JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Are SELFISH About Sex

00:00:00.000 do you think women should wait before having sex with a new guy for me it's about commitment 1.00

00:00:06.700 so until we are committed to each other that's no matter how long that takes until he's in a

00:00:13.740 relationship with you yeah but where i'm at right now most likely until we're married

00:00:20.340 okay so you want to be celibate until you're married yeah so where am i where i am in my

00:00:26.560 life right now yes do you do you think that's fair to ask of a guy if the last guy didn't have to do

00:00:31.620 that not necessarily it's not fair no it's i mean it's not unfair it's not unfair to him

00:00:41.140 i like that i'm just i'm just going to give you i'm going to do this blessing do you think that's

00:00:47.480 unfair hell yeah blessing blessing how would how would that go over for you if a girl asks you to 1.00

00:00:57.640 wait when she she's not a virgin i'm going listen think about listen listen i know what she's gonna 1.00

00:01:04.720 say that was before she was a christian she's a christian and she's in church would you wait

00:01:10.160 if he was a church man no if he was a church man i mean he goes to church every sunday i mean

00:01:16.580 committed he knows what i mean proper once you've opened the gates they're open for everybody okay

00:01:21.660 um how long do you wait do you think do you think girls should wait good you could say how long you 0.96

00:01:32.580 think girls should wait it's gonna be a controversial opinion but i think it depends on the situation

00:01:38.960 because you could be in the situation where you hold out then i think girls hold out because it's 0.99

00:01:44.320 off the basis they think men respect them more if they hold out but you can hold out have sex with 0.61

00:01:48.860 someone and then they're like they'll they're on to the next you don't think it matters how long you

00:01:53.440 wait um i don't think not on the first not on the first date i don't think you should it it happens

00:01:58.260 but i feel like at least the first date you can kind of hold it out um maybe like third date i would

00:02:05.000 say roughly third date yeah how long would you have known him from the first to the third

00:02:08.820 date like how long does that take usually um before i go on a date i need to speak to them

00:02:14.560 for a bit so you're talking maybe like two three week speaking period there may be a date a week so

00:02:21.220 so like three three weeks roughly a month that's a lot of money i would date a week no like on by

00:02:27.240 the third date i mean so you go first date one week then second date the week after then the third

00:02:32.100 date the week after that who's playing for these dates um it depends i think if he says to me i want

00:02:37.680 to take you for dinner that first date he should be paying then after that it's like 50 50

00:02:41.740 um yeah okay what do you think how long like it's all about energy because the body is the body

00:02:52.420 and science and hormones and chemistry and stuff like that so i think it's when you feel comfortable

00:02:59.460 with that person for me i know that i want to be exclusive and it needs to be a commitment i'm not

00:03:04.320 going to be having sex with somebody that's having sex with other women um so yeah i think i just need 0.61

00:03:08.860 to go with my instincts to be honest but it definitely won't be on the first date or the

00:03:13.580 second date like it fifth third um i'll be honest i don't date like i haven't even ever done that i've

00:03:22.560 always known somebody and then moving oh you mean they're like friends yeah like or you know them

00:03:28.660 in some form way like i wouldn't just meet us like so you meet you know let's say and my my producer

00:03:35.860 has a girlfriend but let's just pretend there's another one there he's single you just meet

00:03:39.240 your friends right yeah you know so then how long you know he's not a serial killer he knows a couple

00:03:46.480 people you know yeah it needs a time it needs to be a few weeks okay a few weeks yeah okay okay auntie how

00:03:52.760 long i know it's been a while since you've been in the dating game but i think nowadays it's like

00:04:01.980 as soon as as soon as you can do what you want nowadays because i find out that dates all involve

00:04:08.460 sex in my day i've been i've been seeing guys for like a year and never had sex with them 0.51

00:04:14.180 we just have friends chill out go out together in groups and single and then you think nah don't

00:04:21.020 well then you might think yeah then afterwards you think nah but i think as long as it takes

00:04:27.580 but if i knew then what i knew now let's lock it down from the beginning i'll just wait till i'm a

00:04:33.520 virgin and because i was really unattractive i'll be the oldest virgin girl auntie auntie if they're 0.79

00:04:39.080 not virgins how long if they're not virgins yeah how long free up free it up free for all free for

00:04:45.620 that's what they're doing now yeah that's what these dating sites are in it you're you're like 0.89

00:04:49.980 linking people to actually have sex oh no i'm not talking like that i'm talking about like meeting

00:04:53.340 somebody for i don't believe in dating sites i'm talking about you meet someone you can psych them

00:04:57.740 out you you know where they're coming from because you never just go and pick up someone and go on a

00:05:02.920 date you're gonna know them from before so nowadays if you're single you've got no kids and you want

00:05:07.580 to free up free up you want to be slag go ahead free up if not just don't blessing guys point of view

00:05:14.960 how long should women wait how many hours how many how many date how many dates roughly dates 1.00

00:05:23.180 yeah date yes one okay if it was my sister she can wait a long time but i know these girls they 1.00

00:05:36.000 have to give it up it's just what it is right now the mentality is if you're not doing it someone

00:05:43.680 else is doing it if you're not doing that somebody else is for your sister how long can she wait does

00:05:49.460 she have to wait so she's married yeah she can wait forever 1.00

00:05:51.900 okay anti you got any more questions at what age do you use your virginity 16 no comment okay yeah i'm

00:06:09.420 gonna say no comment as well but you i was young though i wouldn't want my daughter to lose her

00:06:15.000 virginity that young and i was extremely promiscuous as well at a very young age um but obviously i i believe

00:06:21.240 in different things i believe in certain influences whether that be your environment spiritual whatever

00:06:27.120 um but what i know is that i'm learning from my mistakes and if i had a daughter um i would teach

00:06:33.200 her certain things i feel i feel like i personally was left to just grow instead of having a woman and

00:06:39.200 i didn't have my dad or my mom there to guide me i was observing my mom having you know i'm not gonna

00:06:44.420 expose certain things i grew up around people right with mums and dads yeah and it's only when i was an adult

00:06:49.960 i realized that all my friends i was playing with were actually out there having sex and i was like

00:06:55.300 but we were at school they were like yeah we were having and i just i just couldn't believe it but

00:07:00.280 it was out then there's people out there having sex well i know is that my son he's 17 now but he

00:07:06.340 broke his virginity when he was 16 which i'm happy about i wish he would have left it longer but whatever

00:07:10.780 and then my 15 year old he's still a virgin so we're good for now 0.82

00:07:14.080 i'm gonna look up my grandchildren my grandchildren are having no sex until i say 0.97

00:07:20.780 oh my gosh i found out on sneeko's stream that my sister had had sex i was like 0.91

00:07:27.120 i was like gasp

00:07:29.420 i was like no

00:07:31.420 my little sister because someone said like what's her body count in the comments

00:07:37.660 and i i was like don't answer that and then and then i was thinking she was a virgin then

00:07:43.300 sneeko she's got away and he had a way of going around and then she was like one and i was like

00:07:48.320 no

00:07:50.360 and she's quite old compared to the girls nowadays 0.95

00:07:55.000 yeah now she is older 1.00

00:07:56.940 yeah like but yeah i was like um okay you got any more auntie

00:08:03.640 how many kids are you that fun are you gonna have

00:08:05.840 i don't know whether you've got any i know she has but how many do you want and by what age do you

00:08:13.140 want to have all of them um i want to have four and latest maybe like 38 39

00:08:21.780 okay i want to have three and latest 28 29

00:08:29.640 i would like to have one more little girl um star but i need to have certain things in place

00:08:36.580 and now i was gonna say how do you know you're gonna have a girl

00:08:40.740 but then you're gonna tell me oh i thought he's gonna tell me that you're gonna connect the stars and

00:08:44.540 make sure that everything i was waiting for like i'm gonna wait until the stars are in alignment

00:08:52.880 you know until my body's the right temperature to his and then we're gonna produce this girl 0.98

00:08:58.640 that's what i was waiting for what age would you guys like to start having kids and would you have

00:09:02.600 to be married to have a child say i would have to be married 100 um because i was raised by a single

00:09:11.740 mother and i saw how hard it was for her so i don't want that for myself um but definitely

00:09:18.680 like 26 27 okay but at the same time it just depends on my circumstances as well um but i'll

00:09:27.300 definitely have to be married yeah what about you um i'd prefer to be married i don't it's not really

00:09:32.740 a doorbreaker for me um but i don't i don't think i'm ready to have my first child at least

00:09:38.580 until i'm about 29 30 29 30 yeah okay what about you um both my children were planned

00:09:46.960 so i had my first child when i was 20 and then the next one i was 22 because i wanted to be a young

00:09:52.980 mom and grow with them and be youthful and stuff but i just i don't know it's all about your maturity

00:09:59.040 i suppose and i think that your your financial situation definitely needs to be thought about as

00:10:06.180 well okay so what age would you want to have your next oh the next one okay so i'm 39 like if i'm

00:10:12.940 gonna have another child it needs to be in the next like five years if i haven't got another child in

00:10:18.380 the next five years but i'm not gonna say oh i can't have any more children because if i'm having

00:10:21.500 sex with my man unprotectedly my my guy and and we have a baby that's god's will that what am i 0.83

00:10:27.200 supposed to so yeah just kind of shoot up see what happens basically it's you know once i've got 0.95

00:10:33.580 those millions yeah shoot up as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - March 14, 2023

Modern Women Are SELFISH About Sex

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