JustPearlyThings - August 21, 2023


Modern Women Reveal Their Role Model on Air

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

196.59

Word count

2,519

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Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

48

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Hate speech

33

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Summary

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Jada Pinkett-Smith joins Jemele to talk about her relationship with her husband, Denzel Washington, and what she looks up to as a woman and a role model. She also talks about the importance of boundaries in a relationship and how important it is to have them.

Transcript

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Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 their own house and it's sad so i have a question who for you as a woman who's a positive uh role 1.00
00:00:08.280 model as a woman that's well known who do you look at as a woman that's successful and and has
00:00:13.600 the lifestyle you want and the family you want and the marriage you want who who do you look up to as
00:00:18.760 a woman i think that's really hard because you really you don't really know people's life you
00:00:24.520 really you're not with them day to day i mean what looks good on instagram and what looks good when
00:00:29.380 they're in an interview is one thing but what's actually going on behind closed door is very
00:00:33.780 totally different like everybody wants a happy relationship right no one goes into it saying i
00:00:38.860 want a terrible relationship i want to argue at least once a week i want to do even though that's
00:00:42.740 the reality those things are going to happen but it's how you handle those disagreements how you 0.99
00:00:47.240 handle those arguments are you want to call them a bitch-ass nigger or are you going to say something 1.00
00:00:51.240 like you know what my apologies you know whatever the case may be so i don't think that i don't look 0.99
00:00:57.540 up to anybody because i do i realize that i don't know people's real relationship and i and i always
00:01:03.860 that's why i always ask like the question like will you obey your husband because that really kind of 0.99
00:01:08.480 tells you where someone's mindset's at like could he tell you to shut the fuck could he could he 1.00
00:01:12.520 no but that's that's wrong it's like like he said shut the fuck up if he is a boss-ass nigga 1.00
00:01:17.940 well you ever heard that okay this is just no because it's like it's like okay you know a guy 0.99
00:01:26.420 it says in the bible that your husband's supposed to love you right and he doesn't say love you when
00:01:32.000 you're being a perfect feminine woman most of us most women today we're not perfect feminine women
00:01:36.700 yet we ask the men to be these perfect leaders and we'll only obey them when they're leading
00:01:41.320 perfectly they're not always going to lead perfectly life is long but but the question is like and then 0.98
00:01:47.060 and then we get these like church it's so stupid they they put propaganda in the church in the early 0.96
00:01:52.340 1900s to influence women that's why you have all these single women in churches basically saying 1.00
00:01:56.720 that like you can only submit to your husband's authority um when he follows god but then that puts
00:02:01.220 the woman deciding when he's following god and when he's not following god but it's like men have given 0.86
00:02:05.640 us a lot of grace but we have no grace for men i was gonna say i do um look up to jada and will 0.99
00:02:12.220 believe it or not oh my god i want to meet them i'm manifesting it i think that they are so fucking 0.96
00:02:18.640 cool because they're open enough to understand that sometimes you might have attractions to other
00:02:24.000 people and it's okay to make these types of relationships as long as you stay partners
00:02:28.440 together if i ever did get married i would never want to get a divorce even if we lived separately
00:02:33.880 what about you i don't particularly have a like a celebrity or anything that i'm looking up to
00:02:42.380 but just anybody like in your life like maybe your grandmother or something uh
00:02:46.160 um yeah i don't really have anybody that anyone else i think denzel and his wife seem to have a pretty
00:02:55.640 healthy relationship but i don't know everything sure sure but i'm talking about a woman a woman
00:03:00.420 but i love how like they're into charity how they like how they're into charity how they like want
00:03:06.040 to like build together how they're looked at like in another platform i would love to be at that
00:03:11.960 kind of status i love the the relationship and the camaraderie that they have with each other i think
00:03:17.700 that's very admirable but again i don't know everything sure it could be fucking horrible so my 0.96
00:03:22.000 point is is there's not a figure out there that's installing positive messages to to women 0.94
00:03:28.740 i mean beyonce i'm an independent i'm an it's like
00:03:32.620 that's my point you started off you're telling all these women to be independent and you've been 0.99
00:03:50.100 married she's the biggest con woman and he was fucking her when she was underage 1.00
00:03:54.760 or you know although halo was a good one you know 1.00
00:04:00.420 well here's the thing even like a relationship is when you go to work there's rules right there's
00:04:12.160 things that you sign off to when you get employed to say i will not do a b c d e f and g
00:04:18.900 boundaries that's the same but when i don't think people value that when they're in a relationship
00:04:23.860 because they don't look at it as a job or a contract but it actually is it's things in there
00:04:29.700 you're going to tell your man don't hit me don't cuss at me or whatever your boundaries are the things
00:04:34.760 that make you feel uncomfortable and something you know what else is really interesting um who who
00:04:39.460 here is in a relationship raise your hand almost there three three okay it's it's interesting
00:04:44.480 because i can't i can't oh my god i don't know what she's saying but it's interesting because i
00:04:51.220 can't tell the difference between women in a relationship and not in a relationship in this 0.99
00:04:55.180 room based on like how provocatively like you guys are dressed yeah gotcha and there used to be a time
00:05:00.000 where like when when you got married it's like i can't even tell the difference between the wives and 0.99
00:05:04.260 the mothers and the young women that are single and signaling but you know you're funny but wait a
00:05:08.900 minute let me just cut you off because i just told her i said i wore a t-shirt here because i 1.00
00:05:14.400 thought there would be a bunch of men here but when i found out it was majority women in the room
00:05:18.800 i took my shirt off she took her shirt off for me 1.00
00:05:21.700 do you know what's interesting about the way you guys you know what's interesting the way you guys
00:05:34.920 process information is you process it very personal where it's like about you and i'm not talking about
00:05:39.760 any of you individually but i'm just saying as a group like i can i walk down the street and i'll see 0.73
00:05:46.280 women holding the hands of a guy dressed like a hooker i'll see wives and mothers on instagram 0.71
00:05:51.460 dressed like thirst traps and it's like where are we as women in society if i can't tell the difference 0.93
00:05:57.420 i just think it's just too it's 2023 like if my if i was if the guy that i'm dating said to me
00:06:05.340 hey when you are not with me or i don't like that you dress like that then i would change but but the
00:06:10.860 thing is if there's not an issue there's not an issue but the thing is like men will study us to
00:06:15.720 figure out what we want and then adjust accordingly like they'll be like okay like they don't like it
00:06:19.680 when women don't like when we do this this and that i think we do that to some type of realm 1.00
00:06:23.900 not right i mean come on do you think we'd start by being in shape like that's the one thing
00:06:28.140 i'm in shape but so you're you're already processing information as you but i'm saying
00:06:34.620 as a group 70 percent of us are overweight so let me say something though they're the guys who 1.00
00:06:39.580 are the most in shape the buffest most fucking cut up dudes like fat bitches yeah to fuck they 1.00
00:06:46.220 don't marry okay but like even look at there's always some there's always going to be someone 1.00
00:06:56.220 there's always going to be and see like it's like the personal attacks that's what they're always
00:06:59.920 going to she said the 600 pound white people are married look it's sometimes sometimes but it's 1.00
00:07:05.780 never it's never it's never to the men that you want they're always these dorky ass dudes okay 1.00
00:07:12.140 okay okay like i'm gonna say this even if you're skinny it doesn't mean that like all of a sudden 0.98
00:07:17.000 a guy's gonna fall in love with you and be right to you or nothing like you're talking like no it 0.99
00:07:21.940 doesn't make it easier i am fucking hot as shit i don't give a fuck what anybody has to say and i 1.00
00:07:26.900 still deal with the shit because a guy's gonna do what the fuck he wants to do but you're because he 0.99
00:07:31.780 wants to um i never said that right remember and i'm not going to okay okay okay is this is this guy 1.00
00:07:38.840 hot can i see is he hot no i don't know okay here's my point here's my point here's my point
00:07:53.880 his girlfriend is super attractive because he's a high valued man and he wants a fit feminine 0.84
00:08:01.780 attractive woman he paid 38 billion dollars to get a divorce to be with a latina news reporter who 1.00
00:08:07.840 looks like a model and is waiting for him to die hold on high valued men want fit feminine 0.97
00:08:14.120 attractive women so when you say well i know guys yeah i know guys too that'll be with a woman that's 1.00
00:08:20.720 overweight or obese but the point is the guy the guys that most women go after this guy's not 0.71
00:08:26.340 attractive right if he was at 7-eleven with a name change that said jeff bezos on it you wouldn't
00:08:32.080 take a second look you know what a lot of women go after this guy why because status yeah because 1.00
00:08:37.640 he has money resources resources yeah that's my point so when you talk to these guys we're all the
00:08:42.640 high value men they're with the pretty girls they're they're the guys that have the yacht in monaco and
00:08:47.240 the girl's 19 21 years old and she's got a brain of a box of rocks she's not smart well and it's like 0.98
00:08:53.100 if women didn't know this it's like we spend thousands of dollars on bbls boob jobs to look 1.00
00:08:59.640 younger like it's like women will spend money to look younger smaller tighter they'll go to personal 1.00
00:09:05.380 trainers and then say that men don't like what they like 1.00
00:09:07.960 this is why like even though i don't agree with you and i feel like a lot of you the shit you say 1.00
00:09:14.660 it's stupid i still like you because like you're stupid but i like you no but like you really do 1.00
00:09:22.120 like say a lot of shit that i do agree with and like people tell me i'm a confused ass republican 1.00
00:09:26.760 all the time they're like you believe in capital punishment and fucking abortion and all this shit 1.00
00:09:31.200 i'm like yeah but you know i'm um i'm not republican uh you know it's like you know just some shit 1.00
00:09:37.720 like that you know women shouldn't vote yeah you gotta stop i'm tired of her somebody get her mute 1.00
00:09:43.600 her oh we gonna get her on me we gonna get her on bgo and we gonna mute her i don't know anyways
00:09:48.480 it's so it's so funny we'll have this whole convo and like i think by the end it's like i'm
00:09:55.640 showing why we shouldn't vote it's like because we can't even we're arguing about this water wet do
00:10:02.940 men like thin chicks right let's talk about let me ask you a question you don't have to expose this 1.00
00:10:08.920 or not yes did you all vote in the last election nope nope i'm not gonna vote the next one either
00:10:15.260 yeah did y'all did y'all vote for did y'all vote for obama yeah i didn't yeah why why because he's
00:10:21.500 black that's my point no i did not i did not vote because he's black i did not vote because he's 0.67
00:10:27.480 black i voted because i don't want somebody to run my country that wants to grab my country 0.97
00:10:32.680 wait i have a question oh my god okay wait wait wait wait wait wait you shouldn't think about the
00:10:36.520 emotional part when you're voting yeah you need to think about what that person can bring to the
00:10:41.320 table and that's the one thing what can i just say that my my grandpa always told me vote for what
00:10:47.960 you need don't vote for what other people okay watch watch this first of all he's not black he's 0.96
00:10:52.980 biracial he is he's biracial black and white but second of all second of all i have a dream that one
00:10:59.820 day my children okay were you judged by their character not the color of their skin
00:11:05.140 you voted for him because he was black but that was my feeling you didn't vote for him based on facts
00:11:11.320 and that's the point i said that because i know a lot that's the typical answer so everybody 0.96
00:11:17.220 normally says that however in the black community when you have black grandparents black mother black
00:11:23.040 father etc etc they tell you they explain to you about obama it wasn't just it was somebody who you
00:11:28.800 could relate to finally but it wasn't just about his skin color because we also voted for clinton we 0.98
00:11:34.040 also voted for clinton's black he had a blow job in the office okay um white guys do that all day 0.99
00:11:40.260 don't don't play with me i'm a vip host out here i know here's the thing 1.00
00:11:43.920 what guys do what get get blow jobs in their fucking office all day every day 0.99
00:11:50.400 you guys want blow jobs no that's what i'm trying to say hey we're in office right now 1.00
00:11:56.220 i think you guys i think if 90 of men went to work and were offered a blow job you don't think they would 0.99
00:12:06.000 you don't think they would be in office right now no he said he said he said of course he was black he got a blow job in the office i said no that's all guys that's what i wanted to say 0.99
00:12:14.660 it was a joke it was a joke right no no no no but that's black right he's just he's got the 0.99
00:12:18.560 negro tendances it's not a racist joke at all it was a joke come on 1.00
00:12:21.700 yeah yeah yeah they said he's the blackest white guy there you go that's what i was talking about 1.00
00:12:27.140 i'm not on that shit at all now y'all may hate women but y'all hate black people but now the black 1.00
00:12:32.480 community the black community the black community woke up now they're going republican 1.00
00:12:36.440 a lot a lot but anyways go ahead that's true that's very and the hispanics yeah that's very
00:12:42.020 true if you were moderate back in the day or like like you're more republic now well remember the black 0.99
00:12:48.200 party was