JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023


Modern Women Learn This HARSH Reality About Feminism

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chris Brown
Heated Debate on Women and Body Count Panelists Share Their Relationship STORY

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Length

9 minutes

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208.6

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2,079

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Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about women in society, the education system, women in the workplace and the state of society in general. We also discuss infidelity in relationships and what it means to be a woman in society.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 it's interesting how you separate like okay women good at this men are good at this it's
00:00:04.480 actually how the life treat us and probably i believe that a lot of things we take from and
00:00:10.040 how we grow is from our childhood and our experiences in childhood so it's absolutely
00:00:15.500 not necessary that the man is good at something and the woman is good at cooking it can be the 0.97
00:00:20.260 other way around i am crap at physics and my son is like super mega wizard at physics i would never
00:00:27.020 be able to homeschool him to the level of physics that he's actually deserves so this is there are
00:00:33.920 specialists i looked i actually i learned something today so apparently the education system has been
00:00:40.540 falling since the 80s it's been getting worse but it's not women it's politics no no no i'll tell 0.96
00:00:46.120 you why i'll tell you why actually we have we have a teacher and a teacher's aide so it used to be male 0.76
00:00:51.480 dominated before the 80s and after the 80s it was female dom you have to know this stuff right yeah 1.00
00:00:56.700 and and so now i'm like wait when the women came in we taught worse than the guys and we had two 1.00
00:01:02.520 women no i don't believe so our schools where i am from which is no it's true it's true i'm from west
00:01:09.960 london a lot of our schools are outstanding and the children come out and they go into universities
00:01:14.900 and they go into men's society and i have to disagree with you but the test scores don't it's in
00:01:20.820 the u.s too their test scores have been falling since like the 70s we can't even pass um 11th grade
00:01:26.400 tests from back then wow maybe i'm just blessed to live around smart people yeah so my premise
00:01:33.680 is i really think if women all went home tomorrow i think society would function fine i'm not saying 1.00
00:01:40.080 some industries wouldn't take a hit i think some would but but i think hr departments would disappear
00:01:46.960 tomorrow yeah yeah who's who's filing the hr claim that's not the men it's the women come on
00:01:52.400 everybody hr would disappear tomorrow i think um yeah and i and i think society would still run but
00:01:59.680 if the men stopped working i think that society would crash and burn we'd maybe survive 30 days 0.97
00:02:05.440 who leads in the ponzi scheme game men so do you really trust a lot of men with money not me i trust
00:02:12.080 it more than women we have 80 of the debt women yeah yeah women have 80 of the debt even though we 1.00
00:02:17.360 make less money we are not good with money that's because i'm not talking about you not talking about
00:02:21.600 you i'm talking about us as a girl i'm good with money yes but i'm looking at women in my surroundings
00:02:25.920 they've done they are brilliant i'm looking at i'm looking about us as a whole as a group but if
00:02:31.600 you look at women at a whole 80 of us are in debt probably because they have a household to take care 1.00
00:02:37.040 of because the men got up and left not true if they have a household if they have children and they
00:02:42.160 have to take on the leadership role especially if they have to be in society working well the men didn't
00:02:47.040 leave the women leave and that's really clear 70 to 80 percent of the time women file for divorce 1.00
00:02:52.400 and a lot of times we make children with men that are not husbands what about daddies who disappear
00:02:59.360 pregnancy what about daddies who disappear as soon as they find out that the partner is pregnant well 0.88
00:03:04.000 i found that the majority of the time when that happens it's because a woman's in some sort of 0.99
00:03:08.560 situationship she's trying to trap a man and then and then now she's like maybe he'll commit and he's
00:03:15.360 like no i will not lady now now but but but but number two and that's that's um that's not common
00:03:23.840 though because the majority of the time men men do stay so with four different if a man has four
00:03:29.680 different kids with four different women he's not daddy to any of them well that's that's four 1.00
00:03:34.880 stupid women and one stupid man i do i do think it's whoever i do think it women you are in charge 1.00
00:03:44.640 of who your baby father is i think that is your fault don't hate the player hit the game right 1.00
00:03:49.760 and at the end of the day you at least i always say it that these men always come as everybody comes
00:03:53.840 into a relationship with their representative hey i'm gonna show you my good side but it is facts facts
00:03:59.360 facts facts facts that once a woman gets pregnant that's it the relationship literally goes into the
00:04:04.080 toilet after that after the woman like the woman switches up no after after a child anytime you 0.94
00:04:09.600 bring a child into a situation that's it like bring a baby in everybody's stressed bills go up lack of
00:04:15.920 intimacy is so many things that lead to that so men are not if women are leaving it's only because men
00:04:21.200 have checked out of the situation and checked out of their duties a long time before no no they list the
00:04:26.960 reasons they leave and it's it's like irreconcilable differences it's money sometimes infidelity they
00:04:34.640 don't even say on which side but it's pretty split on fidelity it's roughly 50. women actually are out 1.00
00:04:39.840 cheating men under 30. yeah women are out cheating over 30. yeah yeah tinder did his job but i'm saying
00:04:48.800 like what you're saying isn't true that the men are leaving it's the women leaving yeah but and like
00:04:53.440 every day they're filing for the divorce but what's leading to the divorce if i'm a woman at home with
00:04:58.720 your your kids and i'm taking care of the household and i'm being faithful to you and just because you're
00:05:03.440 paying the bills you're out you know sleeping with every sarah and jessica that walks by so i'll give
00:05:08.960 you a couple numbers that that's only a small percentage of men that can sleep with multiple 1.00
00:05:13.120 women so it's only like 15 to 20 percent of men maybe 30 tops i mean it's so the majority of men
00:05:20.320 cannot sleep with multiple women so it's not them cheating well even if they sleep with one woman
00:05:24.880 it's still cheating like women no no no i'm saying like like women find 80 of men is unattractive 0.99
00:05:30.960 ugly not not just okay not decent we find 80 of men is ugly i love ugly men i sleep with ugly men all 0.94
00:05:36.640 the time so just because you find ugly doesn't mean we're not cheating with them that we're not cheating 0.97
00:05:41.760 with them well i mean i'm not a cheater but i'm saying like as women in whole like a lot of times
00:05:46.480 women we're emotional cheaters we don't necessarily cheat there's you know some women might cheat off 1.00
00:05:51.120 of looks but when we decide to step out of a relationship it is always because emotionally
00:05:55.200 at home something is being neglected and we found that in somebody else yes thing is both ways men
00:06:00.480 and women when you lack something in the relationship you look for it elsewhere if you try to deal with it 1.00
00:06:05.920 first and you ask and you address the issue and you try to resolve it within and then another you
00:06:12.000 know i don't know ten eight years later and nothing has happened to be resolved just promises promises
00:06:17.440 promises then this is where infidelity comes in and i mean it's sad but but it's interesting because
00:06:22.480 it's like you guys whenever the woman does something wrong like she leaves or she cheats it's always like
00:06:27.600 well why it's not the same way that's why i just said but no no no you guys didn't give that benefit of
00:06:33.040 the doubt to the dad who left that there wasn't no why did he leave what four times
00:06:37.360 you know what it is because it's expected of a man like you expect it's very hard like you got
00:06:43.760 to think about when the earth was made men back then were having multiple wives so now we have this 0.55
00:06:50.240 thing where okay you know they're bringing polygamy back but before they really brought polygamy back
00:06:55.280 now we have this thing where you know it's one and one well that's not in a man's nature well it's actually
00:07:00.080 women are picking polygamy i actually think that monogamy benefits more men than benefits women 0.99
00:07:05.600 because when we're in monogamy that means like more men are getting laid that means like 60 70. 0.99
00:07:10.880 but it's funny no i'm serious when it's funny one out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in
00:07:15.280 the past year and that's that's primarily the switches when women have more mate selection so 1.00
00:07:19.840 a hundred years ago that was when women started to move into apartments and be able to basically like 1.00
00:07:24.160 be on their own that makes sense before it was like yeah before it was like dad's house husband's 0.99
00:07:28.800 house there was no in between and it's funny because the more mate selection we have the stupider we are 0.93
00:07:33.760 yeah we'll go for it yes yes but it's always the bigger the menu you don't know what to eat 0.96
00:07:38.080 we'll go for a smaller and smaller percentage of men so it's like we'll go for 10 20 30 percent of
00:07:42.640 men i've had so many girls come on the show and say they've dated a celebrity they're average chicks 0.89
00:07:47.120 you think she was the only one how many girlfriends does chris brown how many girlfriends did they break
00:07:51.120 how many girlfriends still like all of these high value you know guys have but did he know he's dating
00:07:56.480 her too i know it's dated like they say but but the fact that the fact that you know this shows
00:08:04.080 it's common right where the girls like we're dating and it's but we outnumber men so really it's the men
00:08:09.440 that have more choices like dating is like one to eight it's like one man from every eight women 0.98
00:08:15.920 it's 55 men it's 45 women it's not sorry other way around 55 women 45 men but if you actually look like
00:08:23.520 eligible men when it comes to dating if you look like eligible men men not even just age the ones
00:08:30.640 that are not in jail that are not dead what person of the population do you think is in jail i like
00:08:36.320 that no no like if you're running into men in jail that's when you really no but when you really look
00:08:41.120 at like do you date men in jail i've dated men in jail before i live in new york you have to date a
00:08:46.400 man in jail you don't have a choice why were you in jail why were you in jail i wasn't in jail i'm
00:08:54.560 a good criminal no i'm not a pro yeah but of course you did you know you might talk to a guy you
00:09:00.880 literally can go to the corner store in new york and get locked up like there is no you know so you
00:09:06.080 can be dating a guy and he gets locked up that's happened to me a couple of times more than once it's
00:09:09.840 one percent of the population for what that's in jail yeah but i'm saying if you actually think of
00:09:14.560 like eligible single bachelors right who's not married who's not dead that's one out of every
00:09:20.320 20 for a lifetime so five percent and who's not like taking starter of the menu all the men now 0.96
00:09:27.120 and i don't want to bring it here i don't want to offend anybody but there's a lot of gay men in the
00:09:30.880 world now so if you add that into it who's really left for women single men that are actually left for
00:09:37.040 women i mean i would argue what women are left for men a lot no no if you look okay if you look by and
00:09:43.680 a lot of people think i hate on women but it's just if you look at an evolutionary point of view
00:09:48.000 most women today would be cast out 1.00