JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023


Modern Women Got SCHOOLED @JWALLER


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8 minutes

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1,986

Sentence count

132

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Misogyny

31

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19

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and the importance of a good relationship with a man. We also discuss what it means to be a good mother and a good wife, and how to prepare for the possibility of losing a significant other.

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00:00:00.000 What is more meaningful ultimately in life terms?
00:00:02.160 Is it having a child?
00:00:03.220 Is it having a family?
00:00:04.000 Is it having those connections with other human beings?
00:00:06.520 You know, in this brief period, we've got this planet.
00:00:08.260 Or is it going to work at a cubicle for eight hours?
00:00:10.080 What's the most important thing for men then?
00:00:12.060 If women is giving birth ways for you guys? 0.95
00:00:14.460 Creation.
00:00:15.800 Okay, that's a good one.
00:00:17.220 In every way.
00:00:18.220 I'd say creating everything.
00:00:19.820 Inventing, building, maintaining society, creating children,
00:00:22.780 and then protecting and providing for that family,
00:00:25.280 including a very good mother and wife.
00:00:27.400 Do you feel like men have been doing a good job at that?
00:00:29.740 No, I don't.
00:00:30.520 But I also think that it's in a lot of ways,
00:00:32.700 since the women control the sex and the men control their relationships, 1.00
00:00:35.820 the abundance of sex and the promiscuity
00:00:38.400 and the agenda that we're currently going through,
00:00:40.800 I think it's making both sides very sad.
00:00:44.080 It doesn't have to be a gray area.
00:00:45.540 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.
00:00:47.580 The point is like men have a specific role
00:00:49.540 and women have a specific role. 1.00
00:00:51.280 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.
00:00:54.540 Definitely.
00:00:55.320 And we can also agree that men and women are equal
00:00:57.180 just in completely different roles.
00:00:58.900 100%.
00:00:59.820 That's all.
00:01:01.200 The world doesn't go without mothers, particularly mothers. 1.00
00:01:04.400 They're going to be the foundational base of every human
00:01:06.980 that comes into this world, not just after the fact,
00:01:09.520 but while she's holding the baby, 1.00
00:01:10.940 how she treats her body while that baby's there,
00:01:13.180 the words that are coming out of her mouth
00:01:14.740 when that baby can hear you while she's in there. 0.99
00:01:16.820 Everything about that situation and the atmosphere
00:01:18.940 that the mother creates is going to have a lot to do 0.96
00:01:21.200 with the mental health of that child, boy or girl.
00:01:23.020 Oh, yeah.
00:01:23.820 It's the most important job in the world.
00:01:25.660 And then at some point when it's a little boy,
00:01:27.760 I am very big on handing that little boy off to the father.
00:01:31.100 And the father gets to take care of that family.
00:01:33.820 He gets to be a man.
00:01:34.980 He gets to be the hero for that situation.
00:01:36.960 That's what's broken about everything we're talking about.
00:01:39.860 You know, in those situations, may I ask,
00:01:42.000 so obviously that's really important,
00:01:43.900 but how do we then, just to make it a little bit more rounded
00:01:47.360 and a bit more, like, wholesome,
00:01:49.520 what advice do you give to the women 0.97
00:01:50.900 in terms of what do they have to build for themselves
00:01:53.000 to prepare for a potential eventuality
00:01:55.520 or the occurrence of your husband passing away early?
00:01:59.420 Maybe you've got two kids for him.
00:02:00.920 One is three, one is one.
00:02:02.200 What do you tell a woman that has just completely 1.00
00:02:03.980 given herself to being a housewife 1.00
00:02:05.980 and doesn't actually have skills or the abilities
00:02:07.740 or knowledge to strive in the world
00:02:10.340 because she just wanted to be a housewife? 1.00
00:02:13.100 And then what happens to her?
00:02:15.060 I mean, so there's a bunch of technical ways.
00:02:17.180 Like life insurance, but there's also the man you pick.
00:02:20.780 You know, women, a lot of their success in life 1.00
00:02:23.280 is picking the right horse, hate to say.
00:02:25.100 You better pick a good one.
00:02:26.740 Yeah, but people get shot sometimes if they give one over.
00:02:29.160 People get shot.
00:02:29.780 I doubt that I'm going to get shot in life.
00:02:30.960 I'm not going to be in that situation.
00:02:32.240 No, I'm just saying in general.
00:02:33.140 Pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot.
00:02:35.180 You understand what I'm saying?
00:02:36.680 Like, it's not about him going off the war.
00:02:38.100 He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood.
00:02:39.280 Okay.
00:02:39.620 Right?
00:02:39.780 He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing.
00:02:40.980 He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he was fucking with.
00:02:42.600 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life 1.00
00:02:45.000 is pick the right partner.
00:02:45.860 Of course.
00:02:46.540 You know, you have to choose that risk.
00:02:47.840 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that,
00:02:50.000 especially nowadays because you get to that 1% man,
00:02:52.700 you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity
00:02:55.060 and all those other things, right?
00:02:56.320 And that's a whole different subject.
00:02:57.600 But what I'm saying is if a woman can find a man that is strong 0.98
00:03:00.960 and she can look up to and she can trust
00:03:02.500 and there's a real relationship there,
00:03:04.200 she has no problem getting inside of her frame 0.98
00:03:05.900 and then inside of his frame.
00:03:07.240 And then all of a sudden, there's not a thought about,
00:03:09.260 you know, whether or not, you know,
00:03:10.900 there's feminism in the house. 1.00
00:03:13.620 It's more like I trust this man fully
00:03:16.100 and guess what makes him motivated more than anything in the world
00:03:18.980 to take care of them is that trust that she puts in him
00:03:21.620 because he takes it seriously and he becomes a hero in life
00:03:24.320 and he wants nothing more than to create a life for that woman
00:03:27.460 and those kids that would have been one-tenth of what it would have been
00:03:30.520 if he would not have come into that life.
00:03:32.000 And that's what motivates men.
00:03:33.560 It truly, truly is.
00:03:34.760 And if you have a good woman that can accept that 1.00
00:03:36.820 and accept you being the leader, you will kill for her.
00:03:39.560 And so that woman will have nothing to worry about 1.00
00:03:41.680 because he'll do his duty as a man
00:03:43.160 and a real man would take care of his family,
00:03:44.960 protect, provide, and a woman that supports him
00:03:47.880 is nothing, I promise you,
00:03:49.180 they're happiest women in the world.
00:03:50.540 Yeah.
00:03:51.020 Oh, go on.
00:03:51.980 Sorry, can I, it's okay if I can ask them a question.
00:03:54.080 Would you guys want your wives, 0.96
00:03:55.180 I don't know if you guys are married,
00:03:56.160 but would you guys want your wives to work? 0.99
00:03:58.400 Ideally, no.
00:03:58.860 Fuck no.
00:03:59.560 No.
00:03:59.940 Why not?
00:04:00.640 Well, listen, because why?
00:04:01.900 I'd rather them raise the kids.
00:04:03.620 Like, why I'm going to provide,
00:04:04.920 I'm going to be the one bringing the bread home.
00:04:06.300 I don't want her to be computerized.
00:04:07.800 I don't want to have to work out of necessity.
00:04:09.400 That's a lot of pressure to put on men
00:04:10.660 that aren't able to earn salaries
00:04:12.620 where they can feel able to...
00:04:13.880 Pressure makes diamonds.
00:04:15.060 Yeah, and that's, hey, look, that's Darwinism.
00:04:16.980 That's the best thing for the species.
00:04:18.460 Do you guys ever think that maybe there might be,
00:04:20.340 like she was speaking about,
00:04:21.360 that 5% chance that you might get run over a car,
00:04:24.840 you might get cancer or something?
00:04:26.380 Well, I want to finish answering your question.
00:04:28.700 She wants to pick a guy 1.00
00:04:29.460 who is going to have the wherewithal,
00:04:31.140 so if that situation,
00:04:32.060 if that eventuality did occur,
00:04:33.500 she would be looked after
00:04:34.520 even in the point of his demise.
00:04:36.600 And I don't think you should live your life out of fear.
00:04:38.960 Like, what if the worst-case scenario happens?
00:04:41.320 And I think a lot of times as women,
00:04:42.740 we kind of go into situations out of fear
00:04:45.400 instead of thinking about, like,
00:04:46.460 what good could happen.
00:04:47.980 Is it fear or is it being realistic?
00:04:49.440 I mean, what percent of husbands, like, die young?
00:04:53.140 What percent is it?
00:04:54.020 Is it a high percentage?
00:04:54.960 Yeah, it's not.
00:04:55.880 Even if you guys have a college degree,
00:04:58.160 your chance of getting divorced is 10%.
00:05:00.500 You should be more scared of that
00:05:02.920 than your husband dying.
00:05:04.680 I'll say another thing, too.
00:05:05.740 You know how they say a lot of men are bums
00:05:07.120 and a lot of men are shit?
00:05:08.420 If you only,
00:05:09.960 if there was a society
00:05:10.940 where only the men that truly produce
00:05:12.620 and could truly take care of a family
00:05:14.080 could reproduce,
00:05:15.860 you would watch men's production
00:05:17.260 skyrocket through the roof.
00:05:20.040 Because, I hate to say it,
00:05:22.180 men get up out of bed every morning
00:05:23.620 whether they're a bricklayer or inventor
00:05:25.020 or they're trying to make a rocket ship to the moon,
00:05:27.160 it is in pursuit of women. 1.00
00:05:28.880 Thank you.
00:05:29.520 That is a driving force of society.
00:05:31.060 But it's just a yin and yang.
00:05:33.060 It's just a fact of the world.
00:05:35.040 So, a lot of women have babies with shit men. 1.00
00:05:38.820 So, you got to pick them.
00:05:41.120 Like, make sure your picker's not broken.
00:05:42.600 And then be in a position
00:05:43.860 and create a scenario
00:05:45.040 and an error about yourself
00:05:46.240 that tells the high quality men
00:05:48.280 that I am a quality woman
00:05:49.780 and I am worthy of you taking care of me fully.
00:05:53.320 And if you want to work, work.
00:05:54.600 But it's not,
00:05:55.440 it shouldn't be because you have to work.
00:05:56.860 That's my problem with a woman working 1.00
00:05:59.400 is that she gets forced into working 0.93
00:06:01.640 because the man's not doing
00:06:03.180 what he committed to in the beginning
00:06:04.860 which is protecting and providing.
00:06:06.320 If she gets bored,
00:06:06.900 I would let her open up a little dumb store 1.00
00:06:08.580 that sells like little trinkets
00:06:10.740 or hair stuff that she goes in.
00:06:12.140 And a woman that exactly is fine. 0.87
00:06:13.680 I do think that just because the man is the provider,
00:06:16.340 it doesn't mean the woman has to have zero skill. 0.98
00:06:18.260 And what you just said,
00:06:19.080 you said, I'll let her.
00:06:20.340 That was, I think that's the wrong thing to say.
00:06:21.980 You'll let her have a hair business. 1.00
00:06:23.620 Wait, you guys are sounding like feminists. 1.00
00:06:24.840 You know what though?
00:06:25.560 When a woman, 0.88
00:06:26.280 when a woman is like crazy in love 1.00
00:06:27.800 and there's true genuine desire,
00:06:29.460 what she really wants to do
00:06:30.680 is help build the kingdom.
00:06:31.740 So wait, you were there.
00:06:32.620 I have a question for you
00:06:34.320 because you said you're a Christian, right?
00:06:36.060 You don't believe in submitting to your husband?
00:06:38.420 No, of course.
00:06:39.020 But him saying,
00:06:39.600 you'll let her have a business. 1.00
00:06:40.520 You don't believe in submitting
00:06:44.020 to your husband's authority?
00:06:45.380 I'm 50-50.
00:06:46.900 Then you're not a real Christian. 0.93
00:06:49.120 I'm not a real Christian.
00:06:50.280 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church. 0.52
00:06:53.400 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church 0.99
00:06:55.120 because you guys don't believe in male authority.
00:06:57.580 No, no, no, no.
00:06:58.180 Because you guys need to understand
00:06:59.860 what being a Christian means.
00:07:01.280 Just because I said I'm a Christian
00:07:02.160 doesn't mean I follow the Bible by a word.
00:07:04.860 No, there's something called being a lukewarm Christian. 1.00
00:07:08.920 So you guys need to do your research.
00:07:10.020 This is why Christianity is failing. 0.99
00:07:13.080 So you're a pick-and-choose Christian. 0.97
00:07:16.240 I'm a Christian when it benefits me.
00:07:18.120 No, that's not what I'm saying.
00:07:19.580 Can I also say something?
00:07:21.680 And I think this is why divorce rates are skyrocketing
00:07:24.660 because people don't understand
00:07:25.900 what the true meaning of marriage is.
00:07:27.860 If you actually read your Bible,
00:07:29.580 you would understand that marriage
00:07:31.160 is a union between two people.
00:07:33.440 So two people could become one.
00:07:35.440 Meaning once you make a...
00:07:39.860 Meaning once you're married,
00:07:41.580 once you make a decision,
00:07:42.860 you have to run it with your partner
00:07:44.460 and your partner has to kind of...
00:07:46.040 I have a question.
00:07:46.580 You guys are talking about somebody dying.
00:07:48.340 You guys are talking about,
00:07:49.120 oh, what if the husband dies? 0.93
00:07:50.040 But what's far more likely to happen
00:07:51.640 is that the woman divorces him
00:07:55.400 because we know that,
00:07:56.380 what is it,
00:07:56.720 70% of divorces are started by women, right? 0.98
00:08:00.580 80%.
00:08:01.080 Sorry.
00:08:01.340 So that is the eventuality
00:08:03.820 that you've got to look out for.
00:08:04.460 When they're happy
00:08:04.960 as long as the woman's in the kitchen 1.00
00:08:06.080 making them a sound.
00:08:06.760 No, no, no.
00:08:07.460 It's because women get bored 1.00
00:08:09.120 because the butterflies go
00:08:10.300 and then they think,
00:08:11.080 oh, sod this.
00:08:11.620 I'll go off and, you know.
00:08:12.840 Hold on, Sneeko,
00:08:13.540 I've got a question.
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00:08:15.300 I was just banned on TikTok
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