JustPearlyThings - June 29, 2023


Most Men Have ZERO LEVERAGE


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8 minutes

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1,659

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127

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Misogyny

12

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9

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about multiple wives in Muslim marriages and why it's a bad idea. We also talk about why women don't want multiple wives and why men should have multiple wives. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for the next one!

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00:00:00.000 I met a girl one day who says, Tate, I want to have your babies live with you, but it's
00:00:06.160 kind of weird that your brother's here.
00:00:07.780 What would you say to her?
00:00:09.200 Yeah, a few of them have said that.
00:00:10.680 I offer some degree of compromise.
00:00:12.220 I'm like, look, we can have our own house separate if you really want, but I'm going
00:00:14.920 to be spending a lot of time at that other house, including nights over.
00:00:17.760 I want to stay with where my brother is.
00:00:19.360 So you wouldn't compromise a little bit, but he's going to be living next door or with
00:00:22.540 you.
00:00:22.940 100%.
00:00:23.300 And I don't think, and that may be unusual in the Western world.
00:00:25.820 I don't think that's...
00:00:26.200 Wait, he has a daughter, they said, right?
00:00:28.400 He has, he just said here he has multiple children.
00:00:31.900 Him and Tristan have multiple children.
00:00:33.460 Is it?
00:00:33.960 Do you know, did they say if it's with the same person or?
00:00:37.720 Them both have children with the same woman?
00:00:39.560 No, no, no, no.
00:00:40.100 I meant like, like Tate, like Andrew.
00:00:43.800 I'm just wondering, like, does he not live with the girls even when, even like when they're,
00:00:49.000 they have kids and stuff?
00:00:50.000 I think because he's Muslim, he has... 1.00
00:00:54.000 Oh, separate houses.
00:00:55.200 Multiple wives with multiple children. 0.96
00:00:57.320 And I mean, Tate is super rich.
00:01:00.580 He can handle that.
00:01:01.620 Yeah.
00:01:02.080 No, I was just wondering if you, if it's just him and his brother or they have their families
00:01:06.180 with them.
00:01:06.960 How do you feel about that?
00:01:08.240 What?
00:01:08.720 Which part?
00:01:09.400 Like, would you, would you be down to be one of many wives? 1.00
00:01:12.740 Nah, I can't do that.
00:01:14.000 Yeah?
00:01:14.260 No.
00:01:14.700 I think that's something that a lot of guys, I think because a lot of people watch Andrew
00:01:18.580 Tate and stuff.
00:01:19.380 I think that's one thing that a lot of these guys are pushing that really is just a non-negotiable
00:01:26.540 for the average woman.
00:01:27.560 Yeah.
00:01:28.060 Like forcing, like, you must accept other women no matter what. 0.94
00:01:32.060 Yeah.
00:01:32.360 I think I could, you know, what I...
00:01:35.200 I don't, I don't, I don't say that.
00:01:37.080 I don't say that.
00:01:37.600 What I, what I don't know doesn't hurt me, but a whole wife with another kid, nah, that's 0.75
00:01:42.040 too far.
00:01:42.660 I could, like...
00:01:44.100 Yeah.
00:01:44.460 I just don't, I don't think, and I think a lot of guys pushing that message are causing
00:01:49.640 men who are in good relationships with good women to lose good women because a good woman 0.99
00:01:54.840 is not going to, like, a decent woman with self-respect, she's not going to tolerate that. 0.99
00:01:59.980 She's like, yeah, I'm just going to tolerate having another woman around. 1.00
00:02:03.880 You know what I mean?
00:02:04.460 You have to have a shitload of leverage, which means you got to be really rich and have a lot
00:02:09.780 of status to pull that off.
00:02:12.720 And I just think that's a message that it's just going to, it's going to ruin more dudes
00:02:19.920 and their happiness than bring happiness to those men.
00:02:25.360 The few, few, few men who could pull it off.
00:02:28.400 And a lot of the times, too, I noticed that these women who accept, this is not saying anything
00:02:32.580 about the Tate's wives or anything, but, like, a lot of these women who do accept this
00:02:38.100 kind of like, okay, I'll be one of your many.
00:02:41.140 One, I feel like she doesn't love him as much.
00:02:43.520 Like, a part of her is kept back and reserved.
00:02:46.120 And two, a lot of those women are kind of, you know, the eggs are a little bit scrambled. 1.00
00:02:50.680 They're not.
00:02:51.600 Oh, really?
00:02:52.140 I don't know.
00:02:53.140 I don't know any girls that are, like, in multiple wives' relationships. 1.00
00:02:57.060 Like, that sort of, I don't know any.
00:02:58.640 Yeah, no, I agree with you on that.
00:03:00.080 I'm just saying, like, I just think that this whole thing, like, guys are like, I'm a high-value male.
00:03:04.600 No, actually, I do know one girl that wants a second, like, she wants her boyfriend, or, 0.55
00:03:09.740 like, she wants to get married, not state-wide, but she's Muslim.
00:03:13.820 Okay, so, religion aside, if you're Muslim, I understand.
00:03:17.640 Yeah.
00:03:17.780 Because that's according to your religious text, right?
00:03:21.440 Which is a solid selling point for Islam, by the way.
00:03:24.160 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:25.020 As a man, I gotta tell you, that's a solid selling point.
00:03:28.040 Right.
00:03:28.360 Um, but, outside of that, I just think the normal kind of regular girl is not gonna do 1.00
00:03:36.900 that.
00:03:37.120 Like, how much money would the guy need to make for you to tolerate that?
00:03:40.140 I mean, you already, you're sorted.
00:03:42.160 Well, that's not true.
00:03:43.540 I mean, but, um.
00:03:44.640 You're doing okay.
00:03:45.420 Yeah, I think just coming from where I, like, come from, I always know my, like, my dad would
00:03:51.340 take me home.
00:03:52.520 Yeah.
00:03:52.740 You know?
00:03:53.280 So, I just think, and I'm just not really a materialistic person.
00:03:57.340 So, it's just a hard no for you.
00:03:58.580 Yeah, it's just, like, I think it'd be different if maybe, maybe if I grew up, like, lower class
00:04:05.540 or whatever.
00:04:06.300 But, it's like, I kind of have everything I really want.
00:04:09.800 What if Andrew Tate wanted to take you on as his multiple wives? 1.00
00:04:13.280 Um, it's just not really my thing.
00:04:16.600 Well, because my dad's approval is really important to me.
00:04:19.780 As it should be.
00:04:20.440 Yeah.
00:04:20.700 And so, you know, I once broke up with a guy because I was dating him.
00:04:26.340 Um, and my dad was just like, do you like torture?
00:04:29.140 What are you doing?
00:04:30.140 That's what he said to me.
00:04:31.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:32.260 He's like, he's like, what, what are you, like, do you, he's like, do you like torture?
00:04:37.360 Why?
00:04:37.580 What was happening?
00:04:38.480 Well, I was just, like, crying about something.
00:04:40.400 Like, I was just, like, upset.
00:04:41.720 I mean, I, you know, I don't really want to go into it too much.
00:04:43.700 We don't have to.
00:04:44.260 We don't have to.
00:04:44.620 But, but my dad was just like, what are you, you know?
00:04:48.020 And it was funny.
00:04:48.520 He told me one of the most profound things.
00:04:50.320 I think I told you this once where I was like, dad, like, do you, do people change?
00:04:54.380 Like, you know, as a woman, do you want to change?
00:04:56.040 Like, do people change?
00:04:57.420 And my dad's like, yeah, they do.
00:04:59.660 They do change.
00:05:01.160 They get worse over time.
00:05:02.700 Yeah, they do.
00:05:03.420 So whatever, he's like, so whatever bad trait you see for the most part.
00:05:07.360 Like, yeah, it just gets worse in 10 years.
00:05:10.560 In 2015, I was 29, still a young man at that time.
00:05:16.340 And I was dating a girl that, like, she liked to drink almost every day. 0.99
00:05:21.520 And I thought I could save her.
00:05:23.300 I thought it could help her.
00:05:24.340 No.
00:05:24.480 Right?
00:05:25.400 And to this day, she has become, like, such a massive alcoholic.
00:05:31.460 She's got, like, one foot in the grave. 1.00
00:05:33.220 Wow.
00:05:33.820 You know?
00:05:34.260 And it's spot on.
00:05:35.900 And, like, the amount of work, like, for example, me, like, I came from literal abject poverty.
00:05:42.340 Like, didn't, my mom didn't have $5 to give me for lunch growing up per day, which didn't have $5. 0.92
00:05:50.060 We didn't have $3, right?
00:05:51.840 Because I remember Chick-fil-A sandwich was $2.50.
00:05:54.580 And if I could, like, scrounge up $2.50, you know, between 2002 and 2004 when I graduated from high school,
00:06:00.840 it was, like, the highlight of my year.
00:06:03.900 My best friend Jordan used to give me money because he came from a rich family, and he would give me money.
00:06:08.140 And, like, I would always get these Chick-fil-A sandwiches.
00:06:10.460 It was so good.
00:06:11.240 And, you know, growing up in that crazy, like, poverty situation, it really just gives you a whole different perspective on, like, in my opinion,
00:06:25.800 how just modern people are just so, so, and so entitled over the littlest, littlest, littlest things compared to, you know, just simple happiness of just being able to buy lunch.
00:06:39.180 You know what I mean?
00:06:40.880 So, I mean, I don't know.
00:06:43.100 Just looking at this whole picture of the things nowadays, I feel like, I watch, my friend is in the Philippines right now,
00:06:49.500 and he just put out a video, and he, like, went into, like, the Philippine ghettos.
00:06:55.220 And it was, like, a family of, like, eight.
00:06:58.420 And, like, living in, like, this tin hut.
00:07:02.020 Wow.
00:07:03.340 And they were so happy, and they're like, yeah, we just got to be happy because we have family, and that's all that matters in life.
00:07:10.020 Four of them are sleeping in, like, a, like, a tattered cotton bed.
00:07:13.900 And it just, like, makes you look at everything we have in the West, everything we have here, and we have all this materialistic stuff,
00:07:26.400 and everybody's so isolated, miserable, alone.
00:07:30.860 And that turns into, like, hate, and, like, you know, like, they form these hate mobs, and, like, they're just trying to tear everybody down.
00:07:37.220 It's just, like, so, it's so crazy how we have so much, and yet we have the most important things wrong, you know?
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