JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2023


Modern Women Are NOT ＂WIFE Material＂


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Length

9 minutes

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Word count

1,940

Sentence count

150

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

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Toxicity

38

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about sex work, sex education and sex education in general. We also discuss the difference between being submissive and domineering in the modern world and how to be a better wife and mother.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 is that modern women today don't want to be wife material. 1.00
00:00:03.060 Being wife material is not cool for the majority of them.
00:00:06.220 Yeah, that's very submissive for women nowadays. 1.00
00:00:08.560 And now we get into the real of the real.
00:00:12.340 Because at the end of the day, you know,
00:00:14.200 whether or not you will get something done with your body,
00:00:15.820 you should say, what are the results that I want in life?
00:00:18.760 What are the results?
00:00:20.100 Because men have been telling you
00:00:22.180 that getting something done to that degree and that extent
00:00:25.840 does not make you more marriage material.
00:00:27.720 But you would rather pay.
00:00:28.760 They don't care about us, though.
00:00:30.000 But that's what I'm saying.
00:00:31.220 They're not listening to us.
00:00:32.760 Exactly.
00:00:33.380 They're not listening to us.
00:00:34.200 But you would rather pay for the short-term attention,
00:00:37.500 validation that you see your homegirls getting 0.60
00:00:39.700 versus putting the actual work in
00:00:41.820 that guys say that they're actually looking for
00:00:44.000 to get the end result that you inevitably want.
00:00:46.600 So you want to get your body done
00:00:47.860 in order to receive more eggplants inside of you?
00:00:50.720 Or do you want to work on becoming much more marriageable material
00:00:53.640 to get a man that is going to provide protect 0.64
00:00:56.560 for you into the long term?
00:00:59.360 Men change their minds a lot as well
00:01:01.180 about the body preference. 0.96
00:01:02.740 Before, it was really slim girls with big boobs. 1.00
00:01:05.080 Then it was the massive bums. 0.99
00:01:06.560 And now men like just natural...
00:01:08.360 You know something, right? 0.99
00:01:09.080 We're not giving a shit. 0.99
00:01:10.040 It's a societal... 0.99
00:01:11.000 That's the trend.
00:01:12.200 It's a trend.
00:01:12.920 What is deep down inside of you has never changed
00:01:18.220 from what the men want.
00:01:19.580 What they perceive to like then.
00:01:21.740 No, because it's been the same all over the years.
00:01:24.760 What the men has want has never changed.
00:01:26.880 Your body might change,
00:01:28.080 but deep inside what the men want has never changed.
00:01:30.660 You keep on changing the outside 0.99
00:01:32.280 when the men don't give a shit about the outside. 0.99
00:01:34.160 They won't keep us. 0.99
00:01:34.780 They want the inside to stay the same.
00:01:37.680 They want the inside like what their granny had, 0.91
00:01:39.640 their great granny had.
00:01:40.780 That is the kind of woman they want. 0.99
00:01:42.300 They don't really give a shit about what you look like outside. 0.98
00:01:44.500 So you might be keeping up with the fashion, 0.99
00:01:46.460 but they don't care.
00:01:47.440 They want the old school, the inside. 0.98
00:01:49.280 So me, you might not have your big old titties 1.00
00:01:51.700 and your big old arse, 1.00
00:01:53.760 but I can catch a man with my flat breasts 1.00
00:01:55.620 and my flat arse. 1.00
00:01:56.640 Because I can cook clean and I'm submissive 0.99
00:01:59.160 and I can look after my man.
00:01:59.960 I think you're very lucky though.
00:02:01.340 I'm not lucky.
00:02:02.300 It's not luck.
00:02:03.020 I think a lot of men don't care about that stuff anymore. 1.00
00:02:05.000 No, it is not luck.
00:02:06.040 I did not come like this because of luck.
00:02:08.220 It pisses me off when people say luck.
00:02:10.080 I didn't get like this because of luck.
00:02:11.940 This is who I am.
00:02:13.060 This is good parenting.
00:02:14.320 I'm saying you're man and you are lucky
00:02:15.920 with the love that you found.
00:02:16.840 Good upbringing from man. 1.00
00:02:17.960 This is not listening to stupid women. 1.00
00:02:19.940 This is listening to older men, 1.00
00:02:21.820 older women that support me.
00:02:23.380 This has got nothing to do with luck.
00:02:25.000 This is doing with hard work.
00:02:26.640 and determination
00:02:27.760 are not going and paying your money
00:02:29.580 to get your outside fixed up
00:02:31.160 when you need to pay your money
00:02:32.300 to get your inside fixed up.
00:02:34.260 Fix your inside, not your outside.
00:02:37.300 Cool down, cool down.
00:02:38.180 Cool down, cool down.
00:02:39.220 Cool down, cool down.
00:02:40.520 Cool down, cool down.
00:02:41.340 Cool down, water bottle.
00:02:43.000 Water bottle.
00:02:44.240 Come on.
00:02:45.140 She dehydrated now.
00:02:46.580 That was a lot.
00:02:47.220 Come on, salute.
00:02:49.140 Okay, question.
00:02:50.020 Question for the panel.
00:02:51.380 Do you guys think that sex work is immoral?
00:02:54.680 Yeah.
00:02:55.180 Can I comment on that actually?
00:02:57.140 Go ahead.
00:02:57.640 So I done an OnlyFans 0.99
00:02:59.500 but it wasn't like vagina, boobs. 1.00
00:03:02.080 It was lingerie, yeah, boobs wear, whatever. 0.99
00:03:04.700 I done it
00:03:05.300 and when I finished it,
00:03:06.500 I felt very degraded.
00:03:07.460 I felt very like,
00:03:08.220 why did I actually do that?
00:03:09.560 Now, I know there's girls out there 1.00
00:03:10.640 who do that.
00:03:11.120 They don't feel that way.
00:03:11.880 That is perfectly fine.
00:03:12.920 You do you.
00:03:13.700 You feel the way you feel.
00:03:15.000 But me personally,
00:03:16.180 like in the future,
00:03:17.480 like when I have kids and all in the future
00:03:19.320 and if my kids found out about that,
00:03:20.640 they'll probably get bullied in school.
00:03:22.260 People will be like,
00:03:22.960 oh, your mom done this,
00:03:24.060 your mom done that
00:03:24.720 and your mom as well.
00:03:25.600 He's not going to,
00:03:26.260 if you don't respect yourself
00:03:27.560 and you're selling your body online,
00:03:29.220 I can't speak for everyone.
00:03:30.380 I can just speak for myself.
00:03:31.420 If you're selling your body online like that,
00:03:33.020 there's not a high respect for yourself.
00:03:35.740 Why expect that from others then?
00:03:37.280 You know what I mean?
00:03:37.940 And it's like,
00:03:38.600 if you're doing that sex work,
00:03:40.620 it's so different for you.
00:03:41.860 How much money did you make?
00:03:43.480 So I basically done it like consecutively
00:03:46.400 for like a week.
00:03:47.560 Like literally,
00:03:47.920 I posted for a full week.
00:03:48.940 Yeah, first week.
00:03:49.420 In total,
00:03:50.720 first week,
00:03:51.560 I made about 2,000.
00:03:52.960 That was from people being nosy
00:03:54.620 and from people-
00:03:55.620 So you made two reds in the first week?
00:03:57.040 In the first week,
00:03:58.020 in one week. 1.00
00:03:58.760 And you felt this shit? 1.00
00:04:00.640 If you've seen the stuff 1.00
00:04:02.080 that people would ask you
00:04:03.260 and even outside of it,
00:04:04.400 even to this day,
00:04:05.100 I don't do it anymore.
00:04:06.260 But people still being like to me,
00:04:07.560 oh, well, you used to have OnlyFans.
00:04:08.840 Like, what was that?
00:04:09.420 Like, you must be real freaky.
00:04:11.400 No.
00:04:12.100 Why are you going for what they talking about?
00:04:14.280 It's because I wasn't posting 0.99
00:04:15.560 this whole vagina. 1.00
00:04:16.340 I wasn't doing the whole thing. 0.99
00:04:17.760 You know what I mean?
00:04:18.280 So you won.
00:04:19.420 You ain't show no men? 0.97
00:04:21.040 No, I showed the titties. 0.99
00:04:23.180 I showed the titties. 0.96
00:04:23.960 But I didn't show nothing else.
00:04:25.600 You know what I mean?
00:04:26.080 And it was kind of to a point
00:04:27.080 where it's like,
00:04:28.080 I thought I could do that
00:04:29.780 when I got onto it.
00:04:30.740 She won money,
00:04:31.620 but she didn't win respect.
00:04:33.140 I didn't win respect.
00:04:33.780 Do you think that you should be judged
00:04:35.600 for doing sex work?
00:04:37.340 To an extent.
00:04:38.140 I don't care what anybody says.
00:04:39.840 In my opinion,
00:04:40.740 it does speak a lot about yourself.
00:04:43.840 It does.
00:04:44.760 100%.
00:04:45.200 Even for me,
00:04:45.820 when I done it,
00:04:46.340 people knew the type of girl I was.
00:04:47.520 I'm very out there.
00:04:48.380 I'm open.
00:04:48.900 I don't care.
00:04:49.400 I'll speak what I speak
00:04:50.300 and say what I say
00:04:51.040 and do what I do.
00:04:52.420 But when I done it,
00:04:53.200 I just didn't expect the big like,
00:04:55.380 whoa.
00:04:55.940 I feel very immoralized.
00:04:56.980 What did you expect?
00:04:58.540 I don't know what I expected.
00:04:59.480 What were you thinking before you did it?
00:05:01.420 Before I did it,
00:05:02.080 I was like,
00:05:02.700 get the bag.
00:05:03.660 Get the money.
00:05:04.240 Just get the money.
00:05:04.920 See all these girls.
00:05:05.360 And was there someone
00:05:05.940 that influenced you to do it?
00:05:07.240 Oh yeah.
00:05:07.660 I see all these girls doing it 1.00
00:05:08.760 and getting the money.
00:05:09.600 But the one thing I didn't.
00:05:10.340 On TikTok?
00:05:10.440 On Instagram, TikTok.
00:05:12.020 Some girls I know.
00:05:12.700 And I'm like,
00:05:13.360 girl, get it. 0.73
00:05:14.000 If that's what you want to do,
00:05:15.120 that is perfectly fine.
00:05:16.040 Like, do you.
00:05:17.280 Me personally,
00:05:17.960 I couldn't do it like that.
00:05:19.260 Do you understand
00:05:19.940 if a guy would disqualify you
00:05:21.440 in the future for that?
00:05:22.800 That was the first thing I said.
00:05:24.080 I can understand
00:05:24.780 how a man would look at me.
00:05:26.180 And why do you think
00:05:27.380 that you accept that
00:05:28.520 where other girls
00:05:29.240 will call the man misogynistic?
00:05:31.440 Feelings.
00:05:31.960 They're not using their logic.
00:05:32.880 They're like,
00:05:33.180 how dare you speak about me like that?
00:05:34.920 And it's like,
00:05:35.340 you're taking it so personal.
00:05:36.820 I was like,
00:05:36.980 you obviously must feel
00:05:38.020 a specific way about yourself
00:05:39.280 if that's how you're speaking
00:05:40.300 about man being misogynistic.
00:05:42.080 Because he won't take you up for that.
00:05:44.400 That's about your own respect levels
00:05:45.840 and that's just your own opinion.
00:05:47.540 Do you guys think
00:05:48.980 that sex work is immoral?
00:05:52.740 Speak into your mic.
00:05:53.900 Just so you don't want to forget.
00:05:54.660 To an extent, yes.
00:05:57.820 A lot of points that you mentioned
00:05:59.600 I'd agree with.
00:06:01.240 I feel like it comes off
00:06:02.780 very desperate.
00:06:05.400 and
00:06:06.600 I just generally feel like
00:06:11.880 doing them sort of things
00:06:14.860 don't make you seem
00:06:17.460 like a very good person
00:06:19.000 in the way of
00:06:21.340 it's not your fault.
00:06:23.740 Like, I'm not blaming you for it.
00:06:25.600 How is it not your fault?
00:06:27.120 Whose fault is it?
00:06:28.340 I think
00:06:28.680 I think
00:06:29.720 genuinely like
00:06:31.560 I feel like
00:06:32.200 obviously
00:06:32.540 I'm not going to
00:06:33.500 put the blame
00:06:34.200 on everyone else.
00:06:34.840 I feel
00:06:35.060 I believe
00:06:35.620 everyone should take
00:06:36.280 accountability
00:06:36.680 for their actions
00:06:37.400 and whatnot
00:06:37.760 but I feel like
00:06:38.660 upbringing
00:06:39.580 and
00:06:41.480 the
00:06:42.340 like
00:06:42.980 financial state you're in
00:06:44.580 can influence you a lot
00:06:46.240 with them sort of things.
00:06:47.400 But you can look at someone
00:06:48.340 that's born in the same
00:06:49.400 upbringing
00:06:49.840 and they don't make those decisions.
00:06:50.980 Yeah, no, 100%.
00:06:52.620 100%.
00:06:53.420 I feel like
00:06:57.000 they
00:06:57.440 Even just being born
00:06:59.560 in this century
00:07:00.600 you're richer than most people
00:07:01.760 were in all of human history.
00:07:03.020 That's true.
00:07:03.480 I agree with that.
00:07:05.080 I just feel like
00:07:05.960 because again
00:07:06.700 going on
00:07:07.340 back onto the part of
00:07:08.380 the society that we're in now
00:07:09.620 obviously back in the day
00:07:11.080 it was prostitution 0.79
00:07:11.820 that was looked down upon more
00:07:13.120 now OnlyFans is being favored
00:07:14.660 especially by like men
00:07:16.600 and whatnot
00:07:17.100 like men that start OnlyFans
00:07:19.060 they get favored
00:07:20.940 they're like
00:07:21.260 oh right
00:07:21.620 he's
00:07:22.420 he's doing his thing 0.99
00:07:23.780 like he's fucking 1.00
00:07:24.540 different bitches every night 1.00
00:07:25.800 type vibe 0.99
00:07:26.640 it's like it gets favored
00:07:28.020 and it's normalized
00:07:28.840 to the point where
00:07:29.740 It's favored
00:07:30.060 you think men make more money 0.87
00:07:31.440 on OnlyFans than women? 0.99
00:07:32.900 I don't know the statistics
00:07:34.240 so I won't speak on that
00:07:35.340 but
00:07:35.680 obviously I know
00:07:37.320 I personally know men
00:07:39.000 that are on OnlyFans
00:07:40.120 and they do make money.
00:07:41.480 Like what's make money?
00:07:42.940 As in like
00:07:43.500 they make
00:07:44.180 a substantial amount
00:07:45.420 probably like 30k a month
00:07:47.220 so
00:07:48.480 like
00:07:49.560 it is a thing
00:07:51.180 obviously it's not
00:07:52.200 as normal as women
00:07:53.280 doing it
00:07:53.800 but it is a thing
00:07:54.640 It's crazy how men 1.00
00:07:56.080 were the ones that kind of
00:07:56.960 that kind of run
00:07:57.940 the porn society 0.97
00:07:58.800 and it's the women 1.00
00:07:59.540 that are falling into
00:08:00.540 I'm sorry
00:08:01.200 porn society
00:08:01.860 my apologies
00:08:02.540 how they run the porn societies
00:08:04.060 but obviously women 1.00
00:08:04.760 being consumers
00:08:05.460 as it is
00:08:06.400 we're going to be the ones
00:08:07.480 to jump into it more
00:08:08.380 you know what I mean
00:08:08.740 compared to men
00:08:09.260 100%
00:08:09.820 okay so what do you think
00:08:11.700 is sex work immoral?
00:08:14.740 yes I absolutely think so
00:08:16.540 for any sex
00:08:17.720 it doesn't even matter
00:08:18.520 male or female
00:08:19.380 we weren't made
00:08:20.980 to do that
00:08:22.700 right
00:08:22.900 like even just
00:08:24.360 the fact that we have to
00:08:25.100 wear clothes and layers
00:08:26.440 is to protect
00:08:27.520 right
00:08:27.800 so even before you put on
00:08:28.760 your regular clothes
00:08:29.420 you have on undergarments
00:08:30.500 right
00:08:30.780 and so that in and of itself
00:08:32.740 just shows the default nature
00:08:34.480 of how that's supposed
00:08:35.280 to be more sacred
00:08:36.000 it's supposed to be
00:08:36.640 more private
00:08:37.120 more secure
00:08:37.680 right
00:08:37.960 we even refer to it
00:08:39.080 as private parts
00:08:39.740 private areas
00:08:40.880 so absolutely
00:08:42.080 it's immoral
00:08:42.600 to just be flaunting that
00:08:43.980 and giving it to anyone
00:08:45.140 period
00:08:46.020 what about you?
00:08:47.780 so for myself
00:08:48.640 I would say
00:08:49.640 it would be immoral for me
00:08:50.660 but I don't know
00:08:52.120 like I think
00:08:52.780 as many of you know
00:08:53.800 I was just banned
00:08:55.040 on TikTok
00:08:55.920 and we are demonetized
00:08:57.640 on a daily basis
00:08:58.880 on this platform
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00:09:02.040 please consider
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