JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Speak On SHARING a Man

00:00:00.000 i'm curious from the girls okay would you rather date a guy you don't all right this is for a

00:00:05.680 lifetime okay one guy you don't really like so i don't know think of the last guy you dated that

00:00:11.600 you just you're kind of into him kind of not everyone got someone in their head okay now

00:00:21.520 or the guy you liked the most so the guy you're the most in love with would do anything

00:00:26.720 got him in your head now would you rather share the guy you liked the most ever and this sort of

00:00:33.680 maybe not as you know maybe it's not his job to screw other girls but every now and then he's

00:00:37.920 going to get some strange but you're the main you're the main or stay with the guy that you

00:00:43.120 kind of liked for life kind of like kind of like kind of liked can i just say something i won't

00:00:49.760 share the guy that i like the most but i'll share the guy that i don't like the most so if i like you

00:00:54.240 that much i want you to be mine if i don't like you i'm happy to yeah if you provide for me we

00:01:00.240 have an agreement there you go go do whatever you want i don't give two f's okay what about you i mean

00:01:06.400 i'd rather just stay single but if i had to pick one it'd probably be the guy that i don't really like

00:01:11.280 because if i really like someone i am jealous and i am petty as well and i will do the most if i like you

00:01:18.240 and you're not mine do you know what i'm saying so that's my answer okay what about you it's a

00:01:23.680 difficult one because if you're living with someone that you don't like you're going to be

00:01:27.440 very miserable and very unhappy so would you rather just build yourself to a confidence where

00:01:34.320 you don't mind and and like i see she's so confident she's happy i would rather be with

00:01:40.080 someone that i love and be happy so but but my do you guys think the most men or no yeah yeah

00:01:49.520 depends where you can get him so why would it be different with you like in your case would be like

00:01:54.960 oh my guy won't he's gonna change for me it's the same thing it's just the respect you know i definitely

00:02:01.840 it's the respect i salute you and i think you're like i can sense you guys are both are great people

00:02:08.320 you know and you're like really subtle sure of you who you are and it takes a lot of work to do

00:02:13.280 that but there is also a red line i think that just boundaries if you want to create children healthy

00:02:21.040 relationship because it's easier you have to work way harder than i have to work i'm like i know my

00:02:27.120 boundaries he knows his boundaries things might slip out of balance we just like forgive forget blah blah

00:02:33.120 blah work them out but the work that you both have to do and maybe you're naturally i can i can sense

00:02:38.000 that you naturally are not jealous person you know you're naturally are way more open-minded

00:02:43.200 than a lot of women but she also met him doing that yes but i think also in the future when you have

00:02:48.560 kids things might get out of balance it's harder work i think you know if you just see relationship

00:02:55.440 traditional relationship the most successful relationship was just stay with your woman if you 1.00

00:02:59.760 cheated don't ever let her know same if she if she i tried that i tried that in the beginning right

00:03:04.960 yeah and there was like times where like she came over and like there was like she came over early

00:03:08.960 or maybe not even early but i was like sloppy and she like arrived and i was with a girl yeah and it's

00:03:12.880 like giant fight right but we keep we keep like the emotional stuff like segmented yeah i got like

00:03:18.560 the love and the affectionate stuff just with her yeah and that's a lot of work no do you want kids

00:03:23.280 together potentially but we're not sure yet are you gonna carry on doing this when you have kids with chat gbt

00:03:29.360 out i don't know about how much longer the world will be normal but no i mean we're pretty happy with

00:03:34.480 the three dogs we have it still allows flexibility to travel and do all this yeah it's interesting

00:03:38.240 well i'm curious because you guys gonna get older there's there is like a reduce of your sexual needs

00:03:43.840 you probably won't even need to have as much how old are you guys i'm gonna turn 40 in october yeah but i

00:03:51.280 but i take like supplemental testosterone to an endocrinologist i still take like maca and the

00:03:55.600 different libido supplements so i still have my point is if that is what brings you fulfillment

00:04:00.720 right right now at this point what would bring you fulfillment in the future i don't know i mean like

00:04:05.840 i come from an interesting background like the reason why i went and slept with 1600 girls i came 0.86

00:04:10.400 from like a pretty verbal abusive childhood where like my parents are really nice people but they're

00:04:13.920 always saying like you're gonna be nothing you're gonna be a failure you're gonna be this like that

00:04:18.240 and when i like sleep with a new girl it makes me like feel like oh i'm not like that yeah

00:04:23.280 i don't know if it's compensating but it's it's definitely like you know i wouldn't have gone and

00:04:29.840 done this had i not come from that background like people like a lot of like the best ufc fighters they

00:04:33.760 were bullied for instance as a kid and they were like i'm gonna become the best fighter in the world

00:04:38.400 so like i think my mom like stripped all the like validation for me like routinely over over all the 1.00

00:04:44.480 way you come back is to sleep with women to make up for that trauma yeah but then what would you

00:04:49.440 all right cool i'm a client i'm a guy i come to you and i say to you right i sleep with

00:04:58.800 i don't know eight women a week right i've been doing it for years years years but now i'm ready 1.00

00:05:04.640 to commit to one woman what advice would you give me if you want to go from from seeing a bunch of

00:05:10.480 people just to one because that's obviously helping me that's helping my confidence and that's fulfilling so

00:05:16.640 how would you say to me cool stop that stick to one woman and this is how you can what why wouldn't 1.00

00:05:22.400 i don't i don't ever tell them like you know you should just be doing this but you know i don't

00:05:26.320 tell them like any societal narratives i don't tell guys to get a girlfriend or wife or bang a bunch

00:05:30.240 of girls or see a bunch of girls on the side asked i want to be with one woman how can i go about

00:05:35.680 would you even give them advice yeah i just want to know lots of guys just want girlfriends but but most of

00:05:41.440 them like in practice like once i teach them to be able to have a bunch of options and they pick the

00:05:46.000 best one usually and get more serious with that one but you know if they had that issue where they

00:05:50.960 were seeing a bunch i would you know they have to like realign their internal values and stuff like

00:05:56.000 that i guess but they wouldn't even want to do that i don't think do you guys who here out of the

00:06:00.000 women thinks that all men cheat when given the chance you know what i will have to say i discovered

00:06:05.520 something new tonight completely because she's stunning gorgeous right and a lot of women that 1.00

00:06:10.720 get cheated on they will just say i'm i'm out of shape i'm i'm less but it's just i'm realizing your

00:06:18.880 looks and who you are won't stop men cheating and wanting to i want to i want to just get this all right

00:06:26.240 you think yes raise your hand if you think yes all men cheat when given the chance

00:06:30.000 yeah okay so um three girls i'm just curious so nba players have women and i know this um i just 0.98

00:06:39.520 interviewed a guy who he has like good friends with a couple professional sports players right

00:06:44.960 and he said that on the sidelines these girls the that are tens okay nines and tens will come to their 1.00

00:06:50.960 games and just offer them threesomes and say like we're available and they hunt them down and try to 1.00

00:06:55.920 get them to cheat on their wives like they i have stuff like that happening yeah what do you what

00:07:00.800 do you guys do you think those guys that most guys would cheat in that situation if he's a man of

00:07:07.920 god then it's very unlikely that's what i was going to say as well yeah same thing yeah that's just a

00:07:13.680 fear of hell right no no no it's not it's for your love of god it's your love of god it's not fear of

00:07:19.520 hell i think men and women both cheat though men and women yeah of course i think that's delusional

00:07:24.880 honestly i know some pretty religious dudes but like it's very unlikely but if you're telling me

00:07:29.360 a 10 like most of these religious guys that say they would never do it have never been in that

00:07:33.600 situation wait can i just say yeah also just because someone says they are religious does not

00:07:37.680 mean they are religious someone can say they are 10 out of 10 religious like you said you know

00:07:41.280 religious people but that doesn't actually mean they're religious same way you can go to church

00:07:44.880 doesn't mean you're a christian just because you go to church what is religious that's a whole

00:07:49.920 another conversation i think that's so relevant it's different for everyone it could me me personally

00:07:55.920 i can't say because i'm actually not religious but i could ask you and i could ask you and you

00:08:00.320 could both give me two completely different answers that could both be correct but but i'm saying

00:08:03.920 my point is even religious guys if they're in if they're in a situation where tens are hunting them

00:08:08.640 down religious i read religious people are more likely to commit or rape than normal yeah great 1.00

00:08:20.240 great that's the word i was looking for then actually normal dudes really is that a statistical 0.59

00:08:25.600 factor i've read that before a statistical one well i don't know about that but all i know is that

00:08:30.640 because they're like what um we had a conversation before about church guys and dating church guys or

00:08:38.480 people that are religious because they're around such like purity for that it's like that's like

00:08:45.760 another world like oh i want to try that look at yeah look at the priests right in the catholic church

00:08:50.400 exactly then yeah i think religion is no guarantee for not cheating no yeah at all um as many of you know

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JustPearlyThings - April 16, 2023

Modern Women Speak On SHARING a Man

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