JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2025


Modern Women Get Humbled In Big Cities ｜ Pearl Daily


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49 minutes

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4,011

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52

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Misogyny

44

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20

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In this episode, we talk about the differences between living in Miami and living in Denver. We discuss the pros and cons of living in the big cities and what it's like to move to a new city. We also talk about how it's not as expensive as social media makes it out to be.

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00:20:29.880 I am a good girl,
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00:22:59.840 She's a five. 0.93
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00:25:29.840 Yeah.
00:25:59.840 That's true.
00:26:29.840 regular and i feel like the people who made it out to be like this thing of like oh my god it's
00:26:33.360 such a dark city like either are not surrounding themselves with like the right people or they
00:26:37.960 never crossed that bridge over there i feel like i've come across a lot of just normal
00:26:41.540 people here there's a lot of working class families here like it's really not as expensive
00:26:46.760 as social media makes are you guys listening at all are you are you listening to what she's saying
00:26:52.640 are you fellas plays out to be another thing about miami is that it's definitely cap city
00:26:58.280 like don't believe the bullshit you see here if you feel bad because you feel like oh i don't 0.87
00:27:02.760 drive a nice enough car or i don't live in like the coolest high rise don't buy into the bullshit 0.77
00:27:08.460 majority of the cars you see here are leased um you know you have people who are living in a two
00:27:13.800 bedroom apartment in a high rise with six people inside of it don't let miami make you feel like 1.00
00:27:18.760 you're behind last but not least i kept the obvious con for last and that is miami is very very expensive
00:27:25.140 do not expect to move here and to save money because it's just not fucking yeah and that's the thing 0.94
00:27:30.800 so what happens is these women they go to these big cities and a bad decision sends them back to the 1.00
00:27:37.360 suburbs now what bad decision are we talking about one is the debt they get into a lot of debt they can't
00:27:44.220 afford it they're back in the suburbs um number two is going to be single motherhood they get 0.76
00:27:52.520 pregnant by a loser they thought it was a one night stand now they're back in the suburbs number 0.56
00:27:57.240 three an std they feel pretty bad about themselves they're bad be careful with these women these 1.00
00:28:04.060 suburban women guys or four they age out there's some bad decision that usually sends them back 1.00
00:28:11.320 occasionally it's a good decision like a husband but let's just be honest here okay let's just be
00:28:18.200 honest okay next the next woman oh we're gonna look at her tiktok and see how she's doing in miami 1.00
00:28:25.360 so she's doing this too the getting naked oh wait let me let me turn the sound off she's doing this 1.00
00:28:32.100 to the getting naked um so obviously this is like a for sale sign feel free to dm her fellas maybe you 1.00
00:28:38.820 could be the buyer um you know the let's see what we got yeah so she's just thirst trapping a lot of 1.00
00:28:46.140 nakedness yeah you guys are not gonna convince me this is not a five i mean you i don't know what
00:28:58.600 girls you're show me your girlfriend show me the let what the last woman you banged i i know what i 0.60
00:29:05.300 know women have a tendency to overrate but whoever said five you gotta show me your show me who you're 1.00
00:29:12.320 dating all right um next we're gonna do lauren heard from denver to miami oh god she's gonna be
00:29:23.080 invisible oh no even the first girl like she won't be completely invisible she is gonna be invisible
00:29:31.920 oh wait hold up and i just have a question how are the girls making friends so i moved to miami
00:29:41.720 about two months ago and i just have a question how are the girls making friends you're not gonna
00:29:49.220 make any friends you're all dating the same men in miami i mean that's got to be chad central right
00:29:55.920 so you guys got to be fighting over men don't make friends there that's just not gonna work
00:29:59.840 i moved down here for a job and i didn't know a single soul and i kind of banked on being able to
00:30:06.400 make friends in community the same way i did in denver which was through like group fitness mostly
00:30:11.140 um and just like mutual interest like wanting to go to happy hours wanting to go to like concerts
00:30:16.180 live music things like that so i think the vibe's a little bit different here i haven't had a lot of
00:30:20.400 luck meeting people through fitness i've tried the bumble bff which i unfortunately met some very like
00:30:25.360 scammy schemey individuals and it kind of turned me off and i'm not somebody who's super into like
00:30:32.420 clubbing and doing all of that which i do know that i'm in miami i know that that's like the primary
00:30:37.300 thing people do for fun here but i know that there also has to be a group of people where like that's
00:30:43.160 not their primary interest so where are you guys at what are we doing how are we so she's like a five 0.98
00:30:48.860 six that's what i would put her together so how i just can't see her doing well in miami i would 0.99
00:30:57.300 predict a move to somewhere else i'm so naturally well she's not as bad here
00:31:03.340 yeah so again she's gonna she's gonna have to get naked because facially just not that strong 1.00
00:31:13.600 you know she's cute so okay i'm gonna give her a six i'm gonna give her a six you guys are saying
00:31:20.940 this is a five maybe i'm being generous maybe i'm being i don't know i'd say six i'd say six
00:31:28.900 that's my final take five face six body okay seven looks max yeah yeah fine
00:31:37.240 so but i just i can't really see her doing well in miami i can't that's just not you know if you're
00:31:47.340 a mid i would really suggest where would i tell the mids to go
00:31:52.500 it depends what you're into as a mid like are you do you want 0.66
00:32:02.260 do you like if you're gonna go for money i wouldn't really recommend going for miami money
00:32:12.560 because like you're gonna have to compete with these hot 22 year olds every year
00:32:18.280 i don't really i would say go to a smaller city like i think denver is a good place for mids to go
00:32:27.480 they're still gonna be successful guys they're half the women are like lesbians so you don't even 1.00
00:32:32.680 have to worry about them and then you could be like a good looking girl in denver right um 1.00
00:32:40.240 without makeup she's invisible yeah i mean yeah all right we got another one who moved to vegas 0.97
00:32:46.000 so yeah she's like um i'd say six she's six what is there in vegas you might ask i don't know i've
00:32:54.760 done little to no research besides where i'm getting coffee and where i'm going to the gym
00:32:58.380 what i do know is i got a four bed three bath house with a giant yard over two thousand square
00:33:04.100 feet for a thousand tier two cities for money well okay look if you're gonna go for money
00:33:09.120 yeah i mean you have two options you can go to the big city and compete with eights but you're gonna
00:33:15.620 have to have no ego like your ego has to be gone like that's that's what i would say you are not
00:33:22.480 gonna get wined and dined the only way you're gonna get in the door i would say is making it so
00:33:29.420 easy and being so nice to him and expecting nothing that's because you're competing with way hotter than
00:33:39.100 you you know that's how like a six that's how she's gonna steal someone from an eight is just being way 1.00
00:33:46.140 pleasant but women aren't pleasant so just go to a little smaller city you know what i mean 1.00
00:33:50.520 a thousand dollars less per month than what i pay now for my 600 square foot one bed one bath
00:33:55.600 apartment i've been in la for like three and a half years and i hey okay on the guys you don't get the
00:34:02.320 pearl read on the normal chat you have to go to my website even pearl is overrating these chicks oh my 1.00
00:34:11.560 gosh who you can send me who you're banging do you know what's funny i said that one show and the
00:34:16.920 guy did and she was pretty hot so i was like okay conceited conceited pearly has issues with the 1.00
00:34:26.320 country girls no i don't have issues with them i'm just most of the hot ones go to the cities right 1.00
00:34:32.220 i'm being too pearl read you're being too nice to mids today uh i know i mean today i can't be perfect
00:34:40.740 all the time at my rating system you're right five five fine um
00:34:49.320 okay let's see what else
00:34:53.540 i love it and there are things that i'll miss like my friends and my gym and where i get my acai bowls
00:35:01.880 on the weekends there's nothing in vegas that i don't have in la like i go out very often in la
00:35:08.320 like i go out for my coffee i go out for dinner sometimes with my friends but i can do all of
00:35:12.460 that in vegas too the thing i'm most nervous about is finding a new doggy daycare my one dog has been
00:35:16.920 going there since he was six months old and i am stressed about finding another one and he has to
00:35:22.660 make all new friends my other dog hates it regardless she does not like to be away from me
00:35:27.320 so she's gonna be miserable if it was here or a doggy daycare somewhere else so that one doesn't make 1.00
00:35:32.240 me nervous but my other dog he's gonna have to start all over and i trust that doggy daycare with my
00:35:36.700 life like i leave them there when i go on trips so that that's gonna be the most stressful part for
00:35:41.020 me i was literally considering moving to bumblefuck delaware to have a yard for these dogs because i'm 0.61
00:35:46.520 going insane and they deserve it's time to move i think the thing i'm most excited for besides having
00:35:52.060 space to live and be apart from these dogs i don't mind me getting to furnish an entire house from
00:36:00.860 literally nothing all i have is a couch and a bed so i get to furnish this entire house from top to
00:36:05.460 bottom i've never been yeah there you go so she's in the part of the modern woman life cycle where
00:36:10.420 you buy a house that she can't take care of and so she's gonna have to spend a month a lot of money 1.00
00:36:16.420 um hiring men to fix it or getting a man in her life to do it for her i'm able to do that this is my 0.97
00:36:27.340 first big girl house my bosses who live in vegas like 10 minutes away from where i'm living are really 0.99
00:36:33.460 good with interior design i sent them my pinterest board and they were like done got it easy so i
00:36:37.760 don't even know if i'll really be doing anything i might just be there to supervise there you go i
00:36:41.500 told you or get someone else to do it but i'm excited to show the whole process from start to
00:36:47.000 finish shopping and putting things where in the house and making it my own i'll be moving at the
00:36:51.800 end of the month and that's when the chaos will start if you have any shit to talk about vegas 0.70
00:36:56.100 i don't care because i'm saving a lot of money here yeah you see what i mean so la bad decision
00:37:02.920 spent too much money goes to vegas now but i actually do you know what when i was in la to
00:37:08.760 um vegas i thought the women were prettier in vegas um but both attractive a-level cities but 1.00
00:37:17.040 she's really not going to pull the same kind of attention like maybe there's some mids that do get 1.00
00:37:23.440 high-level guys but they have to go personality very hard they have to they have to be very
00:37:28.540 likable and i just don't get the vibe she's no lauren sanchez right she's no some look and you can
00:37:35.460 tell the difference between a woman who learned like female game and a girl that was just right place 1.00
00:37:40.720 right time lucky lucky okay guys um let's see we got ellie ellie smith who moved to new york 1.00
00:37:53.380 city so so off the bat well i just moved to new york about i'm gonna give her
00:38:01.680 strong six seven i'm gonna say seven
00:38:06.620 what do you guys say in the comments i'm saying seven um she's got the big boobs right yeah men love 1.00
00:38:15.920 that she's got a pretty symmetrical face nice smile
00:38:19.420 um pearl we should do a night out with pearl it'd be great to hang out with pearl for a bit well we
00:38:29.820 might actually do an event somewhat soon i need to get enough of you guys on the website though i can't
00:38:35.420 put this stuff together um i need to know i need to have a proof of concept where i can say hey if we
00:38:41.860 put this event we'll get this many people so make sure you guys get the app um from the app store
00:38:47.000 okay so oh i just moved to new york about 72 hours all right we got six seven seven lowest five highest
00:38:55.980 eight i'm gonna say strong six to seven oh and i know it's only been 72 hours but the question is
00:39:03.840 where do people make friends here like where do people make friends yeah and this is the thing
00:39:11.720 when you go to the cities i i actually found it pretty lonely when i was in a big city i was in
00:39:16.120 london when i first started my show i found it very lonely in new york city because i've been in my
00:39:22.000 apartment and i've been so productive i've been unpacking still have a little to unpack but i will
00:39:26.440 stay in my apartment for six months if nobody invites me anywhere so adults pearl app my app is the
00:39:32.340 audacity network type it into the app store it'll come up that's the app where should i go help me
00:39:37.620 out okay bye um yeah i would say six seven right six seven pearls being too nice lately i know i'm
00:39:49.680 getting old my my heart is getting soft she does have a big forehead all right fine six six point five 0.99
00:39:59.060 six point five i mean new york i don't think is going to be as competitive as say miami or la because
00:40:11.380 there's a lot of career women in new york but there's also models but models aren't even that hot 1.00
00:40:18.060 it's like now they cast the fat ones like so when industry starts to promote midwomen even in la like a 1.00
00:40:28.580 lot of the actresses are mid what they're gonna do is the the hot women are just gonna go to where 1.00
00:40:34.100 the rich men are and then get get rid of the middle man right we'll just go straight so i i would say the
00:40:40.580 most attractive places are miami um dallas vegas la new york i would put fifth but hey let me know what you
00:40:50.500 guys think in the comments um show her tiktok so let's see how she's doing in new york
00:40:56.700 did she move i've got a package no oh no i ordered new luggage this is not a sponsor
00:41:05.440 pretty good body are we back to seven fellas are we gonna say seven now i hate you guys sometimes 0.93
00:41:17.780 i come on she's a seven let's just call it what it is that's a pretty bad 1.00
00:41:23.780 dancer you can call a phone bitch she ain't 1.00
00:41:32.500 is she modeling
00:41:37.300 she's kind of got a big chin 1.00
00:41:38.500 she seems to be doing well i guess
00:41:51.780 she seems to be working the new york city lifestyle and i wish her well i really hope
00:41:57.780 she gets whatever she went to the city to get um oh wait let me see
00:42:03.540 we got another one who moved to nashville
00:42:10.500 now me and doug mpa were talking about this if we thought the women 0.99
00:42:15.620 do you guys think women are hotter if they like male things for example doug mpa said men may find a
00:42:24.900 woman hotter if she's into like fishing like she could go fishing with you or like hunting 1.00
00:42:30.580 but like the way i think is why would you want like don't you guys like quiet when you fish
00:42:38.340 like why would you want why would you want a woman like do you guys like your hobbies without
00:42:43.460 having us ruin them you know anyways so this is um a mid that moved to nashville moving to nashville
00:42:49.380 and this weekend i flew down to nashville to tour apartments because one thing about me is that i'm
00:42:53.060 super impulsive and when i get an idea i have to run with it pretty immediately before i talk myself
00:42:57.060 out of it so surprised now this is where pretty much everyone from my college went all the girls
00:43:01.380 i went to school with they all went to nashville about two months i'm leaving pittsburgh to start
00:43:04.980 a new chapter there's so many reasons why this feels like the perfect next step for me and the
00:43:08.340 absolute perfect time to do so something about turning 25 last month just really hit me with
00:43:12.100 how fast your 20s truly go and i know i have a lot more growth to do in my 20s which i know i need
00:43:16.020 to leave my comfort zone to be able to do this weekend i found the absolute perfect apartment in an
00:43:20.020 area that feels homey but still super fun and we got to make a girl strip out of it which is so on
00:43:23.860 brand for my friends i think they're more excited about me moving there than i am i've never been
00:43:27.460 more confident in a decision than i am right now and i am so excited to take you guys along with me
00:43:33.140 okay so
00:43:36.180 let's see how she's doing in nashville
00:43:43.140 let's see these are my two current favorite activewear brands for a mid-range budget so pieces
00:43:47.780 can range anywhere from 30 to 50 potentially a little bit less when there's a sale they're still
00:43:52.100 great quality but the pieces aren't going to break in this going whatever the first is ypp by
00:43:57.300 abercrombie i have a lot of different sets from them i feel i'm prepping to become a first-time
00:44:00.820 home buyer in 2025 there you go buying a home it's like i predict this like there are endless pros and
00:44:07.140 cons to home ownership it's crazy every man i talk to says they don't want to buy a house till they have a
00:44:12.580 woman and every woman i talk to just wants to buy a house so here's how i weighed them and decided that
00:44:18.260 it was right for me this year first i asked myself what do i see my living situation looking like for
00:44:22.180 the next five years not only are you wanting to stay in the same city but also do you see yourself
00:44:26.260 wanting to move around living spaces or are you ready to be in the same space for many years i'm
00:44:30.740 very certain that i want to stay in pittsburgh permanently and i'm also so ready to stop moving
00:44:34.660 apartments every year after being wait
00:44:36.420 i thought she just said she moved to nashville 0.69
00:44:43.140 so now i'm confused was that a different these are my two current favorite my brother was i don't
00:44:48.260 think that niches i'm a full-time content creator so many people are making money on social time my
00:44:52.660 name is aaron here's everything i spent last week as a 25 year old living in nashville every
00:44:56.180 morning starts out the exact same way for me i'm pretty financially let's do a weekly grocery haul
00:45:01.460 as a okay i'm a little confused let's look at her you know what's interesting so if you guys
00:45:05.380 wanted to date a woman like this you can get all the information that you need like on here it's
00:45:10.820 gonna have why her and her ex didn't break like why they broke up did she go crazy is she talking 1.00
00:45:16.740 trash about him you can also get like here what are her spending habits right so one thing that's 0.99
00:45:23.780 been a constant theme in my life in my 20s is finding a balance between listening to your body
00:45:27.940 and also holding yourself accountable for doing the things that you say you're gonna do just go back
00:45:31.620 from almost a 10-hour road trip and walking in my door the only thing you're gonna have to
00:45:35.220 pay for road trips see i wanted to do was raw on my couch but i knew the anxiousness that i was
00:45:41.220 feeling about getting back into work and back into my okay so she's super anxious good to know
00:45:46.020 routine would only carry into tomorrow if i didn't get my life together today driving almost 10 hours is
00:45:51.060 no joke when i moved to nashville i absolutely did not think i'd be making that drive as much as i have
00:45:55.300 been but i actually you want to start using credit card oh what i spend in a week you guys see you can
00:46:02.100 literally get let's see a financially responsible 25 year old tracking her expenses okay what do we got
00:46:10.340 you guys let me know is this 53 for gas and snacks
00:46:18.260 14 for chipotle pet fee at the hotel is 83
00:46:23.380 duncan 11 food and drinks 100 birthday present for mom 81 uber is 46
00:46:41.620 did you start with financially responsible
00:46:44.100 that's kind of funny was that oh in a week oh in a week that's not bad i thought that was a day
00:46:55.700 okay so now you guys know you're like this is my this is my expense for her
00:47:02.180 mid-budget how much i spend this is great for you guys
00:47:06.820 that's not too bad right we got okay
00:47:19.620 more like financially irresponsible well i've seen worse i just did debt confessions the other day
00:47:26.900 i've seen worse i've seen worse okay women we do like these coffees we do hell no not worth my time 1.00
00:47:36.180 okay guys i was just i was just pitching i was just pitching um just because nothing's free
00:47:44.260 thank you thank you very much
00:47:55.380 well i think that's all we got right now
00:47:59.780 well guys is that all my mids all my mids to cities yeah let me know i want to know
00:48:06.020 guys and i did this experiment the other day so let me know in the comments
00:48:11.700 what did the hottest girl in your high school do where did she go when i checked in with five 1.00
00:48:18.980 different people i know pretty much all of them went to an a-level city although i did go to a small
00:48:26.660 school so some may have gone to like a b-level city but pretty much all of them went to a city
00:48:35.460 let me know what you guys think in the comments like the video on your way out
00:48:39.780 and subscribe to the channel and put in your two cents where did the hottest girl from your high 1.00
00:48:45.380 school go let me know in the comments and i'll read it next show like the video and i'll see you
00:48:49.780 guys tomorrow bye
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