JustPearlyThings - April 10, 2023


Modern Women have this WRONG about MEN


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

193.77612

Word Count

1,592

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 it's the most romantic thing you've done for a guy so I've done like a rooftop sort of picnic
00:00:09.540 thing for my well then he was my boyfriend so went shopping got all the food he liked to just
00:00:17.520 had that romantic setting for him and he really appreciated it you think that's something that you
00:00:22.680 would have wanted or something he would have wanted nice one I'm just I don't know your
00:00:27.720 man is that something you would have wanted or he would have wanted or did he just I think I think
00:00:34.920 he really liked it he even called family and zoom did you do for him what you wanted him to do for
00:00:47.220 you or did you actually think like this is what that man wants yeah is do you think that men walk
00:00:53.940 around thinking oh you know what I really want a romantic rooftop thing yeah we love that I would
00:00:59.220 love about know what you're talking about we would probably like to watch die hard for ourselves
00:01:03.240 though for you carry on what you did was wonderful no no it was yeah we don't want to take away from what
00:01:14.340 you've done we're just trying to yeah yeah from the perspective of a man like if I for example I just
00:01:22.540 came back from Scotland I had a beautiful visit with a woman that I adore she's if I was to marry a
00:01:28.740 woman this would be exactly the type and she's old school she takes care of her man and one of the
00:01:33.940 things that she did for me when I arrived is she she had a suit waiting for me and she put that suit
00:01:41.380 on me she made me dinner that night we went out we went to a jazz club over in Scotland I went up on
00:01:48.880 stage she sat there and chilled and waited for me and when I was done and everybody was done talking to
00:01:53.520 me she just sat there and she waited for me that was what women would consider romantic from a guy's
00:02:00.220 perspective I don't think that's really romantic from a woman's perspective but if you want my heart
00:02:05.060 that's that's how you get it because she did everything that I just wish every woman would do
00:02:10.880 for me I see your point I think maybe if the question was asked to my fiance maybe he might come
00:02:16.080 up with a different example of something else I've done but because the question was asked to me
00:02:20.780 I would say that's probably the most romantic thing so I'm gonna frame it I can't frame it as a man
00:02:26.240 I would love if someone did that for me oh my god but in general men are romantic for themselves I
00:02:33.080 mean it's different what about you Jess my mind's just blown right now because um what I did I would
00:02:41.120 say probably one of the most romantic things was similar to you but it was for his birthday I like
00:02:47.300 balloons happy birthday and it was a surprise didn't know that was happening and got him some of his
00:02:52.000 biggest stuff um bought some things that he needed it's just like a little goodie bag and then I
00:02:58.880 surprised him confetti everything balloons the whole nine and from hearing what you guys are saying
00:03:05.320 that's something that I would want someone to do for me like surprise like hey babe like every birthday
00:03:11.280 this and the third and I'm like no no it's not like that but what like to understand like how men think
00:03:20.440 what is like something that so say for your birthday what is something that you would want
00:03:26.500 a woman to do for you that is romantic in a man's and man's and not in a woman's for me personally
00:03:34.120 for me personally all I need for my girl is to you know put on some animes that I watch and order
00:03:40.160 some pizza and we watch it together and I'll be calm that's that's all I need like I wouldn't need much
00:03:45.560 more than that buy me PS5 if you want what would be what would be above and beyond so buying you a PS5
00:03:51.440 buying buying a PS5 taking me abroad like anything like that oh you want to be you want to be taken
00:03:56.480 out where you want her to take you like maybe there could be some girls in the chat watching
00:04:04.700 without a ring like it like it fly him out what I would say it is is like it's the little things you
00:04:12.580 know if you're showing interest in the things that I have interest in then that's that's all I'd need
00:04:18.620 like I wouldn't need anything extra to me the best thing is like where they listen to you say you said
00:04:23.800 something at some point oh I really want to read this book whatever because that's what my ex did
00:04:28.100 she was in Sweden I was in Australia I told her once ages ago I really want to read this book
00:04:32.740 sapiens I don't know if you read it great book I wake up one day I have a delivery it's that book
00:04:37.020 why should you extend that's right why should you know that because when I was when I was with my
00:04:42.600 ex-boyfriend I bought him like a phone wallet once and it was just because he like mentioned he
00:04:47.000 like needed it but it was I didn't understand why it was such a big deal he was like that's so
00:04:51.540 oh no and I was like it's just a wallet it was like five bucks I just thought at the store
00:04:56.080 yeah but you remember that's the important part is that you remember it's because it's
00:04:59.840 showing an interest right women like the gesture you know they like to go window shopping because
00:05:06.120 they like the act men purchase things because of a need that needs to be satisfied that's when we go
00:05:12.360 shopping we go on a mission to be accomplished as quickly as possible women like to extend the time
00:05:17.500 much as possible because it's the act that okay maybe y'all disagree this is just my oh no for
00:05:23.180 for me personally i just we were raised like boys yes that's right i'm a boy on the inside
00:05:29.740 i was speaking very no i agree with you yeah yeah yeah but guys when when so like you bought that
00:05:35.820 wallet right that was a need that was satisfied that's huge for a man to have a problem solved
00:05:42.700 that's like that's huge because our stress is relieved right i don't agree with you i think
00:05:48.300 we like solving the problem ourselves okay i get you it's like a masculine thing yeah yeah we all
00:05:55.180 want to solve the problem but if our woman was to do something like that like let's say um let's say
00:06:00.860 you had shoes and you just you you just wore those shoes they started to have holes i'm not going to
00:06:05.500 get rid of them until they fall apart and then one day your woman gets you some brand new shoes
00:06:09.500 at first you're going to be like man i was going to wear these until the end and you're a little
00:06:14.380 irritated with her and then like a couple days later you put them on and you're like man these
00:06:18.860 are kind of nice my mom does that yes yes he always used to have holes in his shoes growing up it is
00:06:26.860 like the most successful man i know when he has holes in his shoes my mother would do the same thing
00:06:31.820 she would buy me shirts when i told her like i don't need it i don't need if i if i need if i if
00:06:36.940 it's something i need it i'm gonna buy it obviously i would appreciate it but i didn't
00:06:42.380 i wanted to satisfy my own need you know what i mean as a man it's like a masculine i understand what
00:06:46.300 you're saying i do understand but so like for me when i work from home i tend to not eat um because
00:06:51.420 i'll just be so you know focused on my work i'll just i wouldn't be able to go downstairs and make
00:06:56.780 food or or i would be able to but i just forget sometimes my girl coming up and bringing me food
00:07:01.500 it would be like i could have done that myself but i'll appreciate that of course like that's
00:07:05.180 that's like another level of like what if the food's trash just because your chicken is dry man
00:07:12.940 even if the food is is trash or dry like chicken yeah i'd appreciate it you have never had my chicken
00:07:19.500 you have never you have never had my chicken yeah like it up if you want to see pearl's chicken
00:07:34.060 was my chicken dry no yeah i'm not lying and she seasons in it come on she seasons it is she paying
00:07:40.060 you was like oh my god the audacity pearls wings look at my my wings are fire you've never anyway
00:07:51.500 okay i'll bring the hot sauce yeah no i got hot sauce yeah okay um next question so
00:08:02.140 if a woman and a man are attacked in public who is more likely to be rescued the woman
00:08:07.580 in public who is more likely to be rescued the woman who is more likely to be rescued the woman
00:08:10.940 well men i don't you're the way