JustPearlyThings - November 12, 2023


Modern Women Need Male Validation To Survive

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks Pearl Reacts To Modern Losing Her Shit On Tiktok

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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

206.86

Word count

1,835

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Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a wife in the modern era of social media influencer culture, the dangers of online pornography, and the difference between celebrity celebrity relationships and real-life ones.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 believe these days one thing i've noticed throughout this conversation it's almost like
00:00:03.280 we're not realizing that everyone in here is also a little bit vain naturally we all have
00:00:08.480 well closed today looking at ourselves do i look nice do i know it's just a natural thing that no
00:00:14.320 matter what we do it's gonna still be here so when we post up we're trying to say to our followers
00:00:20.240 oh look look at me oh i look good today but really if you're smart or if you feel like you want to be
00:00:26.480 modest in a certain way you can put your page on private you can also have certain people that
00:00:31.120 follow you not the predators or people that you think that might be a little bit like looking at
00:00:35.200 you in a certain way you can try and police it private stories as well yeah there we go
00:00:39.520 screenshot and they still get out you can't trust nothing but hear me out hear me out or you could
00:00:45.360 just take the picture hear me out hear me out hear me out hear me out hear me out and you could send
00:00:51.040 it to your husband it's one one option he'll say that's amazing honey one option send it to the
00:00:57.680 group chat with your friends yeah like you got you could text your whoever you want like how many
00:01:02.000 people got to see it well i i take exception to this i'm incredibly vain what i'm not a little vain
00:01:09.760 thank you for saying i i i think you you shouldn't speak on my behalf
00:01:12.960 okay the next woman go next please i just think oh jesus all right 0.99
00:01:24.880 i want the mariah carey one after this one because i got a lot of heat for that one 1.00
00:01:30.960 so this one i said inappropriate inappropriate for a wife
00:01:36.800 yes
00:01:48.720 all right all right we're going to try to get through these so raise your hand
00:01:52.000 inappropriate raise your hand if you think it's inappropriate
00:01:55.680 because she is the second picture oh she's as a mother and a wife inappropriate most 1.00
00:02:01.840 say okay go to the next one please yes all right this is this is this is hailey bieber oh i knew
00:02:10.880 her i was going to say but she's not a mother she's just she's a wife though and she is um a social
00:02:16.720 media influencer model yeah okay so i think here's here's my thought all right i think that you can have 0.99
00:02:25.680 one but you can't have both if your job is to be a whore 1.00
00:02:34.720 i think all right which i mean which okay i'm being funny i know she did modeling i know she did 1.00
00:02:41.200 but but if your job is to act sexual or whatever i i say do that but once you get married
00:02:49.200 now is the time to be a wife i don't really advise it before but my point is more
00:02:54.880 even if you get paid for it you should put it away especially in her position because she's married
00:03:00.880 to a world-renowned superstar what does she need her career for that makes it less worse though
00:03:06.000 that makes it less worse because um the rules are different because like good like if if she's
00:03:10.880 hypergamous and she's putting that out to get the kind of attention that regular women put that out 1.00
00:03:14.560 like good luck displacing justin bieber and the hierarchy of men right now like realistically
00:03:18.640 speaking like you might say he's like whatever but really like who's gonna who's gonna pop up on
00:03:23.440 her feet that's gonna like outplay him the game right she's not gonna he's not getting game she used 1.00
00:03:28.000 to date drake what that's where she did yeah because justin bieber was dating her and then she
00:03:37.520 went to drake but then she came back to just and then we have a problem yeah if that happened i don't
00:03:42.000 know the sequence i don't i don't i don't follow the relation but just but seriously though the
00:03:45.280 celebrity celebrity rules like hypergamy are like super different yeah because like the amount of 0.81
00:03:49.520 men that have access to her on any sort of relative sexual plane is that is like almost non-existent
00:03:53.920 right it's just how it is i don't know you know because her dms would be crazy yeah she would have
00:03:58.320 some very very serious people she would she would get a million dms but it wouldn't matter because all 0.98
00:04:02.800 men to her would just look like the exact same person right there's a chain i don't know dimitri i think
00:04:07.760 if that were true you'd see more celebrity relationships work out exactly right right right but
00:04:14.480 celebrity relationships were failing long before instagram right right but i would argue it's for
00:04:18.880 the same reason because they could like because because what because women kept advertising 1.00
00:04:22.880 themselves yes actually actually and because they have all these they have access to all these high
00:04:27.840 status men we're actually quite the opposite we know that the propensity to cheat goes uh down for
00:04:32.960 a woman as the man's income and celebrity and fame status go up and they go up for a man so in 0.97
00:04:36.480 celebrity relationships the dynamics are reversed because it's usually the men that leave the relationships or
00:04:40.080 cheat versus if you have an income that's quite like you know that we had this conversation right
00:04:43.760 literally earlier today yeah right but but the reverse dynamics you're telling me that the
00:04:47.920 divorce rate because i could see that for high income that includes celebrities it's not about
00:04:52.560 the divorce rate it's about it's about who's leaving the relationship so it's like statistically
00:04:55.760 you know that 90 percent of relationships are ended by college-educated women if the woman's not 1.00
00:04:59.440 college-educated it's like 80 percent but in the relationships of celebrities those statistics
00:05:03.440 are reversed it's the men the men leave more yes because men hyper like high very high value men very
00:05:09.520 rich men basically act like women because they're the ones that the market is now to uh they're the
00:05:13.920 ones that are being pursued not the women right what do you mean there's there's no hope for you to
00:05:19.200 marry a celebrity no i'm just meaning you said high value when i class is high value just like what i
00:05:25.200 mean by that sorry i'll just i'll clarify that's a really good nuance point
00:05:33.520 i just want to clarify when people say high value and people get like oh you mean this and that and these
00:05:37.120 what i mean is just who the market chooses right okay basically a high value woman just means that 1.00
00:05:40.880 men are offering you marriage that's it and a high value uh a high value man just means that women are
00:05:44.960 offering you their bodies that's all it means it's not there's no metric there are metrics that
00:05:48.400 business you can determine it but it's just the market because you said obviously the more high
00:05:51.600 value they are the more they're like b-i-t-c-h isn't it so obviously b-i-t-c-s i don't know i t-c-h-e-s 0.64
00:05:59.040 uh i didn't use that word so i don't understand sorry oh jesus i understand what the word
00:06:04.480 spells but i never said that i was i was gonna say the reason why we wrote about this in our
00:06:09.120 relationship book why celebrity relationships are so um unstable and and our sort of equation
00:06:15.040 for the stability of a relationship is your partner's value to you like your perceived
00:06:20.240 value from your partner divided by uh the the uh potential partner you think you could get on an
00:06:26.240 open marketplace the problem with celebrity relationships is because both partners are
00:06:30.160 typically near the perceived top that once they get to know each other their relationship is
00:06:36.080 always lower quality than what they think they can get on the marketplace so their relationships
00:06:40.880 are always going to be unstable options so can i ask one last question so did you did you say the
00:06:46.720 high valued men or did you mean the high valued celebrity guys like they turn into more like girly when
00:06:52.080 they're that's what you're not girly what i mean what i'm saying is that as a man uh grows in his
00:06:57.440 so so basically here is how it is the formula is very simple a value of a woman on the sexual 0.99
00:07:01.200 marketplace again i know this is getting like very very like objectifying people just bear with it
00:07:05.680 the value of a woman on the sexual marketplace is her present minus her past the value of a man on the 0.97
00:07:10.240 sexual marketplace is his present plus his future okay does that make sense yes so as men age and
00:07:15.040 acquire more wealth and status they grow in value and as women age and gain more sexual experience they 0.86
00:07:20.320 they lose value that's just that's just how it is in the sexual marketplace right so what happens is
00:07:24.320 they just they're just like a crossover where eventually men that become more and more
00:07:27.360 successful just turn into women in the sexual marketplace so the value of 50 year old i don't 1.00
00:07:32.240 know tom cruise is like roughly the same as the value of the hottest 23 year old check on the plane
00:07:40.400 i'm sorry who are we to say that it's supply and demand it's market dynamics this is just literal
00:07:45.440 science like there's like this is just like i'm not well it's just basically saying that hot it's just
00:07:51.520 basically saying that hot tall rich men have more women throwing themselves at them and then they're
00:07:57.360 more likely to like people like kanye like yeah you know what's crazy about kanye i'll give you a
00:08:03.840 really good example right like he's insane and he still has like this he's the example of serial
00:08:08.640 killers right just fame in itself is such a marker of value for a man because it's a high level of
00:08:13.280 pre-selection and women generally operate in pre-selection as a mating mechanism uh just fame for a man 1.00
00:08:18.240 you can literally be a serial killer and women are lining up and sending you letters to try to get
00:08:21.920 with you they had to it was a crazy story there was a story about a serial killer where they had to
00:08:25.840 change the conjugal visit rights because so many women were showing up and he literally said he slept
00:08:30.640 with like 300 women in the course of a couple months because so many women were like the women showing 1.00
00:08:35.280 up for the conjugal visits he's like i have no idea who this is but this woman just showed up to sleep 0.94
00:08:38.800 with me right so fame is like fame is a really crazy you can really gamify fame right but the point is as
00:08:44.560 men grow they basically start to become more and more like women just because their choices go up 1.00
00:08:49.840 they have more opportunities that's all