JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Modern Women are too Entitled and Delusional


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8 minutes

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213.72415

Word count

1,767

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1

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Misogyny

19

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10

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a "traditional woman" in the modern dating world and why it's important to have nothing in common in a relationship. We also discuss the difference between being a traditional woman and a traditional man and the differences between the two.

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00:00:00.000 my point is like average women still feel entitled to above average men and 0.93
00:00:04.620 we're so delusional to think that we are going to get them when what does she
00:00:09.000 bring to the table as a 39 year old news presenter so would you say the bus
00:00:12.760 drivers above average and she's average no I'm saying she's average maybe even 0.85
00:00:18.180 below average at 40 as into what she can bring to a guy and a bus driver is an 0.93
00:00:23.900 average man so they're like equals kind of yeah and she thinks she's above it so
00:00:28.440 what about men in going on so how would you marry a cleaner yeah you would do 0.98
00:00:35.280 you guys think you guys would have a lot in common it's funny I actually want to
00:00:40.420 date someone I like prefer it when we have nothing in common how would the
00:00:45.240 relationship survive that what would you guys discuss if you guys I don't I don't
00:00:48.120 really think you need to talk yeah I was thinking about this the other day
00:00:58.380 I was like do you not really want to listen to us talk absolutely you have
00:01:02.100 deep conversations talk to my friends never talk I think it's very attractive
00:01:09.300 when you were the partner and they've got something that can educate you yeah I
00:01:15.900 think girls talk they don't want to hear oh did you remember what my friend they 1.00
00:01:19.140 don't want to hear that but if it's something learning and knowledgeable thank
00:01:23.040 you yeah absolutely that's that's that's what they I think I'm saying like what's
00:01:28.200 the news reporter gonna learn from a bus driver but when you think about it is
00:01:34.540 like when you just look at it she obviously she reports the news like in
00:01:37.980 general she just comes across she might know a lot more but obviously he might
00:01:42.060 end up learning way more from her because obviously she reports to me exactly but
00:01:46.040 at the same time he's probably gonna learn more from her than she will from
00:01:53.120 him so it's like in that sense she kind of is valid to like you know maybe she
00:01:57.160 wants to like learn from her partner like maybe that's why she doesn't want a 0.99
00:02:00.900 bus driver I feel like she could date a lawyer or she could date a shopkeeper or
00:02:04.760 she could date a teacher but a bus driver like let's be real like there's 0.93
00:02:08.540 actual levels to things in this life and I feel like that's they would have
00:02:12.260 absolutely nothing in common and I'm not even judging it due to his pockets I'm
00:02:15.740 judging is that actually like the compatibility what are they gonna talk
00:02:18.980 about it what they're gonna discuss what they're gonna have in common I feel
00:02:21.980 like in that aspect she's allowed to say that this is not gonna work and she's
00:02:25.640 better off dating care than dating someone that she and history people 0.75
00:02:29.540 didn't have anything in common like a story like having similar hobbies to a guy
00:02:33.900 that's a new thing oh you have to have something okay okay hunter-gatherer what
00:02:38.300 what did they have in common survival okay even on the farm
00:02:45.620 like they did different roles like having similar interests is a new thing
00:02:49.860 farming no but I'm saying they both did different roles on the farm like they
00:02:55.160 didn't do the same things like the woman was more in the house the guy was more
00:02:57.760 in the field but managing that whole property that that was what they had
00:03:00.800 right they had the family in common and so you would still have the family in
00:03:04.520 common in this situation but we're talking a lot about like traditional
00:03:07.860 women but I just want to understand like you guys's thoughts on traditional men and
00:03:11.740 how common that is these days do you feel like it's common as well that do men
00:03:15.620 play their part do they play their position I think that there's more
00:03:19.000 traditional men than traditional women okay and then let me just go over what
00:03:23.320 a traditional man it's just in brief just I would say a guy that wants to
00:03:26.480 protect and provide I think I've been researching more about like guys
00:03:30.520 providing and I don't know what what fifty to sixty thousand dollars is in the UK
00:03:35.640 but you can actually live off of a lot to sixty thousand that's about what like
00:03:40.780 40k yeah so I'm 40k um you can feed roughly a family of four or five if you
00:03:46.320 if you do it right mm-hmm in London you might have to go to the suburbs yeah I'm
00:03:53.760 saying like you can homeschool the kids if you want and you go out into the
00:03:56.940 suburbs and he commutes to work you can do it people just don't want to the thing is
00:04:01.320 most guys naturally wants to be providers and protectors but most women 1.00
00:04:06.240 set standards that way too high for most men to meet that's the issue can you
00:04:11.280 give us an example of a standard that's high too high okay can I can I give you
00:04:15.520 one yeah if you want to have your nails done the rest of your life yes and you
00:04:19.200 want makeup the rest of your life would could you go without that expense for a
00:04:23.400 family of course for a family a lot of women won't I've heard your perspective on 1.00
00:04:29.640 the makeup thing a lot of a lot of women like won't go down in lifestyle for a 1.00
00:04:33.080 family I would do that for my family I know you you might you might but I'm
00:04:37.200 saying like a lot of women won't because I was speaking to a woman who raised like 0.96
00:04:40.140 four or five kids I'm like 40 to 50 K and she was like giving examples of jobs 0.89
00:04:44.280 you can go for and I can't remember it exactly but she was giving examples like
00:04:48.660 for women of jobs you can go for and like places you can find those men and 0.99
00:04:51.960 like how you can do it and she's like you only like when you go down to one
00:04:55.440 income it's less money and if you homeschool the kids it's less money if you grow your
00:04:59.280 own food it's the funny less money but like most people refuse to do that mmm
00:05:03.240 no that's interesting but even on the thing about maintaining like appearances
00:05:06.960 and stuff makeup nails like for me personally like I believe in enhancing
00:05:12.720 what you naturally have so yeah I've got makeup on I actually don't wear that
00:05:16.800 much makeup I don't have eyelashes on I wear mascara these are my these are my
00:05:20.040 real nails no no no I'm just saying as an example of the fact that I take time
00:05:23.640 to actually look after my natural qualities so if I did need to like come off it I
00:05:28.800 cannot wear makeup tomorrow and I couldn't get my nails on tomorrow and if
00:05:31.480 all the shops ended and everything all this started I could survive and look
00:05:35.100 good naturally I take care of myself like I look after myself so that's what
00:05:39.360 I think women need to concentrate on more than just adding on women make 80% of 1.00
00:05:44.400 consumer buying decisions like women are bad with money bad like I think about a 1.00
00:05:49.260 metal that means men only spend 20% of like what is appearances right no I think
00:05:54.460 it's because women we're more impulsive and we just make more emotional 1.00
00:05:58.540 decisions yeah probably I think when it comes to maintenance and things I think
00:06:02.440 every woman should look after themselves I think the mistake that us females make 1.00
00:06:06.160 is we spend too much money looking after themselves like there's so many ways to
00:06:09.520 look nice and do it on a budget like for example with me I've always been a
00:06:13.240 girly girl I've always loved fashion when I got like my first few jobs I used to
00:06:17.140 spend so much money on clothes and would have nothing left then I decided let me just be a
00:06:21.200 fashion influencer and I haven't spent money on clothes in like the last three
00:06:24.560 years so there's and even as well sometimes I resell those clothes so
00:06:27.740 there's smart ways to look good but actually do it on a budget so for all
00:06:31.760 the girls watching this I strongly encourage you to not fall into that
00:06:34.520 pressure or feeling like you have to spend thousands every month just to look
00:06:38.080 good because you really don't the woman I spoke to said she spent I think it was
00:06:42.380 less than a hundred a year on clothes for five kids because they would do
00:06:45.820 resales and hand-me-downs but her kids that takes a lot of time and 0.72
00:06:50.060 patience I guess correct but like most women don't want to do it yeah less than 1.00
00:06:55.300 a hundred is important for men though as well do you think yeah I do actually
00:06:58.820 important I do not as important as important I feel like hygiene is
00:07:04.120 definitely important because no one wants a smelly man but the reason why is
00:07:07.520 not important because for women that's not what we look for I feel like our main 1.00
00:07:11.240 priority is someone I can protect and provide not someone that's gonna be
00:07:15.060 aesthetically pleasing to us and that's the problem of society today men care more 1.00
00:07:18.940 about Gucci than actually going out and having an LV belt you said men care more
00:07:22.740 about Gucci yeah men care more about Gucci and having an LV belt and looking nice
00:07:26.800 than actually you know going out and having a job again the numbers just don't
00:07:30.760 support you because men aren't really spending money like that I think modern
00:07:34.980 men especially men in my generation no I'm telling you if you look at the numbers
00:07:39.060 of like the money spent it's not it's women that are spending money it's not men 0.96
00:07:43.200 there might be like exceptions but again you probably you guys don't see 80% of men like
00:07:48.540 they're invisible to you you don't notice the guy at Tesco you don't notice the
00:07:51.720 guy and and I'm like I'm I'm saying like for most but you find 80% of men is
00:07:56.640 unattractive well statistics don't lie so I can't even argue that I think it's
00:08:01.500 important for a man to take care of himself but just to answer your
00:08:03.700 question like if you're talking like getting like facials or just skincare
00:08:06.960 skincare is so important like across the board I think we all need to take that
00:08:11.880 seriously men manicures pedicures that's great do that