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How long can a woman wait to have sex with her husband before she's considered a bad wife? Is sex a duty in marriage? Is it a contract of commitment and love? How long does a woman need to go without sex before she is considered a "bad wife"? How long should a man cheat if his wife doesn't have sex for a certain amount of time?
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How long can a girl not sleep with her husband before she's deemed a bad wife?
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No, but three months is a long time to not have sex.
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There's still some sort of exhibition amongst partners, but it's not full intercourse,
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I'd say that three months in an active relationship is probably quite a long time to go without.
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Without a valid reason, like a baby or something.
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No, he has to have a conversation, but I'm not an expert on it, so...
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You don't have to be an expert, it's just opinions.
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I can't speak from experience, so then I feel a bit funny about saying...
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Can a guy cheat if his wife won't sleep with him?
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Male or female, wife or husband, if they can't sleep with each other.
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Whether it's from physical deformity or whatever it is.
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How long can a woman not sleep with her husband until she's a bad wife?
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So she's a good wife still if she doesn't sleep with him for a year?
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She's a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with him for a year.
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Okay, so one month, three months, is she a bad wife?
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Even if you tell me, okay, I don't feel it, it's a reason.
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But if you tell me, I don't know, that's literally not a reason.
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It's a duty amongst animal instinct, but it's not an obligation.
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It's two people coming together and saying, okay, we agree to respect each other and come
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to the same vows and say, okay, if we agree to be together, then it's just going to be
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And we have to be openly honest, whether it's through positive, through negative.
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And if we don't see alike, we can figure out a way around it or away from it.
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Because not everything always goes together, blends together.
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Unfortunately not, because there are many life-like situations where individuals don't feel the
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same way they did when they were first married.
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I think if that was true, then India wouldn't have like the lowest divorce rate where it's
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I guess, no, it's not that they have no feelings.
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But then there's also have to be some feeling and consideration backed behind it.
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Because if there's a duty, okay, your duty is to go hunt and kill.
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Should a guy protect and provide when he feels like it?
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Should a guy protect and provide when he feels like it?
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Even if he feels that he knows that it's negative.
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If there's an intruder and he's scared, should he run away?
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If there's an intruder and the man runs away and there's a household full of women and children,
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male or female, under the age that cannot protect themselves,
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No, no, I'm saying he shouldn't rely on his feelings when he's scared.
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For the ladies, is a woman's emotional need important in a marriage?
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For a woman, is her emotional need important in a marriage?
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Is it important for a man to consider his woman's emotional need in a relationship and in a marriage
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So for a man, is sex important in a relationship?
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So is it important for a woman to consider a man's need in a relationship for that relationship
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So do you realize how you guys have all argued against that point?
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But we said, what is the reason that she's not giving sex, right?
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The question was, if he was allowed to cheat, there's something different.
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So do you think there can be a reason why a man would not consider a woman's emotional
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You may always ask, what is the reason why he's not considering my...
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Do they try to find out the reason why the man is not fulfilling his end of the bargain
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Because they don't maybe communicate and they don't really consider each other's...
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Does communicating typically lead to the problem being solved?
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Men, they are scared to communicate sometimes because they know the woman will do a big fuss.
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Maybe they will end with a big fighting and argument and they don't want that.
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In general, even in relationships, who do you think communicates better, men or women?
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No, because women are more open to talk at all.
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Do women typically communicate and get to the point?
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Do women typically communicate and get to the point?
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So why do we think they communicate better when we don't get to the point?
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Trying is better than nothing because some men, they don't even want to talk.
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If I try to lose weight and I don't, does it matter?
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I think women have brainwashed society into thinking we communicate better, but we communicate
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Do men not communicate in relationships or do women not like the way men communicate?
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I think generally, if you're going to be a generalization again, once again, we're doing
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the generally, women speak with emotion, right?
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This is the facts that they think rather than maybe feelings coming into it.
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But what I've learned from my marriage was from my ex-husband.
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He was saying to me, you all the times you go around the subject, he was saying to me
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that I'm going around the subject like this and he is coming.
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And we, and we as a woman, we are making the fuss and we are going around the problem.
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I think that's a generalization because I think...
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Should a man cheat if his wife will not sleep with him?
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I mean, I'm not married, never been married, but I've lived with different partners.
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And sometimes, it's painful because you get that look.
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And it's like, almost like a, first it's a no, it's bad.
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I'm like, fuck, we've been together for like, together for like years.
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How long can a woman not sleep with a man until she's a bad wife?
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They're going to be like, okay, we'll overlook the cheating.
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And then all of a sudden, it's gone for like a week.
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I don't think it will make it a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with you.
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I strongly believe that as a practical man, I should try to find why is that happening.
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But if, let's say, I'm doing everything right, yeah, I wouldn't like a way to...
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So then, why would you look to see if you're doing everything right?
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I mean, like, maybe something like is major that makes her stay away.
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Not for small things because no one's perfect, right?
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But, yeah, they definitely don't reward good behavior.
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So if she keeps not sleeping with you, how long?
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I cannot say days because maybe you don't want to have...
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It's about, like, a few attempts, let's say, because maybe I don't want to either.
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But let's say I won't, like, and there is no, like, something like women issue.
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The third time I'm going to say, listen, what's going on?
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What do you think about men's cheating if their wife doesn't sleep with them?
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And because the woman wouldn't sleep with them.
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Whose fault is it if the man cheats because the woman won't sleep with him?
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I want to say, when you marry, it gets different.
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I just feel like when it gets to marriage and you're together forever, because you're
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going to be forever, you just need to please each other with whatever the other person asks.
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That's why from the beginning you should say, okay, I don't like this.
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And it's just like, it's just simple conversation for me.
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Like, I think it's very, now it's very much like, oh.
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Is there a good reason to not sleep with your husband?
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If you would have a kid and it would be absolutely hurting you.
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Something went down there and it's been absolutely painful.
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What would be a good reason to not sleep with your husband?
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gut reaction to say like, but, but there could be reasons if you've never had, but I'm saying
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if you personally have never had a reason, like, why is your gut reaction to go, there
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Like, why wouldn't you want to sleep with your partner?
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Do you think, do you think women use sex to control men?
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But it's just interesting because you've never had a reason to not have sex yet.
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But, but you know that women can control men through sex, but your gut reaction is still
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That's maybe because I can force women to have sex as well.
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But it's not intelligent than to make this other question, you know, if you're not considering
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So, and I think, I know we were talking about what happens if a man forces a woman to have
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Do you think the justice system favors men or women?
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In this case, a man is forcing a woman physically to do.
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I'm saying, do you think the justice system, okay, okay.
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She, he cannot just have sex with her because the court will prosecute him, right?
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I don't know if this like, but similar things to this happened to my mother.
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My mom and dad, they married 34 years and they're still together just because my mom sit down