JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023


Modern Women Are Trapped In Delusion


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

176.49055

Word count

1,560

Sentence count

120

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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A man on national TV recently said that women who don t do household chores are wimps because they don t get enough sex from doing the little things around the house. Mark and Lise disagree with him.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Now it's actually interesting to look at videos from the early 2000s because you have women
00:00:06.700 telling on themselves. Oh, they tell on themselves. So I found some news clips from the early 2000s
00:00:14.520 talking about really just repeating some of the problems that we see today. And it's like an
00:00:19.660 interesting case study. So there was a clip from a guy on national TV talking about how men buying
00:00:25.400 sex with chores are wimps. Let's pull it up. I'll tell you something, Mark, if you're doing work
00:00:30.340 around the house and you're helping out and you're showing that you respect your spouse, your wife,
00:00:34.040 your loved one, that's hot. If you're sitting there like a big schlamiel on your couch drinking the 1.00
00:00:39.640 beers, one vacuum around you, that's not hot. That's not going to go anywhere. It's not that
00:00:44.740 it's a requirement. It's something about respect, Mark. I don't know if you know much about that.
00:00:49.040 She has a point. First of all, first of all, Elise, don't get yourself excited. Oh, Mark, Mark, Mark.
00:00:53.960 Second of all, men, men are doing things around the house because things need to be done, not 0.79
00:01:01.360 because they're purchasing sex. And by the way, Elise, I've never seen women out in the 1.00
00:01:06.380 front yard raking leaves on the roof, replacing shingles. I've never seen them taking out the
00:01:11.840 garbage, carrying luggage. And by the way, at your office, I'll bet you've never seen a
00:01:16.100 woman replace that five or 10 gallon jug on top of the bubbler. It's always the man who does it.
00:01:22.120 So let's be clear. Let's be clear about doing chores, Elise. Yeah, Mark, you haven't been
00:01:27.560 around me. You haven't been around our neighborhood. I have painted a roof. I have built a full part
00:01:35.320 of a house. I built a deck. I've done a lot of different things like that, Mark, that I
00:01:39.900 bet you couldn't do. And I'll tell you something else, Mark. Send me the videos, please. Imagine,
00:01:42.580 Mark, for just, just imagine, for one horrific split second that we were married, wouldn't
00:01:50.060 you want to be doing some chores to make me happy, Mark, just because you liked me and
00:01:54.340 wanted to make me happy, Mark? First of all, Lisey Poo, I don't know if it's possible to 1.00
00:02:00.880 make you happy, but if we were married, there would be a lot of sex and you'd be taking out 1.00
00:02:04.760 the garbage. You'd be loving every minute of it. I don't think it goes three times garbage,
00:02:09.720 Mark equals sex. And that's not what this study was about. Lisey, I'm not purchasing
00:02:13.400 sex from you with money, drinks, dinners, or household chores. The study said that men 0.87
00:02:19.600 that are out there and actually showing respect for their working wives and doing the laundry 0.99
00:02:24.660 and doing the tasks and taking care of the kids makes for a happier marriage, a happier
00:02:28.840 partnership, Mark. Lisey, it's not about showing respect for the woman. It's about showing
00:02:32.900 respect for the house. And again, my point is a man doesn't purchase sex with chores. If he's
00:02:38.800 not getting sex, which should come first, he shouldn't do any chores. So when he goes
00:02:43.560 into the bathroom at night, when he goes into the bathroom at night, when he goes into the
00:02:48.120 bathroom at night, Lise, Lise, Lise, when a man goes into the bathroom at night and if
00:02:51.980 he sees his wife doing the skin cream ritual on the elbows, on the hands, on the face, then 0.50
00:02:57.620 she puts on the flannel pajamas, he should say, you take out the garbage. Yeah, because you
00:03:01.560 know what, Mark? She's so exhausted from having to do all the work around the house before she 1.00
00:03:05.200 doesn't have any time for any of that. Oh, poor baby. Thank you. Okay, Lise gets the
00:03:09.700 last word. Bye, Marky Poo. Okay. Lise, I can't wait for you. Have a good weekend, Mark. You
00:03:15.960 too. This guy is so funny. He was so ahead of his time. I don't know if that was common
00:03:22.040 back then because I think this is from like the early 2000s. So three years ago, this man
00:03:26.800 single-handedly began the war against simps. No one was even acknowledging the simp pandemic.
00:03:32.600 He was ahead of his time. Every time I see Mark smile, I know something's about to go
00:03:37.820 down. Can you guys like message him? I want to get him on. He needs to come on a panel.
00:03:43.620 Okay. He acknowledged a couple things. One, you know what's so interesting? What they're
00:03:51.060 talking about since the 60s, men do more childcare and more chores. They were implying that men need 0.95
00:03:58.720 to do that to get sex instead of talking about the failures of the wives. You know what I mean? 1.00
00:04:08.900 And I was thinking about, because I call them the generation of shitty wives and it's all the wives 1.00
00:04:14.040 from this time period. They tell him themselves, you know, and he's right. He's right when he's saying
00:04:19.560 sex is supposed to be a requirement and the women arguing with him are arguing likely because 1.00
00:04:25.700 they're not screwing their husband. And really, it's like they tell on themselves, this is a failure
00:04:32.460 of the wives. And it's enabled by the simps. The simps enable this stuff because these women think 1.00
00:04:41.200 they're so amazing and awesome because they take money from the simps. Or, you know, they have these
00:04:46.640 jobs talking at Fox News and now they just think they're so empowered and amazing. And they're
00:04:53.640 exhausted. How exhausting? You talked at work, Deborah. If you guys have any recommendations for
00:05:00.820 clips from the early 2000s, I really want to make these like a case study of what has gone on in the
00:05:08.380 last 50 years. So now you see average women getting delusional. You know, not only do they want their 1.00
00:05:18.020 husbands to take care of all the bills, they also want them to do chores, watch the kids. They just 1.00
00:05:22.700 want them to do everything. They just basically, the modern wife wants men to slave away for her 1.00
00:05:28.480 because she is so awesome and amazing and so special. And then they make up these words like
00:05:34.460 feminine goodness. And you can never measure them or really define them, but women have them, 0.96
00:05:39.820 right? That's what they say. Okay. So, and what does this lead to? So those are the women of the past 0.99
00:05:45.920 starting to get more delusional. Now here's the women in 2023. Let's pull it up. What would you want 1.00
00:05:53.720 his income to be? I feel like this is going to sound bad. I feel like like 300,000. I would have to say
00:05:59.140 127,000, probably 150 to a quarter of a million a year. $500,000. Is that bad? 150,000, maybe to 250,000
00:06:11.400 a year. It would be comfortable for sure. I was just having this conversation with my friend and
00:06:17.640 she was like, you have to manifest a husband, girl. Ideally, my husband needs to be making like 1.00
00:06:24.740 $650,000. So you said you want $500,000, but what do you think the median income is for a 30-year-old?
00:06:31.360 $60,000? $70,000? It is $45,000. Oh my god, really? Yeah. I think it's $250,000.
00:06:40.900 It's $52,000. What? No, it's not. Damn, America. None of these girls are ugly, right? They're all cute. 1.00
00:06:49.260 But I mean, 1% of men make, this girl said $650,000 a year. Are you insane? That's 1, 2% of men.
00:07:00.820 And what are the odds these women are making that much money? I mean, come on. Joni says, 1.00
00:07:05.860 I don't understand why these women have no clue about salaries. Are they not working themselves? 1.00
00:07:10.720 And they kind of tell on themselves because why would you think that's the average salary?
00:07:19.060 It's probably because you're around. You know, it's probably because you're going to
00:07:22.520 passed around by these dudes that are making stupid amounts of money. So this commenter said,
00:07:28.240 damn, Americas. Nod damn, y'all. Every time you think about how much you would like your man to make, 1.00
00:07:34.040 your numbers always are outrageous because you want him to make enough to provide that perfect dream life
00:07:39.560 of yours that you don't have to do much other than be beautiful or be his since most of you all think
00:07:46.200 you're tens anyways. So, you know, and you see like what, and we gotta, I look at this as like a historian,
00:07:54.000 like Pearl's basically a historian. What created this level of delusion? And you see it in the early
00:07:59.760 2000s. These are the wives and the mothers that raised these delusional women. So a lot of times these 0.97
00:08:07.360 chicks act like this because nobody has checked them for a lifetime because we have a lifetime 1.00
00:08:12.820 of women that co-sign bad decisions and delusion and simps that also tell them they deserve everything 0.83
00:08:19.540 and are so amazing. And so, you know, sometimes guys on Twitter, I just say basic things. Okay. I just say
00:08:26.460 basic, really just basic facts that used to be, um, well-known. So I thought about, I'm 26 now,
00:08:35.100 and I thought about how an old maid used to be 26. Okay. So, you know, look how honest I am, 0.99
00:08:41.900 right? I'm such, I'm such an honest gal. I'll even, I'll even say things that apply to me.
00:08:47.280 Okay. Because I'm just here to tell you the truth.