JustPearlyThings - Modern Women GETS SCHOOLED

00:00:00.000 for a family like chris rock made that joke he goes men can't go back with sexually and women

00:00:04.560 can't go back because in lifestyle so like as women it's just like yo remember when you're 1.00

00:00:07.920 a teen and you dated the first guy you dated who had a car and he could pick you pick you up take

00:00:12.480 you out whatever when that when that ended you're like yo i don't with guys who don't have a car 0.96

00:00:17.440 i only fuck good guys who have a car that proves maxi's point about 10 sleeping with threes 1.00

00:00:26.000 what do you mean because when you've slept with them but she wasn't a three though no i think i 0.99

00:00:31.280 was just saying about lifestyle but what a man can do but this is why it adds to women's entitlement 1.00

00:00:37.280 because when you give them that lifestyle the next guy they're expecting that and higher

00:00:41.600 if they could have earned the lifestyle yes but you gave it to them no no no no i'm saying i'm saying

00:00:46.800 like like even themselves like could have they could have the job and earn it themselves like

00:00:51.040 one of the things kevin samuels used to say was like if like to go down in lifestyle for the guy

00:00:56.080 that you want but like most girls don't want to do that because the thing is i don't want i know

00:01:00.400 you're saying that we could or the girl could earn the lifestyle but honestly if it came to you free 1.00

00:01:08.320 and you had to work for it which one would you take if it was given to you if your lifestyle was

00:01:12.720 exactly so they wouldn't want to work for it if they don't have but can i ask you something maxi what's

00:01:16.560 wrong with a guy actually giving a girl that's not as high a level as he is financially financially

00:01:23.600 yeah what's wrong with a guy dating a three and her thinking we weren't talking about a three 1.00

00:01:27.760 financially we're talking about in her whole whole packaging i'm not talking about he's probably just 0.86

00:01:32.960 fucking her that's the difference no but i'm saying even so like even if he's spoiling her or he's 0.85

00:01:37.600 it does something to her mentality what is wrong with her wanting something better there's nothing 0.99

00:01:43.040 they're saying okay okay okay uh okay this is we're gonna go back to the cars

00:01:51.440 she loves them we have a used a honda civic with a lot of miles and they they feel like they're

00:01:58.000 entitled to new bmw prices and they want new bmw prices but when all the bmw buyers are like nah

00:02:04.720 that's a honda civic i don't want a honda civic i want the bmw they they they they're like no offense

00:02:10.960 what's wrong with wanting what i want you can want what you want but can you get it

00:02:14.880 and in this context the bmw is like a 22 year old and then the honda civic is at the 30 something

00:02:19.760 plus but the the guy that owned the bmw drove the honda civic for like a week and now

00:02:26.800 and great addition to my analogy yeah he was test driving yeah

00:02:34.720 she was like is this now they think they've got more value than they actually do is this my

00:02:38.800 new buyer and he's like oh no yeah

00:02:45.680 are you trying to say what's wrong with aiming high is that what you're trying to say like i just feel

00:02:49.920 like if okay for me if you're saying three it's a whole package i think that means she's not worth 0.97

00:02:55.680 that much right well i think what pearl is trying to say if correct me if i'm wrong is you're fishing

00:03:01.280 way out your league simply yeah and it's well it's out of it's out of like okay so what top 20 20 it's

00:03:09.040 what men value so like if if men value purity youth and you don't have purity in youth and you want a top

00:03:15.920 20 guy in terms of income like i just think it'd be hard there's exceptions but but i'm not feeling

00:03:21.040 entitled it's just well yeah i think i think what i was gonna say is i think the mistake a lot of women 0.93

00:03:26.800 can make is they think their league is the guys who have sex with them and their league is actually

00:03:32.000 the guys who will commit to them and that's literally because men are judged by the caliber

00:03:36.240 of woman they can get whilst women are judged by the caliber of man they can keep very true if you

00:03:39.520 can't keep the man then you have no value in that situation but do you see how that confuses a woman 0.99

00:03:44.640 though not really because if you if you're if you're smart and not it's not smart but you're just and

00:03:49.280 this is why i always talk about self-awareness and a lot of us lack self-awareness if we were truly

00:03:53.280 self-aware and cognizant of our behaviors you'd understand that okay here's this guy who i'm

00:03:58.000 attracted to but based on his behaviors he's not trying to do anything to keep me yeah i think we'd

00:04:02.720 never ever take things at face value well you don't know women and this is what i mean but we

00:04:06.400 women who actively know ignore red flags because you know when you look in hindsight this guy wasn't 0.83

00:04:11.680 doing like he literally slid in your dms said when i'm coming to your yard and you're like yes

00:04:16.400 but you're right is that a common occurrence for you i think you're right it is confusing it is

00:04:38.880 confusing to the woman who doesn't understand men and i think a lot of women don't and a lot of women

00:04:44.400 don't and i think a big a big reason of that which is part of the reason why this show is as big as it

00:04:49.120 is is because whenever men in recent 10 to 20 years have expressed okay this is what i like this is what

00:04:55.600 i look for this is what i commit to a lot of the time is shamed is misogyny patriarchal etc etc so

00:05:02.080 then what happened was men were like all right we're not going to say anything we'll just show by

00:05:05.040 our actions but i think what can happen is like you said like especially if a girl's having sex with a

00:05:10.160 guy and she really likes him she gets clouded so she doesn't see oh actually no all the men who

00:05:17.120 all the women who actually get in commitment they're moving in this way and the women who

00:05:21.360 aren't getting commitment like myself they're doing the same thing i'm doing and it's hard to see

00:05:25.760 that i understand that but then it comes to the man's fault and that's and that's the problem

00:05:28.960 because it's yeah it's not your fault it's the woman will say well you didn't treat me right 1.00

00:05:33.520 when in reality it was never right in the first place

00:05:36.160 i treat you people treat you how you allow them to treat you yeah 100 but why must the man treat

00:05:41.040 wrong like why must you just okay okay this is what girls say when they're shooting out of their 1.00

00:05:53.360 league like like they'll say oh why isn't he treating me right now he's just not giving you the attention

00:05:57.440 you want because you're not on this level but where he can get any girl he wants it's easy easy it's like

00:06:05.520 okay okay okay let's go back to the cars if a guy wants a free test drive on a car that he has no

00:06:12.880 intention of buying is he going to go to the salesmen that are you know selling these really

00:06:17.760 nice cars when they can kind of see that he's not looking for anything or is he going to go to the

00:06:22.720 honda civic dealership he's hungry to make a sale yeah because he's a 10 he could probably still get

00:06:28.400 the girl that's a 10. that's the point though but why can't he go to the honda civic guy and say oh i want

00:06:32.560 a test drive but there is basically i'm not basically buying this car because women 1.00

00:06:36.000 women put in love what they hear whilst men yeah because then he wouldn't get the test drive yeah 0.97

00:06:41.760 yeah because if a guy because if a guy's like comes to you just like hey look like you look nice yeah

00:06:45.760 i just want to have fun with you i'm an exception no but it's never you wouldn't do it he's gonna be

00:06:49.840 like you got nice cheeks and i want to spread them tonight but that's all i want oh i would say

00:06:54.800 what i would say is this a man tells you what he wants to do his actions

00:06:57.840 i think women should look more and listen less and i think we'd be in a better position 1.00

00:07:03.600 i have facts and i think for men it's the opposite i think men need to listen more look less because

00:07:08.320 some guys get some guys would tolerate nonsense because she's so fire you know he's like yeah 1.00

00:07:14.400 i don't think that's even the main focus of men because you have to remember when you look at it

00:07:17.520 holistically only 20 to 30 percent of men are actively having sex so really for true happiness to

00:07:23.600 be sought is there's that there's been there's been this death of average so average women don't

00:07:28.720 want average men it's true and those would work go together so if only 20 to 30 of men are having sex

00:07:34.160 what does that mean it means that most women are sleeping with the same men but then if you ask a

00:07:37.600 woman do you want to share the high value man that you've got they will say no but then what makes 0.99

00:07:41.600 you any different from any every other pretty girl that there is out there because once you hit 0.99

00:07:45.280 once you become a 10 guy every woman on the market becomes available to you so what makes you any more 0.99

00:07:50.000 special than another woman so please advisor what would you then um as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - April 18, 2023

Modern Women GETS SCHOOLED

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