JustPearlyThings - May 10, 2023


Modern Women and Delusion


Episode Stats

Length

16 minutes

Words per Minute

210.94327

Word Count

3,426

Sentence Count

327

Misogynist Sentences

60

Hate Speech Sentences

29


Summary

Is there such a thing as a high value woman? If so, what traits do men look for in a woman? What does that look like? How does it differ from a normal woman? Is there a difference between a good woman and a good man?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 We're talking about high-value women. Is there such a thing as a high-value woman?
00:00:07.080 If so, what does that look like? Start here, go around.
00:00:14.080 I think there is a high-value woman because
00:00:17.320 I know that men care about women's past and women care about a man's future.
00:00:27.480 So, I think men do look for a high-value woman.
00:00:36.480 That's what I think.
00:00:38.480 So, what traits does she have?
00:00:41.480 So, she's like, what, a virgin? You just said that they care about their past.
00:00:45.480 Well, I can't really answer that because I feel like every man has its own.
00:00:51.480 Okay, you don't think there's any general things? It's just, you don't know?
00:00:54.480 Maybe like body count. I feel like some guys care about body count and what women do for a living and their mindsets and their goals in life.
00:01:05.480 Okay. What do you think?
00:01:07.480 I think there is high-value women.
00:01:11.480 I think they have to have some traits, like they have to be motivated.
00:01:16.480 They have to motivate me in some way.
00:01:18.480 They also have to be family-orientated because I'm big on family.
00:01:22.480 So, that's definitely high-value.
00:01:24.480 And I would say, I don't know, because some people have past and they have history.
00:01:30.480 You know, but you can't really judge them from that.
00:01:33.480 So, I don't know if that...
00:01:34.480 You can't judge on their past?
00:01:36.480 Yeah, it's like...
00:01:37.480 Can I judge a man if he has a past of like prison?
00:01:41.480 Uh...
00:01:43.480 You can, but that person can't change though, so...
00:01:46.480 Oh, I shouldn't?
00:01:48.480 You want your daughter, your sister, going out with a guy, got out of prison...
00:01:52.480 Like, me personally, if I meet the guy and I like him...
00:01:57.480 Oh, wow.
00:01:58.480 In some way...
00:01:59.480 I think that's bad advice.
00:02:00.480 You think?
00:02:01.480 Yeah, I think that is.
00:02:02.480 Who here, guys?
00:02:03.480 Daughter, prison past, you're cool with?
00:02:05.480 Anyone?
00:02:06.480 Listen, if the dude was in prison from a less than a kid and you're like, but I like him,
00:02:11.480 you might want to rethink that.
00:02:12.480 But obviously, that's like specific.
00:02:13.480 You know what I mean?
00:02:14.480 Like, if he was just in prison about anything else, then I'd probably give him a chance.
00:02:20.480 But like, in general, I don't really hold people from what they've done.
00:02:23.480 Okay.
00:02:24.480 That's who they are now.
00:02:25.480 Okay, so for high value women to you, body count doesn't matter.
00:02:28.480 If it's a thousand, you're cool.
00:02:29.480 I wouldn't say I'm cool.
00:02:31.480 Okay, so it matters someone.
00:02:33.480 Yeah, someone.
00:02:34.480 Okay, so what?
00:02:35.480 How many bodies she got to be under?
00:02:37.480 I'll say probably stay under like 20.
00:02:41.480 Okay, under 20, she's high value.
00:02:44.480 Yeah.
00:02:45.480 Okay, what else?
00:02:46.480 I'll say definitely to motivate me in some way.
00:02:49.480 I'll say, because I'm a gym person, I'll say health.
00:02:54.480 She's healthy, okay.
00:02:55.480 Yeah, and high value.
00:03:00.480 Who's, is there a woman you think of when you think of a high value woman?
00:03:06.480 Someone in the media?
00:03:08.480 If not, it's okay, but I'm just wondering.
00:03:10.480 I'm really working my brain.
00:03:11.480 I'm just trying to.
00:03:12.480 Yeah.
00:03:13.480 Yeah.
00:03:16.480 Not right now.
00:03:17.480 I wouldn't choose a specific one right now.
00:03:20.480 Okay.
00:03:21.480 What do you think?
00:03:22.480 I think with high value women, it can mean different things.
00:03:25.480 I think if a woman's got respect, she's kind, she's honest, she's got like a business mentality, and she's hard working.
00:03:34.480 That, to me, shows she's a higher value because she's putting in that extra effort.
00:03:38.480 And I know a lot of girls that sit around at home all day, don't do nothing with their life.
00:03:42.480 Yeah.
00:03:43.480 But then you see a lot of women that work their asses off, you know?
00:03:45.480 And to me, that shows that they're trying to be good women, you know?
00:03:49.480 I don't think it does.
00:03:50.480 No?
00:03:51.480 No?
00:03:52.480 No?
00:03:53.480 I don't think men really care.
00:03:54.480 No?
00:03:55.480 Yeah.
00:03:56.480 It's like nothing to them.
00:03:57.480 Okay.
00:03:58.480 It's like, you know how a guy talks about his shoe collection?
00:04:01.480 Yeah.
00:04:02.480 And you're like, oh, that's nice, but I don't care.
00:04:03.480 Yeah.
00:04:04.480 Okay.
00:04:05.480 It's like our jobs.
00:04:06.480 Yeah.
00:04:07.480 I think it's hard because everyone's got like a different vision in their head of how a woman should be.
00:04:11.480 I'm just curious.
00:04:12.480 So, okay.
00:04:13.480 So you said she's got to have respect.
00:04:15.480 Like what does she have to do to be a high value woman?
00:04:18.480 What skills does she have to have?
00:04:20.480 What does she have to look like?
00:04:23.480 Well, we all know a man likes a classy woman, right?
00:04:27.480 Okay.
00:04:28.480 Not all men, but we all know a man likes a classy woman.
00:04:30.480 Not someone that shows their ass off on Instagram or, you know, oh, sorry, does that sort of thing.
00:04:35.480 So in my head, a high value woman to a man is someone that dresses appropriately and has morals.
00:04:42.480 Okay.
00:04:43.480 Whatever that means to some people.
00:04:45.480 Okay.
00:04:46.480 The bar is low.
00:04:47.480 That's it?
00:04:48.480 I mean, my-
00:04:49.480 That's all we gotta do?
00:04:51.480 My head is a bit frazzled right now, but-
00:04:54.480 So don't sleep.
00:04:55.480 All right.
00:04:56.480 This is what I got so far.
00:04:57.480 Don't sleep with 20 people.
00:04:59.480 Don't have your butt on Instagram.
00:05:02.480 Be in shape and be respectable.
00:05:07.480 That's it?
00:05:08.480 Okay.
00:05:09.480 No, it's fine.
00:05:10.480 I'm just taking something out.
00:05:11.480 I think there's some more.
00:05:12.480 There's some more there, you know?
00:05:13.480 I'm just repeating that.
00:05:14.480 I feel like, oh, come back to me.
00:05:16.480 That's okay.
00:05:17.480 Okay.
00:05:18.480 What do you think?
00:05:19.480 What is a high value woman?
00:05:20.480 And does it exist?
00:05:21.480 Because some people don't believe in it.
00:05:22.480 So it's up to you.
00:05:23.480 It has to exist, but it's completely different to what makes a high value man.
00:05:28.480 I think women judge a high value man based on the things that we want and what we look
00:05:33.480 for.
00:05:34.480 So a high value woman has to be based on what men are looking for, which is going to be completely
00:05:39.480 different.
00:05:40.480 So it would be younger women, uh, 20 to 20, um, in shape.
00:05:48.480 Yeah.
00:05:49.480 Not, not got everything out on Instagram and low body count.
00:05:53.480 Wants kids, wants family, wants a husband, doesn't want to go out on a girl's holidays.
00:06:00.480 Um, all those kinds of things.
00:06:03.480 Based.
00:06:04.480 Based.
00:06:05.480 Okay.
00:06:06.480 What do you think?
00:06:07.480 High value woman?
00:06:08.480 No, I don't believe there's high value women.
00:06:09.480 I believe values contextual.
00:06:10.480 Okay.
00:06:11.480 So it's all very dependent on what you see at the end of the day.
00:06:14.480 You could have a woman who is, or what society theme is overweight.
00:06:19.480 And a man might value that really highly because that's what he wants.
00:06:21.480 It all depends on somebody's experience.
00:06:23.480 So I don't believe there's high value women.
00:06:25.480 I believe that there are women who want to put out certain ways about them.
00:06:29.480 And if that's what they want to do, then that's awesome.
00:06:32.480 And there are women who are going to do what they're going to do.
00:06:34.480 And men will still idolize and worship them anyway.
00:06:36.480 That's what I believe anyway.
00:06:38.480 Sorry.
00:06:39.480 Can you explain that again?
00:06:40.480 Yeah.
00:06:41.480 So value is contextual.
00:06:42.480 Right.
00:06:43.480 So it depends on how someone will perceive that woman.
00:06:47.480 So somebody might look at, I don't know, the queen and see she's high value because she's
00:06:51.480 head of the monarchy.
00:06:52.480 Okay.
00:06:53.480 And she owns Windsor Castle and all the rest of it.
00:06:54.480 Some of us look at the queen and think, I can't stand her.
00:06:56.480 I don't like her at all.
00:06:57.480 She's not high value to me.
00:06:58.480 Okay.
00:06:59.480 Whereas somebody may look at somebody that lives within a council estate and they may
00:07:03.480 aspire to be with a woman like that.
00:07:05.480 But you don't think there's general things that most men, like most men might look at,
00:07:10.480 I don't know, Margot Robbie, Beyonce 20 years ago and say like the high value or good looking.
00:07:16.480 Like you don't think there's general things that like men want.
00:07:19.480 Yeah.
00:07:20.480 Good looking doesn't mean high value though.
00:07:21.480 Somebody could, there's loads of people that are good looking.
00:07:22.480 It doesn't mean that they're high value.
00:07:23.480 So at the end of the day.
00:07:24.480 I'm just wondering if it starts there, at least for guys.
00:07:27.480 No.
00:07:28.480 So I can only talk for myself.
00:07:29.480 But for me personally, looks doesn't necessarily then equate to high value.
00:07:32.480 I've seen women that are what people classify as tens and their values are minus 10.
00:07:37.480 So at the end of the day, to me, it's contextual.
00:07:40.480 Very, very contextual.
00:07:41.480 Well, I'm not saying, I'm not saying it's just like, I'm saying it's not looks alone,
00:07:44.480 but like you, that would start there.
00:07:45.480 Like, I don't think you can be like 300 pounds and be high value as a girl.
00:07:48.480 I just think it doesn't.
00:07:49.480 Depends on who's looking.
00:07:50.480 I know men that want 300 pound girls and they deem them to be high value.
00:07:54.480 So it just depends in my opinion.
00:07:56.480 I think usually those guys can't get laid by anyone else.
00:07:59.480 Very true.
00:08:00.480 I don't see, you know, I just, I don't see the rich men like bringing the whales to functions,
00:08:06.480 you know.
00:08:07.480 Very, very true.
00:08:08.480 But then we're not looking at it from a men's point of view.
00:08:10.480 We're looking at it from a women's point of view.
00:08:11.480 So the question you asked was, is what do people deem to be a high value?
00:08:14.480 So I'm not looking as a high value man looking as a high value woman.
00:08:17.480 I'm just looking at what a high value woman is.
00:08:19.480 No, I was thinking of it from the men's point of view.
00:08:22.480 Cause I'm just looking what like the most sought after men tend to pick,
00:08:25.480 which isn't like fat chicks.
00:08:26.480 Okay.
00:08:27.480 So if we're looking at it from that way, the most sought after men, no,
00:08:31.480 they wouldn't necessarily pick that.
00:08:32.480 Although some men have some really crazy fetishes.
00:08:35.480 So they may say that they don't want these women on the surface,
00:08:39.480 but then what they're doing behind closed doors is they've got that type woman.
00:08:42.480 I mean, every king had concubines.
00:08:43.480 Very true.
00:08:44.480 But that doesn't make her a queen, you know.
00:08:46.480 No, it doesn't at all.
00:08:47.480 But he might deem that woman, so the high value woman might be the one that he puts
00:08:50.480 on a pedestal, but then he might deem the woman that he's sleeping with,
00:08:53.480 that's 300 pounds high value as well, because she's given him what he needs
00:08:56.480 at the time that he needs it.
00:08:57.480 So it's all very contextual.
00:08:58.480 Yeah, but I would think you'd have like results to show.
00:09:01.480 You know what I mean?
00:09:02.480 Like you'd have like a ring or like a house.
00:09:04.480 Oh, so some concubines have house rings.
00:09:07.480 Yeah, they might, but I just, I don't really see them bringing the concubines out in public.
00:09:12.480 Like they're usually in the back, you know.
00:09:14.480 I agree with that.
00:09:15.480 That I agree with.
00:09:16.480 They don't bring those concubines, but those concubines get to live in the ivory tower.
00:09:20.480 Yeah.
00:09:21.480 And they're quite happy with it as well.
00:09:22.480 So yeah, to me it's contextual.
00:09:24.480 Okay.
00:09:25.480 What do you think?
00:09:26.480 Do high value women exist?
00:09:27.480 Yeah.
00:09:28.480 Yeah.
00:09:29.480 High value women does exist.
00:09:31.480 Um, because, uh, like, uh, uh, how, yeah, the first time being on the set.
00:09:40.480 So they gave me, so I have to, you know, so what's the question again?
00:09:43.480 All right.
00:09:44.480 So what is a high value?
00:09:45.480 Do high value women exist?
00:09:47.480 And what is a high value woman?
00:09:49.480 A high value woman is like a girl that got herself put together.
00:09:52.480 Like, uh, that go out there every single day to work, um, on what they love.
00:09:58.480 And also like, does a party all the time.
00:10:01.480 And, um, yeah, that's what I've got.
00:10:04.480 Oh, is Oprah a high value woman?
00:10:07.480 No, not really.
00:10:08.480 She does what she loves every day.
00:10:10.480 I don't think she's a big partier.
00:10:12.480 She doesn't seem like it.
00:10:14.480 Oprah?
00:10:15.480 High value?
00:10:16.480 No?
00:10:17.480 But no, at the same time.
00:10:18.480 Okay.
00:10:19.480 But I think, yeah, I think yeah, I think yeah.
00:10:20.480 And just some of you guys, the bar is like low.
00:10:23.480 Like, wow.
00:10:24.480 I don't really, yeah.
00:10:25.480 It's like, with this, everyone here is a high value woman.
00:10:30.480 Like, I think it depends though.
00:10:33.480 Like, cause it's like, there's women out there that work to separate themselves from
00:10:37.480 the rest, which is why I can appreciate that.
00:10:40.480 You know what I mean?
00:10:41.480 But obviously we all like humans.
00:10:44.480 We like what we like, but I believe like there is high value women out there.
00:10:49.480 There is women that really go out there and gets it.
00:10:52.480 They're really putting the work to be to a higher level.
00:10:55.480 Yeah.
00:10:56.480 Yeah.
00:10:57.480 Um, I guess like what you guys, most of you, not you, but are describing, it's just like,
00:11:02.480 it's very like a low bar.
00:11:03.480 Like we don't really got to do much.
00:11:05.480 You might be right.
00:11:06.480 I'm just asking the question.
00:11:07.480 What do you think?
00:11:08.480 Is there a high value woman?
00:11:09.480 Yeah.
00:11:10.480 Do high value women exist?
00:11:11.480 If so, who are they?
00:11:13.480 Well, so this is an interesting question.
00:11:15.480 I pondered about this a little bit too, because there's a lot of people that will ask like,
00:11:18.480 Oh, you know, high value men.
00:11:20.480 So let's, that's the other side of it is the, does a high value man exist?
00:11:24.480 Right?
00:11:25.480 People are like, what's a high value man?
00:11:26.480 Well, that's an easy question to answer.
00:11:28.480 It's just a high value man.
00:11:29.480 First of all, who measures value?
00:11:30.480 Like we have to have an objective standard.
00:11:32.480 We can't be delusional and be like, everybody likes different things.
00:11:35.480 You know, if this girl's into this kink, then she's a high value woman.
00:11:38.480 It's like, is she high value?
00:11:39.480 Cause you're into crapping in her mouth and she takes it.
00:11:41.480 That makes her high value.
00:11:42.480 That's absolutely crazy.
00:11:43.480 A kink doesn't make a person high value.
00:11:45.480 It makes them a sexual object.
00:11:46.480 I can buy a sexual object.
00:11:48.480 And if I can buy it, it's not going to be a lot of value in the marketplace.
00:11:51.480 Cause there's a lot of dudes that can buy it.
00:11:52.480 So who determines value?
00:11:54.480 That's an interesting question.
00:11:55.480 And the answer is where it's the market that determines the value.
00:11:58.480 Like for people to know what that means, it's like, buy my house for a billion dollars.
00:12:02.480 It's like, but this house sucks.
00:12:03.480 Yeah.
00:12:04.480 I'm going to determine my own value.
00:12:05.480 It's a billion dollars.
00:12:06.480 How many people buy that house?
00:12:07.480 Zero people.
00:12:08.480 Who determines the value of a house?
00:12:09.480 The market.
00:12:10.480 What does that mean?
00:12:11.480 It's the willing number of buyers that are going to pay the maximum price and the highest
00:12:14.480 bidder usually wins.
00:12:15.480 So the value has to be determined by the highest bidder.
00:12:18.480 That's how things work in life.
00:12:19.480 Right?
00:12:20.480 So a high value woman would be a woman that is sought after by the highest bidder, the
00:12:25.480 highest bidding man.
00:12:26.480 Now, this is a really interesting question because this is actually a really interesting discussion
00:12:29.480 with a friend of mine about this.
00:12:30.480 Like, what does it mean to bid on a woman?
00:12:32.480 See, this is where women get confused, right?
00:12:34.480 Because women are like, oh, a lot of guys want to sleep with me and they DM me.
00:12:37.480 So I'm a high value woman.
00:12:39.480 But that's a, but that's a misnomer in the, in the value marketplace.
00:12:42.480 And there's a really easy answer for that.
00:12:43.480 Right?
00:12:44.480 Like, here's a question for you guys.
00:12:45.480 How many people in the world today can go pay cash and buy a Ferrari?
00:12:48.480 Is that a lot or a little?
00:12:49.480 A little.
00:12:50.480 A little.
00:12:51.480 It's a little.
00:12:52.480 How many people can save up for a little bit and rent a Ferrari for their wedding or
00:12:55.480 their graduation?
00:12:56.480 Quite a lot of people.
00:12:57.480 Right?
00:12:58.480 So women are like, oh, these dudes are hitting me.
00:13:00.480 I'm high value.
00:13:01.480 It's like, no, you're a rental car.
00:13:02.480 You know, a lot of guys can save up and rent a nice car for a day.
00:13:05.480 You're not high value.
00:13:06.480 So a high value cannot be a rental car.
00:13:08.480 A car value, a high value has to be an owner car.
00:13:10.480 So a high value woman by the definition of the market is just, what is the highest status
00:13:17.480 or the highest value or most desired?
00:13:19.480 Cause that's how men's values market it.
00:13:20.480 You know, what is the highest value man that is willing to give you what?
00:13:24.480 A ring.
00:13:25.480 A ring.
00:13:26.480 There it is.
00:13:27.480 It's the highest value man.
00:13:28.480 That's willing to give you a ring.
00:13:29.480 So if you can get dudes that want to hump you, but they don't want to give you a ring,
00:13:32.480 you're not high value.
00:13:33.480 And that's, that's the answer.
00:13:34.480 The high value women exist.
00:13:35.480 Yes.
00:13:36.480 Cause I'm married for, for 10 years with four kids.
00:13:39.480 Uh, and I know a lot of other dudes that are doing pretty darn well, uh, that, that are
00:13:44.480 married to these women.
00:13:45.480 But then it goes back to what I was saying before.
00:13:47.480 So it's contextual.
00:13:48.480 So it's like, I could say my mom's high value, but my mom's done a lot of stuff that other
00:13:55.480 people would have deemed to be high value.
00:13:56.480 But my mom's high value because she's worth something to me.
00:13:58.480 She's my mom.
00:13:59.480 She raised me.
00:14:00.480 Yes.
00:14:01.480 But we're talking about sexual market value.
00:14:02.480 We're not talking about, do I love my mother?
00:14:03.480 It's a totally different argument.
00:14:04.480 I get, I get that.
00:14:05.480 But where I come back is that what you're saying is basically what I put in a nutshell.
00:14:08.480 It's contextual.
00:14:09.480 So you can be married.
00:14:10.480 So it's what you were saying is that basically it's a woman who a man's worth willing to
00:14:15.480 put a ring on.
00:14:16.480 So I, yeah, you're right.
00:14:17.480 A man might be willing to put a ring on somebody that's 300 pounds.
00:14:20.480 So in that.
00:14:21.480 No, man, listen, listen, I know guys, and I'm going to bring them to Pearl's show on
00:14:25.480 Saturday, by the way, if you guys are going to watch, I hope it's going to be amazing.
00:14:28.480 I know guys worth a hundred million dollars.
00:14:30.480 Like I was with one just the other day at my place and Henry was filming us having a conversation.
00:14:34.480 It's like, no dude is like, I've made a hundred million dollars.
00:14:37.480 Now it's time to bag me a 300 pounder.
00:14:39.480 And my, and my life is complete.
00:14:41.480 Zero men, not even one man is thinking that.
00:14:43.480 You know, I think then again, it's contextual because I can go to my, I can go to my place
00:14:47.480 of heritage where I know a man who is incredibly rich and his woman is over 250 pounds and
00:14:53.480 that's his wife.
00:14:54.480 Yeah.
00:14:55.480 And he parades her everywhere and he's very happy to do it.
00:14:58.480 And the concubines he has.
00:14:59.480 I mean, parade's probably the right word.
00:15:00.480 Yeah.
00:15:01.480 And the concubines that he has are women who other men would be high value.
00:15:05.480 How long have they been together?
00:15:07.480 15 years.
00:15:08.480 Okay.
00:15:09.480 Yeah.
00:15:10.480 But was she like that when he like, was, was he rich then?
00:15:11.480 He was rich and he picked a fat.
00:15:13.480 And he's always picked women that are larger because that's his thing.
00:15:16.480 So again, it's contextual, but that's not market value.
00:15:18.480 It's like, yeah, some, some guys like, you know, a shitty car that breaks down because
00:15:23.480 they're into this vintage shitty car, but that's not, that's not the market value.
00:15:27.480 That's just the guy, right?
00:15:28.480 You're applying group statistics to an individual, which is fine.
00:15:30.480 And I agree with your argument.
00:15:31.480 You're like, well, my mom is high value because she does a lot of good things for me.
00:15:34.480 You know, my kid, her kids, society, et cetera.
00:15:36.480 I get that.
00:15:37.480 Obviously in the context of the show, we're talking about sexual market value, right?
00:15:40.480 Now, if a guy likes a, if a guy likes a whale, let me say this.
00:15:44.480 That's a terrible strategy for a woman to implore in her life.
00:15:46.480 Like, well, some guys like me, if I'm 300 pounds, it's like, yeah, but that's not maximizing
00:15:51.480 for success.
00:15:52.480 Yeah, that's true.
00:15:53.480 That's your, at that point, you're just a disabled parking spot, right?
00:15:55.480 Like guys will park with you, but they'll check if anyone's looking.
00:15:57.480 As many of you know, I was just banned on Tik Tok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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