JustPearlyThings - August 03, 2023


Modern Women REVEAL Their Body Count On @whatever Podcast

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Freaky Bummer Kiko
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Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

195.03

Word count

1,824

Sentence count

182

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

27

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and comedian, to talk about the perils of dating a modern woman and how to deal with them. We talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why it s so damn hard to find a good one.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And how do you bring women back in that have been raised to be strong and independent? 0.79
00:00:03.820 Oh my god!
00:00:05.380 Look at this clip with modern women revealing their body counts. 1.00
00:00:08.660 Freaky, diggy, business.
00:00:10.940 Um, probably like 300 something.
00:00:13.540 She's the village bicycle.
00:00:15.260 Mine's at like 50.
00:00:16.200 50, okay.
00:00:17.280 I'm also at 50.
00:00:18.420 Kiko, body count?
00:00:19.560 Men and women or...
00:00:22.620 Modern women with impulse control issues don't even know how to be desirable to men in the long term. 1.00
00:00:28.080 Everyone's had a ride.
00:00:29.380 If the maxim, a woman's body count, is inversely proportional to her ability to commit is true, 1.00
00:00:34.780 how do we get these women off the streets and back into the home? 1.00
00:00:37.820 Exactly.
00:00:39.360 It's impossible.
00:00:41.820 Hyper promiscuity has become normalized and few men want a woman who's been ran through more times than a yellow light. 0.97
00:00:48.480 Building your house on sand has never been a good idea.
00:00:51.180 Do you qualify for high body guy?
00:00:52.600 You said yes.
00:00:53.260 Now I'm asking you, what factors make you qualify?
00:00:55.140 That I make fall off.
00:00:56.220 Okay.
00:00:56.840 So high value for me would be like... 0.79
00:00:58.460 Well, you can see her boobs out from a mile away. 1.00
00:01:00.640 What high value man is going to take her seriously? 0.86
00:01:02.620 I don't know.
00:01:03.580 Have my same values.
00:01:04.700 Because if not, it's never going to work.
00:01:06.040 And what are those values?
00:01:07.060 Yeah. 0.99
00:01:07.300 What values does a woman with a sleeve and her tits out have? 1.00
00:01:11.460 And this is another thing. 0.99
00:01:12.540 I just had a very nice thought.
00:01:14.580 Because this woman keeps saying, well, I can have a tattoo. 0.98
00:01:17.960 I can do all of this.
00:01:19.500 I can dress however I want.
00:01:20.720 But that doesn't mean I can't teach my kids right.
00:01:23.020 Okay.
00:01:23.360 So how can you teach your kids the right thing?
00:01:26.200 You say one thing to them and they look at you.
00:01:28.960 And then when they go out in society, the people they see that look at you are doing the opposite.
00:01:33.740 So you're almost kind of confusing your kids from the very beginning.
00:01:37.400 Because kids are smarter than people think.
00:01:39.060 Well, I am actually disgusted and appalled by how many mothers we've had come on the show. 1.00
00:01:45.040 And I look at their Instagram and it's full of thirst traps.
00:01:47.440 Like, it actually disgusts me.
00:01:49.120 Because I'm like, especially the ones with sons.
00:01:51.960 I'm like, why are you posting this stuff when you have a son?
00:01:54.980 And it kind of speaks to society just how, like, selfish the average modern, like, chick is. 1.00
00:02:00.680 Not all, obviously. 0.90
00:02:03.120 But it's like, it actually disgusts me. 1.00
00:02:05.420 Because I'm like, why are these bitches half naked on Instagram with children? 1.00
00:02:08.500 Like, I can't even imagine growing up my mom was doing that. 0.99
00:02:11.540 I don't just, like, agree with me.
00:02:14.800 She's correct about partners needing the same values or it'll never work.
00:02:18.420 But demanding that a man just agree with her isn't a value.
00:02:21.100 It's more an indication of someone with a high conflict personality who's self-absorbed and likely to exhibit controlling behavior.
00:02:27.300 Do exactly as I say.
00:02:29.320 Controlling behavior can also be a symptom of several personality conditions, such as histrionic, borderline, and narcissistic personality disorder.
00:02:36.980 Facts.
00:02:37.300 This is something all men should be aware of because a relationship with this type of individual is often more challenging than most.
00:02:44.000 Yes.
00:02:44.620 Do you think a successful guy that has his stuff together cares about you having money yourself?
00:02:48.480 No, actually.
00:02:49.500 So why would you list that out as a quality?
00:02:53.940 Some of the qualities that make a woman desirable would be things like integrity, cooperativeness, humility, and selflessness. 0.99
00:03:00.200 These would be the antithesis of the requirement that a man just agree with her.
00:03:03.700 Oh my god.
00:03:04.820 The things that you're supposed to perform on being a lady, being a good, dutiful girlfriend, you said that you're gonna, you could do it, but you're not gonna always do it.
00:03:10.820 This is one of the biggest drawbacks to dating modern women. 0.99
00:03:15.860 The practice of conditional or selective femininity.
00:03:18.140 Oh, I'm civilized.
00:03:18.920 Women like this will hold their femininity hostage and only release it if the man acts accordingly. 1.00
00:03:23.880 Subvert the patriarchy. 0.64
00:03:25.040 Femininity has become a luxury in the West and is scarce in support.
00:03:28.140 Wow, I never thought of it like that.
00:03:29.300 They're using femininity as a weapon. 1.00
00:03:31.020 We'll only be feminine when you do what I say or act how I want you to act. 1.00
00:03:36.320 And that's what I realized, too.
00:03:37.140 All these dating things where they're like, you know, you have to hold out for 90 days.
00:03:42.200 You have to like, you only get what you accept or like allow or something. 0.97
00:03:48.440 Like even that, even that phrase allow implies that you can control men, but it's like the men that that shit works on, you don't want you. 0.98
00:03:57.400 And the relationship is doomed because the woman is leading it. 1.00
00:04:01.420 That's what I was going to say.
00:04:02.300 It's kind of counterintuitive.
00:04:03.620 Like a real masculine man is not going to be controlled by your shenanigans.
00:04:08.340 So you doing that is actually pushing, like you're reducing your chances of actually getting the man you say you want.
00:04:14.780 It's rarer than titanium, gold and diamonds.
00:04:17.180 As much as the Puppet Masters has put in to break us as a family unit and as a society, we need to fix it.
00:04:26.580 And it absolutely cannot be fixed without the help of men.
00:04:30.120 Sadly, men have been completely destroyed by this feminist movement.
00:04:33.780 What? 1.00
00:04:34.460 Goddamn right. 0.98
00:04:35.760 The Puppet Master does not like smart, inquiring individuals. 0.98
00:04:39.220 It only wants NPCs with limited programming to lead around with their eyes and ears closed, as well as their brains devoid of useful knowledge.
00:04:46.100 An NPC, that's impossible.
00:04:48.080 Their appeasement is easily met with bread and circuses.
00:04:51.120 But I also don't want to shame women and I want to bring them back home. 1.00
00:04:55.740 Not a great plan.
00:04:56.620 You can't have your cake and eat it too.
00:04:58.520 It's well known that if you want to make a modern woman angry, you tell her the truth, which often involves an element of shaming. 0.94
00:05:04.360 Shame.
00:05:04.940 And I can't do that alone.
00:05:06.840 We need help from men.
00:05:08.840 What can the average man do when women have no interest in them? 1.00
00:05:12.020 This might be a particular bell that can't be unrung.
00:05:14.620 An average attractive male on Tinder gets swiped less than 1% of the time.
00:05:19.220 And there's three men on Tinder for every one woman. 1.00
00:05:22.100 So you've distilled it.
00:05:23.040 You've taken out one of the key components of mating dynamics. 0.99
00:05:26.320 And that is vibe, humor, body language, pheromones.
00:05:29.920 The ability to be, quite frankly, a little bit persistent in the pursuit of a romantic relationship.
00:05:34.800 Bingo.
00:05:35.160 It's also impossible to communicate confidence online, which can be a man's greatest asset.
00:05:40.180 Bummer.
00:05:40.740 And women have so many options with online dating, it allows for the undesirable to become picky. 1.00
00:05:45.740 Am I living in a f***ing nightmare right now?
00:05:47.620 You're very right about the way we use language. 0.89
00:05:49.860 It's quite weird the way we have subtly been programmed to almost fight against ourselves.
00:05:55.940 So when they say shaming, when you shame a woman, can you actually shame someone?
00:06:00.800 Isn't shame felt internally?
00:06:03.160 Wow, that's so true.
00:06:05.420 You can't shame someone.
00:06:06.500 You can tell the truth and they can feel shame about the truth.
00:06:09.040 Can I tweet this?
00:06:10.560 Yeah, of course.
00:06:10.940 Can I tweet this?
00:06:11.320 Because if you're lying, if you lie about me, why would I be ashamed?
00:06:15.280 You can't shame someone.
00:06:17.220 I'll at you in it.
00:06:18.680 I'll at you.
00:06:19.360 No, no.
00:06:20.220 You want me to at you?
00:06:20.840 Yeah, okay.
00:06:21.580 You can't shame someone.
00:06:23.140 You can tell the truth and they can feel shame.
00:06:26.480 What you're saying is a lie.
00:06:27.940 How, why would I, just like you said.
00:06:29.700 Yeah, well, it's like when they say, I don't know, it's like even when they insult me, it's
00:06:34.080 like, I don't care.
00:06:35.820 Exactly. 0.95
00:06:36.320 And if, for instance, they say like someone calls a woman a slut and you know the way women 1.00
00:06:42.720 say, well, we don't care this and that. 0.99
00:06:45.640 If you really don't care, then why are you ashamed about being called a slut? 0.99
00:06:49.260 Right. 0.98
00:06:50.020 You should be happy since that's what you wanted to do.
00:06:52.700 Wow, wow, that's so interesting.
00:06:55.720 Yeah, because shame has to, I actually think shame comes from God because, yeah, because
00:07:00.080 it's like, what, it's something you feel internally.
00:07:03.640 This inflated sense of sexual market value is neither good for men, nor women, nor society
00:07:08.480 as a whole because people will stop having children.
00:07:10.960 We have no third places anymore, no places to meet.
00:07:14.040 People aren't going to bars, they aren't sports league, they aren't going to church, they
00:07:17.140 aren't even going to work.
00:07:18.180 So it gets distilled down to very one or two dimensional attributes.
00:07:22.420 And the reality is women are much choosier than men and they can apply those screens and 0.98
00:07:27.000 they allocate all of their attention to a small number of men.
00:07:30.680 This is before we even mention that there are a lot of fake profiles, gold diggers, and
00:07:35.100 sugar babies on dating apps.
00:07:36.700 Stop wasting my time.
00:07:38.840 It's like fishing in the sewer. 0.88
00:07:40.100 And besides, the apps are designed to be useless.
00:07:42.860 Yes.
00:07:43.280 They make their money through advertising and charging hopeful romantics for premium
00:07:47.840 features.
00:07:48.520 What a rip off.
00:07:49.740 It's in their best interest for daters to wade through a wasteland of endless swiping, only
00:07:53.780 to be rewarded with no matches.
00:07:55.600 How many of us have said, I knew a ton of great single women, they can't find a date? 1.00
00:07:59.900 That's not true.
00:08:00.540 They can't find a date.
00:08:01.640 They can't find a man they find economically or emotionally viable.
00:08:04.800 He's not a lie.
00:08:05.700 But he's right.
00:08:06.460 This comes back to lady inflation. 0.66
00:08:08.100 Modern women overvaluing themselves in the dating market. 0.99
00:08:10.600 I'm a 10 and everybody's a 10 if they feel like they're 10.
00:08:13.580 Here's a pertinent question for the ladies that are holding out for an economically attractive 1.00
00:08:17.500 man.
00:08:17.920 Do you look like the equivalent of the money he makes?
00:08:20.360 Oh my god.
00:08:21.840 The practice of open hypergamy like this has been summarized as the high heels effect. 0.82
00:08:25.960 In the last 40 years, more women have graduated from college than men, and they're not interested 1.00
00:08:30.380 in mating with non-college graduates.
00:08:32.280 If this continues, what will society look like when blue-collar men fully embrace going abroad 0.83
00:08:37.380 to find wives? 0.89
00:08:38.180 Imagine this next clip, but on a society-wide scale.
00:08:43.640 Oh my gosh, that's so embarrassing.
00:08:46.520 Yeah, okay guys, this was funny.
00:09:03.440 I liked this video.
00:09:05.040 Yeah, this is, you know, the effects of the culture and, you know, of women just being 1.00
00:09:10.180 able to do everything ourselves, you know.
00:09:12.540 But let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:09:15.480 Let me know if you have any other videos you want me to react to, like the video on your
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