Modern Women GETS SCHOOLED
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the perils of dating a guy who doesn t have a car and how it adds to women's entitlement and lack of self-awareness when it comes to sex. We also discuss the difference between a 3 and a 4 in terms of financial stability and how that affects women's perception of the value of a guy.
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for a family like chris rock made that joke he goes men can't go back with sexually and women
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can't go back because in lifestyle so like as women it's just like yo remember when you're
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a teen and you dated the first guy you dated who had a car and he could pick you pick you up take
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you out whatever when that when that ended you're like yo i don't with guys who don't have a car
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i only fuck good guys who have a car that proves maxi's point about 10 sleeping with threes
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what do you mean because when you've slept with them but she wasn't a three though no i think i
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was just saying about lifestyle but what a man can do but this is why it adds to women's entitlement
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because when you give them that lifestyle the next guy they're expecting that and higher
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if they could have earned the lifestyle yes but you gave it to them no no no no i'm saying i'm saying
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like like even themselves like could have they could have the job and earn it themselves like
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one of the things kevin samuels used to say was like if like to go down in lifestyle for the guy
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that you want but like most girls don't want to do that because the thing is i don't want i know
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you're saying that we could or the girl could earn the lifestyle but honestly if it came to you free
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and you had to work for it which one would you take if it was given to you if your lifestyle was
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exactly so they wouldn't want to work for it if they don't have but can i ask you something maxi what's
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wrong with a guy actually giving a girl that's not as high a level as he is financially financially
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yeah what's wrong with a guy dating a three and her thinking we weren't talking about a three
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financially we're talking about in her whole whole packaging i'm not talking about he's probably just
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fucking her that's the difference no but i'm saying even so like even if he's spoiling her or he's
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it does something to her mentality what is wrong with her wanting something better there's nothing
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they're saying okay okay okay uh okay this is we're gonna go back to the cars
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she loves them we have a used a honda civic with a lot of miles and they they feel like they're
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entitled to new bmw prices and they want new bmw prices but when all the bmw buyers are like nah
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that's a honda civic i don't want a honda civic i want the bmw they they they they're like no offense
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what's wrong with wanting what i want you can want what you want but can you get it
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and in this context the bmw is like a 22 year old and then the honda civic is at the 30 something
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plus but the the guy that owned the bmw drove the honda civic for like a week and now
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and great addition to my analogy yeah he was test driving yeah
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she was like is this now they think they've got more value than they actually do is this my
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are you trying to say what's wrong with aiming high is that what you're trying to say like i just feel
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like if okay for me if you're saying three it's a whole package i think that means she's not worth
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that much right well i think what pearl is trying to say if correct me if i'm wrong is you're fishing
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way out your league simply yeah and it's well it's out of it's out of like okay so what top 20 20 it's
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what men value so like if if men value purity youth and you don't have purity in youth and you want a top
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20 guy in terms of income like i just think it'd be hard there's exceptions but but i'm not feeling
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entitled it's just well yeah i think i think what i was gonna say is i think the mistake a lot of women
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can make is they think their league is the guys who have sex with them and their league is actually
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the guys who will commit to them and that's literally because men are judged by the caliber
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of woman they can get whilst women are judged by the caliber of man they can keep very true if you
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can't keep the man then you have no value in that situation but do you see how that confuses a woman
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though not really because if you if you're if you're smart and not it's not smart but you're just and
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this is why i always talk about self-awareness and a lot of us lack self-awareness if we were truly
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self-aware and cognizant of our behaviors you'd understand that okay here's this guy who i'm
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attracted to but based on his behaviors he's not trying to do anything to keep me yeah i think we'd
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never ever take things at face value well you don't know women and this is what i mean but we
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women who actively know ignore red flags because you know when you look in hindsight this guy wasn't
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doing like he literally slid in your dms said when i'm coming to your yard and you're like yes
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but you're right is that a common occurrence for you i think you're right it is confusing it is
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confusing to the woman who doesn't understand men and i think a lot of women don't and a lot of women
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don't and i think a big a big reason of that which is part of the reason why this show is as big as it
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is is because whenever men in recent 10 to 20 years have expressed okay this is what i like this is what
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i look for this is what i commit to a lot of the time is shamed is misogyny patriarchal etc etc so
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then what happened was men were like all right we're not going to say anything we'll just show by
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our actions but i think what can happen is like you said like especially if a girl's having sex with a
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guy and she really likes him she gets clouded so she doesn't see oh actually no all the men who
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all the women who actually get in commitment they're moving in this way and the women who
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aren't getting commitment like myself they're doing the same thing i'm doing and it's hard to see
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that i understand that but then it comes to the man's fault and that's and that's the problem
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because it's yeah it's not your fault it's the woman will say well you didn't treat me right
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when in reality it was never right in the first place
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i treat you people treat you how you allow them to treat you yeah 100 but why must the man treat
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wrong like why must you just okay okay this is what girls say when they're shooting out of their
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league like like they'll say oh why isn't he treating me right now he's just not giving you the attention
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you want because you're not on this level but where he can get any girl he wants it's easy easy it's like
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okay okay okay let's go back to the cars if a guy wants a free test drive on a car that he has no
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intention of buying is he going to go to the salesmen that are you know selling these really
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nice cars when they can kind of see that he's not looking for anything or is he going to go to the
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honda civic dealership he's hungry to make a sale yeah because he's a 10 he could probably still get
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the girl that's a 10. that's the point though but why can't he go to the honda civic guy and say oh i want
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a test drive but there is basically i'm not basically buying this car because women
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women put in love what they hear whilst men yeah because then he wouldn't get the test drive yeah
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yeah because if a guy because if a guy's like comes to you just like hey look like you look nice yeah
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i just want to have fun with you i'm an exception no but it's never you wouldn't do it he's gonna be
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like you got nice cheeks and i want to spread them tonight but that's all i want oh i would say
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what i would say is this a man tells you what he wants to do his actions
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i think women should look more and listen less and i think we'd be in a better position
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i have facts and i think for men it's the opposite i think men need to listen more look less because
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some guys get some guys would tolerate nonsense because she's so fire you know he's like yeah
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i don't think that's even the main focus of men because you have to remember when you look at it
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holistically only 20 to 30 percent of men are actively having sex so really for true happiness to
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be sought is there's that there's been there's been this death of average so average women don't
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want average men it's true and those would work go together so if only 20 to 30 of men are having sex
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what does that mean it means that most women are sleeping with the same men but then if you ask a
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woman do you want to share the high value man that you've got they will say no but then what makes
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you any different from any every other pretty girl that there is out there because once you hit
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once you become a 10 guy every woman on the market becomes available to you so what makes you any more
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special than another woman so please advisor what would you then um as many of you know i was just
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