JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023


Never Marry A Woke Wife


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

168.60924

Word count

1,355

Sentence count

97

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

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Summary

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Jada Pinkett Smith and Tupac Shakur have been married for 20 years and have a daughter together. Will and Jada have a son together named after their ex-boyfriend. Will Smith has a daughter with another woman named after Tupac.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So Jada Pickett is married to Will Smith. 0.99
00:00:02.560 Now, Will Smith is a guy that most women would deem pretty awesome, okay?
00:00:08.980 Pretty, pretty, you'd be pretty lucky to be with a guy like Will.
00:00:12.300 He's worth millions of dollars.
00:00:17.080 He is attractive.
00:00:18.900 He is tall.
00:00:20.280 He is rich.
00:00:21.680 And he has status.
00:00:23.660 He's one of the most loved actors of all time.
00:00:26.100 And, you know, men start to ask the question, if a guy like Will can't keep his wife happy,
00:00:32.420 what chance do I have?
00:00:34.920 So Jada dated Tupac back in the day.
00:00:38.640 They had, you know, they called it, I don't know, just like a love or whatever.
00:00:43.240 And Tupac, I mean, I don't, guys, I'm not a diehard Tupac fan.
00:00:47.560 I know people are very, very, like, defensive of him.
00:00:50.460 But, I mean, his lyrics were, of his songs were about some crazy stuff.
00:00:57.520 And, you know, he's a rapper.
00:00:59.260 So he's more of a bad boy archetype than Will.
00:01:02.220 We'll say that.
00:01:02.860 Where Will is kind of more of the family man.
00:01:05.600 And Jada, throughout their, you know, 20-year marriage,
00:01:10.940 I really think speaks higher of Tupac than her own husband.
00:01:14.380 Can you imagine being worth that much money?
00:01:17.380 Having that, being that good looking, having that much status,
00:01:21.320 and allowing your wife to talk higher of an ex-boyfriend than of you.
00:01:25.860 So Jada Smith shares a video of her and Tupac lip-syncing to Will Smith's parents just don't understand.
00:01:33.560 You know, so your wife, imagine, imagine. 0.99
00:01:49.640 Your wife is sharing a video of her, like, flirting with another dude. 1.00
00:01:54.600 You know, an ex-boyfriend.
00:01:55.960 Is that, is that appropriate?
00:01:57.920 And I've seen, guys, I've heard these horror stories.
00:02:00.060 Why do so many daughters know who their mother's ex-boyfriends were? 1.00
00:02:08.600 Why are you telling your kid about them?
00:02:11.460 I've even heard horror stories of men finding out their daughter or son
00:02:17.240 was named after a woman's ex-boyfriend.
00:02:20.440 Can you imagine?
00:02:24.000 Oh my, whoo, whoo, whoo. 0.89
00:02:27.020 And you wonder why marriage is such a dangerous institution for men. 0.66
00:02:31.700 I mean, what would a, what would, what would a divorce for Will Smith look like right now?
00:02:37.900 And even if he's single, what type of women are going to go after him typically? 0.99
00:02:42.040 I would say more predatory women. 1.00
00:02:43.880 I don't even know if a rich guy, like, finding love is easier.
00:02:48.520 I, I don't even know if it is because really, I mean, the, the number of predatory chicks 0.95
00:02:54.720 that go after these guys, it's tough, it's tough.
00:02:59.180 Sex is definitely easier for them.
00:03:00.980 Okay, but I was curious on, like, Will's view on this.
00:03:05.420 So I found a clip of Will Smith talking about, he's actually jealous of the love Jada had
00:03:11.160 for Tupac.
00:03:12.020 Let's pull it up.
00:03:12.980 You ever jealous of the love Jada had for Tupac?
00:03:16.300 Oh, yeah.
00:03:17.880 I thought you were going to say no.
00:03:19.000 Oh my God, that dude, and you know, and that was in the, that was in the early days.
00:03:22.960 Yeah.
00:03:23.640 That was in the early days.
00:03:24.640 And it was like, that was a big regret for me too, because I could never, I could never
00:03:28.740 open up to interact with, with Pac, you know?
00:03:32.100 And because we had a little bit of a thing, right?
00:03:33.800 Because, you know, you know, they grew up together and, you know, they loved each other,
00:03:38.600 but they never had that, you know, they never had a sexual relationship, but they had come
00:03:43.120 into that age where now that was a possibility.
00:03:45.700 And then Jada was with me, you know?
00:03:48.920 So, you know, Pac had a little thing on that, but she just loved him.
00:03:53.720 Like he was the image of perfection, but she was with the Fresh Prince, you know?
00:03:58.920 So that was a huge regret of mine.
00:04:01.160 And I just didn't, I couldn't, I couldn't handle it.
00:04:03.540 You know, I was just, I was the soft rapper from Philly and he was Pac.
00:04:08.480 And how, and how sad is that?
00:04:09.900 This guy has accomplished all he's accomplished and he still can't live up to the ghosts of
00:04:15.920 her past.
00:04:16.860 You know, he, he's talking about how he's a soft rapper from Philly, a man.
00:04:21.100 How much is he worth?
00:04:22.020 Like $200 million, $300 million.
00:04:25.300 Like imagine, imagine.
00:04:29.180 And, you know, it's, you can almost see the conditioning where he kind of knows it's not
00:04:35.460 right.
00:04:36.240 Where, you know, he's like, I couldn't open up to him.
00:04:39.020 I couldn't talk to him.
00:04:40.700 Cause men have like an innate gut feeling about stuff.
00:04:44.320 Women, we just, our emotions take us, God knows wherever. 1.00
00:04:47.860 But men have an innate, like, I don't know, spidey senses about things, but women kind 0.57
00:04:54.000 of manipulate them and try to get them to not listen to their guts.
00:04:59.100 And that is the, that is the biggest, that is the, you cannot do that as a guy because
00:05:04.300 look at now he's conditioned into thinking that he should have opened up to Tupac more,
00:05:09.060 that this behavior is okay.
00:05:11.200 People think I'm being dramatic when I say marriage can be a prison and a death sentence
00:05:15.340 for men, but a lot of times men not having authority in their own household is a prison
00:05:20.040 for them.
00:05:21.240 And I found this clip of Will Smith being filmed without his consent at home.
00:05:28.160 And it really demonstrates that perfectly.
00:05:30.360 Let me show you.
00:05:31.580 You know, Sarah Carell is coming to the table. 0.97
00:05:34.200 She's going to be at the red table.
00:05:36.320 Would you say she has been instrumental in you and I redefining our relationship?
00:05:40.880 I would say, don't just start filming me without asking me if you could film me.
00:05:48.380 Sarah, come help us again, please.
00:05:50.860 I'm still dealing with foolishness.
00:05:52.980 Don't.
00:05:53.420 No, no.
00:05:53.880 She, yeah, cause she could, don't just. 0.85
00:05:56.080 Would you say that she helped us heal the hurts that we cause between one another?
00:06:01.540 My social media presence is my bread and butter.
00:06:04.200 Okay.
00:06:04.960 So you can't just use me for social media and not, you know, don't just start rolling.
00:06:10.200 I'm standing in my house.
00:06:11.660 Don't just start rolling.
00:06:13.580 Yeah.
00:06:14.140 So, so this guy is in his own home and is what, what, what would you do if you're an obedient
00:06:19.580 wife and you, you're filming your husband and he says to put it away.
00:06:23.840 Do you roll your eyes and say, oh my goodness, or do you say, okay.
00:06:27.140 And there's a whole generation of women that have the rings. 1.00
00:06:33.120 They look like a duck, quack like a duck, but they're not a duck.
00:06:36.300 And that's what I would describe the wives of today. 1.00
00:06:38.600 They look like wives. 1.00
00:06:40.260 They might dress like wives, but they're not wives because it's a mentality more than anything. 1.00
00:06:44.740 You know, and women, they'll sell these femininity courses, right. 1.00
00:06:48.080 Which make their looks better, how to dress better, whatever, but, but they don't have the
00:06:53.160 most important thing and life is long, you know, let's say we all live to be 80, 50 to
00:07:00.220 80.
00:07:00.680 Who's really got, who's really that good looking?
00:07:03.720 I mean, men or women, right.
00:07:05.060 I mean, the men hold out in their fifties, but like, come on guys.
00:07:09.100 The most important thing is obedience and what they miss about femininity. 1.00
00:07:13.800 Actually real true femininity is serving the men in your life. 0.98
00:07:19.060 Okay.
00:07:19.700 I don't, don't shoot the messenger.
00:07:21.780 And I have a lot of empathy for, um, Jada's daughter, uh, Willow and Willow's just kind
00:07:28.280 of, I mean, she's like doing the cross dressing thing. 1.00
00:07:31.440 Uh, she was already in a throuple. 0.95
00:07:33.140 Like this woman was in a throuple relationship at 16.
00:07:36.820 And I'll tell you before all of the stuff with Will and Jada came out, I knew something
00:07:41.920 was wrong in that household because the kids were too messed up.
00:07:45.440 Something is off when the kids are this woke and liberal.
00:07:49.740 Maybe we could call her the woke wife. 0.84
00:07:51.740 Maybe that's actually a good, a good name for that archetype, the woke wife. 0.98
00:07:55.820 Um, but I knew, I knew something was off.
00:08:00.760 Like nobody could tell me different.