JustPearlyThings - November 30, 2023


Modern Women's ENTITLEMENT Culture Get DESTROYED


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35 minutes

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6,808

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109

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Misogyny

61

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women when it comes to tattoos and piercings. We also talk about the difference between a man with tattoos and a woman with no tattoos. We talk about purity and what it means to be pure.

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00:00:00.640 And none of them date women with tattoos like they refuse. They won't do it
00:00:05.020 The oldest if I can ask how old is the oldest brother?
00:00:08.980 He the oldest brother is
00:00:11.980 33 he just got married and that's first kid
00:00:16.080 We should we should clarify that we should clarify that like just because a man will sleep with you 0.88
00:00:20.480 And we all know this doesn't mean that he'll commit to you
00:00:22.320 Like it doesn't mean that it doesn't mean that a man won't sleep like I had lots of girls that had tattoos
00:00:26.720 But but I knew that I wasn't gonna be like when you're talking about
00:00:32.300 We're not saying that we're actually just discussing about if someone that doesn't have tattoo and piercing
00:00:38.140 Why would it be better than someone that has them like? 1.00
00:00:41.960 It's the same thing as someone that is wearing a suit as someone that is wearing just jeans and just something casual
00:00:47.980 That's someone that wear a suit makes someone like it does in a way in a way it signals. Well, it's
00:00:53.480 And that's the same point so so to to women we we like men in suits in general by and large because it signals as well 0.66
00:01:03.980 We men like women without piercings and without tattoos because it signals purity and life choices
00:01:09.200 Why do you wear a white dress at the wedding because it's a symbol of?
00:01:14.740 First year they look good and all that but then when you get older and wrinkled
00:01:19.880 I'm sorry. It just looks like mess on the body and even what you were saying like birds of the same feather flock together
00:01:24.720 We have again
00:01:25.480 We have another um co I have another talent here and he's got a sleeve full of tattoos and he even says himself
00:01:31.800 He prefers women without them. That's true 1.00
00:01:33.620 But can I say just something? Yeah, when I was like younger, right?
00:01:37.560 I used to have like piercing because I love piercing so whatsoever year I was 14
00:01:42.120 I was the only one having piercings nails whatsoever year, but I can tell you for facts that I was the purest one because at
00:01:48.600 14 15 I was not going with that any guy I was on my own
00:01:52.040 I was and the girls that they had the family that they were 0.77
00:01:55.320 Eventually give them curfew for going home at 10 11 o'clock or they didn't have piercing or they didn't have tattoo
00:02:01.560 They were the one that they were dirty that more dirty than me
00:02:04.280 And sometimes that happens like sure, but this is the thing if you're advertising yourself one way
00:02:11.640 So if you have a sign on yourself and you're you're advertising that you're not pure, how would they know?
00:02:16.440 Yeah, I know it's like men if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck 1.00
00:02:20.520 But that's that's what I'm saying because nowadays the society gets only to see like the appearance
00:02:25.560 They don't really everything is superficial
00:02:28.200 Okay, do you want do you want to date a guy taller than you?
00:02:30.520 Yeah, of course. Okay, but so that's appearance of course that's appearance
00:02:34.440 That's judging a guy based on appearance
00:02:36.440 Because for nature the men 0.93
00:02:39.560 And for nature men like women that are pure because historically they had to ensure paternity 0.93
00:02:44.280 So they don't want a girl that's been around and if a girl has tattoos and a lot of piercings 1.00
00:02:48.440 That's what they associate it with. Yeah, but we can even talk about how many
00:02:53.320 People from new deal like ages and ages ago. They used to have tattoos on their bodies
00:02:58.040 Or they used to have symbols on their bodies and which cultures
00:03:01.480 Which was?
00:03:02.440 Uh, maori, indies, all these people that they used to have tattoos 0.99
00:03:07.160 Yeah, all of it
00:03:08.600 In england?
00:03:09.160 We're not talking about it
00:03:10.040 But we're in we're in england
00:03:11.800 I know we're in england
00:03:12.760 We're talking about society in general
00:03:13.640 We're talking about society in general
00:03:15.640 We're talking about society in general
00:03:17.640 It doesn't it doesn't really matter what the culture was back then because it doesn't because we're talking about the culture
00:03:24.600 Do we live back then?
00:03:25.640 No, no, but what I'm saying is
00:03:27.640 What I could say what I could say is that it's it's already it's embedded in our dna though
00:03:32.520 No matter where we are in the world
00:03:34.520 There is a specific thing that brings me in that draws me in that attracts me
00:03:39.080 That does particular things to my dna
00:03:41.640 And that's why I biologically want this man
00:03:44.360 I don't care that he has four children and four baby mothers 1.00
00:03:47.720 I don't care that he doesn't provide because at the end of the day nature to nature
00:03:52.760 There is something within him that's deeper than
00:03:56.200 What what society sees him as so you're russian roulette in your relationship
00:04:00.520 Yeah, no, I don't get in relationships with him because then I think at the end of the day me being in a relationship with myself
00:04:08.440 Is more important than being in a relationship man. I mean in a relationship with a man
00:04:14.520 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I need to break this down
00:04:17.400 I need to break this being in a relationship with yourself is more important than being in a relationship with a man
00:04:23.320 Who?
00:04:24.360 Mm-hmm
00:04:25.080 That's what I added on who what sorry finish it then so I'm saying
00:04:30.040 In order for me to be in a proper relationship
00:04:33.080 I need to know that that man is secure whether that means
00:04:37.960 That I'm choosing a man who's not probably in a particular position where I would want to have his children
00:04:45.240 I do believe that me loving this man and having him commit to me could potentially make him the man
00:04:52.280 He's meant to be if he lets me so be that woman for him
00:04:56.760 So you're gonna make the man so the man's gonna commit to you and you're gonna make him into what you want him to be
00:05:02.360 Not about what I want him to be but what what he could be he should be naturally
00:05:07.640 Okay, so you're gonna do that
00:05:09.640 Why would you pick a guy that you have to make him into what he should be why wouldn't you just pick a guy that's there?
00:05:16.040 That's because there are certain men who see this is and that's what I'm saying because I think
00:05:20.840 I've had a lot of offers of marriage
00:05:23.880 A lot
00:05:24.680 Lucky lady 0.99
00:05:25.960 No, like like in the last three months. I can tell you that
00:05:30.120 Stop proposing
00:05:31.640 I'm just I'm just saying like
00:05:34.280 And that's based on women take too much credit 1.00
00:05:37.000 Ain't gonna like I wish I had that lot of people proposing to me
00:05:40.360 I think a lot of times women will say 1.00
00:05:44.280 I mean you kind of did right there when you're saying I'm gonna make him into the man he wants to
00:05:48.280 It's just like
00:05:48.680 No, no, no
00:05:49.240 I didn't
00:05:49.720 Men kind of are how they are
00:05:50.680 You see you got my words wrong
00:05:51.480 Honestly
00:05:51.880 I feel like I feel like men that are going to be successful are going to be successful regardless of the women
00:05:57.080 Like I think I think Demetri right there whether you met your wife or didn't meet your wife
00:06:01.320 I'm sure she added
00:06:02.040 But is it wrong for a woman to blow out on home? 1.00
00:06:04.840 Is it
00:06:05.240 Is it wrong?
00:06:06.120 Is it wrong?
00:06:06.680 I mean yeah
00:06:07.560 Is it wrong?
00:06:08.680 I think I think women just take too much credit everything's us we did everything right 1.00
00:06:13.560 Well women come in a relationship to multiply that's what women do we multiply 1.00
00:06:18.360 I mean honestly
00:06:18.920 You give me a house I'll make you a home 0.75
00:06:22.280 Can I just can I just
00:06:23.080 You know
00:06:23.320 Can we stop
00:06:24.280 Stop stop
00:06:25.720 So we'll have these we'll have these modern women these modern modern women that are so that are so not traditional 1.00
00:06:31.800 It's just so obvious that it's unfortunate
00:06:33.800 I'm not talking about you personally, but I'm talking about in general
00:06:36.200 I get it
00:06:36.600 So if you keep ad-libbing you're gonna go, okay, thank you
00:06:40.040 So this is this is the thing with with the modern women. It's like very very clear not traditional and then 1.00
00:06:46.440 They'll say I make the house into a home. Well, but that's what women 1.00
00:06:50.280 But what percent of women really do that what percent of women today were really raised to be wise what percent 1.00
00:06:55.640 Of real and women really know how to have family traditions what percent of women really value the family what percent of women really aren't out every week 1.00
00:07:03.720 Let us know because that is
00:07:06.360 The foundation is a woman makes a house into a home and that's why they say when you look at a society to see how it's doing 1.00
00:07:13.800 You look at the women and the women today. They're overweight. They've slept with more people 1.00
00:07:18.120 And and we're we're less successful in relationships
00:07:21.880 We're the ones ruined the way society has gone. They've made it more
00:07:27.480 Accepted for women to be by themselves have the kids and not have the man involved 0.69
00:07:34.360 Why haven't they given men a lot of incentive to stay at home? 0.62
00:07:40.120 Because all right a woman's can be high on this and high statistically and that but really and truly 0.99
00:07:47.080 The man it's all down to him in a way he will make the proposal
00:07:52.120 He will choose his wife and all of that so why has not the system 0.99
00:07:58.200 Give more incentive for the men to stay at I can I could tell you why actually so one um the system 0.95
00:08:07.080 So so what do you know what do you know it's it's the women it's the women's choices 1.00
00:08:10.680 So because women leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent of their college education 1.00
00:08:15.080 So the women are the ones ruining the relationship who ruins the relationship the one that stays the one that leaves the quitter ruins it 0.99
00:08:21.000 Can I just say the women have more incentive to be by themselves correct? 1.00
00:08:26.120 And why is that because they financially ruin men in order financially the system wants to tax everybody?
00:08:32.840 Okay, no, I'll tell you I'll tell you why because I'm actually researching if you want
00:08:37.880 I'm actually I'll tell you I'll tell you why if you want to I'm actually researching this the issue is that
00:08:43.400 The the politicians have no incentive to change the laws because the biggest group of swing voters is women 1.00
00:08:49.480 And single mothers are the biggest voters 0.98
00:08:51.160 So why would they take away the benefits of single mothers even if men are committing suicide every single day because of these policies? 0.51
00:08:58.920 Let me tell you something now some could argue that women shouldn't vote. I won't say that 1.00
00:09:03.880 Women got to vote but can you see where I'm coming from like the incentives are crazy now 1.00
00:09:08.840 Let me tell you something. This is where I'm coming from. The incentives are crazy, but we don't have to take them
00:09:13.240 Women don't have to take those incentives. Which I haven't 1.00
00:09:15.640 I'm talking about you. No, but i'm one person that hasn't i'm the woman that hasn't you know
00:09:21.240 But let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. I had my best friend from school, right?
00:09:27.080 And I don't even want to break down their parents right now. I love you. I love you. But my best friend from school
00:09:34.440 Three kids no husband. No, actually she had a fiance. She committed suicide
00:09:40.360 Like why would my best friend from school do that now?
00:09:44.600 That's where I'm coming from and that's why I had to escape that because look where my best friend is today
00:09:51.560 You know you had to escape what I had to escape that environment that environment. Yeah, I'll be in a bit toxic a bit
00:09:59.080 generational curse
00:10:01.080 I don't know maybe because I don't know
00:10:04.440 I don't know why we don't know why but she you know she left her family 1.00
00:10:10.920 Everybody was so close and you know
00:10:14.920 Even though these women are saying that they're gonna leave they're gonna do this 1.00
00:10:19.000 They're still not happy in in making that choice
00:10:23.080 But then the men still don't have no incentive to come back or to stay or to make it work
00:10:29.480 With the women that then they bear children with you know 1.00
00:10:33.960 But that's that's so just that that narrative just isn't true
00:10:36.440 It's just wrong
00:10:37.000 Because because the men are not leaving the women are leaving women 0.99
00:10:41.080 But if a man hasn't left a woman with two kids
00:10:44.760 Right okay, but that's the exception. It's not the rule
00:10:48.680 What I'm saying okay out of ten marriages 0.94
00:10:51.960 If there's ten marriages two are the men leaving eight are the women leaving 0.92
00:10:57.160 Mm-hmm, so who's the problem all right the levers maybe easy answer levers
00:11:03.560 Levers which is the women, but it's the incentives that they have they probably be like. Oh, I've got too much 1.00
00:11:12.840 This is why I say modern women are selfish because it's me me me before the family 1.00
00:11:17.640 Oh, even if they have the incentives like a true traditional woman would never take them 1.00
00:11:21.880 But she doesn't care because she cares about the kids first 1.00
00:11:25.560 Maybe they're coming from a place where they seen that okay
00:11:28.920 The traditional woman has been unhappy for the most of their life been unhappy 1.00
00:11:34.040 That's statistically
00:11:38.520 But that's that's not true
00:11:40.040 That's not true
00:11:41.640 Women when families are happier than women without families 80% of women that are single and childless are not happy that they're there 0.99
00:11:48.040 By the way the single most unhappiest demographic the single most unhappiest demographic 0.99
00:11:54.280 There's lots of data on this is 40 year old single unmarried women the single most unhappiest demographic 1.00
00:11:59.240 Like I'm not saying everybody is like statistics, you know don't apply to individuals, but that's just like data
00:12:04.200 It's just and it's just right
00:12:05.640 I definitely can't imagine that
00:12:07.640 Why do we I feel like Hollywood
00:12:10.040 Hollywood has brainwashed us into thinking that traditional women were not happy 0.71
00:12:15.640 Because there were unhappy times
00:12:18.440 You know I I know a couple and I've told the story a couple times this couple
00:12:22.280 They were they were together and the woman um the man actually left the house for for a side check
00:12:29.160 So he left he left the house completely left her
00:12:31.560 And this woman was so catholic that she prayed she prayed to god for a solution
00:12:35.480 And she said god, please god like I send my husband home. I just want to work it out
00:12:40.360 Side chick died
00:12:41.960 the who side check she died
00:12:45.400 And and he came home and they and they stayed married for 50 years that sounds like murder pearl
00:12:49.880 No, no, no, no
00:12:51.880 That sounds like an excuse of murder
00:12:55.880 They they lived far I promise I promise no murder no murder
00:12:58.760 But but that's that's what I mean and and she wasn't spiteful. She didn't hold it over his head 0.57
00:13:03.240 She she looked at herself and said what how did I contribute to this and how can we solve it?
00:13:07.320 But women women like that don't exist anymore 1.00
00:13:09.960 That doesn't exist
00:13:10.920 It's true they don't they really don't yeah like women that really believe the families before me 0.99
00:13:15.960 But why why are the women but you've got to ask yourself these questions? 1.00
00:13:21.400 Why are the women turning back on their men? Why? 1.00
00:13:25.880 Because they're selfish
00:13:27.880 Because they're selfish
00:13:29.880 Apart from being selfish I need more than selfishness
00:13:33.080 Because because I mean some of the number like some of the top indicators of divorce are um
00:13:39.080 uh financial um cheating um
00:13:42.120 What are the other ones it's like financial cheating and
00:13:47.400 Irreconcilable differences yeah, that's like the top three
00:13:50.680 I just want to point out again 85 percent of millionaires are married
00:13:54.040 85 google it all right five percent of millionaires are married
00:13:56.840 No, that's good because that means that they have a strong woman behind them
00:14:00.600 Oh is that what it means?
00:14:01.560 Behind every successful woman, successful man is a strong woman 0.95
00:14:05.880 This is this is where the women we take way too much credit 1.00
00:14:09.240 I'll give you an example now melinda melinda gates and bill gates okay melinda gates and bill gates
00:14:15.480 Was bill gates suddenly lost and not so now don't get me wrong
00:14:20.200 I'm not saying that the women have no part to play what happened 0.96
00:14:23.400 The successful men are going to be successful regardless when when when melinda or let's take um the bezos jeff bezos and whatever
00:14:31.800 Whatever the like he got richer. She got poorer
00:14:36.280 Was she that important?
00:14:38.280 When it comes to his success was he not going to be successful when raising the kids having a home?
00:14:42.120 He was always going to be successful
00:14:43.560 That's that's the point like what behind every successful man is not always a successful woman 1.00
00:14:48.600 It's a supportive woman
00:14:49.720 If the statistics are 85% of millionaires
00:14:53.240 It has the balance out though
00:14:54.360 You know of a millionaires they're married right that means that they're truly happy
00:14:59.880 They're happy to make money they're happy to go home they're happy to be with their wives
00:15:04.680 And I'm happy man
00:15:05.640 And they're not and they're not marrying you
00:15:08.760 That should be a concern
00:15:10.120 No, it's not about me
00:15:13.720 You're saying here's what a man blah blah blah successful loved woman this and that it's like where
00:15:17.560 Listen I choose I chose not to be okay
00:15:22.520 I chose not to be we have choices like she says women are always breaking up the home 1.00
00:15:27.000 Maybe it was me I walked away
00:15:29.160 I did do you think
00:15:30.520 Do you think that you have no room for improvement?
00:15:32.760 There's no no room there's room. There's a lot of
00:15:36.360 But you got to do it with the right people
00:15:37.640 So why why is that your answer?
00:15:39.960 Well, so because it's like if someone says to me millionaires aren't trying to marry you
00:15:43.960 I would be like, okay, well
00:15:48.360 I don't know why you had to break it down
00:15:52.360 Okay, it's the question is how can I improve to get there if you're not where you want to be how can you improve to get there?
00:15:58.280 But you be there you have to admit there's a problem
00:16:01.320 By taking the steps and if you're being distracted by men
00:16:05.720 That you know, they're not going to be supportive on your journey. Okay, it's going to be a fickle journey
00:16:11.240 If you had a partner and you turn around
00:16:14.040 Can I just say if you had a partner and you turn around to him and say babe, I'm gonna
00:16:18.280 I'm gonna quit my job, and I'm gonna be a tick tocker 0.92
00:16:23.480 He ain't gonna even see your vision or your goal
00:16:26.520 Would you want your man to stick by you?
00:16:28.520 You know honestly, I mean, I was I didn't
00:16:31.080 I didn't have a boyfriend then, but honestly when I told my dad he supported me
00:16:35.560 That's your father, babe
00:16:36.920 No, but this is this is what
00:16:38.120 No, your partner should
00:16:39.000 Your partner should
00:16:39.960 But just because this is
00:16:41.640 And not many men
00:16:42.680 Listen, listen, my gosh, listen, listen
00:16:44.680 Just because the men that's the men you pick
00:16:46.600 That's the men you deal with
00:16:47.720 A founder
00:16:48.280 I
00:16:48.760 That's that's the men that you pick and all men are not like that
00:16:52.120 Well, most men that I that I've dated have been extremely supportive
00:16:55.880 And to be fair, I must admit the man who has been truly supportive
00:16:59.880 I'm just not attracted to him
00:17:01.720 Obviously
00:17:02.280 I can't
00:17:03.000 Obviously
00:17:03.480 Obviously
00:17:03.960 No, but that is my personal choice
00:17:07.720 Why is it so wrong for me to have choices?
00:17:10.120 It's not
00:17:10.520 It's not wrong 1.00
00:17:11.640 But it's like anytime anyone says anything to you
00:17:15.000 It's like you're arguing
00:17:16.200 I just
00:17:16.760 No, but I have
00:17:18.680 You know, I'm probably coming from a place where I'm talking from a lot of women who's probably coming from the 1.00
00:17:25.640 Another different background and it hasn't been so privileged
00:17:29.000 I mean
00:17:29.560 Do you know how many people I talk to?
00:17:31.800 Oh my god
00:17:32.360 I talked to
00:17:33.320 I've talked to hundreds of women 1.00
00:17:34.440 I can imagine
00:17:35.000 I've talked to hundreds
00:17:36.440 And I'm telling you
00:17:37.560 You sound
00:17:39.320 It sounds delusional
00:17:41.160 Like the way you talk just sounds so
00:17:42.840 Life is delusional
00:17:44.200 It's not
00:17:44.840 It is
00:17:45.480 You've got to be deluded in order to quit your job and be a TikToker 1.00
00:17:50.840 You've got to be deluded
00:17:51.960 You've got to be so far more delusion
00:17:54.040 And yet look at the results
00:17:55.240 But this is the thing
00:17:57.240 I have outcomes
00:17:58.440 Yes
00:17:59.000 Outcomes
00:17:59.720 And when I figured out I wasn't getting the outcome
00:18:03.160 Listen
00:18:04.440 And when you figure out you're not getting the outcome you want
00:18:07.800 You have to change something
00:18:10.520 And there were times where I was not getting the outcome I wanted
00:18:13.240 And I had to change something
00:18:15.240 But when you it's like
00:18:17.400 There's no
00:18:17.960 You act like there's no room for improvement ever
00:18:20.840 What do you mean in what sense?
00:18:22.280 Based on the way you've conducted yourself in this conversation
00:18:25.640 And you can take it or leave it
00:18:26.840 It's your life
00:18:27.320 What do you mean there's no room for improvement?
00:18:29.640 I don't get that part
00:18:30.920 I have a really funny
00:18:33.080 This is a Jerry Seinfeld joke
00:18:35.000 And it's like
00:18:35.960 It's been called
00:18:36.520 I think it's Jerry Seinfeld
00:18:37.720 And I want to give the right credit
00:18:38.600 He said
00:18:39.400 The funniest thing ever is that
00:18:40.600 When you see two homeless people talking to each other
00:18:43.240 One is giving the other advice
00:18:45.000 Oh bless
00:18:46.520 Let's just think about that again
00:18:47.880 I want to say it again
00:18:48.680 When you see two homeless people talking to each other
00:18:53.000 One is giving the other advice
00:18:54.280 So the point that right
00:18:57.560 So that's really kind of funny
00:18:58.680 It's like what's he telling
00:18:59.480 Yeah do this
00:19:00.120 Oh okay
00:19:00.680 Like it's like it's so absurdly funny
00:19:02.600 Yeah
00:19:02.920 Yeah
00:19:03.320 One of the things I teach the young fellas and gals in our company
00:19:06.280 I say this really with no irony
00:19:07.800 I say
00:19:08.520 Never take advice from somebody with whom you wouldn't trade lives with
00:19:13.560 So guys if you're watching this right now
00:19:15.160 Pearl you have a like awesome audience
00:19:16.920 They're they're trying to decipher what's true what's not true
00:19:19.000 Because they're getting different messages right
00:19:20.840 Look at the person that you would love their life
00:19:23.400 And follow their advice
00:19:25.160 And then look at the person that you would not want their life
00:19:27.640 And do the opposite
00:19:28.600 And that's that's probably the the core of what people want to get at
00:19:33.400 Okay guys I'm going to read super chats
00:19:35.960 And then I think we're going to close out the show
00:19:40.120 Guys make sure you like the video
00:19:41.560 And all super chats are going towards um
00:19:44.680 Blessing a blessing what tell them what camera you want blessing
00:19:48.520 I got to get this to the super chat button
00:19:52.120 Sonya one
00:19:54.840 Let's get that camera
00:19:55.880 How much is it?
00:19:58.840 Five something
00:20:00.120 Five
00:20:00.520 How are you killing me?
00:20:01.320 Pearl can I just compliment what you're doing is brilliant
00:20:03.320 This is leadership
00:20:03.960 Like I don't know what your dad told you or if you just picked it up
00:20:06.760 Like this is amazing
00:20:07.640 Like you have a guy that's like employed by you or working with you
00:20:10.200 And you give them a vision and a goal something that can be achieved
00:20:13.880 You make it public so you crystallize it
00:20:15.800 So you're committed to that goal like dude she cares about you
00:20:18.680 And she actually wants you to win
00:20:20.280 Yeah
00:20:20.680 That's freaking great leadership man
00:20:22.200 I'm really like that
00:20:23.160 Like that
00:20:24.120 That's really impressive
00:20:24.760 See I just I've always felt like
00:20:28.120 My skill has always been getting the most talented people in a room
00:20:31.880 And blessing genuinely is the best producer and there's no one better than blessing
00:20:35.320 Well you posted on um
00:20:36.440 You posted on linkedin today that you were looking for an editor or something
00:20:39.080 And I have a guy that's got
00:20:40.600 I think uh 1.6 million followers there on linkedin
00:20:43.320 And I tagged him in and he's been boosting that post
00:20:45.480 Check it out
00:20:45.880 Because I was like when I met your team last time
00:20:47.800 I went back to my video guy
00:20:49.400 I'm like he couldn't come on this trip
00:20:50.600 And you need to come with me
00:20:51.800 You need to come with me because we need to learn from these guys because they're pros like really good people
00:20:55.720 Yeah
00:20:56.120 No I mean
00:20:57.720 I've just always felt like you should give
00:21:00.760 Because I'm just not very money motivated
00:21:02.600 I'm just very like project motivated
00:21:04.920 And so I just felt like if I have someone that's really talented
00:21:07.720 Like why would I not give them all the resources that they can to
00:21:10.840 And you know now I think we have the best set on youtube um in my opinion shout out blessing
00:21:16.120 Yeah shout out to you
00:21:17.080 Shout out to mister
00:21:18.520 Um but yeah guys but he does run my credit card like it's no tomorrow
00:21:24.440 Oh my god he just goes crazy I had to ban him for like a month or two
00:21:29.160 Sorry you know we were running out of money you know what I mean
00:21:32.280 So send super chats um okay
00:21:34.360 Deon C dimitri is king uh matt butcher getting back on the subject the millionaires don't marry 304 is the end bring dimitri back
00:21:41.240 Pearl uh where can I find the source of your stats?
00:21:44.600 Uh we're trying to put together a link tree
00:21:47.400 Sorry i've just been busy um zero sloss um a woman's choices are just for sex and not for a relationship crazy world crazy times 0.97
00:21:54.920 Questions of the panel chip thinking about making paternity tests mandatory during
00:21:59.880 Or at child's birth um zero sloss dimitri don't worry um i want to and too many others feel the same way about tattoos
00:22:06.360 It's assigned to use a 304 or has trauma most men are conservative by nature 93 tail pile birds of the same feather flock together
00:22:14.120 Uh chris your prenup advice is destructive towards most men thank you sam g abby priority or abby prioritizes winning an argument over
00:22:22.600 Um okay then let me refresh it just to make sure there's no other super chats
00:22:28.120 Um, okay. Jalen hawkings um pearl is doing the hard work out there shout out to blessing um interracial relationships 1.00
00:22:36.920 To know success is to be familiar with failure ready to learn never give up on your goal and always be willing to listen to those
00:22:43.480 Who are more knowledgeable? Um, okay?
00:22:46.920 So, um, thank you guys for coming
00:22:50.120 Um, did we lose half the panel?
00:22:52.120 Oh, they go home. Yeah, it's getting late. Okay, um, all right guys, um final thoughts and any social media you want to plug go ahead
00:23:01.080 So starting you can start and then you go yeah, go ahead um
00:23:06.280 This was fun. This was fun. Usually i'm on the um on the other side of the screen
00:23:11.640 um tuning in and obviously just observing
00:23:14.760 Everyone's opinions are and the stats and things and maybe maybe the feelings have to get left in the in the feeling box and
00:23:22.120 The logic has to come out sooner or later
00:23:24.760 But that's for my journey my evolving journey, but one thing I will leave
00:23:30.200 Not the journeys. Yeah
00:23:32.680 Come with me to cape town. Let's go
00:23:35.400 I'll show you the journey. No, I'm not going on that journey. No, I've heard too much about these journeys
00:23:41.160 Why are there so many boners on every journey?
00:23:43.160 I can't hear anyone. That's probably why
00:23:53.720 Um, but I the last I just wanted to say something earlier on is that I think men like dimitri
00:24:01.640 um, they they build societies
00:24:04.920 yeah, and um, there are other men who you know coach soccer teams and
00:24:10.680 And build communities within the society
00:24:16.760 Um, I think everyone in this world truthfully has a role to play and we'll just have to wait and see how it plays out
00:24:24.760 But yeah, you can follow me on instagram
00:24:27.160 uh golden gem underscore. Thanks
00:24:31.000 Okay, what's the question?
00:24:33.480 Final thoughts instagram final thought
00:24:36.600 Be less judgmental okay judge more don't listen
00:24:41.400 Yeah, I don't know. I don't know but um people have different roads to leave and they have to be
00:24:51.000 that image or whatever
00:24:54.280 for whatever role they play and um
00:24:58.200 You just got to respect everybody's decision and I believe in life. There's no wrong or right decision
00:25:05.240 It's a journey
00:25:06.840 In joy. I just I'm sorry. I need to ask one thing. So if I if I decide to do heroin tomorrow
00:25:12.600 That's your choice. No, there's that's not a wrong decision. It's an experience
00:25:17.560 I mean, it's wrong of course
00:25:19.720 Okay, okay
00:25:23.960 So there is a wrong and a right decision for you for me for her
00:25:28.600 Yes, from what you
00:25:31.320 I feel like I feel like I don't know
00:25:33.640 I probably haven't been I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know
00:25:37.560 Maybe I'm just on a mad spiritual journey
00:25:40.040 It's just different walks and I'm just open
00:25:42.120 It's just completely different
00:25:43.480 Yeah, the walk of heroin
00:25:45.320 Which is just a walk
00:25:46.760 Well, it could have started
00:25:48.200 I mean, why would women want to stay in a relationship when a man keeps on cheating on them? 1.00
00:25:54.280 I mean, maybe the percentage are high
00:25:56.120 Women love cheaters 1.00
00:25:57.160 I mean, if it's a high percentage of I know because I've just heard about too many ex-boyfriends that she
00:26:02.520 It's just like I hear about them all the goddamn time
00:26:04.600 Do you want people to stay in their misery? That's what I want women to pick and stop whining about their choices 1.00
00:26:13.240 So I'm really tired of women picking 1.00
00:26:16.280 No, no, they never they never they never whine about their choices to leave
00:26:22.040 It's really common for them to accuse men of abuse with no evidence
00:26:26.760 And it's also I'm just really tired of them picking men that are obviously going to cheat that nobody is surprised to
00:26:34.120 He's cheated and then they're going to cry and say they're not happy with the cheating
00:26:37.880 The man could cheat two years three years down the line though
00:26:41.000 And he could and he could but in my experience most of the time
00:26:46.520 There's at least 10 billion warning signs and I'm sick of everyone whining
00:26:51.880 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know now
00:26:54.600 Girls stop whining. Okay. Stay with your man 1.00
00:26:57.480 Be in your misery. Remember she said she's a good judge of character
00:26:59.880 No, I didn't say it. No, you literally said that
00:27:05.080 She changed her mind. It's okay
00:27:07.960 Oh, okay
00:27:10.040 Okay, go ahead. Okay, go ahead. All right, cool. So I too have had a really good time today
00:27:15.720 Definitely more listening for me today as opposed to getting involved. Dimitri, I feel like your
00:27:21.400 Experiences and the stories that you shared with us have been very insightful
00:27:24.680 Uh powers always ever the ever the temptress and the you know, um 0.93
00:27:31.080 Making people question what they've asked and things like this. Oh, sorry
00:27:34.680 What they've answered and stuff. So it's been very entertaining to watch for sure
00:27:39.160 Um, I would definitely say that there needs to be more listening and not so much responding just as a general
00:27:45.000 No, not in this not in here. I mean as a for in general
00:27:49.480 listen
00:27:50.520 Pay attention and what you're not changing you are choosing
00:27:55.080 And you can hit me up on the socials just underscore leash on instagram and
00:28:00.680 Yeah, maybe a little bit more involvement from me next time for sure
00:28:04.440 Thank you, pal. Yeah, thanks for coming. Thank you, bless you. Dimitri. You want to go?
00:28:08.440 Oh, you want to go last? Okay, do you want to if you want to do your final thoughts? You can come sit down
00:28:13.480 Yeah, yeah, go ahead. You can sit go ahead. Go ahead while she sits
00:28:16.440 Well, yeah, it's been really fun listening to different opinions and what people think
00:28:21.560 about the topic we discussed
00:28:23.800 And the thing I want to shout out is if you want to be a stud
00:28:27.800 lgfgfashionhouse.com we're hiring
00:28:33.880 Go ahead and then I'll let Dimitri go last
00:28:35.880 I want to tell you very much uh, thank you very much for giving us the opportunity to share our ideas
00:28:40.440 um, I like very much the way you speak and the way you
00:28:44.520 Share your ideas and yeah, just pretty much. Yeah, thank you for coming
00:28:49.000 Uh, star of the show dimitri. No, okay. So guys listen up, uh, real real quick
00:28:53.320 First of all pearl, thank you for I wasn't expecting to be in london today and I messaged your assistant to lula and she was like, come on
00:28:58.120 I'm like, well, thank you so much. Um
00:29:00.600 Look like there's some kind of a tenet here that like good decisions and bad decisions don't exist
00:29:05.240 Please don't listen to that. Do not ruin your life. There are bad decisions and usually um
00:29:10.120 You and the hard part of like being a young person
00:29:12.280 I'm sure your audience is pretty young is like navigating life and trying to figure out what's good and what's bad
00:29:16.760 Like that's really hard because you know, we don't always have good role models
00:29:19.240 We don't always have good examples. We just don't know, you know
00:29:22.200 um, but if you're a young
00:29:24.680 uh, you know fella or gal like like if you're if you're in that stage where you're choosing a career 0.95
00:29:30.120 If you're choosing the path of your life if you are looking for potentially for mentors and here's why because you're
00:29:35.080 Realize that your friends kind of suck not that they're bad people
00:29:37.640 But they're just not getting you to where you want to go
00:29:39.560 I think everybody has that realization at some point in their life if that's you right now
00:29:43.800 And you're like hey i'm looking for something to to positively move my life in a positive direction
00:29:48.040 Yes, we are hiring we teach young men and women the art and science of sales
00:29:51.720 Which includes a ton of rejection pearl you've gone through that and it builds some character man, you know
00:29:55.800 There's times you hate it of course
00:29:57.480 But but you can't grow without doing things that you absolutely despise because otherwise you're just sitting on a chair, you know
00:30:03.000 Um, so if you're looking to build that character, you know lgfg that's our company lgfg.com or lgfg fashionhouse.com
00:30:09.480 You can also find us under lgfg fashionhouse on instagram
00:30:12.120 You've seen our work on eddie hall on jordan peterson on a ton of celebrities on on the rock even
00:30:17.720 Um, so guys lgfg fashionhouse.com if you're interested. We uh, we're hiring
00:30:22.680 Yeah, and a me next
00:30:24.680 Let's go and the suit right
00:30:26.680 Uh, well, kareel how many suits do you have now?
00:30:28.280 Three and you've been so you've got three suits in your first year and how much is it?
00:30:32.600 What's what's an average suit that you're wearing cost? What's that suit you're wearing cost?
00:30:34.840 2k pounds yeah, that's a three piece by the way
00:30:38.280 Two and a half yeah, two and a half k and 20 21 year old kid wearing a two and a half thousand pound suit in his first year in the company
00:30:44.120 That's why he's plugging us. It's not because i'm paying him to plug even though. I totally will
00:30:48.200 It's because it's because he believes in it guys. That's it. Just offering some growth, man
00:30:51.720 Um, okay a marlina says endgame is biology and then um
00:30:57.720 Lady 11 11 shimmer a lady with the best if a bird had your brain it would fly backwards. Sorry. Um, okay, so
00:31:08.920 All right guys a couple announcements before we end the show
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00:31:46.760 They took away my fifth tick tock. I'm so tired of starting over on this app. I'm so tired
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00:32:03.480 um
00:32:04.440 I I had maggie the substitute teacher taught me um what to cook your husband in a day 1.00
00:32:09.560 So we she went through like every meal that we would prepare will be a good meal and the whole team tried it
00:32:14.840 So, um, we have a really
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00:32:20.920 Sign up to the google form that should be in the chat for our next meetup
00:32:24.440 We want to take people that were musicians from the show and do like a little like I don't know concert
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00:32:38.760 Penthouse tour next week, so thank you guys for watching and we will talk to you next time
00:32:43.480 What up guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel and welcome to the pre-game
00:32:56.040 I agree with you. I think they do do it for the men, but it's like sexual attention. It's not
00:33:00.440 Attention, so you can kind of do a cheat code. You can go get a bbl get a nice body
00:33:04.040 And you do get more attention from men than if you're flat, right?
00:33:06.600 But it's not your person. But it's not the attention you've got
00:33:10.040 No, no, but listen though, but it goes so deeper though because I know who you're talking about and she has a great body
00:33:17.400 Yeah
00:33:17.880 So you got to think about how far down deep that she is within watching the instagram models 0.56
00:33:23.560 Within watching the cosmopolitan magazine
00:33:25.800 She's slain it 0.98
00:33:27.240 That her great body doesn't look good to a man 0.98
00:33:30.360 But you think that men have higher standards for women not that the men have the higher standards they have to live up to just to clarify
00:33:36.760 I think men have higher standards for women for women. So like the women have higher beauty standards to me. Yes 0.52
00:33:42.520 And that's what's making women feel like they need to comply with these 0.95
00:33:47.400 Standards who's pick your men or women 0.97
00:33:50.200 Men and women are more complacent than men 1.00
00:33:53.880 Are more complacent?
00:33:55.000 Yeah, I think they're acceptable than men do you? I think men are very like if they've they've got a certain standard and they're more rigid
00:34:01.240 than women 0.99
00:34:02.040 You think men are pickier than women? 1.00
00:34:03.480 A hundred percent
00:34:04.040 Definitely
00:34:04.520 But they will not marry it
00:34:05.960 They will not settle down with somebody with a fake old lips the eyebrows and if they do it ain't gonna last
00:34:11.320 So I I done an OnlyFans but it wasn't like
00:34:14.760 The giant ass boobs it was lingerie yeah boobs wear whatever I done it and when I finished it I felt very degraded
00:34:21.080 I felt very like why did I actually do that now?
00:34:23.320 I know there's girls out there who do that they don't feel that way that is perfectly fine 0.99
00:34:26.600 You do you you feel the way you feel
00:34:28.600 But me personally like we like in the future how like when I have kids and all in the future
00:34:33.000 And if my kids found out about that they'll probably get bullied in school
00:34:35.800 They'll people be like oh you're a man doing this you're a man doing that and your man as well
00:34:39.160 He's not going to if you don't respect yourself and you're selling your body online
00:34:42.840 I can't speak for everyone
00:34:44.040 I can just speak for myself if you're selling your body online like that there's not there's not a high risk
00:34:48.200 As many of you know, I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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