JustPearlyThings - November 21, 2023


Nina Marie Daniele Asks Pearl This


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Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

177.94888

Word count

963

Sentence count

82

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

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Hate speech

8

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In this episode, we talk about the UFC fighter Nina Marie Daniels and why she should or shouldn t wear a short, see-through dress. We also discuss the dangers of having a digital footprint on the internet.

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00:00:00.320 The next topic we're going to talk about is another I Deem outfit.
00:00:04.280 So as you guys know, I have the hashtag I Deem on Twitter where we have the conversation
00:00:08.580 about what outfits are appropriate for a wife and a mother.
00:00:11.960 So there is a young woman named Nina Marie Daniels who is a UFC fighter.
00:00:17.680 She does a lot of interviews in the UFC and she tweeted a video of me that says I was
00:00:22.480 going to wear this dress, but I don't think pearly things would deem this appropriate.
00:00:25.880 So I don't wear it out.
00:00:26.760 Are you proud of me, Pearl?
00:00:27.900 LOL.
00:00:28.760 Okay.
00:00:29.160 I have an event and I don't know how I feel about this dress.
00:00:42.460 I don't know.
00:00:47.980 I think it's a no.
00:00:49.180 I don't think I can do this.
00:00:50.860 See, it's cute on the top and then it gets to the bottom and I'm like, okay, maybe, maybe.
00:00:57.320 But then like, look what's happening here.
00:00:59.760 And then to see it, like, I can't leave the house like this.
00:01:03.840 Okay.
00:01:04.320 So I'm going to answer her question because she asked, although I will give my opinion when
00:01:08.800 nobody asks.
00:01:09.580 So don't even think that'll stop me.
00:01:10.940 But you did ask.
00:01:11.860 So, um, no, this violates is inappropriate for a wife and a mother for three reasons. 0.71
00:01:16.980 One, see-through.
00:01:18.640 Yes.
00:01:19.200 Yes.
00:01:19.740 That thing was see-through.
00:01:20.980 I think she did a selfie that I approved and I'm a little embarrassed I approved it because
00:01:24.600 I missed that it was see-through.
00:01:25.900 Two, way too short.
00:01:27.600 I mean, like, look at that.
00:01:30.600 Look at, look at, that's like, like, I mean, your vagina's like falling out. 1.00
00:01:34.980 So why would I, why would you get that and I deem?
00:01:36.980 And three, we're deeming this inappropriate because why, why would, okay, if you think
00:01:42.260 it's inappropriate, why would I be proud of you if you still posted it on the internet?
00:01:46.960 Like, doesn't that refute the whole, whole point?
00:01:50.600 And I wanted to talk about this.
00:01:51.940 So I know Nina and I think I've, I've seen, um, videos of Sean Strickland talking about this.
00:01:58.780 And I just, I want to say this, not in his attack on Nina, but as a lesson that women
00:02:04.120 can take, you know, Nina has a boyfriend. 1.00
00:02:06.960 I think her boyfriend like does, like he carries the camera for all of her interviews and stuff.
00:02:12.560 Um, it doesn't matter if you're not promiscuous in real life and you're not a promiscuous woman.
00:02:17.500 If you dress like you are promiscuous, men will just assume, they will just assume you 0.75
00:02:22.780 are a 304-4.
00:02:24.880 Now you might not be.
00:02:26.320 You might never have had a one night stand.
00:02:29.800 You might have only had sex and committed relationships.
00:02:32.380 You might damn well be a virgin, but none of that matters.
00:02:35.540 If you present illusions that you are not, or you present yourself to the world that you
00:02:41.180 are not the same way that if I saw someone dressed like a cop, I would run up and say,
00:02:47.880 officer, help me. 0.88
00:02:48.820 If there was a crime, if you dress like a 304, you look like a 304, don't be surprised 1.00
00:02:54.260 if people treat you like that.
00:02:56.260 You know, women oftentimes want to act promiscuous or dress promiscuous, but don't want the label 1.00
00:03:03.240 that comes with it.
00:03:04.540 Ladies, we can't have it all. 1.00
00:03:06.560 You know, so many times we've been told that you can dress like this and not have it be
00:03:11.540 assumed that you are like that.
00:03:13.320 You can't have half naked pictures on the internet and then have people assume that you are not
00:03:18.480 slutty.
00:03:19.040 Again, I just think we need to look at this as a lesson.
00:03:22.680 So the comments say, so again, I deem this very inappropriate, too short.
00:03:28.520 Try again.
00:03:29.480 Yeah.
00:03:29.700 Try again, ladies. 1.00
00:03:31.120 Thank you, Pearl.
00:03:31.940 I didn't leave the house.
00:03:33.240 Wore something out.
00:03:34.340 Appreciate your service and contribution towards female etiquette.
00:03:38.160 Nina, Nina, Nina, Nina.
00:03:39.660 Again, I like Nina. 0.95
00:03:40.500 This is not an attack on Nina.
00:03:41.800 But I want to show you guys the lesson here.
00:03:44.440 If you still post it on the internet, you're actually showing it to more people than leaving
00:03:49.480 your house.
00:03:49.980 Like, I would actually say that it's less slutty to wear that out because maybe, what,
00:03:55.600 100 people will see you at most?
00:03:58.040 Where if you put it on the internet, I mean, how many views did that get?
00:04:01.760 100,000?
00:04:03.620 You know what I mean?
00:04:04.440 And then I tweeted.
00:04:05.200 It's like, this goes out even further.
00:04:07.440 Again, beautiful girl.
00:04:08.900 Beautiful girl.
00:04:09.500 But these are the messages that you're sending out.
00:04:11.740 Most men can't put two and two together and realize which women are not future wife material.
00:04:18.920 No, I mean, the men with options, they will absolutely eliminate you by having a special
00:04:24.780 digital footprint of being a hoe. 1.00
00:04:27.620 Yeah, men with options will.
00:04:29.320 They absolutely will.
00:04:30.500 Especially the men that women want because the men that women want are selective. 0.96
00:04:34.340 Women hate men that are not selective. 1.00
00:04:37.220 It is like the biggest ick.
00:04:38.420 Like, okay, guys, if women, if we find out that you dated, and I'll tell you this as
00:04:44.980 a chick, if we find out that your ex-girlfriend, a girl, not a girl you hooked up with, but 0.96
00:04:49.280 a girl that you took seriously, was a single mother, was fat, was not that good looking, 1.00
00:04:55.480 was a whore, it makes us rate you less. 1.00
00:04:58.340 It just does.
00:04:59.360 It gives, it's like an ick.
00:05:00.840 It's totally an ick.
00:05:01.780 It's like, okay.
00:05:02.460 That's a chick. 1.00
00:05:03.120 It's like a chick.
00:05:04.680 Like, what you mean.
00:05:05.280 It might have been a little while.
00:05:06.540 It's like a chick.
00:05:06.840 It's like, we have to do it.
00:05:08.300 But it doesn't work.
00:05:10.080 You know, it's like a chick.