00:00:00.000their own house and it's sad so i have a question who for you as a woman who's a positive uh role
00:00:08.280model as a woman that's well known who do you look at as a woman that's successful and and has
00:00:13.600the lifestyle you want and the family you want and the marriage you want who who do you look up to as
00:00:18.760a woman i think that's really hard because you really you don't really know people's life you
00:00:24.520really you're not with them day to day i mean what looks good on instagram and what looks good when
00:00:29.380they're in an interview is one thing but what's actually going on behind closed door is very
00:00:33.780totally different like everybody wants a happy relationship right no one goes into it saying i
00:00:38.860want a terrible relationship i want to argue at least once a week i want to do even though that's
00:00:42.740the reality those things are going to happen but it's how you handle those disagreements how you
00:00:47.240handle those arguments are you want to call them a bitch-ass nigger or are you going to say something
00:00:51.240like you know what my apologies you know whatever the case may be so i don't think that i don't look
00:00:57.540up to anybody because i do i realize that i don't know people's real relationship and i and i always
00:01:03.860that's why i always ask like the question like will you obey your husband because that really kind of
00:01:08.480tells you where someone's mindset's at like could he tell you to shut the fuck could he could he
00:01:12.520no but that's that's wrong it's like like he said shut the fuck up if he is a boss-ass nigga
00:01:17.940well you ever heard that okay this is just no because it's like it's like okay you know a guy
00:01:26.420it says in the bible that your husband's supposed to love you right and he doesn't say love you when
00:01:32.000you're being a perfect feminine woman most of us most women today we're not perfect feminine women
00:01:36.700yet we ask the men to be these perfect leaders and we'll only obey them when they're leading
00:01:41.320perfectly they're not always going to lead perfectly life is long but but the question is like and then
00:01:47.060and then we get these like church it's so stupid they they put propaganda in the church in the early
00:01:52.3401900s to influence women that's why you have all these single women in churches basically saying
00:01:56.720that like you can only submit to your husband's authority um when he follows god but then that puts
00:02:01.220the woman deciding when he's following god and when he's not following god but it's like men have given
00:02:05.640us a lot of grace but we have no grace for men i was gonna say i do um look up to jada and will
00:02:12.220believe it or not oh my god i want to meet them i'm manifesting it i think that they are so fucking
00:02:18.640cool because they're open enough to understand that sometimes you might have attractions to other
00:02:24.000people and it's okay to make these types of relationships as long as you stay partners
00:02:28.440together if i ever did get married i would never want to get a divorce even if we lived separately
00:02:33.880what about you i don't particularly have a like a celebrity or anything that i'm looking up to
00:02:42.380but just anybody like in your life like maybe your grandmother or something uh
00:02:46.160um yeah i don't really have anybody that anyone else i think denzel and his wife seem to have a pretty
00:02:55.640healthy relationship but i don't know everything sure sure but i'm talking about a woman a woman
00:03:00.420but i love how like they're into charity how they like how they're into charity how they like want
00:03:06.040to like build together how they're looked at like in another platform i would love to be at that
00:03:11.960kind of status i love the the relationship and the camaraderie that they have with each other i think
00:03:17.700that's very admirable but again i don't know everything sure it could be fucking horrible so my
00:03:22.000point is is there's not a figure out there that's installing positive messages to to women
00:03:28.740i mean beyonce i'm an independent i'm an it's like
00:03:32.620that's my point you started off you're telling all these women to be independent and you've been
00:03:50.100married she's the biggest con woman and he was fucking her when she was underage
00:03:54.760or you know although halo was a good one you know
00:04:00.420well here's the thing even like a relationship is when you go to work there's rules right there's
00:04:12.160things that you sign off to when you get employed to say i will not do a b c d e f and g
00:04:18.900boundaries that's the same but when i don't think people value that when they're in a relationship
00:04:23.860because they don't look at it as a job or a contract but it actually is it's things in there
00:04:29.700you're going to tell your man don't hit me don't cuss at me or whatever your boundaries are the things
00:04:34.760that make you feel uncomfortable and something you know what else is really interesting um who who
00:04:39.460here is in a relationship raise your hand almost there three three okay it's it's interesting
00:04:44.480because i can't i can't oh my god i don't know what she's saying but it's interesting because i
00:04:51.220can't tell the difference between women in a relationship and not in a relationship in this
00:04:55.180room based on like how provocatively like you guys are dressed yeah gotcha and there used to be a time
00:05:00.000where like when when you got married it's like i can't even tell the difference between the wives and
00:05:04.260the mothers and the young women that are single and signaling but you know you're funny but wait a
00:05:08.900minute let me just cut you off because i just told her i said i wore a t-shirt here because i
00:05:14.400thought there would be a bunch of men here but when i found out it was majority women in the room
00:05:18.800i took my shirt off she took her shirt off for me
00:05:21.700do you know what's interesting about the way you guys you know what's interesting the way you guys
00:05:34.920process information is you process it very personal where it's like about you and i'm not talking about
00:05:39.760any of you individually but i'm just saying as a group like i can i walk down the street and i'll see
00:05:46.280women holding the hands of a guy dressed like a hooker i'll see wives and mothers on instagram
00:05:51.460dressed like thirst traps and it's like where are we as women in society if i can't tell the difference
00:05:57.420i just think it's just too it's 2023 like if my if i was if the guy that i'm dating said to me
00:06:05.340hey when you are not with me or i don't like that you dress like that then i would change but but the
00:06:10.860thing is if there's not an issue there's not an issue but the thing is like men will study us to
00:06:15.720figure out what we want and then adjust accordingly like they'll be like okay like they don't like it
00:06:19.680when women don't like when we do this this and that i think we do that to some type of realm
00:06:23.900not right i mean come on do you think we'd start by being in shape like that's the one thing
00:06:28.140i'm in shape but so you're you're already processing information as you but i'm saying
00:06:34.620as a group 70 percent of us are overweight so let me say something though they're the guys who
00:06:39.580are the most in shape the buffest most fucking cut up dudes like fat bitches yeah to fuck they
00:06:46.220don't marry okay but like even look at there's always some there's always going to be someone
00:06:56.220there's always going to be and see like it's like the personal attacks that's what they're always
00:06:59.920going to she said the 600 pound white people are married look it's sometimes sometimes but it's
00:07:05.780never it's never it's never to the men that you want they're always these dorky ass dudes okay
00:07:12.140okay okay like i'm gonna say this even if you're skinny it doesn't mean that like all of a sudden
00:07:17.000a guy's gonna fall in love with you and be right to you or nothing like you're talking like no it
00:07:21.940doesn't make it easier i am fucking hot as shit i don't give a fuck what anybody has to say and i
00:07:26.900still deal with the shit because a guy's gonna do what the fuck he wants to do but you're because he
00:07:31.780wants to um i never said that right remember and i'm not going to okay okay okay is this is this guy
00:07:38.840hot can i see is he hot no i don't know okay here's my point here's my point here's my point
00:07:53.880his girlfriend is super attractive because he's a high valued man and he wants a fit feminine
00:08:01.780attractive woman he paid 38 billion dollars to get a divorce to be with a latina news reporter who
00:08:07.840looks like a model and is waiting for him to die hold on high valued men want fit feminine
00:08:14.120attractive women so when you say well i know guys yeah i know guys too that'll be with a woman that's
00:08:20.720overweight or obese but the point is the guy the guys that most women go after this guy's not
00:08:26.340attractive right if he was at 7-eleven with a name change that said jeff bezos on it you wouldn't
00:08:32.080take a second look you know what a lot of women go after this guy why because status yeah because
00:08:37.640he has money resources resources yeah that's my point so when you talk to these guys we're all the
00:08:42.640high value men they're with the pretty girls they're they're the guys that have the yacht in monaco and
00:08:47.240the girl's 19 21 years old and she's got a brain of a box of rocks she's not smart well and it's like
00:08:53.100if women didn't know this it's like we spend thousands of dollars on bbls boob jobs to look
00:08:59.640younger like it's like women will spend money to look younger smaller tighter they'll go to personal
00:09:05.380trainers and then say that men don't like what they like
00:09:07.960this is why like even though i don't agree with you and i feel like a lot of you the shit you say
00:09:14.660it's stupid i still like you because like you're stupid but i like you no but like you really do
00:09:22.120like say a lot of shit that i do agree with and like people tell me i'm a confused ass republican
00:09:26.760all the time they're like you believe in capital punishment and fucking abortion and all this shit
00:09:31.200i'm like yeah but you know i'm um i'm not republican uh you know it's like you know just some shit
00:09:37.720like that you know women shouldn't vote yeah you gotta stop i'm tired of her somebody get her mute
00:09:43.600her oh we gonna get her on me we gonna get her on bgo and we gonna mute her i don't know anyways
00:09:48.480it's so it's so funny we'll have this whole convo and like i think by the end it's like i'm
00:09:55.640showing why we shouldn't vote it's like because we can't even we're arguing about this water wet do
00:10:02.940men like thin chicks right let's talk about let me ask you a question you don't have to expose this
00:10:08.920or not yes did you all vote in the last election nope nope i'm not gonna vote the next one either
00:10:15.260yeah did y'all did y'all vote for did y'all vote for obama yeah i didn't yeah why why because he's
00:10:21.500black that's my point no i did not i did not vote because he's black i did not vote because he's
00:10:27.480black i voted because i don't want somebody to run my country that wants to grab my country
00:10:32.680wait i have a question oh my god okay wait wait wait wait wait wait you shouldn't think about the
00:10:36.520emotional part when you're voting yeah you need to think about what that person can bring to the
00:10:41.320table and that's the one thing what can i just say that my my grandpa always told me vote for what
00:10:47.960you need don't vote for what other people okay watch watch this first of all he's not black he's
00:10:52.980biracial he is he's biracial black and white but second of all second of all i have a dream that one
00:10:59.820day my children okay were you judged by their character not the color of their skin
00:11:05.140you voted for him because he was black but that was my feeling you didn't vote for him based on facts
00:11:11.320and that's the point i said that because i know a lot that's the typical answer so everybody
00:11:17.220normally says that however in the black community when you have black grandparents black mother black
00:11:23.040father etc etc they tell you they explain to you about obama it wasn't just it was somebody who you
00:11:28.800could relate to finally but it wasn't just about his skin color because we also voted for clinton we
00:11:34.040also voted for clinton's black he had a blow job in the office okay um white guys do that all day
00:11:40.260don't don't play with me i'm a vip host out here i know here's the thing
00:11:43.920what guys do what get get blow jobs in their fucking office all day every day
00:11:50.400you guys want blow jobs no that's what i'm trying to say hey we're in office right now
00:11:56.220i think you guys i think if 90 of men went to work and were offered a blow job you don't think they would
00:12:06.000you don't think they would be in office right now no he said he said he said of course he was black he got a blow job in the office i said no that's all guys that's what i wanted to say
00:12:14.660it was a joke it was a joke right no no no no but that's black right he's just he's got the
00:12:18.560negro tendances it's not a racist joke at all it was a joke come on
00:12:21.700yeah yeah yeah they said he's the blackest white guy there you go that's what i was talking about
00:12:27.140i'm not on that shit at all now y'all may hate women but y'all hate black people but now the black
00:12:32.480community the black community the black community woke up now they're going republican
00:12:36.440a lot a lot but anyways go ahead that's true that's very and the hispanics yeah that's very
00:12:42.020true if you were moderate back in the day or like like you're more republic now well remember the black