JustPearlyThings - July 03, 2023


@MrNimaYamini Gives Pearl Her Flowers

Topics
street love shadow ban on TikTok seeing gay flags everywhere
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Guests
Nima
Mentioned
Matt Reif Netflix Hollywood Sneeko
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Length

11 minutes

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169.88

Word count

1,883

Sentence count

217

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and fellow TikTok influencer, Nima, to talk about TikTok, TikTok's recent ban from TikTok and why it's important to have a good relationship with TikTok.

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00:00:00.000 We were just talking.
00:00:01.320 I've seen you all over TikTok, all over Instagram.
00:00:04.280 I've seen you on Sneeko's stream.
00:00:05.960 Welcome Nima to the show.
00:00:08.080 Thank you.
00:00:08.920 Thank you for having me.
00:00:09.760 So how do you, I was trying to think
00:00:11.780 of how to introduce you because you do a lot of stuff.
00:00:14.660 So how do you introduce yourself typically?
00:00:17.640 Yeah, you know, I like to create content for fun.
00:00:21.480 Okay.
00:00:22.320 It's, you know, just try to make some fun content
00:00:25.820 that, you know, young men could benefit from.
00:00:28.440 Prior to that, I worked in a private equity and finance
00:00:31.340 and I still do real estate financing.
00:00:33.320 But at night I like to, you know, during, you know,
00:00:36.400 outside of that, I like to have fun and create content.
00:00:38.620 So yeah, but you're, I'm, you're definitely doing big pro.
00:00:42.500 Like I, like you're like, you are the epitome of like,
00:00:45.000 you're probably really like the number one female 0.97
00:00:47.700 influencer right now.
00:00:48.860 You know, I think that's like, has like street love,
00:00:52.300 you know, you get street, like you get,
00:00:53.800 you get love with the street.
00:00:54.740 What is street love?
00:00:55.780 I think like, I'd put you in the class.
00:00:59.680 See, okay.
00:01:00.380 So like for you to have 1.3 million subscribers,
00:01:03.760 that's not the same to me as if you swam downstream
00:01:09.600 playing to convention.
00:01:11.860 Okay.
00:01:12.600 Like what establishment Netflix Hollywood wants.
00:01:15.720 Right.
00:01:16.320 So like, if you did that,
00:01:18.400 I think you would have had 10 million subscribers.
00:01:21.300 I could have is the crazy thing.
00:01:23.180 Yeah.
00:01:23.680 So the fact that you have managed to get to this point to me,
00:01:28.920 that, that, that, you know,
00:01:30.260 I think creators who go that upstream have less,
00:01:34.300 but they have greater intensity.
00:01:35.880 It's harder because you're fighting for every subscriber,
00:01:38.820 follower.
00:01:39.420 You're not getting promoted by the platform to new subscribers,
00:01:43.220 followers.
00:01:43.840 You're not getting necessarily promoted by views.
00:01:46.300 People are sharing it.
00:01:47.740 And I think it takes greater intensity to have someone share your content.
00:01:51.900 Yeah.
00:01:53.000 Well, it's like,
00:01:53.500 you're going against the mainstream narrative.
00:01:55.800 Yeah.
00:01:56.040 You know what I mean?
00:01:56.600 So it's like,
00:01:57.380 and you're constantly like being attacked 24 seven for just going against what
00:02:01.680 the culture wants.
00:02:03.680 I mean,
00:02:04.320 and that's it,
00:02:05.240 you know,
00:02:05.580 it's even,
00:02:06.500 you see it with comedy,
00:02:07.780 you see it with politics.
00:02:09.600 And I,
00:02:11.520 you know,
00:02:12.400 have just noticed that like Matt Reif,
00:02:15.160 have you seen his content?
00:02:16.560 No.
00:02:17.120 And,
00:02:17.400 and I want to just say he does comedy.
00:02:19.460 And if you look at Matt Reif and I,
00:02:22.040 and I respect him,
00:02:22.800 I think he's a talented comedian at the same point.
00:02:25.640 I think because he has a face where you could say,
00:02:30.100 objectively speaking,
00:02:31.420 is he a transvestite or not?
00:02:34.340 No, 0.83
00:02:34.900 no,
00:02:35.040 no,
00:02:35.160 but wait,
00:02:35.740 can I Google?
00:02:36.600 Yeah,
00:02:36.820 sure.
00:02:37.440 What's his name?
00:02:38.420 Matt Reif.
00:02:39.320 And I,
00:02:39.840 and I'm not,
00:02:40.440 I'm not,
00:02:41.040 I'm not making fun of him.
00:02:42.580 I respect him.
00:02:43.900 I'm just making this as a case study because I've,
00:02:46.400 I've studied Matt Reif.
00:02:47.520 Okay.
00:02:48.100 Okay.
00:02:48.420 So he's,
00:02:49.020 he's like a pretty boy.
00:02:50.640 He's a,
00:02:51.040 yeah.
00:02:51.320 I mean,
00:02:51.840 he's objectively handsome.
00:02:53.540 He's objectively nice,
00:02:55.340 friendly guy.
00:02:56.740 And objectively, 0.94
00:02:57.760 you could imagine that he's a transvestite, 0.86
00:03:00.900 right? 0.91
00:03:01.440 Like he might,
00:03:02.080 he might be with the lips and everything.
00:03:04.900 Maybe not.
00:03:05.680 Hold on.
00:03:06.380 Let me just tell you my point.
00:03:08.280 Let me just tell you my point.
00:03:09.460 That's my point.
00:03:10.900 But like,
00:03:11.740 if he makes a joke or if you and I,
00:03:14.640 let's just say we having fun and make a joke.
00:03:16.500 Yeah.
00:03:16.880 We get the same analytics as him back in shares,
00:03:20.940 comments,
00:03:21.680 likes excellent.
00:03:23.820 I think because he makes jokes at the expense of men,
00:03:28.400 at the expense of men looking bad,
00:03:31.120 that he can get 10 X,
00:03:32.660 20 X to views.
00:03:34.300 But if you and I make a comment that women or specific other 1.00
00:03:39.360 community doesn't like,
00:03:41.520 we're completely not,
00:03:44.260 not getting that support.
00:03:45.500 And,
00:03:45.600 and we're getting maybe violations,
00:03:47.580 et cetera,
00:03:47.880 and so forth and bans.
00:03:48.740 I mean,
00:03:48.840 you and I have been probably banned.
00:03:50.940 You know,
00:03:51.380 how many accounts have we like together been kicked off?
00:03:55.060 A lot.
00:03:55.560 Yeah.
00:03:56.600 At least five for me on TikTok.
00:03:59.760 Maybe more actually.
00:04:01.240 I don't even know.
00:04:02.060 I did a video last night.
00:04:03.780 I didn't do it.
00:04:04.620 I have a small team.
00:04:05.400 And one of my guys was like,
00:04:08.040 he hit 355,000 views.
00:04:10.880 I can't even have a count on TikTok.
00:04:13.020 So I count on my supporters.
00:04:13.780 Yeah.
00:04:14.140 Same.
00:04:14.500 Yeah.
00:04:14.720 I can't have it.
00:04:15.480 They,
00:04:15.600 they don't give me that privilege.
00:04:16.780 Yeah.
00:04:17.120 You know?
00:04:17.460 So,
00:04:18.220 so,
00:04:18.380 so he had 355,000.
00:04:21.260 He's like,
00:04:21.800 yo man,
00:04:22.180 I got 355,000 views last night.
00:04:24.640 I was like,
00:04:25.240 all right,
00:04:25.540 cool.
00:04:25.780 It was a response to a lesbian couple. 1.00
00:04:27.900 I did.
00:04:29.180 And then,
00:04:30.020 and then I went to look on it.
00:04:31.200 It wasn't show up.
00:04:32.480 And that's happened to me more than once where I see it.
00:04:34.660 So there's like a new sort of shadow ban on TikTok where they hide your content on to everyone who didn't follow you or it wasn't shared to.
00:04:44.040 It's like next level.
00:04:46.280 And I don't think Matt Reif ever deals with that.
00:04:49.040 I think that there are a ton, like, for example, you're rich BFF.
00:04:53.280 She's in the business education category.
00:04:55.680 She's a famous supporter for basically being an influencer going to the Biden White House, let's say. 1.00
00:05:01.620 Okay.
00:05:02.080 Far left liberal by all standards.
00:05:04.640 Okay.
00:05:05.760 She can put out content that gets a fraction of the shares of you and I.
00:05:11.000 Yet she can get 1.8 million followers on Instagram, get 1 million views with, let's say, 2,000 shares. 1.00
00:05:17.400 That's a fucking joke. 0.99
00:05:18.880 I don't know. 1.00
00:05:19.480 Yeah.
00:05:19.740 Well, they're pushing them.
00:05:21.620 They're pushing them.
00:05:22.400 Whereas you aren't being pushed the way you would have, or I would, if we were pushing their narrative.
00:05:28.820 Well, and the crazy thing is their narrative is evil.
00:05:31.540 A lot of the stuff they put, like, it's anti-masculinity.
00:05:34.740 It's, like, teaching women to be men. 0.99
00:05:37.220 It's often shitting on men. 0.98
00:05:39.800 For, like, and it's just interesting because the things that, like, red pill or, like, more conservative people promote are good. 0.99
00:05:47.820 But the left, I would just say it's not, it doesn't, like, promote, it's, like, promoting promiscuity, promoting, like, it's not promoting families.
00:05:59.040 It's, like, that sort of thing.
00:06:00.360 And yet, they push that stuff.
00:06:02.560 I would say in about 24 hours of being here in London, I have probably seen about 20, 25 flags for homosexuality.
00:06:17.980 Oh, my gosh. 0.91
00:06:19.360 It's so bad here. 0.94
00:06:20.620 Yeah, literally in about 24 hours, I've probably seen, on average, maybe one homosexual flag.
00:06:27.540 And I'm not even including the hours I slept.
00:06:29.420 So I'm just saying about, let's say about 25 hours, and I think about it.
00:06:32.020 Yeah. 0.96
00:06:32.300 25 gay flags.
00:06:33.480 When I got to the airport in London, I saw a photography advertisement to showcase what London is.
00:06:43.640 Out of the four photos, two of them showed photos of homosexuality.
00:06:49.720 Not one photo, you're telling me in London, it's not a part of London that a man my age would have a wife and kids?
00:06:59.220 That's not London.
00:07:00.120 But out of the four pictures describing London to newcomers, two is homosexuality.
00:07:06.500 One is, like, you know, a Pakistani kid, like, having ice cream.
00:07:11.180 And then one is, like, the street corner. 0.96
00:07:13.040 But a two is homosexuality. 0.90
00:07:14.520 And then they'll act like they're not throwing it in our face when it's literally everywhere. 0.72
00:07:20.280 I can't go anywhere and not see gay flags. 0.99
00:07:23.180 Like, where are my straight flags?
00:07:25.340 I want a month dedicated to the straight people.
00:07:30.120 That's where we're going.
00:07:31.100 Let's celebrate straight reality.
00:07:38.580 Let's celebrate it.
00:07:40.220 But now I got to see the...
00:07:43.180 And the crazy thing is, I don't even know that many gay people.
00:07:46.800 So it's like, we've all... 0.59
00:07:48.520 You probably saw more flags for gay pride than actual gay people.
00:07:53.140 Yeah.
00:07:53.640 I really like...
00:07:55.020 And what's even more unique is the combination of, like, seeing a group of Pakistanis and Indians that are, like, religious.
00:08:03.600 Yeah.
00:08:03.920 And then you see them with a group of gays next to each other.
00:08:07.540 And it's just unique.
00:08:08.800 It's just a unique, eclectic mix here that I don't remember seeing London like this.
00:08:13.900 But London does remind me a lot of New York when I'm in Europe.
00:08:18.100 I would say in the last 30 days, three things that stuck out to me about Europe.
00:08:23.460 One was in Zandvoort, Netherlands.
00:08:25.420 I was walking across the street, and I looked down, and I saw, like, this blue-purple color.
00:08:31.820 I said, wait a minute.
00:08:32.620 That's odd.
00:08:33.760 Like the Avian drink.
00:08:35.520 Then I looked a little bit more, and I saw the other colors.
00:08:38.440 Then I realized that the crosswalk, and, you know, German zebra-striving, you probably know because you lived in Germany, was like the LGBT colors with the trend colors. 0.95
00:08:52.340 So they have it on the street.
00:08:53.960 This is in Zandvoort, Netherlands.
00:08:55.420 It's all within the last 30 days.
00:08:57.040 Then a few days ago in Spain, in Marbella, on the government building, they had flags.
00:09:01.740 They had the EU flag.
00:09:03.120 I get it.
00:09:04.340 The flag of Spain.
00:09:06.060 I get it.
00:09:06.640 The local state flag.
00:09:08.380 I get it. 0.97
00:09:09.140 And then the LG, the gay flag on the government building.
00:09:12.280 And they're putting it, they're implying that it's equally as important. 0.99
00:09:16.000 I fucking know. 0.98
00:09:17.220 Like the country, the city, the state, and gay people. 1.00
00:09:23.000 This is all on the city. 1.00
00:09:24.500 It's like, you can't make this shit up. 1.00
00:09:25.920 You can't make this shit up. 1.00
00:09:27.020 Where is my straight person flag? 1.00
00:09:29.080 What about a flag for marriage?
00:09:31.200 What about a flag for children and marriage?
00:09:34.340 Facts, man.
00:09:35.240 But no.
00:09:35.880 And you know what's interesting?
00:09:36.900 I realized how rare it is for people my age to be married and have kids.
00:09:41.640 It's so rare.
00:09:42.920 And I was thinking about the people my age that under 40, I would say, under 35, 40, that
00:09:48.940 have been married 10 years.
00:09:50.200 It's like, it doesn't even exist.
00:09:51.420 Yeah.
00:09:52.580 Yeah.
00:09:52.800 They're pushing, they're pushing the degeneracy pretty hard.
00:09:55.280 And then, so, so, so there's that one situation in Zanford, Netherlands.
00:09:59.440 Okay.
00:10:00.040 There's a situation in Marbella, Spain.
00:10:01.680 And then the situation here where I'm seeing like a high quantity of gay flags and advertisements 1.00
00:10:10.920 of homosexuality. 0.98
00:10:12.480 But I have yet to see one picture that reflects London, which just shows, hey, it's just this
00:10:20.260 man, a woman, and his two daughters.
00:10:22.660 Like, really, like, but all these gay flags, and it's just a little, and by the way, I
00:10:30.200 have gay friends.
00:10:31.320 I have nothing, and I'm sure you're pretty cool with them, too.
00:10:33.260 I have nothing against, it's just, at some point, we're denying the obvious, that it's
00:10:38.640 just being shoved down.
00:10:39.620 Right.
00:10:39.960 And at some point, it's being pushed.
00:10:41.920 Like, that's my problem.
00:10:43.000 It is.
00:10:43.260 It is.
00:10:43.280 It's just like, why don't, why don't, we have all these events and special stuff for
00:10:48.300 them.
00:10:48.560 Like, we don't have any events for singles looking to get married in the next year, you
00:10:53.780 know?
00:10:54.300 Yeah.
00:10:54.680 Like, I've never really seen, I've never really seen that.
00:10:57.340 I'll see things pushing like hookup culture.
00:10:59.680 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:00.180 But I don't see anything pushing families.
00:11:02.300 Yet, they'll have whole events for gay people.
00:11:04.300 Where is the equation?