JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023


Modern Women Got SCHOOLED @JWALLER


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

233.46394

Word Count

1,986

Sentence Count

132

Misogynist Sentences

31

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and the importance of a good relationship with a man. We also discuss what it means to be a good mother and a good wife, and how to prepare for the possibility of losing a significant other.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What is more meaningful ultimately in life terms?
00:00:02.160 Is it having a child?
00:00:03.220 Is it having a family?
00:00:04.000 Is it having those connections with other human beings?
00:00:06.520 You know, in this brief period, we've got this planet.
00:00:08.260 Or is it going to work at a cubicle for eight hours?
00:00:10.080 What's the most important thing for men then?
00:00:12.060 If women is giving birth ways for you guys?
00:00:14.460 Creation.
00:00:15.800 Okay, that's a good one.
00:00:17.220 In every way.
00:00:18.220 I'd say creating everything.
00:00:19.820 Inventing, building, maintaining society, creating children,
00:00:22.780 and then protecting and providing for that family,
00:00:25.280 including a very good mother and wife.
00:00:27.400 Do you feel like men have been doing a good job at that?
00:00:29.740 No, I don't.
00:00:30.520 But I also think that it's in a lot of ways,
00:00:32.700 since the women control the sex and the men control their relationships,
00:00:35.820 the abundance of sex and the promiscuity
00:00:38.400 and the agenda that we're currently going through,
00:00:40.800 I think it's making both sides very sad.
00:00:44.080 It doesn't have to be a gray area.
00:00:45.540 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.
00:00:47.580 The point is like men have a specific role
00:00:49.540 and women have a specific role.
00:00:51.280 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.
00:00:54.540 Definitely.
00:00:55.320 And we can also agree that men and women are equal
00:00:57.180 just in completely different roles.
00:00:58.900 100%.
00:00:59.820 That's all.
00:01:01.200 The world doesn't go without mothers, particularly mothers.
00:01:04.400 They're going to be the foundational base of every human
00:01:06.980 that comes into this world, not just after the fact,
00:01:09.520 but while she's holding the baby,
00:01:10.940 how she treats her body while that baby's there,
00:01:13.180 the words that are coming out of her mouth
00:01:14.740 when that baby can hear you while she's in there.
00:01:16.820 Everything about that situation and the atmosphere
00:01:18.940 that the mother creates is going to have a lot to do
00:01:21.200 with the mental health of that child, boy or girl.
00:01:23.020 Oh, yeah.
00:01:23.820 It's the most important job in the world.
00:01:25.660 And then at some point when it's a little boy,
00:01:27.760 I am very big on handing that little boy off to the father.
00:01:31.100 And the father gets to take care of that family.
00:01:33.820 He gets to be a man.
00:01:34.980 He gets to be the hero for that situation.
00:01:36.960 That's what's broken about everything we're talking about.
00:01:39.860 You know, in those situations, may I ask,
00:01:42.000 so obviously that's really important,
00:01:43.900 but how do we then, just to make it a little bit more rounded
00:01:47.360 and a bit more, like, wholesome,
00:01:49.520 what advice do you give to the women
00:01:50.900 in terms of what do they have to build for themselves
00:01:53.000 to prepare for a potential eventuality
00:01:55.520 or the occurrence of your husband passing away early?
00:01:59.420 Maybe you've got two kids for him.
00:02:00.920 One is three, one is one.
00:02:02.200 What do you tell a woman that has just completely
00:02:03.980 given herself to being a housewife
00:02:05.980 and doesn't actually have skills or the abilities
00:02:07.740 or knowledge to strive in the world
00:02:10.340 because she just wanted to be a housewife?
00:02:13.100 And then what happens to her?
00:02:15.060 I mean, so there's a bunch of technical ways.
00:02:17.180 Like life insurance, but there's also the man you pick.
00:02:20.780 You know, women, a lot of their success in life
00:02:23.280 is picking the right horse, hate to say.
00:02:25.100 You better pick a good one.
00:02:26.740 Yeah, but people get shot sometimes if they give one over.
00:02:29.160 People get shot.
00:02:29.780 I doubt that I'm going to get shot in life.
00:02:30.960 I'm not going to be in that situation.
00:02:32.240 No, I'm just saying in general.
00:02:33.140 Pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot.
00:02:35.180 You understand what I'm saying?
00:02:36.680 Like, it's not about him going off the war.
00:02:38.100 He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood.
00:02:39.280 Okay.
00:02:39.620 Right?
00:02:39.780 He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing.
00:02:40.980 He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he was fucking with.
00:02:42.600 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life
00:02:45.000 is pick the right partner.
00:02:45.860 Of course.
00:02:46.540 You know, you have to choose that risk.
00:02:47.840 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that,
00:02:50.000 especially nowadays because you get to that 1% man,
00:02:52.700 you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity
00:02:55.060 and all those other things, right?
00:02:56.320 And that's a whole different subject.
00:02:57.600 But what I'm saying is if a woman can find a man that is strong
00:03:00.960 and she can look up to and she can trust
00:03:02.500 and there's a real relationship there,
00:03:04.200 she has no problem getting inside of her frame
00:03:05.900 and then inside of his frame.
00:03:07.240 And then all of a sudden, there's not a thought about,
00:03:09.260 you know, whether or not, you know,
00:03:10.900 there's feminism in the house.
00:03:13.620 It's more like I trust this man fully
00:03:16.100 and guess what makes him motivated more than anything in the world
00:03:18.980 to take care of them is that trust that she puts in him
00:03:21.620 because he takes it seriously and he becomes a hero in life
00:03:24.320 and he wants nothing more than to create a life for that woman
00:03:27.460 and those kids that would have been one-tenth of what it would have been
00:03:30.520 if he would not have come into that life.
00:03:32.000 And that's what motivates men.
00:03:33.560 It truly, truly is.
00:03:34.760 And if you have a good woman that can accept that
00:03:36.820 and accept you being the leader, you will kill for her.
00:03:39.560 And so that woman will have nothing to worry about
00:03:41.680 because he'll do his duty as a man
00:03:43.160 and a real man would take care of his family,
00:03:44.960 protect, provide, and a woman that supports him
00:03:47.880 is nothing, I promise you,
00:03:49.180 they're happiest women in the world.
00:03:50.540 Yeah.
00:03:51.020 Oh, go on.
00:03:51.980 Sorry, can I, it's okay if I can ask them a question.
00:03:54.080 Would you guys want your wives,
00:03:55.180 I don't know if you guys are married,
00:03:56.160 but would you guys want your wives to work?
00:03:58.400 Ideally, no.
00:03:58.860 Fuck no.
00:03:59.560 No.
00:03:59.940 Why not?
00:04:00.640 Well, listen, because why?
00:04:01.900 I'd rather them raise the kids.
00:04:03.620 Like, why I'm going to provide,
00:04:04.920 I'm going to be the one bringing the bread home.
00:04:06.300 I don't want her to be computerized.
00:04:07.800 I don't want to have to work out of necessity.
00:04:09.400 That's a lot of pressure to put on men
00:04:10.660 that aren't able to earn salaries
00:04:12.620 where they can feel able to...
00:04:13.880 Pressure makes diamonds.
00:04:15.060 Yeah, and that's, hey, look, that's Darwinism.
00:04:16.980 That's the best thing for the species.
00:04:18.460 Do you guys ever think that maybe there might be,
00:04:20.340 like she was speaking about,
00:04:21.360 that 5% chance that you might get run over a car,
00:04:24.840 you might get cancer or something?
00:04:26.380 Well, I want to finish answering your question.
00:04:28.700 She wants to pick a guy
00:04:29.460 who is going to have the wherewithal,
00:04:31.140 so if that situation,
00:04:32.060 if that eventuality did occur,
00:04:33.500 she would be looked after
00:04:34.520 even in the point of his demise.
00:04:36.600 And I don't think you should live your life out of fear.
00:04:38.960 Like, what if the worst-case scenario happens?
00:04:41.320 And I think a lot of times as women,
00:04:42.740 we kind of go into situations out of fear
00:04:45.400 instead of thinking about, like,
00:04:46.460 what good could happen.
00:04:47.980 Is it fear or is it being realistic?
00:04:49.440 I mean, what percent of husbands, like, die young?
00:04:53.140 What percent is it?
00:04:54.020 Is it a high percentage?
00:04:54.960 Yeah, it's not.
00:04:55.880 Even if you guys have a college degree,
00:04:58.160 your chance of getting divorced is 10%.
00:05:00.500 You should be more scared of that
00:05:02.920 than your husband dying.
00:05:04.680 I'll say another thing, too.
00:05:05.740 You know how they say a lot of men are bums
00:05:07.120 and a lot of men are shit?
00:05:08.420 If you only,
00:05:09.960 if there was a society
00:05:10.940 where only the men that truly produce
00:05:12.620 and could truly take care of a family
00:05:14.080 could reproduce,
00:05:15.860 you would watch men's production
00:05:17.260 skyrocket through the roof.
00:05:20.040 Because, I hate to say it,
00:05:22.180 men get up out of bed every morning
00:05:23.620 whether they're a bricklayer or inventor
00:05:25.020 or they're trying to make a rocket ship to the moon,
00:05:27.160 it is in pursuit of women.
00:05:28.880 Thank you.
00:05:29.520 That is a driving force of society.
00:05:31.060 But it's just a yin and yang.
00:05:33.060 It's just a fact of the world.
00:05:35.040 So, a lot of women have babies with shit men.
00:05:38.820 So, you got to pick them.
00:05:41.120 Like, make sure your picker's not broken.
00:05:42.600 And then be in a position
00:05:43.860 and create a scenario
00:05:45.040 and an error about yourself
00:05:46.240 that tells the high quality men
00:05:48.280 that I am a quality woman
00:05:49.780 and I am worthy of you taking care of me fully.
00:05:53.320 And if you want to work, work.
00:05:54.600 But it's not,
00:05:55.440 it shouldn't be because you have to work.
00:05:56.860 That's my problem with a woman working
00:05:59.400 is that she gets forced into working
00:06:01.640 because the man's not doing
00:06:03.180 what he committed to in the beginning
00:06:04.860 which is protecting and providing.
00:06:06.320 If she gets bored,
00:06:06.900 I would let her open up a little dumb store
00:06:08.580 that sells like little trinkets
00:06:10.740 or hair stuff that she goes in.
00:06:12.140 And a woman that exactly is fine.
00:06:13.680 I do think that just because the man is the provider,
00:06:16.340 it doesn't mean the woman has to have zero skill.
00:06:18.260 And what you just said,
00:06:19.080 you said, I'll let her.
00:06:20.340 That was, I think that's the wrong thing to say.
00:06:21.980 You'll let her have a hair business.
00:06:23.620 Wait, you guys are sounding like feminists.
00:06:24.840 You know what though?
00:06:25.560 When a woman,
00:06:26.280 when a woman is like crazy in love
00:06:27.800 and there's true genuine desire,
00:06:29.460 what she really wants to do
00:06:30.680 is help build the kingdom.
00:06:31.740 So wait, you were there.
00:06:32.620 I have a question for you
00:06:34.320 because you said you're a Christian, right?
00:06:36.060 You don't believe in submitting to your husband?
00:06:38.420 No, of course.
00:06:39.020 But him saying,
00:06:39.600 you'll let her have a business.
00:06:40.520 You don't believe in submitting
00:06:44.020 to your husband's authority?
00:06:45.380 I'm 50-50.
00:06:46.900 Then you're not a real Christian.
00:06:49.120 I'm not a real Christian.
00:06:50.280 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church.
00:06:53.400 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church
00:06:55.120 because you guys don't believe in male authority.
00:06:57.580 No, no, no, no.
00:06:58.180 Because you guys need to understand
00:06:59.860 what being a Christian means.
00:07:01.280 Just because I said I'm a Christian
00:07:02.160 doesn't mean I follow the Bible by a word.
00:07:04.860 No, there's something called being a lukewarm Christian.
00:07:08.920 So you guys need to do your research.
00:07:10.020 This is why Christianity is failing.
00:07:13.080 So you're a pick-and-choose Christian.
00:07:16.240 I'm a Christian when it benefits me.
00:07:18.120 No, that's not what I'm saying.
00:07:19.580 Can I also say something?
00:07:21.680 And I think this is why divorce rates are skyrocketing
00:07:24.660 because people don't understand
00:07:25.900 what the true meaning of marriage is.
00:07:27.860 If you actually read your Bible,
00:07:29.580 you would understand that marriage
00:07:31.160 is a union between two people.
00:07:33.440 So two people could become one.
00:07:35.440 Meaning once you make a...
00:07:39.860 Meaning once you're married,
00:07:41.580 once you make a decision,
00:07:42.860 you have to run it with your partner
00:07:44.460 and your partner has to kind of...
00:07:46.040 I have a question.
00:07:46.580 You guys are talking about somebody dying.
00:07:48.340 You guys are talking about,
00:07:49.120 oh, what if the husband dies?
00:07:50.040 But what's far more likely to happen
00:07:51.640 is that the woman divorces him
00:07:55.400 because we know that,
00:07:56.380 what is it,
00:07:56.720 70% of divorces are started by women, right?
00:08:00.580 80%.
00:08:01.080 Sorry.
00:08:01.340 So that is the eventuality
00:08:03.820 that you've got to look out for.
00:08:04.460 When they're happy
00:08:04.960 as long as the woman's in the kitchen
00:08:06.080 making them a sound.
00:08:06.760 No, no, no.
00:08:07.460 It's because women get bored
00:08:09.120 because the butterflies go
00:08:10.300 and then they think,
00:08:11.080 oh, sod this.
00:08:11.620 I'll go off and, you know.
00:08:12.840 Hold on, Sneeko,
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