JustPearlyThings - April 16, 2023


Modern Women Speak On SHARING a Man


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

207.2284

Word Count

1,938

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

2


Summary

In this episode, we talk about sex, sex education, cheating and sex education. We also talk about our experiences with cheating and what we would do if we were in a situation where we had to choose one or the other.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 i'm curious from the girls okay would you rather date a guy you don't all right this is for a
00:00:05.680 lifetime okay one guy you don't really like so i don't know think of the last guy you dated that
00:00:11.600 you just you're kind of into him kind of not everyone got someone in their head okay now
00:00:21.520 or the guy you liked the most so the guy you're the most in love with would do anything
00:00:26.720 got him in your head now would you rather share the guy you liked the most ever and this sort of
00:00:33.680 maybe not as you know maybe it's not his job to screw other girls but every now and then he's
00:00:37.920 going to get some strange but you're the main you're the main or stay with the guy that you
00:00:43.120 kind of liked for life kind of like kind of like kind of liked can i just say something i won't
00:00:49.760 share the guy that i like the most but i'll share the guy that i don't like the most so if i like you
00:00:54.240 that much i want you to be mine if i don't like you i'm happy to yeah if you provide for me we
00:01:00.240 have an agreement there you go go do whatever you want i don't give two f's okay what about you i mean
00:01:06.400 i'd rather just stay single but if i had to pick one it'd probably be the guy that i don't really like
00:01:11.280 because if i really like someone i am jealous and i am petty as well and i will do the most if i like you
00:01:18.240 and you're not mine do you know what i'm saying so that's my answer okay what about you it's a
00:01:23.680 difficult one because if you're living with someone that you don't like you're going to be
00:01:27.440 very miserable and very unhappy so would you rather just build yourself to a confidence where
00:01:34.320 you don't mind and and like i see she's so confident she's happy i would rather be with
00:01:40.080 someone that i love and be happy so but but my do you guys think the most men or no yeah yeah
00:01:49.520 depends where you can get him so why would it be different with you like in your case would be like
00:01:54.960 oh my guy won't he's gonna change for me it's the same thing it's just the respect you know i definitely
00:02:01.840 it's the respect i salute you and i think you're like i can sense you guys are both are great people
00:02:08.320 you know and you're like really subtle sure of you who you are and it takes a lot of work to do
00:02:13.280 that but there is also a red line i think that just boundaries if you want to create children healthy
00:02:21.040 relationship because it's easier you have to work way harder than i have to work i'm like i know my
00:02:27.120 boundaries he knows his boundaries things might slip out of balance we just like forgive forget blah blah
00:02:33.120 blah work them out but the work that you both have to do and maybe you're naturally i can i can sense
00:02:38.000 that you naturally are not jealous person you know you're naturally are way more open-minded
00:02:43.200 than a lot of women but she also met him doing that yes but i think also in the future when you have
00:02:48.560 kids things might get out of balance it's harder work i think you know if you just see relationship
00:02:55.440 traditional relationship the most successful relationship was just stay with your woman if you
00:02:59.760 cheated don't ever let her know same if she if she i tried that i tried that in the beginning right
00:03:04.960 yeah and there was like times where like she came over and like there was like she came over early
00:03:08.960 or maybe not even early but i was like sloppy and she like arrived and i was with a girl yeah and it's
00:03:12.880 like giant fight right but we keep we keep like the emotional stuff like segmented yeah i got like
00:03:18.560 the love and the affectionate stuff just with her yeah and that's a lot of work no do you want kids
00:03:23.280 together potentially but we're not sure yet are you gonna carry on doing this when you have kids with chat gbt
00:03:29.360 out i don't know about how much longer the world will be normal but no i mean we're pretty happy with
00:03:34.480 the three dogs we have it still allows flexibility to travel and do all this yeah it's interesting
00:03:38.240 well i'm curious because you guys gonna get older there's there is like a reduce of your sexual needs
00:03:43.840 you probably won't even need to have as much how old are you guys i'm gonna turn 40 in october yeah but i
00:03:51.280 but i take like supplemental testosterone to an endocrinologist i still take like maca and the
00:03:55.600 different libido supplements so i still have my point is if that is what brings you fulfillment
00:04:00.720 right right now at this point what would bring you fulfillment in the future i don't know i mean like
00:04:05.840 i come from an interesting background like the reason why i went and slept with 1600 girls i came
00:04:10.400 from like a pretty verbal abusive childhood where like my parents are really nice people but they're
00:04:13.920 always saying like you're gonna be nothing you're gonna be a failure you're gonna be this like that
00:04:18.240 and when i like sleep with a new girl it makes me like feel like oh i'm not like that yeah
00:04:23.280 i don't know if it's compensating but it's it's definitely like you know i wouldn't have gone and
00:04:29.840 done this had i not come from that background like people like a lot of like the best ufc fighters they
00:04:33.760 were bullied for instance as a kid and they were like i'm gonna become the best fighter in the world
00:04:38.400 so like i think my mom like stripped all the like validation for me like routinely over over all the
00:04:44.480 way you come back is to sleep with women to make up for that trauma yeah but then what would you
00:04:49.440 all right cool i'm a client i'm a guy i come to you and i say to you right i sleep with
00:04:58.800 i don't know eight women a week right i've been doing it for years years years but now i'm ready
00:05:04.640 to commit to one woman what advice would you give me if you want to go from from seeing a bunch of
00:05:10.480 people just to one because that's obviously helping me that's helping my confidence and that's fulfilling so
00:05:16.640 how would you say to me cool stop that stick to one woman and this is how you can what why wouldn't
00:05:22.400 i don't i don't ever tell them like you know you should just be doing this but you know i don't
00:05:26.320 tell them like any societal narratives i don't tell guys to get a girlfriend or wife or bang a bunch
00:05:30.240 of girls or see a bunch of girls on the side asked i want to be with one woman how can i go about
00:05:35.680 would you even give them advice yeah i just want to know lots of guys just want girlfriends but but most of
00:05:41.440 them like in practice like once i teach them to be able to have a bunch of options and they pick the
00:05:46.000 best one usually and get more serious with that one but you know if they had that issue where they
00:05:50.960 were seeing a bunch i would you know they have to like realign their internal values and stuff like
00:05:56.000 that i guess but they wouldn't even want to do that i don't think do you guys who here out of the
00:06:00.000 women thinks that all men cheat when given the chance you know what i will have to say i discovered
00:06:05.520 something new tonight completely because she's stunning gorgeous right and a lot of women that
00:06:10.720 get cheated on they will just say i'm i'm out of shape i'm i'm less but it's just i'm realizing your
00:06:18.880 looks and who you are won't stop men cheating and wanting to i want to i want to just get this all right
00:06:26.240 you think yes raise your hand if you think yes all men cheat when given the chance
00:06:30.000 yeah okay so um three girls i'm just curious so nba players have women and i know this um i just
00:06:39.520 interviewed a guy who he has like good friends with a couple professional sports players right
00:06:44.960 and he said that on the sidelines these girls the that are tens okay nines and tens will come to their
00:06:50.960 games and just offer them threesomes and say like we're available and they hunt them down and try to
00:06:55.920 get them to cheat on their wives like they i have stuff like that happening yeah what do you what
00:07:00.800 do you guys do you think those guys that most guys would cheat in that situation if he's a man of
00:07:07.920 god then it's very unlikely that's what i was going to say as well yeah same thing yeah that's just a
00:07:13.680 fear of hell right no no no it's not it's for your love of god it's your love of god it's not fear of
00:07:19.520 hell i think men and women both cheat though men and women yeah of course i think that's delusional
00:07:24.880 honestly i know some pretty religious dudes but like it's very unlikely but if you're telling me
00:07:29.360 a 10 like most of these religious guys that say they would never do it have never been in that
00:07:33.600 situation wait can i just say yeah also just because someone says they are religious does not
00:07:37.680 mean they are religious someone can say they are 10 out of 10 religious like you said you know
00:07:41.280 religious people but that doesn't actually mean they're religious same way you can go to church
00:07:44.880 doesn't mean you're a christian just because you go to church what is religious that's a whole
00:07:49.920 another conversation i think that's so relevant it's different for everyone it could me me personally
00:07:55.920 i can't say because i'm actually not religious but i could ask you and i could ask you and you
00:08:00.320 could both give me two completely different answers that could both be correct but but i'm saying
00:08:03.920 my point is even religious guys if they're in if they're in a situation where tens are hunting them
00:08:08.640 down religious i read religious people are more likely to commit or rape than normal yeah great
00:08:20.240 great that's the word i was looking for then actually normal dudes really is that a statistical
00:08:25.600 factor i've read that before a statistical one well i don't know about that but all i know is that
00:08:30.640 because they're like what um we had a conversation before about church guys and dating church guys or
00:08:38.480 people that are religious because they're around such like purity for that it's like that's like
00:08:45.760 another world like oh i want to try that look at yeah look at the priests right in the catholic church
00:08:50.400 exactly then yeah i think religion is no guarantee for not cheating no yeah at all um as many of you know
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