Modern Women Get Humbled In Big Cities ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the differences between living in Miami and living in Denver. We discuss the pros and cons of living in the big cities and what it's like to move to a new city. We also talk about how it's not as expensive as social media makes it out to be.
Transcript
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regular and i feel like the people who made it out to be like this thing of like oh my god it's
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such a dark city like either are not surrounding themselves with like the right people or they
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never crossed that bridge over there i feel like i've come across a lot of just normal
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people here there's a lot of working class families here like it's really not as expensive
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as social media makes are you guys listening at all are you are you listening to what she's saying
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are you fellas plays out to be another thing about miami is that it's definitely cap city
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like don't believe the bullshit you see here if you feel bad because you feel like oh i don't
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drive a nice enough car or i don't live in like the coolest high rise don't buy into the bullshit
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majority of the cars you see here are leased um you know you have people who are living in a two
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bedroom apartment in a high rise with six people inside of it don't let miami make you feel like
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you're behind last but not least i kept the obvious con for last and that is miami is very very expensive
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do not expect to move here and to save money because it's just not fucking yeah and that's the thing
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so what happens is these women they go to these big cities and a bad decision sends them back to the
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suburbs now what bad decision are we talking about one is the debt they get into a lot of debt they can't
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afford it they're back in the suburbs um number two is going to be single motherhood they get
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pregnant by a loser they thought it was a one night stand now they're back in the suburbs number
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three an std they feel pretty bad about themselves they're bad be careful with these women these
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suburban women guys or four they age out there's some bad decision that usually sends them back
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occasionally it's a good decision like a husband but let's just be honest here okay let's just be
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honest okay next the next woman oh we're gonna look at her tiktok and see how she's doing in miami
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so she's doing this too the getting naked oh wait let me let me turn the sound off she's doing this
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to the getting naked um so obviously this is like a for sale sign feel free to dm her fellas maybe you
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could be the buyer um you know the let's see what we got yeah so she's just thirst trapping a lot of
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nakedness yeah you guys are not gonna convince me this is not a five i mean you i don't know what
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girls you're show me your girlfriend show me the let what the last woman you banged i i know what i
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know women have a tendency to overrate but whoever said five you gotta show me your show me who you're
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dating all right um next we're gonna do lauren heard from denver to miami oh god she's gonna be
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invisible oh no even the first girl like she won't be completely invisible she is gonna be invisible
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oh wait hold up and i just have a question how are the girls making friends so i moved to miami
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about two months ago and i just have a question how are the girls making friends you're not gonna
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make any friends you're all dating the same men in miami i mean that's got to be chad central right
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so you guys got to be fighting over men don't make friends there that's just not gonna work
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i moved down here for a job and i didn't know a single soul and i kind of banked on being able to
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make friends in community the same way i did in denver which was through like group fitness mostly
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um and just like mutual interest like wanting to go to happy hours wanting to go to like concerts
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live music things like that so i think the vibe's a little bit different here i haven't had a lot of
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luck meeting people through fitness i've tried the bumble bff which i unfortunately met some very like
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scammy schemey individuals and it kind of turned me off and i'm not somebody who's super into like
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clubbing and doing all of that which i do know that i'm in miami i know that that's like the primary
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thing people do for fun here but i know that there also has to be a group of people where like that's
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not their primary interest so where are you guys at what are we doing how are we so she's like a five
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six that's what i would put her together so how i just can't see her doing well in miami i would
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predict a move to somewhere else i'm so naturally well she's not as bad here
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yeah so again she's gonna she's gonna have to get naked because facially just not that strong
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you know she's cute so okay i'm gonna give her a six i'm gonna give her a six you guys are saying
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this is a five maybe i'm being generous maybe i'm being i don't know i'd say six i'd say six
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that's my final take five face six body okay seven looks max yeah yeah fine
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so but i just i can't really see her doing well in miami i can't that's just not you know if you're
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a mid i would really suggest where would i tell the mids to go
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it depends what you're into as a mid like are you do you want
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do you like if you're gonna go for money i wouldn't really recommend going for miami money
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because like you're gonna have to compete with these hot 22 year olds every year
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i don't really i would say go to a smaller city like i think denver is a good place for mids to go
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they're still gonna be successful guys they're half the women are like lesbians so you don't even
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have to worry about them and then you could be like a good looking girl in denver right um
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without makeup she's invisible yeah i mean yeah all right we got another one who moved to vegas
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so yeah she's like um i'd say six she's six what is there in vegas you might ask i don't know i've
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done little to no research besides where i'm getting coffee and where i'm going to the gym
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what i do know is i got a four bed three bath house with a giant yard over two thousand square
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feet for a thousand tier two cities for money well okay look if you're gonna go for money
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yeah i mean you have two options you can go to the big city and compete with eights but you're gonna
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have to have no ego like your ego has to be gone like that's that's what i would say you are not
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gonna get wined and dined the only way you're gonna get in the door i would say is making it so
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easy and being so nice to him and expecting nothing that's because you're competing with way hotter than
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you you know that's how like a six that's how she's gonna steal someone from an eight is just being way
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pleasant but women aren't pleasant so just go to a little smaller city you know what i mean
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a thousand dollars less per month than what i pay now for my 600 square foot one bed one bath
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apartment i've been in la for like three and a half years and i hey okay on the guys you don't get the
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pearl read on the normal chat you have to go to my website even pearl is overrating these chicks oh my
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gosh who you can send me who you're banging do you know what's funny i said that one show and the
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guy did and she was pretty hot so i was like okay conceited conceited pearly has issues with the
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country girls no i don't have issues with them i'm just most of the hot ones go to the cities right
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i'm being too pearl read you're being too nice to mids today uh i know i mean today i can't be perfect
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all the time at my rating system you're right five five fine um
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i love it and there are things that i'll miss like my friends and my gym and where i get my acai bowls
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on the weekends there's nothing in vegas that i don't have in la like i go out very often in la
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like i go out for my coffee i go out for dinner sometimes with my friends but i can do all of
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that in vegas too the thing i'm most nervous about is finding a new doggy daycare my one dog has been
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going there since he was six months old and i am stressed about finding another one and he has to
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make all new friends my other dog hates it regardless she does not like to be away from me
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so she's gonna be miserable if it was here or a doggy daycare somewhere else so that one doesn't make
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me nervous but my other dog he's gonna have to start all over and i trust that doggy daycare with my
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life like i leave them there when i go on trips so that that's gonna be the most stressful part for
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me i was literally considering moving to bumblefuck delaware to have a yard for these dogs because i'm
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going insane and they deserve it's time to move i think the thing i'm most excited for besides having
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space to live and be apart from these dogs i don't mind me getting to furnish an entire house from
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literally nothing all i have is a couch and a bed so i get to furnish this entire house from top to
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bottom i've never been yeah there you go so she's in the part of the modern woman life cycle where
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you buy a house that she can't take care of and so she's gonna have to spend a month a lot of money
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um hiring men to fix it or getting a man in her life to do it for her i'm able to do that this is my
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first big girl house my bosses who live in vegas like 10 minutes away from where i'm living are really
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good with interior design i sent them my pinterest board and they were like done got it easy so i
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don't even know if i'll really be doing anything i might just be there to supervise there you go i
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told you or get someone else to do it but i'm excited to show the whole process from start to
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finish shopping and putting things where in the house and making it my own i'll be moving at the
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end of the month and that's when the chaos will start if you have any shit to talk about vegas
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i don't care because i'm saving a lot of money here yeah you see what i mean so la bad decision
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spent too much money goes to vegas now but i actually do you know what when i was in la to
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um vegas i thought the women were prettier in vegas um but both attractive a-level cities but
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she's really not going to pull the same kind of attention like maybe there's some mids that do get
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high-level guys but they have to go personality very hard they have to they have to be very
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likable and i just don't get the vibe she's no lauren sanchez right she's no some look and you can
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tell the difference between a woman who learned like female game and a girl that was just right place
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right time lucky lucky okay guys um let's see we got ellie ellie smith who moved to new york
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city so so off the bat well i just moved to new york about i'm gonna give her
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what do you guys say in the comments i'm saying seven um she's got the big boobs right yeah men love
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that she's got a pretty symmetrical face nice smile
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um pearl we should do a night out with pearl it'd be great to hang out with pearl for a bit well we
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might actually do an event somewhat soon i need to get enough of you guys on the website though i can't
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put this stuff together um i need to know i need to have a proof of concept where i can say hey if we
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put this event we'll get this many people so make sure you guys get the app um from the app store
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okay so oh i just moved to new york about 72 hours all right we got six seven seven lowest five highest
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eight i'm gonna say strong six to seven oh and i know it's only been 72 hours but the question is
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where do people make friends here like where do people make friends yeah and this is the thing
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when you go to the cities i i actually found it pretty lonely when i was in a big city i was in
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london when i first started my show i found it very lonely in new york city because i've been in my
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apartment and i've been so productive i've been unpacking still have a little to unpack but i will
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stay in my apartment for six months if nobody invites me anywhere so adults pearl app my app is the
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audacity network type it into the app store it'll come up that's the app where should i go help me
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out okay bye um yeah i would say six seven right six seven pearls being too nice lately i know i'm
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getting old my my heart is getting soft she does have a big forehead all right fine six six point five
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six point five i mean new york i don't think is going to be as competitive as say miami or la because
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there's a lot of career women in new york but there's also models but models aren't even that hot
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it's like now they cast the fat ones like so when industry starts to promote midwomen even in la like a
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lot of the actresses are mid what they're gonna do is the the hot women are just gonna go to where
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the rich men are and then get get rid of the middle man right we'll just go straight so i i would say the
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most attractive places are miami um dallas vegas la new york i would put fifth but hey let me know what you
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guys think in the comments um show her tiktok so let's see how she's doing in new york
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did she move i've got a package no oh no i ordered new luggage this is not a sponsor
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pretty good body are we back to seven fellas are we gonna say seven now i hate you guys sometimes
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i come on she's a seven let's just call it what it is that's a pretty bad
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she seems to be working the new york city lifestyle and i wish her well i really hope
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she gets whatever she went to the city to get um oh wait let me see
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now me and doug mpa were talking about this if we thought the women
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do you guys think women are hotter if they like male things for example doug mpa said men may find a
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woman hotter if she's into like fishing like she could go fishing with you or like hunting
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but like the way i think is why would you want like don't you guys like quiet when you fish
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like why would you want why would you want a woman like do you guys like your hobbies without
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having us ruin them you know anyways so this is um a mid that moved to nashville moving to nashville
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and this weekend i flew down to nashville to tour apartments because one thing about me is that i'm
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super impulsive and when i get an idea i have to run with it pretty immediately before i talk myself
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out of it so surprised now this is where pretty much everyone from my college went all the girls
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i went to school with they all went to nashville about two months i'm leaving pittsburgh to start
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a new chapter there's so many reasons why this feels like the perfect next step for me and the
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absolute perfect time to do so something about turning 25 last month just really hit me with
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how fast your 20s truly go and i know i have a lot more growth to do in my 20s which i know i need
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to leave my comfort zone to be able to do this weekend i found the absolute perfect apartment in an
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area that feels homey but still super fun and we got to make a girl strip out of it which is so on
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brand for my friends i think they're more excited about me moving there than i am i've never been
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more confident in a decision than i am right now and i am so excited to take you guys along with me
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let's see these are my two current favorite activewear brands for a mid-range budget so pieces
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can range anywhere from 30 to 50 potentially a little bit less when there's a sale they're still
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great quality but the pieces aren't going to break in this going whatever the first is ypp by
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abercrombie i have a lot of different sets from them i feel i'm prepping to become a first-time
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home buyer in 2025 there you go buying a home it's like i predict this like there are endless pros and
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cons to home ownership it's crazy every man i talk to says they don't want to buy a house till they have a
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woman and every woman i talk to just wants to buy a house so here's how i weighed them and decided that
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it was right for me this year first i asked myself what do i see my living situation looking like for
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the next five years not only are you wanting to stay in the same city but also do you see yourself
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wanting to move around living spaces or are you ready to be in the same space for many years i'm
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very certain that i want to stay in pittsburgh permanently and i'm also so ready to stop moving
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so now i'm confused was that a different these are my two current favorite my brother was i don't
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think that niches i'm a full-time content creator so many people are making money on social time my
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name is aaron here's everything i spent last week as a 25 year old living in nashville every
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morning starts out the exact same way for me i'm pretty financially let's do a weekly grocery haul
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as a okay i'm a little confused let's look at her you know what's interesting so if you guys
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wanted to date a woman like this you can get all the information that you need like on here it's
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gonna have why her and her ex didn't break like why they broke up did she go crazy is she talking
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trash about him you can also get like here what are her spending habits right so one thing that's
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been a constant theme in my life in my 20s is finding a balance between listening to your body
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and also holding yourself accountable for doing the things that you say you're gonna do just go back
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from almost a 10-hour road trip and walking in my door the only thing you're gonna have to
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pay for road trips see i wanted to do was raw on my couch but i knew the anxiousness that i was
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feeling about getting back into work and back into my okay so she's super anxious good to know
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routine would only carry into tomorrow if i didn't get my life together today driving almost 10 hours is
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no joke when i moved to nashville i absolutely did not think i'd be making that drive as much as i have
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been but i actually you want to start using credit card oh what i spend in a week you guys see you can
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literally get let's see a financially responsible 25 year old tracking her expenses okay what do we got
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you guys let me know is this 53 for gas and snacks
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duncan 11 food and drinks 100 birthday present for mom 81 uber is 46
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that's kind of funny was that oh in a week oh in a week that's not bad i thought that was a day
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okay so now you guys know you're like this is my this is my expense for her
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mid-budget how much i spend this is great for you guys
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more like financially irresponsible well i've seen worse i just did debt confessions the other day
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i've seen worse i've seen worse okay women we do like these coffees we do hell no not worth my time
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okay guys i was just i was just pitching i was just pitching um just because nothing's free
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well guys is that all my mids all my mids to cities yeah let me know i want to know
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guys and i did this experiment the other day so let me know in the comments
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what did the hottest girl in your high school do where did she go when i checked in with five
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different people i know pretty much all of them went to an a-level city although i did go to a small
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school so some may have gone to like a b-level city but pretty much all of them went to a city
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let me know what you guys think in the comments like the video on your way out
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and subscribe to the channel and put in your two cents where did the hottest girl from your high
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school go let me know in the comments and i'll read it next show like the video and i'll see you