JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023


Only Fans Manager Red Pills Modern Women


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Length

9 minutes

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228.20375

Word count

2,258

Sentence count

230

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

27

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about why women don t want to date an average guy and why it's better to date someone above average. We also talk about how to build yourself up as a man and how long it takes for a man to build himself up.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 For a man, it takes long to build himself up.
00:00:01.940 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:02.400 Exactly.
00:00:03.120 It takes a long time.
00:00:04.540 You can't just get to somewhere overnight.
00:00:05.980 Like you said, you're showing action.
00:00:07.420 You're showing action.
00:00:08.380 It's going to take him a long time.
00:00:09.300 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:09.700 Yeah, like showing action, like little steps.
00:00:11.560 Little steps, that's what I'm talking about.
00:00:12.780 I'm not talking like, oh.
00:00:13.680 Are you willing to wait for at least five years?
00:00:15.640 Exactly.
00:00:16.260 Seven years, eight years?
00:00:17.300 No, I wouldn't say five years.
00:00:18.580 You get done now or never.
00:00:19.620 You want to get done now.
00:00:20.320 It doesn't happen that way.
00:00:21.340 It's harder for a guy.
00:00:22.040 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:22.880 Like he has to build himself up, get respect.
00:00:25.380 Listen.
00:00:25.620 Be known, become known, be respected, get the money, get more money, get even more money
00:00:30.320 where you can look after a family.
00:00:31.860 That takes a long time.
00:00:32.780 I can't lie.
00:00:33.320 Birkin.
00:00:33.660 People think it's a get-rich quick scheme.
00:00:38.060 Listen, bro.
00:00:38.880 People think it's a get-rich quick scheme.
00:00:41.040 It's not.
00:00:41.640 For a man, it's hard.
00:00:42.760 And you've got to understand how hard it is for a man.
00:00:45.180 Well, you can say about Andrew Tate, isn't it?
00:00:47.240 Like he was nothing at 24 years old.
00:00:49.380 Exactly.
00:00:49.620 And now looking at him.
00:00:50.540 All the women want him now. 1.00
00:00:51.600 How many years did I take?
00:00:53.360 I think at least what, how many years?
00:00:54.480 Five, six, seven years.
00:00:55.620 Six years.
00:00:56.140 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:57.260 So building yourself up as a man takes years. 1.00
00:01:00.080 Like I don't care if you're like fucking 19 and you work in some bullshit McDonald's. 1.00
00:01:04.920 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:05.140 I would, I would tell you not to get to find the girl.
00:01:07.300 Because when you find the girl and you work in McDonald's, then everyone in McDonald's
00:01:11.040 is a threat to you. 0.86
00:01:12.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:12.840 Like let's say that your girl's going through the drive-thru and there's McDonald's workers
00:01:15.720 there.
00:01:16.280 They're all a threat, bruv. 0.84
00:01:17.740 They're a threat.
00:01:18.400 He's yours.
00:01:19.500 Why are they a threat?
00:01:20.300 You have to risk.
00:01:21.060 Because if you would date the McDonald's worker, then you would date another McDonald's worker.
00:01:25.040 So it's like if you're, if you're a top like 10% or 5% guy, the odds of him, her replacing
00:01:31.180 you is like, what is she going to do?
00:01:33.340 But that's the problem with like sleeping up.
00:01:35.960 You know what I mean?
00:01:36.420 Because if you're a five or six or seven and you sleep with an eight, nine or 10, now you
00:01:40.180 think you're on that level.
00:01:41.380 And any guy that you date after is going to not feel like enough.
00:01:44.980 This is why so many women won't date average men, even though they're average women.
00:01:48.480 Like you don't see, like there's a, there's a stream where they asked them, would you date
00:01:51.860 a bus driver?
00:01:53.040 This is a woman with a kid. 1.00
00:01:54.400 And she said, no, but this girl had a child.
00:01:56.460 So she's below average in the fact that she has a kid. 0.99
00:01:59.220 Because when you come into a kid with a relationship, you're immediately below average when it comes
00:02:02.840 to women.
00:02:03.160 It gets difficult from there.
00:02:04.540 Yeah.
00:02:04.780 Yeah.
00:02:04.940 Because now he has to, he has to deal with your kid and she wouldn't date the average 0.88
00:02:08.140 guy.
00:02:08.780 And you could say, you know, we don't blame them, but like, we don't live in la la land.
00:02:12.420 Someone's got to date average men.
00:02:14.220 You know what I mean?
00:02:14.620 Like not every girl can. 0.99
00:02:15.860 I think the reality of the world is, the reality of the world is, yeah, you're either a broke
00:02:21.900 guy and no one, no girl wants you. 0.99
00:02:23.840 Because let's be real.
00:02:24.580 No one wants a broke guy.
00:02:25.700 No matter what he says, no matter what he says to you, the poems, the letters, anything doesn't
00:02:30.000 matter, bro.
00:02:30.440 You're broke.
00:02:31.240 Nothing matters. 1.00
00:02:31.840 But same as if you're an ugly girl, no offense, like no offense to women, if you're an ugly 1.00
00:02:37.040 girl, then you don't matter either. 1.00
00:02:39.460 Especially if you're fat, that's the worst, bro. 0.99
00:02:41.020 No one cares about you. 0.99
00:02:41.420 I'm not even fat phobic. 0.98
00:02:42.540 I'm just saying, let's be real, yeah, in the average world, if you're fat and you're 0.99
00:02:47.620 ugly, no one cares about you. 0.97
00:02:49.180 Especially, same thing as if you're broke and you're a guy and no one cares about you. 0.99
00:02:53.560 It doesn't matter about your looks. 0.98
00:02:54.640 But if a girl's ugly. 1.00
00:02:55.360 You've got to go and earn that respect. 0.66
00:02:56.660 Exactly, exactly.
00:02:57.800 And that's just harsh, harsh truth of reality.
00:02:59.860 You have to get used to it.
00:03:00.640 So he spoke about creating your value and how much more it's difficult for men.
00:03:05.300 You've got to understand.
00:03:06.340 Birkin, you have Twitter, you said, right?
00:03:08.280 Yeah.
00:03:08.640 How many followers do you have?
00:03:10.140 9.7K.
00:03:11.600 How long did it take you to get that?
00:03:13.500 About six months.
00:03:14.440 Six months.
00:03:15.040 All right.
00:03:15.760 Six months.
00:03:16.260 That's still solid, bro.
00:03:18.220 No, it's just solid.
00:03:19.580 Yeah, bro.
00:03:20.040 But, all right.
00:03:20.760 So for all you beautiful women here on this panel, you've got to understand that you guys
00:03:24.640 don't have to present anything outside of that to gain 10 times that.
00:03:28.660 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:29.260 You can post nothing but booty pics, bikini pics, living your life on vacation, and you're going
00:03:35.560 to have 100,000, a million followers, and you don't present any personality.
00:03:40.200 It's just how we live.
00:03:41.000 There's got hundreds of thousands of guys liking and commenting on your photo for nothing
00:03:44.960 but your beauty.
00:03:45.840 You have, you look at these IG models, they offer nothing but looks.
00:03:50.080 You listen to the IG, hold on, hold on.
00:03:52.560 They listen to their lives, and they don't say anything.
00:03:56.780 We just sit there and chill.
00:03:57.620 Hold on.
00:03:58.260 Hold on.
00:03:58.640 Let me chill.
00:03:59.620 There's no personality given.
00:04:01.580 There's no interest given.
00:04:02.900 It's just them on camera talking in a half-top, two-piece.
00:04:06.700 There's nothing outside of beauty that these IG models present.
00:04:10.180 So the fact that you can get on camera and just be without actually showing any value
00:04:16.880 and gaining a million followers is what Burton's talking about.
00:04:20.380 When you have to grind, for me to get 100,000 followers, I would have to grind.
00:04:25.480 I would have to present value.
00:04:27.000 Women and men around the world would have to connect with the message that I'm saying.
00:04:30.920 It's completely hard.
00:04:32.920 I don't want to do that.
00:04:35.520 It's completely hard.
00:04:36.800 You post a booty pic right now, you will get tons of likes.
00:04:40.780 No, no, no.
00:04:41.640 I can post a video saying the most empowering thing in the world.
00:04:45.760 I won't be valued as a woman.
00:04:46.580 It's not even like that.
00:04:47.160 You will be valued by men, not by all men.
00:04:49.600 I actually agree with you.
00:04:51.020 Thank you.
00:04:51.500 They've done studies on this where it's like they have a pretty girl saying the same thing
00:04:56.980 as a guy, and it's like the girl always gets more views.
00:05:00.020 Exactly.
00:05:01.080 Of course.
00:05:01.840 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:02.400 That's in human nature, but it depends on who you are as a guy.
00:05:04.800 No, but what I'm saying is the fact that it's easier to you.
00:05:09.900 Yeah, but you're commenting on my point, so what I'm saying is that men are easy.
00:05:14.220 Just give him a second.
00:05:15.200 Let him go.
00:05:15.880 Let him go.
00:05:16.440 Let him go.
00:05:16.860 Just go for a second.
00:05:17.620 Do I talk with you, bro?
00:05:18.460 No, but it was my point that you were commenting on.
00:05:20.540 Do I talk with you?
00:05:22.040 Yes or no?
00:05:23.000 Go ahead.
00:05:24.020 Go ahead.
00:05:24.840 Go ahead.
00:05:25.080 He made me forget what I was talking about, but anyway.
00:05:27.500 Okay.
00:05:27.980 Cool.
00:05:28.280 It's harder for a little cool.
00:05:30.260 A lot of girls are out there on the market right now, yeah? 1.00
00:05:32.080 On TikTok, Instagram, so it's even harder for girls, and it's even harder for guys.
00:05:36.420 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:36.920 It depends on who you are.
00:05:38.520 Let's say like any guy can go on TikTok.
00:05:40.440 Who are they going to watch the most?
00:05:41.980 Who do you think they're going to watch the most?
00:05:43.260 The woman.
00:05:43.760 The most?
00:05:44.200 No, bro.
00:05:44.780 I'm talking about guys.
00:05:45.780 Who are they going to watch the most? 0.99
00:05:46.820 The guy that has the cars, that has the fucking women, that has the cash, that has the respect. 0.99
00:05:51.900 Who are you going to watch? 1.00
00:05:52.900 The girls that have the most beauty. 0.82
00:05:55.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:55.420 So it's getting harder and harder.
00:05:56.740 There's too many guys on TikTok, social media.
00:05:59.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:59.900 It's getting harder for the average fat guy that's broke to get famous.
00:06:03.680 Do you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:06:04.500 Unless you're fucking Nivocado, whatever his name, Avocado or whatever. 1.00
00:06:08.300 No one respects my man. 1.00
00:06:10.720 Nivocado, Avocado.
00:06:12.320 I don't even know what it is.
00:06:14.140 I'm confused what you're arguing.
00:06:15.220 I think I know who you're talking about.
00:06:16.540 I'm confused what you're arguing.
00:06:17.940 Do you think it's equally as hard to get big on social media, man versus woman?
00:06:21.560 No, it's obviously harder for guys to get big.
00:06:23.280 Okay.
00:06:23.380 Okay, so we agree.
00:06:24.700 But in overall, speaking of ruling, guys, you need to be a specific type of man to get
00:06:30.620 big on social media.
00:06:31.580 Right.
00:06:31.960 And for a girl, you need to be a specific type of beautiful to get big on social media. 1.00
00:06:34.660 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:06:35.440 But I do think that...
00:06:36.540 Really?
00:06:36.760 It's not overruled.
00:06:37.360 I don't think so.
00:06:37.940 There's nerds and dudes that are just outcasts and socially awkward dudes that they thrive
00:06:43.560 in their lane.
00:06:44.140 Okay, they're respected.
00:06:45.860 By who?
00:06:46.140 From people in their lane.
00:06:47.200 Yeah, by nerds.
00:06:48.280 But it's by certain people though, not by...
00:06:50.740 Exactly.
00:06:51.460 But you talking about the masses? 0.99
00:06:52.300 Like, fucking, like, let me tell you something. 0.99
00:06:54.780 Like, feminists, no offense, feminists, trans girls are, like, looked up to by trans girls 1.00
00:07:01.600 and feminists. 0.95
00:07:02.260 Easy, yeah.
00:07:02.860 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:03.820 So there's a market for everything.
00:07:04.880 But the biggest guys are always the ones with power, respect, money.
00:07:09.340 Oh, 100%.
00:07:10.060 That's your point?
00:07:11.360 And the biggest girls in the world that are most respected are the ones with beauty, looks, 1.00
00:07:17.860 and that's it.
00:07:18.520 But also, if that's your point, I agree 100%.
00:07:21.120 There's a lot of women out there that have huge personalities and have the looks and everything 1.00
00:07:25.400 as well.
00:07:25.840 It's not just about looks.
00:07:27.020 Yeah, of course, I agree what you're saying.
00:07:28.460 But a lot of girls do still have that power and that personality as well as their looks. 1.00
00:07:34.760 Yeah.
00:07:35.220 But they don't show that on social media, 99%.
00:07:37.120 They don't have to, no.
00:07:38.520 They don't.
00:07:39.440 And that's a privilege, right?
00:07:41.060 It is great.
00:07:43.780 Sorry.
00:07:44.420 I'll let you.
00:07:45.220 I'll let you.
00:07:45.520 No, I was just going to say it is good because for me personally, I'll just post a picture
00:07:50.120 and get loads of, loads of likes.
00:07:52.120 I don't have to use my personality, but I could.
00:07:55.040 I feel like you're doing your captions, though.
00:07:57.460 I feel like you're definitely doing your captions.
00:07:59.360 Nobody's reading the captions.
00:08:00.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:01.380 True.
00:08:01.900 Nobody's reading the captions.
00:08:02.620 True.
00:08:02.780 What percent of your followers are men versus women?
00:08:05.560 I think mine's 90% men.
00:08:07.800 Yeah.
00:08:08.380 It is a high percentage.
00:08:10.580 I'm curious, like going back to the virginity thing, if you guys could go back in time,
00:08:16.240 would you wait until you were married to have sex? 1.00
00:08:18.360 Yes. 0.93
00:08:19.040 Yeah, you would?
00:08:19.980 100%.
00:08:20.420 Yes, Courtney, Bob.
00:08:22.480 Yes, Bob.
00:08:23.080 I would too.
00:08:24.040 I would.
00:08:24.680 Yeah, 100%.
00:08:25.420 Do you know what?
00:08:28.480 I don't know because I feel like every relationship that I've been in, I've learned something from.
00:08:34.240 So it's like if I said I'd go back and change it and not do it, then I wouldn't learn.
00:08:38.840 And I wouldn't have learned the things that I would have moving forward.
00:08:41.940 So I don't know.
00:08:43.200 It's almost like saying I'm just going to eliminate experiences that I've had.
00:08:46.760 Yeah, but if they ended badly, like what value does like sexual experience bring to you now?
00:08:54.000 Like what, you know, if you're going to, let's say you meet your husband tomorrow and you're going into a marriage and you could have just slept with him.
00:08:59.240 Yeah.
00:08:59.540 Or slept with him and all these other guys.
00:09:01.660 Like, don't you think it would be better to just sleep with him?
00:09:03.920 I understand what you're saying because obviously when you get married, the love that you have for that person and other people that you've been in a relationship is definitely different because you're married and you're going to build a life with them.
00:09:12.560 So I think when I get to that, I'll probably be like, oh, do you know what?
00:09:15.600 I wish I would have waited.
00:09:16.640 But now I haven't, I'm not trying to settle down.
00:09:20.180 I'm not in that time of my life.
00:09:21.800 So my perspective is going to be different.
00:09:23.780 What age would you like to settle down?
00:09:25.580 If I'm completely honest, it's all about when my career is, is if when I'm happy with where I am in my life, if that makes sense, because I wouldn't want to settle down, not having achieved everything that I want to achieve on myself, because I'm kind of quite selfish in that I want to be very successful, do a lot, have tons of businesses.
00:09:41.620 So I think say if I blew up and I had all this success by the time I was 27, then cool, I'll look for when I'm 27.
00:09:49.960 But it depends on where I am financially and stuff like that.