JustPearlyThings - Modern Women and Delusion

00:00:00.000 We're talking about high-value women. Is there such a thing as a high-value woman? 1.00

00:00:07.080 If so, what does that look like? Start here, go around.

00:00:14.080 I think there is a high-value woman because 1.00

00:00:17.320 I know that men care about women's past and women care about a man's future. 0.92

00:00:27.480 So, I think men do look for a high-value woman. 0.99

00:00:36.480 That's what I think.

00:00:38.480 So, what traits does she have? 1.00

00:00:41.480 So, she's like, what, a virgin? You just said that they care about their past.

00:00:45.480 Well, I can't really answer that because I feel like every man has its own.

00:00:51.480 Okay, you don't think there's any general things? It's just, you don't know?

00:00:54.480 Maybe like body count. I feel like some guys care about body count and what women do for a living and their mindsets and their goals in life.

00:01:05.480 Okay. What do you think?

00:01:07.480 I think there is high-value women. 1.00

00:01:11.480 I think they have to have some traits, like they have to be motivated.

00:01:16.480 They have to motivate me in some way.

00:01:18.480 They also have to be family-orientated because I'm big on family.

00:01:22.480 So, that's definitely high-value.

00:01:24.480 And I would say, I don't know, because some people have past and they have history.

00:01:30.480 You know, but you can't really judge them from that.

00:01:33.480 So, I don't know if that...

00:01:34.480 You can't judge on their past?

00:01:36.480 Yeah, it's like...

00:01:37.480 Can I judge a man if he has a past of like prison?

00:01:41.480 Uh...

00:01:43.480 You can, but that person can't change though, so...

00:01:46.480 Oh, I shouldn't?

00:01:48.480 You want your daughter, your sister, going out with a guy, got out of prison...

00:01:52.480 Like, me personally, if I meet the guy and I like him...

00:01:57.480 Oh, wow.

00:01:58.480 In some way...

00:01:59.480 I think that's bad advice.

00:02:00.480 You think?

00:02:01.480 Yeah, I think that is.

00:02:02.480 Who here, guys?

00:02:03.480 Daughter, prison past, you're cool with?

00:02:05.480 Anyone?

00:02:06.480 Listen, if the dude was in prison from a less than a kid and you're like, but I like him,

00:02:11.480 you might want to rethink that.

00:02:12.480 But obviously, that's like specific.

00:02:13.480 You know what I mean?

00:02:14.480 Like, if he was just in prison about anything else, then I'd probably give him a chance.

00:02:20.480 But like, in general, I don't really hold people from what they've done.

00:02:23.480 Okay.

00:02:24.480 That's who they are now.

00:02:25.480 Okay, so for high value women to you, body count doesn't matter. 1.00

00:02:28.480 If it's a thousand, you're cool.

00:02:29.480 I wouldn't say I'm cool.

00:02:31.480 Okay, so it matters someone.

00:02:33.480 Yeah, someone.

00:02:34.480 Okay, so what?

00:02:35.480 How many bodies she got to be under? 0.76

00:02:37.480 I'll say probably stay under like 20.

00:02:41.480 Okay, under 20, she's high value.

00:02:44.480 Yeah.

00:02:45.480 Okay, what else?

00:02:46.480 I'll say definitely to motivate me in some way.

00:02:49.480 I'll say, because I'm a gym person, I'll say health.

00:02:54.480 She's healthy, okay.

00:02:55.480 Yeah, and high value.

00:03:00.480 Who's, is there a woman you think of when you think of a high value woman? 0.98

00:03:06.480 Someone in the media?

00:03:08.480 If not, it's okay, but I'm just wondering.

00:03:10.480 I'm really working my brain.

00:03:11.480 I'm just trying to.

00:03:12.480 Yeah.

00:03:13.480 Yeah.

00:03:16.480 Not right now.

00:03:17.480 I wouldn't choose a specific one right now.

00:03:20.480 Okay.

00:03:21.480 What do you think?

00:03:22.480 I think with high value women, it can mean different things. 1.00

00:03:25.480 I think if a woman's got respect, she's kind, she's honest, she's got like a business mentality, and she's hard working. 0.63

00:03:34.480 That, to me, shows she's a higher value because she's putting in that extra effort.

00:03:38.480 And I know a lot of girls that sit around at home all day, don't do nothing with their life. 1.00

00:03:42.480 Yeah.

00:03:43.480 But then you see a lot of women that work their asses off, you know? 1.00

00:03:45.480 And to me, that shows that they're trying to be good women, you know?

00:03:49.480 I don't think it does.

00:03:50.480 No?

00:03:51.480 No?

00:03:52.480 No?

00:03:53.480 I don't think men really care.

00:03:54.480 No?

00:03:55.480 Yeah.

00:03:56.480 It's like nothing to them.

00:03:57.480 Okay.

00:03:58.480 It's like, you know how a guy talks about his shoe collection?

00:04:01.480 Yeah.

00:04:02.480 And you're like, oh, that's nice, but I don't care.

00:04:03.480 Yeah.

00:04:04.480 Okay.

00:04:05.480 It's like our jobs.

00:04:06.480 Yeah.

00:04:07.480 I think it's hard because everyone's got like a different vision in their head of how a woman should be.

00:04:11.480 I'm just curious.

00:04:12.480 So, okay.

00:04:13.480 So you said she's got to have respect.

00:04:15.480 Like what does she have to do to be a high value woman? 1.00

00:04:18.480 What skills does she have to have? 1.00

00:04:20.480 What does she have to look like? 1.00

00:04:23.480 Well, we all know a man likes a classy woman, right? 1.00

00:04:27.480 Okay.

00:04:28.480 Not all men, but we all know a man likes a classy woman.

00:04:30.480 Not someone that shows their ass off on Instagram or, you know, oh, sorry, does that sort of thing.

00:04:35.480 So in my head, a high value woman to a man is someone that dresses appropriately and has morals. 0.94

00:04:42.480 Okay.

00:04:43.480 Whatever that means to some people.

00:04:45.480 Okay.

00:04:46.480 The bar is low.

00:04:47.480 That's it?

00:04:48.480 I mean, my-

00:04:49.480 That's all we gotta do?

00:04:51.480 My head is a bit frazzled right now, but-

00:04:54.480 So don't sleep.

00:04:55.480 All right.

00:04:56.480 This is what I got so far.

00:04:57.480 Don't sleep with 20 people.

00:04:59.480 Don't have your butt on Instagram.

00:05:02.480 Be in shape and be respectable.

00:05:07.480 That's it?

00:05:08.480 Okay.

00:05:09.480 No, it's fine.

00:05:10.480 I'm just taking something out.

00:05:11.480 I think there's some more.

00:05:12.480 There's some more there, you know?

00:05:13.480 I'm just repeating that.

00:05:14.480 I feel like, oh, come back to me.

00:05:16.480 That's okay.

00:05:17.480 Okay.

00:05:18.480 What do you think?

00:05:19.480 What is a high value woman? 1.00

00:05:20.480 And does it exist?

00:05:21.480 Because some people don't believe in it.

00:05:22.480 So it's up to you.

00:05:23.480 It has to exist, but it's completely different to what makes a high value man.

00:05:28.480 I think women judge a high value man based on the things that we want and what we look

00:05:33.480 for.

00:05:34.480 So a high value woman has to be based on what men are looking for, which is going to be completely 1.00

00:05:39.480 different.

00:05:40.480 So it would be younger women, uh, 20 to 20, um, in shape. 1.00

00:05:48.480 Yeah.

00:05:49.480 Not, not got everything out on Instagram and low body count.

00:05:53.480 Wants kids, wants family, wants a husband, doesn't want to go out on a girl's holidays. 1.00

00:06:00.480 Um, all those kinds of things.

00:06:03.480 Based.

00:06:04.480 Based.

00:06:05.480 Okay.

00:06:06.480 What do you think?

00:06:07.480 High value woman? 1.00

00:06:08.480 No, I don't believe there's high value women. 1.00

00:06:09.480 I believe values contextual.

00:06:10.480 Okay.

00:06:11.480 So it's all very dependent on what you see at the end of the day.

00:06:14.480 You could have a woman who is, or what society theme is overweight. 1.00

00:06:19.480 And a man might value that really highly because that's what he wants.

00:06:21.480 It all depends on somebody's experience.

00:06:23.480 So I don't believe there's high value women. 1.00

00:06:25.480 I believe that there are women who want to put out certain ways about them. 1.00

00:06:29.480 And if that's what they want to do, then that's awesome.

00:06:32.480 And there are women who are going to do what they're going to do. 1.00

00:06:34.480 And men will still idolize and worship them anyway.

00:06:36.480 That's what I believe anyway.

00:06:38.480 Sorry.

00:06:39.480 Can you explain that again?

00:06:40.480 Yeah.

00:06:41.480 So value is contextual.

00:06:42.480 Right.

00:06:43.480 So it depends on how someone will perceive that woman.

00:06:47.480 So somebody might look at, I don't know, the queen and see she's high value because she's

00:06:51.480 head of the monarchy.

00:06:52.480 Okay.

00:06:53.480 And she owns Windsor Castle and all the rest of it. 0.97

00:06:54.480 Some of us look at the queen and think, I can't stand her. 0.98

00:06:56.480 I don't like her at all.

00:06:57.480 She's not high value to me.

00:06:58.480 Okay.

00:06:59.480 Whereas somebody may look at somebody that lives within a council estate and they may 1.00

00:07:03.480 aspire to be with a woman like that.

00:07:05.480 But you don't think there's general things that most men, like most men might look at,

00:07:10.480 I don't know, Margot Robbie, Beyonce 20 years ago and say like the high value or good looking.

00:07:16.480 Like you don't think there's general things that like men want.

00:07:19.480 Yeah.

00:07:20.480 Good looking doesn't mean high value though.

00:07:21.480 Somebody could, there's loads of people that are good looking.

00:07:22.480 It doesn't mean that they're high value.

00:07:23.480 So at the end of the day.

00:07:24.480 I'm just wondering if it starts there, at least for guys.

00:07:27.480 No.

00:07:28.480 So I can only talk for myself.

00:07:29.480 But for me personally, looks doesn't necessarily then equate to high value.

00:07:32.480 I've seen women that are what people classify as tens and their values are minus 10. 1.00

00:07:37.480 So at the end of the day, to me, it's contextual.

00:07:40.480 Very, very contextual.

00:07:41.480 Well, I'm not saying, I'm not saying it's just like, I'm saying it's not looks alone,

00:07:44.480 but like you, that would start there.

00:07:45.480 Like, I don't think you can be like 300 pounds and be high value as a girl.

00:07:48.480 I just think it doesn't.

00:07:49.480 Depends on who's looking.

00:07:50.480 I know men that want 300 pound girls and they deem them to be high value. 1.00

00:07:54.480 So it just depends in my opinion.

00:07:56.480 I think usually those guys can't get laid by anyone else.

00:07:59.480 Very true.

00:08:00.480 I don't see, you know, I just, I don't see the rich men like bringing the whales to functions,

00:08:06.480 you know.

00:08:07.480 Very, very true.

00:08:08.480 But then we're not looking at it from a men's point of view.

00:08:10.480 We're looking at it from a women's point of view. 1.00

00:08:11.480 So the question you asked was, is what do people deem to be a high value?

00:08:14.480 So I'm not looking as a high value man looking as a high value woman. 0.88

00:08:17.480 I'm just looking at what a high value woman is. 1.00

00:08:19.480 No, I was thinking of it from the men's point of view.

00:08:22.480 Cause I'm just looking what like the most sought after men tend to pick,

00:08:25.480 which isn't like fat chicks. 1.00

00:08:26.480 Okay.

00:08:27.480 So if we're looking at it from that way, the most sought after men, no,

00:08:31.480 they wouldn't necessarily pick that.

00:08:32.480 Although some men have some really crazy fetishes.

00:08:35.480 So they may say that they don't want these women on the surface,

00:08:39.480 but then what they're doing behind closed doors is they've got that type woman. 1.00

00:08:42.480 I mean, every king had concubines.

00:08:43.480 Very true.

00:08:44.480 But that doesn't make her a queen, you know.

00:08:46.480 No, it doesn't at all.

00:08:47.480 But he might deem that woman, so the high value woman might be the one that he puts

00:08:50.480 on a pedestal, but then he might deem the woman that he's sleeping with,

00:08:53.480 that's 300 pounds high value as well, because she's given him what he needs

00:08:56.480 at the time that he needs it.

00:08:57.480 So it's all very contextual.

00:08:58.480 Yeah, but I would think you'd have like results to show.

00:09:01.480 You know what I mean?

00:09:02.480 Like you'd have like a ring or like a house.

00:09:04.480 Oh, so some concubines have house rings. 1.00

00:09:07.480 Yeah, they might, but I just, I don't really see them bringing the concubines out in public.

00:09:12.480 Like they're usually in the back, you know.

00:09:14.480 I agree with that.

00:09:15.480 That I agree with.

00:09:16.480 They don't bring those concubines, but those concubines get to live in the ivory tower. 1.00

00:09:20.480 Yeah.

00:09:21.480 And they're quite happy with it as well.

00:09:22.480 So yeah, to me it's contextual.

00:09:24.480 Okay.

00:09:25.480 What do you think?

00:09:26.480 Do high value women exist? 1.00

00:09:27.480 Yeah.

00:09:28.480 Yeah.

00:09:29.480 High value women does exist. 1.00

00:09:31.480 Um, because, uh, like, uh, uh, how, yeah, the first time being on the set.

00:09:40.480 So they gave me, so I have to, you know, so what's the question again?

00:09:43.480 All right.

00:09:44.480 So what is a high value?

00:09:45.480 Do high value women exist? 1.00

00:09:47.480 And what is a high value woman? 1.00

00:09:49.480 A high value woman is like a girl that got herself put together. 1.00

00:09:52.480 Like, uh, that go out there every single day to work, um, on what they love.

00:09:58.480 And also like, does a party all the time.

00:10:01.480 And, um, yeah, that's what I've got.

00:10:04.480 Oh, is Oprah a high value woman? 0.98

00:10:07.480 No, not really.

00:10:08.480 She does what she loves every day.

00:10:10.480 I don't think she's a big partier.

00:10:12.480 She doesn't seem like it.

00:10:14.480 Oprah?

00:10:15.480 High value?

00:10:16.480 No?

00:10:17.480 But no, at the same time.

00:10:18.480 Okay.

00:10:19.480 But I think, yeah, I think yeah, I think yeah.

00:10:20.480 And just some of you guys, the bar is like low.

00:10:23.480 Like, wow.

00:10:24.480 I don't really, yeah.

00:10:25.480 It's like, with this, everyone here is a high value woman.

00:10:30.480 Like, I think it depends though.

00:10:33.480 Like, cause it's like, there's women out there that work to separate themselves from 1.00

00:10:37.480 the rest, which is why I can appreciate that.

00:10:40.480 You know what I mean?

00:10:41.480 But obviously we all like humans.

00:10:44.480 We like what we like, but I believe like there is high value women out there. 1.00

00:10:49.480 There is women that really go out there and gets it. 1.00

00:10:52.480 They're really putting the work to be to a higher level.

00:10:55.480 Yeah.

00:10:56.480 Yeah.

00:10:57.480 Um, I guess like what you guys, most of you, not you, but are describing, it's just like,

00:11:02.480 it's very like a low bar.

00:11:03.480 Like we don't really got to do much.

00:11:05.480 You might be right.

00:11:06.480 I'm just asking the question.

00:11:07.480 What do you think?

00:11:08.480 Is there a high value woman? 1.00

00:11:09.480 Yeah.

00:11:10.480 Do high value women exist? 1.00

00:11:11.480 If so, who are they?

00:11:13.480 Well, so this is an interesting question.

00:11:15.480 I pondered about this a little bit too, because there's a lot of people that will ask like,

00:11:18.480 Oh, you know, high value men.

00:11:20.480 So let's, that's the other side of it is the, does a high value man exist?

00:11:24.480 Right?

00:11:25.480 People are like, what's a high value man?

00:11:26.480 Well, that's an easy question to answer.

00:11:28.480 It's just a high value man.

00:11:29.480 First of all, who measures value?

00:11:30.480 Like we have to have an objective standard.

00:11:32.480 We can't be delusional and be like, everybody likes different things.

00:11:35.480 You know, if this girl's into this kink, then she's a high value woman. 1.00

00:11:38.480 It's like, is she high value?

00:11:39.480 Cause you're into crapping in her mouth and she takes it. 1.00

00:11:41.480 That makes her high value.

00:11:42.480 That's absolutely crazy.

00:11:43.480 A kink doesn't make a person high value. 1.00

00:11:45.480 It makes them a sexual object.

00:11:46.480 I can buy a sexual object.

00:11:48.480 And if I can buy it, it's not going to be a lot of value in the marketplace.

00:11:51.480 Cause there's a lot of dudes that can buy it.

00:11:52.480 So who determines value?

00:11:54.480 That's an interesting question.

00:11:55.480 And the answer is where it's the market that determines the value.

00:11:58.480 Like for people to know what that means, it's like, buy my house for a billion dollars.

00:12:02.480 It's like, but this house sucks.

00:12:03.480 Yeah.

00:12:04.480 I'm going to determine my own value.

00:12:05.480 It's a billion dollars.

00:12:06.480 How many people buy that house?

00:12:07.480 Zero people.

00:12:08.480 Who determines the value of a house?

00:12:09.480 The market.

00:12:10.480 What does that mean?

00:12:11.480 It's the willing number of buyers that are going to pay the maximum price and the highest

00:12:14.480 bidder usually wins.

00:12:15.480 So the value has to be determined by the highest bidder.

00:12:18.480 That's how things work in life.

00:12:19.480 Right?

00:12:20.480 So a high value woman would be a woman that is sought after by the highest bidder, the 1.00

00:12:25.480 highest bidding man.

00:12:26.480 Now, this is a really interesting question because this is actually a really interesting discussion

00:12:29.480 with a friend of mine about this.

00:12:30.480 Like, what does it mean to bid on a woman? 0.83

00:12:32.480 See, this is where women get confused, right? 1.00

00:12:34.480 Because women are like, oh, a lot of guys want to sleep with me and they DM me. 1.00

00:12:37.480 So I'm a high value woman.

00:12:39.480 But that's a, but that's a misnomer in the, in the value marketplace.

00:12:42.480 And there's a really easy answer for that.

00:12:43.480 Right?

00:12:44.480 Like, here's a question for you guys.

00:12:45.480 How many people in the world today can go pay cash and buy a Ferrari?

00:12:48.480 Is that a lot or a little?

00:12:49.480 A little.

00:12:50.480 A little.

00:12:51.480 It's a little.

00:12:52.480 How many people can save up for a little bit and rent a Ferrari for their wedding or

00:12:55.480 their graduation?

00:12:56.480 Quite a lot of people.

00:12:57.480 Right?

00:12:58.480 So women are like, oh, these dudes are hitting me. 1.00

00:13:00.480 I'm high value.

00:13:01.480 It's like, no, you're a rental car.

00:13:02.480 You know, a lot of guys can save up and rent a nice car for a day.

00:13:05.480 You're not high value.

00:13:06.480 So a high value cannot be a rental car.

00:13:08.480 A car value, a high value has to be an owner car.

00:13:10.480 So a high value woman by the definition of the market is just, what is the highest status 1.00

00:13:17.480 or the highest value or most desired?

00:13:19.480 Cause that's how men's values market it. 0.95

00:13:20.480 You know, what is the highest value man that is willing to give you what?

00:13:24.480 A ring.

00:13:25.480 A ring.

00:13:26.480 There it is.

00:13:27.480 It's the highest value man.

00:13:28.480 That's willing to give you a ring.

00:13:29.480 So if you can get dudes that want to hump you, but they don't want to give you a ring,

00:13:32.480 you're not high value.

00:13:33.480 And that's, that's the answer.

00:13:34.480 The high value women exist. 1.00

00:13:35.480 Yes.

00:13:36.480 Cause I'm married for, for 10 years with four kids.

00:13:39.480 Uh, and I know a lot of other dudes that are doing pretty darn well, uh, that, that are

00:13:44.480 married to these women.

00:13:45.480 But then it goes back to what I was saying before.

00:13:47.480 So it's contextual.

00:13:48.480 So it's like, I could say my mom's high value, but my mom's done a lot of stuff that other

00:13:55.480 people would have deemed to be high value.

00:13:56.480 But my mom's high value because she's worth something to me.

00:13:58.480 She's my mom.

00:13:59.480 She raised me.

00:14:00.480 Yes.

00:14:01.480 But we're talking about sexual market value.

00:14:02.480 We're not talking about, do I love my mother?

00:14:03.480 It's a totally different argument.

00:14:04.480 I get, I get that.

00:14:05.480 But where I come back is that what you're saying is basically what I put in a nutshell.

00:14:08.480 It's contextual.

00:14:09.480 So you can be married.

00:14:10.480 So it's what you were saying is that basically it's a woman who a man's worth willing to 0.98

00:14:15.480 put a ring on.

00:14:16.480 So I, yeah, you're right.

00:14:17.480 A man might be willing to put a ring on somebody that's 300 pounds.

00:14:20.480 So in that.

00:14:21.480 No, man, listen, listen, I know guys, and I'm going to bring them to Pearl's show on

00:14:25.480 Saturday, by the way, if you guys are going to watch, I hope it's going to be amazing.

00:14:28.480 I know guys worth a hundred million dollars.

00:14:30.480 Like I was with one just the other day at my place and Henry was filming us having a conversation.

00:14:34.480 It's like, no dude is like, I've made a hundred million dollars.

00:14:37.480 Now it's time to bag me a 300 pounder.

00:14:39.480 And my, and my life is complete.

00:14:41.480 Zero men, not even one man is thinking that.

00:14:43.480 You know, I think then again, it's contextual because I can go to my, I can go to my place

00:14:47.480 of heritage where I know a man who is incredibly rich and his woman is over 250 pounds and

00:14:53.480 that's his wife. 0.99

00:14:54.480 Yeah.

00:14:55.480 And he parades her everywhere and he's very happy to do it.

00:14:58.480 And the concubines he has. 0.50

00:14:59.480 I mean, parade's probably the right word.

00:15:00.480 Yeah.

00:15:01.480 And the concubines that he has are women who other men would be high value.

00:15:05.480 How long have they been together?

00:15:07.480 15 years.

00:15:08.480 Okay.

00:15:09.480 Yeah.

00:15:10.480 But was she like that when he like, was, was he rich then?

00:15:11.480 He was rich and he picked a fat.

00:15:13.480 And he's always picked women that are larger because that's his thing. 0.91

00:15:16.480 So again, it's contextual, but that's not market value.

00:15:18.480 It's like, yeah, some, some guys like, you know, a shitty car that breaks down because

00:15:23.480 they're into this vintage shitty car, but that's not, that's not the market value.

00:15:27.480 That's just the guy, right?

00:15:28.480 You're applying group statistics to an individual, which is fine.

00:15:30.480 And I agree with your argument.

00:15:31.480 You're like, well, my mom is high value because she does a lot of good things for me.

00:15:34.480 You know, my kid, her kids, society, et cetera.

00:15:36.480 I get that.

00:15:37.480 Obviously in the context of the show, we're talking about sexual market value, right?

00:15:40.480 Now, if a guy likes a, if a guy likes a whale, let me say this.

00:15:44.480 That's a terrible strategy for a woman to implore in her life. 1.00

00:15:46.480 Like, well, some guys like me, if I'm 300 pounds, it's like, yeah, but that's not maximizing

00:15:51.480 for success.

00:15:52.480 Yeah, that's true.

00:15:53.480 That's your, at that point, you're just a disabled parking spot, right? 1.00

00:15:55.480 Like guys will park with you, but they'll check if anyone's looking.

00:15:57.480 As many of you know, I was just banned on Tik Tok and we are demonetized on a daily basis

00:16:04.480 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - May 10, 2023

Modern Women and Delusion

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