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00:00:00.000 who wins after breakups men or women so tom brady and giselle i'm sorry guys i can never say her

00:00:07.660 last name bunchin um officially divorced on october 28th 2022 legal teams from both say that

00:00:14.240 and not an ironclad prenup agreement was put in place before they were married in 2009 making

00:00:19.680 the financial aspects of the divorce relatively smooth what has happened since is there what has

00:00:25.720 happened since then and why are they both in the new sense giselle has been linked with her

00:00:30.840 children's jujitsu instructor jomaine valentine a 42 year old brazilian man with some speculating that

00:00:38.040 they have had something going on before the official divorce he started appearing on giselle's

00:00:43.100 social media around february showing giselle basic techniques on instagram he has also been seen

00:00:49.420 traveling with giselle and the children since the beginning of the year tom brady 45 officially

00:00:54.800 confirmed that he is dating veronica rezek a 26 year old slovakian model with over 3.2 million

00:01:02.300 instagram followers she has attended a few of a few of his games and has taken photographs wearing

00:01:08.240 his jersey gerard peak and shakira were in a relationship from 2011 to 2022 having two children

00:01:15.700 during that time after breaking up in 2022 gerard peak 36 years old has been confirmed to be in a

00:01:23.400 relationship with 23 year old clara chea marti shakira has moved from spain to her family's home in miami

00:01:30.900 florida and has been linked to her 24 year old surfing instructor custody of the children is still pending

00:01:37.400 this begs the question who normally wins after high profile breakups men or women

00:01:42.900 so start here and then go around men or women i actually i think i managed to hear what other people

00:01:52.400 got to say first i can't lie okay who wants anyone opinionated want to start come on it just depends

00:01:59.400 on how about what the situation is so if there's obviously kids involved um if obviously the pre not

00:02:07.400 if you had to pick one who typically wins in high profile breakups oh um i say men do okay yeah

00:02:17.900 because it's like no matter what their the publicity just sort of like dies down on them whereas women 1.00

00:02:24.900 they get it a lot more that makes sense i don't know so how do i explain it so like so men have more

00:02:35.300 publicity after like they don't get no they get publicity um but it's not as much as like it

00:02:42.900 wouldn't go as long as what the woman's publicity would go on for if that makes sense so like there'd be 1.00

00:02:49.300 more paparazzi watching the wimp the woman um her every move who she's dealt with and then sort of

00:02:56.020 like you'd hear once in a blue moon if the man decides to leave and show off that he's got a new

00:03:01.380 woman then they would catch him but it's like a one-off one-off story and then that's it bye

00:03:08.260 okay so you would dictate who wins and loses after the breakup by who has less publicity

00:03:13.460 yeah because it all publicities can be good but it comes with bad as well a lot of negative okay

00:03:23.220 i think after a high profile breakup right the women the the outlook from the society that they 0.99

00:03:30.020 get is kind of crazy i think they get told that they're not good for fine moving on and finding

00:03:36.100 someone else so and also it's mostly men in high profile breakups that money is associated with

00:03:44.820 as well so as soon as the female goes and finds another partner is always she like she didn't 1.00

00:03:51.060 bother in the relationship do you get it and that's what i think and it's kind of that's true

00:03:56.660 if a woman's moving from relationship to relationship to relationship then maybe she isn't the best fit 1.00

00:04:02.180 or the best candidate for a relationship i think a woman that moves from relation to relationship 1.00

00:04:07.620 knows what she wants in a relationship because i'm going to tell you not a lot of people out there

00:04:10.980 like are gonna be what you want them to be so move i would say personally move around as much as you

00:04:16.500 want until you find the right one but couldn't you figure that out before a relationship like by asking

00:04:21.460 certain questions um some things you have to live to actually know because some people they know stuff but

00:04:28.260 in order how they apply it practically is completely different you can know so much but once you get

00:04:34.340 into a relationship it's way more sacrifices way more compromisation that gets involved that i think

00:04:42.180 is important and if you need to move around as much as much relationship as you need to to get that

00:04:47.540 security to finally understand that these situations won't work for you then that's what you might need

00:04:52.660 to do and i think the women do get looked weirdly for that but it's what you got to do at the end 1.00

00:04:58.020 of the day men do it too so do you think a guy is a good candidate for a relationship if he's constantly

00:05:02.980 having failed situationships with women like if he if he's maybe in a two-year span dated like 20

00:05:09.540 girls do you think it's likely he's going to date you sorry if i mean if i know a man has dated 20

00:05:16.340 women and wanted to come dating me i'd kind of be like and but then it kind of contradicts what i

00:05:22.020 just said yeah but at the same time as a man if a woman has gone through 30 men and came up to me

00:05:26.740 and said i want to have a relationship with you i'd kind of be like what's up you know and also as

00:05:31.540 much as i said compromisation is required there are stuff you have to learn and go through

00:05:36.340 sometimes you have to stick in a relationship for you to actually make stuff work it doesn't

00:05:39.540 necessarily be moving on to other ones but just because you moved on from relation

00:05:43.060 relationship to relationship it doesn't mean you're crazy

00:05:52.500 um either of you you go ahead sorry yeah go go go go um so is this question reserved specifically for

00:05:59.300 high profile relationships or uh just relationships in general why don't you tell me your opinion on

00:06:03.780 both high profile and regular yeah sure so high profile i think is a little bit worse because

00:06:08.740 say with um also can't pronounce the name giselle bunchen i think that's how you say it um tom brady

00:06:15.380 it's he's probably going to be one of the most wealthy top 10 type of men that she'll ever be with

00:06:22.020 and because women we're hypergamous by nature we typically can't date down and she would struggle to 1.00

00:06:29.940 find someone especially at her age now that she has children unfortunately um that would give her what 0.84

00:06:37.380 she wants which would probably be marriage um so i think that applies to most high profile relationships 1.00

00:06:42.420 because they have some form of celebrity status therefore their partners will probably be a notch

00:06:48.260 ahead of them uh whereas for normal people like us um i think women generally unfortunately still do 1.00

00:06:56.820 lose in a break in a breakup um in the short term they're winning because they can find a sink to buy them

00:07:04.100 a bag and take them places and they can find men to fit different roles of a partner but in the long term

00:07:11.300 they would lose because they'll struggle to actually find someone who wants to be with them

00:07:16.020 and vice versa and they'll probably get to say 35 no children because they've been playing the field

00:07:21.620 whereas if they stayed in the relationship providing it's not abusive you know the exceptions

00:07:25.940 to the rule and they tried to make it work it probably could have been happier

00:07:29.940 um in the long term i don't necessarily think that a breakup means that you're going to start

00:07:37.140 sleeping around start dating around i think some women do wait i find men do move on pretty quick 1.00

00:07:45.220 and they seem to not be as picky i do think that they move on a bit quicker um i don't know i i'm unsure

00:07:54.340 of my opinion because there's so many different variables like do they have kids do they are they

00:07:59.700 married were they together for a long time i'm just saying if there's a hundred high profile breakups

00:08:05.940 who typically who typically wins men or women can it be none of them because there's so much drama

00:08:12.100 around it okay um i think the woman the woman yeah tell me why because as i said the man moves on very

00:08:23.780 quick and he's not as picky and he can seem to get a lot younger than than a woman would if a woman's had children

00:08:34.020 then there's that too um so then what did the women lose what did the women lose yeah it seems

00:08:40.420 like you're saying the man so get like a younger what i'm saying is that they can't move on maybe

00:08:45.140 they want a relationship after that breakup and it's harder for them because they have children maybe

00:08:50.820 um and then there's more to consider it's not just black and white even though the man has children

00:08:55.380 as well when they move on that's that doesn't seem to hinder their dating experience they can still

00:09:01.140 date and move on and do what they want it doesn't stop that so it's just based on what you said it

00:09:07.460 sounds like you're saying that the women lose and the men win yeah okay okay you said the opposite when

00:09:13.220 you started oh did i i thought i said no i thought i said that the women lose am i crazy maybe maybe

00:09:20.900 maybe you did okay um go ahead i think it's it is a difficult one it is a broad one um i think in

00:09:27.860 if you're looking at high profile celebrity status and breakups um

00:09:34.980 i think generally depending on how they break up i think it depicts on how it would end up but probably

00:09:40.820 women would lose in terms of emotionally i think especially if there's children as well um pretty 1.00

00:09:47.460 much in terms of men i don't think they're emotionally attached as much as women i think women tend to be

00:09:55.780 more emotionally attached than men so in a breakup i think when women break up they break up way before

00:10:03.300 they actually physically break up with a man whereas a man i think they're quite flippant and they will do it

00:10:09.300 spur of the moment it's how they're feeling so i think in terms of who generally wins i would probably

00:10:16.020 say men in that aspect because i feel like they're mentally they're way before women are probably there

00:10:22.580 okay what do you think um see i think the opposite to you i feel like a woman knows in her head that

00:10:31.060 she's going to break up with a guy before she's actually going to do it yeah like the other way 1.00

00:10:37.140 around i think that's what i said oh yeah you just repeated exactly what she said my bad um so yeah i

00:10:45.860 feel like when it comes to actually breaking up i feel like women are more prepared for that actually 0.99

00:10:52.260 happening than i don't think men think to especially if they're comfortable in the relationship

00:10:58.180 they're not really thinking about it too tough so i would say maybe men lose more because

00:11:08.260 i just think they're gonna they don't see it coming as often you think men are more hurt after

00:11:13.380 breakups and women like women move on quicker yeah okay or like they start that process before 1.00

00:11:19.780 yeah because by the time the woman does it she's been thinking about it for six months what do you think 0.85

00:11:23.700 about dating options after do you think who do you think typically is more dating options after a

00:11:28.020 relationship men or women i think it depends on the man or woman like so in high profile cases um

00:11:38.500 again i think it depends on the if you had to pick one

00:11:55.220 maybe men in high profile okay cases because i think for a high profile man you'll have more

00:12:02.740 women wanting to do whatever for you than the other way around auntie what do you think 1.00

00:12:11.540 at first i was gonna say before you put the sexism into it i was gonna say the person with

00:12:17.620 the most money wins initially because they're out of it but then the women 1.00

00:12:23.460 right then if it's a man and he's got most money and they split up then the woman might think she's

00:12:28.020 winning because she gets like money and the kids and whatever but then she's less attractive 1.00

00:12:38.580 to the outside world so she might thought she's win she might think she's won initially but then i

00:12:45.220 think the men in the end win because they can get any woman out there they're the one younger that looks 0.98

00:12:49.380 a whole lot better than the old bag that they've left so you know all the stretch marks and everything

00:12:55.540 it's gone because when you look at all of those whoever had the most money got someone younger

00:13:02.260 and even though their partner's gone and thought well yeah like um what do you call it the the guy

00:13:08.740 the perfume the aftershave guy what's his name the one you just mentioned tom brady yeah that's him

00:13:14.660 the aftershave guy i don't know they're an aftershave name like that or something

00:13:17.860 you're thinking of trying forward oh sorry i don't want to say it i don't want to say okay

00:13:24.420 i know it's something to do with sports but he split up and she's gone and she's got this guy so

00:13:30.580 when they said about women i find that in the public eye sometimes the women move on faster because 0.74

00:13:34.900 the men are less cautious because they've lost a lot of money so they're not moving on fast but

00:13:38.900 afterwards they can get a younger person so the women would go out there and they would say oh we're 0.99

00:13:43.220 going to get married again and we're going to get hooked up we're going to settle down and the men

00:13:46.420 just go out there and get a young lady and play the field because they can so the women might lose 1.00

00:13:50.740 that you know the the men lose out more financially but in the long run of course they got lucky they

00:13:57.140 can go and get any young bird that they want because when you're a mature man and you've got

00:14:00.740 money you're attractive unlike the women out there that got money because they don't they don't look 1.00

00:14:08.180 all that all the plastic surgery and stuff they need to keep up their looks but men just work out 1.00

00:14:11.780 and they still look good can i say something um tom brady so if you've specified it's a high profile

00:14:18.100 breakup then i'm guessing we're talking about money here most of the time i'm talking about popularity

00:14:22.420 yeah um can i ask when they actually got divorced do you know when um officially october 2022

00:14:31.460 okay okay right because i was gonna say because as an athlete tom brady's spotlight the reason why

00:14:38.580 his spotlight is always going to constantly change like when he when he said he was going to retire

00:14:43.940 the spotlight was on just retiring nobody mentioned about him breaking up but i don't know it was all

00:14:50.420 over the like my youtube feed yeah like it was it was just on um right meg and kelly just did a special

00:14:56.100 on it yeah right so i think my main part so i'm trying to say here is that the spotlight as an athlete

00:15:00.260 for tom brady is going to change constantly so people are gonna eventually forget that he's been

00:15:05.540 divorced if he moves on with another person so i think for the female it's more so like she's the

00:15:10.660 one that broke up with tom brady is such a big deal and i think the hate that's gonna come for the

00:15:15.860 women is more than it is for the men just considering the fact that he's such a high profile athlete would

00:15:20.500 you say in society men are valued more for what they build where women are more valued for the

00:15:25.700 relationships they can keep a hundred percent a hundred percent because tom brady can now do

00:15:31.220 sign crazy and invest in this many stuff invest like a billion dollar company maybe that's what's

00:15:36.660 going to be that's what he's going to be in the spotlight for or it's like elon musk i mean how

00:15:39.940 many baby mothers does he have but yeah no one each to their own isn't it but no one really talks about

00:15:46.260 it right but if the roles were reversed and it was a woman and she had the same company but she had

00:15:51.780 like three i don't know how many he has but like three four baby fathers people would still look at

00:15:55.620 her funny no matter how successful she is it's going to be long for her and that's just how it is

00:15:59.620 that's just how it is unfortunately power have

JustPearlyThings - August 08, 2023

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