Only Fans Model REGRETS Her Decision
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the morality of sex work. Do you think sex work is immoral? What does it mean to be a sex worker? Is it wrong to do so? What are your thoughts on sex work?
Transcript
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So I done an OnlyFans, but it wasn't like vagina, boobs.
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I done it, and when I finished it, I felt very degraded.
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Now, I know there's girls out there who do that.
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But me personally, like in the future, like when I have kids and all in the future, and
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if my kids found out about that, they'll probably get bullied in school.
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People will be like, oh, your mom done this, your mom done that, and your man as well.
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He's not going to, if you don't respect yourself and you're selling your body online, I can't
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speak for everyone, I can just speak for myself.
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If you're selling your body online like that, there's not a high respect for yourself.
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And it's like, if you're doing that sex work, it's so different for you.
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So I basically done it like consecutively for like a week.
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That was from people being nosy and from people.
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If you've seen the stuff that people would ask you, and even outside of it, even to this
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But people still being like to me, oh, well, you used to have OnlyFans.
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Why are you going for what they're talking about?
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It's because I wasn't posting this whole vagina.
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And it was kind of to a point where it's like, I thought I could do that when I got onto it.
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Do you think that you should be judged for doing sex work?
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In my opinion, it does speak a lot about yourself.
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Like, when I done it, people knew the type of girl I was.
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I'll speak what I speak and say what I say and do what I do.
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But when I done it, I just didn't expect the big, like, whoa.
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And was there someone that influenced you to do it?
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I see all these girls doing it and getting the money.
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But the one thing I did on Instagram, TikTok, some girls I know.
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If that's what you want to do, that is perfectly fine.
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Do you understand if a guy would disqualify you in the future for that?
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I can understand how a man would look at me if I did this.
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Where other girls will call the man misogynistic?
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They're like, how dare you speak about me like that?
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I was like, you obviously must feel a specific way about yourself.
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If that's how you're speaking about a man being misogynistic,
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A lot of points that you mentioned, I'd agree with.
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And I just generally feel like doing them sort of things don't make you seem like a very good person.
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I think, genuinely, I feel like, obviously, I'm not going to put the blame on everyone else.
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I feel, I believe everyone should take accountability for their actions and whatnot.
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But I feel like upbringing and the, like, financial state you're in can influence you a lot with them sort of things.
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But you can look at someone that's born in the same upbringing and they don't make those decisions.
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I feel like they, even just being born in this century, you're richer than most people were in all of human history.
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I just feel like because, again, going on back onto the part of the society that we're in now, obviously, back in the day, it was prostitution.
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Now, OnlyFans is being favoured, especially by, like, men and whatnot.
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Like, men that start OnlyFans, they get favoured.
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They're like, oh, right, he's doing his thing, like, he's fucking different bitches every night type vibe.
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It's like it gets favoured and it's normalised to the point where...
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You think men make more money on OnlyFans than women?
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I don't know the statistics, so I won't speak on that.
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But, obviously, I know, I personally know men that are on OnlyFans and they do make money.
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As in, like, they make a substantial amount, probably like 30k a month.
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Obviously, it's not as normal as women doing it, but it is a thing.
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It's crazy how men were the ones that kind of, that kind of run the porn society and it's the women that are falling into it.
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How they run the porn societies, but obviously women being consumers as it is, we're going to be the ones to jump into it more, you know what I mean?
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For any sex, it doesn't even matter, male or female, we weren't made to do that, right?
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Like, even just the fact that we have to wear clothes and layers is to protect, right?
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So, even before you put on your regular clothes, you have on undergarments, right?
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And so, that in and of itself just shows the default nature of how that's supposed to be more sacred.
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It's supposed to be more private, more secure, right?
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We even refer to it as private parts, private areas.
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So, absolutely, it's immoral to just be flaunting that and giving it to anyone.
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So, for myself, I would say it would be immoral for me, but I don't know.
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Like, if I steal and you steal, it's different?
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In general, no, but I think some people will kind of rationalize what they're doing and then say that they have their reasons for it.
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And then I'm not, I don't know their life, so I don't know what their reasons would be.
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If I steal because I'm hungry, does that make it different?
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It's not okay, but people are going to do what they're going to do.
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And I think, like, now, you know, I also think as I get older, like, if I had a daughter, what would my answer be?
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Like, I think it's, you know, just think about that.
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But also, too, like, I think the word, the terminology, sex work, it's a really, like, large term.
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There's a lot of things that could be encompassed within that.
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But I also think sex work, you know, could be, you know, a lot of these Hollywood stars that, you know, show up half naked to the red carpet.
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Like, I was looking at the Oscars and Ciara just showed up to the Oscars, like, literally half naked.
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And she has two or three kids and is married to a multi-multi-millionaire, Russell Wilson.
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That, to me, is a component of sex work as well because she's taking degrees of her sexuality, putting it somewhere, and going to get brand deals because of it.
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So, like, I even think when we talk about sex work, the definition has to be expanded for modern times today.
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Because although she's not doing that and getting direct money, or maybe that she is from the outfit that she's wearing, she could be.
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And if there's an exchange of money, then that's sex work as well.
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My thoughts on it different than everybody else.
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I don't really see nothing wrong with it because, like, sex work has been going on since the beginning of the time.
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They're going to use what they got to get money.
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See, I'm, like, torn on it because, on one hand, I sometimes agree with you.
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Like, I sometimes think it's needed in a society because what are the one in three men going to do?
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And if you think sex is a need, which it sort of is for men, but then it just makes my stomach turn to say that, too.
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Like, who got one person who they sleep with an OnlyFans, they do OnlyFans.
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Who you think has sex most or a stripper versus just a regular girl?
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No, I think it's the – I think girls that do promiscuous behavior tend to make more promiscuous choices.
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Like, I think if someone does that, they're probably more likely to sleep around.
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I don't know why I'm always with you, but I'm with you.
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Like, if you ever been close with a stripper or kind of see what they do, like their schedule
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and how they work, they ain't really – they going to the club, doing their thing.
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They come home, count up their money, get up in the morning, go to the bank, deposit them
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They ain't really out here just messing around like that.
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But it might be another girl who's going to the strip club, just throwing ones on them,
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I think a lot of girls in the strip club are desensitized to it, right?
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So that they're – when you are stripping for a man and doing that, you have to sell
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You have to get into this persona and give him the dream for the night so he will give
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And so once you come off of that and you're home and you're with your family or whatever,
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usually they have kids that they're taking care of and they're doing stuff for.
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They're tired because I just had to go and pretend to be someone that I wasn't.
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And I don't even want – I'm disgusted by men to a certain degree, right?
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They come here and they're their most vulnerable and nasty and all the stuff that everyone else
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I have to take it because you're paying me to take it.
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So I think they're desensitized to it, honestly.
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And then on the other end, it's a girl, I'm not going to say her name, but she's super
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She's getting like $200,000 a month on OnlyFans.
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And she already got a dude who pleases her sexually.
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So you're not going to even be able to go mess with her.
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What are the things that we do on the everyday for money?
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And if your daughter is doing that, is that something that you would allow...
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I'm not going to agree with my daughter doing it.
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So then the answer to the question for you is no.
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I wouldn't agree with my daughter or my CEO doing a lot of shit I do.
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You got to just lead them in the right way and hope that they grow up and do the things that you'll be pleased with.
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