Modern Women Want HONESTY But Can't Handle The TRUTH
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss honesty in a relationship and how important it is to be 100% honest with your partner. We discuss the importance of honesty and why we should all strive to be honest in our relationships.
Transcript
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yeah go ahead go ahead i've already answered i said i have everything i want yeah she says
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i'm sorry i'm sorry it's okay i want the truth because i seem to find myself in the position
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where i'm always seem to be the side bit side bitch all the time and i think that's just what
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annoys me like you think you give us side chick vibes yeah like i just don't seem to find someone
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that just wants but do you know he's in a relationship when you meet him no otherwise
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i wouldn't go there oh okay that's different yeah i just get put in a position where i find out like
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months in one case two years um that they've been in a relationship so i just want the truth because
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it doesn't hurt me like you could turn around and say oh this is not serious
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and i'd be like that it is what it is i want to have my fun but if why do you think they put you
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in that box i think because i don't necessarily come i don't come across like i want to have
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something serious okay so as much as i do i'm like in between because i've had bad experiences before
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which has made me feel like i don't want no one to live with me i don't want this i don't want that
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but then it comes to i do feel lonely and i would want that intimacy and that love from the right person
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do you think that that's in a way making the mistakes of the men of the future pay for the
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mistakes of your past it's kind of like when it's kind of like when a guy is is always going through
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your phone because some girl cheated on him in a way you see i always say this rule i won't go
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through your phone don't go through my phone if you see something that's gonna hurt you don't you
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think that before you move on to one relationship like get rid of the baggage heal from one before you
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go don't take one relationship into the other can i say i've i've clocked that we've all been
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saying honesty but i feel like personally if you yearn for like honesty in a relationship it's kind
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of like it kind of sucks because like if you're going into a relationship being like i just want
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honesty i need you to be honest with me i need you to be honest with me it's kind of like do you need
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to beg for that but also at the end of the day i don't know about you guys but personally for
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someone that's been honest with me i have felt hurt before and it's kind of like also that
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honesty doesn't i feel like there's certain things that you don't have to say
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that's certain things that you don't have to say but if you say it's going to cause some type of
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some type of you know and and also can i say guys that are always honest they're normally always
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honest about the past relationships and i feel like if you if you if you've established that you
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guys are going to be a hundred percent about everything you've done you're going to feel some
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type of way regardless of whether that involved you or not so they've been doing stuff before
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they even knew you but you'd feel the type of way because they're with you right now so it's kind
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of like certain stuff you don't have to say and it's not me being secretive if there's certain
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stuff that we can talk about we can talk about that's going to progress a relationship but if
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it's about oh like yeah i used to do like this with her and like yeah like this and that i think
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it's kind of like i think you're right i don't think women want honesty by and large because then they
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wouldn't keep dating liars yeah do you get you'd sit here and be like yeah i want you to be a
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hundred percent honest with me but if you're honest with me i'm gonna start crying it's even
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cheaters i would rather just cry and be mad and then just get over it my first reaction i always
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say tell me the honest truth let the first reaction go over their head because that's it soaking in
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but does the honesty progress your relationship is it positive to your relationship though yes because
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they know that there's no point in lying to me i'm not the one you want to lie to
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why did you say honesty when i asked when you i asked you what you were looking for
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because to me that implies that maybe you haven't always gotten that no i haven't um the past
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relationships well like as you're a pretty girl you have a million options there's many men that
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will be honest with you but it's like you pick the liar no they i don't know i just feel like they
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as you said make my funny flop so it's like the liars the lies make you want them but then you're
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attracted to the lie good for you good for you so i do want the truth it'd be nice so then what
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incentive do men have to be honest with us if the liars get laid i just prefer like if you just
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turn around and said yeah you're seen talking to like two three other girls and i'm just an option
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at the moment if they told you that then they then you wouldn't sleep with them that kind of links
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back to what i said earlier um a lot of time and this has been mentioned on fresh and fit another
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podcast um women want honesty honesty but as the saying goes they can't really handle the truth
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because when you are honest they immediately leave which you know i understand but what incentive is
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there for men to be honest because they'll lose the resources they put into you you know whether
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it's taking on dates life advice everything because men help us with a lot of things when we're with them
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um but then you just leave because they're with other people which is most likely the thing that
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they're not being honest about um so as you said what incentive do they have to be honest when
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they could lose the whole thing they've put work into you must be crazy do not tell me something
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that you know i'm gonna be like yeah i'm gonna leave you for it's kind of like what people are
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selfish i mean do you do you go into relationships telling men your body count
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well it depends if we're gonna be 100 ever asked i've never been asked because never i don't know
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because i feel like any guy that you talk to these they will ask you your body count
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really not really not anymore maybe like maybe young people not anymore
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she's right it's a young person it's like the younger the younger the guy is
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maybe it's because yeah but i'm just saying if we're gonna be 100 honest
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yeah no because i feel like a lot of especially right like a lot of girls are with guys where
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they know if they said their body count it would end their relationship
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so so so like there's there's in a way we're not always honest with them either
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because i was gonna say like if you're going into a relationship nowadays especially like my
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friends everybody that i'm surrounded by right now as a 19 year old they will 100 ask you your
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body count 100 it's one of the first thing that comes up what's your name what school do you go
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what's if you're a color what's your body count it's definitely the age thing maybe it's the age
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thing but in this like in this day and age right now that i'm in right now they will ask you with
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no shame because it's kind of like that's the question will you answer 100 i'll be straight up with
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i'll say this many or this many i've never had anybody ask me that older men just don't see
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the point in asking yeah maybe they just feel like you're gonna lie anyway you're right but
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the last time i ever got asked that question i think i was 16 years old that's a good nine years
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ago really because i lied i did get asked once all the time right now and i did give my honest
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answer i think with men as well um obviously you know you can't look at a woman and be like oh yeah
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her body count is this but you can get an inkling of whether it's higher or lower and sometimes that
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is enough to suffice them as to whether they get in a relationship or just have sex with you or
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whatever it may be i think how you portray yourself is sometimes enough for them to decide
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would it put you off of this if their body count was like higher than yours no i'd prefer that if
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my partner's body count was higher than mine no of course not you know i think men value
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inexperience whereas women value experience so my partner's body count is of course higher than mine
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and if it wasn't i'd be like well where the hell am i with you if no one else wants you
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but didn't the young lady on the end say i don't see i don't think that i don't agree with that but
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i just expect you don't agree with men you don't agree with what that um you think it's because the
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experience i don't think you don't think women value experience no no i do think they value experience
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but i don't think i'd be saying oh your body count is less than mine so i don't like that because
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other women don't like you okay i mean i don't think it's a conscious thing but i mean yeah i don't i
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don't sit there and think to myself well these women didn't you've got a lower body count
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therefore these women didn't like you so why am i it's just you know a silent tick in your head
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where it's you know it's like evolution i mean one of guys will tell me getting verified is the
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first way to get women yeah because it's a sign of pre-selection that's so superficial there isn't
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it i mean we can't really change it yeah it's like it's like telling the world not to be the world and
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all in all history like women have gone for men that other women have selected so it's like you can say
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it's superficial but that's that's always what's happened yeah like look at um you know genghis khan
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or the world's conquerors if women didn't like men that weren't if women did not like men that were
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experienced why do these men that she have harems of women and would just naturally gravitate to
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17 women reproduced for one man every one man 8 000 years ago my my ex has this saying that girls can get
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who they want and guys get what they want no girls get what they want guys get like if a guy can only
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get a girl if the girl wants them he can't just go out and get the girl girls can get who they want
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and guys can get who they can can i say um sleep as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we
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