JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023


Only Fans Model REGRETS Her Decision


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12 minutes

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2,492

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207

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28

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In this episode, we discuss the morality of sex work. Do you think sex work is immoral? What does it mean to be a sex worker? Is it wrong to do so? What are your thoughts on sex work?

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00:00:00.000 Do you guys think that sex work is immoral?
00:00:03.480 Yeah.
00:00:04.340 Can I comment on that, actually?
00:00:05.800 Go ahead.
00:00:06.280 So I done an OnlyFans, but it wasn't like vagina, boobs. 1.00
00:00:10.740 It was lingerie, yeah, boobs are whatever.
00:00:13.380 I done it, and when I finished it, I felt very degraded.
00:00:16.100 I felt very like, why did I actually do that?
00:00:18.200 Now, I know there's girls out there who do that. 1.00
00:00:19.780 They don't feel that way.
00:00:20.540 That is perfectly fine.
00:00:21.460 You do you.
00:00:22.380 You feel the way you feel.
00:00:23.700 But me personally, like in the future, like when I have kids and all in the future, and
00:00:28.100 if my kids found out about that, they'll probably get bullied in school.
00:00:30.920 People will be like, oh, your mom done this, your mom done that, and your man as well.
00:00:34.260 He's not going to, if you don't respect yourself and you're selling your body online, I can't
00:00:38.460 speak for everyone, I can just speak for myself.
00:00:40.080 If you're selling your body online like that, there's not a high respect for yourself.
00:00:44.300 Why expect that from others then?
00:00:45.940 You know what I mean?
00:00:46.600 And it's like, if you're doing that sex work, it's so different for you.
00:00:50.420 How much money did you make?
00:00:52.240 So I basically done it like consecutively for like a week.
00:00:56.220 Like literally, I posted for a full week.
00:00:57.620 Yeah, first week.
00:00:58.140 In total, first week, I made about 2,000.
00:01:01.620 That was from people being nosy and from people.
00:01:04.780 So you made two reds in the first week.
00:01:05.720 In the first week, in one week.
00:01:07.440 And you felt this shit.
00:01:09.340 If you've seen the stuff that people would ask you, and even outside of it, even to this
00:01:13.520 day, I don't do it anymore.
00:01:14.920 But people still being like to me, oh, well, you used to have OnlyFans.
00:01:17.500 Like, what was that?
00:01:18.080 Like, you must be real freaky.
00:01:20.080 No.
00:01:20.780 Why are you going for what they're talking about?
00:01:22.980 It's because I wasn't posting this whole vagina. 1.00
00:01:25.160 I wasn't doing the whole thing.
00:01:26.420 You know what I mean?
00:01:26.940 So you won.
00:01:28.240 You ain't show no none.
00:01:29.740 No, I showed the titties.
00:01:31.840 I showed the titties.
00:01:32.620 But I didn't show nothing else.
00:01:34.260 You know what I mean?
00:01:34.720 And it was kind of to a point where it's like, I thought I could do that when I got onto it.
00:01:39.420 Do you think?
00:01:39.680 She won money, but she didn't win respect.
00:01:41.800 I didn't win respect.
00:01:42.440 Do you think that you should be judged for doing sex work?
00:01:46.020 To an extent.
00:01:47.000 I don't care what anybody says.
00:01:48.500 In my opinion, it does speak a lot about yourself.
00:01:52.500 It does.
00:01:53.060 It's 100%.
00:01:53.860 Even for me.
00:01:54.460 Like, when I done it, people knew the type of girl I was.
00:01:56.240 Like, I'm very out there.
00:01:57.040 I'm open.
00:01:57.560 I don't care.
00:01:58.060 I'll speak what I speak and say what I say and do what I do.
00:02:01.080 But when I done it, I just didn't expect the big, like, whoa.
00:02:04.620 I feel very immoralized.
00:02:05.640 What did you expect?
00:02:07.200 I don't know what I expected.
00:02:08.140 What were you thinking before you did it?
00:02:10.180 Before I did it, I was like, get the bag.
00:02:12.320 Get the money.
00:02:12.900 Just get the money.
00:02:13.600 See all these girls.
00:02:14.020 And was there someone that influenced you to do it?
00:02:15.900 Oh, yeah.
00:02:16.300 I see all these girls doing it and getting the money. 1.00
00:02:18.260 But the one thing I did on Instagram, TikTok, some girls I know.
00:02:21.460 And I'm like, girl, get it.
00:02:22.680 If that's what you want to do, that is perfectly fine.
00:02:24.700 Like, do you.
00:02:25.960 Me, personally, I couldn't do it like that.
00:02:27.900 Do you understand if a guy would disqualify you in the future for that?
00:02:31.480 That was the first thing I said.
00:02:32.680 I can understand how a man would look at me if I did this.
00:02:35.440 And why do you think that you accept that?
00:02:37.200 Where other girls will call the man misogynistic?
00:02:40.160 Feelings.
00:02:40.620 They're not using their logic.
00:02:41.560 They're like, how dare you speak about me like that?
00:02:43.600 And it's like, you're taking it so personal.
00:02:45.460 I was like, you obviously must feel a specific way about yourself.
00:02:47.940 If that's how you're speaking about a man being misogynistic,
00:02:50.740 because he won't take you up for that.
00:02:53.140 That's about your own respect levels.
00:02:54.620 And that's just your own opinion.
00:02:56.240 Do you guys think that sex work is immoral?
00:03:01.520 Speaking to your mic.
00:03:03.060 To an extent, yes.
00:03:04.780 A lot of points that you mentioned, I'd agree with.
00:03:09.760 I feel like it comes off very desperate.
00:03:15.240 And I just generally feel like doing them sort of things don't make you seem like a very good person.
00:03:27.680 In the way of, it's not your fault.
00:03:32.420 Like, I'm not blaming you for it.
00:03:34.260 How is it not your fault?
00:03:35.940 Whose fault is it?
00:03:37.000 I think, genuinely, I feel like, obviously, I'm not going to put the blame on everyone else.
00:03:43.400 I feel, I believe everyone should take accountability for their actions and whatnot.
00:03:46.600 But I feel like upbringing and the, like, financial state you're in can influence you a lot with them sort of things.
00:03:56.120 But you can look at someone that's born in the same upbringing and they don't make those decisions.
00:03:59.640 Yeah, no, 100%.
00:04:01.280 100%.
00:04:02.100 I feel like they, even just being born in this century, you're richer than most people were in all of human history.
00:04:11.680 That is true.
00:04:12.140 I agree with that.
00:04:12.880 I just feel like because, again, going on back onto the part of the society that we're in now, obviously, back in the day, it was prostitution.
00:04:20.660 That was looked down upon more.
00:04:21.900 Now, OnlyFans is being favoured, especially by, like, men and whatnot.
00:04:26.100 Like, men that start OnlyFans, they get favoured.
00:04:29.640 They're like, oh, right, he's doing his thing, like, he's fucking different bitches every night type vibe. 1.00
00:04:35.720 It's like it gets favoured and it's normalised to the point where...
00:04:38.300 It's favoured.
00:04:38.820 You think men make more money on OnlyFans than women? 1.00
00:04:41.180 I don't know the statistics, so I won't speak on that.
00:04:44.360 But, obviously, I know, I personally know men that are on OnlyFans and they do make money.
00:04:50.180 Like, what's make money?
00:04:51.600 As in, like, they make a substantial amount, probably like 30k a month.
00:04:56.560 So, like, it is a thing.
00:05:00.180 Obviously, it's not as normal as women doing it, but it is a thing. 0.99
00:05:03.780 It's crazy how men were the ones that kind of, that kind of run the porn society and it's the women that are falling into it.
00:05:09.340 Oh, sorry, the porn society, my apologies.
00:05:11.600 How they run the porn societies, but obviously women being consumers as it is, we're going to be the ones to jump into it more, you know what I mean? 0.99
00:05:17.420 Compared to men, 100%. 0.85
00:05:18.500 Yeah.
00:05:18.520 Okay, so what do you think?
00:05:21.200 Is sex work immoral?
00:05:23.360 Yes, I absolutely think so.
00:05:25.300 For any sex, it doesn't even matter, male or female, we weren't made to do that, right?
00:05:31.660 Like, even just the fact that we have to wear clothes and layers is to protect, right?
00:05:36.480 So, even before you put on your regular clothes, you have on undergarments, right?
00:05:39.920 And so, that in and of itself just shows the default nature of how that's supposed to be more sacred.
00:05:44.800 It's supposed to be more private, more secure, right?
00:05:46.840 We even refer to it as private parts, private areas.
00:05:49.740 So, absolutely, it's immoral to just be flaunting that and giving it to anyone.
00:05:54.540 Period.
00:05:55.080 What about you?
00:05:56.300 So, for myself, I would say it would be immoral for me, but I don't know.
00:06:00.800 Is morality different for different people?
00:06:05.680 Like, if I steal and you steal, it's different?
00:06:07.620 In general, no, but I think some people will kind of rationalize what they're doing and then say that they have their reasons for it.
00:06:13.780 And then I'm not, I don't know their life, so I don't know what their reasons would be.
00:06:17.740 If I steal because I'm hungry, does that make it different?
00:06:23.160 It's not okay, but people are going to do what they're going to do.
00:06:26.580 So, if they do it.
00:06:27.740 No, but I'm asking if you think it's moral.
00:06:29.440 No, not for me.
00:06:30.800 I wouldn't.
00:06:31.360 No, but for everyone, do you think it's moral?
00:06:33.680 No.
00:06:34.820 No.
00:06:35.300 Okay.
00:06:35.540 Okay.
00:06:36.160 Okay.
00:06:36.520 Thank you.
00:06:37.260 All right, go ahead.
00:06:38.260 Hell no.
00:06:40.080 And I think, like, now, you know, I also think as I get older, like, if I had a daughter, what would my answer be?
00:06:46.580 Right?
00:06:46.960 Like, I think it's, you know, just think about that.
00:06:49.040 But also, too, like, I think the word, the terminology, sex work, it's a really, like, large term.
00:06:54.500 There's a lot of things that could be encompassed within that.
00:06:56.200 But I also think sex work, you know, could be, you know, a lot of these Hollywood stars that, you know, show up half naked to the red carpet.
00:07:03.740 Right?
00:07:04.060 Like, I was looking at the Oscars and Ciara just showed up to the Oscars, like, literally half naked. 0.99
00:07:10.280 And she has two or three kids and is married to a multi-multi-millionaire, Russell Wilson.
00:07:16.820 That, to me, is a component of sex work as well because she's taking degrees of her sexuality, putting it somewhere, and going to get brand deals because of it. 1.00
00:07:26.240 Right?
00:07:26.500 Like, and everything that comes from it.
00:07:28.080 Right?
00:07:28.360 So, like, I even think when we talk about sex work, the definition has to be expanded for modern times today.
00:07:33.600 Because although she's not doing that and getting direct money, or maybe that she is from the outfit that she's wearing, she could be. 1.00
00:07:39.300 Right?
00:07:39.820 But then also, what comes of that?
00:07:42.920 Right?
00:07:43.720 And if there's an exchange of money, then that's sex work as well. 0.62
00:07:51.860 I don't know, man.
00:07:52.980 I don't know.
00:07:53.840 My thoughts on it different than everybody else.
00:07:56.640 I don't really see nothing wrong with it because, like, sex work has been going on since the beginning of the time.
00:08:05.020 It's never going to stop.
00:08:06.100 Have you ever had a prostate?
00:08:06.860 I don't do that.
00:08:11.320 But I'm just saying, it's going to happen.
00:08:14.140 Like, women are going to get money. 1.00
00:08:16.140 They're going to use what they got to get money.
00:08:18.460 Men are going to do the same thing. 1.00
00:08:20.100 See, I'm, like, torn on it because, on one hand, I sometimes agree with you.
00:08:26.140 Like, I sometimes think it's needed in a society because what are the one in three men going to do?
00:08:33.100 And if you think sex is a need, which it sort of is for men, but then it just makes my stomach turn to say that, too.
00:08:42.300 So, that's why I'm kind of torn.
00:08:44.320 I don't know.
00:08:44.760 Let me ask you something.
00:08:47.040 Who you think has sex most?
00:08:50.220 A regular girl or somebody who do OnlyFans? 0.99
00:08:54.500 Like, who got one person who they sleep with an OnlyFans, they do OnlyFans.
00:08:59.180 Who you think?
00:08:59.840 Regular girl. 0.99
00:09:00.420 I would agree.
00:09:01.200 I would agree.
00:09:01.340 Who you think has sex most or a stripper versus just a regular girl? 1.00
00:09:06.760 Regular girl. 0.99
00:09:07.960 No, I think it's the – I think girls that do promiscuous behavior tend to make more promiscuous choices. 1.00
00:09:16.140 Like, I think if someone does that, they're probably more likely to sleep around.
00:09:19.900 That's my opinion.
00:09:20.700 I know some people will say no, but –
00:09:22.740 I would be able to differ.
00:09:24.060 I would really be able to differ.
00:09:26.400 Can I just say, I'm with you.
00:09:28.460 I don't know why I'm always with you, but I'm with you.
00:09:30.700 Like, if you ever been close with a stripper or kind of see what they do, like their schedule
00:09:39.480 and how they work, they ain't really – they going to the club, doing their thing.
00:09:45.080 They come home, count up their money, get up in the morning, go to the bank, deposit them
00:09:49.820 ones.
00:09:50.540 They ain't really out here just messing around like that.
00:09:53.200 But it might be another girl who's going to the strip club, just throwing ones on them, 1.00
00:09:58.640 but they fucking at night. 0.93
00:09:59.780 I think a lot of girls in the strip club are desensitized to it, right? 1.00
00:10:03.520 So that they're – when you are stripping for a man and doing that, you have to sell 0.99
00:10:08.540 a fantasy to him, right?
00:10:09.780 You have to get into this persona and give him the dream for the night so he will give
00:10:14.640 you the money, right?
00:10:15.840 And so once you come off of that and you're home and you're with your family or whatever,
00:10:20.520 usually they have kids that they're taking care of and they're doing stuff for.
00:10:24.340 They're exhausted.
00:10:25.200 They're tired because I just had to go and pretend to be someone that I wasn't.
00:10:28.840 And I don't even want – I'm disgusted by men to a certain degree, right?
00:10:32.180 Because I know how creepy they are.
00:10:33.660 They come here and they're their most vulnerable and nasty and all the stuff that everyone else
00:10:37.260 is going to look at you crazy for.
00:10:38.840 I have to take it because you're paying me to take it.
00:10:41.560 So I think they're desensitized to it, honestly.
00:10:43.420 I can see your point.
00:10:44.360 And then on the other end, it's a girl, I'm not going to say her name, but she's super 0.97
00:10:50.280 big on OnlyFans.
00:10:52.020 She's getting like $200,000 a month on OnlyFans. 0.92
00:10:56.200 She only sleeps with one dude on OnlyFans. 1.00
00:10:59.560 Yeah, there's girls like that as well. 1.00
00:11:01.120 Think about it.
00:11:01.560 She's getting money. 1.00
00:11:02.360 You don't get more money than her. 1.00
00:11:04.940 And she already got a dude who pleases her sexually. 0.99
00:11:09.120 So you're not going to even be able to go mess with her.
00:11:12.620 Yeah, but the question is based on morality.
00:11:15.360 Morality is grounded in principles.
00:11:17.860 So then, would you be okay if your daughter...
00:11:20.520 But what is morality?
00:11:21.640 What are the things that we do on the everyday for money?
00:11:25.140 But let's say that you had a daughter.
00:11:26.700 As a father, you pass on virtues.
00:11:28.700 You pass on values.
00:11:29.900 You pass on principles.
00:11:30.980 You pass on morality.
00:11:32.280 And if your daughter is doing that, is that something that you would allow...
00:11:36.720 I'm not going to agree with my daughter doing it.
00:11:38.120 So then the answer to the question for you is no.
00:11:40.160 You think it's a moral.
00:11:40.920 I'm not going to...
00:11:42.640 I wouldn't agree with my daughter or my CEO doing a lot of shit I do.
00:11:46.020 But I'm wrong.
00:11:47.300 I'm going to do it.
00:11:48.040 You can't always control what you'll do.
00:11:50.020 You can't control what your little babies do. 0.99
00:11:51.700 You got to just lead them in the right way and hope that they grow up and do the things that you'll be pleased with.
00:11:56.940 But you still got to know.
00:11:58.160 It was just banned on TikTok.
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