JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Show How VALUELESS They are to Men

00:00:00.160 yes or no no no yeah yes 100 okay raise your hand if you think it's cheating for a man to

00:00:06.160 go clubbing what in a regular place or just yeah it just depends how not like you know like club it

00:00:10.480 like i don't i don't really know what the london clubs are but like is there is there a big club

00:00:16.160 in london yes whatever the big club in london is that was ish that's the name oh no this is

00:00:24.000 for mayfair oh mayfair okay he's going to mayfair is he cheating for what well every week yeah let's

00:00:30.880 let's say let's let's crank it up this is what i said if this if i was i need a yes or no from

00:00:36.560 everyone no cheating no no it's not cheating okay okay sorry now you can go no that's what the whole

00:00:44.400 board is basically well the way i'm looking at is because i'm with my girl now and i know she's a

00:00:49.840 she's good to me she's a good girl so i would let her go clubbing i'll let her have instagram

00:00:54.560 because i put my trust in her and i say to her all the time you can do all of this but if i see

00:01:00.400 anything dodgy don't come back crying when i say it's over but that's me putting my trust in her

00:01:06.080 because i know that she's a beautiful girl she's going to get loads of attention and you see that

00:01:10.000 i feel like when you're with a guy like you like you don't really want to do that i feel like that's

00:01:14.080 what am i going to the club for i think i think going clubbing is it's actually a good thing

00:01:37.280 when i say mental health it's nice to go out have fun let your hair down i'm a mother yeah

00:01:41.760 i've got a nine-year-old daughter and for me letting myself loose going out of my girls going 0.87

00:01:47.760 to a bar or a club once in a while i'm not talking i'm not saying every weekend yeah but that's different

00:01:54.000 bottom line i'm still a mother but um once in a while i got my girls have a good time have a drink 1.00

00:02:00.080 there's no problem and vice versa but you can do that you can you can i would do that with my

00:02:06.720 man that's not a problem okay but that's not what she's talking about we gotta stop over talking me

00:02:10.960 all right well why don't you go to applebee's all right do you guys have applebee's here like you can

00:02:15.680 just go go out to dinner with your friends yeah and like have a nice dinner thousand bars in london

00:02:20.080 there's always places to go that's not a problem i feel like sometimes it's an energy thing though like for

00:02:24.480 example this summer i was quite down and then carnival came and it was just it was something

00:02:32.880 about the vibe of carnival it took me away no it took me away no but for me carnival is not like no but

00:02:40.480 no no no hold on hold on hold on but that's that's circuit that's a that's a motive i saw what happened

00:02:46.560 that's a motive she's referring to clubbing are you i'm just saying like what i'm referring to what she 1.00

00:02:52.160 was saying she was saying it's a vibe like it's a it's like sometimes it's just an energy thing

00:02:57.200 like yeah you can feel down but she's the board is saying clubbing i know i know i know we know that

00:03:03.440 i'm just referring to what she's saying but she was saying that yeah everyone needs a once in a

00:03:07.440 while vibe but for me honestly i don't like what am i going to go to a club for no do you have children

00:03:14.720 no then yes do i want my mom going to the club that's worse that's worse i think my god 0.67

00:03:24.320 on our hills every week if my mom went clubbing i'd be like enjoy yourself she doesn't 0.57

00:03:31.920 i would be embarrassed if my mom went clubbing that would be embarrassing to me and this is the thing 1.00

00:03:36.160 like like it's crazy because the fact that you don't understand that when you're in a relationship

00:03:41.360 you need to do some things that you didn't do when you when you were sing like do things you

00:03:44.560 didn't do when you're single right so it's like you cannot be outside the same way you was because

00:03:50.400 when i see girls that outside and they say i got a man for him like what you doing outside i actually

00:03:54.000 always say to that where's your man and then you put yourself in a scenario where you can continuously

00:03:59.920 have you ever heard when they say i was drunk oh yeah i didn't mean to do that that's never

00:04:03.920 happened in a sober thing when someone was outside at applebee's for example it always happens when

00:04:08.320 you put yourself in places where there's alcohol where there's drugs where there's all these types

00:04:12.240 of things then you made a mistake you cannot make a mistake when you're coherent when you're not around

00:04:16.080 certain things so you think a woman's any much better for just staying at home constantly that's 1.00

00:04:21.120 not the point i don't think that's the point at all i think the point is why as a woman when you have

00:04:26.720 these responsibilities why would you go and put yourself in a situation where other men are going

00:04:32.080 to look at you and want to take you home for sexual gratification that's the point then it talks 0.98

00:04:37.040 about how you could go to nando's you literally could go to nando's and have fun with your girl

00:04:41.200 nando's is fire yeah we don't really got it in the us like that but i understand that you want to go

00:04:47.680 have fun you don't actually have to go up to a place where there's loads of men but i think you

00:04:52.160 understand that men go up to the it's how you conduct yourself and yeah i think we can all agree yeah i

00:04:57.600 genuinely think it's how you conduct yourself how you portray yourself i can go out i might go mayfair

00:05:02.160 i might go carnival but i'm not leaving with any numbers but it doesn't mean it's like you're going

00:05:18.560 to a bunch of potential okay your car right like this is analogy i know women aren't cars this is 1.00

00:05:23.920 always the first thing but it's like it's like you're going to the dealership where there's

00:05:27.200 potential buyers and saying i'm for sale and just because you didn't sell out you're saying oh well

00:05:32.000 you're easily manipulated if you don't sell out yeah but you still went to the dealership where men

00:05:35.680 are buying no go and club listen go to a bar or club or whatever even carnival you want to listen

00:05:41.680 to good music you want to be around your girls you want to have a drink you want to listen i mean

00:05:46.000 there's nothing wrong with that it's only an issue yeah when you make it friday saturday sunday

00:05:54.160 that's a problem that i'm going to look at my partner it's like what out there in this context

00:06:01.760 yeah there's you're referring to that as your but what you're not understanding is that it's her vice

00:06:06.320 that that's the same thing as me choosing to go to pottery every week when there's mandarin there as

00:06:10.160 well i don't think it's the same thing no one's looking for sexual gratification from you for a

00:06:13.680 pottery class stop stop i have a question for the boys do you go to a pottery class to get laid no

00:06:23.040 do you go to a club to get laid that is just stop interrupting me do you go to carnival to get laid 0.55

00:06:29.280 so no so basically i i'm about to ask because i went i went kind of with my girl in it so i went

00:06:34.720 carnivore so but you got a man did you go kind of with your man no red flag hold on hold on what do

00:06:44.080 you realize yeah just by having my girl like two steps away from me do you know what i asked my

00:06:48.880 partner do you want to go carnival he said no that's not his style i said okay i'm gonna go i

00:06:54.240 want to go carnival so there was a communication there that's it like i asked him he said no he

00:07:00.160 didn't want to go i'll be happy to go what did you give wines out huh did you give any wines out

00:07:04.560 me yeah no i would i did not no i'm just asking because some some people don't no but i don't go

00:07:08.800 do you forget wait i go carnival for the culture i go carnival i don't it don't come it don't come

00:07:15.040 my head oh i'm gonna go carnival okay to go and meet man okay i get it i get it what'd you say it's

00:07:19.280 catching on giving a wine you know carnival wine what's a wine what's a wine dirty dance you know the

00:07:25.120 no i was doing interviews i didn't really oh is that the twerking thing they be like yeah so when

00:07:29.440 they're like the girls but you see me you see me like to me that's cheating the people at carnival

00:07:35.600 say no it's culture but like that's no like for me okay i'll add that rubbing up i love the

00:07:40.080 so-called that's inappropriate because i wouldn't want my i wouldn't want my significant other partner

00:07:46.640 or anyone to be dancing okay how many man moved you in carnival please just be honest don't cap just

00:07:51.520 be honest how many man approach should be honest bare man right yeah but did she entertain you though 0.99

00:07:56.240 no no no no forget that but the fact that you even put yourself in that you know

00:08:01.520 carnival is a celebration if you're from the caribbean it's a celebration

00:08:10.640 can i just say something right my grandma was born in 1938 she absolutely just is disgusted by the idea

00:08:16.160 that at carnival you twerk and and and that's how we celebrate jamaican culture she's absolutely sickened 1.00

00:08:22.080 by it that's not what it means to be jamaican and i'd like to say that as a fact right now it's not

00:08:27.680 what it means to be jamaican and the fact that that's what's been permeated from jamaican culture

00:08:32.480 quite frankly is a disgrace okay okay so clubbing for girls cheating not cheating yes or no it's gonna

00:08:39.920 yeah it's a red flag but it's not cheating if they go out with their girls for girls birthday then it's

00:08:45.040 fine yeah they're going on there's caveats there's caveats there's caveats in this scenario she's doing

00:08:49.840 it every weekend no it's a red flag red flag she's getting popped off yeah yeah she's cheating every 1.00

00:08:55.520 weekend yes she's cheating okay girls trip boys trip cheating not cheating girls trip cheating

00:09:03.680 how have you been to a girl's trip okay let's i wouldn't go on one with my boyfriend i'll be

00:09:08.800 honest with you i would i would not go on one i would want to go with my boyfriend i don't see

00:09:12.800 why i would go on just some major girls trips to some foreign country where is it pearl where where 1.00

00:09:18.080 where's the trip depends where the trip is okay i feel like there's two types of girls trips there's 1.00

00:09:22.960 one type where you go like i think my parents we have a house in florida and you go to someone's beach

00:09:29.360 beach maybe this is just like where i'm from thing but you go to someone's beach house and you

00:09:33.520 hang out with the girls but you don't really leave the beach house but then there's number two

00:09:37.040 where you go to miami my beef you go to vegas yeah so nashville yeah so the first one that's not

00:09:44.560 cheap that's something that girls do when they do a retreat i think yeah i think women need to do 1.00

00:09:48.400 those types of things those are like i think in all movies all growing up women need to do those 1.00

00:09:52.720 types of things yeah so we need that we need them to go out and have a girl's house so we can have 1.00

00:09:57.280 others like you're like leave that part is not a red flag we actually need women to actually meet 1.00

00:10:03.040 up with the girls and go and do these types of stuff we need that for them yeah okay so but the

00:10:07.280 second one but what we don't need is our girls out in miami twerk yeah we don't get moved to by chad

00:10:12.880 and tyrone that's not what we need out here but that's not what we need and so what about for a

00:10:18.640 boys the boys a boy's trip cheating what he just said the other way around no men and women are not

00:10:26.960 the same no what he just said the other way around you can do a little male retreats that's

00:10:33.040 fine no but we don't do retreats we don't do then i mean look at like okay devil's advocate here

00:10:39.040 my brothers don't do boys trip they go hunting they go fishing they go they go

00:10:43.920 that's real manly bonding like they go kill some deer yeah but that's different that's some real

00:10:50.320 stuff like you want to do that you know i mean that we don't have that's some stuff that we would

00:10:53.440 well no like what they'll do is they'll go to like they're like a rural wisconsin they'll get drunk with

00:10:58.720 their boys and then they'll go shoot some deer yeah but that's not they're not about to go start

00:11:03.440 twerking on some deal yeah yeah but like if you go to a club the girls are going to start twerking on you 1.00

00:11:07.440 mm-hmm so like wouldn't it be cheating i wouldn't say cheating no because we went to go shoot deer

00:11:15.520 what no because i i said you could do that one that could be like the equivalent of going to that

00:11:20.560 girl's house like the beach house yeah yeah and like that's that's option one and then there's

00:11:24.640 option two which is like clubbing so you wouldn't say clubbing is cheating on some level yeah i'd be

00:11:30.320 so embarrassed if my dad was going club i'd be so embarrassed but i also think i don't it goes both

00:11:35.600 ways to me i think and i'll be honest as well like men when you most of the men that i know that that

00:11:42.160 get in serious relationship they don't really tend to be outside like that you have to pull them outside

00:11:45.920 they don't really want to come outside yeah like ages men men are more likely to when we get in a

00:11:50.720 relationship because you got to remember every time we go outside for some of us it cost us 500 pounds

00:11:55.680 every time we go outside yeah for them for the men that and that's the minimum and we're talking

00:11:59.760 like pearl we're talking about men outfit going out and buying the table doing all these things the

00:12:04.240 moment you get a girlfriend and a wife everything becomes cheaper for you so you're not about to get

00:12:08.960 a wife and then be outside again because now you still have to buy drips still having to buy tables and

00:12:13.600 now you're buying tables for girls to sit down which you have not to drink it no it doesn't make any 0.98

00:12:18.080 sense it's a bad investment having a wife for you long term is actually a lot cheaper than going

00:12:23.600 outside and trying to find all these girls every week and taking taking five separate girls out

00:12:27.680 in the space of a month you do the math and mathematical yeah so cheating cheating no i put not

00:12:36.560 in yet like for the same thing all right twerking last this is the last one so i want to sit down

00:12:42.800 twerking cheating or not cheating cheating so for a man let's say he's at carnival he's watching the

00:12:50.480 girl twerk he's like you know they're doing the clap i don't know i don't think it's cheating i

00:12:55.040 just think it's inappropriate like i don't know to wind up with a girl for twerk to get excited i think

00:13:00.960 it's inappropriate i'm gonna let me switch i'm sorry i'm a little i got excited um no she's twerking

00:13:05.840 on him i think it's just inappropriate i don't think it's cheating i just think it's inappropriate

00:13:12.240 cheating though no it's not cheating it's just a red flag you catch ones and move on okay you see all

00:13:17.920 right chat if anyone needed help in their relationship you're welcome everyone clap for the

00:13:22.000 whiteboard good job class i feel like the whiteboard is going to be coming out a lot a lot now

00:13:29.520 i do feel like i was a teacher in another life i don't know i feel like most of the questions on

00:13:34.080 the whiteboard all solely depends on the girl that you're with exactly most of those things i let

00:13:39.200 my girl do but i because i trust her if you do not let your girl go clubbing on her girl's birthday 1.00

00:13:45.360 if you do not let your girl have instagram that you do not trust her and you cannot be with her

00:13:49.840 nah bro you can't say that no no no no no bro listen you gotta understand yeah girls girls

00:13:56.080 that girls get attention everywhere but it all depends if they entertain it all depends on that 1.00

00:14:02.880 no but listen the fact that she's got the instagram she's already entertaining it and the likes she's

00:14:08.560 got she's posting bikini pictures then yeah not like the fact that listen if it didn't matter she 1.00

00:14:13.680 would get rid of it and i'm not saying for her to get rid of a bit like i said like i said again

00:14:17.280 she's your girlfriend now if you say you want to make into your wife yeah do you really want the 0.99

00:14:22.080 whole world and everybody previously that had access to her to still have access to her is that

00:14:26.800 something you feel well i'm not i'm not gonna lie personally with my when i went with my bird she had

00:14:31.360 her profile private beautiful woman yeah to me anyways i told her to take her profile private 1.00

00:14:37.120 because attention is currency right now she took her profile private within one month some guy 1.00

00:14:42.240 inboxed her sent her filters they take pictures we'll send you 300 pound every two weeks she said

00:14:47.040 they sent her 300 pound every two weeks and me and her go out eating that but this is this what

00:14:51.760 what but this is what i'm trying to tell you she doesn't entertain it as that but you can use it as

00:14:55.840 a car girls use it as a currency attention is currency right now okay so let me so as long as 1.00

00:15:00.080 you're not doing it in a flirty way where you're like yeah sexy as long as it's straight business

00:15:04.240 because girls can use instagram and social media for yeah but as a dude should it how did you should it 1.00

00:15:08.720 is it your job to protect and provide so like why are you trying to make money off her instagram

00:15:15.840 i'm not trying to make money off instagram i'm saying if you if you have instagram don't put

00:15:20.480 bikini pictures on maybe use it for you know modeling or taking selfies use it for something

00:15:25.760 more decency what's being done with the pictures if you don't mind me asking there's no bikini pictures

00:15:31.200 there's no nothing she's got a pretty face it's all it's all she does is takes a picture of her 1.00

00:15:37.840 face and he puts a filter on and that's it this is sad and i can't lie bro like like like this is my

00:15:43.440 levels of basically only fans it's it's it's not the same but basically what you're saying is you

00:15:49.360 really wouldn't mind your woman setting up her only file because as long as men pay for it and it's just 1.00

00:15:53.680 just the face is okay but you should be providing at a level where no man can offer free bills where she's 1.00

00:15:58.800 going to take and you shouldn't be taking that free bill no i think no man should turn down 300

00:16:03.600 pounds yeah i mean okay like like i've been offered money for feet pics and i turned it down because i

00:16:08.880 don't know what they're going to do with it that's weird and it's like it's like if my i i always this

00:16:13.840 is how i always think about it i'm like all right if my mom was doing this how would i feel if my

00:16:18.400 mom was selling feet pics i would be embarrassed but that's feet pics pearl we're talking about a selfie

00:16:23.200 and then i'd see no bikini no body no nothing yeah but so yeah i would say selfie's working

00:16:29.120 yeah i can speak you i think it's just i think it comes down to insecure as long as she's not flirting

00:16:33.840 or anything like i don't think it's it comes down to respect i don't i don't think it's insecurity

00:16:39.040 it's just wanting to protect what's yours and you don't know what type of situation you could be put in

00:16:44.800 like you know you don't know she has she has an open instagram drake could dm her exactly but

00:16:49.360 this is what i'm trying to say to you drake could dm her right but why if she if she entertains it 1.00

00:16:54.720 that's where the line but why would you put her in that situation to start like what did it like

00:17:00.400 because as women we look to men for leadership so like like i would respect the guy more if he says

00:17:04.960 like i don't think it's a good idea for our relationship yeah but how did you depend it depends

00:17:09.600 how no how did you meet her because if you met her she had an open instagram and she was this person

00:17:14.000 why are you gonna now come in and change her because listen yeah okay we're talking about i'm

00:17:18.640 taking you seriously now yeah you've been outside now and now i'm taking you seriously right and i

00:17:23.040 want to make you into my long-term woman into my wife what are you gonna do for me that you haven't

00:17:28.320 done for another man you're not bringing me your purity you're not bringing me your your youth

00:17:32.800 depending on when you're coming so and if you're coming with baggage and other other stuff the one

00:17:37.680 thing i ask is look babe look just to do a clean start we're gonna start our life you're gonna move

00:17:42.960 with me we're gonna go here can we just leave that old life behind us and you cannot get rid of it

00:17:47.520 it says to me you want to be outside because at some point you are not ready to go into the new

00:17:51.760 life you're still holding on to and what is so good about instagram you've got a man that's willing

00:17:55.840 to take you down the aisle willing to move in with you give your life and you want the gram but it's

00:17:59.840 but it's it is circumstantial though because the way that some of us use instagram is different to the

00:18:05.520 way that other because i'm if you say delete it because i don't want to give you problem i don't

00:18:11.520 want to make you want to um like start feeling like you're controlling me but i go on for memes

00:18:18.800 and funniness and to keep up that's where i get my news but you could just do it like a profile with

00:18:23.440 no picture yeah that's not an actual account yeah exactly that's what i'm saying i would never mind

00:18:28.880 go put my instagram on private yeah for my partner what about deleting it no i wouldn't delete it

00:18:33.920 why because that's i promote art i don't have an answer i just wouldn't delete it the answer is

00:18:40.960 is just that you're not willing to really commit and you're not willing to trust in the leadership

00:18:44.640 of your partner because if you did your man will be enough for you i don't know what the love affair

00:18:48.720 of instagram is that when you've got someone that's willing to start give you a whole life and

00:18:53.600 look imagine this right you're not with the um the father of your daughter right so you meet a new

00:18:59.680 man and you already you already know how it how it is you know being a single single mother and

00:19:05.360 dating and what have you not so you've got a man that wants to marry you he wants to be a stepfather

00:19:08.960 to your child and the one the one thing he's put down is that i just want you to get rid of the

00:19:13.360 gram and you say no yeah do you do you think how likely do you think no wait wait hold on a second

00:19:20.960 a man that wants to be a stepfather and you know none of us want to be stepfathers we're not russian

00:19:25.360 when i want me personally i don't i don't date women with kids i just i want it's not not not

00:19:29.360 something i would do um like yeah instagram clearly no yeah no i could do with instagram but i'm not

00:19:36.000 gonna marry a woman that has an instagram open to the public when i'm ready to marry her and do all

00:19:41.600 these things that when it's open to the pub that's not an issue i i'll happy but either i don't think it's

00:19:46.560 that i think it's what i feel like it's what like for instance my sister she has instagram and she's

00:19:53.280 she puts quotes about the bible like jammy influential thing there's nothing nothing

00:19:58.320 wrong with that it's what you use instagram for yeah i i've had people contact me on instagram that

00:20:03.200 i met in reception year one is do you i mean like people i don't know it's nice way to get so instagram

00:20:08.960 for you is like facebook for other people like i would i would delete instagram but i wouldn't delete

00:20:13.280 facebook because facebook is how i keep in contact yeah but it's like those people aren't real like how many

00:20:18.640 people do you really deal with in day-to-day life like my dad's at the top one half a percent of

00:20:23.680 earners and he doesn't have any social media you don't need it and it makes you think you have these

00:20:29.200 like connections and that like you're talking to people you really don't the only person that matters

00:20:33.200 is your man and your family i don't understand how a man can be willing to be willing to marry you 0.99

00:20:38.640 and this is what i'm trying to say about why it's not worth becoming a stepfather because and dating

00:20:42.640 women with children because you don't even understand what he's doing you don't actually 1.00

00:20:45.280 understand you're treating him like he's any other guy he's willing to get married to you become a

00:20:49.120 stepfather so i'm saying to you and you're still and he only asks for you to come off the ground but

00:20:53.600 you can't because they're like i come off the ground for myself no no no no no no and not for

00:20:58.160 yourself for your husband no when it comes to when it comes to stepfather trust me as a mother myself

00:21:04.240 we it doesn't like we're not we don't care about that aspect no but what i'm trying to say to you is

00:21:09.040 any man by default becomes a stepfather so for example if a man starts dating you right yeah

00:21:14.640 and then becomes serious about you right yeah automatically he's a stepfather because when

00:21:18.880 he wants to come and do something with you he has to facilitate your daughter so example if he wants

00:21:22.640 to buy a house right yeah here if it's just you and him he could buy a one bedroom or two bedroom

00:21:27.760 home right but when he has you and your daughter he's gonna think right i need to get a three bedroom 0.99

00:21:30.720 home because we have to have a child so automatically he's always gonna have to do it so if you and him

00:21:34.320 have a child right and then um um he he um your child wants to go to um wants to go on holiday

00:21:42.320 and his child wants to go on holiday but he said you know what he's gonna send his child to to america

00:21:46.960 and because it's your child he's gonna send your child to cornwall are you gonna be happy about

00:21:50.160 that if they're out if they're out at carnival let's say for example and then he's got your child

00:21:54.800 out with his daughter and he's got his child but his daughter your daughter says she wants an an

00:21:59.040 ice pole or something he's like no call your dad and pay for are you gonna be happy about that

00:22:03.840 because what i'm trying to make you understand is when a man dates you he's always going to be a

00:22:07.840 stepfather in some way whether or not it's financially or whether or not it's just by being

00:22:12.160 there you you might not classify as a stepfather but the moment he's having to use his resources

00:22:16.560 his time his money on the child that isn't his he's a stepfather how do we get if i if i just i don't

00:22:22.480 understand how do we get to this the whole point he's making is like like relationships are about

00:22:28.320 compromise and so and so and so if he's willing to step into that role which is really hard for men to

00:22:34.000 do because their predisposition to be disgusted by other people's children the least you could

00:22:38.160 do is delete your instagram for me as a mother i don't i wouldn't feel comfortable in letting any

00:22:42.720 man in my life yes the father's making a sacrifice but as a mother myself it's hard for us to just let

00:22:49.200 a man in our house and bring a man to our household right so we're making i feel like as parent as a

00:22:54.640 mother we'll make him more of a sacrifice because we're letting this man around our child but this is

00:23:00.560 but that's but then you should have worked it out with the person you made a child with but

00:23:08.160 but i'm saying i'm saying like like that's just that's i mean i don't i don't know your situation

00:23:12.480 i don't know you personally but i'm saying like like that's just part of it and it's more for a

00:23:16.880 man to take on a woman's kids because their predisposition to be disgusted by your children 1.00

00:23:21.440 because because historically they never wanted to pass on resources to a kid that was not theirs

00:23:26.240 where you if he has a kid it's a sign of pre-selection so that says the other women 1.00

00:23:31.440 chose him we're attracted to that and so it's just not a fair deal and so when he has to take an unfair

00:23:37.680 deal where he has to take on another band's kid it's like the least you can do is just delete your

00:23:42.000 social media may i just say that my father had to do that he he tried to remarry a woman um who had a

00:23:51.280 child before she came to him and one thing that he always said to me of the phone is absolutely

00:23:57.440 it's a great thing to be a father but being a stepfather is a job that is thankless with no

00:24:03.680 profit it's a job that has no profit in return okay i'm gonna like that i like that i'm gonna

00:24:10.480 read i'm gonna read super chat the way you think though what you don't you don't like the way he

00:24:15.040 no listen listen listen listen this is the thing yeah i actually know what yeah what don't you like

00:24:20.720 the instagram bit no the instagram bit doesn't bother me the instagram but it's just your thinking

00:24:26.560 of stepfather that no man wants to be me coming into relationship right now my partner had a two

00:24:34.000 daughters yeah it did not affect me one bit women don't care no no let me that i actually embraced it

00:24:40.720 i looked at it as oh that would be nice for so-and-so she has because my daughter's the only

00:24:44.960 child she's like she's 10 years old so my mindset is i'm always looking at the benefit in that situation

00:24:50.800 i don't look at it like oh i'm doing this child or so-and-so a favor because i shouldn't have to be

00:24:55.600 here because i can find another woman that's but don't have that but that's but that's but that's a 0.97

00:25:01.040 woman's point of view so you're looking at it from a woman's point of view right but that's because 0.99

00:25:05.440 we're attracted to a man that can take care of other kids because one it says to us that oh another

00:25:11.120 girl selected him that's pre-selection and the second thing is it says oh he's gonna stick around

00:25:15.200 for my kid but uh with a woman it signals to him that you're promiscuous and that you don't make 0.67

00:25:20.720 sound decisions because you didn't get married before you had the kid and then it's it's like

00:25:25.040 less incentive because why would he marry you if you didn't marry the first guy and then i don't 0.92

00:25:28.480 have to ask what does your baby father do i'm not going to ask you personally but i'm just saying so

00:25:32.400 and you know it's like like a lot of times when we're like oh the baby the baby father's a waste

00:25:35.920 man they won't like the baby father to talk badly but i think then i'll look at myself and i'll be

00:25:39.600 like damn i actually thought you was nice and all of a sudden when i see who they chose to to to 0.64

00:25:43.440 breed with i'm like no actually no you're looking like a waste girl because i was rating you i had 1.00

00:25:48.400 you on a pedestal do you know how much girls i put on a pedestal and they didn't realize they were 1.00

00:25:52.240 actually on a pedestal then you look at the choices they made you're like damn is that what you chose

00:25:56.400 it's something else that i've heard from other men why would other men have said to me why would i

00:26:00.080 want to raise another man's inferior dna if you chose this man to if you chose this man and you're 0.50

00:26:04.960 saying he's such a waste man right why would i want to come into this situation and raise dna that

00:26:10.320 i now will consider inferior because you're telling me how much of a way let me do an extreme one i

00:26:15.040 know it's like slightly extreme but i want to use it as something and let's say i love a child i bring

00:26:20.160 this child as my own like i raise this child this child gets really old and the child gets sick the

00:26:25.200 child needs a blood transfusion the kidney i i'm the father this child he calls me his father the

00:26:29.680 child looks at me as the dad but at this moment i cannot save my child at this moment we need to

00:26:34.880 find a real dad and at this moment i realized that all this time i've just been playing and acting like

00:26:40.160 it let's let's let's let's flip it around now i'm sick i'm dying now yeah and this child i've raised

00:26:46.000 now loves me as a father he's watching me die he wants to give me something he can't give me nothing

00:26:50.960 at that point you realize that hopefully everything you did was a waste of time and i'm not trying to

00:26:55.440 but i'm trying to show you the extreme of you might need to give your child something in the

00:26:58.720 future and you cannot do it men are not supposed to be coming and doing something else and you gave

00:27:03.840 the highest honor to another man and now you're out here be like you know what i'm a single mother

00:27:08.240 it doesn't affect me it does affect you i never said i was a single mother no no but are you married

00:27:14.640 i've been in a relationship for a very long time but you're still a single unless you're married

00:27:17.360 you're a single mother like essentially i don't i don't consider myself yes technically i'm a single

00:27:22.720 mother but i've never considered myself as a single mother at the point you broke up the stigma behind

00:27:28.320 single mother for me it's just it's not it's not a stigma it's i'm technically and this is the problem

00:27:33.040 right we we get told as men that having a standard i'm i'm now being told i'm bad for having a standard

00:27:38.720 for not actually wanting to have a single mother like there's nothing wrong with you as a person you're

00:27:42.160 actually a cool person but the fact remains yeah the type of woman i want is a woman especially 1.00

00:27:47.280 if you are a single mother i would have hoped you got married is your husband did he die what really

00:27:50.800 happened was you an abuse if it was just a fact that i picked the wrong guy and i and i bred from

00:27:55.360 him do you know how in my mind i just think to myself that is such bad decision making because you

00:28:00.000 didn't even require a ring you just let any man literally bust in there and say yo this is what it 0.95

00:28:04.160 is do you have any kids i don't have no kids no yeah it's when you have kids it's easy for you to say

00:28:08.960 that you're you're you're supposed to change because you don't have no no no no hold on a second you're

00:28:15.120 making excuses i'm 30 years old if i want kids i can have kids do you know what i'm trying to say

00:28:19.440 to the reason i don't have kids i already said i come from a family of five and my my three um

00:28:23.840 sisters and brother all married we come from unity the reason i'm not married pearl is because i

00:28:28.240 keep meeting women that are problematic that are not ready for this so it's quite easy i'll realize 1.00

00:28:32.960 within three months to six months whether or not i want to be with a woman for the rest of my life because

00:28:36.960 i've been out here long enough to know and i know patterns of behavior so when i said i met a sweet

00:28:40.880 one i'll generally be meaning like yo like i've met something that i feel like god's you know

00:28:44.240 blessing man at the moment but the only reason i'm not married poor not because i don't want to

00:28:48.320 not because i'm not a high earning man not because i'm not worth six feet i'm six foot not

00:28:52.560 because i'm not doing all these things it's because women are two of all the types of women 1.00

00:28:56.800 i will meeting felt like because they earned a certain thing because they looked a certain way

00:29:01.040 it gave them a certain type of thing but also what they didn't realize is us as men we choose so

00:29:05.760 unless you we go in one ring we go down on one knee and give you the ring unless you're about

00:29:10.240 to get down on your knee and buy me a gold rolex you need to fall back and act a position of a woman 1.00

00:29:14.560 and let me do what a man's supposed to do and then we can get on and get out of here but i don't

00:29:19.600 understand how you said it's because he doesn't have children oh because i know someone my son's dead

00:29:25.440 um he said basically oh before obviously i had my son is like oh i would never get with a woman with a

00:29:31.120 child like oh that's bizarre i would never do it had a child ends up getting with a woman with a

00:29:36.480 child yeah because it's blending family you once you've had a child i think it's more people yeah

00:29:41.680 people i think people with kids should date each other like i'm not trying to date a guy with kids

00:29:45.360 either but but the point is it's more it's more it's harder for a man to accept another another guy's

00:29:52.720 kids than it is for a woman to accept another woman's kids i agree with that yeah and and so what

00:29:58.000 i'm saying is it's not it's not a fair deal i think maybe i'm the masculine one then it wouldn't

00:30:03.840 bother me but i agree what you're trying to say yeah okay i'm going to read super chats um again

00:30:10.560 these are what i'm paid to say okay um okay so the uk economist as a business owner i would never allow

00:30:18.160 a child that's not mine to inherit my wealth also only my bloodline will inherit my success and assets

00:30:24.640 migtow biologic modern liberated independent boss babes are cancer to the contentment of a man 0.93

00:30:30.400 period migtow biologic also no women are capable of actual real honest conversations that's why they 1.00

00:30:35.520 get ran through by chad and tyrone entirely predictable npc like a fish in a barrel thanks for the free kitty

00:30:41.680 ladies um why just something boy this guy has a long name buck zari um hi pearl how can i get in

00:30:53.440 touch with eddie other than instagram i don't use social media even though i created instagram and

00:30:58.160 messaged him two times now sometimes my messages disappear this man who is essentially oh and then

00:31:04.000 the second one this man who is essentially pimping his girls on instagram um i'm i'm not going to lie to

00:31:09.520 you the only way to get in touch with eddie is instagram and the best way to get on the show is

00:31:14.160 to bring girls with you um as a guy like we have a ton of guys that want to come on the show like

00:31:18.720 it's just endless um and it's harder to recruit women so the best way you can get on the show is to 1.00

00:31:23.920 tell eddie that you're bringing two girls um jamal allen um pearl please tell the ninja in the red

00:31:31.440 that car red carnival is from trinidad not jamaica it's a cultural thing that only people from

00:31:37.200 the caribbean will get you don't like it don't go um young lex carney isn't jamaican culture y'all

00:31:44.080 are just invited um christopher surdak um the can any of these women other than the mask or pearl

00:31:52.000 remember any conversation ever where they weren't lying such cap migtow biologic 50 super chat let's go

00:31:58.400 um funny how these girls are creeping not me it's amazing this is an awful ish the the world is awash

00:32:08.400 in good girls us men are just so lucky to have these loyal feminine wives to choose from 1.00

00:32:13.680 um adam sutton hoodie dude is so aggressive chill 90 free taupe we judge others by their actions we judge

00:32:20.160 ourselves by our intentions unknown um the large delicious queen means well but is but is a kid

00:32:26.560 get your own room um phil sidic thank you for the super chat henry luzi to the gentleman in the pink

00:32:32.720 dating apps are now a permanent fixture and are here to stay it is statistically the primary method of

00:32:37.760 meeting a potential mate and instagram is also the de facto dating app mad dog lambert thank you for the

00:32:42.880 super chat the bloody talker dude says guys who use dating apps are for the streets um then he realizes he

00:32:49.680 hooks up with insta chick the backpedaling to not include himself was impressive but he is for the

00:32:54.160 streets um musa jamal these guys need to read the rational mail by rollo tomasi matt butcher guys get

00:33:00.320 your approach game on point this will put you up ahead of the miles long of blokes on her apps forget

00:33:05.680 the apps um chessie me life is great for me and my husband we met on meet me in 2016 and we're still

00:33:11.520 together to this day kfc sac women only remember compliments from chad and tyro as many of you know i was

00:33:18.080 just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to

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JustPearlyThings - November 21, 2023

Modern Women Show How VALUELESS They are to Men

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