JustPearlyThings - Modern Women ROASTED Men for Lack of Sexual Control

00:00:00.000 because they stay stay in that lane like you don't want to be seen with them and

00:00:06.240 they just they just come to the crib and kick

00:00:20.560 they're happy to be around high energy my guy exactly so they're thinking i'm not gonna get

00:00:23.520 a guy like this in my life i'm gonna stay around him and smash him i'm happy to be around him that's

00:00:27.840 good and us man like you just said the people they normally like it's not on the level not on the

00:00:32.640 same and they're not on the level as a man you want to bust your nut and go listen 0.98

00:00:37.120 facts it's a certain thing and this is a a odd term it's called a human jerk off don't worry 0.99

00:00:48.240 sometimes you don't want to masturbate it's a lot listen i said this to my friend today 0.99

00:00:56.400 i was like you've been you've been no no maybe but you've been in a situation where you've been 0.93

00:01:03.200 done having sex and you go to the bathroom and you look at yourself in the mirror and you go i'm not

00:01:08.080 coming back here

00:01:20.560 and then you find yourself back there on tuesday wednesday thursday

00:01:24.880 because they wasn't answering the phone and they told you to wait for something you gotta wait for 1.00

00:01:30.560 me you gotta wait for this you're gonna wait i'm gonna go fuck this fat bitch right now 1.00

00:01:34.240 wait wait say that say that in the mic say that in the mic you got it you say oh you gotta wait you 1.00

00:01:38.160 gotta i'm waiting i'm you go we're gonna go on a couple more dates cool i'm gonna go fuck this fat 1.00

00:01:41.680 bitch uh and then you get your dick in somebody's sink like an asshole and you're just washing yourself 1.00

00:01:49.360 like why am i and you talking you know what i'm talking about you're having this prep talk like 1.00

00:01:53.280 i'm not here i'm not gonna do this no more respect yourself back again there's a term there's a term

00:02:01.840 for this it's called cls consequential loan of standards we have i call it i call it pnc pulse nut clarity

00:02:11.920 uh

00:02:21.920 but bro you've gone to the edge of the bed and you just put your hand in your head

00:02:24.720 yes

00:02:34.720 why am i here

00:02:36.720 help help somebody here i need help i need jesus

00:02:46.720 can i say something on the ghost team after wait hold on hold on wait what'd you say

00:02:52.720 stop settling stop settling wait how are you 27 27 that's why

00:03:00.720 if you think i'm about to settle for you but do you see how fine i am absolutely not as soon as

00:03:04.480 i hit 30 i was like who wanted i'm tired i don't have time to be doing this oh my god absolutely my

00:03:14.480 standards i was like i'm trying to come i don't have time for this time to know your name what is

00:03:18.480 your name stop telling me your name let's go dude okay so it's bad to like your mid 20s absolutely

00:03:24.000 yeah i'm yeah i'm black you're just admitting hello no because i'm black and well yeah but i'm american

00:03:28.480 my life rate is my ability to die is a lot sooner so i was like well i got to get this in i don't have

00:03:36.880 time to be serious to be very serious it is a very serious thing where as a as a guy i always say i

00:03:52.800 wish there was an invention that would allow men and women to switch bodies for like 24 hours and you 0.82

00:03:58.400 could understand like the difference but there's self-control my penis doesn't but you say that's 0.78

00:04:04.800 what i mean so you say self-control because you don't the biology because we don't know each other's

00:04:11.120 biology and you're right there is self-control but it's to a limit of can i tell you a secret

00:04:16.320 you can't compare yourself to a man and a man can't compare yourself to a man is a human being

00:04:22.880 one at a time one at a time you know guys all right she's been trying to go ahead yeah i've been

00:04:29.280 patient you've been good this stream you've been good go ahead go ahead i i learned the rules now

00:04:34.320 so basically let me tell you something yeah with that number one girls also do that but on a more 1.00

00:04:40.640 superficial level they just use the man that is just somebody that is definitely not my level but i'm

00:04:44.800 bored and i need lunch so we'll do that so that goes on both ways and then let me tell you something

00:04:49.280 about that as a man if you can practice sexual discipline i feel like that's one of the most

00:04:54.160 attractive things you can ever ever do a woman will look at you differently and that happened to me i 1.00

00:04:59.360 actually i moved to a guy for the first time ever because he has sexual discipline and i feel you're

00:05:05.600 special because that means that you are not one of them weak ones that you know the mind works your body

00:05:12.720 you you you you why is it why is it weak to you it's weak because if you are with a woman and you 0.85

00:05:19.120 can't keep it in your pants because you see somebody with a big batty or big you said that guy was this 0.99

00:05:24.080 um had sexual discipline um yeah which means that when he's in a relationship and even if a girl comes 1.00

00:05:29.040 to tempt he says no devil i won't kiss you tonight what about your sexual discipline he's a liar you just 0.98

00:05:36.080 said that you need a man for that that's what i said that's what i said that women are different 1.00

00:05:40.400 if you have met me already you know i'm a bit troublesome i know you're trouble i definitely

00:05:44.800 know you're trouble to go to that stage let them fail a lot of men will say what sounds good i was

00:05:51.360 he's about it yeah but her point is valid in the sense that like what you're so a man normally

00:05:57.040 hits his prime right like in his 30s right 32 35 so if if you're out here saying that your standards

00:06:02.640 actually got lower when you're supposed to be in your because you don't hit your prime at 32 35

00:06:07.520 you hit your prime in your 20s and sexual marketplace

00:06:17.040 so what she's saying is very different and what you're saying i i agree with the control aspect i'm

00:06:22.240 gonna be honest with you i don't know how old you are but i'm gonna be very honest with you

00:06:27.520 it's lying is very easy and if you say something like oh he's controlling himself i have to be very

00:06:34.400 i'm being i don't know you and i'm not trying i'm being honest with you i'm not trying to sleep with

00:06:38.080 you so i'm being honest with you um i know that sounds up but i'm being i'm being 100 honest with

00:06:44.160 you there's a lot of way you guys do not hunt there's a lot of ways to hunt and there's a lot of

00:06:51.840 ways to get away with what you want to get away with if you want to get away with it and that's

00:06:56.640 all we spend our time doing now he's a very intelligent brother this is very smart so he's

00:07:02.320 not on the same playing field as a lot of guys like he might have sexual discipline because he

00:07:06.880 wants to write and do other amazing things but the average brother that you run into guy or whoever

00:07:12.640 you want rappers rappers rappers if they're telling you i'm going to have discipline and hold in 0.99

00:07:20.800 myself and not have sex with 40 puerto ricans trying to have sex with me 1.00

00:07:24.960 all right you can listen that's why you're talking like that baby 0.99

00:07:29.840 so i have i have a question i have a question for the guys what's the longest you've had a

00:07:34.800 situationship with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with like how long she's trying to get

00:07:41.680 man in trouble ten years on some of them still haven't left five months solid five months

00:07:47.360 five months five months seven months what are they they all look disgusted

00:07:53.040 like you're talking about i feel like they wouldn't graduate to a situation ship okay they wouldn't

00:08:19.440 even get to that stage and they did for some of them be capping she says she's a motive i'll be real

00:08:26.240 i'll be real i'll be real i'm looking at ut i looked in your eye and he flicked a little bit

00:08:31.360 different a couple months a couple months uh um what's it uh not that long man because if the

00:08:39.920 girl's dead yeah no no honestly honestly honestly honestly no i'm keeping it real

00:08:44.320 facts facts facts facts if the girl's dead yeah like my motivation is low fam like do you know 0.95

00:08:49.440 what i mean like if she says anything stupid oh yeah what are we bruv like bruv no no no my guy 0.88

00:08:55.680 my guy my guy my guy my guy my guy my guy my guy it's on the tap because whenever you're ready 0.99

00:09:01.120 it's there for yourself exactly that's the problem that's why man lasted so long he's just on the

00:09:06.240 tap yeah yeah no way no way i'm a man i'm a man i'll be real i'm not judging you but yeah like

00:09:17.840 literally like one two smash like boom like that's it bruv like i'll tell you one little quick story

00:09:22.800 there was one girl in uni like boom like my bridging had a little linkage bought the friend the friend

00:09:28.400 was a bit chubby you know not really anyway smashed it on the floor in the kitchen

00:09:35.120 no bedroom no because it was uni innit like it was just his room innit like do you know what i'm saying

00:09:45.680 were you wearing shoes when you did this what was i wearing when i was smashing on the floor

00:09:49.280 was the floor clean these guys have to surprise that they don't got bad stories

00:09:53.280 that's what i said anyway trust me that's not even the worst story but anyway so smashing on

00:10:03.440 the floor yes my shoes was on bruv yes so boom in the kitchen boom um what's it smashed in the toilet

00:10:09.840 as well and then like boom like she was like messaging me i was just like bruv you're dead bruv like

00:10:15.760 what am i gonna do like bro like like you're gonna bring my ratings down like my status is gonna reduce

00:10:21.760 significantly so but like i i think if it goes dead yeah at most like a beat for that night like one

00:10:27.360 night special and then really and truly what are we gonna do after that nothing in it like maybe maybe

00:10:33.440 honestly probably three three smashes and then after that like bro like you're gonna catch feelings or 0.69

00:10:39.040 something stupid but you would go back if she could for you though probably no no no my guy would 1.00

00:10:43.520 you give a nice massage the glock glock 3000 why don't you suck your toes if she suck my toes 1.00

00:10:48.880 i don't do nothing my guy my guy the glock glock glock 3000 0.99

00:10:57.760 listen listen no disrespect i'm being wrong no i hear you i hear you i hear you but the thing is while i'm

00:11:02.400 smashing the dead thing i'm still patterning other things that i actually like that makes sense that makes

00:11:06.880 sense i've got projects bro yeah do you know what i'm saying so you can say investments honestly

00:11:26.080 did she ever like graduate into a bedroom or that no no no no okay i just wanted that so well when i

00:11:33.760 did that yeah uh 22 how do you know oh classified okay let's talk let's talk to the the women okay so

00:11:45.440 questions um i have two questions so i'm gonna ask both at the same time okay the first have you ever

00:11:52.160 gone on a date with a guy that you did not find attractive yeah because you wanted a free meal yeah

00:11:56.880 and the second one is have you ever had a friend that was the whale in this situation that they're

00:12:03.600 all describing and did you tell her the truth about what was going on okay uh first question um i may

00:12:10.160 have been out with a guy that i didn't find attractive initially but it wasn't for the meal

00:12:14.560 um basically i think that like looks aren't everything in a relationship if if someone has

00:12:20.960 personality integrity like has a brain then that could take you places you don't necessarily have to

00:12:27.200 look like a hundred million dollars for me to kind of like there's other there's other factors other

00:12:32.560 ingredients that would make a man my type um in terms of the second question um i'd say no because

00:12:40.800 all my girls are paying like nah there's never been a situation that's my best friend all your girls 1.00

00:12:48.400 are paying okay beautiful all my friends are oh is that okay i don't know yeah oh my god

00:12:54.640 oh i'm with the i'm with the slang now okay there's always the ugly one in the group

00:13:04.400 yeah like yeah i mean your friend can be pretty but she could still punch out of her league yeah 1.00

00:13:10.400 like she could be a solid seven punching a ten but my girls are smarter than that they would never put 1.00

00:13:14.880 themselves in a situation where like they're just kind of like okay a hole i'm sorry like no i disagree

00:13:21.760 i disagree i've i've gone out with a guy yeah just for a meal i mean the guy i knew what his

00:13:27.280 intentions were but for me it was never going past friendship because i wasn't attracted to him

00:13:35.920 and you just didn't take all my fancy i mean you were short you was like nearly just a bit taller than me

00:13:41.120 you're on the shark kings now no no no no no if i'm wearing heels and i'm and i'm like a skyscraper

00:13:50.720 over you like how tall are you how tall are you i'm five foot two you're five foot two maximum you're

00:13:56.800 going to be five foot five yeah was the guy taller than you in heels no no how tall was round about

00:14:02.560 i don't know how tall he works but he was short and yeah i went out for a meal i was like do you know

00:14:07.920 what he was a persistent guy as well he kept on like responding to my stories and stuff like that

00:14:13.040 so i was like you know what that's it it's really easy to swipe up that's persistent you thought yeah

00:14:23.040 let me use man for a free meal because i just want to eat yeah after work that's deep fair enough

00:14:27.600 it gets like that it gets like that it wasn't a waste of time because for me like i said i never

00:14:42.480 saw it past anything being a friendship you're a cool guy but me and you will never ever be like

00:14:47.280 did you express that to him like we are not going anywhere past a friendship yeah we can go out and

00:14:52.400 eat no i didn't but so what so so basically you let him believe that okay boom there's an opportunity

00:14:59.360 there's a chance but in your head you know there is no chance bruv like you're not going anywhere

00:15:04.080 with me yeah yeah i didn't so basically you used him yeah i did oh okay i like the honesty i'm not i'm

00:15:12.480 not gonna like yes hello can we omit that like this dating thing is transactional because the man will

00:15:17.600 take you on loads of dates these fancy restaurants to smash and this is why i say like as a man you

00:15:23.760 have to set your standards like some guys in the beginning they'll take them to the shard yeah you

00:15:28.640 can't you can't blame a woman after that to be expecting fancy wine and dining and stuff like that 1.00

00:15:33.840 you've got a you've got a you know feel it out first build it up a bit a bit a bit and then see if

00:15:38.800 she's actually you know worth this you know what it is yeah sorry sorry to cut you off my guy a lot

00:15:42.960 of men are simpson they they see bum breast and face and they lose themselves in them a lot of men

00:15:48.960 forget that what a woman's personality is like will make me take her to the shard i personally i 0.99

00:15:53.840 don't take girls on dates unless i know they're serious on my girlfriend level but these simps 0.96

00:15:57.680 they see your pretty face your bum your breast whatever it is i don't know what it is and i'm 0.80

00:16:01.600 not saying that you ain't going but i'm trying to say men in general and they'll take you to these 0.98

00:16:04.640 places to try to have a transactional experience and try smash you yeah and now for you you're

00:16:08.960 looking at the experience in itself in general right yeah so even though you don't rate him

00:16:12.720 you don't see me need potential you're saying it's just a three mil right yeah so i think it's a fair

00:16:16.880 game i don't know lads what are you saying can i ask you a question can i ask you a question though

00:16:23.280 can i ask you a question did you see that guy ever again after that um no wait wait wait wait wait no

00:16:30.720 no no no let me lie i did i don't want to bait out how i saw him how i saw him but he basically

00:16:37.200 came and gave me like a birthday present after that but i never saw him he bought you food you

00:16:44.320 enjoyed it you went home no kiss no hug no nothing or maybe the church hug did he get a did he get a

00:16:50.160 side hug at least i don't even remember i don't even know that's how that's how memorable it was

00:16:56.560 i don't even know guys guys guys guys guys guys i probably did you probably okay okay okay

00:17:04.160 but yeah anyway so what was the question again um the first one was have you ever taken a date from

00:17:10.560 a guy you don't find attractive and the second one was has your friend ever been in a situation

00:17:16.720 that they were describing and what did you tell her oh yeah i also wanted to mention as well

00:17:21.120 based upon what you said because you said you don't go out with guys you go out with guys based

00:17:26.880 on their personality but the first thing you see of a guy with anybody is their looks yeah so the looks

00:17:31.920 is what's going to attract you your personality comes along with it after and that develops and

00:17:35.680 stuff yeah so you wouldn't talk to a guy that does it is not aesthetically pleasing to you and you

00:17:40.240 wouldn't know that he's a good guy if if he wasn't a state aesthetically pleasing to you god bless you

00:17:46.080 just because he's aesthetically pleasing doesn't make him a good guy but that's a start though no

00:17:54.560 why why would you accept a date with a guy you don't find attractive because to me it's like if

00:18:00.720 you don't find him attractive in the beginning that's what you're supposed to like maybe i found

00:18:04.320 him attractive based on our conversation that we had maybe i found him attractive based on his warmth you

00:18:09.760 wouldn't give him the time and then no i'm just talking about less because more time when you see

00:18:24.880 pretty girls with ugly guys they've got money if they've got something something of value to them 1.00

00:18:29.040 right so obviously right right now let's talk about money because more time that's what girls go for 1.00

00:18:33.200 right and then when you start going out with him over time you start thinking oh do you know what he's

00:18:38.800 actually all right like he's got some substance to him and as for the whale question there's always 0.71

00:18:56.240 an ugly person an ugly girl in the group no matter how pretty the group is there's always an ugly girl 1.00

00:19:01.200 have i ever told my whale friends maybe not and maybe i should but at the same time 0.98

00:19:07.600 those friends deal within their league they know they're not the best so they go for like ugly

00:19:13.200 guys sorry so women always try to date up they never date down never tell me some tell me what i'm capping 0.83

00:19:18.720 i was gonna say what young women need to do if i was a man and i took a woman on a date

00:19:34.160 and fed her i spent my hard-earned money and not even get the potential of a relationship at the end

00:19:42.720 of it i'm gonna be totally pissed off yep because that's like false advertising i think that when you 0.66

00:19:48.720 go on dates from the time you accept or you say excuse me but i'm only dating with the attention

00:19:55.760 of having a relationship that's why i'm dating like to vet people but if you know that instantly you're

00:20:03.120 not attracted to him do him a favor just say no say no sorry i don't see you like that

00:20:10.240 i just see you as a friend because otherwise you're just building him up to fail him

00:20:14.480 and most of the time it's all the ugly men they're the most loyal ones out there

00:20:20.000 of course and then when people when the women treat them like this 1.00

00:20:23.840 they just get in themselves and those are the ones that will go at home 0.99

00:20:27.520 and watch corn and jerk off and then get fed up with women because of how women treat them 1.00

00:20:37.040 and i've listened to all these men earlier that's why i was so quiet listening to you um about your 0.99

00:20:42.960 box you know the box i'm learning all these new things there was another one but i can't i can't

00:20:50.880 remember but the women i know there's loads of women listening to this 1.00

00:20:57.840 the way men were talking about treating the women to me it was like

00:21:02.880 cheap piece of dirt you know no value no whatever

00:21:07.920 if you know that this is what the men think of you and the men know you know that the men want 1.00

00:21:13.840 a women a woman with low body count shut your legs simple don't have no sex because all the women 1.00

00:21:22.880 are going out there the modern women are going out there looking for all these 1.00

00:21:27.520 handsome men with money and then they're going to sleep around all of them that's how they you 1.00

00:21:33.920 that's how they vet they don't vet by conversation anymore they vet with their vagina shame and you're 1.00

00:21:39.840 not supposed to vet men with your vaginas you're supposed to talk to them and that's what you're 1.00

00:21:45.360 supposed to do and that's what women are doing now and then they're complaining that the men don't want 1.00

00:21:49.200 them and the men are saying oh i don't want a woman with high body count it's just simple if the men 1.00

00:21:57.520 don't want women with a high body count and the women want certain type of men if women decided you 1.00

00:22:04.240 know what i'm gonna shut my legs and only open it with the intention of a relationship then the men 0.99

00:22:11.120 will get what they want and so are the women but the ugly men that use a lot of turning down 0.89

00:22:16.880 i guarantee that they'll be more loyal and they'll be the ones that will stick with you forever

00:22:22.400 than these ones that have got the money that are all flash and the women are actually going for 1.00

00:22:27.600 because nobody looks at the ugly people i mean i'm saying about ugly women yeah nobody 1.00

00:22:33.520 i ain't gonna really marry nobody but i wouldn't go and the thing is when you're dating you're supposed

00:22:40.320 to be dating with the attention of looking for a husband not dating attention of looking you know

00:22:43.840 i need sex exactly if you want sex nowadays i see and what makes it worse the women are going out 1.00

00:22:48.240 they're having loads of sex and then you go to their house and they've got loads of rabbits in there 0.99

00:22:52.160 and roses and all that kind of stuff do you know what i mean oh yeah about the rose and the lips and 0.93

00:22:58.320 whatever but what you got to do now is keep them oh do you want me to get you one no what no what

00:23:03.760 it is yeah so what you need as far as i'm concerned keep your toys and forget about the boys

00:23:21.840 yeah i like i like a high body count i'm not trying to teach you nothing 0.94

00:23:25.120 um for a wife i don't give a goddamn like i'm not going in this to be like oh you don't know how 0.91

00:23:30.640 to like are you serious get your body count up i agree with you as well do you do you want like 0.99

00:23:35.120 do you want like learn learn yourself the problem that i've all that i've run into a couple times

00:23:40.560 maybe a different different topic but the problem i've run into a couple times is

00:23:45.760 you don't even know how to please yourself like you don't know what you like so i'm doing my thing and

00:23:50.720 it's like i don't know like i'm trying to learn what you like and if you tell me like oh you know

00:23:56.640 you know tarrell used to do this cool i'll do what to really do and improve on it oh wow but i'm not 0.98

00:24:01.440 one of these dudes who's like oh like let me show you what it is because it's like vagina is a slow 1.00

00:24:07.200 snowflake so so you're cool with like girl raising your kids that you slept with 50 dudes i don't care 1.00

00:24:12.640 about that 50. let me tell you let me tell you why i don't care about it because i've never ever

00:24:21.040 including like anybody that i know i don't know i've never had someone be honest about their body

00:24:26.480 count like i don't like a woman might thank you a woman might tell me oh i've only had 10 dudes you're

00:24:32.000 full of like you're full of because the only reason why is because i know how easy i got it

00:24:38.880 and my game ain't that damn strong that's true i know how easy i got it and it's not to say it don't

00:24:46.480 make you lose it don't make you know how it don't make you none of that it just means you know what you

00:24:50.480 like and what you want 50 is a lot within reason that's a lot but like if you like oh you i'm 37

00:24:59.600 you 37 you say i've 20 guys that's not bad that's like because because i've done i've 0.98

00:25:05.280 i'm surprised my penis is still attached to my body like my guy my guy just on your point yeah so 0.98

00:25:12.480 you want to experience right but aren't you the man to teach her and experience no i don't know 1.00

00:25:17.600 no i'm lazy i'm lazy i just eat pussy and move on yeah so how did you for that guy you said that you 1.00

00:25:29.040 weren't attached at the start how did you get to that point to speak to him to then go on a date 0.99

00:25:33.760 his conversation literally i found him very intriguing he was a like he was fresh like

00:25:38.720 first time he messaged you not from the first time he messaged like it was a consecutive period of time

00:25:43.840 where we were speaking and i found him as an interesting person and that's how it kind of

00:25:48.560 i went on a date with him okay um and also like attraction comes with time like you get to know

00:25:53.680 a person more and if they've got a good personality then they become more and more did he meet you on

00:25:57.840 the street or was it a day no it was via a friend that don't count because that's different from a guy

00:26:12.320 on the street who is ugly who is a guy on instagram no no no i was gonna say i was gonna say as well

00:26:17.920 like if it if it's a guy on the street a complete stranger there's no there's no cv resume nothing 0.75

00:26:23.840 like and he's five foot three and looks like shrek and then he's like oh my god you're so you're so

00:26:31.120 gorgeous you're gonna be like like like who is this guy like you you're not going to find out if

00:26:36.480 he's got a great character i would never you're not gonna care bro that's the one that's the truth

00:26:42.720 i'm just not the type of person that would be approached on the street and just be okay with

00:26:46.640 going on a date with you it doesn't work for me like that okay but you get what you get the point

00:26:50.720 i'm making that like that guy that you're talking about who was unattractive that you gave a chance to

00:26:55.600 there was there was a middle man do you get what i'm saying there was someone that verified and that

00:27:01.920 gave him the license that gave the license for you to even get to know him but if it was a complete

00:27:06.320 stranger you like like you met me today and you thought oh this guy's ugly in the corner like and

00:27:11.760 i was like oh what's your instagram you'd be like i wouldn't uh sorry like intrigue me intrigue me like

00:27:17.840 would you not sorry excite my mental you don't go like that excite your mind sorry quick one i'm

00:27:23.600 gonna give her a chance she was yes okay you've been so good this show i know you've been so good

00:27:28.320 it's good with a lot of people sunshine to stay in my zone but i'll tell you something i i i do things

00:27:34.080 a bit differently i don't go on dates i go on meetings that means that

00:27:39.120 before sexual there's a person which means that if you keep looking at somebody be like oh my

00:27:49.120 attracted to my man this you miss out on the actual value because that man the same way it could be

00:27:53.120 your husband it could be your best friend it could be a business partner it could be somebody so once

00:27:57.040 you decline or accept based on looks you're screwing yourself number one number two sometimes as well

00:28:03.600 the looks don't really matter the person is really lovely you can do it even out of like being a good

00:28:08.080 person you're kind you want to take me out why am i saying no for no reason i'll go with you but

00:28:12.640 then you will know for sure you're not for me i'll let you know your friend zone brother zone family zone

00:28:17.360 whatever zone i need to put you in it's very easy you create boundaries so you can do whatever you

00:28:21.200 want boundaries create freedom and then lastly what was the last question is do you go on dates oh the

00:28:27.120 the the friend have you okay i'm a very honest person when my girls come to me and they start

00:28:32.880 telling me about the man i tell you i tell them first how did he approach you what did he say what

00:28:37.360 did you say how did it go okay he's just you please stop telling me about feelings and that's

00:28:42.960 the first thing and that's whether you're pretty or whether you're well honesty is needed sorry

00:28:49.200 sorry quick one for you like let's boil it down to realness here yeah you got eyes right so are you

00:28:54.960 going to sell because the guy is not good looking so you're you're settling basically you're basically

00:29:00.000 is it settling or is that you're going on meetings no but we look at a relationship

00:29:03.840 you have to be with someone who want to tear their clothes off and they've got personality to match

00:29:06.640 right am i being wrong someone correct me i'm wrong i think that's more for men you know my

00:29:09.440 opinion really no but yeah women women's women i must be a man then you must be a man whoever that 0.99

00:29:15.520 is is me it's me i must be a man yeah i rate you i rate you obviously women have that as well but

00:29:20.640 actually mostly like bro let's be real like if you're looking at a girl now yeah especially if you're a so-called

00:29:25.360 girl whatever yeah bro we could be we could be on the airport but you know yeah no no you look at

00:29:30.560 her you're like yo yo we need to go to the bathroom yeah but why wouldn't you want why wouldn't you 1.00

00:29:34.080 want that as a woman you know what is yeah from your man we're not my question like men for example

00:29:42.480 we're not anyone anyone in this room is not mind readers first thing we see is looks what makes us

00:29:46.560 know their personality beyond that right yeah don't be so sure baby oh so you're a mind reader then yeah

00:29:50.960 it's not you don't need to be a mind reader you have to be a body language reader and you need

00:29:54.160 to look people in the eyes and question everything that they say first you always know if you think

00:29:58.880 whilst people are speaking to you always be ahead of the game you have to play a game because this

00:30:02.880 is art of seduction i've been reading that book and it's taught me a lot so love is the game

00:30:10.160 love is the game then yeah listen i sit here and i can have a conversation with anyone and ask you about

00:30:15.680 three questions to make you be like oh you know she's kind of nice she's quite interesting no matter what 0.91

00:30:19.360 your first impression of me was one of them will be where are you from because it shows that i'm kind

00:30:23.760 of showing any sort of interest in you i can do whatever i want with you if i've got a look i'm a

00:30:28.960 woman i ask you the right question you think she's generally interested men like girls are also 1.00

00:30:32.640 interested because they make them seem easier so answer my question is love a game love because

00:30:38.080 where you are describing it's all listen love is one of those things that there's an attraction but then

00:30:42.720 you need to secure the deal securing the deal is the game what's the deal the deal is making sure that the

00:30:47.440 person is aware that you love them and you love me therefore we're going to create something

00:30:52.080 persuasion yo yo yo you you've got all this insight in this thing yeah are you are you currently winning

00:30:58.880 do you know why i'm winning because all the wrong ones are falling off like so you have all this

00:31:04.800 knowledge you know every strategy you know exactly what to do look in the eyes and all of that michael i

00:31:09.680 made you smile so much today i'm just keeping it real fam i'm just asking do you think you're

00:31:22.320 winning i am winning because realistically okay i'm not gonna say realistic in my opinion are you single

00:31:29.360 and let me tell you something yes or no i am winning let me tell you what does winning mean

00:31:34.160 does winning do i win because i have to be in a relationship the reason why i'm not in a

00:31:37.680 relationship is out of choice let me let me ask you you said the reason you're not in a relationship

00:31:44.000 is out of choice yeah so if you found the perfect guy right now would you date him yeah this is the

00:31:49.200 hell out of him i'm actually working on something okay okay so wouldn't you say that the guys you

00:31:54.640 want then don't want you no it's not that they don't want me it's just like it's not like i said to you

00:32:04.080 already for you to create a relationship it takes to tango you people at this you don't trust somebody

00:32:09.440 like that you have to test how you need to make sure so what you do that's when the game and the

00:32:13.920 little dance is there that's where the seduction play comes in so all i'm saying is i'm winning

00:32:18.640 because every single time i get to suss out who i want and who i don't want so i say i don't want you

00:32:22.720 but you are nice and you're still interested if i want to do like this tomorrow i can if i want to

00:32:27.120 open my legs and secure it quicker i can but i don't want to so i'll take my time can i just say

00:32:34.080 trust is not repetition wow trust is benefit of the doubt repetition is you come in you turn your

00:32:40.960 light on and the light works when you turn your light on it don't work a million things go through

00:32:45.280 your head is it the light bulb did i pay the bill am i having a power shortage is the power out

00:32:50.080 that's repetition that's not a way to trust somebody because the second they deviate from that

00:32:54.880 repetition that you are used to you no longer trust that person and it's hard and or impossible

00:33:01.120 to get that trust back trust is benefit of the doubt are you challenging something that i said

00:33:05.680 or you're just making a point both so what do you challenge that i said because you said you said

00:33:11.200 it's again it's do we trust each other do we go to this if i will put you through this multiple

00:33:16.480 things to see if i trust you that's fine to do but what i'm telling you is that's again goes back to 0.95

00:33:23.040 and again i'm telling you this because i'm not trying to fuck i'm telling you the truth that is 0.98

00:33:28.320 very easy to manipulate from a man's point of view i can make you think that what i'm doing in my 0.94

00:33:35.200 actions all the time or trust as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - November 01, 2023

Modern Women ROASTED Men for Lack of Sexual Control

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