JustPearlyThings - April 10, 2023


Modern Women have this WRONG about MEN

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Jess
She Proved that Women Love The Bad Boy MEN are MORE ABUSED than WOMEN

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

193.78

Word count

1,592

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

12

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about romantic things we have done for our partners and the things we would like to do for our own partners. We talk about what we would do for a romantic man and how we would treat a romantic woman. We also talk about the things that we would want a man to do to make us feel romantic and what a woman should do for her partner.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 it's the most romantic thing you've done for a guy so I've done like a rooftop sort of picnic
00:00:09.540 thing for my well then he was my boyfriend so went shopping got all the food he liked to just
00:00:17.520 had that romantic setting for him and he really appreciated it you think that's something that you
00:00:22.680 would have wanted or something he would have wanted nice one I'm just I don't know your
00:00:27.720 man is that something you would have wanted or he would have wanted or did he just I think I think
00:00:34.920 he really liked it he even called family and zoom did you do for him what you wanted him to do for
00:00:47.220 you or did you actually think like this is what that man wants yeah is do you think that men walk
00:00:53.940 around thinking oh you know what I really want a romantic rooftop thing yeah we love that I would
00:00:59.220 love about know what you're talking about we would probably like to watch die hard for ourselves
00:01:03.240 though for you carry on what you did was wonderful no no it was yeah we don't want to take away from what
00:01:14.340 you've done we're just trying to yeah yeah from the perspective of a man like if I for example I just
00:01:22.540 came back from Scotland I had a beautiful visit with a woman that I adore she's if I was to marry a 0.99
00:01:28.740 woman this would be exactly the type and she's old school she takes care of her man and one of the 1.00
00:01:33.940 things that she did for me when I arrived is she she had a suit waiting for me and she put that suit 1.00
00:01:41.380 on me she made me dinner that night we went out we went to a jazz club over in Scotland I went up on
00:01:48.880 stage she sat there and chilled and waited for me and when I was done and everybody was done talking to
00:01:53.520 me she just sat there and she waited for me that was what women would consider romantic from a guy's 1.00
00:02:00.220 perspective I don't think that's really romantic from a woman's perspective but if you want my heart
00:02:05.060 that's that's how you get it because she did everything that I just wish every woman would do 1.00
00:02:10.880 for me I see your point I think maybe if the question was asked to my fiance maybe he might come
00:02:16.080 up with a different example of something else I've done but because the question was asked to me
00:02:20.780 I would say that's probably the most romantic thing so I'm gonna frame it I can't frame it as a man
00:02:26.240 I would love if someone did that for me oh my god but in general men are romantic for themselves I
00:02:33.080 mean it's different what about you Jess my mind's just blown right now because um what I did I would
00:02:41.120 say probably one of the most romantic things was similar to you but it was for his birthday I like
00:02:47.300 balloons happy birthday and it was a surprise didn't know that was happening and got him some of his
00:02:52.000 biggest stuff um bought some things that he needed it's just like a little goodie bag and then I
00:02:58.880 surprised him confetti everything balloons the whole nine and from hearing what you guys are saying
00:03:05.320 that's something that I would want someone to do for me like surprise like hey babe like every birthday
00:03:11.280 this and the third and I'm like no no it's not like that but what like to understand like how men think
00:03:20.440 what is like something that so say for your birthday what is something that you would want
00:03:26.500 a woman to do for you that is romantic in a man's and man's and not in a woman's for me personally
00:03:34.120 for me personally all I need for my girl is to you know put on some animes that I watch and order
00:03:40.160 some pizza and we watch it together and I'll be calm that's that's all I need like I wouldn't need much
00:03:45.560 more than that buy me PS5 if you want what would be what would be above and beyond so buying you a PS5
00:03:51.440 buying buying a PS5 taking me abroad like anything like that oh you want to be you want to be taken
00:03:56.480 out where you want her to take you like maybe there could be some girls in the chat watching 1.00
00:04:04.700 without a ring like it like it fly him out what I would say it is is like it's the little things you
00:04:12.580 know if you're showing interest in the things that I have interest in then that's that's all I'd need
00:04:18.620 like I wouldn't need anything extra to me the best thing is like where they listen to you say you said
00:04:23.800 something at some point oh I really want to read this book whatever because that's what my ex did
00:04:28.100 she was in Sweden I was in Australia I told her once ages ago I really want to read this book
00:04:32.740 sapiens I don't know if you read it great book I wake up one day I have a delivery it's that book
00:04:37.020 why should you extend that's right why should you know that because when I was when I was with my
00:04:42.600 ex-boyfriend I bought him like a phone wallet once and it was just because he like mentioned he
00:04:47.000 like needed it but it was I didn't understand why it was such a big deal he was like that's so
00:04:51.540 oh no and I was like it's just a wallet it was like five bucks I just thought at the store
00:04:56.080 yeah but you remember that's the important part is that you remember it's because it's
00:04:59.840 showing an interest right women like the gesture you know they like to go window shopping because 1.00
00:05:06.120 they like the act men purchase things because of a need that needs to be satisfied that's when we go
00:05:12.360 shopping we go on a mission to be accomplished as quickly as possible women like to extend the time 1.00
00:05:17.500 much as possible because it's the act that okay maybe y'all disagree this is just my oh no for
00:05:23.180 for me personally i just we were raised like boys yes that's right i'm a boy on the inside
00:05:29.740 i was speaking very no i agree with you yeah yeah yeah but guys when when so like you bought that
00:05:35.820 wallet right that was a need that was satisfied that's huge for a man to have a problem solved
00:05:42.700 that's like that's huge because our stress is relieved right i don't agree with you i think
00:05:48.300 we like solving the problem ourselves okay i get you it's like a masculine thing yeah yeah we all
00:05:55.180 want to solve the problem but if our woman was to do something like that like let's say um let's say 1.00
00:06:00.860 you had shoes and you just you you just wore those shoes they started to have holes i'm not going to
00:06:05.500 get rid of them until they fall apart and then one day your woman gets you some brand new shoes 1.00
00:06:09.500 at first you're going to be like man i was going to wear these until the end and you're a little
00:06:14.380 irritated with her and then like a couple days later you put them on and you're like man these
00:06:18.860 are kind of nice my mom does that yes yes he always used to have holes in his shoes growing up it is
00:06:26.860 like the most successful man i know when he has holes in his shoes my mother would do the same thing 0.97
00:06:31.820 she would buy me shirts when i told her like i don't need it i don't need if i if i need if i if
00:06:36.940 it's something i need it i'm gonna buy it obviously i would appreciate it but i didn't
00:06:42.380 i wanted to satisfy my own need you know what i mean as a man it's like a masculine i understand what
00:06:46.300 you're saying i do understand but so like for me when i work from home i tend to not eat um because
00:06:51.420 i'll just be so you know focused on my work i'll just i wouldn't be able to go downstairs and make
00:06:56.780 food or or i would be able to but i just forget sometimes my girl coming up and bringing me food 0.99
00:07:01.500 it would be like i could have done that myself but i'll appreciate that of course like that's
00:07:05.180 that's like another level of like what if the food's trash just because your chicken is dry man
00:07:12.940 even if the food is is trash or dry like chicken yeah i'd appreciate it you have never had my chicken
00:07:19.500 you have never you have never had my chicken yeah like it up if you want to see pearl's chicken
00:07:34.060 was my chicken dry no yeah i'm not lying and she seasons in it come on she seasons it is she paying
00:07:40.060 you was like oh my god the audacity pearls wings look at my my wings are fire you've never anyway
00:07:51.500 okay i'll bring the hot sauce yeah no i got hot sauce yeah okay um next question so
00:08:02.140 if a woman and a man are attacked in public who is more likely to be rescued the woman
00:08:07.580 in public who is more likely to be rescued the woman who is more likely to be rescued the woman
00:08:10.940 well men i don't you're the way