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Tom Brady and Giselle Brady officially divorced on October 28th, 2022. This begs the question, who wins after a high profile breakup? Men or women? And who is more likely to move on and find a new partner?
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who wins after breakups men or women so tom brady and giselle i'm sorry guys i can never say her
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last name bunchin um officially divorced on october 28th 2022 legal teams from both say that
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and not an ironclad prenup agreement was put in place before they were married in 2009 making
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the financial aspects of the divorce relatively smooth what has happened since is there what has
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happened since then and why are they both in the new sense giselle has been linked with her
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children's jujitsu instructor jomaine valentine a 42 year old brazilian man with some speculating that
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they have had something going on before the official divorce he started appearing on giselle's
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social media around february showing giselle basic techniques on instagram he has also been seen
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traveling with giselle and the children since the beginning of the year tom brady 45 officially
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confirmed that he is dating veronica rezek a 26 year old slovakian model with over 3.2 million
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instagram followers she has attended a few of a few of his games and has taken photographs wearing
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his jersey gerard peak and shakira were in a relationship from 2011 to 2022 having two children
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during that time after breaking up in 2022 gerard peak 36 years old has been confirmed to be in a
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relationship with 23 year old clara chea marti shakira has moved from spain to her family's home in miami
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florida and has been linked to her 24 year old surfing instructor custody of the children is still pending
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this begs the question who normally wins after high profile breakups men or women
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so start here and then go around men or women i actually i think i managed to hear what other people
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got to say first i can't lie okay who wants anyone opinionated want to start come on it just depends
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on how about what the situation is so if there's obviously kids involved um if obviously the pre not
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if you had to pick one who typically wins in high profile breakups oh um i say men do okay yeah
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because it's like no matter what their the publicity just sort of like dies down on them whereas women
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they get it a lot more that makes sense i don't know so how do i explain it so like so men have more
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publicity after like they don't get no they get publicity um but it's not as much as like it
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wouldn't go as long as what the woman's publicity would go on for if that makes sense so like there'd be
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more paparazzi watching the wimp the woman um her every move who she's dealt with and then sort of
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like you'd hear once in a blue moon if the man decides to leave and show off that he's got a new
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woman then they would catch him but it's like a one-off one-off story and then that's it bye
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okay so you would dictate who wins and loses after the breakup by who has less publicity
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yeah because it all publicities can be good but it comes with bad as well a lot of negative okay
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i think after a high profile breakup right the women the the outlook from the society that they
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get is kind of crazy i think they get told that they're not good for fine moving on and finding
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someone else so and also it's mostly men in high profile breakups that money is associated with
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as well so as soon as the female goes and finds another partner is always she like she didn't
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bother in the relationship do you get it and that's what i think and it's kind of that's true
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if a woman's moving from relationship to relationship to relationship then maybe she isn't the best fit
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or the best candidate for a relationship i think a woman that moves from relation to relationship
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knows what she wants in a relationship because i'm going to tell you not a lot of people out there
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like are gonna be what you want them to be so move i would say personally move around as much as you
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want until you find the right one but couldn't you figure that out before a relationship like by asking
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certain questions um some things you have to live to actually know because some people they know stuff but
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in order how they apply it practically is completely different you can know so much but once you get
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into a relationship it's way more sacrifices way more compromisation that gets involved that i think
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is important and if you need to move around as much as much relationship as you need to to get that
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security to finally understand that these situations won't work for you then that's what you might need
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to do and i think the women do get looked weirdly for that but it's what you got to do at the end
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of the day men do it too so do you think a guy is a good candidate for a relationship if he's constantly
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having failed situationships with women like if he if he's maybe in a two-year span dated like 20
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girls do you think it's likely he's going to date you sorry if i mean if i know a man has dated 20
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women and wanted to come dating me i'd kind of be like and but then it kind of contradicts what i
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just said yeah but at the same time as a man if a woman has gone through 30 men and came up to me
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and said i want to have a relationship with you i'd kind of be like what's up you know and also as
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much as i said compromisation is required there are stuff you have to learn and go through
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sometimes you have to stick in a relationship for you to actually make stuff work it doesn't
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necessarily be moving on to other ones but just because you moved on from relation
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relationship to relationship it doesn't mean you're crazy
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um either of you you go ahead sorry yeah go go go go um so is this question reserved specifically for
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high profile relationships or uh just relationships in general why don't you tell me your opinion on
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both high profile and regular yeah sure so high profile i think is a little bit worse because
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say with um also can't pronounce the name giselle bunchen i think that's how you say it um tom brady
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it's he's probably going to be one of the most wealthy top 10 type of men that she'll ever be with
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and because women we're hypergamous by nature we typically can't date down and she would struggle to
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find someone especially at her age now that she has children unfortunately um that would give her what
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she wants which would probably be marriage um so i think that applies to most high profile relationships
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because they have some form of celebrity status therefore their partners will probably be a notch
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ahead of them uh whereas for normal people like us um i think women generally unfortunately still do
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lose in a break in a breakup um in the short term they're winning because they can find a sink to buy them
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a bag and take them places and they can find men to fit different roles of a partner but in the long term
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they would lose because they'll struggle to actually find someone who wants to be with them
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and vice versa and they'll probably get to say 35 no children because they've been playing the field
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whereas if they stayed in the relationship providing it's not abusive you know the exceptions
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to the rule and they tried to make it work it probably could have been happier
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um in the long term i don't necessarily think that a breakup means that you're going to start
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sleeping around start dating around i think some women do wait i find men do move on pretty quick
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and they seem to not be as picky i do think that they move on a bit quicker um i don't know i i'm unsure
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of my opinion because there's so many different variables like do they have kids do they are they
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married were they together for a long time i'm just saying if there's a hundred high profile breakups
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who typically who typically wins men or women can it be none of them because there's so much drama
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around it okay um i think the woman the woman yeah tell me why because as i said the man moves on very
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quick and he's not as picky and he can seem to get a lot younger than than a woman would if a woman's had children
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then there's that too um so then what did the women lose what did the women lose yeah it seems
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like you're saying the man so get like a younger what i'm saying is that they can't move on maybe
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they want a relationship after that breakup and it's harder for them because they have children maybe
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um and then there's more to consider it's not just black and white even though the man has children
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as well when they move on that's that doesn't seem to hinder their dating experience they can still
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date and move on and do what they want it doesn't stop that so it's just based on what you said it
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sounds like you're saying that the women lose and the men win yeah okay okay you said the opposite when
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you started oh did i i thought i said no i thought i said that the women lose am i crazy maybe maybe
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maybe you did okay um go ahead i think it's it is a difficult one it is a broad one um i think in
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if you're looking at high profile celebrity status and breakups um
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i think generally depending on how they break up i think it depicts on how it would end up but probably
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women would lose in terms of emotionally i think especially if there's children as well um pretty
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much in terms of men i don't think they're emotionally attached as much as women i think women tend to be
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more emotionally attached than men so in a breakup i think when women break up they break up way before
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they actually physically break up with a man whereas a man i think they're quite flippant and they will do it
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spur of the moment it's how they're feeling so i think in terms of who generally wins i would probably
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say men in that aspect because i feel like they're mentally they're way before women are probably there
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okay what do you think um see i think the opposite to you i feel like a woman knows in her head that
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she's going to break up with a guy before she's actually going to do it yeah like the other way
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around i think that's what i said oh yeah you just repeated exactly what she said my bad um so yeah i
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feel like when it comes to actually breaking up i feel like women are more prepared for that actually
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happening than i don't think men think to especially if they're comfortable in the relationship
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they're not really thinking about it too tough so i would say maybe men lose more because
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i just think they're gonna they don't see it coming as often you think men are more hurt after
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breakups and women like women move on quicker yeah okay or like they start that process before
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yeah because by the time the woman does it she's been thinking about it for six months what do you think
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about dating options after do you think who do you think typically is more dating options after a
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relationship men or women i think it depends on the man or woman like so in high profile cases um
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again i think it depends on the if you had to pick one
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maybe men in high profile okay cases because i think for a high profile man you'll have more
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women wanting to do whatever for you than the other way around auntie what do you think
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at first i was gonna say before you put the sexism into it i was gonna say the person with
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the most money wins initially because they're out of it but then the women
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right then if it's a man and he's got most money and they split up then the woman might think she's
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winning because she gets like money and the kids and whatever but then she's less attractive
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to the outside world so she might thought she's win she might think she's won initially but then i
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think the men in the end win because they can get any woman out there they're the one younger that looks
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a whole lot better than the old bag that they've left so you know all the stretch marks and everything
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it's gone because when you look at all of those whoever had the most money got someone younger
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and even though their partner's gone and thought well yeah like um what do you call it the the guy
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the perfume the aftershave guy what's his name the one you just mentioned tom brady yeah that's him
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the aftershave guy i don't know they're an aftershave name like that or something
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you're thinking of trying forward oh sorry i don't want to say it i don't want to say okay
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i know it's something to do with sports but he split up and she's gone and she's got this guy so
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when they said about women i find that in the public eye sometimes the women move on faster because
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the men are less cautious because they've lost a lot of money so they're not moving on fast but
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afterwards they can get a younger person so the women would go out there and they would say oh we're
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going to get married again and we're going to get hooked up we're going to settle down and the men
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just go out there and get a young lady and play the field because they can so the women might lose
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that you know the the men lose out more financially but in the long run of course they got lucky they
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can go and get any young bird that they want because when you're a mature man and you've got
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money you're attractive unlike the women out there that got money because they don't they don't look
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all that all the plastic surgery and stuff they need to keep up their looks but men just work out
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and they still look good can i say something um tom brady so if you've specified it's a high profile
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breakup then i'm guessing we're talking about money here most of the time i'm talking about popularity
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yeah um can i ask when they actually got divorced do you know when um officially october 2022
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okay okay right because i was gonna say because as an athlete tom brady's spotlight the reason why
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his spotlight is always going to constantly change like when he when he said he was going to retire
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the spotlight was on just retiring nobody mentioned about him breaking up but i don't know it was all
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over the like my youtube feed yeah like it was it was just on um right meg and kelly just did a special
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on it yeah right so i think my main part so i'm trying to say here is that the spotlight as an athlete
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for tom brady is going to change constantly so people are gonna eventually forget that he's been
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divorced if he moves on with another person so i think for the female it's more so like she's the
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one that broke up with tom brady is such a big deal and i think the hate that's gonna come for the
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women is more than it is for the men just considering the fact that he's such a high profile athlete would
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you say in society men are valued more for what they build where women are more valued for the
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relationships they can keep a hundred percent a hundred percent because tom brady can now do
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sign crazy and invest in this many stuff invest like a billion dollar company maybe that's what's
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going to be that's what he's going to be in the spotlight for or it's like elon musk i mean how
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many baby mothers does he have but yeah no one each to their own isn't it but no one really talks about
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it right but if the roles were reversed and it was a woman and she had the same company but she had
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like three i don't know how many he has but like three four baby fathers people would still look at
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her funny no matter how successful she is it's going to be long for her and that's just how it is