Modern Women Are SELFISH About Sex
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the topic of sex and virginity. Do women should wait before having sex with a new guy? How long should a woman wait to have sex with her new partner? And how long should she wait before she goes on a date?
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do you think women should wait before having sex with a new guy for me it's about commitment
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so until we are committed to each other that's no matter how long that takes until he's in a
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relationship with you yeah but where i'm at right now most likely until we're married
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okay so you want to be celibate until you're married yeah so where am i where i am in my
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life right now yes do you do you think that's fair to ask of a guy if the last guy didn't have to do
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that not necessarily it's not fair no it's i mean it's not unfair it's not unfair to him
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i like that i'm just i'm just going to give you i'm going to do this blessing do you think that's
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unfair hell yeah blessing blessing how would how would that go over for you if a girl asks you to
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wait when she she's not a virgin i'm going listen think about listen listen i know what she's gonna
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say that was before she was a christian she's a christian and she's in church would you wait
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if he was a church man no if he was a church man i mean he goes to church every sunday i mean
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committed he knows what i mean proper once you've opened the gates they're open for everybody okay
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um how long do you wait do you think do you think girls should wait good you could say how long you
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think girls should wait it's gonna be a controversial opinion but i think it depends on the situation
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because you could be in the situation where you hold out then i think girls hold out because it's
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off the basis they think men respect them more if they hold out but you can hold out have sex with
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someone and then they're like they'll they're on to the next you don't think it matters how long you
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wait um i don't think not on the first not on the first date i don't think you should it it happens
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but i feel like at least the first date you can kind of hold it out um maybe like third date i would
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say roughly third date yeah how long would you have known him from the first to the third
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date like how long does that take usually um before i go on a date i need to speak to them
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for a bit so you're talking maybe like two three week speaking period there may be a date a week so
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so like three three weeks roughly a month that's a lot of money i would date a week no like on by
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the third date i mean so you go first date one week then second date the week after then the third
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date the week after that who's playing for these dates um it depends i think if he says to me i want
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to take you for dinner that first date he should be paying then after that it's like 50 50
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um yeah okay what do you think how long like it's all about energy because the body is the body
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and science and hormones and chemistry and stuff like that so i think it's when you feel comfortable
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with that person for me i know that i want to be exclusive and it needs to be a commitment i'm not
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going to be having sex with somebody that's having sex with other women um so yeah i think i just need
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to go with my instincts to be honest but it definitely won't be on the first date or the
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second date like it fifth third um i'll be honest i don't date like i haven't even ever done that i've
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always known somebody and then moving oh you mean they're like friends yeah like or you know them
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in some form way like i wouldn't just meet us like so you meet you know let's say and my my producer
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has a girlfriend but let's just pretend there's another one there he's single you just meet
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your friends right yeah you know so then how long you know he's not a serial killer he knows a couple
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people you know yeah it needs a time it needs to be a few weeks okay a few weeks yeah okay okay auntie how
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long i know it's been a while since you've been in the dating game but i think nowadays it's like
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as soon as as soon as you can do what you want nowadays because i find out that dates all involve
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sex in my day i've been i've been seeing guys for like a year and never had sex with them
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we just have friends chill out go out together in groups and single and then you think nah don't
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well then you might think yeah then afterwards you think nah but i think as long as it takes
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but if i knew then what i knew now let's lock it down from the beginning i'll just wait till i'm a
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virgin and because i was really unattractive i'll be the oldest virgin girl auntie auntie if they're
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not virgins how long if they're not virgins yeah how long free up free it up free for all free for
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that's what they're doing now yeah that's what these dating sites are in it you're you're like
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linking people to actually have sex oh no i'm not talking like that i'm talking about like meeting
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somebody for i don't believe in dating sites i'm talking about you meet someone you can psych them
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out you you know where they're coming from because you never just go and pick up someone and go on a
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date you're gonna know them from before so nowadays if you're single you've got no kids and you want
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to free up free up you want to be slag go ahead free up if not just don't blessing guys point of view
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how long should women wait how many hours how many how many date how many dates roughly dates
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yeah date yes one okay if it was my sister she can wait a long time but i know these girls they
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have to give it up it's just what it is right now the mentality is if you're not doing it someone
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else is doing it if you're not doing that somebody else is for your sister how long can she wait does
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she have to wait so she's married yeah she can wait forever
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okay anti you got any more questions at what age do you use your virginity 16 no comment okay yeah i'm
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gonna say no comment as well but you i was young though i wouldn't want my daughter to lose her
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virginity that young and i was extremely promiscuous as well at a very young age um but obviously i i believe
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in different things i believe in certain influences whether that be your environment spiritual whatever
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um but what i know is that i'm learning from my mistakes and if i had a daughter um i would teach
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her certain things i feel i feel like i personally was left to just grow instead of having a woman and
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i didn't have my dad or my mom there to guide me i was observing my mom having you know i'm not gonna
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expose certain things i grew up around people right with mums and dads yeah and it's only when i was an adult
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i realized that all my friends i was playing with were actually out there having sex and i was like
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but we were at school they were like yeah we were having and i just i just couldn't believe it but
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it was out then there's people out there having sex well i know is that my son he's 17 now but he
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broke his virginity when he was 16 which i'm happy about i wish he would have left it longer but whatever
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and then my 15 year old he's still a virgin so we're good for now
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i'm gonna look up my grandchildren my grandchildren are having no sex until i say
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oh my gosh i found out on sneeko's stream that my sister had had sex i was like
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my little sister because someone said like what's her body count in the comments
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and i i was like don't answer that and then and then i was thinking she was a virgin then
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sneeko she's got away and he had a way of going around and then she was like one and i was like
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and she's quite old compared to the girls nowadays
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yeah like but yeah i was like um okay you got any more auntie
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how many kids are you that fun are you gonna have
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i don't know whether you've got any i know she has but how many do you want and by what age do you
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want to have all of them um i want to have four and latest maybe like 38 39
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i would like to have one more little girl um star but i need to have certain things in place
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and now i was gonna say how do you know you're gonna have a girl
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but then you're gonna tell me oh i thought he's gonna tell me that you're gonna connect the stars and
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make sure that everything i was waiting for like i'm gonna wait until the stars are in alignment
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you know until my body's the right temperature to his and then we're gonna produce this girl
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that's what i was waiting for what age would you guys like to start having kids and would you have
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to be married to have a child say i would have to be married 100 um because i was raised by a single
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mother and i saw how hard it was for her so i don't want that for myself um but definitely
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like 26 27 okay but at the same time it just depends on my circumstances as well um but i'll
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definitely have to be married yeah what about you um i'd prefer to be married i don't it's not really
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a doorbreaker for me um but i don't i don't think i'm ready to have my first child at least
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until i'm about 29 30 29 30 yeah okay what about you um both my children were planned
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so i had my first child when i was 20 and then the next one i was 22 because i wanted to be a young
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mom and grow with them and be youthful and stuff but i just i don't know it's all about your maturity
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i suppose and i think that your your financial situation definitely needs to be thought about as
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well okay so what age would you want to have your next oh the next one okay so i'm 39 like if i'm
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gonna have another child it needs to be in the next like five years if i haven't got another child in
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the next five years but i'm not gonna say oh i can't have any more children because if i'm having
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sex with my man unprotectedly my my guy and and we have a baby that's god's will that what am i
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supposed to so yeah just kind of shoot up see what happens basically it's you know once i've got
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those millions yeah shoot up as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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