how much money did he make what in between oh my god just just do you know just say
00:13:20.460 20 to 25 a year i mean no one wage nothing okay 25 okay okay so a normal so okay but he was still
00:13:28.620 above average in height yeah um he was muscly and okay so he was hot he was a hottie he was all
00:13:35.260 right i made him into a hottie here now we get to the root now we get to the root of this
00:13:40.620 yeah and so uh maybe you're gonna be watching this thinking why is this this is what the women like 1.00
00:13:45.580 this is what we do we usually go for the hot guys when we're younger yeah and then later we're like
00:13:49.900 oh shit i want to like have a better lifestyle so i'm either going to make money myself and leave 0.71
00:13:55.660 or i'm gonna i'm gonna find a guy that's richer these are trends it's not every chick what about 0.99
00:14:01.020 you want to find yourself well so many years with a man you forgot about yourself so this is the
00:14:07.500 problem i'll tell you i'll tell you finding my this is what i found so here's instagram okay that really
00:14:13.820 spins a little bit as well so here's instagram so the problem with instagram is they make all these
00:14:19.580 chicks over here think they're hotter than they are oh trust me so they think so we we have this thing 1.00
00:14:25.260 where we just like believe instagram so i've seen the trend of finding yourself it's like these
00:14:30.380 chicks do these tick tocks like leaving their boyfriends and like moving to a new country or 1.00
00:14:34.380 something yeah i've seen this and yeah instagram is like yes the streets are super fun and so the women 1.00
00:14:42.220 that are married here right and they maybe maybe she snagged this might you know maybe she snagged this 1.00
00:14:47.980 guy or this guy she was like all right i can't these guys keep pumping and dumping so i gotta stop here
00:14:52.300 and and so now they get married here right but instagram comes in and basically and convinces her
00:15:00.780 that she can get this guy now or this guy or maybe she starts to make more money then usually thinks 1.00
00:15:06.380 she can do better or just make enough money to live without him um and so basically when women don't 1.00
00:15:12.860 need men we tend to leave them for whatever reason we just tend to go yep leave them for more money is 0.98
00:15:19.340 that our fault or is that them i would say it's our fault for leaving yeah yeah do you know what yeah
00:15:25.260 old school relationships used to actually work on their issues and their problems and communicate
00:15:32.700 this is why we shouldn't vote all right so what if the man stops leading a woman so what happens then
00:15:38.380 if he stops leading on which a man is typically supposed to do well did you well did you did you stop
00:15:43.900 following why is it always stop leading well well i i think you know i i think that's kind of an excuse
00:15:50.940 because i think when you think of the most docile feminine women i'm not saying it's me but i'm
00:15:55.500 saying like when we think of like the most docile women they're going to be led even if a guy isn't
00:16:00.540 like the strongest lead how guys naturally lead that's part of who they are but what if they
00:16:05.660 naturally stop leading okay what does that mean stop leading like being a man okay what does that mean
00:16:11.660 just fall back this is what i find i find that usually okay it'll start start man because god
00:16:17.500 are above the men and then the women this is just my beliefs okay so you know take this or leave it 0.88
00:16:23.020 but i think usually when i hear that it means she's a really argumentative domineering woman 1.00
00:16:27.980 that um you know basically made his life hell for 20 years and he just got tired of like listening to
00:16:33.900 her so he just gave up i'm not saying it to you i don't know of course this is just this is just
00:16:38.780 put it away because like usually a guy will tell you something and do you listen or do you accuse
00:16:45.020 him of not leading you know this depends what he says well see that means you can't follow what he
00:16:50.700 does see but it shouldn't depend this shouldn't depend when you when you tell your kids something
00:16:55.500 do you say do they say it depends when i'm going to listen no i mean no they're just supposed to listen
00:17:01.020 because they're below there he got ah so you're saying the woman is below the man so she should just listen
00:17:07.500 yeah that's what he says if he says um you know just jump off a cliff well i think if he tells you
00:17:13.660 i think you know i think there are some extremes right i'll give you an example when i'll give you
00:17:18.700 an example i'll give you an example when i don't believe in birth control so i wouldn't if a guy told
00:17:25.020 me go on birth control i'd be like look i think that's against that's true against yeah so so you know but
00:17:32.540 that's what is it a pull out method what do you mean what are you looking i think when you get
00:17:38.860 married you should just yeah all right i think you just you know see what happens so but um but yeah
00:17:47.180 so that's what i think i think usually when relationships end it's the woman's fault 1.00
00:17:53.500 yeah do you know what no no i don't agree so what if it's a situation what if it's a situation
00:17:59.100 as you said the man the man not being the leader anymore what if he just lacks motivation what if
00:18:05.100 he lacks teaching you better or bettering okay so how okay tell me like what motivation is give
00:18:10.060 me an example um for example okay cool um i'm like oh babe i want to set up a cake shop um just you
00:18:18.460 know to better us you can manage it but um i want you to like help set up a cake shop he's probably not
00:18:24.860 going to motivate you or push you in the direction of you can simply getting the stuff of you know
00:18:29.980 the cake cutters or i'll give you i'll give you an example with this cake shop you know men are more 0.99
00:18:35.180 logical so most men would probably say that's a stupid idea they will yeah and that's the thing 0.99
00:18:40.460 because women we're led with our emotions what's like fun in the moment right you know but men are 1.00
00:18:45.420 just a little more logical so i think a lot of times we have stupid ideas and we bring them to men 0.94
00:18:50.700 and they kind of like nicely tell us no but we don't take a hint but you guys can tell me if i'm 0.97
00:18:56.140 wrong no but the other side of this is like it's his investment like he's investing into this into
00:19:02.460 into your idea for a cake shop okay okay but maybe did okay did he say yes to the cake shop i asked them
00:19:09.820 i wanted them to motivate me okay why is it his job to motivate you because he's because he's the man
00:19:15.180 he's the leader not the motivator like well it's like he could motivate your children and your woman
00:19:26.620 okay so why can't you motivate yourself i don't know because now now you're all a strong independent
00:19:33.180 woman and you're finding yourself but why could you motivate yourself independent woman you want you 1.00
00:19:37.340 want to but now you want to find just behind you but then now you know let's fix it you're behind him
00:19:44.700 he's in front yeah he's a leader yeah he's the leader but if he's not leading for you or the
00:19:49.740 children if he's out okay if he's out spending five days a week in the club okay and he's drinking and
00:19:55.420 he's whatever and he's partying and you don't see him at night you don't okay he doesn't see the
00:20:00.140 children what do you do then is he leading okay okay so then i would ask why are you with the guy
00:20:06.940 that spends five days a week in the club that's why a woman leaves no no no no this is what no no no 1.00
00:20:13.340 this is what chicks do this is what chicks do you pick a guy that showed you who he was 1.00
00:20:19.180 and then we whine about it later so i say okay you you picked a clubber so stay with them that
00:20:24.380 was what you picked well why is this deception that's when you grow up yeah who's more deceptive men
00:20:29.820 or women that's not the point okay then it could be both ways actually i'm not going to say just men
00:20:35.500 why do we have makeup fake hair you know fake bbls men can fake the hairlines nowadays okay okay
00:20:42.540 who fakes their hair more men or women women but okay who who has who has men tell more lies 0.93
00:20:49.340 what yeah men tell more lies generally just lie about everything yeah but women are more deceptive with 1.00
00:20:54.300 their lies who who lies more men or women men i'm sorry oh no oh yes women are so deceptive 1.00
00:21:03.020 what do you think yeah if you're not gonna lie you're not gonna lie hard who cheats better men or
00:21:09.900 women women okay there we go that's true that's the truth yeah yeah but so yeah this is the dating 1.00
00:21:20.300 market though yeah and these are usually so the the problem we get into is throughout our 20s we'll
00:21:25.980 just either sleep with sometimes marry one of these two guys but then we get to our 30s and 40s and say
00:21:31.980 i want something more long term and then we're like i'm going to pick these guys but then they're
00:21:36.780 like oh no now i have a ran through wife i'm sad and that's that's that's how i have this channel
00:21:46.380 thank you can i get some round of applause oh that was amazing i love this demonstration
00:21:51.420 i just like to be appreciated um okay so simp have you ever simped um you've been married have you
00:22:00.460 been married for a minute yeah 15 years i've been married 10 years oh wow so it's a little different
00:22:05.500 now in the dating game right yeah yeah was dating apps around then nope instagram was it big facebook
00:22:13.260 no nothing it's like that's like a whole different world right yeah to actually meet people yeah no you
00:22:20.060 know that's the number one way people are meeting under 30 i'm gonna give you guys some stats the number
00:22:24.460 one way people are meeting under 30 is online and it's crazy and women only swipe right on dating apps 1.00
00:22:31.900 five percent of the time so yeah so we're really only screwing that top guy he's like he's really just
00:22:38.460 he's doing well he's doing very well i think i'm like the second guy because i ain't got a lot of hat
00:22:43.660 okay so you're the second guy almost there yeah yeah so so how how did you meet your wife then
00:22:56.780 um i used to dance in a club where she worked so i used to be a break dancer and she worked behind the 1.00
00:23:02.540 ball and one thing led to another okay and what made your wife like wife material she was just she was 1.00
00:23:11.980 just different she was amazing she was cool she was just like a female me oh really you guys are
00:23:17.500 really similar yeah can she do magic tricks too no that's what we did you got a t-shirt yeah i've got
00:23:24.460 to keep some secrets and what do you what do you see that's like different um do you have any friends
00:23:29.660 that are dating now are they all married no we still have friends who are dating okay and what do you
00:23:36.540 like what do you see that's different now from before this is a lot of technology it's very and
00:23:46.940 i think people are quick to end things and not give things a go like perhaps we used to but then
00:23:54.860 you sort of like have a date that that we go next one because it's more readily available it's easier
00:24:00.700 yeah actually i have a question have you guys ever been in a virtual relationship
00:24:07.900 sorry what's that like a distance like a dis sorry i don't even know sorry long long distance yeah
00:24:12.700 i'm in a long distance relationship okay how how long did you do it for currently doing it
00:24:19.100 okay does it how long how long have you been um a couple of years now two years so two years and how
00:24:24.780 often do you see him um a few times a year lately okay what is what does he do he i don't know if
00:24:35.980 he wants me to say what would we know who he was based on his occupation um he does a couple of things
00:24:43.340 yeah okay so you see him like what five times a year no not that much we've only been together for
00:24:50.780 uh yeah just something yeah is this your first like distance relationship it is yeah okay what about
00:24:57.420 you um so we partly was together for like a year when he lived in my city and then um he moved back
00:25:05.900 home so we'll like see each other probably like probably once or twice a month okay yeah so i found
00:25:14.220 that the distance thing i don't i don't know about you guys but it's a way for the top men to just have
00:25:19.900 multiple girls in every city yeah yeah you know so anyways have you done the why are you giving away
00:25:26.220 all the secrets yeah well i'm just i'm trying to explain how even more it's like expanded the 0.81
00:25:33.660 the top guys just so that that is that what you do mr fuckboy i don't do anything do your friends do 0.94
00:25:40.060 that is that why are you winking what's the i want him i want him on the secret i don't i don't think it
00:25:47.660 was a guys he's he's joshing me i don't like it's like um what my longest was like a month between
00:25:54.300 okay that was it once a month okay that was the longest yeah it's like that for me maybe
00:25:58.780 just once a month yeah so i have a couple super chats um i'm gonna read these because they're big
00:26:04.540 ones fane matra an immigrant picking fruit in florida gets respect from his wife culture matters 0.74
00:26:10.540 fane mattress says not bs most women are incapable of self-reflection and accountability you pick a man and 1.00
00:26:16.060 we're not clubbed over the head you had choices the honest a-hole says a leader has to have direction
00:26:22.780 to lead if he's not motivated to move into a specific direction then he isn't leading
00:26:28.220 let me refresh it and just double check there's no more it's just a couple but thank you it's a
00:26:33.580 hundred dollar super chat so we're gonna we're gonna clap for that one um okay so the reason that
00:26:42.380 i thought of today's topic which is what is women what will women do for attention is because um 1.00
00:26:47.740 recently there's an instagram model who um well actually what originally made me think of this
00:26:54.700 topic was i was in vegas and in vegas they actually made it legal to put nipples on your or like um 0.66
00:27:00.940 stickers on your boobs on your nipples so they would walk around like they're literally topless it's legal in 0.98
00:27:05.900 vegas and i was thinking about how it's like when women get the chance to like just get naked we just love to 0.98
00:27:13.020 i don't know what it is i was just like wow is that an la thing no no i mean i even if i go to
00:27:19.020 shoreditch at night it's like i see chicks half half naked you know what i mean and so i was thinking 0.97
00:27:24.220 about how a hundred years ago if you watch like videos of women walking down the street they're all
00:27:28.300 like covered from head to toe but we had less rights then you know but it was like when we got rights i was
00:27:33.980 like we just really love being horse it's just super crazy and i found out the stat that one out of 25 women 1.00
00:27:40.380 are on only fans under the age of 35 and it's becoming a bigger percentage of the workforce than
00:27:45.740 teachers that's horrible i know i know i was like wow we just can't it's a lot of attention
00:27:52.380 correct and so i was thinking about how um and i was also thinking about how modern day women are 0.99
00:27:57.820 the equivalent of porn addicts because uh we're so addicted i i think um attention is to women is to
00:28:03.980 sex is to men yeah because if you ask women you know um could you have eternal youth like there's
00:28:10.380 a reason you wouldn't say your age right i think most women you want to stay like 21 yeah correct 1.00
00:28:15.420 it's forever 21 not 31 right and so i was thinking about how women when given the choice like we are
00:28:20.300 always going to pick attention from men and we would pick it over sex like if you could have sex with 0.90
00:28:24.940 whoever you wanted or you could stay looking 21 forever most women would pick looking 21 forever 0.99
00:28:30.620 most generally where men would pick sex with the supermodels wow right right right so that sounds 1.00
00:28:37.100 like i think it's the equivalent and i was thinking about how it's like we have wives and mothers that
00:28:43.180 are like so addicted to attention that like we have these like thirst traps on instagram and you can't
00:28:49.180 even really tell the difference now between like wives and mothers and like single chick you know like 1.00
00:28:53.580 it used to be when you were younger you might dress you don't have a little leg and then like you get
00:28:58.300 married and put it away now it's it's crazy and i was yeah so yeah so this went so far that this
00:29:05.580 chick was an only fans model and actually died for attention so pull pull the video king 1.00
00:29:15.660 yeah i'll show you
00:29:28.300 what happened next oh did we not get the they might have cut it something like i'm sorry no so so she hit 0.99
00:29:44.620 a pole so she hit a she hit a pole and then died and she had it she had a daughter wow wow and it's like
00:29:52.780 it's it's sad because it's almost like why do you think we have a society that people are going to such
00:30:00.220 extreme lengths to get attention as opposed to a hundred years ago where it really wasn't the same
00:30:06.860 well i enjoyed the video until she died
00:30:11.020 yeah i feel like you know because like you know because like there's a lot of things that happened where
00:30:18.140 you know people were looking for jobs with what happened many years ago and um you know only
00:30:23.820 fans kind of helped out a lot of people i feel like maybe in her circumstances she probably felt
00:30:28.780 like only fans helped her such as with um her income and so such however like i think where she
00:30:36.300 went wrong is as a mom like she should have done better for her child by getting an actual regular job 1.00
00:30:42.700 rather than actually doing so much for money instead of actually valuing that she has a family 0.93
00:30:48.460 and eventually like the bigger picture is fairness she died but her child is her child
00:30:53.580 and her child's friend is going to be able to go online and actually look at her mom's naked body like 1.00
00:30:58.940 do you think it's selfish when women do that of course because why would you want to shame yourself 1.00
00:31:04.060 you know as women we're kind of like the bottom of the barrel realistically as you would refer to but 0.99
00:31:09.340 why would you want to shame yourself by putting yourself like online naked i think it's only
00:31:14.220 shameful because society standards but then wouldn't you rather instead of putting it on a place where
00:31:20.460 you can you know pay to go and see somebody naked and or do something with whatever they do would
00:31:26.460 you rather just go on porn where it's just free i don't know so you're saying like free and selling it
00:31:31.740 is different yeah what do you mean it's society that tells us it's shameful yeah like i i don't it's just 0.83
00:31:38.460 natural isn't it you think it's okay being naked but would you wife a girl like that though why not 0.98
00:31:44.060 i don't judge anyone okay each to their own that's it like everyone says everyone's all right hold on
00:31:50.300 you don't get me no no i don't believe you that's a good that's a good way of putting it i don't believe
00:31:55.660 you either yeah no i really don't do you do you do you consider yourself to be a more traditional guy
00:32:01.740 no yeah see but that's it because you're more modern like do you i'm just are you looking to get
00:32:06.700 married right now i'm so heartbroken and numb yeah yeah yeah this is why it's like you're um 0.99
00:32:13.180 you're you you started the show with a fuck boy like of course yeah but it's like of course you're 0.98
00:32:19.980 gonna say that i just i don't judge people anymore but i think because i don't want to be judged i feel 0.99
00:32:24.220 like it's no i i think i think we no i think we need to increase the judgment okay yeah i think we need
00:32:30.060 to be more more judged because i think when we stop judging women respond really well to social shame
00:32:35.580 so you know we want to be a part of the group and it's like why do we respond so quickly to fashion
00:32:40.620 trends like everyone's going to be buying my shirts now you know because i started this term but but 0.66
00:32:45.260 you know what i mean like we'll wear the stupidest outfits right you'll you'll see holes in our jeans
00:32:49.660 holes in our shirts and they're like why are you wearing that because we respond really well to trends 0.95
00:32:54.220 and social shame that was cute and so right but why do we think it's cute because someone else said
00:32:59.260 that i mean you know you can't you can't lie the extent of the holes in clothes now is kind of crazy
00:33:04.940 but before you know the little slits in the jeans like you bought one as many of you know i was just
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