JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023


Modern Women Are FAILING At Their DUTY

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
LeBron James
Modern Women Don't Understand The Concept Of MARRIAGE Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL

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18 minutes

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3,659

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Misogyny

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In this episode, we talk about why women should get married younger rather than older, and why it's better to get married in your 20s than in your 30s or 40s. We also talk about the reasons why women shouldn't get married at a young age, and what the average woman should bring to a relationship.

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00:00:00.000 do men typically want to marry young women yes of course so what was stopping us from getting
00:00:06.080 married at 21 yeah that's a really good question we wanted to be more we wanted to be independent
00:00:12.640 and this is the problem nowadays yeah but hold on i'm gonna get to you but i'm gonna let her answer
00:00:17.280 yeah for me at least i wanted to do more things right it was my personal choice right so that's
00:00:24.640 that's one of the main reasons why not correct but i'm saying like like that it was still a choice
00:00:30.800 we weren't forced yeah of course a man of value like maybe didn't propose maybe it wasn't the
00:00:37.120 right man like that proposed why would why would a man not propose i don't know because you're too
00:00:43.280 young maybe or it's not or you don't bring like you're saying the young people right in london it
00:00:48.720 doesn't really like i don't know that many people that got married they've they've had long
00:00:51.760 relationships but they don't get married in their like 20s they just don't right but i'm i'm saying
00:00:56.560 why would a man not propose probably because economically he wants to be of a certain stature
00:01:01.600 okay why why couldn't she get a guy that is high that makes a lot of money well i think at 21 you 0.74
00:01:08.480 don't have maturity enough to handle a house nowadays nowadays you know but for example my mom the same
00:01:17.680 but nowadays like i'm a teacher as well right i see the girls you know if even if i talk to many
00:01:23.200 friends of mine there so now in the past years things have been happening right that people are
00:01:29.120 not and that's what's gonna happen if you're married it means in a while you're gonna have kids well
00:01:35.120 that's wrong no but mostly we're talking generally you're gonna have kids right if you get married
00:01:40.160 right so the thing is nowadays people are being brainwashed people are not getting mature they're not
00:01:45.680 taking responsibility what is the most important people are not able to take responsibilities if
00:01:50.640 you get married young nowadays with the brain that they are having they're not gonna be able to raise
00:01:55.920 kids properly and that's gonna up the kid right that's what i see in schools happening do you think
00:02:01.120 it's harder for women to change the older they are or the younger they are i think for every human being 1.00
00:02:06.400 it's harder the older you get and that's okay okay scientifically okay so wouldn't it make more
00:02:11.200 sense to get married younger rather than older so you can molt like you can grow together with the
00:02:16.560 man so it depends how the younger you get usually the highest the rate of divorces are higher so it's
00:02:23.200 not about the age it's about maturity because you can find people 40 30 50 years old they're not mature
00:02:30.080 and i've seen people getting married in a young age so there's the wrong question first of all
00:02:34.000 it's a matter of maturity do you think that's what men want maturity i of course if a wise man wants
00:02:42.720 maturity otherwise what happens with men so what does the average woman bring in 2023 as i said average
00:02:49.280 means already that it doesn't bring much okay okay so she doesn't bring much average people don't 0.98
00:02:55.280 bring much to the table either men or women average already i would argue that the average man does bring
00:03:01.360 more to the table in terms of like society like 40 you know half of men have infrastructure jobs
00:03:07.680 that means one out of every two men you meet is right but you mean bring to the table to society
00:03:12.080 or to their relationship well i'm saying a lot of times average women think they're better than average 1.00
00:03:17.040 men in so in society would they what they bring to society or in relationship i would argue that the
00:03:22.960 average man brings more than the average woman to a relationship because the average man makes more than 0.88
00:03:28.160 the average woman but the average woman is fatter than the average man and she's only having requests 1.00
00:03:34.080 the average woman she will have lots of requests what she will have lots of requests if she's the 1.00
00:03:39.520 average woman yes yeah she will request but she will not give what she's requesting also part of what social 1.00
00:03:46.160 media has done to our society is back in the day before social media it would be usually very hard for a
00:03:52.720 woman to even date outside of her social class back in the days there was not going without the 1.00
00:03:58.560 husband hold on hold on the point is these days a lot of women think they are more valuable than they
00:04:06.080 actually are and i'm not saying that to be this in terms of a woman who sleep with like maybe a 0.99
00:04:11.440 celebrity that went in a dm and automatically in her head she thinks that she can only get married to 1.00
00:04:16.720 someone on that level that's true that is what messes up a lot of women the reality is most of 1.00
00:04:22.080 those guys just look at those women as okay well this is better than my hand but then the woman goes 1.00
00:04:28.080 after that and then she thinks okay well i slept with lebron james so now i can only get married to a 1.00
00:04:34.800 basketballer meanwhile she would actually be more equally yoked to to get married to like a plumber 1.00
00:04:39.920 for most women who see themselves as above being married to a plumber that's the problem with society 1.00
00:04:44.560 because they are unrealistic they they they cannot make the difference between the reality and what
00:04:51.120 they have in their heads also sorry um sorry also the person that goes and sleeps with someone willy
00:04:56.800 nilly like that with anyone whether just because they're a celebrity is like i wouldn't even say it's
00:05:01.280 willy-nilly i'd say women date celebrities for a couple months a year two years and think they're on the 0.98
00:05:07.120 level yeah but usually those celebrities have multiple girlfriends so it's just one of many so it's a hype
00:05:14.880 so it all sounds like a hype that's a specific type of women which is okay which is okay 1.00
00:05:20.880 that's not a lot of women that's a certain that's like a few women i would say that's attractive women 1.00
00:05:26.320 yeah but not all attractive not all but i would say more do than don't i think it's a mentality type
00:05:32.800 though right it's not the same thing so like to generalize that is really what we have to but we
00:05:37.360 have to talk in general yeah i i agree it's all women because this is the thing every woman unless 1.00
00:05:43.840 unless the woman is probably she has mental problems or she has like trauma usually women will go after 1.00
00:05:49.840 men that are better than them the problem is how do you secure that man so usually what should happen
00:05:56.880 is a woman if she's getting with this man she can't secure him gets to the next man and they're all 1.00
00:06:01.680 high value my men she should actually look and see why have i not been able to secure any of these
00:06:06.480 men what is wrong with me probably playing out of my league but they wouldn't do that no they would
00:06:11.440 rather keep trying to get to the next man who is probably even higher than all the men they've had
00:06:17.360 so instead of trying to find their level they are trying to go higher it's like the same thing with the
00:06:21.920 analogy of the women that go to the husband's store you go on the first floor you have men that have
00:06:27.520 like one thing that all women want and then you want to go to the next floor the next floor has the 1.00
00:06:31.840 man has something better and then you keep going until you get to the seventh floor and you find
00:06:35.600 out that there are no men left that's usually what happens to most women and i would say most women 0.99
00:06:40.240 yeah that's true and i agree that social media plays a very big role on that because if you check
00:06:45.920 like girls and influencers that they get more followers and likes it's because they expose their bodies 1.00
00:06:51.920 right and now the value of someone is measured on how many followers and like they have and that's
00:06:58.720 being happening in professional side and also into relationships right and i've seen also like men
00:07:05.280 that they will you know follow this girl these are there or like that there's gonna be who's the hottest 0.99
00:07:10.480 and i i have a lot of friends of mine males that they really want to be in a relationship and say like
00:07:15.280 so why are you not instead because there are many options and there and there is so social media that's
00:07:20.960 why we have we need to have critical thinking you know as a woman as a man what social media is
00:07:26.800 adding value to and it's brainwashing everyone so what do you think the average woman brings to the 1.00
00:07:33.440 table in 2023 first of all lots of requests huh lots of requests lots of requests he's requesting no like i'm
00:07:41.680 when i'm speaking about this i'm thinking about most of the women that i met in this life yeah like
00:07:47.680 colleagues maybe friends old friends and i think their their level was quite mediocre
00:07:56.480 but what they they were requesting from their partners or from the future partners because they
00:08:02.160 didn't have a partner due to this request and their level now this is reality like it's not funny
00:08:08.800 it's funny in a way but it's sad because they they are not able to make the difference anymore
00:08:15.040 about what i was saying about the reality and about what they can have right so they request too
00:08:21.440 much yeah okay what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023 i would say less 1.00
00:08:26.960 dependency there's less need to look after a woman financially now there's the two um 0.99
00:08:35.120 in fact combined they're stronger together and i think that's the beautiful thing about modern times
00:08:39.760 is that uh they're more powerful do you think that's a good unit do you think it's a good thing
00:08:45.360 that women are more independent uh yes i think it takes some of the pressure off men i think men suffer
00:08:50.960 quite a lot from expectation and burden sometimes financially and that keeps them maybe in jobs that they
00:08:57.200 wouldn't be happy and perhaps who who what who's more likely to leave a woman that's independent or
00:09:03.920 dependent no idea independent independent woman something i want to say it's the most interesting
00:09:12.480 answer i've heard right now but actually this is a negative thing when it comes to a relationship
00:09:17.120 because the fact that you can provide this you can give that doesn't mean that the man really want that
00:09:22.640 you understand is an interesting like answer to be looked after um no no no to to be independent
00:09:32.000 the man will not feel that he's a man anymore if the woman is too independent and that's a problem 1.00
00:09:37.920 nowadays because well i think that's a problem who watches the kids if the woman's independent and 1.00
00:09:44.240 works who watches the kids the men the nanny the nanny the nanny the nanny the nanny the 0.57
00:09:51.440 parents and the grandparents if a man watching the kids in a family tree in a family system you're
00:09:56.160 not going to trust anybody besides family no a kid will be in the hands of the institutions
00:10:00.880 from the government where do they send them in the uk school and and where they will
00:10:08.240 ever come on you know the answer and school and clubs nursery nursery yeah what's better for a kid
00:10:15.520 the parents watching them or the strangers watching them i mean i mean i'm going to come here as a
00:10:22.080 teacher now i'm going to say that depends because some parents don't do with their kids and they
00:10:26.080 literally just put them behind tv put them in behind an ipad and if they go to like an after school
00:10:30.560 club there's actually going to be professionals who actually do activities with the children so
00:10:34.080 some i know i'm not allowed to say the words but is it the majority is it generally better for
00:10:41.200 strangers to watch the kid or the parents no the parents logical generally but then we're talking
00:10:49.120 about ideal parents and also again it depends location social things of course we will always be
00:10:54.800 the parents but in general in general in general it should be fair it should be the parents i want
00:11:01.280 logical do you think do you think it's funny it's funny guys i'm just curious in general who's it
00:11:06.720 better to watch the kids a stranger or the i'm just curious logically logically parents family anybody
00:11:13.040 that's in the bloodline okay what do you think parents what do you think yeah i think that first of
00:11:18.000 all i need to say that all the questions are pretty straightforward we can over complicate it as much as we
00:11:23.280 won but it's like parents that's it wait wait do you know what's funny i will say better women are 1.00
00:11:27.920 better communicators come on like this is the most standard question you can't answer the street
00:11:34.160 question um okay i don't even remember the original i like this i lose everybody what bring women to the
00:11:43.120 table what is um i'm gonna ask the men after because i know it'll be quicker what does the average
00:11:49.120 woman bring no no no no i didn't answer no i didn't answer please i didn't okay okay i'm gonna
00:11:53.840 give you the chance but if you talk about your homeless exes i'm gonna go to the next one okay
00:12:00.080 okay um i just think there is no table are we calling it are we call it are we are we calling
00:12:05.440 a relationship table okay okay next no i agree i agree i think a lot of women now are way more independent 1.00
00:12:13.520 and we don't need the men to pay for everything anymore okay we and that's what we bring i think
00:12:18.720 so do you think that's useful to men i think so i think that takes some pressure of men okay is that
00:12:24.400 typically what men look for in wives no do we typically want men that don't provide for us no thank you
00:12:33.840 god oh you guys are so much better now but to be fair like i can't just talk about myself but i know
00:12:41.440 myself and like i have quite a lot of big group of strong women around me okay we can take care 0.89
00:12:46.880 of ourselves you can but yeah but this is a lie like men do not want emotionally detached women that 0.95
00:12:56.160 can take care of ourselves like it's it's this brainwashing they've fed to us for like 15 years
00:13:01.280 and it's really sad because we end up at the end of this single by ourselves with a bunch of cats
00:13:06.000 you know if you hit 30 you're not married you're honestly you know you know if you hit 30 and you're
00:13:11.120 not married you're more likely to not have children than have them that means there's more 0.99
00:13:14.400 than a 50 chance you will never have a child never reproduce that's that's the end of what they've
00:13:19.600 taught us because what we bring to the table is independence but why is reproducing so important
00:13:24.880 exactly why is it still now that it has to happen it doesn't have to happen but 80 of women said they
00:13:30.000 wanted it to happen before because so so and and women are more depressed like you know how lonely is 1.00
00:13:35.360 when your looks go life is lonely like like if you're when your looks go and you don't get attention from
00:13:40.720 men like you used to you don't get help from men like you used to people don't talk to you on the
00:13:45.120 street like you used to it is lonely if you do not have a family around you and it's funny it's funny
00:13:50.320 when women ask questions like why is reproduction so important meanwhile if you had to if we're to 1.00
00:13:55.200 start listing all the things that men were good at and all the things that women were good at
00:13:58.320 reproduction is the first thing that will come on women's mouth and it also like if reproduction wasn't 1.00
00:14:04.160 so important like how did you get here like it's just sometimes i know but i think it's a bit it's a bit
00:14:10.400 much all this expectation and talk about that i mean i just had surgery and i can't have children
00:14:15.760 and i don't take i don't feel differently about myself i don't want people to look at me differently
00:14:20.560 and i think it's it's almost offensive these days for everyone to expect that women must want kids or
00:14:26.000 to be part of that but that's conflating the general topic with your personal circumstance because you
00:14:30.640 you didn't say why is reproduction so important to me you said why is reproduction so important
00:14:35.600 in general so in general it's important for the for the human race to continue without reproduction
00:14:41.680 that is literally the end of the human race and right now and this is the thing like it's very easy
00:14:47.600 for you to be stuck in your personal circumstance and not think about the the the knock-on effect that
00:14:53.200 your your decisions have on the entire um population i'm not making decisions no i know i know but
00:14:58.640 the point is right now the human race especially in the western world is is at a point where we're not
00:15:04.480 replacing the people that are dying at an effective rate to keep society going eventually so if if we
00:15:11.600 keep thinking like this it's literally going to be the end of western civilization so when people say
00:15:16.640 oh this is important why is it so important it's really like yeah if you look at from your point of
00:15:21.600 view it might not be that important but on a general scale the fact that you live in society society
00:15:27.040 runs because there are some men that really don't want to get up in the morning at 6 a.m that need to go
00:15:32.400 and run the trains society runs because there are some men that really don't want to but they have
00:15:36.960 to go and do the plumbing society runs because there are some men that really don't want to but
00:15:40.800 they have to go on oil rigs in the high sea risk their lives and make sure that you have oil to run
00:15:47.040 your gas and all of this stuff these things are not things that many want to do but we have to do them
00:15:52.160 but the one thing that women claim is god's giving power to them which is reproduction which is what 1.00
00:15:57.600 they know that they can do that men can do that's the one thing you're still failing at doing so it's
00:16:02.560 just funny because women only want to like make use of those arguments when it benefits them but when 1.00
00:16:08.400 you make like pearl pointed out when it makes them look bad then automatically there are these reasons
00:16:12.160 why it's not important or why we should all have a sale it's just and the truth of the matter is when
00:16:18.800 women don't have kids we get depressed single childless women are on antidepressants at a higher rate 0.93
00:16:25.200 than anyone else it's right after our looks go we get pretty sad because like our work because
00:16:30.640 now we're not attractive to men anymore they don't even they're starting to not even want to sleep
00:16:35.040 with us barely and then we're just by ourselves at christmas it's not a happy bright future it's
00:16:40.880 pretty sad i'm pro kids and i think everyone i want to have a big family and i hate when people say
00:16:46.640 like oh it's too expensive to have a child i'm like poor people have more kids than rich people yeah
00:16:53.040 that's true so i i see this is the first thing that i hear so i always say like people that's what
00:16:59.200 that's what i realized they train us they first tell us to go after a career and and we're women are 1.00
00:17:04.080 so easy to propagate so we do and then they basically they tell us you can't afford to have kids which
00:17:09.760 isn't even true i've talked to women that were stay-at-home moms on a single salary then they give us 1.00
00:17:15.360 the social media to think we deserve a lifestyle and a man that we don't and it's just it's just crazy and
00:17:20.560 also like that's why i always say like feminists and we as women we have to need we need to be 1.00
00:17:25.280 critical because now they these people institutions they are uh promoting this they started promoting
00:17:32.160 more and about feminism they're profiting on you and they're already starting to fulfill markets for 1.00
00:17:38.640 single women in the future so they are doing a lot of stuff for potential clients for single women
00:17:44.880 so these things that they're happening now they've been planned and they're you know yeah and half
00:17:50.480 of us half of us will never get married and never have kids that's what they're predicting
00:17:55.120 half of us yeah and first of all like they're already in the planet more women than men yeah so 0.97
00:17:59.360 that's why when i sit there i say like i will do everything to protect my relationship and my family
00:18:05.040 when i have it so i think that some a message that has to be spread so women have critical thinking i know 1.00
00:18:11.920 for some kind of uh you know